Grillz

>will looking better improve my luck with girls?

gee i dunno

that's a brain buster

>>39909934
Nope

I'm still retarded when It comes to any social situation

Yes, but...

>the feels

Oh boyo, you thought loneliness was tough? Women will either make or break you.

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It definitely changed the way women viewed me

Before being /fit/, I would rarely get pussy, and when I did it was with ugly drunk sluts.

Now I fuck sometimes even as much as 3 girls a week. Girls outright approach me in clubs.

Unless you're an autistic shut in, it'll do wonders for you

>>39910048
This. I was approached a few times when wearing tight shirts and shit.

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>>39910048
>Unless you're an autistic shut in

Welp...

yeah muscles on a guy is analogous to titties and/or ass on a girl

I'm a reclusive kv, but even I get treated differently now during the rare times I interact with them at work/school/gym. I imagine if you're normal and socialize regularly, the world is probably an oyster

That is the most reddit-teir Pepe I've ever seen. Fuck off.

>>39910472
Implying there is such thing as a good pepe

I don't know, I'm with the same gf ever since I was obese.

>>39910389
>I imagine if you're normal and socialize regularly, the world is probably an oyster

This.
Girls will overlook your nerdy habits if you put on enough muscles

Yeah

Cut down to 10% last summer took the cliche no shirt/bathroom pic for tinder and I just ask if they want sex and pizza.

1/4 say yes compared to 1/10 before the pic

>>39910708
Noice

Were they hot?

>>39910752
Decently

Most were 5-6/10s but I've got a few 8 and 9s

It still doesn't fill the hole inside me though

I've found almost all girls are whores and and that made me even more sad tbqh

Yeah. Happened to be a case of good looks hidden under fat.

I have no idea how to properly approach them though. I literally can't be emphatic with normies.

It's weird.
There is somehow less pussy now since I don't drink I avoid social gatherings
But at the same time on the rare occasion I go, a girl will always approach me and it usually ends with sex. While before I had to really work for it.

>>39910857
*emphatetic

>>39910663
I knew some guys back in uni that were prolific WoW players and anime watching, MtG playing turbonerds. nobody gave a crap because they were brolic, instead of disgust people would be like 'wow he's so cool for doing his own thing' lol

>>39909934
It helps. But you need to have a minimal social life first.

Fucked a few hoes before getting with gf. She's not the classic "model" hot, but I've been congratulated to have a hot gf, so there's that.

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Raises their expectations so they are even more disappointed by my 'tism. It's a blessing and a curse.

>>39909934

I dont fucking know. Started lifting when I was with my ex. Been with her for 5 years. Single now for a year and havent felt like being with another girl yet

>>39910831
Same here

The wide majority were 5

Had a genuine 9 though

I looked her up on Facebook a year later, turns out she's married

>>39910880
>While before I had to really work for it.

That's what changes

Guys, explain this: whenever I go out now I get alot more attention from girls because of my muscles. BUT

When Im on Tinder, uploading any pictures of myself where you can clearly see my muscles, like a pic at the gym, or in a tanktop at the beach or whatever, seems to give me less matches than normal.

Why? Is it because they automatically assume Im a douche if I wanna show off that Im proud of my achievements? Fuck I dont get girls sometimes

>>39911087
Your bios probably autistic

>>39909934
I haven't gotten laid since I traded my skinnyfat shape for muay thai. I lost over 60 pounds too, but whatever. If you don't wanna end up like me, just socialise as much as possible, I guess. I'm more of an hermit kinda guy. I go out to work or for my combat classes (haven't done that in forever because I'm all out of money), otherwise I stay home.

>>39911155
>I go out to work or for my combat classes (haven't done that in forever because I'm all out of money), otherwise I stay home

Well no shit you don't get laid

Do you expect a girl to break into your house naked?

