How much bigger do I need to get for girls to invite me to smash

You gotta lose the glasses first and foremost
Ugly ass nigga

>>38825872
You don't.

Truth is there are people who look way worse than you who get laid without paying for it. It is all about the personality. Maybe try reading a book instead.

>>38825887
Brah I cant see without them. It takes me two hours to put contacts on.

Also to add to original post, i try to wear tight shirts, dropped $200 for nice dr martens boots, bought new coat. Stull nothing. Pls help!

>>38825872
>make it easy for me to get laid regardless of my sperginess?

Jesus, you should have learned by now that there is nothing you can lift that will do this for you.

Remember when you were weak? You lifted weights and over time, you stopped being weak.
Your social skills are weak. You need to train those now.

>>38825894
I read alot. Thats what I spent my entire childhood/teebage years and most of college doing.

Pretty good at small talking with people.

>>38825909
>Tight shirts, doc martens, AE boxers

Learn how to actually dress well. May not be holding you back but that little glimpse of your wardrobe makes it apparent you look like a numale/sperg out in the streets

>>38825909
Get lasik.

The glasses are doing you zero favors


Or fucking get gud at contacts

>>38825919
If this was true getting laid would be cake
I suspect this is not true, or due to being autistic your ability to judge other's resposes, positive or negative via social cues is zero.

>>38825872
Have fun and act the best version of yourself
you're too focused on imaginary checklist to impress people
"If i wear this and say this she'll have to fuck me"
doesn't work like that bro

>>38825919
I dunno if small talking is considered social skills. Was pretty angry in summer and reading too much trp, asked a Persian girl if she came from camel land and teased her as trp said to do, she got pissed and eventually blocked me on fb and doesnt talk to me anymore...

All I want is to get laid once by a 6/10 or a 7/10 that would make me happy and give me energy to continue pursuing my mission in school. I just want to figure out what I am doing wrong.

>>38826049
> trp said to do
stop doing what bitter people on the internet tell u to do.
only their advice works is after harassing 100 girls that you get one sucker. if thats your goal keep doing it

But seriously use your own judgment my man.

>>38825894
This is the most retarded fucking mindset I've ever seen. Literally kill yourself

>girls don't like money, poor guys living with their mom get laid all the time!

>>38825992
I am well read. At home amongst family I talk about what interests me. But my interests are in spergy topics like philosophy, microbiology, politics, etc. I think girls would get bored if I talk to then about this. I have no idea what to talk to them other than that. Tried pua/trp but it didnt work for me.

>>38825872
You recognize this is literal natural selection in action, right?

Awesome pics. Great size. Look thick. Solid. Tight. Keep us all posted on your continued progress with any new progress pics or vid clips. Show us what you got man. Wanna see how freakin' huge, solid, thick and tight you can get. Thanks for the motivation.

>>38825872
Learn social skills.

Otherwise, you might need a bit more. Tad bigger and tad leaner. But really, so much of it is just status, money, and fashion.

If you can make a girl laugh, have an average face, nice watch/cologne you'll be fine.

>>38826024
But everyone always says -lift, dress well and stuff like that.

Used to be an approach machine in my pua days, but after hundreds of shutdowns and zero success approaching girls seems pointless because I know i am going to fuck it up like i did every other time. Just want to get whatever is in my head fixed first.

>>38826084
Like I said, I can get girls on one date. After that I blow it. Every single fucking time. Always in different ways and never do I understand why. Its discouraging.

>>38826084
Also, how much bigger? Currently,195lbs at 6'2. Haven't had sex in so long I am willing to grind it out for as long as it takes to reach the needed bodyweight. All I need is a nimber to work towards.

>>38826049
>asked a Persian girl if she came from camel land and teased her as trp said to do

Definitely learn some basic social skills and stop reading that shit, man. I know this sounds cliche but be yourself and not the shitty ass version you think girls want.

