[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

feels

This is a blue board which means that it's for everybody (Safe For Work content only). If you see any adult content, please report it.

Thread replies: 165
Thread images: 28

File: .jpg (25KB, 308x480px) Image search: [Google]
.jpg
25KB, 308x480px
>getting swole as fuck for gf
>she just goes ahead and cheats on me with this skinny-jeans wearing fuckboi that looks like a full blown fag

what the fuck is wrong with girls man
>>
>>38785753
>what the fuck is wrong with girls man

Everything
>>
File: 1474301251919.jpg (988KB, 2448x2448px) Image search: [Google]
1474301251919.jpg
988KB, 2448x2448px
>>38785753
>that first sip of the day
is there a better feel?
>>
>>38785753
Gee, OP, women cheat on millionaires and guys with huge dicks, but I guess your gym PRs must keep bitches faithful, eh?
>>
File: 1461945940478.jpg (32KB, 400x280px) Image search: [Google]
1461945940478.jpg
32KB, 400x280px
>>38785753
FACE HEIGHT FRAME is not just a /fit/ meme my friend
>>
>>38785789
she could cheat with anyone

but why did she choose a a skinny fuckboy that looks straight out of a gay club?
>>
>>38785753
just be happy, I know it sucks balls but you dodged a bullet.
>>
File: 1474330465006.jpg (2MB, 2679x3994px) Image search: [Google]
1474330465006.jpg
2MB, 2679x3994px
>tfw you buy some SARMs
>>
>>38785815
women are instinctual, egocentered creatures

she probably was just feeling lonely at that particular moment, and you werent around, so she found the first source of 'comfort' nearby and used it
>>
>>38785921
>that first sarm of the day
>>
>>38785921
I dont get it. what's up with this kids soft drink meme?
>>
>>38785815
Maybe he was funnier, maybe he had more friends than you, maybe he was taller, maybe he had more moneys, maybe he had a better car.
>>
File: 1350221623439.png (875KB, 900x548px) Image search: [Google]
1350221623439.png
875KB, 900x548px
>>38785753
>>
>Be me
>life with gf
>Tired of not progressing in life
>Get fit, start college, thinking life will be great
>Gf leaves me for another dude, i become homeless, hopelessly single and severly depressed

Right now id kill for another gf, FWB or hell even a date at this point but chances of that are equal to me managing to turn back time...
>>
>>38786053
>relying this hard on people to have your back for you to function
wew lad
>>
>>38785921
>zero ultra
what the hell goes beyond zero? is there some kind of negative sugar in it?
>>
File: 1468357384311.png (496KB, 643x580px) Image search: [Google]
1468357384311.png
496KB, 643x580px
>tfw you're doing your cardio on in empty row of treadmills and a girl comes up and gets on the one right next to you
>>
>>38785753
You dated an immature cunt who only cares about herself. Thank her for not making you spend any more time that you had to with such a vapid ass hole.

Keep lifting.
>>
>>38785753
>getting swole as fuck for gf
First mistake, never do something that requires so much dedication purely for a girl (you should still do it, but for other reasons). Women are attracted to men who consider them an afterthought, if you're too needy, you will actively repel her.
>>
>>38786101
"DO NOT APPROACH ME! I AM ARMED! I AM A SOVEREIGN CITIZEN AND I WILL NOT BE HARASSED!"
>intentionally set off the lunk alarm to scare her away and keep my virginity in tact.
>>
>>38786078
Um...are you kidding?
I live with my gf and she finds a new guy, you expect me to stay and watch her go out with him every day?
Not fucking likely mate and id love to see you do better at avoiding it in my position

Any normal person would rely on other people to provide a home in the same extent i did
>>
>>38786133
>Women are attracted to men who consider them an afterthought, if you're too needy, you will actively repel her.
This is something i cant get my head around
>Try to attract women
"Nah bro, youre trying and its a turnoff for women. They wont want that"
>Stop trying to attract women
Now nothing happens at all, girls show no attraction whatsoever and sex is pretty much off the table

So what the hell am i supposed to do?
>>
>>38786053
>Gf leaves me for another dude, i become homeless,
what
how did you get kicked out of your own house nigger?
>>
>>38786222
We shared an apartment together and things were great but when she started dating another fucking dude she didnt want to leave and it was a shared contract so i had no legal right to kick her out and she wasnt leaving

