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Couldn't get hard...at all. Guys? 2016-11-02 04:25:11 Post No. 39289440
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I just drove home in shame from a girls place because I couldn't get a boner, and I'm kind of freaking out. This was after a year of no sex.
I had a horrible year with acne, and it tore my confidence to pieces. After consulting many dermatologists, cleaning my diet up and ridiculous amount of time in developing a skincare routine, it not only cleaned up my acne but I was forced to revisit every little aspect of my life that may have contributed to it. I've even quit my 4 year smoking habit, and I haven't smoked in 10 months.
It took me a full year of constant effort to get to where I'm at. My acne is gone and I finally feel good enough to get back out there again. I meet a girl off Tinder. We meet adjacent to Dundas square, go to her place, and watch a movie. She's a skinny fat white girl, a little too skinny but a beautiful frame and gorgeous green eyes. Within 2 hours we're naked and she's grinding her pussy on my dick, and nothing.
Absolutely nothing. No matter how she blew, stroked and rode me, I was soft as marshmellows.
This has only happened to me a few times when I've drank too much, but that was over a year ago before acne.
I'm really afraid a year of jerking off to porn and mostly focusing on myself did something to my psyche. I just didn't feel the same things I did with her as I used to.
Any similar experiences guys? What the hell is going on with me.
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>>39289440
Give up porn and jerking it for 30-90 days
You'll be getting rock hard in slight breezes
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>>39289440
You let your nerves get in the way. She'll probably understand. Meet up again, it will work.
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It's okay, bruh, when I was 18 I had a one night stand with a woman who was arguably the hottest girl I've ever gotten with, and I was so nervous I couldn't get it up. The whole ordeal was just embarrassing.
All in all don't let it get you down too much, it's definitely not as devistating as you feel it is now. Lay off of the porn, and maybe take another run at that chicken if you're brave. Most of all make sure you act like the whole event doesn't bother you.
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>>39289440
Could be performance anxiety. If you were drinking it could be whisky dick. I would say quit porn. Jerk off once a week using your imagination and no outside stimulus. Don't peek at high test threads or shit like that.
But above all else DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. It happens bro. There's a ton of women out there. Things will work out sooner or later. Just live in the moment. But wear a condom.
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>>39289498
lol same thing happened to me
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>>39289464
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>>39289527
Cheers guys, appreciate the friendly words. I definitely need to lay off the porn for a while.
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>>39289709
Get her to use her mouth, sounds funny but last few times I've pulled whiskey dick she started to blow me and I got hard almost instantly.
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Anxiety kills the dick. Meet up with her again later and try again
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First of all, don't be embarrassed. Just tell her you were nervous because you think she's fucking hot, etc etc. Now lay off the porn, maybe even quit 4chan for a bit because this place bombards you all kinds of sexual images.
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