FUCK IT ALL

>>39210177
Stop smoking Weed.
It's fun sometimes, but in your situation it just makes you indifferent, think too much and also probably dependent because you obviously use it to smoke the feels away.
Drop it, take the Pain like a Man and use it as a katalysator for change.

>>39210245
You speak the truth, I wish you the best of luck in your life.

>>39210245
Fuck your mother.

List three things that are in your control that you can change op.

You're 19, you'll have plenty of time to figure it out.

>>39211982
>19
if you don't have your life figured out by 20, you're basically fucked
and I say this as a 23 year old loser.

>>39210245
This. Weed robs you of your ambition.

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>>39210177
I had problems finding my place until 24 fella.

Maybe you have some actual hobbies and dont give a shit about the next drake song/the next "sports" plus some autism and inferiority complex and that fucks your younger years.

But wew lad it does get better. Just look at the mirror, acknowledge your shit and work towards fixing it. But also when you achieve something make it yours and a part of you and be proud of yourself from time to time goddamnit.

Go out to know people, not to get laid. Stop caring about girls, they are usually fucking wrecks at that age anyway.

Just work in yourself and make you interesting and interesnting people will come.

Also lift heavy shit.

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Your attitude stinks. And i can tell from just the way you type, you are not going to listen to anyones advice here.

You're 19, you have time to your advantage. So here we go, you can make your life a whole lot better in your 20s if you dedicate your years now.
>Basics, stop smoking weed, stop being a bitch posting on 4chan about your problems, start working out (STICKY), stop jacking off to porn, get 8 hours sleep, drink plenty of water, try sort some diet out and plan ahead. Look for inspiration, The art of manliness is pretty good at setting up some fundamental goals.

>Working out obviously, if you don't have weights and can't afford the gym, look at body weight training.

>Education is key, I'm from the UK so i'm not sure what education you should be in at 19, but stick to it, college or university? Trust me, you won't regret it, it will benefit you socially and obviously your finances in the future.

>Get a small time job, anything, I work in a fucking chocolate shop, it's pretty high end and i got to lick ass to a bunch of posh pricks, but it pays the bills.

>Get a car

>Plan ahead.

>Don't worry about girls, they will come to you

>READ (No more Mr nice guy, Riptoe, Marcus Aurelius) Anything

>Restrict yourself with your vices, use video games etc as a reward, it'll feel 10x better than just monging it out all day, trust me

>And above all this, have unshakable faith that you CAN become the man you want to be, the man your ancestors would want you to be. It's deep, but it works.

You are young, you have plenty of time, but trust me, if you don't sort your life out NOW, your years will just go like dust in the wind and you'll be a nobody like 80% of guys are. Understand this, "and tomorrow will be the most beautiful day of your life.”

>>39212223
>"and tomorrow will be the most beautiful day of your life."
I think he needs to be held up at gunpoint first.

>>39212086
>also lift heavy shit

I can't begin to describe the surge of motivation I felt reading this. Skipping rest day tomorrow to do full body strength day

>>39210177
SS+GOMAD.

Achieve 1/2/3/4.

>>39212499
Glad you like it bro. My 19 were hell, i didnt fit anywere. Just kept reading my shiet and making myself a better person. Compare yourself not with the people that surround you but with your idols and aspire to be as them for they are human as you.

Now im 28 and I have been skipping gym 2 weeks cause incredible social gains and everyone wants to be with me and also incredible sex with my new high test venezuelan gf that is HNNNNNG.

IT
GETS
BETTER.

Its just that you care more for "things" so you will have to scratch more. Keep improving yourself and see the improvements while staying humble because for one thing you achieve you probably could achieved 3 because you were a fag. You are always a fag.

I live kinda by "I only earn the right to complain when I did all I could"

So I never complain and work hard.

>>39212223
Not op but I'm also 19 and damn dude did you hit my feels. I'll be keeping this. Thanks

>>39210177
>smoking weed
no wonder you're a loser with no friends

>>39212223
not him but planning to drop out of uk education to join the us marines. I know it's stupid to ditch free education but there's nothing for me and it's just a waste of time because I'm going to join the marines no matter what. (unless Im injured)

>>39212607
;~; i wish u cud b the father i never had

>>39210177
I was at the exact same point at the exact same age homie.

Best things I did that fixed this were:

Get a girlfriend. Love is real and all the people on /fit/ telling you girls are hoes and only love chads are memeing you.
Go overseas (by yourself, with a girlfriend, with friends, whoever). Will completely change your perspective on life, show you that you don't have to be stuck in your hometown all your life. Show you there's places that think like you, places you can make a clean start if you need to. Will motivate you to want to work hard and get out of where you live.
Force yourself to go out to all the things you're invited to. You'll have a good time once you're there usually and you'll be invited to more and more things and slowly learn how to make friends. Just gotta practice man
Find something academic/career-wise to pursue. I mean I still don't 100% know where I want to be, but I'm enjoying what I study and just got my first job from it (writer for some nutrition blog, study health/sport science)
Move out. Changes so much in your life once you move out.
See a psychiatrist and get prescribed whatever you need, and see a psychologist regularly. Helps immensely. There are free ones if you look around/ones covered by the government, etc. At least here in aussieland.

Do all of these things and your life will feel completely different. Better different. If none of this helps, dunno what to tell you man. But I'm pretty damn sure this will help