>8.5/10 in mirror >5/10 in pictures

>>39461372
aww your a cute chick post tits it will make you feel better :)

>>39461377
Bruh...Not Gonna Make It......

I know that feel

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>look normal in the mirror
>look like fucking quasimodo in literally every photo ever taken of me

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>>39461372

i know that awful feel bro

Lets be real here for a moment, you are ugly period.

>>39461432
how do you know you look like that IRL? mirrors can be deceiving too besides, the image is reversed. case in point; wide/skinny mirrors, usually top down lightning which makes you look better than you really do, etc.

it's the same thing with voice. you have 3 different voices; the one you hear in your head, the one you hear when you speak and the one others hear. all of them sound different

you don't know how you look or sound look. the only people that do are others

>>39461372
Same here. I stopped taking progress pictures once I saw how I looked in the first one.

How do I even look in real life? My friends look the same to me in real life and pictures, so does that mean I look awful to everyone in real life all the time and only good to myself in the mirror?

Mirrority mirror on the wall who is the prettiestmost of them diddlyall

>>39461372
that feel is my life

>10/10 in the mirror
> get rated 2/10 on soc and by most girls

This isnt fair i hate you

>flex in dim lit room
>lighting from reflection makes you look 10/10

>flex in a well lit room
>little muscles visible

i literally never take pics for that reason. I just look terrible.

>being a fecebook

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>solid 7/10 in the mirror
>disgusting 4/10 in the same mirror the next day

>>39463358
This

Also, when you looked at yourself through a mirror, you are used to that. When you look at a picture of yourself, it's like a mirror image of what you're USED to look at, naturally you see imbalances and assymetric features much more exaggerated.

Good news: people see you the way you see yourself in the mirror, it's only your brain getting puzzled by the image, also cameras tweek a lot away

Regular cameras have angled lenses, it distorts the image from close range. If you ever got a pic taken with an expensive professional camera you'll notice you look well in it

>>39463488
This. A shitty camera will change all your face ratio to make you look bad.

>start lifting
>quit 90% of all the shitty food I eat
>suddenly look not retarded in pics
Feels fucking great, and it's only just begun

How do I make good pictures of myself?

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>>39463488
dubs tell the truth
Always looked better in professionally taken photos and they look worlds better than any selfie I've taken with my phone. But that could also be partially because of the shooping involved. You never know.

Just don't let pictures have much sway over your self esteem is all I can say. Your personality can go a truly incredible way of changing the way you look (even physically) to people around you. It's true.

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>>39461402
This

>>39463822
Put your face in front of light. Do not place the camera in front of your nose, but higher. Keep q maximum distance between you and the camera.

>>39461372
>>39461393
>>39461432
>>39461548
>>39461630
>>39461683
>>39463374
>delusion
If you're ugly in a picture, you're just ugly. Deal with it, pathetic fucks.

>Girls tell me im attractive.
>Look into Mirror look attractive.
>Take picture of my face.
>Hideous,Deformed and disgusting.

Some people say that it is the camera lens. But i think it is the Matrix playing games with me.

>>39463915
I think you're just ugly. People will more often than not lie if the truth is "uncomfortable", f.x. telling someone they're ugly.

other people see you as a mixture of your mirror self and your photo self.
And different people pay more or less attention to different features.

>>39463915
Nah man, there is such a thing as being photogenic and camera aware. Learn your angles. As a general rule, tilt your chin slightly down and if you have a decent jawline slightly askew of the camera line

I know that feel. The good thing is, people see you as you see yourself in a photo all the time, so they're used to it. However, you see yourself in the mirror more so obviously seeing yourself in a photo which is flipped will be kinda weird.

>tfw so insecure I haven't had a picture taken of me for years

I only do selfies now and then.

don't worry lads. some people just photo badly. my last ex told me that if i look like i look in photos in real life, she'd have never talked to me.

>side = Ryan gosling
>front = Steve Buscemi
why

>tfw you know why this is but csnt be bothered to explain it for the millionth time

eurghh

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>see myself in mirror after waking up
>feel good
>few hours later
>see myself in surveillance camera TV at a store
>entire week is instantly ruined

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>8/10 in the mirror
>5/10 in photos
>0/10 in her eyes

6/10 in mirror
5/10 irl
4/10 in photos

end me

>>39464873
why does this pepe want to kill himself, he is strong as fuck

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>>39463438
Now I feel much better. Thanks anon.

