Help how do I fix myself

>>Watch cuckold porn unironically everyday

Important

do you imagine yourself as the cuck or the bull

>>38813943
hey man we are in the same place.

hang there, things are going to magically improve for us one day or the other. let's just wait

>>38813943
Read the slight edge

Hang in there anon.
KHV at 27 here, but have a 6/10 low esteem tinder griol tomorrow and shes dtf

>>38813963
The bull, but sometimes the girl

Stop viewing yourself as a "loser" who "needs to be fixed", seriously that's the worst fucking mindset to have. Start doing shit slowly, keep working out, get a job, try to befriend co workers and save up then move out. Baby steps, man.

>>38814033
I don't have a job

>>38813981
>>Thinking that his life will change without doing something about it

Just do want you need to do to reach your goals and don´t be a sad cunt

>>38813943
sticky
read it

>>38814040
Then go apply to places. Do it online and in person, especially if you're socially anxious, you'll see that it's no big deal and you'll get a bit of a rush out of it

>>38814076
It's been read

>>38813943
Step 1. Stop the self pity.
Step 2. Take action.
Repeat. And you know damn well what take action means.

>>38814080
It's not that, I can get a job . I just see no purpose to when I am the way I described

I want to be successful

>>38814096
>I want to be successful
>I just see no purpose to

do you realize what you're saying

>>38813943
Wow you're pretty much like me except I don't watch cuck porn.

>>38814096
You're being stupid. like I said, baby steps. Getting a job means you'll be out of the house, making money, maybe getting some sort of skill and interacting with people. Work,Save, talk to co-workers, improve social skills, move to a place with roommates, talk with roommates, get more social skills, maybe go back to school for something useful, increase work skills, talk to other students, get social skills, etc. Think of this shit like grinding in an rpg

How to grow as a person

>leave your comfort zone in the direction you want to improve in
>stay there until you get comfortable
>leave your comfort zone again

So for you it would be
1. Get a job
2. Go to the gym consistently
3. Move out

>>38814166
I tried going to the gym but my shoulder hurts a lot and I did a bunch of rehab shit and stretches and nothing is helping

>>38814033

Don't listen to this faggot you know full well you need to change. If you don't start making changes your going to become a full blown degenerate when mommy and daddy are gone. Just start thinking about what you want to do with yourself and actively move towards that goal. Somedays it might seem like a chore to do but just keep in mind that at least you were better than you were yesterday or a week ago and keep the good habits going.

>>38814166
What if it will never get comfortable?

>>38814002
KEK

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love yourself, improve yourself, challenge yourself, and become good. make yourself proud, dont worry what others think, its not a sprint, its the rest of your life you have ahead of you. stength is a mental thing, show yourself you have it. things will fall in place even if that seems impossible right now.

>>38814197
>>38814220
I just wish i had friends or a girlfriend so we could motivate and support eachother

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this is not /r9k/

>>38814204
Stop even thinking stupid shit like that you're catastrophisizing everything before you even start basically defeating yourself before the fight even starts don't think what can go wrong think what can go right this negativity will never let you succeed

>>38814306
Damn true shit

>>38814306
Dude, ive been out of my comfort zone for a while, its not like im just planning and procrastinating. IT SUCKS. I cant get used to it. I have a constant never ending stress.

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>>38814002

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CAUSE:
>Watch cuckold porn unironically everyday
>Still live with my parents, simply because they feel bad so they don't kick me out
>Have spent 5 hours average on 4chan per day for the last 3 years

EFFECT:
>Im a kissless virgin at 22
>Not good at a single thing in the world
>No friends
>Never had a gf
>Not even fit despite being on /fit/ for so long

It's not that fucking hard to understand, is it?

>>38817489
Damn rly makes u think

i was a virgin until i was 24. then i got tired of my boring useless life and on a whim moved to korea to be a teacher.

five years later i've banged more than 20 korean broads and have a steady k-gf.

if your life is really as lame as you say it is, then don't bother trying to fix it. leave it behind, and get a job teaching english in asia. it won't be glamorous work, and the first few months will be tough, but you may find a that a new environment will give you a new outlook and appreciation of life.

>>38817953
Id rather be a virgin than have sex with a disgusting korean. I hate gooks

>>38817957

hahaha nvm, enjoy your pity party anon. tell your parents i said hi :^)

>>38817964
It's less embarrassing then having to settle for a gook

>>38817953
How hard is it to pick up and move to an Asian country to teach English? Do you need any kind of certification?

>>38814053
no shit

fuck captcha

>>38813943
>Have spent 5 hours average on 4chan per day for the last 3 years

Only 5 hours? Get the fuck out you fucking normie.

>>38813943
If your life was a movie, and it started now – forget about whatever financial disasters you’ve had, personal failures, relationship failures – what would the hero of your life’s movie do right now? Do that! Do those things. We define ourselves far too often by our past failures. We look at our past, and we say ‘Well, that’s me.’ That’s not you. You are this person right now. You’re the person who’s learned from those failures and you can choose to be the hero of your own movie right now.

Write down your goals. Write down things you wanna improve. Write down things you won’t tolerate from yourself. Write down things you’ve done in the past that you never wanna see yourself do again, and go forth, from here, as the hero of your own movie. Build momentum. Build confidence and momentum with each good decision that you make from here on out. Buy Alpha Brain™.You can do it. Anyone can do it. We live in unique times. We live in one of the rarest times in human history, where you can choose almost all of the input that comes your way, whether it’s the movies that you watch, the books you read, the podcasts you listen to, you can choose to be inspired. Do that. Do that and be the hero of your own movie.