So i could either leave or stay and watch my gf go on dates with some dude she was fucking instead of me
It only lasted for three months then i worked shit out so its not really a problem but id love to see who is stupid enough to stick around and watch the shitshow of his gf fucking some other guy
>>
>>38785753
>live with gf
>started doing low carb beginning of last year
>started at 191lbs, 5'11"
>shitty beer gut, double chin
>lost 25 pounds in about seven months
>sex life goes to shit for some reason toward the end of those months
>feeling shitty and depressed despite having lost weight
>fall off of low carb
>managed to stay off of sugary drinks
>still starting to gain the weight back
>183lbs
>sex life still shit, not much interest in having sex, hard to maintain a boner when I try to force myself
>worried I might have low test
>even more worried I might've lost interest in my gf
>discover /fit/
>lurked for a few weeks, read the fucking sticky
>decided to start counting calories
>eating at 1700cal, doing bodyweight exercises
>down 15 pounds in two months
>weight I've lost feels different this time, like it's way more sustainable
>waist size has shot down to nearly what I was as a stick in high school
>gf and I fuck like rabbits again
>feeling fucking great

I've got a lot more work to do, but in about 5-6 more months if I keep it up like this I'll be in the best shape of my life. Thank you, /fit/. And sorry, OP, you're gonna be okay.
>>
>>38786218
I'm not saying you should stop going after women, that's not the point. Obviously you aren't going to get women if you don't put any effort in. The best way I can put it is to act like a man who already gets a lot of sex. Think of the average Chad. He will approach women and put in some effort to get sex, but if an individual girl rejects him , he won't lose sleep over it. If a girl demands something of him, he will tell her that she can go if she doesn't like it. Basically, you should like women, but not an individual woman, makes sense?
>>
>>38786306
pretty cuck fampai

grab a 12 gauge and kill em
then bury them hush hush.
>>
>>38785783
SSSSLLLUUUUUUUURRRRRPPPPPP

BURP

AAHHHH
>>
>Talking to girl a bit
>Like her, think she likes me
>Super friendly, hugs me when she sees me
>Find out she has a boyfriend
Fucking why
I guess I shouldn't be in a relationship at the moment anyway, hopefully they break up soon
>>
>>38786306
Legitimate top fucking cuck.

Thanks for the laugh.
>>
>>38786306
Why didn't you rekt his shit?
>>
>>38786017
actually this all is wrong

maybe she was just horny? women have sexual needs too, its not like they will just hop on the better model if it was like this 90% of men wouldnt have sex ever
>>
>>38786385
How stupid can you be? Say she breaks up with her boyfriend, you think she won't go around doing the same thing to you? Stop being such a thirsty nigger.
>>
>>38786385
99 percent chance he fucked her
why are you willing to date used goods?
>>
>>38786415
Didn't mean it like that, not saying I want her to leave him for me, just that once her status changes I'd like to take her out or something

>>38786418
Everyone around me is used
>>
>>38786325
>makes sense?
Sure does but it aint really working for me
Im cool and comfortable around women but that doesnt work for me at all

It just feels like its hopeless, chase a single woman and get rejected or dont try with several and find no success
I cant wrap my head around it, why cant women put some effort in aswell?

I like to chase but id like to catch someday aswell
>>
>>38786387
Youd do things diffrently i assume?

>>38786389
1. I wanted to but i knew she on some level wanted it because she could use it against me
2. It wouldnt solve anything or make feel better
>>
Not cheating on your gf first so that if they tell you they cheated or you find out you dont care but still have the morale high ground.

You fucked up OP.
>>
File: w_030.jpg (247KB, 1119x1600px) Image search: [Google]
w_030.jpg
247KB, 1119x1600px
>>38785815
I have the solution to your dilemma OP.
Just fuck him in the ass.
>>
As a open minded guy that has sucked at least two cocks in his life(last month), I'd fuck your gfs in a heartbeat just to boost my own ego. Sure I might not be straight, sure I get hard thinking about cuddling with men, but I'd still fuck your bitch mang, just because of how high the price of pussy is(in the sexual economy).

If you think that's some Elliot Rodger type thinking then you better check yourself before a guy like me would fuck your bitch just for dem stats.

tl;dr
I'd fuck your girlfriend just because pussy is more valuable than dick.

