Another Feels thread

>>39441872
I'm sorry for your loss anon

thats the ebb and flow of life friendo, sorry for your loss but you must continue to break pr for auntie

>>39441872
Sorry for your loss, OP.

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>>39441872
>be me
>meet cute girl in school
>fall in love
>so does she
>get motivated and get fit
>one day to another I never see her agian
>I don't know what happen to her
>been months now
Pretty faces can ruin your hapinessy

Sucks for you, faggot.

>>39441963
Lol no cell phone?

>>39441980
I just recently got a phono,not everybody comes from a first world country bruh

>Been struggling with some things but I have been thinking about doing something for a month or so now

Want to start teaching anonymously online, mostly thinking about getting a website where we can video chat on a weekly basis discussing specific training materials etc..
This in a way keeps me in top shape in the IT field and this would help me give my knowledge to other people online, Sadly, I do this at work and look at my life and think I should really be helping other people learn about this field, this knowledge and this path in life...

Sorry for your loss, anon. It's a natural, inevitable part of life

>>39441872
sorry for your loss anon, i lost a loved one recently too, iktf

>>39441872
I'll repeat what another anon said a long time ago. Grief is like going through a forest of trees. You'll go through the same places multiple times but eventually you'll get out of it. I read this a year after my dad passed away and it helped me. I hope it can help you too. Sorry for your loss anon.

>>39441963
she's getting pounded by some dick

I'm so sorry man. Dont hold back those emotions, let them out, have a good cry, and move on with your life. Always be there for the rest of your family too

>>39441872
>Broke 2 PRs today.

Feels good to be a dyel.

>August 2016
>Smash PRs left and right, 245 bench, 425 skwat, 500 diddle
>get mono
>lose almost 10 lbs
>finally feel better, start lifting again
>GF of 4 years leaves me
>lose motivation in school; waste hours on pointless vidya ; gym is all that keeps me sane, but I'm weak as fuck compared to August me
>finally getting close to happy with where my lifts are
>acquire monster cold, out of commission for another week, lose another 5 lbs.
>lifts are shit again

The silver lining, I guess, is that my bench has not gone down much at all, so I am slightly less of a T-Rex.

>>39441872
... but you got the PR though right?

>fat gf dumped me .. because I'm cutting and now I weigh less than her.

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>>39442504

>not 3

Was she hot?

>>39442991
>beating him to the punchline mentality

Why do girls do this? To look like the victim of some chauvinistic crime?

>>39441872
>be lifting Tuesday
>Squat 8 reps and give up cause tired and a pussy and didn't eat much so no energy
>go today
>3x5 with 30 pounds more than I was working with last sesh
>go home
>still joke about killing myself with my roommate even tho im kinda getting serious about it

She couldn't watch you lift from home. She can now. Assuming she didn't go to hell.

Lift for her, OP.

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imagine if every time op broke a pr from now on someone close to him died

>Friend who hasn't worked out in years and is fatter than me starts gyming with me
>Passes me up on all lifts in a few weeks

What is the science behind fatty people being able to lift more? I understand deadlifting, leverage and all that.
But bench? OHP? Squat?

Does the fat act as a stabilizer? Yes they have some muscle from carrying all that weight all the time, but that can't be all there is to it.

>>39443265

Better leverages and usually more muscle from having to carry around all that weight for years. That latter bit can be a big difference in untrained people - the fat guy might well be carrying a lot more muscle relatively speaking.

>>39441872
The Greek Gods of Fitness give, and the Greek Gods of Fitness take away

>forced to work around and with my crush for 6+ hours per day 6 days a week
Shit is messing with me, brahs. I'm considering hopping on gear so I can workout 3 hours per day every day so I'm too exhausted to get these feels

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had my first kiss last week.

skeleton, gone from 165 lbs to low 180s while at college so far. the girl kept trying to grab my phone and i would grip it and she couldn't get it out of my hand, it was like a playful game but she commented on how "strong" i was

also she put her hand on my bicep

feels good man

>>39441872
You shouldn't have deadlifted

>>39441872
Was your aunt childless?

>>39443332
>being on gear makes you less horny

Laughinggirls.jpeg

>>39443763
>also she put her hand on my bicep
did she say "solid"?

Work got new uniforms. I hesitantly picked a small because I know that's my size but my self perception hasn't caught up from being a fat fuck my whole life. Turns out the small is too big.
>good feels

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>tfw jerked off to pictures of my exgf this morning, and the past few nights too
I think I'm getting over her but then I get into bed and she becomes the only thing I can think of.
It doesn't help that I've literally been having dreams about her for this whole week.

Somebody kill me.

>>39441872
Did she drop any good loot?

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>>39444040
>cut all contact with my first love 10 years ago
>married and happy now
>still think about her

You can't get off mr. Bones' Wild Ride, anon, you can't.

>>39442165
Whatcha work on anon? I do some c++ but never felt like I wanted to teach others.

>>39443265
When you gain weight without training, a lot of it is fat but some of it is still muscle. The proportions are shit, but it means that some fairly overweight people will be a bit stronger than someone with a healthier bodyfat percentage that also doesn't train.

Being a disgusting piece of shit has it's benefits.

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>>39441872
That's what you get for breaking PRs. You'll learn your lesson eventually.

>>39443895
What kind of gear?
I thought test put you in sex overdrive.

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>>39441872
Sorry guy but I was rigged up after my daddy wont he presidency and I couldn't see both ways.

>>39442002
congrats on getting a phone bro, hope you like it

>>39444157
>tfw he will fuck more girls and have qt-er wife than you

>passed out after deadlift all alone in the gym, scared that no one was around if something serious happened to me
>anxiety to ever try to deadlift again

just kill me

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>failing my classes
>hate my major
>dropped/failed a few already
>been in college way too long
>feel like I'm never gonna finish


Has anyone here failed/dropped out of college? How is life treating you since you dropped?

>>39444252
1st year of uni (engineering, eurofag so bo major/minor bullshit) with every passing day I'm becoming more certain that I made a wrong decision, I just don't have any motivation for it
I'm 90% sure that I'll drop out and sign in to kinesiology next year, at least there I'll have a drive to study, sine it's related to fitness and what not
Wish me luck brahs

>>39444252
just dropped out of chem eng this year probably gonna join army academy and do civil eng in 2018

Just a reminder /r9k/ers will come up with elaborate stories just so they can post their meme pictures and collect (You)s.

Report /r9k/.

>>39443248
Well there's only one way to know

>>39443265
you've got it backwards, being fat is advantageous for the bench and squat but disadvantageous for the deadlift (makes your setup worse)

if you look at raw SHW powerlifters their deadlifts are very close to or even below their squat, in the lower weightclasses this is almost never the case

also he could just be more genetically gifted than you

>>39441872
> working arms
> girl say "you not big"
> sadness

>finally break 500lbs squat
>stab myself making a sandwich

>>39444983
>Make a lot of money
>Still living paycheck to paycheck
>Savings has been standstill
>Unexpected costs keep coming up
>Pre workout and proton powder too expensive to buy now.

