Why don't you love yourself, /fit/?

socially incompetent
quick to anger
5'9"

>>39711398
>relevant to /fit
Go kill yourself and save mods the hassle of banning you.

>>39711398
You're obviously not talking to me and my superiority issues here

>>39711413
Ya for real, got plenty of self love here. And OP this board is probably the most narcissistic on 4chan

>>39711412
Tell me a bit more about this

>>39711426
Narcissism != genuine self love

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I love myself and only myself.

I weigh less than 300 pounds.

>>39711398
who says I don't?

I have always been shorter and smaller and it has destroyed my relationship with both family and society at large. Two of my earliest memories are 1) Looking through issues of FLEX at the barbershop and admiring the behemoths therein and imagining being that big one day, and 2) being the smallest boy on my first t-ball team and spending the entire season without a single run (in fact, I only made it to first base once).

All I've ever wanted was to be physically large in a way people admired and to have a reasonable slice of "win". It was apparent from early on to me that the physical component to attraction was inescapable without being assertive to the point of being an asshole and inviting retribution that you can't counter, so I'm short, timid, and even my early academic wins didn't mean anything in the long run. And since my brother is tall and athletic, my father didn't need me; I was the weird disappointment. Nothing I did was good enough compared to him.

If the people closest to you in life don't love and respect you as you are, how can you learn to do so for yourself? I'm miserable because I'm broken.

>skinny arms
>balding
>kv over 25
>literally nothing attractive about me to women

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>>39711398
Because you shouldn't ever love or hate yourself.
Love is unconditional and therefore prevents you from making any progress, even sorely needed improvements, because you already reached the top regarding emotional view of yourself. Obese pigs end up dying from their self-love, because they're blinded by the wrong reasons to feel good about yourself.

Hate is a reverse of love and bad by the same virtue - this time, you're consumed by dark emotions and treat yourself much worse then you should in order to reach success; can also prevent you from improving yourself and so, you join a "pity party", so common on /fit/ or /r9k/, where people end up despising themselves and everyone they perceive better.. Hate may continue even after "making it" because just like love, hate isn't easy to get rid of.

What one should do, is realize their shortcomings and good sides, everyone has them, then work on decreasing the "bad" and improving the "good", always keeping a clear picture and never drifting between one extreme to another. This way, you get rid of stress and maximize your output.

>>39711445
Get out scoop man piano

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>>39711398
29 and still going to college
29 and still browsing 4chan
29 and still no car

what have i done with my life?

But at least 29 and in better shape than back when I was 19

>>39711454
Get a fucking grip on yourself man. I can tell you from experience that your manlet stature isn't the real variable affecting your relationships with family and friends.

>t. 5'5" manlet.

>>39712080 That's right.

>>39711454
You're sick with self-depreciation and thinking being taller would somehow make you succeed. You yourself set yourself up for failure and let your insecurities afflict your life in general.
I have no sympathy for such extremely narcissistic people. I bet you're not even 20 - grow a fucking pair and stop crying over what you can't change. Otherwise, you'll always be a loser having your life all about not having the goal height.

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>>39712017
And that's all that matters. That you're better than your previous self. Also trust me, in ten years, a degree will come to your mind first and not being there at 29 (which isn't that old even). We're all gonna make it brah.

>>39711398
You guys just have to attain logic as your core value.
You need to click!

I've made a lot of irreversible mistakes.

>>39711398
Because if I had been a better man she wouldn't have left

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>>39711398
>>39711398
Because I keep looking for validation in the opposite sex.

Its wearing out tho. Im starting to see my own values and thats the way it is.

>>39712333
>>39712080
People say this shit but then they would never choose to be short themselves. Proof is in the pudding. (Also in countless scientific studies.)

>>39713515
There's a difference between accepting it is better to be tall, and resigning yourself to failure in all aspects of life because you're short. I know plenty of really short guys who are awesome people to be around, great with girls, successful - the key to all of them? They never even consider their height a problem.

The longer short men obsess over their height, the more they'll get dragged into this weird fiction that height is a necessary condition for success in all aspects of life.

