What are you overcompensating /fit/?

>>38981203
>tfw i try to tell robots about the importance of confidence and authenticity and they turn it into frogposting
If you fags listened to me you would have gotten laid by now

>blaming genetic failings on your inability to turn down the autism long enough to get laid
Ugly people get laid all the time, being confident and secure in yourself is literally 99% of the battle

The rest is just a numbers game

> autism
> normal (i mean normal) cock
> depressive episodes

but im all the way up

bipolar
if I'm strong I can smack my bitch harder and I'd have muscles so she wouldn't ever leave me... ever...

my dick
my stability

>>38981233
>If you fags listened to me you would have gotten laid by now
Never met you before in my life pal but i doubt you hold the answer to lifes greatest mystery

>>38981203
I'm compensating for being a fat kid.

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Spirit-crushing loneliness
Inability to find direction in life anymore
Not being Estonian
Not having gf for 5+ years

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h-height?

NEET
5x3 benis

got bullied for being a fat weirdo in school now I'm hot and smart and only moderately awkward

>>38982221
Literally just be yourself and be confident in yourself.
Still think you have a 1% chance?

No problem, talk to a hundred girls.

By then you will even be comfortable talking to women.

It is that fucking easy.
Tons of ugly and fat losers with no jobs or money or prospects in life are getting laid right now.
Why aren't you?

>>38982436
Also, maybe lower your standards at first.

Don't hold out for an 11/10.

Do some practice runs on some 6-8/10s to get some experience in, and confidence in your ability to sexually please a woman.

You all complain women are having so much sex all the time, then you complain you can't get laid.
It's pathetic

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>>38981203
Nothing, I'm just lifting the suicidal urges away.

Social anxiety and general autism
I figure if im fit and handsome people will put up with it more. And the results show they do.

>>38982436
I am confident in myself and i can talk to girls, thats not the problem
Problem is creating an incentive for them to fuck, how to create the attraction i need

>Inb4 get fit, be tall, good looking, educated, hygenic etc etc
Been there, done that. Still i feel no attraction from girls when i talk to them

Its not as easy as you claim either since "Talk to a hundred girls" will litterally take me the rest of my life at the current speed im meeting girls at
Ive met 1 single girl in the past six months so this is a problem all in itself that there are very, very few single girls around

FAK i made a long post but pressed f5 :(
so this is frome my heart

>>38982214
you gonna make it. thats it

>>38982305
try to use your lneliness to get to know yourself better. and stop thinking a girl will make you complete, if you dont like yourself how will a girl want to stay with your current state bro.
you gonna make it

>>38982358
less height means youre going to be looking sauced up really fast. also girls have more criterias theyre judging like: social status, alphaness, wealth
so work on these and forget your one little weakness. also your pipi probally looks huge in comparison to the rest of your body nohomo.

>>38982459
yes bro

>>38982501
your close to making it. last step is to accept your sexuality cause nowadays were all raised to be fkn bitches. Try noporn and you want to hump every landwhale

All gonna make it brahs

Ugly face and extremely low self esteem
Lifting help a ton with the latter

>>38981203
My inability in 80% of cases to create any sort of sexual tension with women. It's a practice problem due to being scared. I used to be good at it but I've gotten really rusty and keep choking

>>38982819

options you have: crying or bettering.

every episode of bettering involves some time of feeling more shitty than before cause you brake your habits.

So you can be a little bitch or live your true potential.

If you have problems gettings started try nofap (for me: nocaffein) and you will be a fkn beast brah

>>38982784
>Try noporn and you want to hump every landwhale
I havent watched porn in about 6 months but i still have standards mate, ill never want to fuck a landwhale and even if i start doing roids will i want to do that

Dont say stuff like this plz

>>38982918

but lets say youre on a period of like 19 days of not squadoooshing your man juice. Is there literally no desire to hump everything which is in your crosshair? I can feel your for having standards and thats good but if you literally have no desire even then there might be another problem brah

Having a worthless degree.
Having a dead end job.
Having no passion.
Having no drive.

>>38982501
>Problem is creating an incentive for them to fuck, how to create the attraction i need
All humans have the incentive to fuck.
Ask for their number
Text them and ask then out for coffee/dinner
After that ask them back to your place
?????
Profit! (Vaginally)

>>38982951
>Is there literally no desire to hump everything which is in your crosshair?
Ofc there is, the amount of time i spend looking at girls and thinking about fucking increases something crazy
but id NEVER do landwhale, not in a milion fucking years.

Nofap increases frustration and makes me unable to focus on anything else besides how horny i am so i cant maintain nofap for more than 6-8 days

>>38982951
>>38982918 just not a horny little shit and still has his standards.

