>see post on the front page of reddit of some guy losing 100

>>39182416
>>see post on the front page of reddit of some guy losing 100 pounds

Link?

>>39182416
Post face pics so we'll know why you think you're not attractive

>>39182421
Underrated comment

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>>39182416
Dont seek validation from others man, especially not online since people smell your insecurity and everyones a critic when theyre anonymous. Its gonna be hard and take a while but exercise your self validation and confidence muscle. You can post a pic or not its up to you but just judging by the numbers youve flipped you should be proud of yoursef and let that pride carry into your confidence and demeanor. Just remember the difference between being confident and an asshole. Youre gonna make it brah.

>>39182421
It was a couple days ago. It was 140 lbs not 100 lbs lost like I said previously.

https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/58s8ww/losing_140_lbs_and_gaining_muscle/

>>39182428
l already know l am not attractive.

>>39182416
>if you are bad at social interactions lifting won't do shit. congrats, now you are in shape and still bad at social interactions.
>if you have an unattractive face then lifting won't do shit. facial features is what people notice first unless you walk naked everywhere you go.

>I lost weight so l could get laid and shit
>thinking you will automatically get laid from lifting
>there are tons of unfit people that are doing it
>there are tons of fit and attractive people that aren't because they suck at social interaction

if you aren't social then you're SOL. you are most likely be alone forever unless you work on that.

if you care that much about getting laid just buy an escort.

>>39182416
Why don't you go back there, faggot

>>39182416
I think you could become a lot more attractive with a better haircut. Maybe nicer glasses too but it's hard to tell from that picture.

Tbh your haircut is the main culprit that's making you look nerdy.

>>39182495
Who gives shit what website people browse. Faggot.

>>39182468
I'm too poor for an escort m8. Also I could get laid easily by a fat chick. They are the only ones who flirt with me. But l didn't lose weight to fuck a whale.

>>39182453
Thanks for the genuine comment friend. I'm not going to post a pic because like you said everyone on here are assholes.

You can have confidence and still have no luck. l had a lot of confidence when l finally lost weight. But grills still never seemed interested and ignore messages on fb. lt's mi face not my social skills unfortunately.

>>39182558
That's not me bud.

>>39182586
I think we need to see a pic of you at least to assess how unattractive you are and how you can cover up your flaws at least.

Also having game is important, not being able to chat up hot chicks under pressure can really diminish your options.

>>39182416
no amount of gains can compensate for that awful haircut and terrible facial asthetics

>>39182586
>I'm too poor for an escort m8. Also I could get laid easily by a fat chick. They are the only ones who flirt with me. But l didn't lose weight to fuck a whale.
then you need to lower your standards. you are expecting people who like with what they are to be with someone who is shallow. it won't happen dude.

ever wondered why you see good looking girls with not so attractive and even unfit guys? because they are interesting

>>39182461
>l already know l am not attractive.
I understand that. Post a pic so you could get some advice on how to not be unattractive

>>39182416
lose the glasses, cut your hair into a brush-shape, learn to smile
that is all

>>39182586
No worries dude i've been in your position with weight loss and everything and im coked out so i feel like conversing. honestly the online approach is something that could work but in my experience being present and in person is really the best way since you can control your wording, connotation, and body language which is what makes someone biologically want you. Youll see threads about people who just shitpost and say that looks are the only thing that matters but looks are subjective. You cant make everyone desire you at first glance but you can be the best you were supposed to be and find the best partner. When you're talking to a girl imagine you have no libido and that you have no interest in her. Most people put on a face and voice when talking to pretty chicks and they'll pick up on it. Just be relaxed, confident, and crack little jokes. If you spend alot of time on the web researching stuff odds are you have tons of interesting conversation topics but just hold onto them and organically let the conversation reveal more and more at a good pace and eventually any girl will notice you're on some lowkey, philosophical, smart,confident, james bond shit and if they want you you guys will swap numbers within a week or two. You can do it soon as you want by asking but you need to really ask not be finicky and antsy. I have the lowest self esteem you can imagine and i look like hammered shit but when i was 19 i forced myself to follow all these things in college and a 27 year old cough (mommy issues) cough who was bomb started talking to me and i was completely oblivious to her advances. She asked for my number and pretty much did all the work, i just had to not be an asshole. Next thing you know the semesters over, were drinking tequila on the beach at night to celebrate and she rides me like a merry go round. I was in complete shock. She started treating me like im some douche player and i didnt deserve that so we ended quick. Just Dont doubt yourself.

>>39182624
Nty. I don't want to be made into a meme and get doxxed.

>>39182614
I'd rather be single then date someone l don't find attractive. I'd be gay then if I didn't care about standards.

