How can I stop myself from cumming 5 minutes into sex?

practice

>Stop watching the porn it's killing your self confidence.
>Edge
>Either jack off beforehand or tell her You might cum quickly, then go for #round2

>>39685077
>Stop watching the porn it's killing your self confidence.
impossible

buy condoms that numb your side of the latex. not even kidding
>can last for eternity now
>actually get bored and daydream about random shit mid fucking
>they always finish first now

>>39685027
It's all in breathing and relaxing certain muscles in your hips/pelvis.

fuck ugly/fat chicks

>>39685077
This
Im quick on the first go but round 2 i can go for 20 mins easy

>>39685101
Not gonna make it.

>>39685101
Howso?
I quit watching porn and went from lasting <5 min to 1hr+ if I want.
>still jack off though.

Also quit focusing on cumming or not cumming just focus on having a good time with your partner.

>>39685198
I feel like part of it is in my head. The more I stress about it the faster I cum, whereas if I'm drunk I can last forever when I don't think about it

>>39685027
use a condom

>>39685198

How did quitting change that for you

>>39685027
These days, I don't care about sex. It's not for them to enjoy. It's for me. We already have to do enough for women.

>edge myself before sex
>cum inside them in a minute or 2
>no round two, at least not immediately/when they want it
>get dressed and go back to doing what I want to do

Literally the most detached thing ever. Makes them feel used.

If I actually like someone, I will put in the work and actually have a lengthy session

>>39685198
I got access to a private porn tracker and I don't think I'll ever stop jerking off

>tfw take ages to cum
>don't even always manage to finish

Life is hell.

>>39685027
Attain a bodyfat level of 15%.
Learn how to recognize when you're cumming.
Learn how to Edge. The self mastery you gain from that will be invaluable. But don't make it an everyday thing. You'll ruin your ability to have and enjoy spontaneous orgasms as well as give yourself prostate problems overtime.
Learn None Ejaculatory Orgasms. Same problems as Edging.

>>39685027
Don't. Just cum when you cum then get her off when you're done.

>>39685120
Elliot pls go

>>39685325
And I bet you'll act surprised when you get cucked

What is even the point of spenidng time and money on a woman if you're going to blow your load once, and only in a minute? .

>>39685388
I used to be like that, stopped jerking off completely, got used to just pure penetration and one day boom, massive explosion

>>39685298
Not really sure?

Instead of me being enveloped in the screen my imagination got more vivid.
More focused on the actual fappin.

Then I noticed that I had stopped comparing myself to everyone else.
Became more attentive during sex
Then stopped thinkin " dont cum dont cum dont cum"
Started actually just enjoying the sex.

>>39685124
Sometimes go soft during round 2 and don't know how to get hard at that point

Had the same problem. Today I have to use extra thin condoms, still takes some time for me to cum.

>kegels
>breathing (a major factor)
>slowing down or pull out, change position, make out, give her oral in the meantime
>work on your stamina
>edging
>have more sex so you stop to worry and overcome your performance anxiety

>>39685405
I jack off like twice a week if I jack off at all. Rest of the time I'm seeing my gf

>>39685403
Lmao this definetly some shit he would say

I just go ahead and cum.

I came twice in about ten minutes the other night. Third time I last about an hour. 4,5,6th times I went for about an hour each.

Just chill and do your thing.

>>39685027

Find a loose girlfriend.

>>39685388

Find a tight girlfriend.

I'm not even kidding. My world was completely changed when I found a GF who was actually fit. Her pussy was so tight that I thought I'd put it in her ass by accident. I came every single time.

Other facts:

> Zero queefing. Women always get angry when this is brought up, but if she's tight, no air gets in, no queefs come out
> Zero cum dribbling down my dick when she hops off. Seriously, that tight pussy just squeegeed all that jizz right off my dick, leaving just a mild sheen.

Just cum inside him(or her) and keep going and then pretend to cum later, I do that all the time.

>>39685443
>I came twice in about ten minutes the other night.

Found the diabetic.

>>39685027
Tight grip when you jack off, I've done it for years unintentionally and I can't cum from sex. It sucks but your performance is godly and I can still cum from handjobs and blowjobs

>>39685453
How do you stay hard?

>>39685501
I masturbated dry until recently, not sure if that would be the same

>>39685027
Mother
Fucking
LUBE

>>39685502
Because I'm fit and in my 20s?

