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how do i deal with my insane mother who is against me losing weight?

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how do i deal with my insane mother who is against me losing weight?
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>>39834649
LONDON
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>>39834649
Go on a hunger strike
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Take it from me
THIN > THICC
Get skinnier babe
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>>39834649
Move out. Your mom is a jealous bitch who propbably hate the fact her youth and beauty is fading.
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>>39834649
I agree with her, fucking stop holy shit.
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>>39834649
Mom is jelly, keep getting fit
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>>39834674
this
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Hard to tell. Lose the shirt.
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Lift some weights DYEL cunt
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>>39834649
THINN

The thicc meme is dying
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>>39834649
>you have bigger arms than me
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>>39834649
>>39834684

Yeah honestly unless you lose the clothes and also provide an example pic of what you're hoping to achieve then we can't tell if your mom is crazy or talking sense.
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father just joined in. i have been trying to defend myself but they wont listen.
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You look great. Who cares what your fuckass mom thinks.
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>>39834713
they wont let me go to the gym unless i start eating the way they want me too
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>>39834713
I wouldn't say great.
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>>39834671
This
The largest group of people talking about big butts and boobs being superior are fat women who try to make themselves feel better
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Fuck them they don't know anything. Go to a doctor and have them weigh you. They'll give you your bmi. I'm sure you have a long long way to go before your considered underweight. Have the doctor write them a note saying how you're in a healthy weight range

Or even just Google bmi for them
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>>39834649
>your butt is getting smaller

Yeah, I agree with your senpai, senpai, you're taking it a bit too far
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>>39834718
On your next doctor check up, tell the doctor about the situation.

Also are you under 18? Probably could threaten emotional abuse by parents if they keep it up. You're no where near dangerously skinny.
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>>39834718

Bulk time engage
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>>39834704
TELL THEM YOU WILL GROUND THEM FROM NOT EATING FOOD!
CHECKM8
also, do you happen to live near the location of a specific place in KY?
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>>39834704
How old are you?
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Grounded? I think she might be underage guys...
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>>39834763
i'm 18
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>>39834649
How old are? What's your weight and height? You look fine, you're mother is just being controlling. This is not her life to live.
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>>39834704
Lol how old are you? What is your diet?
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Plain jealously. Your dead joined in because your mother probably threatened him with a no sex period.
Just say you won't lose anymore, but keep getting fit. They won't shove foot into your mouth. Max they can do is force to a doctar, that probably will laugh at their idiot face.
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Jesus fuck thats some cluster b bullshit going on. Fuck that bitch. Achieve your goals.
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>>39834649
I had a similar situation
>taking in around 1600 calories
>work out about 20-30 minutes every day
>I went from around 25% to 15% body fat
>mom says I should be worried about gaining muscle and not loosing fat
>her suggested diet for me is at least 2500 calories
I'm a guy, so I don't have to put up with BS about not being attractive anymore.
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What did you look like before?
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>>39834768
>>39834772
>>39834761
i am 18. my diet is normal fruits and veggies trying to cut carbs. they think i'm insane
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>>39834727
I would>>39834718>>39834718
Bulk then. Temporarily please your mama while reaping in gains.
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>>39834766
If you are eight-teen then you should be able to do what you want with your diet.
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>>39834649
Keep us updated, OP
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>>39834776
your dad***
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>>39834761
None of your buisiness actually
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>>39834788
i still live with them
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Nice shoulders/arms brah. Keep up the good work
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>>39834785
More protein OP. Start squaring also to get nice ass gains
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>>39834649
Bring your diet plan complete with calorie calculations. Demonstrate that you are eating enough to maintain a healthy body. Show that your diet is enough to lose weight at a safe rate while building muscle.
Your parents are worried about your health, everyone hears horror stories about eating disorders. Dispel there fears with facts, use resources from here or I recommend www.scoobysworkshop.com.
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>>39834671
>>39834733
>>39834649
That's right, until your this skinny you'll never be attractive, you might as well KYS now
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>>39834799
>>39834799
Doesn't matter. They aren't forcing you to eat more.
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>>39834785
>cutting carbs but eating fruits
Yeah nah you've got as much dietary clout as your parents. Just learn to eyeball your calories and eat at TDEE until you can move out.
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>>39834785
>trying to cut out carbs
Entirely? Also what veggie meals do you eat? I need some ideas for some vegetarian meals, and oats are getting pretty old
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>>39834779
Yeah, I'm in the same with protein shakes, my mother they're fucking roids lol. So sometimes when I'm in her house she says me that a dude died from roids the other day. I just shrug it.
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>>39834806
BREHHHSSSS
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>>39834797
Shut the fuck up. If she was 14, it would be a valid thing that she doesn't know what she's doing, so age plays a huge role.
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>>39834806
T H I N N
H
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N
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>>39834809
Also if your mum is cooking for you or ordering takeaway, offer to cook healthy meals every now and then.
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>>39834806
>implying muscle isn't what makes it look good
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>>39834806
>BREEEHHHHHHHHH
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>>39834785
>>39834785
I'd say actually think about what your parents are saying. Getting fit doesn't include letting your ribs show like a smelly skelly. Right now you have a dancers body. If they're concerned it's actually a good thing, they could not give a fuck about anything, now that would be bad. Be careful and be smart... Oh and here's a tip. If you stop having periods you've lost way of much.
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>>39834649