>>39463438
T-thanks

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Why do I have ptosis in pictures but I can't see it in the mirror?
I can barely see it on the phone screen until the image gets flipped after I take it. It's less noticeable in the selfie camera, but my back camera is busted so I can't demonstrate.
What do I even look like to strangers? I only noticed this when I was 22 and got a smartphone, I don't know if I've been like this all my life, nobody told me in that case.

it's the other way around for me senpai. i always look worse in mirrors

>>39465194
Hi friend, I'm similar. I always wondered "why the fuck do I look so stupid in pics but not the mirror?" I eventually realized my left eye drooped, and my doctor did say I have ptosis.

I think something to do with mirrors showing us how we want to see or some shit, and so when we see ourselves in pics, we see our flaws.

Both my general doctor and optometrist said it's not noticeably visible, so u good

>>39465236
Same here. I've noticed I've got a bit of that Ryan gosling droop shit that he has. It's all good tho. I seem to be the only one who notices this. Not even my optometrist or the folks who adjust my glasses noticed.

There's a girl in one of my classes whom I noticed had the gosling thing going on as well and she's still really cute. These minor things we notice and hate about ourselves or feel indifferent or bad about actually make us more endearing to others. We just have to keep reminding ourselves.

>>39463374
People looks the same from one day to another. Shit like this needs to be only in our heads.

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>>39463488
Case in point.

>look in the mirror, huge arms
>look down, theyre fucking tiny

>>39463488
>>39465818
Damn
Really makes you think

>>39465818
Which one is most realistic?

>>39465869
still uggo friendo.

>>39465887
What did he mean by this?

>>39465885

Trick question -- Eye's and mirrors aren't real

>>39465885
which one do you think, retard?

the one that is a reasonable distance away and unfocuses on the background, or the one doing the fisheye perspective making her head looks bulbous and even keeping the background in focus

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>look kind of normal in mirror
>face curved like a fucking banana in photos
>look kind of OK from front on
>shit tier profile

jdimsa

>>39465895
/FIT/ BTFO

>>39465844
This

>>39463488
Also if you're using the selfie camera, try switching to 4:3. Some phones can't handle the 16:9 and it makes your face look extra weird.

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If you were to meet a clone of you one day, you wouldn't be able to recognize it. That's how inaccurate your perception of yourself is.

>>39464687

>tfw your left side is the hotter one

>>39465844

>look in mirror, huge dick
>look down, average

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>tfw jew nose
Fuck you, I can't do anything about it, no matter how much I lift it will never go away, and will always obscure the sun for me.

>>39467287
>look in mirror, small dick
>look down, above average/dig bick.
wuuut

>>39467301
>rhinoplasty

>look like 4/10 in the mirror
>2/10 in photos
>all my girlfriends and female friends say I'm an 8, 7 minimum

What the fuck even is my life?

>>39461372
I have read about this before and there are a million reasons why this can happen:
1. you're just ugly
2. you always make a weird face because you don't know how to pose for a photo
3. we're not used to seeing ourselves from other angles so it immediately feels wrong
4. the face we see in the mirror is a mirror image, i.e. right is left, left is right. in a photo this is switched up and we freak out.
5. you're using a smart phone or something equally shitty to take your photo

there are more, possible reasons, but I don't remember them all

>>39467375
friends lie but you are not hideous. I bet u r around 5-6 right now. work on ur confidence.

>>39467375
look at what kind of women you get a positive reaction from. I don't necessarily mean dating, I mean when you meet new women and instantly see that you've piqued their interested.

>>39467387
>1. you're just ugly

The sad thing is that 9 out of 10 times its this one.

Open up facebook right now and go to a good looking girl's profile. Good looking people still look good when they have bad pictures of them taken. Thier features dont change just because someone has taken a photo from a strange angle. Unfortunately your face is most likely the problem.

>>39467375
this

>sometimes think i look good in the mirror but i rate myself a 4/10 and don't consider myself attractive at all

>go to orthodontist to consult about getting braces
>she's a 40 yo milf qt
>at one point she says i'm a good looking guy in a sincere way
>hmm ok shes just being overly nice so i give her my business

>go out on a social with one of the uni societies
>one girl in our group
>out of the blue she says she knows 3 girls who she can set me up with if i'm interested

maybe i'm actually pretty good looking and just have shitty self esteem, still khv at 21

>>39467432
>The sad thing is that 9 out of 10 times its this one.
no, it's definitely not 9 out of 10 times. I've heard lots of people say they look good in mirrors, but that they hate how they look in photos. I don't think any of them have actually been ugly. The people who're truly ugly can tell that quite easily from their mirror image.