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>get home from workout feeling sick as fuck
>spend the entire night throwing up while not getting any sleep
>go for a fart and shit my pants
>only eaten 2 apples in the last 18 hours
>tfw about to cry because im scared im losing all my gains on this shit

>>39445273
>go for a fart and shit my pants
ahahaha i know this feel

>>39444169
kek

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>>39444123
>never felt like I wanted to teach others.

Than you're not a master at your craft

All I want to do is teach, discuss the study material and go over advanced configuration challenges, projects,and new ideas for properly building something...

>>39444840
Mate just finish it, a degree in engineering is worth it. You can go do loads afterwards

>>39443099
Friendo, dont kill your self. I convinced my self to do it and as that mortal coil was slowly shifting someone found me.

They couldnt live what tjey had seenand successfully killed themselves and then their partner couldnt live without them.

I knew none of these people but yet my shitty selfish actions tore someones heart in half and damaged their kids.

>>39442991
>tfw never fucked a girl lighter than me
Not a chubby chaser, just a turbomanlet

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>I'm graduating from college and moving to Chicago
>tfw I'm losing my lifting bro and best friend

>>39448828
only reason I had friends through college was through living together freshmen year. Literally hung out with the same 3 buds I met all through College. Idk how to make friends, just acquaintances

>>39448828
Lift with me in Chicago breh
I'll introduce you to Ed Coan

>>39448853
See you there in January brah, know any good gyms in the city? Was looking to live like west loop, maybe north east logan square ish if I can afford it.

>>39448869
Logan Square is okay desu chum, not nearly as bad as it used to be.
Hit up Parts & Labor as soon as you get there. 10/10 burgers.
Depends what kinda lifting you wanna do. There's plenty of commercial places but Rock Hard Gym (no homo) in Logan Square is awesome. Proper old school dungeon style place

>in my dreams she's mine
>let 'em come true

>>39449061
Will do. I've had 2 internship in Chicago and met my gf there so I'm familiar with the areas and decent places to hit up. I'm a pretty big fan of au cheval and kumas corner as well, the black sabbath burger at kumas is bomb af.

I'm not a serious power lifter or anything, just trying to no look like shit. 6'2" - 200, 2 pl8 working weight bench, 300 working squat, but I'm usually not a huge fan of the commercial atmosphere. Can't complain about some of the eye candy tho

>>39441872
She wasn't gonna make it brah

>>39449169
Ayyyyy Kumas is fucking GOAT breh
I'm not entirely sure about West Loop/Logan area, I lift at B&W in Edgewater. There's a gym on literally every corner here though so just shop around. I managed to milk months or free trial memberships out of gyms when I first moved down

>>39447563
please be true
Finishing my civil eng degree this December. Job hunt has been rough af, I specialized in rail (which is down right now) so my sub specs. were construction management and transportation design

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>>39443501
>work with my crush
>she always hang out with my dyel coworkers
Fuck my ugly face.

>>39449298
Looks a little packed from the pics, but got all the good shit - mold included.

Yeah just hope I can find something decent. Last summer I lifting out at Rauner Family YMCA. Hood as fuck out there, so I was like the only white guy and it was mainly high school mexicans curling

>Fucking depressed as shit
>Drink every night
>Severe anxiety
>Haven't had sex in months
>Shit is starting to interfere with my school work
>Outwardly noticeable now to my friends
>Withdrawn socially

The daily rush of endorphins from lifting is pretty much the only barrier between putting a gun in my mouth.

>>39441872
>Cutting off contact with friends
>Having periods of irritability and random energy spikes through the day and night
>Worrying I may lose all my friends through not talking to them for 2 months alongside worrying about possibly feeling worse
But at least my bench session went well today

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>date my ex and bestfriend of 5 years for 2 years
>break up because of outside factors we couldn't do anything about at the time
>ex and I have been weird for 6 months
>she gets another boyfriend
>tfw spirit is broken and gains go to shit
>she sends me a long message telling me to not blame myself and our relationship wasn't horrible and she is sorry about how much she is hurting me
>tfw realized I wasn't going to swoop in and get her back
>told ex that she should block me on everything
>tell her we'll talk again one day
>tfw we were both crying on the phone
>don't know what if we will be together again one day or if I'll find someone better
>tfw motivated by the uncertainty of the future

I don't think I ever loved someone like I loved her, but I'm trying my best to move forward from moping around doing nothing.

Currently
>trying to puruse another girl right now to see if my ex was really the one (also I'm not going to wait around for her while she gets dicked and I don't get my dick wet).
>lifting and eating again
>picked up MMA classes
>socializing more

I can't say I am over her, but I feel better and I'm not starving myself anymore over sadness.

The future is uncertain lads, your life will only continue to be shit if you don't strive towards your goals. Take charge of your life. You have nothing to lose, only everything to gain.

>>39449646
>I don't think I ever loved someone like I loved her, but I'm trying my best to move forward from moping around doing nothing.
it'll pass just like everything else does

>wake up
>ex has shared some stuff on fb at 6.30 am
>her profile pic has the exact sepia filter like it did when we were together
>she looks exactly like she did prior that in that pic
>all dressed up nicely but looking sad in the other direction

that feel when you want her probably as bad as she wants you but...

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>>39449516
are you me. my life's been going to shit.

my school work has taken a huge fucking hit.

drunk every night to wake up feeling shitty and go to class that I fucking hate and then work that I fucking hate..

I work out for like 2 hours everyday just to get away from that state of mind.

go home. sit around get drunk go to bed. repeat times infinium

all my friends are moving on with their lives.

hold me brehs. am I gonna make it?....

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>>39441872
>ask a girl out
>rejected for what ever reason
>all that tension is gone and eventually back to normal
interesting

My aunt is slowly dying from ALS. She can't talk anymore.

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>mfw I joke around with all of my best friends about killing myself all the time.
>not joking. about 2/3 of me is dead serious about it.
>that 1/3 of me says fuck that let's get shredded

at least m-m-my DNP is coming in soon..

hopefully I can become a shredded c-cunt like I always wanted to... r-right?

>hold me brehs

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>>39449774

>>39441872
>insert joke about deadlifting here

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>>39441872
>Fall in love with girl in my highschool.
>Join gym over summer
>considerable gains brings me up from auswitz to normalish size in 2 months
>Shes in my chem class! :)
>fall in love even more, talk to her occasionally, i make her laugh she makes me laugh but autism prevents me from really building a friendship
>Last day of high school was last week
>Drunkenly called her last night on facebook but hung up before she answered.