Gainz goblinz are the worst.
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>>39834649
>>39834704

Bulk and get fucking shredded
Literally youll weigh more and be the least feminine shape, then see if your jealous mom thinks you need to gain wieght
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>>39834856
my sister has anorexia. they are worried i will become anorexic
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>>39834806
Even as a doctor that is one of the worst things I have ever seen
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>>39834649
If that's what you look like I'd say you look fine. Though its hard to tell with just a single image and no other information like height and weight
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jej

my aunt is a fat cunt and routinely tries to fatten up my cousin (girl (female))

lots of parents try to bring their kids down for whatever reason
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>>39834870
i am 5' 3"
haven't weighed my self in a while i am not concerned with weight. i just want to achieve the body i want. weight is not an issue to me
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>>39834868
Then be grateful that they're watching out for you. Just explain to them that you have an idea in your head how you want to look, and explain it to them. Shit, get pictures of people that have the same type of body. Try to educate them.
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>>39834649
Just eat less. What is she going to do? Force shit down your throat? She's not your dad.
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>>39834649
Current weight/height and goal weight?
From that pic you look just fine, they're probably just scared that you will go bulimia-mode
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>>39834649
Just squat more

Then you'll have a nice ass, giving both you, your parents, and your future white husband what you want
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>>39834820
Explain that food is made up if different components: The fats separated from milk = butter, and the protein separated from milk = proton powder. Each has its role in the body and sometimes you want one without the other. Not too hard to comprehend right? Or am I crediting parents with too much logic
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A M E S
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S
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Why do you want to lose weight? You look perfectly fine there and in damn good shape.
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>>39834868
>sister is anorexic
>already skinny but wants to loose even more weight
>mum is concerned
>WHY IS MY MUM SO INSANE WTFFF HOW CAN I DEAL WITH THIS REEEEE
Fucking teenagers man
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>>39834903
>future white husband
D E L U S I O N
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Just stop spending time with her. Fuck it, you can't fuck your mom so why do you even care about this chick?
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>>39834649
She's right though. Start lifting.
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>>39834868
>>39834856
See now this can be a issue. They are terrified that you will be a anorexic as well and are trying their best to make sure this doesn't happen. This can have the side effect though of turning the person into a complete fat fuck and giving them garbage habits for the rest of their life.

Ultimately it's your body to do what you want with and if they don't let you go to the gym you can always go work out in other ways

>cardio
>body weight excwrsises

As others have stated there can be a fine line between skelly and thin. I'd recommend honestly going and getting a tdee measurement that way you can not only find your proper balance but if you go somewhere and they actually give you a measurement you can bring proof that you aren't unhealthy with you weight.
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Y'ALL POASTING IN A TROLL BREAD
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>>39834649
>dem hands
>dem feet
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>>39834953
The only other sane person in this bitch
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>>39834806
That's fucking heartbreaking jesus fuck
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>>39834806
This woman is probably dead now...
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>>39834880
Ah but weight is important from a health standpoint which seems to be the question at hand.

You want a way to pursue the body you want while reassuring those around you that you aren't going to become a gross skelly or a anorexic.
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>>39834806
B
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E
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S
THIN
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>>39834649
Honestly, you look like you're at a good size and you don't need to lose or gain any weight. Take the shirt off and we'll see if your mother is talking sense or not.
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>>39834649
>your butt is getting smaller
Why is this good? Start lifting and do your squats OP
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>>39834981
She is.
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>>39834965
We probably are but I still like these because the legit advice (which isn't hard to identify) is usually interesting to read
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>>39835033
Dubs confirm. Squats are GOAT-tier
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Registered dietitian here, OP. I work in Addiction Recovery Services, and by the looks of it, you are in a healthy weight range. Sorry about your sister though. What makes you want to lose more weight? And why the hatred for carbs? Please feel free to ask me anything so you have ammunition to argue with your parents.
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>>39835102
i have no hatred for carbs. i am not cutting them out, just limiting them. I just want thinner arms. The rest of my body is perfect. I am not insecure i just want my arms to be a bit thinner is all
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>>39835126
>thinner arms
>not aiming for muscles
How will you become A E S T H E T I C?
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>>39835126
Fat reserves are based on genetic distribution of proportions. So if you get your arms as thin as you want, you run the risk of other areas of your body losing fat at a quicker rate, since by your admission they are already near perfect.

That aside, on a personal level, I do agree with >>39835181
Not quite muscular, but a hint of muscle is nice.
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>>39835126
More cardio.

Increase your intake of clean food (fruits, veggies lean meat etc) slightly to compensate for extra output.
Get a punching bag or something similar that can put your arms throu a rigorous workout without using weights


Be careful though. Trying to adjust size of a particular area cam be really tricky.
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>>39834779
I dont even get how your parents can force you to eat too much when my mom literally threatens to entirely stop cooking cuz i eat so much, on the other hands she will bitch about not eating enough once the cut starts.

So the lesson is: they will aöways be against "extreme nutrition", so just eat your way and dont tell them about it, they will see how healthy you look.
You look fine tho, time for some muscles.
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>>39834649
from that pic you are just about perfect. don't lose any more weight or get fatter, just jog to stay healthy.
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>>39835102
Not OP but I want a non meme answer

I'm 5'9 165 bulkin rn and I did a tdee calculator and need to eat 3.5kcals a day to gain.