> Thier features dont change just because someone has taken a photo from a strange angle.
you're missing the point here. the point is that you look you look different from what you're used to and your brain freaks out. other people are used to seeing you that way so they don't get the same reaction.

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>>39467465
Its probably better than the alternative:

>Spend early teen years thinking I'm ugly as fuck
>Have a clear idea of how I hope to look one day
>Mature and grow
>I look exactly how I always wanted
>Honestly blown away by my own beauty
>Haven't had sex since mid 2014
>Haven't even kissed a girl since the day before New Years Eve
>The last time a girl complimented me was in April
>I had to just say "thanks" and walk away quickly because she was about 14

>Now walk around in a constant state of confusion
>Pic related has become my permanent expression
>Don't even get mired from a distance any more

I don't know what happened.

>>39467432
I think it's often just our own perception. I've taken selfies and such with girls where they look great but when we look through them they're like "omg why am I so ugly, that's not going on facebook!" even though they look completely fine.

It's mostly self esteem and we want to look like models and actors we see on TV and in magazines and are disappointed when we don't, even though we all know a lot of effort has been made to make them look good (lighting, proper cameras, make up, photoshop etc).

I used to hate having my photo taken but when I went to uni it became impossible to avoid and now I've seen 1,000+ photos of myself Im pretty comfortable with how i look. Though it's still weird how different I look in the mirror compared to most photos taken of me.

>>39467572
>be 16
>feels bad, because everybody says they had sex and stuff
>girls start being interessted in you
>get always the girls which you want
>drop it after a few month and get a new
>all girls are into you
>build up a huge self esteem

>3years later
>cant talk to girls anymore
>8+/10 girls arent interessted anymore
>some ugly fat bitches are interessted
>too proud to go down with a girl below 7/10

This struggle is real for 2 years now and i dont know why.
Even getting /fit/ couldnt change it.

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Delusion: the thread

>>39467432

you're way more brutal when appraising your own photos

you notice every fucking nitpicky detail, every wrinkle, mark, hair tuft, because you're used to noticing them because most people are naturally discerning of their own appearance

when was the last time you looked at anyone elses photo and bothered to actually analyze it in such detail

Those women on facebook with good photos?
I'd bet 95% of them searched through about a thousand old photos of them and tried taking another 500 that night before settling on one they liked enough to post

>>39467301
i know that feel all too well, anon

just have to embrace it, and grow a beard

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>feel not shit for once
>accidentally see my profile in the mirror
>feel like killing myself

>look a solid chiseled aesthetic face from the front
>look like a fucking deformed potato from the sides

REEEEEEEEEE

>>39465885
50mm is generally agreed on by photographers for faces

>I think i look fairly ok, like a 6 or 7/10 but dyel
>My whole life has pretty much been compliant with this fact
>start job at restuarant
>All of a sudden every girl there thinks i'm a solid 9/10
>get called muscles, and a girl told me i'm all muscle
>still completely dyel
>dont know if i should believe them or if i'm just the best looking guy there because i'm not a high school drop out in his 30s

>looks shit in mirrors
>looks shit on photos
>even my father says i am ugly
atleast i know how i look like

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>>39467831
>because i'm not a high school drop out in his 30s

>Hadn't even thought about this ever
>That is literally what I'll be in 2 and a half years

a-at least i s-still lift

>>39461372
Do none of you understand the difference between 3d and 2d?
What you see in the mirror is exactly how other people see you in real life, only mirrored.
Look in the mirror and alternate between closing left and right eye. Do the same while looking at a photo. Notice how you see yourself from different angles in the mirror, but the you in a photo just moves from left to right.
In real life people see a 3d version of your face because their brain combines what the left and right eye see and does some magic.

Disregard this if it's a one-eyed pirate looking at you.

>>39467845
I'm sorry anon i didnt mean to hurt you

>>39463488
>>39465818
anyone got that gif of a shot of a beach that zooms back and forth between close up and far-away-but-zoomed-in?