>>39182598
Not me
>>39182659
Not me

>>39182747
I tried tindr mate. I don't get matches on it. I do try to talk to girls dude. On fb snap chat they don't reply back. lt's hopeless. And ya dude l am 24. No girl has come up to me and ask for my number. Only some overweight 30 yo with 2 kids asked me. That's it. I think l just need to set up a gofundme to get enough money for an escort.

>>39182824
Come on man that defeatist mentality wouldnt have gotten you lean and swole. tindr and facebook are internet things. You have to seperate the idea of socializing with a girl for the experience and getting laid. Thats like listening to a song for the final note. Contrary to what the internet has us believe girls want a steady and organic development of a relationship that starts out as an actual friendship. If they dont theyre hoes youre better than and dont need to waste time on. I was friend zoned alot so i assumed if i paced things that id end up back there. But you just have to be your own man be satisfied with yourself and not throw her on a pedestel. You can do what you want in the end of the day but just a heads up. You can call me a bitch for this but for me the most satisfying thing about sharing a lovemaking sesh with someone else is the emotions attached behind it and the circumstances that led to it happening. You can get an escort but i feel like it would really be depressing and a waste of money. Do you go to school or have a hobby? These are the best places to talk to girls since you have an honest to God reason to. For example you dont understand the homework assignment or something just be creative and think, if someone approached someone else and asked this question would it be completely normal? Every convo starts surface level but when you throw in your little quirks and jokes that differentiate you shit will spark in her and if not fuck it and fuck them. you got experience you can learn from and apply in the future so on to the next. If youre really as unnatractive as you think save the escort money and get a jaw implant or something idk. Every problem has a fix man. You are a motivated dude with drive, if you weren't you wouldn't have done a 180 with your physique. Not many people can say they did that.

lol if you're ugly then just fuck ugly chick retard
being fit will still improve the quality of puss you get, might just be from a 4/10 to a 6/10 but thats still a decent improvement
lmao @ all the ugly autists on this board who think that because they have good bodies and decent lifts they deserve 10/10s

>>39182948
I appreciate the time you took to write that. And ya I guess l get what you mean. Just have to get yourself out there and known. I'm going to a trade school and there's literally no girls here. l guess l can go to a bar but l have no money. If you want to talk more add me on Kik @jollysanta420. I'll send you a pic of myself too.

>>39183065
Cool I'll post it on the thread after it's sent so everyone can see and try to help.

>>39182416
you look fine dude

>>39182416
The guy in this pic would actually look pretty decent if he got new glasses and a better haircut.

>>39183065
Hey dont trip bro, im still keyed out and i can either lay in my bed and listen to the sound of my heart bursting out my chest or use the energy to talk with someone. God knows most of us are here because we need some sort of social interaction. I just dislike how alot of people here are just a one liner, inside joke, spouting waste of text, assholes. Theyre the ones that dont have a social life and it shows because they feel like they need to conform to the 4chan school of thought by being a smartass and tricking people into blowing up spoons or something. You know what u gotta do, if there's anything seeing a therapist and a councilor has taught me as corny as it sounds the answer to your internal struggles are within you. You just need to accept that breaking out of your comfort zone is the only real way to progress. Think about lifting, if you're comfortable you're doing it wrong and you won't progress. Sorry man im not aficianated with all the social medias and stuff, ive got a facebook that's barebones but thats it. I wish you luck though dude.

/fit/ without /fa/ is pointless

>>39182824
Just post your photo so we can evaluate.

Nobody's going to dox you.

Why has it become accetable to post here and be a redditor?

>>39183121
Sweet

>>39183248
People will always be assholes on the Internet because they can remain anonymous. You will never have a troll comment on a board that's 100% anonymous.

And ya I think you're absolutely right about my comfort zone but still it's hard to break out of it if you aren't automatically attractive

>>39182461
I'd fuck him

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Ok you guys convinced me to post before and after pics for advice. First one was when l was in the 300's.

>>39182586

>im unattractive
>I deserve someone attractive

Not how this works.

>>39183379
Nothing we can do about them really. But I appreciate them since they are good practice at learning to brush off cunts, keep your confidence, and not letting them break your stride. Try to make any negative into a positive growing or learning experience. Dont let attractiveness be a crutch to you though man, just look at more than half of the famous actors nowadays. They look either alienish and abstract like benedict cumberbatch, or they can be average joes like sam rockwell. These guys have not let their looks get in the way of becoming successful actors. Hell even sam rockwell got a leading roll on a movie where he's like a smooth talking suave as fuck hitman and just by looking at him you wouldn't think to cast him that roll in a lifetime. Charisma is key man and you just dont have to overthink it and try too hard. Sure the first couple tries youll do some cringey shit but like muscle memory you learn and adapt to not make those mistakes. Eventually you find your voice and realize how to be and speak for people recieve you the best way. Its not necessarily putting on a mask, its getting comfortable enough to open up and let the inner stud shine. Like i said man i look like i fell off the largest goddamn ugly tree in the horrendous forest and hit every branch on the way down but i choose to ignore my appearance and spend little time in front of mirrors. They say ignorance is bliss amd its damn true. Fix the things you can, ignore the god given "flaws". And if youre really bothered facial reconstructive surgery is a viable option man. I don't recommend posting your face because i don't believe youll even be as bad as you think but ive seen people here tear apart genetically blessed people like a bunch of envious piranhas.