>>38826106
yea but dropping $200 on fucking doc martens
unless you actively attend punk/hardcore shows no girl is gonna fuck you because of those shoes.

Honestly smoke some weed and seek help from a psychiatrist
probably have something going on you're not aware of. that repels girls away

>>38826153
Already been to shrinks. They didn't help. He told me to cry...wtf?

>>38826146
There ISN't a number. There isn't some magic number to hit, level to grind to, that suddenly makes you able to interact with people well enough to want to fuck you.

They are people. There isn't a magic body weight a girl can hit and suddenly men want to marry her

>>38826153
Plus afraid to smoke weed, ill get addicted or something or ill die...

>>38826179
Yeah, maybe you could express an emotion so you stop seeming like a soulless robot

>>38826194
I know to talk to dudes about video games, girls, lifting, sports, school. If they are intellectually inclined, about what i read.

What do i talk to girls about? None of that interests them?

>>38826205
Why do you think I sound like a soulless robot? I laugh and smile and try to be friendly and stuff? Also get angry alot when by myself. So i am not soulless

>>38826146
Are you literally and unironically autistic?

>>38826240
Yes. I am not trolling. I want help getting laid by a 6 or 7/10. I want to see what its like, and get some energy to continue grinding every day to pursue my dream.

>>38826253
try not being a faggot :^)

>>38826240
I have never been diagnosed with autism, but I have been diagnosed with a non verbal learning disorder. I think I am autistic because I am 24, never been to a house party in my life (have no idea what I would do even if I went because I dont drink). Don't have a group of buddies I hang out with. I had a lifting buddy last year but he got a job in Boston.

I dunno if I sound autistic, but it would be nice if some good person could help me out? If i could build a model in my head of how to seduce 6 or 7, I'd be able to do it. Thus far all the data I collected has been inconsistent and I haven't been able to deduce any patterns that I could use to build a model for myself.

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>>38826377
become this man

>>38825872
Boxer briefs
Contact lenses
You're welcome

>>38826432
What are his stats?

I had high hopes that someone in 4chan would help me out. Guess I am just gonna grind for 10 years and get rich, maybe then I will get a 6 or 7/10

>>38825894
Reading a book has absolutely nothing to do with getting laid you retard
Reading a psychology book maybe

>>38826072
whatever you say khv.

Just keep lifting weights, I'm sure eventually you will unlock a personality.

>>38826474
Honestly bro the best thing you can do at this point is grind in the gym and actually talk to girls

>>38826499
I read stories about jacked dudes on here getting makeouts and fukking random girls just by getting huge and not doing anything. I think I am going tl lift natty for 5 more years then hop on tren and blast hard.

>>38826146
Grind to lvl 210, upgrade to a +10 stamina lifting belt and buy the tanktop of lost souls

>>38826508
I talk to girls. Afraid of getting friendzoned, how do I show them i want to get laid but not date without being a sperg about it?

Hey OP I used to get laid when I was a skinny dipshit but got drunk and did drugs all the time
Literally went to a party every weekend, sometimes twice a week or more, and acted like a dumb loud cunt
Got a couple ugly girls here and there to fuck me

Now I got a 6/10 shy gf so I don't do that anymore, and girls don't give me a second glance

>>38826521
Hey man I am asking for help. Don't need to make fun of me for it. Just because it is easy for you, doesnt mean its the same way for everyone else.

So donyou think 210lbs will help me get laid? Think I can get that ina year of consistent lifting.

>>38826555
get off 4chan
go on youtube watch this 5 times https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdBoybKnzZw
go to a bar
grab some beer
start talking to people until it closes down
you will get laid tonight

its not hard you dumbfuck

>>38826519
If you are willing to grind over long periods of time to increase your chances of having sex, there is a MUCH better way than working out.

Statistically men who spend more time around women have more sex with women.

This appears obvious but is the key.

You need to increase the size of potential partners at any given moment, while decreasing the amount of competing males.