Now how's the irl cucked gay fag?
>>
>>38786479
Not that guy you're talking to, but bitching how it's not fair is childish. The important thing is to realize how those things actually work (in real life, not like in the movies) and then either accept it or refuse to play.
>>
>tfw brother is a gay autist and bullied me when I was younger
>sister tried to kill herself a while back and acts like a completely different person
>she gets puzzled easily and relies on parents a lot
>mum broke down in tears asking if she was a bad parent
>try to tell her they're just fucked up and she was a great parent
>won't stop crying
I can deal with the other two but it kills me seeing her cry like that
>>
>>38786529
>You'd do things differently i assume?
Holy fucking kek I'm not the guy you replied to but you have to be a troll, idk why im even replying to this bait but if this is true let me tell you this.
1. If she cheats on you, she doesnt respect you
2.Why go out with a woman that doesnt respect you and thinks that youre a little pussy
3. She WILL, i repeat she WILL, do it again
4. If a woman cheats, she is trash, no ifs ands or buts about it.
5. Why would you date trash?
6. Why would you date a slut? Because thats what she is anon, she's a slut.
7. Why would you even allow a woman to cuck you? How do you live with yourself. Honestly a cuck is only one rung above pedophile, I would rather live with a convicted murderer than a cuck.

Yes, anon, we do things differently, we aren't little pansies that get literally cucked. I also assume you won't be voting Trump
>>
>>38786667
My problem is also that things dont work as people say they should
For instance people say keeping a relationship together in your teens in hard, i found it quite the opposite and had no problems keeping my gf. People say girls get more interested in guys and relationship when they get older, ive found that girls my age (28) spend their time traveling and have zero interest in dating/relationships

People say girls are attracted to fit, confident guys with ambition but i have found that now that im fitter, more ambitious and confident im having a very hard time finding dates
Meanwhile both other guys who are less confident and spend their days watching anime with no desire to find a job ever gets laid

I cant figure it out at all because what you guys say doesnt seem to apply IRL at all
>>
>>38786733
Um, we broke up and i left my home because i DIDNT want to be cuck and staying around to watch my exgf date some other dude

Id love to know how youre supposed to prevent her from fucking some other guy after your breakup, are you gonna kill her or something?
>>
>>38785753
You forgot to cherish her
>>
File: 1472929042127.jpg (5KB, 125x125px) Image search: [Google]
1472929042127.jpg
5KB, 125x125px
>>38785753
>get fat while "bulking"
>wah wah why did my gf cheat on me with a male at a healthy weight

Really made me think.
>>
>>38786802
Niglet im not calling you a cuck because you left your apartment (kind of cuckish but i could see not wanting to be arrested for beating up the guy), im calling you a cuck for going back to her
>>
>>38785753
it's your calves man.
>>
>>38785753
> not fucking him to assert your dominance

never gonna make it
>>
File: 1474353822120.jpg (57KB, 600x503px) Image search: [Google]
1474353822120.jpg
57KB, 600x503px
>>38785753
Kill yourself
>>
File: onemoremonth.jpg (91KB, 544x816px) Image search: [Google]
onemoremonth.jpg
91KB, 544x816px
Hey M***

I hope you're in here! Sorry this is a day late, I couldn't go in yesterday (elderly parents issue), but I did go in today.

Again, thank you man!
>>
>>38788436
why would you do that to doggo?
>>
>>38786306
Why didn't you just bring girls back to the apartment and make her super jelly?
>>
>>38786693
Simple anon,
1. Fuck your sister
2. Fuck your brother in the ass
3.Fuck your mother in the ass (pussy ain't tight no moe)
There, you are in control again.
>>
>>38788482
Refreshed 4chan to see this. I'm glad I could help you out anon! Hopefully, you'll be fine for next month and can make that other payment you were talking about, but if not, I'd be happy to get you again. I'd much perfer it, actually, since I need to do something nice to help get rid of my bad mood this time of year.
>>
>waiting tfor the bus
>young edgy girl at the stop
>sit at opposite sits at the bus
>checking her checking me
>two weeks later
>same bus stop
>that ass looks familiar
>its her
>her again dyed her hair green (I said edgy didn't I)
>same deal same sits same looks
>fuck it grow a pair and talk to her
>finally did went ok
>mfw after we part ways my legs fucking shaking like I squat 500 pounds
>>
>>38788528
Edgy cunts thats why
>>
>>38788628
I'm glad you saw the post, I wanted to make sure you knew your kindness was used for its intended purpose.

I believe I will have a writing residual coming in early October (a small one) that should help me float the month.