Neglected as a child, parents also put me down quite often.

Also I'm 6,4 white 8/10 face 9/10 insertions 21 years old and a virgin by my standards. (Fucked a few hookers). Most guys would kill to look like me but I lack charisma and personality.

I speak monotone, and am bad with eye contact. Although I've noticed the importance of eye contact in the last couple weeks.

>>39713594
The hookers were always dumbfounded when I would open the door, and ask how and why am I paying for sex. Feels bad knowing the true answer behind their questions.

>>39713612
i know that feel bro
sadly "real" girls arent as avaliable and next to impossible to meet

Dating is a game a guy cant win unless he is extremly lucky

>>39711398
It's kind of a vicious circle, don't like self, radiate discontent for social isolation, be distracted by rumination for lower performance, reflect on all this and repeat.

First world problems I guess.

There's nothing about me worth loving

I've never been truly happy. Never been comfortable anywhere, even at home. Alienated all my friends as I grew up, and I hardly ever go out. When I do go out, I don't really connect with anyone. Missed out on literally dozens of perfect opportunities with girls and women over the years because I'm socially incompetent. Only things I ever had going for me were intellect and a cute face. My intelligence doesn't mean shit because I'm not motivated and fucked up my college career by not going to class and being an anxious fuck all the time. Face is still attractive, but now my hairline is receding.

>25 Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said:
>26 "If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters--yes, even his own life--he cannot be my disciple.

Loving yourself is overrated.

>>39712872
That's like club 27. If they hadn't died they wouldn't be the legends they are today, they would have made another one, two or three albums in decreasing quality and become ugly and annoying. Same with relationships.

>>39711436
You might find this interesting:
http://www.livescience.com/16650-narcissists-esteem.html

>>39713644
Oh hello friend

>>39713667

>26 "If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters--yes, even his own life--he cannot be my disciple.
what did he meme by this

>>39712393
Not the guy who you answered to, but I appreciated your positivity. We're all gonna make it

>>39713715
Probably something to do with how all men are sinners and we should seek humility.

>9 To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everybody else, Jesus told this parable:
>10 "Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector.
>11 The Pharisee stood up and prayed about himself: 'God, I thank you that I am not like other men--robbers, evildoers, adulterers--or even like this tax collector.
>12 I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.'
>13 "But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, 'God, have mercy on me, a sinner.'
>14 "I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted."

>>39711780
I don't know what you're talking about my love is super conditional.

>>39711408
Autistic, hot headed manlet lmao

>>39713715
My interpretation of what he meant is if you're not so sick of the material world that you "hate" it and everyone that inhabits it, you will not be ready to make the serious spiritual progress necessary to follow him.

Christians will tell you it (and the following parable) is about the commitment necessary to become a disciple. In other words "There may come a time when you have to turn your back on your entire family, even yourself, to follow me. Do not set out upon this path unless you are ready to do that. Don't start something you can't finish."

>>39711454
Respect. That must have taken guts to come to terms with.

Also, lol.

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>small cock
>high voice
Such is life I suppose.

>>39711412
>mental health
>not fit
You're on a different level of retardation

>>39711398
>fat
>weak chin
>big nose
>poor
>shitty jaw

The only thing I can fix is my weight.

>>39713917
Forgot to mention
>small dick about 4 inches

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>>39713909
>/fit/ will never be "Health and Fitness" again
>the sticky will never be updated or appended
>daily "first sip" threads will continue until they're replaced by something even worse

It's all moot's fault.

>>39713622
>extremely lucky
no, just not retarded

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>>39711398
>father would beat me if I failed exams in school
>Would tell me I'm gonna be a failure and always be nothing
> now a adult, internalised his words and always have those words in my head regardless what I'm doing.
>know I'll always be a looser because if i try and fail somthing, the words repeating themselvs in my head get louder.

>>39713959
Alright, so im retarded because every girl i run into has a bf already and those that dont are either fat or toxic or both?
How is that my fault, anon?