>>39911128

No you dont understand what Im trying to say. Im trying to say that, Ive had Tinder for quite a while now. And I was always getting decent amount of matches. Most of my pics are with regular clothes on, or with friends and whatnot.

But recently I thought, "hey, girls like muscles right". So I had my gymbro make a pic of myself in a tanktop, deadlifting, showing off my muscles. I kept it for a week, and the amount of matches I was getting dropped alot.

>>39911204
>deadlifting
see there's the problem

you're showing them that you have to put in effort to get a good body, meanwhile they see chad eating pizza and he's still ripped. indicator of superior genetics

>>39911202
Yeah I worded that badly. I used to go out a lot, didn't get laid then. Got laid less when I was ripped than when I was skinnyfat. But nowaday it's more by choice than anything. I'd rather stay home than drink every week. I do get approached by 50yo fags and trannies. Oh, and single moms.

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Yesterday my coworker asked me to help her with something heavy. I didn't even know her name to this point.

Sadly i was so nervous in that moment that i didn't understood her name but acted like i did.

I guess it's a win though?

>>39911241

I can relate in some way. I used to be a skinny ass bitch who partied all the time. Got laid every now and then. When I started lifting I stopped drinking and smoking weed. Became a much more serious person, dedicated to achieving goals rather than indulge on short-term instant gratification.

Barely get laid now, but I dont even care

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>>39909934
lifting is cope unless you're above 6'0", have a masc FRAME and aren't Norwooding or facially recessed in any way

>>39910152
>.gif
nope

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>>39909934
>Grill

I need some help from you guys, I hope this is the right place. I'm able to attract random club sluts when I'm drunk but when I'm sober I can't do it. I've had multiple dates but every time something went wrong and it never really worked out. What can I do?

Besides, a female friend of mine is cute and really shy but she listens to kpop shit so she doesn't really get much attention from boys. On a party she was drunk, approached me and was super proud that she did that. Bad thing is that I lost her later that night and couldn't talk to her more. Should I try it with her and how do I cope with her shyness because it's literally impossible to speak with her in private?

>>39911967
are you asian? if so, I think I know exactly who you are. and everybody thinks you're a faggot LOL.

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>>39911967
try being confident bro

>>39912018
Why should I be Asian? I'm white

>>39912062
If you're master race then what the fuck are you being a beta boy faggot about? go get some pussy you pussy ass bitch

>>39912062
Denko?
(´･ω･`)

>>39912086
What's that?

>>39912133
it's long but beautiful
http://vgperson.tumblr.com/post/21533650696/help-the-girl-i-like-wont-respond-to-my-emails

>>39912297
just tldr, creepy jstalker on 2chan asking for advice on how to woo his shy stalkee

>>39911967
You sound like 17 or 18

It's ok, everyone goes through a phase like you.

Just keep lifting and socialize.

Also quite inventing excuses and ask the shy girl out NOW

>>39910857
>>39910881
It's empathetic homey. You get an A for effort though.

>>39909934
yes yes yes
In high school I wasn't lifting for shit and had only kissed two girls.
Now I'm a junior in college and have banged around 33 sloots, 10 of them being this last semester.
Lifting is key, but remember to socialize n shit too
(also don't be a manlet)

>>39909934
Been lifting for 17 years and I only got a few compliments. Being socially retarded means you're fucked.

>>39909934
It got me a gf, but she broke up with me because lifting can't cure a bland personality. I can comfortably talk to girls now at least and care less what they think of me.

>>39909934
I have been muscular since i was like 14 and that always helped, though now i am 20 and it dowsnt really impress irls the same way it used to. So recently ive been getting bitter and yes it has helped, the more you workout the better you will do with girls, this is always true if you are a skinny guy

>>39915058
Read
>>39913370
Gotta combine lifting with being social and you're good to go

Think of making yoursef more attractiv (i.e through lifting) as a multiplier. If you put in zero effort to girls, its not going to change shit. You have to grow some balls and talk to women/ask them out.