At that much calories do macros really make a difference or could I just eat basically whatever (I don't drink pop, booze or eat candy)
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>>39834649
Nah you need to bulk instead
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>>39834739
>bmi

Please stop giving advice
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>>39834889
kek'd a little
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Your mom sounds like my mom except my mother is literally terrified that I am pushing myself way to much...especially working out with this cold now. Im all like chill ma' its just off season
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>>39835199
>spot reduction advice

Get out
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>>39835239
Been on a cut since october. Eating only about 1500-1800 cal a day. I don't even know how the fuck I'm going to do it when I get down to 170 and start a bulk. There are days where I feel full as fuck all day on just 1500 now
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>>39835364
Yes spot reduction is bullshit but that's exactly what op is asking for
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>>39835381
So tell op that instead of giving bullshit advice
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>>39835395
Just did.

Also by following what I posted earlier she'd still lose bodyfat purely by following it resulting in "thinner" arms...as well as everything else because that's just how body fat works.
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>>39835239
Macros are the only nutrients that provide calories. Are you asking if the golden ratio between the macros matter at those levels? If so then yes, the ratio should still hold, but protein shouldn't be a heavy focus since excess amino acids are stored in the liver anyway. If you're very active near times you usually eat, carb it up. If not, fat it up. Since fat has double calories per gram, you should get your fill of calories fairly quickly. Good luck maintaining all of that, anon.
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>>39834649
>I don't want you to start losing weight in your boobs. That will look horrible.

Moms are fucked up when it comes to daughters.
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>>39835446
What boobs?
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>>39834733
LARGEST group, you say?
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>>39834649
Post butt bby :*
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>>39834649
Best thing I've learned is to just ignore that kind of stuff and never engage because if you do, it feeds whatever it is they're trying to have fed.

She clearly has some personal issues about herself and is taking that out on you for no fault of your own. You look great! Don't ever let her insults bring you down.
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>>39835481
thank you for the advice! most supportive post yet
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>>39834704
>swearing at your parents

Stop being such a piece of shit and have some respect ffs
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>>39835481
came here to post this
just leave them out of it, it's none of their concern if you actually have everything under control. they're control freaks.
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>>39835496
ha! you would swear too if you go through the same shit i am going through. they tell me what is best for my body as if they can control what i look like. it is my body so i decide what i look like!
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>>39835519
Show body. For all we know you're hiding a mini-gut under that shirt.
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>>39835519
But they can control what you look like. They're fucking clothing and feeding you and you're living under their roof. Until you become independent you basically have zero say on any matter.
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>>39835538
what will that even prove? even if i was all the more reason for them to be supportive of my weight loss
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>>39835445
So could I get most of my calories from protons and fat? Definitely not keto tier but significantly less than the others

I just don't really eat that many carbs in the day and with all the hate they get on here I've started eating even less.

My macros (usually) would be 30% protons 40% fats then the rest would be carbs
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>>39835555
Because from first glance, based only what we can see from side body shape you should be bulking
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>>39834785
sounds like you know fuck all

read the sticky and listen to your mom
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You look damn good OP. My parents were the same, but after a decent amount of time they started to notice all the positivity working out/dieting brought. Their initial misconceptions were replaced with pride and they even started putting some effort towards working out.

It's an absolute bitch dealing with parents who think they know best, but please try to stay calm and deal with it pragmatically. Your dad seems like he's willing to have a level headed conversation with you, so take advantage of that. Approach the situation with maturity and you'll win out in the long run. Even if they seem entirely irrational, the best way to change their perspective is to show them through action.

Best of luck.
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>>39835563
Sure if you'd like. If you think your lack of carb consumption could border on worrying, please check your blood sugar. Also consume more electrolytes, to mitigate headaches from lack of sugar. Carbs only get hate because of how easy it is to consume them. Sure, I mentioned fats have more calories, but simple carbs are just so easy to down. I know you are probably sick of hearing this, but when it comes to carbs try to stick with complex. This means whole wheat, grains, etc.
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>>39834806
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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>>39835446
yeah thats lowkey abusive
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>>39835631
Shieeeeet that must be why I get so many headaches

I only eat whole wheat and raw oats for carbs but I will increase my intake and see if that helps with my headache problem

I probs should check blood sugar too since my dads diabetic

thanks famalam
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>>39834649
You're not my type
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>>39835550

youre fucking retarded my dude
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>>39835767
Grow the fuck up, my "dude".
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>>39834806
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>>39835733
Always happy to help, Anon. Good luck on your check up.
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You have to explain to your parents why you're doing what you're doing and that you understand that your sister is anorexic and you don't want that. If they can't understand then they can go pound sand, you're 18 so it's not like they can commit you or anything.