Ill probably never talk to her again

>>39449744
You should have accepted the ice bucket challenge when you had the chance

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>>39449967
>meet in person
>when she's laughing, mention that weird call/hanging up
>explain you were drunk and half asleep
>mention that now you're sober, you'd like to ask her out
>get rejected
>realize life's a series of decisions and grow emotionally rather than running away from things

>>39449660
We'll see. I'd agree if it was like my old relationships where it ended due to personal incompatibility but this one wasn't like that. Who knows, might find someone better on my journey.

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>tfw my extire desire to go to sleep and wake up is to go to the gym again each day
>tfw I was pumped up all week to talk to my gymfu
>tfw she didnt show up for the third time this week
>tfw she was probably fucking chad and she forgot to make it

>>39449646
Kinda my story. It's been a year but iunno m8, sometimes I just don't know. I stopped being an emotional wreck but now that I'm more stable and don't think of her all day, I miss her more (esp when I wake up in the mornings). Just fuck me up.

>>39444169

>tfw waiting for girl to get phone.

Oh the pain of being a big dog in a doggy dog world!

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Friends of 7 years absolutely back stabs me by getting high, roasting me, and then telling me they did and took a video of it, but won't tell me what they said cuz they over did it and they were too "savage". I heard they really did roast me to the point of near hate. Said that they went at it for a good 2 hours.
>broken

>>39450062
Tell me about your story lad. Maybe I can help since they are similar

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I got a call from a company today, I haven't really been looking for employment elsewhere but figured I would at least do a phone interview with zero notice beforehand, They scheduled me for an in person interview for next week, So technically this is a win win situation, I already have a job and even though I am stressed out here, they still employ me and I enjoy the work. If they decide not to hire me, that is ok and I'll continue working where I am now and focus on more cert training.

Sec+
CEH
CCN/RS

Looks like I'm going to mens warehouse tomorrow to pick out a new suit, I want the job but don't really want to leave right now nor was I planning this, it sort of just happened.

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>>39450089

>having friends that don't even like you
>caring what other people think of you
>getting your panties in a bunch
>being a sad cunt

You are a Low Test Normie

Where do I want you to go?

Can you guess?

Back... to...?

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>>39450144
It's not letting me post and I typed it all out anyways.

http://pastebin.com/X6ZZmFyL

>>39448495
>tfw never fucked a girl lighter than me
Not a chubby chaser, just a kissless virgin.

>>39450232
I"ll get back to you in 7 hours m8. G2g to work

>>39441872
I think I have a serious problem. I no longer am capable of getting a crush for a girl, or even falling in love anymore. I was never good at telling if a girl liked me, but for some reason I managed to get even worse over the years. But whats worse is I dont even really feel as if I can even get used to someone, or even like a girl. The moment I leave the immediate proximity of a woman, it is as if they seize to exist. Of course I still find them attractive, and still fap to them, non frequently of course as I am on a longer fap cycle to not kill my mood (5ish days?)

But I want to fuck almost anything remotely feminine. Thats no problem. The problem is not being able to remember them. Not being able to remember personal details, or be capable of sharing something meaningful so you could remember specifics with such a girl.

and the worst part, thanks to a /fit/ lifestyle, my moods have improved and I have gotten more energy, I made it, I lost all my fat, started eating healthily, but for some reason, not being a loser, bodywise meant losing my humanity and anything relatable with women? Perhaps even with men as well, as I dont smoke, dont even sip soda's, or alcohol...or actually I dont do any kind of vices.

>be 6'4
>114kg lmao15%bf
>Diddly 6pl8 bench 4pl8 squat 5pl8
>Admired in gym, everyone knows me and some ask for advice etc, walk into any room-instant respect from guys
>Studying ChemEng, going ok
>Have kissed 2 girls in my life, both at parties
>Girls are intimidated by me, i catch some looks sometimes but they quickly look away
>Lie to my bros that im not a virgin
>My life consists of gym and studying
>Lonely
Whats the point? :'( outside of the gym i just look huge and scary. Insert drawingofthebodybuilderlookingatagreekstatue.png

>>39450445
Smile. That's it really. It disarms people, esp once you make it genuine enough. If you look like a serial killer as I did when smiling, practice in a mirror with a happy memory.

I know it sounds autistic but trust me.

>>39450455
Ok will do bro
Thanks

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>>39450455
>mfw I'm so in my own head I forget about facial expressions

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>>39449774
Hang in there for just a little longer, anon, we can do this together.

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>>39451180

thanks anon...

i know you're someone that I will never know in my lifetime. and I may never talk to you again on this Austrian corn picking forum...

but that makes me feel a lot better.

>here, have an ultra rare pepe, anon

>>39450352
>no vices, no humanity

you're doing it wrong faggot, consume a humanity and rest at a bonfire so you can invade other peoples worlds and terrorize them.

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>I blew out my chance to get close with my qt coworker.

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>>39451785
this t bh

>>39450352
I wish I can feel the same way as you.

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>invite girl over to dorm to lose my virginity (18)
>make out with her and go down on her, she seems to be liking it
>takes off my pants but im still soft
>gets on top of me, grinds on me naked
>still dont get a boner
>things just slowly end
>a-alright anon see you later
blew my chance, but she probly thinks I thought she was ugly and couldnt get hard
truth is I have a little dick and had performance anxiety.

>>39443859
underrated

>>39448466

Holy fuck dude. I'm sorry that happened.

>>39450048
if a door closes another one opens anon that's life that's how it has always been and will continue to

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>>39441872
The fourth Chakra is located in the heart. It deals with love and is blocked by grief. Lay all of your grief out in front of you.

Love is a form of energy and it swirls all around us. A love of your lost ones has not left this world. It is still inside your heart. And it is reborn in the form of natty gains.

>>39442804
Loose 5lbs in a week. Maybe you should have fucking eaten, dumbass.

>>39453263
say that to my sad self waking up checking my fb feed only to find out that my ex has shared some stuff at 6.30 am and decided to make her pic the same sepia color she had when we were together but looking exactly like in the pic before we met all dressed up in a nice dress but looking sad into the distance

>>39453260
Not him, but I ended up marrying my ex after a 5 year break up period. Not everything is so black and white. But realistically speaking, I didn't seem that coming and my incident isn't a common thing

>>39453349
it all depends on the circumstances anon your reasons to breakup?

>>39448869
>>39449061
>>39449298
I go to logan square every 2 weeks, it used to be a pretty shitty area but it got flooded with nu-male hipster faggots and its getting to expensive for niggers. Can't say im happy or mad cause they are both shitty groups of people

>>39453357
Distance was the issue, not compatibility

>>39453396
then a rekindling can work, best of luck buddy

>Week back on the cut wagon
>IF
>Keto
>Chicken every fucking meal
>two pounds a day, minimum
>couldn't finish it today, so sick of the flavor
>dying inside

I'm so sick of cutting. So tired of fucking chicken. I just want to be flat and fit already. REEEEEEE

>>39450026
I actually laffed. Thanks anon.