You also need to make sure whatever you do is easy to continue to do over long periods of time.


1. Your Job.
Whats your job? Are there girls? If not consider getting a new one. Your job is the most likely place to meet sexual partners.

2. Hobbies
As you are an autist I will assume you have no hobbies that are social. If you do have a hobbie that could be social focus on that.


BTW

Money doesn't get you girls. It helps but in the age of the internet millionaire having wealth doesn't = social power like it used to. And social power is what attracts women.

>>38826623
My job is studying. I am in university doing a second undergrad to achieve my dream. There are plenty of girls around.

I also tried talking to girls like you suggested. I was into PUA a few years ago and tried grinding it out by aplproaching as many girls as I could. I got shut down so many times and had such little success that now the thought of approaching makes me sick.

What would you suggest I talk to girls about?

My hobbies are: reading fantasy, philosophy, studying, video games and lifting.

You don't even need to be huge to get tinder matches mayne. I'm still new to lifting so I'm still relatively small, but I get matches. Just have an interesting bio and don't be totally fucking ugly and you'll be good.

>>38825872

How big is your dick?

>>38826623
Aren't work relationships troublesome when the relationship ends but you still have to work with the person?

>>38826738
You must have an amazong jawline. I dont get any matches in 6 months on tinder.

>>38826623
i have a rule, don't screw the crew. You may say it's dumb but I call it avoiding any future problems because fuck that noise.

Unfortunately, I'm passing up upon an opportunity to smash one of at least 50% eligible hoes. Thats not including uglies, fatties or oldies.

Still, fuck that noise. Sorry brehs. Not gonna make it.

>>38825894
just be urself lol

>>38826747
it's a bad idea because she can go to HR when things inevitably go sour, bitch to them, and then get you fired

>>38825909
Maybe try a different frame. I Remember in High school some girls would wear glasses without magnification just because they looked cute. Idk if that still holds today it was 5 yeas ago

>>38826623
>Whats your job? Are there girls? If not consider getting a new one. Your job is the most likely place to meet sexual partners.
DON'T EVER FUCK A GIRL FROM WORK
THE MOMENT SHIT GETS BAD YOU'RE FUCKED

Fuck it man just pay for it!!. Your problem is you don't know how to act around women!!. And you're probably telling them some awkward shit which is fine in some cases.. The girl you pay will teach you many lessons my friend and help you break the ice with The ladies.. If I want to learn how to play the piano I hire a music teacher same fucking theory!!!

>>38827035
But prositutes only want sex. They wont teach me what to talk about with girls, will they?

Plus I live with my parents, where do I bring them home. And they are expensive ((even on backpages) if I work on minimum wage.

>>38826822
this, get some oliver peoples'
look like Depp.

>>38826125

That's called a plateau in PUA, you should really try to write down everything that happens after each date to maybe understand what you do wrong/analyze what you will do better next time.

Can't really help you besides saying that we find those most like us attractive, getting laid should be easy if you find the right girl.

Also gotta understand that some PUAs are douches without the slightest idea of what they do and preach about it like the Holy Bible. Roosh V is absolute shit, I'm glad I never tried some of his "tactics", because he's the poster child for beta male. At least you seek help, try Chase Amante at girlschase. Most helpful PUA site/community I've found so far.

Remember that even Brad Pitt can't get all the girls. No guy has a 100% success rate in dating, those that say they do either lie or are very good and only go after girls they know are attracted to them, which means that 100% is fake.

TL;DR Here's a quote: "If you can't pick up a chick in jeans & a t-shirt, you're doing it wrong". Just dress in good style/normal anon, like others have said, Doc Martens have no effect on normal grills and at worst they will actively avoid you, because you're "one of those guys" now.

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Okay anons, please tell me what I need to do to get girls.
I've worked out since starting high school and I still can't fucking get girls.