Unless you were just saying you're 18 so you don't get banned in which case don't act crazy when they send you to a shrink for evaluation.
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>>39835550
>>39835773
>take it in the ass because i said so
>that means you're growing up

embarassing
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>>39835825
Nice reading comprehension, underage. That's exactly why children don't have a say on any matter. Your brain literally isn't even fully formed yet.
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>>39835239
No. You can literally only eat sugar and make gains all you want

Fucking idiot.
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>>39835846
>take on hoity toity tone
nobody is taking your seriously, you can stop now. it doesn't demand respect like you think it does.
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>>39834806
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>>39835773

I have my dude, I have, that's why I know you're retarded.
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>>39834806
pls mr skeltal
pls no spook
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>>39834649
Literally perfect. Don't let someone else bully you into not being yourself.
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>>39835905
mfw i think about you hurting
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>>39835796
I understand there concern that i will be like my sister, but they are treating me like i will make her mistake and that i am not levelheaded. I have tried explaining that i don't want to be anorexic but they don't listen.
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They need to do way instain mother
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>>39835942
Get six-pack abs and walk around the house in just a training bra
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>>39835965
sounds like a plan
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>>39835942

Try to bring them around to the idea that it's about health and fitness and not size. Surely you can convince them it's not about a number on a scale or a measuring tape. You don't look fat at all so you may as well toss your scales out if you have any, after all it's about looking good and not an obsession with numbers.
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>>39835519

kek, this is the most endearingly teenaged thing I've ever seen.
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>>39835979
You understand me completely! My sister was obsessed with the scale and her weight. I never eat myself, I just wanna look the way i want, I am not concerned with numbers. I am doing my best to get them to think as a positive thing rather than negative.
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>>39834806
Jesus christ, it doesn't seem like she should be physically capable of moving around
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>>39835995
*weigh myself
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>>39834649
Let me get this straight, anon.
Your parents are worried about you.
They want you to eat more.
For you to reach your goal body while eating more, you have to work harder.

Solution?
Eat more, move more. Get bigger than you'd like? Change it around. Nothing for you to worry about even with skin, muscle is denser than fat.
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>>39836045
So more cardio basically? Is running enough or should i do other kinds
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>>39836060

eat big lift big
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>>39836060
Always vary your cardio, make sure you get getting enough proteins and fat, you don't wanna stunt the last few years of your growth. Make sure you eat enough and lift big. Got any more pics we can judge?
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>>39835550
>But they can control what you look like
How? Are they going to force feed her? Parents literally have no control over this whatsoever if the kid has atleast half a brain.
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>>39836060
Whatever you like but variety is good.
Still I mean the solution to your parents complaining is working harder so it's pretty standard stuff.
>>39836067
This.
There's a basline amount of muscle that's flattering for the fat in areas that people attribute to being genetic. It shapes your shit because it's underneath it.
Not even those 1 in a million goal body types maintain it without effort (or surgery).
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>>39834649

Honestly it's hard to really tell from just one picture so maybe upload more in like workout attire or something (not trying to be creepy, but for all we know you have a xylophone rib cage). Honestly, though, do what YOU want, but remember that people are always going to have differing opinions and some people might be vocal and give their two cents.

A girl I know used to be like maybe 30 lbs overweight. She was so gorgeous in that she-doesn't-realize-it way but her tiny manlet fiancee has always been insecure about his own tiny weight that he bitched about her being bigger than him (she's like 5'9" and he's like 5'10" and scrawny) so she finally broke down and started losing weight. She looked stunning about 20 lbs into it, but like I said she really wasn't THAT big, but she kept losing until she was passing out at times. Now she's sickly think (not anorexic but was close at her worst) and her face looks witchy because of bony she is. It honestly breaks my heart every time I see her knowing that she did all of it for her dbag fiancee.
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>>39834649
You ignore her and do what the fuck you want. Dont be a pussy.
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PLS BE IN >>39834649 VANCOUVER

ILL BE YOUR BOYFRIEND AND ILL KEEP YOU SAFE FROM YOUR PARENTS
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>>39834704
>if you say a word I don't like your gonna get in trouble
>so try to act mature

You should probably leave home soon if possible
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>>39836340
>parents telling you to have a basic level of civility is grounds for leaving home
How sheltered are you?
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>>39834649
She's right, you don't need to lose weight.

Do you want to be a spooky skeleton or something?
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You guys know this is just an M2F HRT degenerate trying to see if they pass as female yet, right?
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You look really nice how you are, don't lose any more
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>>39834649
Show her this thread.

You look beautiful, and I'd impregnate you vigorously.
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>Living with gainz goblinz
I feel sorry for you OP.

But for real, you can stop losing weight, and just focus on toning/adding muscle.
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10/10 would tap
Come lift with me plz
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>>39834649
2bh you look pretty good, you dont necessarily have to lose anymore
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>>39834649
She's right. Your sister/gf (obviously not OP) is too thin already, except if she does play some high performance sport that requires your weight to be as little as possible for competing.