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>>39467875
>>39465818
>>39463488
nvm, googled for five seconds

now imagine this is your face

Focal points guys, mirror is more or less what you look like but reversed where as pics are flat images taken at different focal points. Selfies are the worst.

>>39467301
>tfw small pig nose
Fuck you, I can't do anything about it, no matter how much I ilft it will never go away, and will always make me look like an ugly pig

>>39467787
Hahah this. I always look in the mirror and feel pretty confident then I see a pic someone took from the side and I look so bad. Same when you're at the hairdressers and at the end they show you the back and sides and I end up leaving wanting to jump off the nearest bridge.

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When you look like me you look like shit in everything. Mirrors pictures real life everything lol

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>tfw have been told my nose ruins my face

>>39467862
This

Find the widest, 90 degree-est fucking mirror you can and stand in the middle and step back from it until you can see all of your torso to your hips (the further, the more accurate).

That is how you look in general. When you look up close, you only focus on the parts of your face you like. This also obscures your peripheral vision so you can't really focus on your overall face all at once.

Round mirrors make your face round and short, long narrow mirrors make your head look elongated. In short, get a big-ass mirror.

>>39468022
Atleast your white, if I knew ya irl I'd help ya get a hwhite gf

>>39468022
I'd spot your bench and maybe let you finish in me senpai, you're not bad looking

>>39467301
lmao get lost

>>39468156
I'm not white I'm Jewish

Ive been told that has to be clarified

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>>39468191
I'm not even Jewish, but I got mistaken for a Jew a couple of times already because of it.

>>39468195
Oy gevalt, you're handsome

no ones face is perfectly symmetrical so when you see a photo of yourself it looks fucked compared to what you see in the mirror

But the face in the photo is what everyone else sees and they are all used to it

Iktf though

>>39468239
thanks for the laugh

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>>39468306
DELET THIS

>gf a literal 9/10 from a frontal view
>6/10 sagittal view

>>39467788
Photoanon here.

The longer the telephoto (i.e. in this set 165mm), the better it is for portraits. Most photographers don't do anything less than 85mm for portraits, but it honestly depends on how much space you have to work with (i.e. indoors you can't use a big telephoto lens).

It's because the mirror is flipped and the photo is not. In photos is how you look irl.

>>39468740

>what you look like on a shitstain phone camera in a stupid angle with bad distance doing a selfie shows how you look irl

spot the retard guys.

Photos done by a competent professional (ie 500$+ an hour with a 3k dollar camera + equipment) is what you would actually look like.

>>39468779
I thought that was what we were talking about you idiot.
OP didn't state phone selfie, just photos.

If you look bad in a pro photo, you look bad IRL.

BTW, as someone previously said, notice how beautiful people are beautiful on "bad" selfies too? It's because they look good all the time, not just in the mirror.

>>39465900
Jaden pls

It's just in your head because when you see yourself in the mirror, it's reversed to what you see in a picture and that subconsciously upsets you.

>>39468022
Get a nice haircut, shave, fix eyebrows and lift. Solid 7/10

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>walking around store lit with white LED light
>pass by a rack of glasses
>catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirrors

>>39469040
thick jew hair, can't really get a good haircut

but i like having some facial hair, i look even worse without it

my eyebrows have character right?

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>tfw hair thinning
>walk in store
>led lights stronk
>look in reflection
>Can see my scalp, almost like i have no fucking hair at all


I really want to die, Pretty sure i had ringworm of the scalp and i ignored it for 2 years because "lol whatever its just scabs it might be from something natural"

Now i have bald spots where the scabs/flaky skin showed up and apparantly this shit is permanent if you don't fix the ringworm asap


I want to die senpai.


Will japanese girls ignore me if im bald? i can get a tan if that helps

SLUTHATE.

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>tfw good balance of masculine/feminine features (big lips, strong chin/jawline, etc.)
>strong hair-line/thick hair (both father and Grandfather had full heads of hair)
>6'1" and still growing
>good frame, still dyel but dad and grandfather both had barrel chests
>6" at best
WYH COULDN'T I JUST HAVE A FUCKING MONSTER DICK OR AT LEAST A 7 INCH I WAS SO FUCKING CLOSE TO CHADMODE

>>39469885
autistic underage faggot fuck off

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>>39468022

Ever thought about not living horizontally?