I also hit a 160kg incline yesterday, so feeling okay today.

>>39442804
Monos tough
U did it wrong
>beme 16 hs gf
>get mono
>assrape her ear and make her stop sharing food
>go to summer school with mono
> get head from a girl
>dodge a slut who wanted the dick and told the entire science class
>be home with mono
>take a bong rip playing runescape and gradually working on cpa
>drop 14 lbs

Felt good brah. I loved mono

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>>39441872
Was it a deadlift? Hehehe....

>>39452892
Same thing happened to me and I'm 21. Stop jacking off to porn. Other chances will arise, confidence will grow.

>>39451797
Don't shit where you eat.

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>when your ex sees pictures of you post-/fit/ and drunk texts you and agrees to let you face fuck him all night

Feels good man

>>39453537
>>when your ex sees pictures of you post-/fit/ and drunk texts you and agrees to let you face fuck him all night
gross femanon

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>>39453558
>imblying

>>39453558
Pretty sure thats a dude youre talking to
a femanon would have moved on to several other dudes before the exbf would have gotten time to get drunk

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>spent the past 7 months exercising 45 mins to an hour 4-6 times a week
>eat *correctly*, never pig out, force self to eat extra proteins
>realize I have next to nothing to show for it
>feel that I've hit a wall at my age and just want to give up since I look basically the same regardless of my fitness

Seriously fuck this, when I was 20 I put in half the effort and had much better results. I drank for 3 years straight when I turned 21 and ballooned from 150 to 200lbs. Now I haven't even weighed myself in 2 years but now I'm going on 26 and really just wanting to quit this exercising

I'm just starting to believe the incredibly toxic lifestyle I lead in my early 20s has sabotaged my current efforts

give me comfort

>>39453565
you're a fag?
>>39453567
makes me vomit tbqh

>>39453578
He is. I'm not gonna suck his dick.

>>39453578
>makes me vomit tbqh
Why?
There are alot more dudes in the dating market than girls so if a girl drops in she will get tons of offers

>>39453574
>have next to nothing to show for it
>>feel that I've hit a wall at my age and just want to give up since I look basically the same regardless of my fitness
>Seriously fuck this, when I was 20 I put in half the effort and had much better results. I drank for 3 years straight when I turned 21 and ballooned from 150 to 200lbs. Now I haven't even weighed myself in 2 years but now I'm going on 26 and really just wanting to quit this exercising
>I'm just starting to believe the incredibly toxic lifestyle I lead in my early 20s has sabotaged my current efforts
>give me comfort

literally no effort

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>>39453589
repeatedly pushing myself until I'm nauseous and trembling is about as much effort as I can give

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>was a very strong and athletic child until I was ~5 years old
>heart is now fucked
>because my parents wouldn't let me do the sports I wanted when I was young
>muay thai, weightlifting, boxing
>grew up in the bush so I couldn't walk into town
>allowed myself to become addicted to vidya to escape the life I already hated at a young age
>never overweight, currently just above underweight, but was technically anorexic for a few years
>repressive mother died in 2012, father became slightly uncucked
>dream about when I used to do powerlifting after school in 2012, when I was 17
>have accepted my fate and waiting to die now

Tfw Odin and my ancestors look down upon me. I should have slapped my mother and fought my father tooth and nail instead of holding my temper and allowing this to happen.

>tfw all I wanted to be was a fighter or soldier
>tfw failure

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>25yo
>Virgin
>Every time when I workout I feel more and more depressed because no gf
>Every time when I notice my gains or when I realize how good job I have and how great are my uni grades are, I am punched in the face by virgin feels
>Going to Thailand with my female friend next month
>Almost decided to get a Thai hooker
>I know that I will most likely feel even more depressed if I do that but I just can't take it anymore

>>39453618
You have to internalize your locus of control. That shit that happened might no be your responsibility but letting it end your life and ambitions is on you.

>>39453634
have you tried online dating?

>>39453651
>online dating as a guy
lol

>>39453648
I can't run 30 metres without needing to lie down for a while. I'm shutting internally down brah.

>>39453660
Just go to symposia at museums and colleges and pretend to be a grad student and pick up liberal arts chicks.

>>39453677
Time to start running 25 meters repeatedly, then. I know a guy who had a heart attack at 23 because he was a fat fuck who was addicted to Wawa mac and cheese, but he got his shit together. You can too.

>>39453660
I'm suggesting it because I'm currently having a good experience with it. even if I don't end up with a gf from it it still feels good to know that lots of girls out there like how I look. it also prevents you from getting stuck on one girl because you know there are a ton to choose from.

>>39453678
>>39453651
Oh... I forgot to mention that I am autist af.
Also I have over 100 matches on a local dating app. Still not able to message any of that girls

>>39453705
>Oh... I forgot to mention that I am autist af.

So is everyone here. Stop being a fucking pussy.

>>39453705
have you even TRIED to message them? you don't have to be a world class comedian to hold a conversation with a girl. most people are kinda boring, but they still talk to each other, get laid etc.

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>be me at gym
>bench press
>last set, i was so tired at the moment
>my favourite song starts playing
>remember the only girl i ever liked and how i was too autistic to express my feelings.
>i dont see her anymore and she has now a GIRLFRIEND(is bisexual)
>start crying doing last set and do the double amount of reps i was supossed to do
>all gym staring
>dont care anymore
>most pathethic shit ive ever done

sorry for your loss OP, were all gonna make it brah

>>39453704
Ive never tried online dating but im pretty sure id be disapointed if i did, im not that guy but online dating for guys is hard
I think i look pretty good, im tall and fit but this doesnt matter since it doesnt feel like there are any girls avaliable online

There are girls but not ones you can choose from, instagram would be better if you just want to look at semipretty-pretty chicks without ever having a chance with them

>>39453599
Cardio doesn't build muscle, bub.

i hate this fucking board

>>39442002
You must be in a last world country then.

>Lose about 9Kg in 3 weeks because of sickness, depression and insomnia
>On a morning after I was up all night break two irrelevant PRs
Whatever.

>>39444252
Unless you find something else you like doing and do it quick it only gets worse. It's been 2 years since I haven't been to college and even though I hated it I hate the fact that all those years I've spent at school were in vain, especially since I dropped out in my third year of engineering, so starting back from scratch just makes me want to not bother anymore.

>>39443248
>Break enough PRs
>Entire world is dead
Truly leaving humanity behind.

>>39443248
no pain, no gain

>>39441872
At least you can use this anger to break the PR you just set next time.