Talking as a man, if that was my girlfriend I'd be seriously pissed off with her trying to get smaller. Like breaking up pissed off and moving on to a hotter tits/ass set.
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>>39834704
>You're getting grounded
How, aren't you an adult
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>>39834779
>>mom says I should be worried about gaining muscle and not loosing fat

Because your mom doesn't want a weak, skinny bitch for a son. I applaud her.
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>>39835102
DELETE THIS
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>>39835488
Are you kidding me? Multiple people have given you great advice, and this pat-on-the-back post pleases you the most? Fucking females, just no.. never.
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I really think you should just tell her you had your boy/girlfriend fuck your fetus!
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>>39834674
this.

holy shit this is so sad.
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>>39834692
Thicc is still hot when it's not ridiculous
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>>39834662
fpbp tho tbqh
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>>39836356

thats right goy, lick those boots
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>>39834682
>>39834677
Damn, these.
I'm a male and I went through the same thing OP. I lost weight and my mum got jealous, she continuously told me I was too skinny and attempted to sabotage me by buying nice food to try to tempt me
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bulk up make those big glutes
start powerlifting

you actualyl dont need to lose weight but i would like side pic to see butt
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Op I love you stay strong
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>>39834785
lol
/end thread

youre retarded and your parents are right

also, being told youre grounded post 18 is only something sheltered children have, kys
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>>39834649
she's a gains goblin, kill her and move into my bed...I'm in London.
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desu your mom is right, you look plenty thin already.
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Post pics in underwear so we can see if you're actually a healthy weight or not.

>But you just want to see me half naked baka!
The internet is full to the brim with porn, if I wanted to jack off I'd go there.
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>>39835290
Not him, but if the parents are that clueless then they will believe bmi! Also BMI is good for checking if someone is underweight or not, nothing else!
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Definitely don't need to lose any weight baka
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>>39834696
Ahahaha
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That is a perfect size. It becomes jack off material if you get jacked from there.
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You are just perfect the way you are now. You ear me, perfect.

By the way, my name is Kevin.
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Listen here little baby. You're gonna get a lot of hurtful and degrading comments, but that ain't what I'm about. Let me just say, you are perfect the way you are. You hear me sugar? PERFECT. Don't ever change. You deserve anything and everything you want. Stay safe for me, baby girl. >mfw thinking of you hurting
Listen here little baby. You're gonna get a lot of hurtful and degrading comments, but that ain't what I'm about. Let me just say, you are perfect the way you are. You hear me sugar? PERFECT. Don't ever change. You deserve anything and everything you want. Stay safe for me, baby girl.

>mfw thinking of you hurting
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>>39837719
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>>39834671
>>39834806
THICC =/= fat you fucking moron
although fat boys on /fit/ do blur the lie deliberately to compensate
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>>39834785
>my diet is normal fruits and veggies
>trying to cut carbs
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>>39834868
>>39834785
>>39834785
The fuck did you expect, you want to be auschwitz tier and you call your parents insane.

Kids these days mang.
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>>39834806
Story?
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>>39834868
Wow that's kind of extremely pertinent info eh?
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>>39834806
ahhhhhhhhh I can feel my test plummeting bois
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>>39834704

Let them read the wiki article about bmi, or fat percentage in the body. If they don't accept that you're normal they're just retarded. Assuming you don't go down the annorexia slope
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>>39834649
Tell her you'll stop then keep going. She probably won't even notice until it's all done anyway.
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>>39838336
*revives*
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>>39834649
Tbh senpai, I'd rail you into the next dimension
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You know, even thought your mom keeping you from losing weight is retarded, i think you dont need to. You should instead just lift, because you already have a healthy range of fat.

And no, this isnt coming from a fedora tipping white knight faggot. Im jacked and asthetic
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>>39834649

>buy some dnp
>eat how they want you to eat
>acquire human torch powers
>incinerate the petty mortals if they bitch at your for dnp
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>>39838366
Thank you my man now I will surely set a PR today
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>>39834649
To be honest why would you trade boobs for low bodyfat? You will feel a lot better when you don't fuck up your hormones.
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>>39834785
>cutting carbs
>little to no proteins or fats
Your parents aren't totally wrong, your diet is shit. Also,
>being fit>>being skinny

Lift some weights nigguh
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>>39838178
Not him, all you retards on this high test meme really don't understand that you are normalizing women being overweight. Being HIGH TEST just means you'll fuck literally anything with a vagina
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>>39838510
High test means we fuck Thicc women not scrawny women or /fit/ women or obese bitches who shove themselves in corsets and try to pass themselves off as thic or bbw.

Go shill the the scrawny or swole lipstick lesbian shlick fantasy agenda somewhere else you degenerate fag/lez.
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>>39834649
IMO you don't need to get skinnier, you're skinny already. keep it like this.
>mfw thinking of you hurting
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>>39838524
>having no idea what high test actually means
>calls someone a shill when they point that out
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>>39834649
Op, you're hot, don't stress.

I recommend just nodding and agreeing before doing whatever the fuck you want anyway. How much contact do you have with your mum? If it's just on facebook, use your settings to make her unable to view pictures you post online where you look slimmer. YOu should be able to make just her unable to view an image when you post it. Really does help. WHen you see her irl, wear conservative clothing.

Or just bulk like a motherfucker.

I've had to deal with this shit too, even though I'm a guy. It's kinda weird.
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>>39838662
>>having no idea what high test actually means
Actually, you don't know what that means.

>>calls someone a shill when they point that out
...uh huh.
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>>39834868
I'm willing to bet your sister does not have anorexia.

People now think that "anorexia" = "being under 150lbs."
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>>39834704
You absolutely NEED to be 18 or older to use this board
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>>39838524
The only thing that bothers me about this high test meme is that liking "thicc" women isn't about having high testosterone, it's just a common trait in people raised poor or in poor environments, same for liking milfs. This is also why there's a significant amount of rich pedophiles or rich guys who favor skinny women.
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>>39838817
t. low test beta
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>>39834649
Listen to your mother not some autists on an imageboard
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cool mom wants to keep u nice and thicc. my kind of mom <3
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>>39838366
WHO IS THIS
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>>39838366
*BRRRRRRAAAAPPFFFFH*
>>
>not eating carbs
>but still eating fruit
>wants a smaller ass
>not lifting
>not doing anything for fitness

Your parents are right, and you're a retarded kid.