You have no idea how much stress you took off my mind, man. I cannot thank you enough.
>>
>>38786024

Does that sholder plate look like a frog to you?
>>
>>38785753
Everything. Girls are only good for boning, fellow men for companionship. The less time you spend around then the more you'll like them
>>
>tfw 24 year old kissless virgin, never been in a relationship, never been rejected because I've never asked any girl out

While I'm probably the most beta person on the planet, the only positive is at least I haven't had to deal with getting cheated on, or broken up with, or any of those bad feels.

I mean sure my entire life is one horrible bad feel that no one should be subjected to, but at least I don't have that.
>>
>>38785753
There's nothing wrong with girls. You are just a colossal faggot.
>>
>>38786693
Why the fuck would you even care about your mother?
>>
>>38788697
No problem anon. Just keep hammering out that weight. And if you can't make it through with the money, just post somewhere and I'll see it. That money is better spent on you, rather than the ex i would have spent more on tomorrow, if we were together.
>>
Just the usual feel for me today.

>tfw no Kazakh gf
>>
Life felt especially empty today
>>
File: 1474082397304.jpg (59KB, 344x326px) Image search: [Google]
1474082397304.jpg
59KB, 344x326px
>walking home from work
>hear people behind me talking about mugging me
>ignore them and keep walking
>turn at corner and they don't
>see it was just some ghetto kid with a skateboard and a girl
i feel like such a pussy, i should have kicked that little faggots ass
>>
>>38789032
Dude, seriously, thank you (again). I will do my best to exhaust every other means at my disposal to get back in black but I will definitely remember your continued generosity.

>rather than the ex i would have spent more on tomorrow, if we were together.

iktf... At least I think I remember it from years ago.
>>
File: Monster-NOGF-Ultra.png (2MB, 514x1200px) Image search: [Google]
Monster-NOGF-Ultra.png
2MB, 514x1200px
>That first feel of the morning
>>
>>38789166
reminds me of an experience

>need to go to lenscrafters in the mall
>multiple entrances, pick one and walk in
>it's a dying ghetto mall now
>every store from that entrance is boarded up
>see a couple ghetto guys running around with open shirts
>put my bluetooth headphones away, stand up straight, and keep watching the reflections to make sure they don't try to run up behind me
>>
>>38785921
>meme sarms
>not lab grade suspension
>white monster not rehab
Hory kek it's like I'm in am actual meme
>>
>>38790125
Where can I get lab grade shit. Dat mk677 sleep gains is amazing
>>
>>38790101
that sounds terrifying
reminds me of that elevator scene from the cabin in the woods for some reason
>>
>>38790144
Ebay, ceretropic before they went under, irc.bio, all American peptides
Basically anything that isn't HARDCORRE 3LIT3 LGD4OEE
cuz who knows with that
>>
File: IMG_3155.jpg (283KB, 960x903px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_3155.jpg
283KB, 960x903px
>>38785753
>tfw swole
>tfw wear skinny jeans
OP you are a faggot. Wishes love men who don't give a fuck, your problem is that you give too many fucks.
>>
>>38790221
!!!
I thought you left this place
>you're here forever
>>
>>38785783
holy fuck, stop with the shitposting. no one is ever going to buy your gay ass drink

go die you fucking wagie shill
>>
File: 1olw6u.jpg (34KB, 360x639px) Image search: [Google]
1olw6u.jpg
34KB, 360x639px
>>38790180
>tfw stole
>is black
>>
>>38786780
Not the anon you're replying to, but i think it's like that dadbod meme. They're easier to obtain than a "Chad" like yourself and they aren't as intimidated by them as they are by you. Solution: date more alpha women
>>
File: 20160920_184146_HDR-1200x2133.jpg (322KB, 1200x2133px) Image search: [Google]
20160920_184146_HDR-1200x2133.jpg
322KB, 1200x2133px
>>38790312
THAT
>>
File: faggot.png (1MB, 642x907px) Image search: [Google]
faggot.png
1MB, 642x907px
If any of you feel like you have it bad. Just remember that my GF left me for this.
>>
>>38791060

Counterpoint: you're free of the kind of girl that would leave you for that. If that's what she goes for, then you are better off senpai. Hang in there
>>
>>38791060
I feel like I should kill myself on your behalf

t. virgin
>>
>>38791060
btw
This is me.
>>
File: Capture.png (850KB, 722x719px) Image search: [Google]
Capture.png
850KB, 722x719px
>>38791138
Goddammit
>>
DAILY MANLET REALITY CHECK: REPOSTED FROM /cgl/

God damn, shut the fuck up. Yes, I'm not attracted to short men, and this precisely why. You're all insecure, petty, and meek. Get. The. Fuck. Over it. What the hell do you want me to do? To let myself get raped by a short man? Listen, I am NOT OBLIGATED to give you attention or to let myself have a physical relationship with a man I have no attraction to. And every piece of advice that I give short men that never stop complaining about their "tribulations" goes unheard. You want me to be "honest?" You want me to be a "roastie?"

