Girl at the gym asked me out...

>>38891175
Oh anon...

>>38891175
'Hey, sorry about turning you down. I just had a bit on my mind and got nervous, but it'd be nice to grab a meal together. How about this [day]?'

how can you autists who cant even into basic interaction get girls and im here dying alone

>>38891175
Give me her number anon ill sort it out for ya

>>38891196
No m8. Ask her out and if she mentions you had a gf tell her you broke up. Being nervous is beta.

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>>38891224
>girl asks you out today
>tell her no
>tomorrow, go up to her
>hey my gf broke up yesterday, i'll go out with you today

>>38891175
Anon sounds like you don't love yourself. How can you love someone else if you don't love yourself. Focus on getting where you need to be in life rather than kicking yourself over this girl. Girls come and go.

>>38891175
I mean... there is a reason for that.

What would you do if you said yes? Get nervous at the next stop and fuck up?

How about you fix yourself to a point where you are not nervous about yourself you faggot

>>38891238
Fuck you're right. Excuse my virgin advice

Bruh. I'm a fucking loser who lives at home at 28 years old. I haven't had a job in 9 years. It took me 8 years to get a 2yr community college degree. I'm disgusting and fat. Go up to that girl and tell the truth you faggot. Tell her you got nervous. Do it for me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DB_t10VCGs

>>38891175
You did the right thing anon. What do you think would gave happened when you drop your spaghetti at lunch or she finds out how much of a loser you are?

Believe me you saved yourself a lot of embarrassment.

>>38891329
You choose to believe you're a loser. Cmon anon, chin up.

damn son, pretty harsh. Not all women care about your current status if you're actively trying to do something about it.

>>38891355
Read
>>38891395

>>38891175
Get a job, move out, and ask her again in a couple months

>>38891457
This, or just ask her out later.

>>38891175
>lives with his parents at 24

That's not the problem, fucked a cute girl and she knows about me still living at home. It's only a problem when you make a problem out of it.

>>38891175
Jesus Christ m8. I can't imagine being so scared of women I'd turn down something like. She puts it in a plate for you and you fuck it up... You should probably just retire your dick altogether.

>>38891224
Then she thinks she's a rebound and probably runs a mile or doesn't think it'll be anything serious.

>>38891175
Just telle her the truth. Saying sorry about everything and freely talking ybout your insecurtites may be beta af, but owing up if you actualy fucked it up beyond a doubt and being honest about it is as Alpha as it gets.

>being this autistic
oh boy
it gonna be a long ride for OP

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I hate dating and it makes me nervous af. If some guy asks me out, I just get all autistic and walk away. I just have this mentality of 4chan neckbeards that all men are used goods and already damaged by some other bitch anyway and that they'd lose their interests anyway when they got to know me better. So why even try. I just lift and do my thing.

>>38893166
You're a chick?

>>38893204
Yeah.

>inb4 London

>>38893204
>>38893204
btw im a gurl ;)

>>38892987
>say sorry about everything
>talk about your insecurities
If you want to scare girls away do this.
OPerino you need to fix yourself first or accept who your are. Then start dating

>>38893321
LONDON
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>>38891224
>Was your ex hotter than me?
>Show me a picture
>YOU WERE DATING MY SISTER?

OP just say that you were nervous because you don't get a chance to get a girl like her everyday or some shit like that and don't dig yourself into a hole like this

>>38893321
post butt pls

>>38891175
Just tell her the truth, you panicked when a pretty girl asked you out. Tell her you don't really have a gf and ask if she's still up for lunch.

Problem solved faggot.

>>38893334
That's why I made the distinction between doing the first and owing up to honest mistakes - these are two VERY different things. I wanted to make clear that admitting to a mistake ist NOT like saying sorry everytime.

>>38891175

you fucked up really good

like really fucking good

>saying that you broke up with your gf and that you want to get with her

don't do this, you will seem desperate to her and probably will dry her vag hard

At this point the best solution is saying that you weren't sure about going out with someone of your gym because reasons and that's why you lied (like you don't shit where you eat, you can lie saying that you had the same situation at your job if she keeps asking why)

>>38893166
Obviously that's why you are here.

>>38893166

we all gonna make it brehnitty

>>38891210
Based addie

>>38891175
Wait a month then mention offhand that things didn't work out. Continue to act normally with grill, and wait another month to ask her out.

>>38891457
> leaving neet life just for a chance at a cup of coffee with a girl
FUCKING LOLLLLL!!