READ THE STICKY
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>>39834649
You can still lose a little bit but not a lot. I get the arms thing, but if you lose what's left of your thighs and boobs that's hardly a victory. Another thing though, you act like a teenager and you have rather narrow hips. If you're still growing you shouldn't try to lose weight, you should try to eat as healthy as possible until you're certain you've stopped growing.
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You're calling your mom insane.... Maybe she's very worried because your sister is anorexic?

Maybe if you explain in simple terms "I'm not losing weight, I'm burning fat while gaining muscle" (becoming athletic) she will understand.

Then again you're an insecure fit girl so you probably are starving
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>>39834806
SHOOOOOOO
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>>39834779
>1600 calories
You should have taken your mom's advice. Just do conditioning drills in the a.m and lift later in the day your body will look harder and more defined then what your doing now. 2500 kcals is good. Only time you should ever diet down is if your competing in a specific weight class
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>>39834981
The landwhale or the spooky?
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>>39834923
She isn't skinny though you fat fuck, she's average
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>>39834649
Tell her to shut the fuck up. I never argue with my mother when she tells me I'm getting too thin and tell her she is clinically obese and should lose weight instead. Your mom's likely too fat too and should start losing some weight. It's always those kinds of parents.
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>>39834806
spooky
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>>39835239
>do macros really make a difference
As soon as you've had enough protein: No
Just eat whatever the fuck you want. It shouldn't make a difference when it comes to gains BUT it'll make a big difference when it comes to health. So if you give a shit about that, try to keep most of your meals healthy.
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>>39834649
dude u got gyno listen 2 ur mom
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>>39834969
When all you have is a hammer, everything you see are nails.
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>>39834806
fuggg man that girl is doot doot af bono anon
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>>39834649
Eat my ass please. Ream me and I'll nut buckets
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>>39834677
You wouldn't say that to a male you white Knight cuck.
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Not gonna lie OP ya got no hips, but you still look good, gaining weight would be detrimental

Wood berry

Post face pls
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>>39834806
MUH DICK
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>>39834704
>Grounded
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>>39834649
Your mom's right you need GOMAD+SS right now. It's time for the winter bulk anyway. How the hell are you going to hit 1/2/3/4 if you're on a diet?
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>>39834649
If they're really worried go to a doctor or nutriologist with them, to ease their mind. My dad was convinced I was taking drugs in highschool. A trip to the doctor, and and a talk showed him otherwise. I was just stressed out, not strun out.
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OP here. I posted this thread last night and took all your advice when talking to my mom and dad. They somewhat realize that I am doing this for fitness purposes and not worried about my weight. I hope it all goes well from here.
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>>39840511
if its really you

its hard to say from this pic only, but front looks good, you probably just need to gain some butt / thigh muscles. Dont go skele mode. Its disgusting

stay safe
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>>39840370
She wants to schedule an appt. with my sister nutritionist, since she has to go to one due to her anorexia. I don't really want to because I feel that they will just reinforce my parents worries, when all I want to do is look a tad bit thinner.
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>>39840531
Thank you. I just want to look just abit thinner, not skelly auschwitz mode
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>>39840535
you dont know waht you want

you want to look thinner on top of your body but since thats hard to do it would be just easier to do squats and deads, bulk a bit and get beautifull round hips

that would perfectly make your upper body match to lower body
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>>39839976
i have a thin waist but like you said i have violin hips. I do lift weights for legs and abs, and I am trying to gain some side butt.
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>>39834806
dat thigh gap!!!
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>>39839311
When I am hungry I eat. But often times I really am just not that hungry. I am 5' 3" so I don't need as many calories as the average girl, at least I don't think I do, or maybe I am wrong.
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>>39839002
>I eat carbs, just not as many as I used to, just had carb cereal today
>Yes I eat fruit
>I don't want a smaller ass, running has actually helped give it a better shape and make it tighter
>I do lift occasionally
>I do it for fitness purposes
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>>39838770
I am 18, but still in highschool, and live in a upper middle class suburb, so my parents basically have full control over me.
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>>39840549
Don't worry so much about the number on the scale (unless it's ridiculously high). I feel like you're focusing too much on it.

How ever much you weight right now it looks good on you. You just need to maintain your weight or start gaining muscle if that's what you're looking for.

I'm a 5'10, 150lbs female and I don't look like a fat ass even though my weight makes me sound balloonish.
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>>39838492
>worrying about trivial things like boobs when I want to have the body I want
please stop
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>>39837646
>>39837357
>>39837684
>>39836638
>>39837713
>>39836490
>>39836514
Thank you for the nice comments. I'm trying to achieve a optimal body, so I am trying to keep the weight loss in moderation.
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>>39840609
pics or it didn't happen
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>>39834806
Dat filename, kek.
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>>39840609
I never weigh myself
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>>39840535
Maybe your parents are afraid of you becoming an anorexic too? I would probably get worried about my other kids too if one was anorexic. Just let them know you want to be healthy, and you aren't throwing up after meals.
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>>39834806
RIP
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>>39834766
They cannot legally ground you. They cannot legally force you into anything. Tell your doctor they are abusing you, because they are. They do not have healthy boundaries with you. They do not respect your adult autonomy. I repeat, they cannot legally force you to do anything. The only thing you have to worry about is them kicking you out.