Seriously though, you look fine. I mean, you can do with a clean shave, and the eye brows could use a bit trimming, but other than that, you're passable at the very least.

As for me, I've been compared to a toad before, so I at least know where I stand. Pic related, middle of bulk.

>>39467572
I had this exact problem. I guess I just always feel the world is out to get me and I compare myself to everyone. Ever since I was around 15 or so I've always thought that I never looked that great. But then after every few years I would look back at older pictures and realize it was all in my head and I don't look bad at all. Rinse and repeat every few years.

>>39470012
ive actually been insulted in my life though. get called an elf, lizard (big eyes), etc

>>39470088

Let me ask you this.. Were the ones who called you that Jewish like you? Either way, I don't see anything wrong with you. It just sounds like some are just grasping at straws looking for something that would sting.

>>39463904
Not true most of these guys have incredibly low self-esteem

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>10/10 from a distance girls mire and talk to me
>get close 6/10 freckles/skin marks
>ew

I got like the faye regan appearance

>>39470161
they were just anyone

what difference does it make if they were jewish or not

>>39463904
actually some faces transcribe to pictures than others. Since it's a 2d image capturing a 3d scene it has to change things and some faces work better than others

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>>39465818
I've always enjoyed looking at this shit.

>>39470514
You have a gross warty vagina?

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>>39470543

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>>39464954
>Her
there are over 3.5 BILLION women on the planet bro. A lot of them are straight and attractive and single. We're all going to make it I swear to God.

Every single person this board has either already made it or is going to make it.

>>39466961
Really makes you think

>>39470562
>Every single person this board has either already made it or is going to make it.

are you joking, or just delusional?

>>39470560
>>39470543

cellphones have a focal length of like 35mm (and thats the expensive top end ones at that).

so remember that your selfies are definitely downgraded compared to a proper distanced/angled/lighted 50mm professional camera.

>>39467387
>2. you always make a weird face because you don't know how to pose for a photo
this

>>39464687
Watch Drive and be full Ryan Gosling.

Mirrors lie to you. Sight is based on memory. I've always wanted to record myself on video just doing normal things to see what I really look like, but I never got around to doing it.

wtf is this shit? in the mirror, i have a huge nose and big fat lips, and no jaw
but in pictures i suddenly become normal and almost even handsome

i think it's because i stare at myself in the mirror and focus on all my flaws desu

If u wanna see your "real" face just use two mirrors. Problem solved. You'll see it's quite similar to normal mirror but often your hair or something small will look more silly. That's why I always use 2 mirrors to check myself before I go out

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I got a deviated as fuck septum so i avoid pictures at all costs, that and i just hate pictures in general. Can never look natural in them because i always get that autistic attack about someone taking a picture. Then make a dumb face or look like im in a KGB show trial or something. As you can see from this pic, i aligned my nose to look straight but you can tell from my ears that is crooked af.

If you want to see yourself for who you really are, visit sluthate.

If you want to talk to the girls, you'll have to come inside and meet them.

Dances start at ten pounds.

Go to Chicago. Sluthate.com

>>39461377
confirmed never making it

>>39467432
You're referencing facebook to see good looking people still looking good even in bad pictures which isn't always accurate. Due to facebook being social media, in general people only post their good pictures. Would you upload an ugly picture of yourself? you might but still, a lot of people do things to their photo to make themselves look better. Just don't fully trust photos, especially nowadays.

>>39467663
Well you seem to put too much emphasis on the physical aspect of attraction. You can be ugly and still be super attractive. Work on building your self-esteem by discovering more about yourself. The more comfortable (happy) you are with yourself, the more it shows itself through your confidence that's on display.

As to how getting fit can help, I'd say it definitely can. I'm speaking from personal experience so your experience may differ. Seeing my body at low bf% is pretty damn nice, it actually arouses me when I see my body in the mirror. This translates to higher self-esteem (valuing myself more) Lifting also releases feel-good chemicals which is also nice for helping you feel more comfortable in your own body.

I know it's hard to believe anon, but have faith that attraction goes deeper than just one's physical looks. You've seen uglier but confident guys than you get good looking girls right?

>>39470524

Could be people being anti semitic and picking you off for your jew features.

>>39470012
You guys need to chill. You look like an in shape dude with a bit of lordosis. You aren't ugly / a toad. Girls would love that body.