>girl posts "someone talk, don't care who"
>send her a meme
>she sends one back
>we start talking
>she likes the same food and memes I like
>sends me videos of her pulling stupid faces
>fall in love instantly
>exotic and cool. from iraq originally
>getting feels just typing this greentext feel story
>only been like 5 days
>realize I'm almost exactly 10 years older
>tfw only 25
>tfw stop showing her interest and say sorry for not realizing that
>she keeps messaging me
>keep replying
>havent said anything "wrong" the whole time
>gf of 4 years notices she liked my selfie
>asks who
>dunno lol
>need to wait a full year before she is legal
>tfw knowing she will lose interest by then
>tfw her smile
>tfw she looks exactly like my first ever oneitis from all those years ago
>thinking about her all day
>only reply to her with generic shit and trying to sound as boring and uninteresting as possible
>she seems to be mature enough to know i need to pretend I don't like her and plays along
>such strong feels that I haven't even jerked one off or thought about her in 'that' way even once
>feels deeper than that
>trying to rationalize it and thinking maybe it's because I'm near the end of my cycle and I'm tapering off so maybe it's just hormone feels.

Help. She's 11/10 face. Probably 7/10 body. Didn't even look. (lol)


FUUUUU. I know I won't do anything though. I just hope she puts me in oneitis zone for the next 12 months.

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>girls rub up against me and want my number immediately
>then start talking about how they have a boyfriend and how i seem nice
i don't FUGGING get it, i'm trying not to be nice.

>Doggo of 4 years cant run anymore bc I stoped running because it killed my gains
>gonna have to start from scratch with her
>her legs also fucked from an acident
>used to be able to hold 4 min miles for 5 miles straight
>cant even hold a 500m jog

I miss my running buddy so fucking much and its my fault for ignoring her for lifting

Grills can fuck off doggo is more important

>>39441872
she obviously wasn't swole enough then

>>39455516
You have a gf of four years you want to leave for some teenage bimbo?
kys

>>39455831
Nobody told me girls start wrinkling and sagging in their early 20s tho

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>>39454017
lmao

>>39441872
I am sorry for your loss anon. Keep strong and continue lifting

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>day starts well squats, dips and chins
>go to friend's house at about midday, she has a gorgeously pretty friend over
>we get high and listen to kate bush, bowie etc
>small coach so I feel her body and her smell
>she's so stoned I can barely get three words out of her

Fuck, I hate meeting pretty girls.

>>39455516
>>39455831
he should tbqh, atleast be honest to the gf and give her the chance to find someone who actually loves her

>>39454017
LIGHTWEIGHT BABBBYYYYY


....b-baby???

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>>39441872
>tfw in physician assistant school and don't have time to go to the gym for 2 hours a day every day

>>39450352
What did you think Rich meant by leaving humanity behind?

>tfw could text her this very second but i can't

>>39453634
Make sure it's a shemale, m8. Going to thailand and not fucking a ladyboy is like going to turkey and not eating a kebab.

>>39441963
More will come along

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>all alone studying in a different country
>almost no one to talk to
>friends drifting away
>no going home for an year and a half
>95% probability that i will fail anyway and will go home a loser

>woke up from a "walking dead" dream where i decided to go throw myself at the zombies cause no one cared about me

I'll try my best, /fit/. For you.

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>want to ask girl I've been talking to if she wants to do hang out some time next week
>no idea how to even go about doing this

Why is texting girls so fucking hard? Every damn time I come across are boring as fuck. How normal guys do this?

>>39457514
Most girls like guys that are assertive anon. Just ask her directly if she wants to hang out, nothing more nothing less.

>>39449708
Cut out the alcohol
I have a lot of downtime at my shitty job as a receptionist so I brought dumbbells there and curl in my down time
>>39450089
>Being emotionally dependent on other people
>Having shitty friends
>Not being able to take a joke
>All of the above

>>39457581
should I make small talk before asking? like how her midterms went an shit?

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>>39450445
huge guys have to try really hard to not be intimidating
If you let it show on the outside how depressed and angry you are, its going to scare other people

>>39452892
Damn I feel really sorry for you brahs with anxiety-triggered ED and small members

best thing to do is to pop some Viagra
You dont actually need the Viagra, you just need the confidence

>>39452892
Also try acting more dominant and in control, initiate it, be rough with her, make the moves

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>>39455677
Disregard sloots

>>39457687
Easier said than done
Girls arent really good for fucking but it sure as fuck feels nice to have them flirt with you and want dick but other than that i see no point in women

>>39457594
Well, how well do you know this girl? Are you friendly with her irl? Because that's 100% the first step before texting her anything.

>like 6 months ago go on reddit looking for girls to talk to cause im a pathetic virgin
>start talking to this mixed race asian girl who has a pretty face but is big (probably at or near BBW territory)
>talk like every day on kik, she's across the country
>she really likes me and i like her
>we do mutual masturbation stuff and even have some 3-4 hour long skype calls in our beds together
>realize i'm a pathetic loser for doing this with a girl online, tell her i dont want to do it anymore

>try to pick things back up a few weeks ago since i'm still a pathetic loser and liked talking to her
>she clearly was upset by me stopping things like that, felt it meant i didnt like her
>trying to get things back up but she's apprehensive about it
>she's originally from about 30 miles away from me and is flying back here for thanksgiving to her family
>way too afraid to meet up with her because I know i would spaghetti and cum everywhere IRL
>she doesnt seem to want to anyway

And that's life when you're a complete loser.

>>39457733
We've been texting for around week and she's been receptive, and I talk to her a tiny bit irl.
Was gonna ask her to hang out earlier but because of exams I decided to wait.
My plan is to just ask her about how exams went, and then say we should get food or some shit.

How do I cure autism?

>>39457802
Honestly, you don't sound that autistic. Most girls wouldn't put any effort into texting with someone unless they're somewhat interested, so I think you asking her wouldn't come off creepy or unwarranted.

Working up to asking her is the right thing to do. If she asks "Do you mean like a date?" just say "Yeah if you're ok with that." Assertive, but not aggressive. Good luck bro

>>39450352
>I dont do any kind of vices
4chan is your vice.

>>39457865
Thank you very much anon. I'll dedicate my next set of deadlifts to you. Texting her in an hour.

>>39452892
This happens to me all the time fuck

>>39452892
>>39458005
>have girls naked on on you grinding all the time
>complaining

fuck off 4chan chads

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>boyfriend has to move to China
>after hes gone forever, start talking to another guy on an app
>hes really smart, really hot, i finally start to cheer up for the first time since bf left
>turns out he was a catfish using someone elses pics

Set me up, knock me down. Kill me.