>>39713988
Plenty of girls with boyfriends are willing to sleep around. Most of those that do sleep around are willing to leave their current boyfriends if they find someone better. Many girls lie about having boyfriends in the first place.

Most of the attractive girls I know have been in relationships more often than not. So there will be very brief windows when these girls are actually single. The trick is to figure out how serious their relationships are. You don't want to ruin a potential marriage, but you also don't want to block yourself from ever starting a good relationship with a girl just because she has a boyfriend.

>>39713653

That's incorrect.

I love you bro.

>>39714044

From what ive noticed girls love attention and yeah, more often than not they wont admit to having a bf because then im not paying as much attention to her but they dont exactly put out or leave their bf

You are right however, only way to get laid/get a gf is to "snipe" her from some dude who cant make her happy but its really sad when you think about that this is the way it is
In a perfect world there would be girls who are single and ready to date without me having to wait for her to become single

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>>39711398
I love myself so much I'm scared I'm going to wake up and realize it was just a dream.

>>39711398
>Why don't you love yourself, /fit/?
I have people who do that for me.

>>39713715

Short version: it means to love yourself, but to hate who you are and leave it behind, and place the foundation of your love in God, letting His love guide your life.

Long version: "Life", in this context, means essentially "who you are, as a person".

"who you are, as a person", is a depraved sinner, in constant rebellion against God. >>39713750 is more or less correct. But read the rest of the chapter (Luke 14), and Jesus talks essentially about being prepared and building a firm foundation before jumping into anything, before coming back to the same point
>33 So then, none of you can be My disciple who does not give up all his own possessions.
and clarifying it, saying
>34 “Therefore, salt is good; but if even salt has become tasteless, with what will it be seasoned?
>35 It is useless either for the soil or for the manure pile; it is thrown out.
Meaning, essentially, you can't love unless you have a source of love (ie Jesus). The "salt" ("salt of the earth", or "you") is good, but it is not everything: your love will eventually run out (your brother will try you). What do you do then?
Contrast this with 1 John 4
>19 We love because He first loved us
>20 If anyone says, “I love God,” but hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.
>21 And we have this commandment from Him: Whoever loves God must love his brother as well.
And you see that in order for both of these to make sense, God's love must precede your love of yourself and others, but that you must also love yourself and others. In fact, it is only because God loves us that we can truly love anything, and only because we love God that we can fully appreciate the love we can have for others. God loved us not because we're good (we're depraved sinners) but because He freely chose us. Purely by His grace, we are filled with love.

>tfw theology studies come in handy on /fit/

>>39714078
Well fuck off with ya

>>39711398
Am gay. Dont really want to.

>>39712017
i'm 19 now, you got any advice?

Because no one else does.

>>39715017
iktf ;_;
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpX8E-kavmI

>>39711398

>Socially reclusive
>Gyno & Borderline Klinefelters
>Tinnitus
>Visual snow
>Zero will power
>Talentless

>>39711398
life is good, if you look at the positive instead of the negative.

>>39711398
because i think about myself too much
it's like i love myself but also despise myself too

>>39715349
How long have you had tinnitus?

I realized I'm an alcoholic once my latest gf broke up with me a week ago. Went to my first meeting, applied for military, working out daily (at home with bodyweight), landed 2 interviews so far but no job. I'm trying, but I also still live with her so yeah, that ruins any progress I'm making because I get to watch her move on so easily while I'm realizing what I fucked up yet again

>>39716000

2 years now, I believe.

>>39711398
always had self-esteem issues, have little inner-confidence.
Short (5'7"), not a big penis, my family has health issues, Don't know my future, but hoping for the best.
It's tough but I try to smile :)

>>39712393
what a cringy pic, self doubt is the only thing that keeps man from becoming deprecated

>>39711398
i'm fucked in the head and have terrible social anxiety and almost depression. the only things i like about myself is that im smart/fit/somewhat handsome and tall

>>39711398
I know I could be bether but always end up self-sabotaging for no good reason

Thanks buddy time to go drink the pain away

because I broke myself, and stunted my growth in highschool. My younger brother is 6ft1inch (still growing and he is 3 years young than me) and I am 5ft10

>>39711398
I don't know, I can't remember what love feels like

>>39711398

Feelings of inadequacy took root and puberty and really never stopped.