Once you tell your doctor that you can then talk about bringing your parents into the conversation. Have you doctor explain your weight and health to them. That way if they go against your and your doctor now there is a record of them not only going against you but also a medical professional.

My mother did something similar and would go a step farther and throw my food away after I bought it and force me to eat what she made. She was an extreme yo-yo dieter and fucking hated that I had a solid routine and discipline and kept a good weight while making gains. She would also tell me that I looked gross and no man would want me. She was a pot bellied wizard sleeved dip dyed nutcase who would hit on anything with a dick that I brought over. She even tried getting my best friends boyfriend in bed and would shit talk me with guests over.

But I digress. Get a pro involved. Get it on paper. Save every conversation you have. If they try to force anything you will have the law on your side.
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>>39835126

>>39835196 is right. Some people lose fat faster in different places. It may help you actually work out your arms and gain muscle there. It will at least make your arms more defined and make the little bit of fat you have less noticeable. Don't worry, girls dont get big like guys do unless we go super saiyan on lifting/sups/roids.
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>>39840823
seriously... anyone who is 18 or older has no leg to stand on if they still live with mommy and daddy...

if you don't like it... man the fuck up and move out.
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>>39839002
Theres a difference between and apple and a croissant anon.
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>>39840535
Call the nutritionist you are scheduled with without your parents knowing beforehand. Calmly tell him what is going on. Tell them your current weight and height. Tell him what your goals are and how you plan to achieve them.

When you go your parents are going to try to be the loudest in the room and not let you get a word in edgewise, or they will disregard it as crazy. Get the doctor on your side before that happens.
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>>39834649
The problem is that you look great where you are now. You're probably near your optimal body composition already. No need for major changes when you look great. If you think you don't look great then you're delusional and your parents are right to be worried. It speaks of low self esteem and narcissism which is all too common among our generation.
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>>39834704
>this is how fathers treat their daughters

and we wonder why they all turn out like they do
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>>39840900
why do white people hate their families so much
>>
>>39840992
why are niggers so fucking stupid...

ask stupid questions get stupid answers..
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>>39834868
Well you will become anorexic if your parents smother you and make you feel like you have no control. Not eating is a way to take that back. Of course it's also a way to ease feelings of inadequacy and low self esteem and it's ultimately illogical and harmful so really it's a surrender to your own emotions.
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>>39840982
His main mistakes are

>clearly taking orders from his wife, you can tell 0 percent of this was his idea
>saying "please" while threatening punishment if you don't do as he says, that's just fucking psycho

He's a whipped beta with no thoughts of his own on the topic of raising a daughter.
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>>39834806
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>>39841014
wow you sound upset. is it because you hate your parents?
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>>39840900
You can respect your parents and their home while being an autonomous person. No one, FUCKING NO ONE, has the right to control your body. Even your parents, even in their house. Her parents are exhibiting very controlling and abusive behavior. They are gaslighting, shaming, powerplaying, projecting, and group attacking their child. And thats just from the messages she's shown. Now they are getting a doctor who had only dealt with their anorexic daughter, who I'm sure they have already manipulated and lied too, to look at their other daughter. Which is a form of proxy abuse.

"Then there are psychological, environmental, and social factors that may contribute to the development of anorexia. People with anorexia come to believe that their lives would be better if only they were thinner. These people tend to be perfectionists and overachievers. In fact, the typical anorexic person is a good student involved in school and community activities. Many experts think that anorexia is part of an unconscious attempt to come to terms with unresolved conflicts or painful childhood experiences."

Her sister is an important clue. Why is she the way she is. Maybe her parents abused her too and that what became of the abuse.
>>
>>39840992
At least whites have better ways out. Black mothers are some of the most controlling, vicious, victim playing bitches I have ever met. They make you take the abuse with a smile and ask for more.
>>
>>39840992
The answer depends on where you're coming from. If you're Asian the answer is, White parents are too indoctrinated by cultural marxism to properly fill their position of authority so White kids are disobedient as hell, especially in private. Most conflicts in White families stem from parents not knowing what they want or how they could make their kids obey them, everything gets overly complicated, being raised as a White kid often entails endless frustration with your well meaning but spineless, useless parents.

Asian kids obey because 1) they are low test and 2) they know they'll just get beaten if they don't. There may be some resentment under the surface but overall I envy Asians when it comes to parent-child dynamics. Clear goals are set and met and you can see that the system works.

If you're a nigger the answer is, because White parents care about their kids and (albeit clumsily) push them to pursue a good future so that's a lot of pressure and very annoying. Black kids by contrast are neglected and grow up in fear of complete abandonment, so they don't dare to lash out until they feel like they don't need parents anymore. Their "mothers" get easily distracted with sucking herpes dick for crack and their fathers... well, you know.
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>>39834649
Are you actually working out or just doing an extremo low calorie diet and shedding pounds? If you are anorex you will love your body a lot more if it is fit and can do what you want it to I promise. Been on both sides of this fence.