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>>39685454
Wtf is the connection with that?
>found the dodo

>>39685511
No idea, I have never used lube when jacking off and I've always tight gripped, maybe that's also part of the reason I can't cum

>>39685284
alcohol has a physical effect, it numbs things

numbs too much for me :(

>>39685027
imagine you are fucking a woman instead of a guy. works wonders.

How to make my dick super hard every time? Sometimes it's a rager and sometimes it's just hard enough.

>>39685558

There's a diabetes medication that, as a side effect, eliminates the refractory period and allows for multiple male orgasms.

A female friend bragged about how her boyfriend could keep fucking and cum several times. I told her she was full of shit.

A couple years later, I read an off-hand comment about it by a diabetic. That's when it clicked, the female friend's BF was diabetic.

I've learned to slow down a good but before I reach the point of no return, also flexing my anus helps for some reason. Slowing down to keep yourself from coming doesn't mean you are keeping her from coming. Honestly if you just keep your penis in her and grind your pelvic region on her clit, that should work, it's worked for me and is minimally stimulating for myself.

>>39685325
Psycho tier

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>>39685027
>He lasts 5 minutes

>>39685325
alpha as fuck

>>39685114
You aren't kidding. They work well but I just get bored after 40 minutes.

>>39685640
Where do I aquire this medication?
>asking for a friend

>>39685421
I stop. Take a break and drink plenty of water and don't think about it for a good 10-15 minutes. I'm usually dehydrated. Just relax and then when you feel yourself really turned on easily you can get hard like you were when you first stated.

>>39685453
You must have the smallest load ever.

>>39685027

Just get her off with your tongue and fingers for 5-10 minutes beforehand then get off as fast as you want

>>39685077
>porn causes premature ejaculation
>porn is more stimulating so it causes you to get ED and not cum in real life

make up your mind, antipornfags

>>39685969
Typically my game plan, usually a bit longer just to extend the length. It is only a problem when she wants to move straight to sex

>>39685398
Thats shite. After climax i dont want to be messing around with her with my pathetic soft dick. Every time she sees it it makes her feel inadequate.

>>39685983
>Implying both cannot be true
>Implying I said either of those things

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Get a gf and watch her gain 25 pounds until she becomes a 5/10 at best 2 years into the relationship

:'')

>>39686036
LMAO

>>39685325
Sociopath

>>39686036
kek cause it's true

>>39685027
Get into a relationship.

Or a niche fetish.

Kegels bro
Or, let me fuck her first. Will make sure she is stretched out and loose as fuck for you.
Probly stick with Kegels

>>39686036
same thing happened to me. recently got broken up with. i loved her but damn take care of your fucking body, you're 21 years old and you should be in your prime ffs

>>39685027
Tell your boyfriend to stop massaging your prostate you massive faggot

>>39685880

No idea. I can't even find what medication it is. I imagine they try to keep that info on the D/L lest every dude start importing the shit illegally.

Search engines have become such utter shit. Good luck finding any information about male multiple orgasm from diabetus medication. You'll get completely irrelevant results that Google "thinks" you want.

>>39685390
>Learn how to recognize when you're cumming.

Knowing when you're about to cum is as natural a breathing... do you have a mutilated dick or something?

>>39686145
The refractory period is largely due to spike in prolactin after orgasm, cabergoline should greatly reduce level and bring the refractory period down to tens of seconds.
iirc viagra also reduces it
If your refractory period suddenly increases or decreases then see a dr

The best tip /fit/ will never give you:

DON'T. Do kegel exercises and learn to control your ejaculate. You can actually, with practice, orgasm and not ejaculate. Since you haven't ejaculated you won't lose your boner and can keep Fucking. This can be done iindefinitely although I've never had more than two orgasms. After the second one all the sensitivity is gone.

>>39686374
I've tried kegels.. not sure if i did them right though

>>39685417

right, sounds like you have psychological issues if I'm being real with you man.

are you one of those guys who migrates for great epiphany to great epiphany without ever fixing their life? instead just hoping there's a simple on/off switch you can flick and you'll magically get on track?

>>39686640
Bruh...Not exactly right but pretty close.

My exact problem is that I can ONLY make decisions with an on/off switch.
But when I finally make a choice I just fuckin smash that shit and never go back.

It's how I "quit" asthma (Long story)
It's how I improved my sexual "prowess"
It's how I made the decision to get /fit/

It's also how I get stuck without progress

How do I fix myself.

>>39685027
Try and think about how your body feels, the physical movements you make. Think about something like how your glutes feel or leg muscles when you do this. "Go into your body" instead of being up in your head. Suddently you will find that you the urge to orgasm is over. Stay in your body and focus on having sex with her until it's appropriate for you to cum.

