sexual fitness general

>>38760738
it's all in your head
it would help to stop masturbating for a while
and stop watching porn

>>38760888
thats what i keep hearing.

sometimes i feel like its a lack of intimacy, when i was young i was in "love" with the girls i had sex with. or at least there was a connection.
Now i have to force myself to have sex with women, because there is no attachment/connection to them.
and my dick doesn't respond with enthusiasm, but i just want to be alpha chad thundercock mode and fuck everybody like a beast.
or at least thats the excuse ive made up in my head..

>>38760738
LUBE GOD DAMN IT WE HAVE THIS THREAD EVERYDAY

>>38761138
Lube has nothing to do with it

>>38760738
You aren't as alpha as you think you are. You're nervous and intimidated by having sex. You aren't a leader. You aren't able to take control of the situation and the woman.

Calm the fuck down and fuck her or keep being a limped dicked dumbass.

Stop jerking off for a week or two. Don't watch any porn either. Everyone always says NoFap is a joke but then once you end up having problems like this then it's the only way to actually get better. If you're still going strong after a week consider doing the 90 day full reset. I did it 4 years ago when i first started lifting and it practically turned my whole life around. I don't need to jerk off anymore and I have great erections and orgasms during sex. Not to mention every time I got an urge I would just lift to take my mind off of it / tire myself out to the point I didn't want to jerk off anymore.

>>38760738
Sounds like nerves. Try banging the same girl on the reg instead of having one night stands and you'll eventually be ok.

>>38761149
to be fair, I am assuming you aren't using a condom. If you are then disregard.

But if you are rawing that bitch then use lube. Less sensitivity. More pumping.

>>38761260
yeah i think thats a big part of it.
I've been banging whores in pursuit of this fuckfest delusion of mine.
which is why i had that thought that its from lack of intimacy. I guess ill try to abstain from sex untill i find a gf

>>38761274
oh i use condoms cause this was involving dirty whores... but yeah thanks ill keep some lube handy in case of emergency rawdog coitus

>years of drug abuse.

Yeah I'm sure that has nothing to do with it.

>>38761303
Yeah. I mean I've also been clean for 3 years so I feel like my dopamine pathways should be reset. I do get pleasure from life. I don't have a cardiovascular issue if that's what you're implying

I have this problem a bit. If i go more than like a week or so without having sex i bust my load really fast. Just let her blow you until you finish and wait until you're ready for round 2 and fuck her hard. Problem solved. Also: relax, and fuck someone you're comfortable around. Think of math problems or baseball or some not sexy shit, do kegels, and figure out which positions you can last longer in and start there.

>>38761279
Nah just get a fuckbuddy bro

>>38761392
Thanks dude. Will do

>>38760738
>>38760940
I have the same problem OP, I cum almost immediately. I stopped fapping, but I still have Premature Ejaculation. Where I differ is that I cum faster when I'm with my GF than when I bang hookups and sluts. I also leak precum and get aroused very easily, just thinking about sex gets me hard. I'm lucky I'm my current GF's first and I can stay hard after I cum, so she doesn't realize I have an issue. People I met after i got /fit/ think I'm a Chad, including girls I've had one-night stands with, and I can see that they are disappointed when they see I have a 5.5"x4.5" and then get even more so once I cum in under a minute. I want some solutions to my PE, I have no confidence issues until things start to get sexual. My PE has prevented me from hooking up with more women. None of my GF's have ever said anything about it, but hook-ups have commented on it. I'm troubled over it to the point where I chose my current GF over another girl because I knew she had no sexual experience and had no standards to compare me against. Please help me solve my PE, I've been trying everything.

>>38761559
Besides all that other bs that people say. Drugs/alcohol really make it harder to cum.
Also Low dose SSRI u could get prescribed from doc for PE. Would help make you last a bit longer.

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Is period sex safe?

I do it every month, pal

>>38761896
im not your pal, bud

>>38762024
I'm not your buddy, guy

>>38761372
It still fucks up your shit

>>38761821
Who draws these fucking things

>>38762039
1v1 me irl get rekt

>>38762189
>fucks up your shit
how enlightening, please...tell me more.

>>38760738
I will be the only one to tell you this on here guaranteed. Take L-arginine supplements. Take 1.5 grams daily. Boom. Fixed me right up with fully hard erections.

I always go half mast when putting a condom and then penetrating her. Last about 1 min inside semi hard and then go soft without cumming. During foreplay and blowjobs I get decent hardness.

All with the same girl, now I'm so afraid she'll quit me because of shitty sex that I sometimes go full soft just before I insert it.

At this point I'll consider viagra. Any hookups?

>>38762319
i get the concept that it increases nitric oxide which will dilate blood vessels for improved blood flow.
Again i doubt its a cardiovascular issue. Will look into it though, thank you.