>>39713988
How many girls have you approached?

How many dates have you setup off tinder?

How do you explain that me, as a 5'6 asian male has 40 something lays including some fun relationships while barely trying and focusing on work/business/travel?

Maybe, just maybe, you haven't actually put in any real effort and are instead wallowing in self defeating fantasies of something holding you back when in reality, if you just weren't retarded about it you would probably not be here and be balls deep instead.

>>39716784
lmao what? are you actually operating on the assumption that you can't love yourself unless you're 6'1 when you're 5'10?

this maybe the most pathetic thing I've ever read and could be the reason I rage quit this board

>30, only had sex with 2 girls in my entire life
> borderline autistic and have anger and anxiety issues
> most ppl irl hate me and try to harass me daily
> feel worthless most of the time
> ironically not a manlet and have a decent looking face

Maternally reinforced feelings of self-worthlessness, a schizophrenic father whom, shortly after I turned eight, divorced my mother, became homeless, stopped taking his meds, and started drinking a lot, teachers and classmates whom preyed on my emotional instability and drove me to early drink and elementary depression, a career counselor who told me that I should set my expectations low, a brother who constantly belittled me, babysitters that used me to roleplay torturous fantasies, and officers of the law who did not see any reason to relocate me.

>>39712017
29 isnt as old as you make it out to be anon. Its never too late to make something of yourself. We're all gonna make it.

>>39711612
>balding at 25
My future husband is balding at age 23 and I couldn't care less. He's the love of my life! You'll find yours, and she will love you irrespective of the hair on your head.

I do nothing but chase shitty fucking girls that reinforce the notion that women arent shit. I try to turn a hoe into a housewife, and disregard any actual "good" girl in my life because i love conflict and am extremely shallow.

I dont know how to stop myself, but im starting to get that feeling of being alone emotionally.

>>39716934
How is his hairline?

>>39716952
Are you good at it? I did that for years, racked up 100 lays, didn't really make me happy then but I'm in a decently happy relationship now.

Was at a work party last night and I played captain save a ho to this 6/10 I work with who is a huge slut. It was like midnight when I realized what the hell I was doing. Why do I fucking do this? Also, starting a no porn because holy shit I managed to get a Tinder date to touch my dick and blasted off twice in like 10 minutes.

I should be happy. I have a good job. I get paid well, I'm buying a house, I'm working towards my fitness goals and will be able to make it part of my day so there's no avoiding it.

Why aren't I happy? Because as much as I go and meet girls, have dates I get nothing. Girl I liked, moved away and stopped replying to my messages. That hurt me badly and months later I still think of her and why she just completely cut contact.

Recently I managed to chat with a fat girl and I thought I was confident in the "date". But after a few messages a couple of days after the date and suddenly no replies.

>>39711398
I realized how true this was when I pissed off my mother the other night and saw how heartbroken she was when I told her "it's okay if you don't care about me anymore, I stopped caring about me a long time ago too"

I didn't realize how much I hated myself and how depressed I really was until I saw how hard my mother started crying when she heard that. I guess something just died in me or something, I just don't feel anything anymore aside from hopelessness anymore. My cut has been going great though, I keep thinning out nicely and a lot of people are starting to take notice. I find myself being treated as if I matter more now by kids at my uni. Might also have something to do with my increase in confidence/fashion sense following all the fat loss.

I'm gonna get back to the gym, I hope I can find a reason to live at the bottom of my next couple squats.

>>39717014
You need to work on your social skills.

I started getting laid as much as I can handle a couple years after following real social dynamics and actively working on improving that area of my life.

You need to understand women better.

>>39716994
He's got a growing bald spot where his corn is. Like that spot where Jewish hats sit if you're Jewish? Right now it's the size of a very large fist. Hair on the front of his head is ok but he's got a really bad widows peak.

