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To fap or not to fap 2016-11-24 18:23:55 Post No. 39502749
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I've used to Jerk off about three times a day.
It got to the point where this is partially the reason I'm still a virgin - I've had girls literally beg me to go home with them, and I didn't because I've killed all intrinsic motivation to get over my fears.
Now since I've reduced my fapping to once every week or two week, I finally have that motivation to try with girls.
On the other hand, it is recenty driving me completely insane. I waste hours each day thinking of nothing else but how to get laid, browding the internet for tips on how to do it, reading stories by people who do etc.
It's gotten to the point where I can't enjoy what I already have, like great friends and a pretty good life overall.
I recently kicked my weed habit cold turkey, started lifting, dancing Salsa, and am exploring other sports currently. I have found no problem with keeping with alle these things in a disciplined manner. But I can't help constantly concerning myself with my virginity, unless I jack off, which makes me regain my patience.
That's my dilemma - I enjoy my newfound courage with girls, but the anxiety and impatience constantly being horny gives me does definitely not work in my favor.
Also, my obsession wastes nearly as much time, if not more, than porn did before, while I currently have more stuff to do than in the entire past year of my life combined.
Anyone else have any experiences with this?
To keep it fitness related:
What's the best way to tell if tere's anything wrong with your squatting form? Looks good in the mirror, but I'm still not sure, and don't want to find out when my first disk plops out.
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>>39502749
>To fap or not to fap
Fap keep off drugs, alcohol as well if you drink, get more sleep if you don't already, work out more/harder than you do now eat more meat/protein and also calm down; quit freaking out and being such a sperg. Keep talking/being interested/ keep it going with women who are interested in you, go out on dates, make good/correct judgements on how they're going and how you're progressing with the girl. If it's going good don't be afraid to get physical, fucking kiss her and if your both alone at your place or her's etc. fug. You have way more things to do/problems that are more important than blaming fapping.
>http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2013/07/no-fap-more-like-no-fucking-way.html
>http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/09/enough-already-sex-and-baddassery-are.html
>http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/09/enough-already-sex-and-baddassery-are_07.html
>What's the best way to tell if tere's anything wrong with your squatting form? Looks good in the mirror, but I'm still not sure, and don't want to find out when my first disk plops out.
>What's the best way to tell if tere's anything wrong with your squatting form? Looks good in the mirror, but I'm still not sure, and don't want to find out when my first disk plops out.
Get help from a personal trainer or more experienced lifter.
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>>39503094
Yeah, you're right.
Probably has less to do with fapping, than the fact that I stopped all my coping behaviours like Weed and vidya and instead decided to get off my ass and do the (uncomfortable) things I have procrastinated for years by now.
I think I'm freaking out so much because the only reason for my current little predicament are my own complacency and cowardice, and I really don't wnt to go back to where I tell myself that everything's going great while I do nothing but sit on my ass all day.
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>>39503094
>getting laid
>not drinking
pick one virgins
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>>39503323
Ofc I'll keep drinking and partying, it's fun.
Now even more since it's also an opportunity to get the wierd warm feeling of having gotten over myself made a move on girls.
But fuck weed for the time being, that stuff makes me paranoid as hell.
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>>39503323
I've gotten laid without drinking. They're not mutually exclusive
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