SO what does making it actually mean?
It's when you fix your personality and start to be happy with yourself but most ppl here just think it's a magic stage of how big you get that makes everyone love you even thow theyre still a whiny douche
It doesn't.
>>39574487
It's when you've become comfortable enough with yourself that your own hang-ups no longer limit your potential. But like this anon said >>39574529 , there are a lot of folks here who think there's a magic number in muscle mass and bodyfat that's going to unleash their inner beast and allow them to pull any girl at any time, slay all the pussy and become the top dog alpha male.
>>39574529
how?
Am I the only one here who feels "making it" is becoming a normie?
I set this goal for myself when I started lifting 5 years ago, to improve my body so I can build the confidence to do other things in life that may help get me closer to becoming a normie.
But after all these years of trying I actually feel like I've ran in the opposite direction. I don't feel like I've made any progress towards becoming a normie, if anything I have regressed. I'm not sure if it's the lifting "lifestyle" that did it, or if it's just my mind coming to the realization that I will never be a normie.
Lately I've been feeling extreme loneliness and social anxiety, two things I expected to go away the older I've become, have actually intensified.
I will die not ever experiencing or understanding the world from view of a well-adjusted normie, this is something I cannot get off my mind and it's becoming increasingly overwhelming for me to deal with as every year goes by.
As a 5+ year lurker on here, I am sorry I let you down /fit/.
>>39574529
I find that being happy with yourself is the hardest thing there is. How do you do it?
>>39574608
post physique
>>39574529
My nigga.
Lifting is just fun and a means of self improvement :)
You haven't made it until you've united all of the West under one global fascist regime and started colonizing other solar systems, populating the myriad worlds of the galaxy with your huge shredded offspring
No one will tell you " you made it"
It only comes from within