If you are doing this in a healthy way ignore this comment and tell your parents to fuck off with them fat selves.
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>>39841029
Actually no, not at all. It's because I can't relate to all of this faggotry because my parents weren't fucking autistical cunttards. Bringing race into it is just fucking ignorant. Niggers aren't exactly the smartest group.

>>39841047
and she has ever right to take her shit and move the fuck out... nobody is forcing her to live under their roof. her sister could be why theyve gone mad. they don't want her to end up that way... regardless... all of them... including the OP... sound like a bunch of fucking subhuman pieces of shit...

so really..... who gives a flying fuck.

sage in all fields pls
>>
>>39834806
shoo shoo spooky skeleton
>>
They're probably worried you're anorexic or have an eating disorder since that shit became a meme on cnn. Might help to tell them what your end goal is or get them to try eating as you do for a week/day to see it isn't some insane shit. Redpill them, make em read the sticky
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>>39834806
SHOO SHOO GAINS GOBLIN
>>
If you're 18 or over please post body shots. I literally can't tell if you're even a woman from that picture. You have wide shoulders and semi-thick arms and slim legs, I doubt you have much more fat to lose. Post more.

Also never disrespect or swear at your parents, at the very least until you're out of their house and living like an adult on your own.
>>
>>39841423
What if they don't respect you?
>>
>>39841433
Tough fucking luck. You're living under their roof, by their money, eating their food and using their utilities and equipment. You have no place disrespecting even a stranger under these circumstances, let alone your own parents. When you're living by yourself, from your own money, not relying on them - then you can decide whether or not you want to swear at the people who gave you life and fucking nursed you and made sure you get fed and educated until you're old enough to be independent.
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>>39834806
Wtf im spooked
>>
>>39834785
>woman
>fucking retarded
Pick both.
>>
>>39835102
HOW DO U GET GIRLS TO DO THIS ? PLS REPSODN
>>
>>39840982
>>39841021
My father is very controlling but he can be nice sometimes. Most of the time he just make fun of my mom all the time and calls her names and shit.
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>>39834806
Go away mr skelly
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>>39841047
I am different from my sister though. She was somehow susceptible to anorexia because she constantly weighed herself and became obsessed. I am not obsessed I just want to looks the way I want to look.
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>>39841215
I work out everyday. Cardio and light weight lifting, mostly legs and abs.
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>>39841268
You make it sound as if it's easy to move out. Maybe it is in your country or if you're wealthy, but not for everyone. And if it means suddenly having to work 8 hours and having half of your salary go to pay for rent and food, it's just better to endure your parents' whims.
>>
>>39841714
Yes and I am still in highschool. i cannot move out where I live it just isn't like that. When I graduate I go to college. That's how it is.
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>>39841268
an ellipsis is not a comma. no wonder your parents kicked you out of the house.
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>>39834785
RKO your father
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>>39841714
Exactly, which is precisely why if you don't have what it takes to be an adult.... better fucking whine about it on the internet.
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>>39841722
Go back to school... faggot.

http://www.thepunctuationguide.com/ellipses.html
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>>39834649
your mom obsessing about your boobs and butt is kinda creepy do what you want
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>>39834704
> needing to swear to explain your argument

if you want to be taken seriously, don't argue with emotions.
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>>39841822
ellipses are okay for a trailing thought, emphasis on trailing. none of your sentences were trailing. you used ellipses wrong and you then post a source that tells you why you're wrong.
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>>39840597

>I am trying to eat less carbs
>Fruit

READ THE STICKY RETARD
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>>39835550
>this is what statists unironically believe
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>>39834713
I fucking love tapirs. They are the cutest animals ever!
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>>39840900
shit man that's a sexist and archaic thing to say. "man up". as if it's manly and for men only to take a stand and womanly to... what. not take a stand? take abuse? respect the females. the life giving daughters and mothers.
>>
>>39838505
I think she was just talking about carbs when mentioning fruits and veggies. she's gotta be eating meat.
>>
>>39834649

You look fantastic anon.
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>>39843418
yes i eat stake and fish. Occasionally riley and salami
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>>39843468
*turkey and salami
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>>39843468
how about showing or mentioning athletes or olympians? they're not unhealthy. still they are thin.
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>>39834649
Mmh let me hoot those badonka donks and sniff that delish pusi my darling mmh
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>>39834671
>babe
fucking homo
>>
>>39834802
>>39834809
>>39834813
>>39834856
>>39835621
>>39837086
>>39838219
>>39838230
>>39838505
>>39841587
>>39841742

you all niggas jumped to conclusions and didn't know what you were even talking about. see >>39843468. she does eat proteins and fats.
because of you guys there's so much shit talking and little discussion in fit threads.
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>>39834704
>American parenting
>>
>>39843539
>sending anons who made assumptions tens or hundreds posts before because of lack of information to a reply that was made after the thread has become literally dead
wew
>>
>>39834649
Weight lift you stupid cunt, you're going to look like shit if there is no muscle mass for your low ass bodyfat to give you decent looking curves.
>>
>>39834704
>gounded
what the fuck are you 12? And who is Luke
>>
>>39834785
>fruits and veggies
>trying to cut carbs
>they think i'm insane
they are right
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