>>38982784
>wanting to fuck every landwhale
Implying that's a good thing.

I yanked the noodle about every 3 or 4 days. I had a FWB, so I did shit often, and I could still cum okay. When we first started, I hadn't masturbated in a while and I wasn't able to get it up the first two times we tried. Third try, I masturbated the day before and everything was all right from there. But we just ended things last night, so we'll see how this goes.

Nofap is a meme. Just don't watch porn.

>>38982501
>Its not as easy as you claim either since "Talk to a hundred girls" will litterally take me the rest of my life at the current speed im meeting girls at
Then the solution is painfully obvious.
Meet more girls in less time.

I live in the back woods of alaska, and have no problem meeting tens of females every weekend.
You are not actually trying

>>38983000

bet you jerk of 3x/day settling down with every bullshit occuring.

Change bro, FAK

>>38983032
I dont sense it from girls which is strange since ive had sex and gfs before but then it was much easier and flowed more naturally

Here is how it goes
>Talk to girl
>Enjoy conversation
>Time runs out(we get interrupted/i need to go)
>Time goes until i see her again, repeat step 1

The whole "attraction" part seems missing, there is no "I want to sit on your dick" feeling

>>38983059
Ive looked everywhere i could think of
Girls are either taken or not attractive, usually the former and very rarely the latter

Right now, no im not trying because i have other shit to do and i want to relax right now and not be stressed
I work, lift, run a company and study at uni. These things dont stress me at all but what DOES put stress on me is how my dating life is going (or not going, i should say)
My bad luck with women really fcks with my mentality and i cant afford to lose my concentration right now

>>38981203
Baldness is the reason i started lifting

Self-confidence is the reason i started MMA

>>38983064
Nah. I work full time and have a girlfriend. I couldn't jerk off 3x a day if i wanted.

It's easy to say change. I don't know how. I went to school. Got a degree. Lived cheap as fuck to pay off my loans. Got debt free. Got a girlfriend. I've tried to be responsible and do the things that would give me the appearance of a decent life. But I still feel like I have no purpose or direction. I'd change to something else, if only I knew what the something else I wanted to be was. In the meantime I'm just safely coasting by until I die.

>>38982472
True, I saw some autistic assume shit and people think I'm being funny. Kind of a weird thing when everybody wants to please you

>>38981203
i want to look like my favorite animu character

>>38982784
good look

>tfw HAVE GF.

All of you that are

>tfw no gf

Don't know the pain of

>tfw have long term gf when things start going bad

Trust me.

>>38983680
Been thru it. Never give a hoe ur heart

>>38981233
I am confident, they just don't like me.

>>38983228
Same here. No passion for life, I just want to lift and see beautiful nature. Just passively getting a degree and shit, saving what I can because that's "what you do".

ugly
disgusting layer of hair everywhere on my body because of shitty genetic disorder

kill me

Social awkwardness.
What 4chan considers autism.
Feel like i will never lose my virginity but at the same time punishing myself for wanting happiness only through pussy and not getting it by myself.
Avoidant disorder.
Depressive episodes.
Wanting to die.

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>>38982358
My height and face.
Im 5'7 and ok looking, but when I am with my buddy EVERY woman looks only at him. I dont get a single glance. I feel very ugly when I am with him. Thats why I want to have a good body. My friend is a skinny fat dyel.
>feels bad man

>>38981203
I am an indian, and genetic trash. Gonna workout as much as I can and then kill myself.

I'm just compensating so far I'll step it soon.

>crippling loneliness?

>>38981203
childface
manlet problems (5'8)
slender bone structure (hands and wrists smallest I've seen on any man, no joke)
and my lack of a car

>>38983228
What degree did you get and what do you work as?
>>38983907
I realized I had no desire to pursue anything uni had to offer so I didn't go, now I'm here 3 NEET years later because I don't fucking want to be a wageslave loser being depressed and feeling like there's no return, get your degree and then see what you want to do afterwards

my lack of direction in life

>>38981203
Mainly (probably 85% of the reason) is growing up as a weak, unathletic child
I always got picked on and was too weak to fight back, people would literally rather have no one than have me on their team (some kids would refuse to play at all if they had to have me), and girls would always laugh at me

the other 15% include my ugly face, mental issues, and being a generally unattractive person

Height
Autism
Anxiety
Loneliness
The feeling of worthlessness

>>38981233
Why is getting laid so important?

>>38985403
Validates us.

I'm compensating for my small muscles

>>38985403
It's literally hardwired into our brain

My complete inability to be happy with my life or escalate my self sabotage
Atleast in the iron game escaltion is healthy unlike alcohol or drugs

>>38985454
So?

I'm ugly but I hope that one day I'll be muscular enough to attract a hot milf.