>have a huge dick but ugly as fuck
>wish i could use tinder to try to meet girls and have sex, even if they are bigger, or not the best looking, whatever, because im ugly as well and like thicker girls anyway
>have no friends so can't take photos with anyone
>girls are allowed to advertise their bodies and that they want sex and nothing else, it makes them more desirable
>if a guy tries to talk about wanting sex or having a large penis and just wanting to fuck some people, it shows that hes creepy thirsty and desperate

welp

>>39458042
Let me teach you something when it comes to talking to people on apps that you meet online or whatever.

Within the first few minutes of talking to them, you make them do something that proves they are who they say they are. Something I do is make them timestamp. Like literally, make them get a piece of paper and write your name on it with the date, maybe another word, along with their face or body part to prove they are them or the gender they say, and offer to do the same yourself. And if the person refuses to, instantly cut contact and block them.

It may seem autistic, and yes I am an autistic virgin, but in today's age, you literally have to do this. I don't get how the fuck people fall for catfishes.

>>39458093
ask for their snapchat, it's a more modern way and it doesn't seem autistic at all.

>>39458112
im not under 20 or a vapid social media whore so i dont use snapchat

>>39441872
>Sorry for your loss, OP.

>>39458130
I think you might just be socially autistic then.

>>39458156
>being over the age of 20 and using snapchat

>>39458156
Im not him but from what ive seen mostly chicks use social media
Facebook, snapchat and instagram are mainly female heavy places
you dont need to be socially autistic to stay away from places not specified to your gender that bring you little to no benefit

>>39458196
>>39458130
You literally just leave the app on your phone for when you need to speak to females.

I guess that's just not something you autists experience often.

>>39458130
>>39458168
>>39458196

Snapchat is fun as fuck. Only autists don't like it

>>39453786
that one girl, my first love had a perfume that I recognize every now and then.
Today, I smelled it again while shopping. Ironically enough, a dude was wearing it. wtf. Anyway, this triggered feels.

>>39458303
>thinking another live twitter/facebook status update of peoples lives is fun

nah, you're the autist

>>39458303
>needing to post what you're doing 24/7
>being tied to attention games like a woman
>government backdoored
lmao, you think chad cares about his streak?

>>39458292
Would you fucking stop with the goddamn autist meme?
Christ, this fucking site is goddamn annoying i dont know why i bother...well if regular social media was any good i guess i wouldnt need to but relevent to this discussion its slightly worse than 4chan

I dont see the point in having an app that i never use
Please enlighten me to when exactly you need to speak to a female and when apps like these are of use

>just got over the flu
>diarrhea and severe nausea
>couldn't put anything down but broth and crackers
>didn't work out
>one week of sickness undid 6 months of progress

>>39458312
I never said that. Snapchat isn't just 24/7 pointless updates. Fun way to flirt with girls.

Something you know little about

>>39458325
Confirmed autist

>>39458329
>Please enlighten me to when exactly you need to speak to a female and when apps like these are of use

Well I guess Snapchat is of use because it will let you see the girl send you something and prove that she is real

>>39458339
watch out we got a 4chan chad over here

>>39458355
>Well I guess Snapchat is of use because it will let you see the girl send you something and prove that she is real
Ok i do get this that getting nudes is somewhat easier on snapchat but i can imagine getting nudes is very hard so its of occational use
Social media just feels like a cluster fuck honestly, like trying to talk to someone in a club
You see lips moving but there is no way you can make your voice heard and if you manage to communicate a message to her you probably wont get a reply or be able to hear it

Tinder is a wonderful concept but ive never gotten around to trying it since the whole social media thing just feels so disconnected and tinder is acutally male heavy instead of regular social media which is female heavy and this is the one id use

I dont see the point in social media because i feel more alone now than ive ever done before and i grew up on the internet

>>39458402
not only is tinder male dominated, but then you have to think about how you're basically fighting with like 50+ guys for every girl you match with

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>yesterday girl gives me her number at party
>really wants me to text her
>don't want to come across as needy so don't text her
>just now realized that i could have told her to come to my place after

>>39458454
It was only yesterday, man.
You still have time. Text her tonight.

>>39458454
Ask for pics of her feet please. Then post here.

>>39458473
But anon, I'm only good with women when I'm shitfaced. It hides my lack of personality.

>>39458525
I'm exactly the same. Keep it short and sweet

>General opening, eg. "hey what's up it's anon"
>1-3 texts of back and forth, eg "was some party huh (just an example you can do better than this)" just don't say anything absurd or retarded.
>"are you free on monday/tuesday/wheneverthefuckyou'refree ? you should come over we can watch a movie"

You can do it anon. Gambatte!

>>39458307
Maybe he just smashed a girl that was wearing it

>>39457741
Tell her the truth and explain the situation. Tell her you were wrong and a little embarassed and apologize then try to meet up with her.

>>39458525
Find a female friend that uses tinder, ask her to show you a conversation she had with someone with whom she had some smooching. This will open your eyes, anon.

And yes, go text that girl

>>39458572
Probably will text her that tonight, but I should note that she said she has a boyfriend. My best case scenario is that I become a side fuck for her, which I'm down for. But I've only made out with chicks at parties, never been on a date or anything. Shit's scary, man.

>>39458668
I think that puts out the wrong vibes, even for a friend. It makes it seem like you need the advice.

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>>39444040
> that picture

>>39458454
I never got this fucking bullshit about when to contact someone

Like, you want to contact someone, but cant so it too quickly or you look needy, but wait too long and you blow it

what the fuck is the deal with this? why would texting someone quickly show you're needy? its a random person, you text them back quickly so they dont forget who you are

what the fuck is the big deal

also

>thinking that a girl giving you her number means she wants to have sex right away

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>seen
>53 minutes ago

>>39450232
>>39450062
Thanks for sharing Anon. It was really interesting.

I think you should let the app run over and loose your logs. Clinging to those feelings isn't going to make you happy. Both of you have moved on- you're different people now and even if you tried again it'd never be the same.

There's no going back, so stop looking back and go forward.

>>39458697
If you're gonna become a side fuck you most definitely don't have to worry about dates or anything like that.
As a side guy you'll literally just give her dick and leave.
If you want to be ebin you could literally text her and say "so you tryna catch the pipe or nah", which has a high chance of working in this scenario.

>>39453461
herbs, ginger, mustard, etc

and get a slowcooker. You're going to make it, bro

>>39453263
what

dont even

I love you Anon

>>39441872
>fall in love w qt who lives 3 hrs away
>break up after 2 yrs because I couldnt handle the distance and only seeing her 1-2 times/month
>1.5 yrs later and im still miserable clinging to the hope that one day she'll want me back even though she moved on and we dont talk because im an emotional bitch
>im even dating a local girl who is loyal af and into all my weird sex stuff, not enough though
>still empty and suicidal
>only thing that keeps me going is one day being able to diddly 420 on 420

>Another girl lost interest in me because I'm too pussy to make a move myself
>Only girls I've ever been with have asked me out

>>39443265
when the body gains weight, in the absence of roids etc, the weight always contains muscle and fat, together. similarly for losing weight. the ratio is dependent on macros and other factors but if you gain enough fat, muscle gain is also inevitable.

however, have that guy cut down to your weight and he's going to lose a shit load of that muscle.