I just make sure to let him know every once in a while that I wouldn't find him any less attractive if he goes monk mode, and I wouldn't respect him any less if he gets a hair transplant. Hell, I'd even pay for it if he wanted it as a birthday gift or something, because just like he let's mae do mae, I let senpai do senpai. And I'm sure that if he got me, you can find somebody with these same qualifications, because love is mysterious, life is long, and you are a healthy young man.

Just keep your senses sharp, yeah? :)

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Gf killed my self esteem. Drink everyday. Feels good.

I have autism and I don't know how to cope with it.

why dont you faggots just get married like God wants us to so you don't have to worry about finding a woman ever again

>>39717064
>why dont you faggots just get married like God wants us to so you don't have to worry about finding a woman ever again

I don't have any opportunities to meet attractive single women.

Also, I hate my job and I live with my parents.

>>39714345
thanks Christian-bro I needed this.

>>39713582
Pretending height doesn't matter when it does doesn't guarantee you success at all. It may make it slightly more likely, but then, it might also make you blind to the ways you're getting fucked over.

I would feel better if there were a way to change it if you worked hard enough, but even leg lengthening is kind of bullshit compared to the real thing of just being born tall.

>>39716880
thanks man

>>39717110

HEIGHT, FACE, and FRAME

ITS ALL THAT MATTERS BRO

>>39717104
Where do you live? I've never been to a city or town where roughly half the population wasn't girls

>>39717110
Not the same guy but did you read his post?

I'm actually raging and promising myself to leave this forum permanently because of shit like this.

FUCKING RESULTS MOTHERFUCKER.

Nothing guarantees results you moron, there's plenty of short guys who have amazing lives a super hot girlfriends and tall horrifically lonely loser idiots around.

HURR I WOULD FEEL BETTER IF THE WORLD WAS DIFFERENT THAN IT IS. DURRRRRRRRR

Omfg like nails on a damn chalkboard dude. Really what is the point? Operate within the reality that you are living in to the best of your ability. That means STFU and do what you can with the hand you're dealt and focus all of your energy on working towards what you want.

Later.

>>39714078
But for real, there's nothing about me worth loving.

I'm an asshole with a lot of cynicism and distrust. I am both narcissistic and insecure. And I'm regularly caught between paralyzing apathy, or crippling depression.

I'm too far gone to be loved by anyone, including myself

>>39717389
We're on the same boat bro

>>39717389
Beliefs are a choice. If you choose to believe you are in no way shape or form "too far gone" (for what exactly I don't know) and just dedicate yourself to actually working on these problems, reading, trying things, putting effort into accomplishing what you want, you will almost guaranteed see quite noticeable improvements. You can't compare yourself so everyone else and say you're not as good as them. Just do you and focus on improvement and progress.

>>39717472
>>39717481

Because even though I'm going to college, participating in club activities, getting/applying for scholarships; I still feel like there's a gaping whole inside me. Like I'm not doing enough. And yet, I keep coming back to /fit/ and 4chan like it's actually going to change anything. This site has brought me nothing, but cynicism and bitterness that I wish I never experienced to begin with. It's made me into a degenerate who doesn't know how to focus on anything. I need to find my purpose in life and being on 4chan in the next year or so isn't where I wanna be.

>>39717481
I'm focusing on the things I can change and on what I can earn. My insecurity comes more from within than without, as I try not to compare myself to others in things that I cannot influence.

When I say too far gone, I mean that several traits are who I am, and are unchanging. I can accept that these traits are not ideal for typical relationships and what have you, and by extension, I am not ideal for it. I can't shake my cynicism, as it is part of my being. Therefore I won't work to change it, but rather learn to accept the consequences of it. There is a limit to how much one can successfully fight nature.

>>39711780

This should have more (you)s

>>39714995
Diligence > everything else

It's a lesson you can only internalize by experiencing yourself, though. Kinda like most important life lessons.

>>39711398
I was pretty smart until I turned 11 years old and I became a social outcast and my grades went lower
now im in college and i have a severely weak attention span and fighting the urge to kill myself
feelsgood

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>>39713909
Do you see the word health?
I don't see the word health.

