Self Improvement General

>>39517011
>start socialising

If you can "just" start socializing you never had any trouble to do so in the first place.

>>39517117
Is it that hard to just go out to a bar with a few friends. Even just get a job and you'll find some colleagues to go with.

Then again, with a defeatist attitude like that maybe you just aren't meant to have friends, a life, happiness etc.

>>39517117
No. I have a hard time socialising due to very strong trust issues and the fact that I actually enjoy being alone, but since I'm not a weak bitch I put myself into social situations and actually talk to people.

>>39517011

You forgot to emphasise the part of this that makes it all possible.

>getting a job

which leads to

>having friends
>getting gf

>>39517224
Well I did put it as the first step for a reason. Getting a job isn't too hard in most countries if you put yourself out there.

>>39517140
yes it is if you have no friends

I've started working out every workday morning and I've been reading Chemistry, Alchemy, and Psychology books for mental gains. I've deleted my Facebook account because I realized all my friends are plebs. I'm trying to be like Tyler Sudden. I'm gunna create a new World iin MY image.

>>39517768
Not sure about the Tyler Durden bit, that's a bit too edgy teen for me, but whatever gets you motivated about improving yourself bro. Good job. At least you're doing something, unlike the sad acts in the rest of the thread, too scared to talk to other people.

>>39517224
No it's cool man I have a job and haven't made any new friend in 3 years. My old friends are increasingly busy with their own life so I barely see them.
No gf either of course but that should be obvious.
It's really not the lack of job holding you back. We were born to be losers, no matter the circumstances.

>>39517787
Thanks Space Monkey