>>39686710
Im keen for the long story on how you quit asthma. Anything is worth a try i hate this shit.

>>39685027
Jerk off a couple of times, before you get laid.

What is the correct way of breathing to last longer?

>>39685325
Uh oh watch out everyone big tough minute man over here uses women like the sociopathic alpha he is. This is what happens when a one pump chump is lives in deep denial.

>>>39682742

Just cum and then get her off. Go for another round, if you feel like it.

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>>39685027
>How can I stop myself from cumming 5 minutes into sex?
>i'm the only one who thought op's pic was asking this

I have the opposite problem. I can't ever climax with a girl, despite the fact I'm rock hard teh whole time.

>>39686805
>asthma since childhood
>3 different medications to control it
>start swimming athletically
>it improved a little till only any exercise brought it on
>For YEARS always "that guy with the inhaler"
>I hate it...but i need it
>one day decide I'm never using inhaler again.

I promptly had an asthma attack just about every single day I swam for over a year.
I vividly remember collapsing In a shower or on a locker room bench just hoping I didn't die.
Being halfway across the pool and my chest starting to spasm because I can't breathe from one stroke to the next.

Then one day I shit you not...I swam in a meet...no attack, no pain, no rush to where no one can see me.
>nothing
Haven't had an attack since then.

deathgrip for years

>>39686640
How the fuck do you fix something like this?

>>39685124
Nigga when I had a gf and was fucking on a regular basis I would go 20 minutes on the first one 40 on the second 10 of those minutes was her giving me head because she was done and came like 4-5 times.

Now I've been on a dry run ever since I stopped seeing her. Haven't gotten laid since the Past won the Owl. Its like I traded sex for my team winning the owl. Idk if it was worth it or not yet.


Is my stamina gunna be completely diminished when I get laid again or will it come back immediately like riding a bike?

>>39687014
>>39686805
In hindsight it was so fucking stupid but i dont regret it.
I definitely could have died and passed out more than once.
What dumbass thinks you can dissapear asthma.

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>>39685454
Actually I regulate my insulin well. Fast for six hours daily. No carbs until intra and post workout.

>>39686034
u said the first and IP matches with the same shill always posting nofap threads. fuck off already.

>having sex

It's like you don't even want to make it

>>39687109
omg six hours! *gasp*

mightaswell do IF

when i masturbate it's always the flat part of my head that gets insanely sensitive, almost to the point where it hurts

when i get to that point i cant just slow down and wait a second and let the cum subside to prevent cumming, it takes a while for the sensation to die down and i am like three pumps from cumming after i hit this point

what do? I experimented with a condom and the feeling took longer to get to but still the same issue

>>39687147
I mean it's basically IF. 8 hours sleeping plus another 6 fasted while awake. The key is nutrient timing and knowing when to introduce carbs.

>>39685027
change position after 4.5 minutes

>>39687220
well if is 16+. some do 18 some do even 20.
quality of carbs are just as important id say.
btw i hope u dont claim natty

>>39687261
It's important to figure out which carbs work well for you.

>>39685027
do the hokey pokey dance

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>>39685027
>those glowing eyes in the window under the cabinets.

>>39685027
is there a way to permanently desensitize the penis?

>>39687119
False and Inaccurate.
>IP matches
>Being this stupid

I have never posted in a nofap thread.
3/10 because I took the bait

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>>39687357

Do long division in your head

>>39687460

yeah, get circumcised

>>39687526
I am circumsized

>>39685388
Post tits or gtfo

i watch loads of porn and when i had sex one i barely kept my boner and couldnt cum (she wasnt attractive tho) maybe if/when i fuck a attractive girl i wont have this problem?

I have this problem too. If I'm hard I'll cum in 5-8 strokes and if I try not to cum I go soft. Kegels didn't work for me, plus I don't want to hold in my orgasm it doesn't feel good. Just makes me super close and any full stroke will make me cum. Fml. My every other way I'm a total alpha.

>>39685027

> Have sex, cum quickly
wait a little bit
> Round 2 of sex, take longer
wait a little bit
> Round 3 of sex, last even longer

Is this not how it is for everyone?

>>39685404
>>39685686
>>39686083
>>39686945
>being so pathetically beta that you fear about your girlfriend leaving you because you don't let her control sex

off yourselves. people like you are why women hold the upper hand in everything

>>39685027
Get a delay spray with lidocaine, you can find them either online or in chemists/ drugstores and aren't prescription.
Put a couple sprays in about 10 min before sex and let it soak in, experiment to find the right dosage because too little and nothing happens, too much and you won't even feel your dick.
It's not treat g the cause so much as the symptom but it's a start.