I think short men are absolutely worthless. Every time I see one smiling, I can only think to myself how depressed he must be and how much he must hate himself. Every time a short man hits on me, I recoil inwards a bit and I immediately go to laugh about it with some friends. I will mock short men whenever they leave the room, and I will get my tall, male friends to mock them as well. Every time a short man gets angry, I can't help but laugh at how helpless and timid he looks. Every time a short man complains about his height, I have to stop myself from telling him to man up and date fat girls like he deserves. Every time a short man tells a funny joke, I start laughing at the joke, but then start laughing even harder at his height, which is why I sometimes get short men hitting on me thinking they did well to please me. I tell short men that their height doesn't matter, even though whenever I'm with a group with a short man, I almost never make eye contact with them and proceed to talk over them. And most of all, the main reason why I want a tall husband is because I don't want a short son, and if I get a short son, I will give him HGH injections.

Is that good enough? Is that bitchy enough?
>>
File: whatthefuck.gif (3MB, 285x290px) Image search: [Google]
whatthefuck.gif
3MB, 285x290px
>>38791164
ok buddy
>>
File: 1418778480816.jpg (70KB, 804x802px) Image search: [Google]
1418778480816.jpg
70KB, 804x802px
>tfw you should be happy, but you're not and trying to hide it from everyone

I don't know what to do bros
>>
>>38791164
No Lolita gf :(
>>
>>38785921
>>38785783
>>38790506
CODY

I

SWEAR

TO

GOD
>>
File: 4.png (434KB, 501x619px) Image search: [Google]
4.png
434KB, 501x619px
>>38791164
>every time I see a normal, functioning human with x feature I assume they're as insecure as people like me who post on 4chan
>man I really hate insecure people fuck those guys haha r-right guys?
>implying im not swallowing a hook with no bait on it
>>
>>38791164
that's some delightfully toxic shit there
>>
>>38786306
cuck
>>
>>38791060

he looks like a king of fighters character
>>
File: 20160920_183810.jpg (437KB, 2048x1152px) Image search: [Google]
20160920_183810.jpg
437KB, 2048x1152px
>>38786100
As opposed to merely 'absolutely zero'
>>
>at I'm seeing comes back to mine for first time
>8/10 naked in front of me
>can't get it up

Fucking kill me lads, she's away so will see her in two weeks, can't happen again. What do? Think it was nerves.
>>
>>38785783
i've been gone for a month, someone fill me in on this moomoo
>>
>>38785753
Fuck your feels, faggot.

God lift, do shit you enjoy, better yourself for yourself.

Quit whinging about your hurt pussy.
>>
I got dumped by my now ex-girlfriend 3 weeks ago, and i crave so much for human contact that i was thinking of being FWB with her, it coul dbe nice, is that a bad idea? What are your experiences?

And on the bad feel:
>tfw my group of friends are going to Amsterdam this on Christmas and they took my ex and not me

I feel betrayed.
>>
>>38790221
Still ride that bike? Nigga you dope imo, I rep skinnys too, outgrowing them though, need to buy more.
>>
>>38787384
I didnt go back, we arent together
Last tme i saw her she was acting all sob story towards me about how hard life was for her but i just said its not my problem anymore, took the rest of my stuff and left
Havent looked back since

>>38788560
Because i cant
Ive tried insanely hard to get another gf a date or just laid but its just not possible

I thought becoming fit and generally self improving would help my chances in dating but they are still zero
>>
>>38790377
You could be right about the intimidation thing
Seems girls around me want guys who are worse than themselves as an ego boost and because its easy to control em
>>
File: 1232047357590.jpg (74KB, 707x682px) Image search: [Google]
1232047357590.jpg
74KB, 707x682px
>tfw want to get married and have kids at a relatively early age to compensate for having an unstable family but gf just wants to go travel and shit
>>
>>38792091
>trying really hard

Found your problem.
>>
>>38792127
Explain please
Ive had a much more relaxed approach lately and ive done just about the same since you cant get lower than zero
>>
>>38792154
Desperation is gross. Going out when your only intention is to find someone to put your dick in is the worst way to get a girl to like you and if they catch any hint of your intentions they're gone.

