anyone here who lost weight/got in shape and out of nowhere got a gf?

>>39194063
I fucked some bar sluts if that counts.

>>39194063
yeah happened to me, she was abusive though and I quickly ended it.

not out of nowhere, that was my reason behind losing weight. Snagged the qt i had a crush on in elementary school :^)

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>>39195122
>Snagged the qt i had a crush on in elementary school :^)

DELET

>>39194063

I haven't dated any long term, but weight loss brought out facial aesthetics I never knew I had and I've been pursued by women for the first time in my life in my late 20s so I'm getting used to girls blatantly flirting and girls at work telling me so and so thinks I'm hot etc.

Never would have happened as a fatass

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Yeah, and then I let myself go. Feels real bad, man.

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>>39194063
I got in shape then got fat again after back to back injurys

I'm pretty sure I am getting more attenion from girls but its honestly hard to tell and Im not sure if im being narcissistic. Twice yesterday (different times) I feel like these girls were trying to stand near me all coy like so I'd talk to them, but they were just standing there in a certain way so it could have been nothing. Didn't even cross my mind till I got home and laid down to bed that I realized the two semi awkward interactions I had earlier in the day may have been something besides me just being a sperg.

I still have more weight to lose and dont look good without a shirt on so still in cocoon mode (also broke so no dates). Also dealing with a recent rejection so I dont even want to think about women right now. Whiskey, weed, and working out are my only lovers.

I was 320lbs. Dropped down to 200lbs and ate at maintnance for 2 years. I'm currently 205 and around ~15% bf.
No gf, but I have sex fairly often.

I'm much to selfish and vain now to get a girlfriend. Despite looking pretty good, I now see most women are disgusting gains goblins. At my age women are starting to look for someone they can settle with. By chance (read: no other choice) I'm at the peak of my career, have a nice car, own my house, dress nice, and now I'm in shape.

I wont say women flock to me, but tons of 24+ year olds see me as a person they can settle down with. I try to avoid them after one of them tried to baby trap me. Her friend tipped me off that she stopped taking birth control. Ever since then I don't trust women, and I have no plans to settle down with them.

Disgusting filthy creatures only good for their wet caves to stay warm in.

>>39194063
Happened to me a couple times , I'll weigh over 350 and go to 300-280 lose weight and work out for months , look thick since I have a big frame at 6'3. Ppl making jokes about lifting, females more grabby and asking stupid questions for attention. I'll get the girl and lose focus and gain it back. It's happened to me a couple times. It's not hard , at the moment I weigh 320 ,6'3 , balding , anti social , a piece of shit in my head and if my fatass can do it , You guys should be rolling in pussy.

I've fucked so far 8 women. I've pussied out countless of times with women , some even naked with me.

>>39194063
I got in shape an out of nowhere lost a bf.

Not even mad, i was getting too many mires and wanted single.

>>39195678
>wanted single

sounds like a preemptive strike on his part. he knew you had checked out

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>>39195677
>I've pussied out countless of times with women , some even naked with me.

Tell some of those stories pls. So I can feel better about my own autism.

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i lost weight and then was lonely still. hopefully getting fit nets me a bf?

yep.

Not really surprising though. I've had a ton of platonic girl friends my whole life, and they always told me how handsome I'd be if I lost weight.

>>39194063
I used to be really skinny, and then I worked out for a year and now girls look at me much more. Shit happens.

If i got really fit and didnt get gf, is there any point in keeping fit?
Should i just eat walkers crisps and jerk off until i die from cardiac arrest

>>39195738
My first girl I lost my virginity to, told everyone I had a small dick and didn't know how to fuck. So I'm confident with women cuz of it.