>>39687357
>window

that's a microwave breh

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>>39687618

Stop watching porn. I had the same issue, cut out all porn, problem solved. Your brain isn't going to find a "normal" girl arousing when it's used to getting bombarded with bondage gangbangs or whatever. It's the same principle behind getting desensitized to violence.

>>39687064

No one cares.

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You need to breathe into your balls.

>>39687618
watch porn with ugly chicks

>>39685444
Trips of truth. Fit girls are so tight.

>>39685027
This used to be a huge problem for me.
Think about the following during sex
>fucking your beloved childhood dog's corpse
>walking into your yoynger siblings bedroom closet to find them having hanged themself
>your dear mother getting beaten and raped by multiple home invaders, and your father is either being forced to watch or is already dead

This works so well that sometimes I even go soft

>>39687764
I almost solely fap to camwhores masturbating these days. Now what?

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>>39685114
Tried these once, couldn't finish after something like 40 minutes so my girlfriend decided it would be a great idea to yank the condom off and blow me (she knew about the numbing stuff on the inside).

Eventually I came but not before making her mouth all numb from the lidocain stuff that was still on my dick. It was like having pillow talk with fucking Jean Chretien afterwards.

>>39688397
I'm the same way. I pretty much just watch on MFC camgirl masturbate, and there's another amateur one I just found on pornhub who squirts who i watch masturbate too,

>>39685325
alpha

IDK how this wasn't brought up but fap earlier in the day. Every time I do this I last like 20-25 minutes instead of 7-10

>>39685185
this

>>39687764
is there like a set time for how long til this works?

I literally conquered my oneitis and once I had her I could barely get my dick up, it was infuriating. I watch way too much porn though, not even gonna lie.

>>39685027
Escitilopram 10-20mg

>>39685114
I did this and couldn't keep it hard

just work on taking the pressure off of sex; it isn't some wild, esoteric process man. be true to your own needs, and communicate with your partner about theirs. contrary to what you've heard, everyone experiences this at some point or another, so don't be hard on yourself

>we all gonna make it brah

>>39685027
Start slow, and keep going slow until the sensation subsides slightly and you get to a point that you need to pick up pace just to continue. Most girls love slow deep strokes you don't need to furiously ram your penis in and out to make her feel good.

The mistake is to chase the sensation, like it's feeling really good and you can't control yourself so you keep upping the pace, that's why you cum quick. You need to dictate the speed yourself based on what you feel, never fall into the trap of thinking how fast you should be going, there's always time to build up.

Sex doesn't need to last long either. People forget the point of sex and get into this weird mindset that it's a marathon
>bro we fucked for an hour and I had to numb my dick with chemicals to do it
That's not enjoyable; it's not an endurance race, it's supposed to be passionate. It might last a while with foreplay and build up etc, but the actual sex itself doesn't need to last that long to feel amazing for both people (and isn't that the point of why you're slamming your sweaty bodies together?)

>>39688477
Look into ohmybod/ohmibod videos. Particularly littlesubgirl. Shit makes me fucking diamonds.

It's a wifi vibe that goes off every time someone donates

>>39688426
LOL!!

>>39688426
I have a homofag mate who did similar. I couldn't stop laughing when he told me the story.

>>39687067
Power demands sacrifice.

>>39685027
Damn what I'd give to get with a qt3.14159265etc. like that. Moar?

Cumming fast is alpha as fuck. No time wasted, just quick fertilization and onto the next babe. Maximum gene spread rate.

>>39685027
stop fucking as fast as you can, start slower and speed up when your girl is close to cumming, also when you get close to cumming change positions to a position where you feel less and the girl do more work

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>>39687109
You have to do something about your sleeve man, it looks like total dog-shit.

>>39685077
Do pictures of lewd girls count as porn? Nothing hardcore.

>>39685403
he's right

>tfw takes me 30 mins to pop and I'm ready again in 5 mins

some girls get insecure about it and toward the end basically beg me to cum. Feels good man. Last chick I was with we fucked for a few hours because I was pretty drunk, she struggled to walk home in the morning because she was so sore. Again, feels good man.

>>39685120
>>39685403
>>39685433
i thought he meant elliott rodgers

kek

>>39685027
When you're doing it just enjoy it

Dont overthink it and be like "oh my god im having sex fuck it feels so good omgomgomg"

Just let it ride bruv