The problem is that you're not going out hoping to 'meet someone special' which even then is borderline weird if you don't have a vagina, but you're going out to 'meet someone female'. You're setting yourself up for failure.
>>
File: image.jpg (132KB, 566x553px) Image search: [Google]
image.jpg
132KB, 566x553px
Having a gf doesn't mean being successful with girls. I've friends who are in r/s with chicks just cus they want sex and girl wants their car/money. Like I asked them are you gon marry them they couldn't give me a straight answer. No point having women in your life that don't like or love you
>>
>>38785766
>Not dating a qt trap
That's your problem m80
>>
>>38792189
When i say try hard i dont mean id settle for anything or anyone i mean i expand and search for that someone who could fit the bill

desperation is a turnoff for women sure but what else am i supposed to do?
Because i have focused only on myself lately and its had about the same result

Cant get girls when i look for em, cant find em if i dont
So its a catch 22 in other words
>>
>>38792237
You need to be in a position where you're okay living alone. Then you can go out to clubs or parties or events or whatever the fuck you're into and enjoy yourself and meet people. The real numbers game is getting to know lots of people, not asking 100 girls in a night for their number.
>>
>>38792252
I am ok being alone, ive learned how to deal with it and am totally fine with it
Ive been doing exactly what you said, i try to get to know alot of people. i chat people up at the store or at the gym

Im not autistic, im able to keep a convo going and im 100% not outcome dependant as in i dont fret or go out of my way to keep people happy

Ive done all the tricks given out by people online and watched the RSD things but its just not working
I cant tell you exactly what the problem is because if i could id fix it
I can tell you that even if im not depending on the outcome at all its pretty frustrating waking up somedays with a wish to just date a girl and get a nice fuck session going and knowing this is just impossible which is why im still on this site
>>
>>38792296
Have you tried asking a girl why after she rejected you if it was unexpected? It's what most people would do. If you expected to get rejected you know why at least on some level. If you're genuinely surprised it's not weird to ask. I shouldn't have to explain this unless you're a diagnosed aspie.
>>
Surprise OP, some girls are into more feminine guys, just like some guys are into boyish girls. Being swole isn't the answer to your problems; not everyone's into that. Plus you come off as hugely insecure from your post.
>>
>>38792343
PS, I probably would've done the same as your girlfriend. My boyfriend is 5'6 and 120 pounds, wears skinny jeans, long hair, he kicks ass, I'm terribly attracted to him even now, and we're going on three years together.

The guy I broke up with for him was 6'3 with Brad Pitt's generic-ass face and abs like steel, but 1) it did way more for him than me, and 2) he was a tryhard dipshit with a complex, probably the worst trait you can have. Now he calls everyone cucks and fags on his Twitter. Still single, tho.
>>
>>38792315
I cant ask em since they dont reject

I try to put myself in social positions but i dont go out of my way, if i see a sign of interest from her or know she is single ill make a move
Feels like my main problem is finding girls who are single and somewhat interested in guys

Some examples maybe
Met a girl who was super flirty, most obvious sign she gave was grinding her ass on me and outright suggesting we should fuck, i got her number and when i tried to set up a date she got cold and didnt reply
Turns out she had a boyfriend which i found out from another girl
Another girl just said she needed time to figure things out

Ive tried to solve this on my own but its just not working
None of the people i know IRL can help either
One guy is close though, he is a master manipulator and a sociopath so he does get laid but i cant figure out his trick and im not sure i want to since most girls end up hating him afterwards
>>
>>38792410
You did good. Only problem was that she had a boyfriend. Why can't you repeat that?

Also, why didn't you fuck her and then go home?
>>
>>38786413
>its not like they will just hop on the better model

Exactly friendo, why would they ever do that? After all its not like they're attracted almost completely to FACE HEIGHT FRAME which are 100% genetics and can't be changed
>>
>>38792419
I dont know what i did, we talked and things just fell into place.