>>39711398
>tall
>somewhat attractive
>somewhat fit
>good at socializing
>average dick but good endurance etc
>at least academically smart

all this and yet I get fixated upon small things that bother me. Have slept with 10 girls this semester but still fixated on one who it didnt work out with. She texted me recently and its all i think about. I remember trading my gamecube for a ps2 when I was a kid. My parents thought it was a great idea because the ps2 was more expensive... but my gamecube was a christmas gift from my parents. I cant believe I would trade a gift away. I value gifts from friends and family because I think a gift is such a kind gesture. Ive saved all birthday and christmas cards from my parents and grandma for the past few years. Things rarely bother me but when they do they consume me. People think I'm mentally tough or can endure a lot, but its inaccurate because I'm just good at enduring shit that doesnt bother me but little random things will consume my every thought

>>39717539
>I can't shake my cynicism, as it is part of my being. Therefore I won't work to change it, but rather learn to accept the consequences of it

Bro, you are arrogant to think this is anything but an opinion that may or may not be true. You have to challenge it and look for holes.

Personally, I've gone from being the most cynical negative sarcastic kid, to realizing that it wasn't healthy and over the course of years am now more positive and upbeat than 95% of people.

So I can tell you empirically YOU'RE WRONG.

Personalities can change, it takes effort and time but so does anything of value.

>>39718094
Are you doing something about it besides writing it out on 4chan? That's not a static part of your personality that you have to keep obsessing over dumb shit lmfao.

>>39711398
No matter how much weight I lose and muscle I gain, I will always remain a fat fuck in my mind.

>>39718101
what do you mean doing something about it? I dont really know how to fix it. I just get obsessive over random tiny things that shouldnt be a big deal.

>>39711398
i do

i just love her more

>Tall
>Moderately attractive
>Anger issues
>Socially awkward
>Passive
>Lonely and depressed
Haven't had female relations in about 7 months and I'm fucking sick of this dry spell

I just feel empty

thought sex would make me feel better, been with about 20 or so girls this year (hookers)

sex is overated.

>>39718113
Google it.

Go see a free counsellor.

Find some books by experts.

Look at daily exercises and ways of thinking you can utilize to reduce this and enjoy your life more.

Not rocket science mr spoon fed millenial

>>39718135
How do people have dryspells going into 2017 when tinder is around?

If you're in a tiny town I can understand, but otherwise come on dude.

>>39718191

because they are

BETA
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>>39718156
The problem is there aren't shortcuts like that. Hooker sex is fucking useless, you need human connection as gay as it sounds. Cuddling, talking and laughing together, doing funny dumb shit together, going on adventures and having sex where both people really want to be there.

That can only come when it isn't a cash exchange but the girl is genuinely attracted to you.

Thing is you have to actually be attractive to that girl in order for that to happen. There's no shortcuts.

>>39718185
google what? see a counselor and tell them I have trouble letting go of simple things? What type of book

I dont know the beginning of how to approach it. I meditate. I approach the situations rationally. I even act the way I should to maximize good outcomes and minimize bad outcomes. I still get fixated even when making the right decision

also im 22 so not technically a millennial

Too fat, used to have perfect gymbody, like bearmode but <12% bf, always get hit hard with emotion, small chin, doninant jawline.

>>39718197
Must be lol.

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I just want to scream my heart out.
I don't know why or for what, it just feels like the thing to do right now.

>>39718205
Honestly you seem like a good guy with really high empathy for people who obsesses about things you did you perceive as mistakes.

The counselor or some of your own research could unearth things from your childhood that would cause you to feel very guilty about small things like this.

You'll figure it out. Hope that helps.

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>>39711398
Why would I? Nobody else does.

>18 and balding
feels bad man

>>39718191

been on tinder for 2 months, swiped right for 90% of girls even if I didn't find them atractive at all, had a grand total of 3 matches, 2 of them didn't react when I started the convo (ugly ones too but hey, I can't complain since I'm not good looking myself) and 1 of them I don't know what to do with yet because I know her and I can't get why she swiped right and I still need to stragesise that

so yeah, dry spells can exist with tinder

although I find myself recently not bothering about dry spells, I don't even masturbate that much anymore

>>39718268
>friar fucking tuck at 15
>routinely get told by shocked people they thought I was like 35 when I was 24
Protip shave it all off now. It never looks good half assed.