>>38827086
Dude I would post writeups online on different communities (like Seddit) after each date. I would analyze, have no idea what to do still. My plateau lasted for more than a year. When it lasts that long, its probably more than a plateau. Something is wrong and I want to figure out what.

>>38825872
Switch to boxer briefs you look like a fucking idiot.

wow how pathetic is this shit, this is severe autism

imagine this fucking nerd playing minecraft with those glasses on hahahaa

>>38825872
significantly

>>38826474

If you want a girl because "muscles", it's gonna be a gym bunny who keeps you for validation or some sick mental illness. Needless to say, money only attracts gold diggers, though I won't lie, it does help and it does discriminate what girl you'll get. Even rebels got to eat you know?

>>38826519

Ever notice how the big guys are rarely in a hurry? Controlled slowness shows that you are in control of your life and not scurrying like a mouse. Ever seen a jacked dude scurry like a mouse? Point proven.

What this means is that no guy gets laid because "muscles" unless she's incredibly shallow or full of mental problems. There ARE girls who will makeout/blow/fuck whatever guy shows basic skills because they are horny, don't confuse these two situations.

>>38826531

Then don't do friend shit! Be a man, men lead and show consideration for women without her needing to vocalize it. AKA DONT go shopping with her or invite her to a "fun" date. If you must go on a first date, make it clear that it is only about you and her and DONT say shit like "I would never go out with you".

Make it clear that you value her as a woman, not as a friend.

>>38827076

Never take a word at face value from women about women. Too often, they don't actually know what they want. Prostitutes probably gonna tell you to treat them like princesses and buy her shit.

OP i'd fuck you if you lived in New York

>>38827222
Thanks! Helpful response.

Since I live with my parents, it is impossible to bring a girl home. Is it appropriate to tell a girl I would invite her home if I lived alone, but since I don't would she be down to go to a hotel? Its just I thought you had to be super subtle when asking for sex?

>>38827262
Please post a picture of what you look like. That would give me a little confidence. Ive been in the dumps lately.

>>38827127

You're an undergrad student right? If you analyze a paper and tell your prof that you could not draw conclusions or learn anything at all... well then, that's not actually analyzing is it? I really, really suggest going to girlschase or at least their forums.

I came from a homeschool background with absolutely no friends & strong White Knighting when I found PUA and I started reading on Roosh, then migrated across different PUA communities until I found girlschase. Their articles along with my first girlfriend lead me to leaps and bounds in knowledge about dating and relationship dynamics.

Your problem is dates, so read about actual dating, already gave you some advice about first dates on another post which I hope are helpful.

>>38827274
What kind of faggot parents wouldn't be happy about their autistic son who they worry is gay bringing home a girl?

>>38827310
My mom says its inappropriate and is worried my younger brother (who is 17) may be negatively influenced and considers sex witha girl that is not a gf to be bad.

>>38825872
>tfw girls invited me to smash @ 137lbs of mean dynamite benis

>>38827076
No, idiot.

Prostitutes want money.
That's why they sell their pussy.

They would much prefer it if you just gave them the money without fucking them.

If you want to talk to women, then talk to women.
Believe in your fucking self because not a single woman you will TRY to talk to will.
If you just want to pound some cunt and bust a nut, then get a fairly high class escort or a pornstar.

>>38827308
Yeah man I am in undergrad. Cant find your other post about girls chase.

Used to read alot of advice (like goodlookingloser, roosh, solvemygirlproblems, etc) seemed very fake to me (why do i have to reply to a text a certain way for her to like me?) and i could never master this texting thing.

What makes girlschase different

>>38827274

I've never been in that situation myself, but I can say that generally, you want to make a move and start getting frisky within 5 minutes of arriving home. First date sex won't happen unless you got good game and she does not view you as boyfriend material (e.g., don't pay for her meal if you decide to go on a dinner date).

A hotel as you said, is way too obvious. Generally, you don't want to blatantly say "let's have sex", maybe play pool or listen to some sick tunes if you got a pool table or playlist, for example.