I tried to set a date or get her home with me but she flaked, didnt pick up the phone or reply to messages and had an excuse later on like she had to take care of a drunken friend etc

Funny enough she never once mentioned having a bf
>>
>>38792470
You are ludicrously incorrect as detailed here
>>38792343
>>38792393
>>
>>38792484
So she thought you were attractive, you talked, you managed to connect with her in some way and then she felt guilty because she's not meant to want to fuck other guys except her bf, so she made an excuse and ran off. It really is intuitive, you shouldn't know what you did beyond "I liked her" or "she was easy to talk to". Just have fun with it man, socialising isn't mathematics. Maybe your problem is that when you're not successfully picking up you're not having fun and you get discouraged easily, so as a result like 1 hour into any event you walk around frustrated and bored and most people consider you unapproachable.
>>
File: IMG_2538.jpg (220KB, 960x960px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_2538.jpg
220KB, 960x960px
>>38791935
Bike got stolen by poo white folks. Ride the scooter now. Thanks senpai, get how you live, na mean? Only & Sons are the truth for skinny's imo for those who lifts
>>
>>38790221
>>38792522
As a grill this guy has the right idea (plus I want a ride on that scooter with you)
>>
>>38786385
>she hugs guys even though she has a boyfriend
This is a big red flag, take my word for it.
>>
>>38786179

Your gf was paying your rent? You had it coming. Never rely on anyone that much.
>>
>>38791562
You're clearly gay. Maybe try sucking dick, see if it is for you?
>>
>>38792499
>Maybe your problem is
Might be but i dont get frustrated about it when im with people, i honestly am not outcome dependent.
My goal isnt to get laid most of the time, its about getting to know people and socializing
I figure i should just focus on having fun and enjoying peoples company and it will come automatically when it feels right, you know?

Still, i get frustrated some days because there are alot of things im missing out on. from the broader like sex to the narrow such as having a girl in my arms and watching a horror movie on the couch
>>
>>38792550
Lol, they all do ;p
>>
>>38792581
Your problem is simple then man, you're putting the pussy and the relationship on a pedestal. You've got this ideal perfect picture of a relationship in your head and you're pretty much assuming any random girl that likes you can give you that, but that's something you gotta get real lucky to achieve, a lot of people never do. You're just not over your ex. When I broke up with a girl I was with for a long time I kept finding myself thinking "what if I never get something that good again?" but then if I thought about it properly I'd always remember that things were shitty and that's why they ended and I'm just cherry picking the nice memories. I say keep doing what you're doing and do your best to stop worrying and thinking about all this shit you're insecure about. You're perfectly functioning and if you keep living your life you're gonna make it eventually.
>>
>>38792614
I know relationships are bad sometimes too and im prepared/aware of that but i dont miss those things in the same way i miss out on the good stuff even though i know they go hand in hand
I am completly over my ex, its not a problem what so ever

I want to experience new things relationshipwise, both bad and good but my problem is not being able to since i dont have a gf or cant get dates

I just know having girls attracted to me and being able to actually get laid/get dates would make me happier, im not dependent on it to live my life but it would improve life but nothing i do to reach this goal is working

Ive tried not thinking about it, thinking i should just quit on women all together since i cant find one but it doesnt work. Im still attracted to women and because of training i have an insane sex drive which is driving me nuts since i have no outlet

I dont wish for things to be easier, im fine with attracting girls being hard but right now it seems impossible and im not ok with that
>>
>>38792393
This is so fake it hurts.
>>
>>38792666
Well it seems that way but you are attracting girls. Your problems will go away if you ignore them and you're gonna make it brah. Just believe.
>>
>>38792522
You type like an incredible nigger and your faggy Honda is one of the least aesthetic scooters ever build. It's also impractical and your helmet is retarded.
>>
File: IMG_2172.jpg (52KB, 361x361px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_2172.jpg
52KB, 361x361px
>>38792694
>>
>>38792676
HAHA okay buddy boy
>>
>>38792691
Doesnt feel like attraction desu but im gonna go grab som food because im hungry
Thanks for the insights anon, also
Y-you too
>>
>>38792709
>>38792716
Why can't you cancerous fucks piss off to /soc/. Nobody wants you here. What kind of lifting advice, lifting related images even have you contributed. Go simulate your timeline somewhere else.
>>
>>38792565
We shared the rent...
i had a part time job along my studies
>>
>>38792393
>Now he calls everyone cucks and fags on his Twitter.