>be at a party
>doing cocaine
>friends sister on my sack
She's literally a 7-8 , weighs about 100 pounds but she's short , like petite body.
>at a bonfire everyone's around
>ppl start leaving to go in ,it's just me and her
>we talk , flirt , start talking about sexual things we like
>she mentions she likes sucking dick
>literally just looking at me wanting to get fucked.
>I get nervous at this point and we heAd into the house.
>she's disappointed, goes into a room to sleep
>I go chill with my friends there , a homie ask me what happened , calls me a bitch and tells me to get in there and fuck her
>so I man up go in there lay near her on the bed , she still awake
>I begin kissing her neck , sucking titties , I pull her pants down
>she was hairy , I finger her
Shits about to go down.
>I get up , tell her I have to leave and walk out.

I still see her from time to time , there's tension but we still talk.

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>>39194063
>get /fit/
>get gf
>other girls show interest
>flirting, messaging me on Facebook, stupid questions to drag out Convo
>tfw I can't sleep with all of them because I'd feel bad if I cheated.

Already got a gf before I started lifting

I'm gonna advance into ascended chadmode and become god emperor of 4chan

>>39194063
I went from 230 to 160, got the best gf I have ever had. She dumped me a year later when I got super stressed over my qualifing exams (Ph.D. stuff). I tried suicide 6 months ago, but now I am getting better: 190 and 18% body fat

>>39195894

i worry about finally getting a gf and just instantly turning into a beta male, seen it happen to too many men


fucking women and their ability to effect our emotions and shit

>>39195693
Maybe.... I feel like there were many other, more significant factors

>>39195744
Hey there cutie, where you from?

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>>39195969
usa.

Not any more than lifting can cure facial disfigurement

>>39194063
Literally how I lost my virginity. A few years ago, was tired of being permavirgin fat faggot. Lost weight, got laid immediately.
Immediately.

>>39195986
West coast?

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>>39196203
no, the middle part without all the water.

>>39196218

Lunatics go in the loony bin.

Gtfo attention whore.

>>39194063

From nothing to a 9/10 about 3 months after I left cocoonmode. That lasted 4 years.

Now, if someone could kill me thatd be nice because life will never be as good as it was back then.

>>39196218
Weak.

If you feel the need to vacation for beaches and dick, lmk

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>>39196267
can you afford the costs? think i had a dream about this recently. rich guy wants to fuck me and i don't come cheap :)

>>39196282
>gieb monies?
Wew red flag alert

>>39195859
I had nearly the same reaction the first two times I had sex

>Be regular customer at convenience store
>talk sloot into going home with me while blackout drunk
>Jump off of her scared after I nut in her

Happened the first two times I creampied women, I immediately thought I made a mistake and ran away

Me. Getting in shape did not make me a chad however and my personality is still shit, so I lost her a few months after.
O well, at least it taught me that getting a gf is still possible and my looks weren't the issue

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>>39196334
that's simply the only way that scenario plays out. if you can't afford to pay my way i'll stay at work, thanks.

>>39196393
If you were worth the money, you wouldn't need to ask. Vacation sex is one of the most basic bitch things to do.

>>39196467
lol

>>39196282

>women dream about being prostitutes

females are not sentient.

>>39196642
Isn't "she" a trap?

>>39194063

"hurr, might as well stay fat if i'm not guaranteed an ideal female mate if i get in shape"

>>39195598
Cut down on whiskey. Its fat

>>39195923
Yeah, she absolutely destroyed me, I was so in love with her. I've dated other women but never had those kinds of problems when we brokeup

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>>39195644
My hero <3

>>39195644
it's really sad when you realize how women are really only in it for themselves, despite what movies/tv tells you.

I really feel bad for the virgins on fit who lift for them, after a 5 year relationship ended, and since then i've had, as you said, women try to baby trap me and lock me down.

the worst part is, I dumped my gf of 5 years for cheating on me. 5 years. I understood why she did it though, I was the safe choice, but because I work so hard to secure our future, I wasn't very fun.

such is life. I'm glad i've learnt now.

sorry for the rant

>>39198104
it is what it is