You could always try going to her home (e.g., if you were in a bar/night spot, you could say something like getting a nightcap at her place), but this is harder to do than your own for many reasons. That's your best bet right now.

If I were you, I'd try to find cool friends and/or other PUAs that can help you (and don't just say help, but actually do) and maybe even let you bring girls. But that's a different kind of beast.

>>38827378

Just a personal anecdotal, almost everything they've said and I've tried has given me positive results, unlike Roosh. I still remember him writing once that "at the end of the date, ask to use her bathroom... even if you already did 10 minutes before" or some crap like that. Guy is a major creep who blames everyone but himself for his own short failings.

I cant sell you an idea aside from the fact that it worked for me in getting out of White Knight land and actually meeting girls whom I have impacted and they have impacted me, in positive ways.

Best way to text a girl? There ain't none, if you absolutely must you can, but it is always better to be to the point. Texting should only be used to schedule a date or telling her you enjoyed your date/night out, maybe a sad face if she says she's sick or something.

>>38825965

Girls dig smart guys, which glasses imply, just make sure they flatter your face.

If you must get surgery, do PRK/LASEK if you plan or current play sports. LASIK makes a cut in your eye that could make you blind/do serious damage if you receive a blow to the head hard enough to tear at your eyes.

LASIK automatically disqualifies from the most rigorous roles in the US Military; in fact, Army/Navy surgeons never do LASIK because of the fact.

>>38827497
Yeah not planning on getting LASIK because of a fear of going blind. I just play sports in my glasses usally.

Tan. everyday. loose the glasses or get cooler ones. boxer briefs. speak as little as possible. always be asking her questions about herself and ask more questions about things she says so that she is always talking about herself and you don't have a chance for the autism to get in the way. you body is cash. id fuck you.

>>38827546
Ok will try that. What do you look like if i may ask?

What about complimenting the girl and making her feel good about herself?

>>38827576

Not that anon, but will bite. When complimenting a woman, always make sure it is genuine and uncommon. If it is neither, you are no different than generic guy123. A girl who reads already knows shes smart (or at least thinks she is) as does every plain Jane know she is pretty (or thinks she is).

She will feel good about herself if she already likes you, which most likely is true on a date. By telling you about herself, she feels more connected to you than all the other guys, especially if you deep dive like anon said. A good rule of thumb is you speak 25% of the time and she speaks 75% when first meeting a woman, but don't get hang up over it and especially don't beat a dead horse.

>>38827829
'when first meeting a woman' - does that imply speak less on a date too?

>>38827851

You can talk a bit more as time goes on and she gets a chance to fall for you. Absolutely it means talk less on date, always remember that the whole interaction is about her, if she asks you something try to be playful (e.g., make her guess your age, if she's older say something like if she wine & dine younger guys) or answer in few details and get the conversation back to her.

Watch films with strong male characters and fake their style until you become it. Think James Bond, George Clooney films; Gary Cooper if you like westerns; The Saint by Van Kilmer is a perfect example of an intriguing guy that drives women nuts. Of course, these films are fake, but these guys have the right personality and know-how to fully act and produce very sexy, likable, and intriguing characters. Quite ironically if the film is a rom-com, don't expect to learn anything good out of it; they're the female equivalent to a cardio bunny offering a post-workout blowjob despite this being her first time at your gym -- just fantasy.

Out of modern young guys, Tom Hiddleston certainly comes to mind, that guy has his facial expressions nailed to a T and has a more normal charismatic and achievable vibe than someone like say Russell Brand, who is a living, breathing flirting machine.

Dude. Alcohol is the answer. It is that which will enable you to transition from small talk to messing around to getting laid.

>>38828138
Holy shit, thanks for the response. This is awesome.

>>38825872
CHAD eats PIZZA

>>38828138
Why do you people worship obviously gay actors playing a character in a fake world where everything is bent around convincing you that the guys are cool charismatic and charming?