It's your fault bitch
>>
>>38789166
CCW
>>
>>38790101
Sounds like every day out of my apartment. One time, this ghetto lady (seemed like a prostitute) made fun of me for clearly standing up straight because I was nervous.
>>
>>38792315
>If you're genuinely surprised it's not weird to ask. I shouldn't have to explain this unless you're a diagnosed aspie.
It's a little weird to ask, because the girl's going to be uncomfortable with being honest and will likely lie.
>>
>>38786418
>how to spot an extra virgin fapping on /pol/
>>
>>38793069
Not always but it doesn't matter because the situation is already uncomfortable.
>>
Is it common for woman to not be able to tell what they really want?
>>
>>38792727
to be fair, I like him here. One of the few trips that doesn't genuinely seem like a saggy cunt.
>>38792522
That sucks dick about the bike. I'm pretty happy I outgrew them, I don't eat enough half the time so progress is more than visible when I look like I'm wearing compression jeans instead of pants now. Gonna toss those bitches.
>>
>>38793129
Yes
>I want a strong successful, tall, fit, handsome man
Then she dates a beta NEET who lives at home with his parents and doesnt want to get off welfare while working on his beer gut
>>
>>38793153
Then i'm asking myself, why am i investing time into some girl, who clearly has no idea of what she wants and doesn't want to acknowledge the feelings she has for me.
Does it get any better though, anon?
>>
>>38793087
Not as uncomfortable as it's be when you asked. There are a bunch of simple non-awkward ways for a girl to brush you off, the classic being, "I have a boyfriend". Which she's probably going to tell you whether or not it's true.
>>
>>38785815
She did it because he was the opposite of you. Its a fuck you to you, also made sure you found out didnt she? Wanted to rub your nose in it. Dump that bitch
>>
>>38793162
What makes you think she has feelings for you?

Girls have a clear idea of what she wants, a safe guy who doesnt leave and no girl would steal away
>>
>>38793242
Well I wouldn't really care at that point anyway if I was in his position.

Usually the why is kinda obvious though.
>>
>>38793249
Everything she says, the way she describes what feelings i arose in her, everything she did for me is a clear indicator for that

But then there are some bullshit excuses, like only knowing my good side and not having my bad side to compare with previous guys with

Then again, i'm feeling more like her 2nd choice, rather than an actual one she would perceive
>>
>>38793282
Either you're her second choice or she's super insecure and even if you manage to date her she'll always disrespect you by having other second choices lying around. Been there, fuck that shit. She's playing games and using you, just be direct and either you'll get to fuck her or you get to leave knowing you couldn't have done anything anyway.
>>
>>38793282
Oh we are speaking of a specific case here
Many girls keep guys around as a backup plan, this means she needs to feed your ego by making you think you have a shot

In general, girls dont know what they want
>>
>>38793299
The latter is something i've been thinking about more and more
>>38793310
So best bet for me, to get out of this with my head high, would just be to tell her to fuck off then
What a shame
>>
>>38793320
You've invested your time, might as well ask her if she wants to hook up. Worst case she says no and she fucks off without even being asked.
>>
>>38793320
Try to fuck her but dont get your hopes up id say
Dont invest any emotion into this (or any girl generally unless you KNOW she is into you)
>>
>>38793333
We hooked up anon, long-ish story behind all of this
>>38793338
I KNOW that she is into me, but resides not following those emotions because she thinks she isn't allowed to feel that way, because she has always been in a relationship with one guy throughout her teenage years
>>
>>38793361
By hook up I mean penis in vagina. Not some high school pussy shit. If that's off the table then just walk away brah, not worth it.
>>
>>38793380
That is also what i meant with hook up, anon
I'm not the high school stuff guy i'm talking about.
>>
>>38793361
Let me just side track here
There is this girl i want to fuck, she is attracted to me or atleast shows signs of it but she doesnt put out
What do you think i should do here?

You cant force someone else to do something, if they dont act you cant make them
They need to be the ones to take the step and act, you cant do this for them
You wont be happy chasing this girl, if she is unwilling to provide you need to let her go
>>
>>38793403
Get out nigga, you got baggage with her and she's got baggage with you and the other guy.
>>
>>38793411
Pursue it, atleast try if there is any chance bro

>if they dont act you cant make them
I know and forcing her is the last thing i want to do at all
>if she is unwilling to provide you need to let her go
Looks like this is the only way out yeah

>>38793425
Baggage she is not feeling content to accept i guess. Real shame though. Thanks breh
>>
>>38791919
Don't. Fwb will just fuck your shit up unless you absolutely don't care at all - which at that point you wouldn't even consider it.

Also get better friends, your friend group obviously doesn't have your back and either 1. Better friends with her than you so find new ones or 2. They just want to fuck your ex. Either way they're shit
Thread posts: 165
Thread images: 28


[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.