>>38985440
Us or ego?

Leggo my ego.

>>38983059
And how do you do this chief ?

>>38985518
We are our ego and our ego is us.

extreme insecurities about everything in my life

Always been the eternal skinny friend amongst my big friends (for you).

No more.

>>38981203
Eh I wouldnt say I am overcompensating for anything really I'm pretty avg in all regards (5'11, 6.5 inch dick, avg face) I just want to look good naked brehs

>>38985624
Try pancakes instead. Yummy real maple syrup dribbled on. Blueberries.God like breakfast.

>>38985370
I got a BA in Economics/Business. I worked for a year after college at a mortgage company with the typical 9-5 desk job, but I absolutely hated it. For the past 3 years I've worked as the warehouse manager for a local furniture store. I make decent money but its a dead end

Height

>>38985575
Leave the house every weekend.
Go to bars and parties and shit
Public gatherings and social events

i am not

5'6

Arms, mostly. But now also hair. Eventually I'm going to need to buzz it to preserve my dignity and I don't want to look like a neo-nazi.

raped as a kid by a teenage boy

The fact that I didn't have my first kiss till I was 20 and the only girl that ever loved me, and that took my virginity is now 1000 miles away with a success career as a ballet dancer while I'm still slaving away in my 5th year of college. I have insane sexual escapades which are aided by my fitness, but nothing fills the void she left over a year ago.
>no amount of midget hand jobs, sexy threesomes or bondage sex with sexy randos will ever be as good as waking up with her in my arms and our dog on the other side.

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The fact I'm a huge anime and video game nerd.

>>38982221
it's not life's greatest mystery. you just try for a week, give up and say its too hard.

it works for people that actually put in the fucking effort, you are not entitled to pussy just for existing, and that train of thought is how a woman thinks. be better than them

i have än ugly benis

Not really overcompensating for anything. I've just always been physically active one way or another and if I don't exercise then I get depressed.

>>38982305
Im Estonian.
The other points are what i'm compensating for.

>>38982025
Hey there handsome

>>38982221
If you think that's life's greatest mystery you are and have probably never been alive. That's the only possible explanation apart from you being an absolute cockswab cumrag

Autism

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>>38982467
This, lifting is literally keeping me alive.
I saw a dream few days ago where I got shot and ended up in a coma for a week.
The first thing I did in the dream when I woke up from the coma was that I looked at the calendar and realized I haven't been to the gym for a week.

>>38981203
My refusal to do anything athletic as a teenager

Autismo

>>38984053
5'7 here aswell, exactly same reason for me breh

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>>38981203
my lack of self esteem

>>38989851
Tfw I can't seem to make friend with anime weabooo either. All my friendships are shallow ie. They are all acquaintances.

All my convos are the following:

Me
>Hey, hows it going?
Friend
>Good, and you?
Me
>Good!

>>38981233

Jokes on you, my libido died and my dick doesn't work, that's why I don't get laid.

>>38981203
5.5 inches

Being asian

The fact I am a uni drop-out. I might not have a degree, but at least I can be that token /fit/ guy.

>>38981233
I live on a small college campus. All my friends rushed one frat and I didn't get in.

I've made out with plenty of girls at parties but there's always a reason why I can't take one home. On top of that they're usually 4-6/10s.

How do I get girls who don't have low self-esteem and who are actually cute?

>>38996183
iktf

>>38983162
Why dont you use your sexual frustration/energy to empower you to grow your business. You have something more special, almost any dumb nigger can get laid, retards have been breeding since the dawn of man.

Hit on 8-10/10s only, crave the rejection, the friendzone is even better of course. Just talk to women and be you, and ask for pointers on how your personality is. And dont be a retard that hates women. Use the sexual frustration to motivate you. Make business connections, have a social circle of people smart/smarter than you.

Then when you have it all, the bod, the business, the business partners. A Stacy will inevitably ask you out.

Then you must reject them, she is a dumb slut not worth your commitment. That same day jack off yourself in the mirror. You have done it, you have achieved enlightenment.

You have made it.

>>38996827
>You have done it, you have achieved enlightenment.
Other than the above that was pretty motivating.

>>38996802
I was speaking to my teacher about something related to this. One of the people in my school, has a charm of just getting along with people and stuff. We were having a discussion about this and how he does it. My teacher told me that he was periscope taught how to do this. How to get along with people and their good sides.

However, I wonder if that's true. Is it too late for my personality to change or can i still change?

>>38981233
>confidence is a controlled emotion
>t. stupid

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>>38997439
>I lack self mastery
>T. Weakling

>>38996413
Kek
>>38996795
By getting experience with those who may not be entirely ideal.
Also try fucking in cars or public places. Shit's cash

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