That's idiotic.

>>38825872
Piss yourself and post timestamped pic and you can become our new pisslord

>>38828219
Someone's butthurt :)

Out of curiosity and against my better judgement, who's the gay guy you speak of?

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>>38825909
>Dr martens boots
>Wanting to look like a school shooter
I think I found your problem OP
Pic related

>>38827076
Yes all they want is money 4sure but it's about the experience your going to get. They won't teach you how to talk to women but you will learn how to have sex with a one..talking to woman is easy, you don't have to say anything serious just be yourself and make them laugh!!.have a drink don't get shit face and talk about dumb shit women love that!!..whenever you meet the write one you can talk all this serious shit the interest you then but at first keep it simple just make them laugh, don't take them serious don't take yourself too serious, just let the shit talking come out naturally!!.

>>38825894
What happened to FACE HEIGHT FRAME?

>>38826106
did you change the way you approached during those hundreds of times?

>>38825919
I used (now in relationship) to get laid a shit load because of my cultivate personality, but only with intellectual grill. They pretty much all sucked dicks like pornstar sluts. Once you fertilize their imagination, they are pretty much yours. Knowledge = money = power.

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>>38825909
NEWSFLASH! Grills do not give a fuck about clothing! If you dress super nice she might "let" you take her out for free dinner and drinks.
>Guess whose place she goes to immediately after telling you "you're so nice, it was a great evening, I have to be up super early tomorrow!"
>imagine how much effort I put into my clothing which she will rip off anyway
> t. Chad

Keep lifting, lose the glasses, work on your confidence

>>38826623
Good advice except for the work part. DO NOT DO THIS

>>38825909
>>38825872
>doc martens
>thinks he's big
this oughta be bait

>OP is literally autistic

Lmaoing

>>38829383
But they actually do familia. It won't be a deal breaker but you do look more mature and well-groomed if you dress properly.

>>38829054
Yeah I did

>>38828466
Actually got these for winter.

www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B002AJ7ZXY?psc=1&th=1

>>38829383
I understand that. Question is how do I become Chad?

>>38826049
See asking a Persian if they come from camel land is not teasing its triggering because Persians hate being lumped in with arabs. It could be teasing if she was an arab but her first reaction like me (also Persian) is to want to punch you rather than laugh.

>>38825872
About 8-10 pounds of muscle. Get cooler glasses.

>>38827089
Look less like you're in high school.

>>38832290
Really? Didn't know that. Thought Persians were basically Arabs.

>>38827089
you look great m8

>>38825909
Dude, you need to het into seduction and GET OUT THERE. You gotta make it happen yourself. Read "the manual, what women want and how to give it to them", articles on girlschase com and /fa/ sticky.

>>38825992
Nigger I read my whole childhood to the detriment of social skills and it does not help at all with women

lurk /fa/'s Outfit of the Day threads and learn how to dress. Keep lifting. Also realize that maybe there's more to life than bitches

>>38829383
Being well dressed will make an 6/10 into 8/10, and 8/10 into an 11/10 though,

>>38833571
>/fa/'s Outfit of the Day
I've been to /fa/ once, but their outfits are absolutely shit.
It had to be the most hipster dressing style I have seen yet with zippers, oversized "hood" t-shirts, etc.

>>38825872
>How much bigger do I need to get
The fail is strong.

>>38825872
My buddy was autistic, had a shit body but he was tall and kinda big from work. He used to get with tons of girls. He had a few things going for him: he didn't seem to mind too much making a fool out of himself (hitting on the wrong girl and poorly), he had almost zero standards (actually just zero standards), and he was persistent just constantly sought out girls.

>>38833242
I have 'gone out there' before. I said in OP, I dunno how to transition from date to sex.

>>38825872
nice child bearing hips

>>38825872
>he thinks girls only care about how you look
4chan is an 18+ website kid, come back when you're out of 7th grade.