>>39183494

>what mommy said would work: the post.

>>39183426
Reddit guy looked waaaaaaaay more handsome than you when he was fat famalamb.

>>39183426
Your face doesn't look too bad in that photo. Obviously overweight but you're not Smegle-tier.

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>>39183426
After (185 lbs)
Give me advice bros

>>39183522
Lower your standards or be more interesting.

>>39183522
Shoo shoo can't believe we wasted all this time on you

>>39182461
>leddit
mirin the face gains.

>>39183522
Get a haircut, fashion sense, learn how to take a picture.

Note that reddit guy didn't take that pic himself

>>39183522
Get better clothes, a better haircut, and do better posing.

>>39183522
Face looks fine to me.

This one's easy.
Shave.
Get a proper haircut. Put some product in it.
Ditch the white t-shirt for anything other than working out in.
Make sure clothing you wear is ironed. For fuck sake's there's creases on it.
Can't tell the jeans but they look pretty faded.
The headphones are a good brand (ATX-50's or something?) but that giant cord will make you look like an idiot if you go out like that. It's a DJ headphone.

Basically, you are close to 0/10 in terms of style.

There's a lighter on the bench, do you smoke? Smokers smell horrible.

>>39182586
>But grills still never seemed interested and ignore messages on fb.
Post example pics of the girls you've been hitting up?

>>39183519
I know. Not saying I'm attractive.

>>39183446
You have a point. Still doesn't mean I have to only date unattractive people. Rather date no one then.

>>39183532
Wasn't lying when l said l wasn't attractive.

>>39183549
I'm poor af. I can't afford to change my style. That's why I wear the clothes I'm wearing. And idk why I was holding the headphones. I just took the pic right now

>>39183564
>I know. Not saying I'm attractive
This is what a few of us have been saying: don't feel bad reddit guy gets a shit ton of comments saying girls want hop on his dick while you get none. He's attractive, while you're not. These are facts. Accept it and move on. Don't worry about things you couldn't change (much) you'll only be sabotaging yourself.

>>39183522
>>39183546
>>39183548
>>39183549

tl;dr: you don't need advice from /fit/, you need advice from reddit malefashionadvice. Read their "getting started: the most basic advice".

Now fuck off.

>>39183592
>Now fuck off.

Ok bye. Thx 4 the advice assholes

>>39183592

>malefashionadvice

What if he wants to dress in a way that attracts women, instead of tops?

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>>39183509
>tripfag
>trying to be funny
>actually thinking his opinion holds any significant ounce of weight

how do you even tell if someone is good looking? everyone has a different taste. a guy that doesn't look good to you may look amazing to someone else.

otoh, you look decent but that doesn't automatically mean that you'll get laid

>>39183735
>everyone has a different taste.
That only applies to 8-10/10
There's a certain degree of universal attractiveness present in all human beans

>>39183564

I've only dated 4 girls in 26 years. But all 4 were 9/10 in my eyes. One a legit 10 to me.

But I am model tier at 5-6% fat yet look disgustingly average over 10%.

Just cut more. You might be surprised :)

>>39183673
I trip in fraud, im not going to take it off whenever I pop into other threads. Your advice is shitty, it doesn't work.

Cut more, hope you'll look better at low bf, otherwise go for plastic surgery desu.

Money is the equalizer. Money + personality or money + looks or looks + personality all work.

All 3 is GOAT.

i've never been told i look good and i have no problems getting laid by good looking women. it's all about being interesting to them. i can even give you a picture for you to judge.

i don't even care that much about looks. if they take care of themselves and are not fat that's enough for me. the first thing i personally notice is her personality. if i don't like it i'm out of there no matter how good she looks.

problem with most 8-10/10 girls is that they only care about looks. they are shallow as they come. they are usually the facebook type that post picture of themselves every 5 minutes. not saying that all of them are that way though, but most of them are.

>>39183522
huh? I thought you said you gained muscle

>>39183810

>First thing I notice is personality

Yeah. No.

Popularity on reddit has a lot to do with timing. Especially if you're talking front page. A couple of people have done analyses of the best time to post and there are certain time bands that are better than others. Also, if your story was posted not long after this one, then people may be unconsciously less interested in it.

tl;dr don't take it personally