>>39458941
YOU'RE A WHITE MALE

Started lifting 3 months ago and met grill on omegle where I live. She is a solid 9/10, added me on snapchat and said I was cute desu. We talked and i got a nice pic.She snapped me "someone talk" multiple times to me but I ignored. I know I will regret it, but she's really fucking dumb and I can't talk to girls. I hate being an autistic retard. If I look like zyzz will I be confident/alpha??

>>39458941
YOU'RE A WHITE MALE

>>39444040
i jerk to memories of my ex gf squirting on my hand, it was always so fucking hot

>>39449516
i havent sucked on a pair of tits in months and its getting to me

i want to fuck a girl if i fuck a girl i know i will 100% be happy again

>>39459005
yeah you'll change as your appearance changes. the world will react to you differently and it will change you as a person.

>>39458941
YOU'RE A WHITE MALE

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>Girl invites me out for drinks, says she'll pay for me
>one drink in she can't stop bringing up how attractive she finds me and that she wants to fuck me
>rubs my dick through my pants for a bit
>she has a boyfriend
>try to kiss her
>stops me and says she just wants to be friends then gets mad at me for tempting her into cheating

>>39449516
>entire life falling apart and wanting to kill yourself for not havin sex FOR A FEW MONTHS
>lucky enough to be in school and have friend and literally wants to commit auicide

Seriously, please do it 4chan Chad. Loll yourself because of not having sex for a month.

Jesus fucking Christ, fit is intolerable

>>39450445
6'4 here aswell, not as big though. I've found that >>39450455
has a good point, and that generally you've got to be the first one to crack a joke (or just laugh at some shit they say) to show that you're not a roided up psyco that'll kill their cat if they drink your milk

Does anyone else feel more lonely as the weather gets colder? I've been making progress but I've fallen back into a relapse and miss my ex

>in love with a young single mother

why live /fit/. why is life so cruel

How come so many people on this 4chan board have girlfriends or ex girlfriends?

How ugly do you guys figure girls who would date 4chan guys are?

Had a great ass workout and a good night with my gf, and when I got home I saw a letter from a college I'd applied to and the one I was betting and hoping to go to. I as declined. Life goes on, right bros?

>>39459447
4chan is for normalfags and has been for years. just slightly "off" normalfags in less popular boards

>>39459345
dude.
There is nothing wrong with that if you truly care about her.

Children in single mother households are way more likely to have mental issues, get into drugs or crime, act out in school, go to jail, and generally fail at life.

Yeah its pretty different from a standard relationship, but by stepping in as a father figure for that child you are going to (hopefully) create a positive influence and help that child.

>>39459511
>>39459345
Seriously, you could make a positive difference in both their lives. If you want you can still always have your own with her.

>>39459478
thats hilarious. this place is definitely not for normal people

>>39459345
It's fine as long as you kill the children, as lions do

>>39457687
Once I got swole and the attention I wanted I stoped giving a shit about social interaction all I wanna do is chill with doggo, lift and see 2 best mates

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>be an only child
>have had people ask me before if i have siblings, just as a normal course of conversation
>say no
>they say WOW ANON THAT EXPLAINS EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU NOW

>tfw apparently being an only child is an indicator for probably being a weirdo with no social skills

sigh

>>39458829
I know this feel

>>39459511
>>39459538

The social stigma kills me. And I dont know how to be a father.

I got invited out to a festival today and a party and I turned them both down. The last time I went out to do something like a party or go to a bar was 3 months ago. The only thing I did today was go to the grocery store which felt like a big effort for some reason. I don't feel sad, but I don't have any reason to want to sit inside and stare at the wall all day. I really don't know.

>>39459886
>dont know how to be a father
you figure that shit along the way, as long as you try your best and are actively invested in her and the kids life it will be gucchi

>>39459900
tfw didnt expect you guys to be so supportive. it feels so nice

>>39459345
If she is willing to have another child with you it's completely OK, you can help them out in many ways. But if she isn't going to produce a kid with you, this is not an option for a man. Raising another man's kid and having none of your own is the clearest definition of cuckoldry.

>>39441872
For what it's worth I feel for you OP.

>>39459886
>social stigma
Fuck that, and fuck /pol/. On the subject. I'm dating my first cousin, and while we're both in STEM, I've got kids from a previous marriage, she has tattoos and has been plenty degenerate.

Who cares? We're in love, happy, and will marry and have kids. (Genetics issues aren't very big.)

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>>39444252
>dropped out of my honours year in 2015 because of health issues
>no debt, no fail because legitimate reason
>health issues under control for the most part
>enrolling again next year

Feel like I've had two years of my life stolen though

>>39459928
well this didint make me feel better lmao

>>39449774
>DNP will either kill you or make you shredded

lol jk you'll fuck it up and eat like a pig and stay a living reminder of your mediocrity

>>39459635
Wait, they actually do?

wew no fucking way

>>39441872
Sorry for your loss anon, i lost my auntie in a car accident too. She was a great person and her death only really began to sink in 6 or so months later.

>>39459999
>This is because females of this species, as well as many other mammals, do not ovulate during lactation. It then becomes easier to understand how infanticide evolved. If a male kills a female's young, she stops lactating and is able to become pregnant again. Because of this, the newly dominant male is able to reproduce at a faster rate than without the act of infanticide[7]. As males are in a constant struggle to protect their group, those that express infanticidal behavior will contribute a larger portion to future gene pools (see natural selection).

There's a literal anti-cuck mentality inbuilt in most mammals. That's it I'm using this as the ultimate proof that cucks are mentally ill

If a girl is looking at you in the eyes does that mean she wants you to talk to her? How can you tell if a girl is checking you out vs just looking at you?

>2016
>not immediately looking away and then at the floor

>>39441872
dedicate your next PR for your aunt brah

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>>39458572
>>39458811
>ask her what she's doing tonight
>at an hour with no response
I'm going to find something to do besides worrying about her, which I have been doing all day.

>>39459932
I feel you pain anon, lost most of my time from 21 to 22 years because of health issues, about 1 year behind in collage, still virgin because of it.

Sadly its just a price we must pay for now.

>>39460043
>he says as a virgin

>>39460051
If you want to talk to her just do it, what's the worse that happens? She rejects you? Isn't that the same result as not doing anything in the first place?