>>39718288
mine isn't that bad yet,but the price of finasteride is killing me
>got a prescription for fin
>$78 a month because insurance doesn't cover it

>>39718287
Do you live in a city (1 mil+) of some shithole town?

honestly, I got so into tinder at one point I banged over 50 girls in a town of 100k people in the span of a year. I even bought a program to show me how to do it lmao (actually called the program by jeffy of real social dynamics if you're curious)

Later I had my best streak: 11 girls, 10 days, got a fucking STD and toned it down after that but all of those girls were attractive physically. (No chubs, pretty faces nice figures)
I'm a 5'7 asian with a borderline dyel and mediocre face.

Yes some of these girls were chub but a lot of them I feel like half the people on 4chan would waifu.

Anyway it's not like you just turn the thing on, you can't be an idiot about it.

I have an advantage though, at that time I was doing face to face sales and got extremely good at it.

Sales and seduction are quite similar.

TL DR if you live in a town of 100k + and you aren't getting laid on Tinder, trust me you can if you were better at it.

>>39718307
Finasteride is like $75 for a year supply from alldaychemist.

>>39718307
Lol I remember being 18 and thinking $78 a month was a lot.

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I do love myself. Everyone is always trying to bring me down with their negative energy.

>>39718310
Oh and ya and I can virtually guarantee you're being a dumbass with your profile.

You don't need to brad pitt to get a bunch of matches

I love myself, i just have no love for other people. Other people just complicate life for no damn reason other than stir up drama and problems, i just rather live a quiet life

>>39718310

I live near a city of 500K+

yeah I get that I have to smooth and funny and all that stuff but how can I be smooth and funny if they don't match with me first?

>>39718324

what should be in the profile then?

it's currently empty like most other profiles I've seen

>>39718315
are they safe to order from?seems like a mess to order from there

>>39718349
Dude I got more important shit to do than write a novel on how to seduce women online, but basically:

Quality of the camera
Shallow depth of field
Lighting
And then 9000+ things about what you're doing in the picture and what it conveys

As I said all of that is in the program by jeffy of real social dynamics in gross
detail. Good luck.

>>39716998
Yeah i usually get them to fall for me, then we're incompatible and i blow the relationship up and rinse and repeat.

I have like 4 actual good girls in my life that are willing to do anything to take care of me but i cannot make myself like them so i dont. I chase the attractive whores.

Maybe im blowing it out of proportion cuz im only 23, but i legitmitely want to settle down, but i fant

>>39711398
Grew up as fat kid, got bullied and beaten into a concussion. Couldn't even do a push up, someone pulled my shirt up and all the girls laugh. Now I can do 85 push ups in a row and 13 dead hang pull ups, still self conscious to even wear a tank top in public, a girl told me "nice arms" and I automatically assumed she was mocking me.

>5.5/10 face
>5'11.5'' height
>5.5'' dick
So close yet so far in all respects to being an actual human being.

>My 3plt bench is fake, I bounce a bit to get the weight up.
Also; I'm a terrible human being that has disappointed everyone who believed in me, never showed any initiative or courage (outside of pointless bar-fights and dares that have left me with a lot physical damage that is starting to show with age) and the only way I can be satisfied with a woman is if she lets me abuse and degrade her.

>>39711398
Hard for me to love myself when no one else does.

>>39711398
Because I hate my alcoholism

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I get all of my self worth from validation from others and being cocoon mode doesn't help that

>>39718222
thanks anon, will seek out a counselor

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But I do by being an massive faggot like OP

>>39719191
You are literally just the male equivalent of "I may be dating a bad boy, but I can fix him :)" shit that women do. Your life is a fucking meme. Kill yourself, my man.

>>39717041
Not that anon but even though I know you're not actually a woman, this made me feel better about my balding