>>38762319
Erectile dysfunction (ED). Taking 5 grams of L-arginine by mouth daily seems to improve sexual function in men with ED. Taking lower doses might not be effective. However, there is some early evidence that adding 40 mg of Pycnogenol three times daily might improve the effectiveness of low-dose L-arginine for ED.

http://www.webmd.com/vitamins-supplements/ingredientmono-875-l-arginine.aspx?activeingredientid=875&

>>38761821
I like that even their idealized cartoon bodies are pudgy and disgusting.

>>38761821

that comic gave me brain period

>>38761821
>natural lube
Blood is a coagulant, and I have experience that tells me period sex is drier than usual.

>>38762595
>period sex drier than usual
>virgin detected

>>38761591
I'd like to get the SSRI, but I've read and seen anecdotal evidence that it could speed up balding. You might have a point with he drugs, but I've been smoking weed almost daily for years and had PE even before that (although MAYBE not as bad (45 sec. vs. 20)).

>>38762428
NP m8

>>38762444
I would stack them both. Actually, maybe I should try that.

>be uncut
>have eczema
>glans gets dry if I don't moisturize constantly and I'm worried it's being desensitized
what would a good solution be? I'm considering giving coconut oil a shot, anyone have experience?

>>38762595
period sex is especially lubricated not only because of the shedding of the ovary lining (its not actually normal typical blood that's being shed during your menstruation), but also because the excessive hormonal state makes you horny as fuck
>virgin
>uneducated
you sound like a real winner!

>OP has a quick trigger
>Tell him to fap LESS

You fucking god damn retards

>>38763937
Finally, someone with common sense appears.

>>38763937
So I should beat my meat to a pulp is what ur saying

>>38763937
Lol. Yes. Jack off with no lube. Dead serious. I always have jacked off like this and I have ZERO stamina problems. BUT, be aware that the sensation will be greatly reduced. Sometimes I can't cum from sex if it's not fast or hard enough.

Guys I'm kinda feeling down on myself. I used to have huge issues over this like I'm talking massive self loathing.

I have a less than average girth dick. 4.5" at maximum hardness. I can wear condoms thank god those stay on just fine I think the base is a little thicker. Length is no issue at 6.5"

Anyway I used to literally hate myself over this because all you hear is girth this, girth that. Girth is so important. I thought I would never be satisfying to anyone.

Eventually got a GF, love of my life. We were both virgins which took the pressure off me. In fact she couldn't handle it for a long long time. We had to take it super slow and she always said there was this stinging stretching feeling at first and it hurt. She joked a few times that maybe my dick was just too big.

Anyway fast forward 3 years and we finally live together and have more sex now. Things lately have gotten easier. Less foreplay required, dick slides in much easier with almost no pain on her part now. Even her birth control which is Nuva Ring she says its gotten easier to put in and take out.

Anyway all of this is starting to bring back those old feelings of shame. For a while there I was thinking "wow she can't even handle my dick as is, if it were any bigger there would be problems." Now that things are getting easier I'm thinking "She'd probably be more satisfied if I didn't have such a needle dick."

I dunno I could use some advice/cheering up/being called a faggot.

>>38764471
Stfu faggot u have a virgin gf and working cock kys and btfo

>>38764471

>has gf
>has slightly above average penor
>found a virgin of all things
>STILL has self esteem issues

Ok I'm not going to call you a faggot or tell you to kys, but if you're that afraid of not satisfying her in the sack then you need to up your pussy eating game. Get so good that she can't walk for all the leg shaking and she'll never even think about getting with anyone else.

Besides 6.5x4.5 is just fine, you have nothing to worry about.

>>38764321

No, just wank 12-24 hours before you expect to have sex

>>38764437
I haven't cum in a month because I never learned how to fap with lube.
A-atleast all the test is building up, right?

>>38760888
>>38760940

Jesus Christ, jerk off more so you're use to it.

Then when you get a bit desensitized, it will take more to get you off.

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>>38761821
W... why the woman have a beer gut?

OP, do you have strong glutes ? Can you lift at least your own weight if you do glute bridge ?
Do you have pelvic tilt ?

You probably have a tight PC-Muscle, stretch it, do glute bridge and sprint.

>>38766769
feminism

>>38761821
It is better for the girl than normal, but it makes your dick smell...

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>>38760940
Literally me.
>ez to get grills
>dont want to sex them because i know that sex will be weird
>tried aking home girl last weekend
>couldnt get hard

TFW

>>38766785
How do you stretch your PC muscle?

>>38760888
bro i've always fapped for like 3 times a day and i can last for 5-15 mins depending on if i try.

Similar problems.

>Be 25
>Got somewhat /fit/
>finally got a date with a qt
>Still have no idea about physical or emotional intimacy

I'm fucked for this date. I've only kissed one girl and that was drunk two years ago. Help me!

>>38761175
He is capable. OPs issues and most mens issue stem from mental/psychological problems.

>>38763804
>Woman detected

Not even that anon.