>>39470537
>actually believing this
you're ugly, m8, accept the role you were given at birth

>>39470543
somewhere around 85-100 is the best focal length for a portrait, even 50mm distorts the face horribly (making ears appear smaller) and that's why most people look ugly as fuck in combination with the tones and colors poor lighting will produce. just don't take a wide angle close up of your face and be surprised if you look like one of those cock nosed high elves from the elder scrolls

>>39463855
this picture made me laugh a lot harder than I should have

>>39466961
woah really makes u think doesnt it

>>39470560
so which one is how he looks in RL

>>39472656
fuck me too

>>39472537
>Not understanding how Lighting and 2-Dimensional imaging works.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sgpeoWpO9w

>>39470560
20mm turned him into a psyker

>>39472704
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFeUrC2gR30

>>39468817
Beautiful people don't upload bad selfies.

>>39461372
>4.5 in mirror
>2.5 in pictures

>>39470562
Not the anon you replied to, but thanks fella.

>>39472034
>on the physical aspect of attraction
Its the only point of attraction i know of myself.

> You've seen uglier but confident guys than you get good looking girls right?
Yes... ;_;

First time in my life i see little bit of my abs it feelt just not enough, nothing feels enough, i have to be always better than my actually self, my ride seems like a never ending story.

>>39467412
>look at what kind of women you get a positive reaction from.
what information am i supposed to glean from this?

>>39472034
>Work on building your self-esteem by discovering more about yourself. The more comfortable (happy) you are with yourself, the more it shows itself through your confidence that's on display.
i see this posted alot. How the fuck do you even accomplish this? "start loving yourself" fucking HOW?

>>39461372
10/10 irl
8/10 in photos
i guess i'm pretty lucky

>39470991
i've thought about doing this too, but i am fucking TERRIFIED of what i will find out when i watch the footage. I'd rather live in permament ignorance

>>39476207
>>39470991

>4/10 in mirror
>girls irl find me attractive for some reason
>post a face pic on soc expecting to get roasted, get all 7's-9's

Man wtf is wrong with me. Do I have face dysmorphia or some shit?

>>39476280
Post face

>>39467769
>>accidentally see my profile in the mirror
You got your eyes on the side of your head like a fish or something? Shit I ain't never seen my fucking profile but I wish I could seee my strong jaw from the side

>>39476280
fuck off you humblebragging piece if shit

>>39475168
>my ride seems like a never ending story.
Welcome to life friendo

>>39465818

These all look exactly the same, the only difference is her moving her head around

>>39476938
Naw I'm good pham. I already feel like I've sullied myself by posting it on /soc/.

>>39478952
Not trying to humblebrag, it seems to be the opposite of what everyone else in the thread experiences so I thought it was worth mentioning.

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>>39461372
>first time seeing yourself in a huge 3-way mirror at a clothing store
>losing the rest of self-confidence

>>39470725
>cellphones have a focal length of like 35mm
Absolute majority are ~24-28mm

>>39480413
im talking about cell phone cameras not your penis

>>39480182
How the fuck can those all look the same to you?

>>39476129
Well when I said that, it was a broad statement. This means that discovering more about yourself ranges from so many things, it's not some specific answer. I'll try and elaborate on what I meant by it though. Primarily I mean find things that make you happy. Try and ignore any expectations you've gathered from others and just focus on what makes you happy (ex. everyone hates on justin bieber here, the question is does his music make you happy? Have you given it a try and found out for yourself whether you like his music or not?) That's a key component there, is to try things on your own and see how you like it because what I like, you may not like. So you can't fully trust my experience, you need to experience things on your own and see how you react to things. This is how you start forming your own opinions/beliefs, choosing to believe in something even though other people don't. This is important because these are your very own feelings/thoughts. If you aren't comfortable with coming up with ideas on your own and rather rely soley on what others have to say, that hints at low self-esteem. It's suggesting you don't believe in yourself, your intelligence, your ability to come to your own conclusions. So go find things that make you happy.

You're asking how do you love yourself? Well how would you love someone you're in a relationship with? Everything you would do to "love" someone else, do it to yourself (except the obvious intimate stuff) You want to surprise your bf/gf with something special? Well surprise yourself with something special. You get the idea, all that love you have to give, give it to yourself.

Idk if I helped at all but it's what I could think of on the spot. You can always resort to google