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>>39450056
>>39450455
Did fit just give real advice?

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>tfw havent had sex in so long I'm pretty sure i'm a virgin again
>go on a date with a 9/10 but she's a normie so I don't feel any connection with her
>don't really care because I'm content with just lifting, school and personal hobbies
Time to leave humanity behind I guess

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>>39460067
That's no big deal, mate. I know this is an anonymous board and it doens't mean much but I fucking PROMISE that it's no big deal. The girl I'm currently talking to responded to my first text a fucking day and a half after I sent it. Just don't be bothered by it until you either get something and you're in or you get nothing and move on.
No one thinks less of you for not getting a response if that does happen. even the most alpha of chads get rejected by more than half the women they go after, they just go after a fuckload.
I love you anon. If she ends up not responding we can always go lift together.

>>39460520
Actually she ended up responding and I'm waiting on her response to my offer to split some drinks right now. Either way I think I'll have a chill night. I don't usually ask women out in a non-friend way, so it's a "learning experience". She's taking 20-60 minutes between responses though so she's probably not interested.

I haven't been able to properly lift in years because leg injury I'm too depressed to do the physiotherapy for. One day I'll lift again. Thanks anon.

>>39460560
mine takes fucking hours between responses. Don't think about time, most people are busy with life. A response is a response, as long as it isn't a 1 letter or 1 word, but even those are salvageable.
Sorry about your leg and depression, but the hardest part of beating depression is taking the first step. Once you begin to take strides you won't be stopped. Right now you're the only thing blocking your path.
You can do it, mate.

>>39459345
>
stepchildren hate their step fathers a shitload, ive read the statitistics on that shit, and expeirenced it myself, and talked to othe rstepfathers about that shit.

Hell, even one of the guys i knew in highschool fucking hated his stepdad, and his stepdad was a rich millionair that bought him everything clothes/cars you get the gist, but the guy loved his real dad over his step dad even though his stepdad was a drunk poor loser.

I will never understand why children just dislike their stepdad

>>39460668
I mean thats kind of understandable I guess. To a kid a father is a hero. When a stepfather comes in you are kind of ruining their dream of their parents coming back together happily ever after. I'm pretty understanding in that regard, and the mom and dad have a great relationship still. If the kid doesnt want me to be a father like that I'm more than cool with it, hell I almost prefer it. I just dont want him to be jealous when I give my actual children the very best because thats exactly what i will be doing.

>>39460580
2 hours and no response, coincidentally right after I ask...

I've been really picking my life back up in these past 2 weeks, so I'm getting better. It gets easier every day, as long as you keep doing it.

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>fail squat 155 lb 3 workouts in a row
>fail bench 90 lb 3 workouts in a row
I'm getting enough sleep and protein and everything. Somewhat embarrasing to fail squat 3 sets in a row, have to unrack the weights, put the bar back on the rests, then put all the weight back on every time.

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>Feeling anxious and paranoid a lot lately
>Keeps me up at night
>Gains are meh
>My Freshman year at uni I was strong as fuck (Benched 275lbs for 5 reps paused, 500lb deadlift for reps, high 300s squat, probably around 420 max)
>Get injured, shit's chronic and can't be fixed
>Trying my best to work around it
>All lifts go down
>Currently working my way back up
>Adopted vegan diet
>broke off toxic relationship
>save more money for gains and car parts

I feel as if I'm in a state of constant neutrality. Nothing is ever really good, but nothing is ever really bad either. I'm just kind of existing and it's both depressing but comforting in some ways. Almost like a limbo. I have been lifting only once or twice a week and doing cardio, but not nearly as much as I used to do. I feel as if my motivation just fleeted away, and I don't know why. Anyone else feel this?

>>39461102
i'm vegetarian, and there are some nutrients that you usually don't get. is it possible you're deficient in something? maybe check a doctor or start taking one-a-day (also omega 3).

>>39461119
I've taken this into consideration, I make sure to get all the vitamins I need. The usual issue is B12 but I make sure to get that from fortified foods. So far I enjoy the diet honestly and feel somewhat better in terms of my health.

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>>39461082

Have a rest, deload, check form, warm up properly.

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I'm in love with this one marine chick but she's way too successful to ever be with me

Thoughts on forcing yourself out of the house?

>>39461137
thanks anon, I am going to deload, it's just a bit demoralizing having to do it so early

>>39443859
Fucking kekd

>be 25 year old virgin, ugly as fuck and have no friends
>sometimes talk to girls on reddit when i'm feeling particularly lonely
>after talking with me, even though i'm kinda of dickish and abrasive sometimes, they really love my sense of humor and how quick witted i am whether over text or if they cam with me
>feel like i could have success on tinder if text stuff was the only thing that mattered because feel like I couldbe funny, witty, etc
>the fact hat i have no friends and i'm ugly as fuck and a shut in means that i wouldnt even get a chance to match girls on tinder to even practice talking to them because i would have no social pictures or pictures period and ugliness trumps all on tinder

I know it's a pathetic feel but a feel nonetheless

I'm having trouble with disciplined eating. Not so much with weight, since I react to each carb binge with increasing volume. So now I'm making steady strength gains at 70kg but I'm still desperately thinfat.

Sugars are tested and fine so it's just a matter of discipline. Wonder if I should switch to a warm breakfast or skip it completely, oats aren't working.

There is a very cute Italian girl I want to ask out on a date, my cousin said I shouldn't be so forward with her but I really want to straight up ask her out on a date, should I? I'm asking her out anyway but I want input

also I randomly texted this Japanese exchange student at 1am here and she responded in less than 5 seconds does she want me to lay some pipe down? I think she has reverse jungle fever

>>39461183

For me, 5 times a week is the minimum for staying functional. If I skip it I'll get increasingly paranoid and start problem behaviour.

>>39461351
I guess I'll get into hiking or some shit

>>39457480
I wish I had the balls to study in a different country. I'm scared even leaving my city sometimes.

>>39461350
> I think she has reverse jungle fever
She wants to get colonized by your throbbing empire.

>>39458761
You need to redpill yourself

>>39443248
It'd make a good movie

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>>39450352
Same. I was wandering through the city and I am somehow sad that all these pretty girls are so far away from me, I'm not even mediocre or bad looking, I just don't care enough desu, it's just too much work for me, just going up to them, getting their number, then chatting it up, then making a date, then another, listening to their self important boring ass bullshit and feeling how much they wished that they were at a party right now drinking their brains out. I hate women, yet I love them, mostly for their bodies though. I am doomed

>>39461350
I wish there were situations in my life that just required me to ask, you college kids don't know how fucking easy it is, I'm in the army and there are no women, unless you want to go for the 10-15 and be the laughing stock of everyone else for having the balls of actually doing it

>>39458941
YOU'RE A WHITE MALE