You hangin in there, /fit/?

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I could have asked her out
I didn't and now I'll likely never see her again

Every time I think I'm making progress with my social anxiety I get hit with the brutal reality like this

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>tfw no gf

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TFW I got a qt 3.14, while I was fat because of confidence and not being autistic. Now that I've lost a ton of weight and packed on muscle she's afraid IMA leave her

>tfw had 5 bfs but still 0 gfs

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>>38752744
>tfw you had a gf and she made your life better but you were making hers worse so she dumped you
This is more painful than I could have imagined. I thought I was going to grow old with her.

I hate my bitch of an ex gf, but every time we contact eachother we just fall in love all over again.
We hate eachother, but love eachother too much to stay away. It's fucked and I hate it.
I wish I could just forget about her instead of being powerless very time she texts, or having her be weak whenever I text.

>>38752873
You guys probably just had good sex, that was the case with my ex, then I realized after nutting I hated her

>>38752801
Oneitis is a real thing pal, you will get over her pretty easily once you start lifting more.

>>38752870
Im going through the same shit bro, stay strong it gets easier and just keep improving yourself.

>>38752893

Oh lord did we. Only chick I know that would let me nut inside. Fucking heavenly.
I want to say that I wish we could just be fuck buddies but we just aren't compatible, but for some reason want eachother more than anybody else. This has been going on for four years now, man. It drives me nuts
Sex is fucking good tho

>>38752923
Are you me m8?? She's probably a dirty bitch with a lot of guys though. You wouldn't want it back.

>>38752919
Thank you. It's been 2 weeks. I feel a little better but it really hurts.

idk brehs
my asthma has decided to return and it feels like I can't take a full breath most of the time, got a spirometry test but gotta wait 2 weeks for the result
I'm also just about ready to die, 2 weeks into the semester, getting fucking pounded from all sides and my shifts are getting cut down to 2 a week so I'm going to be dirt fucking poor

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>>38752894
I just wish I could have learned this "always get their number if you won't likely see them again" lesson with someone else

She was a 1 in 5,000 catch man

>>38752894
I have a friend who has the most horrible case of oneitis I've ever seen. They've broken up multiple times and he's absolutely devoted to her even though she has been the source of a tremendous amount of suffering. This has been going on for many years. I've been talking to some of our friends about it and we don't know what to do. How do we help him? I'm really worried about this guy. He's one of my closest friends.

>>38753018
Nothing you can do, tell him what you think and leave the ball in his court

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>>38752957
Shit man, just keep lifting

>literally every post except one is you complete aspie faggots crying about girls

Imagine how fucking ugly and mentally fucked up a girl who would go out with a 4channer is. Then think about how upset you aspies get over them

God damn

>>38753093
I've got literally everything in my life sorted out, except girls.

Fuck off.

>One and a half weeks into daily mile long swims
>Lost a pound so far(15 pound goal), feeling those pain gains every night
>Girl I like won't notice me

Like 5/10 I guess

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>tfw reading love poems
>I will never get to experience these feelings

Oh fuck lads...

>>38753140
>Girl I like won't notice me
Why not talk to her?

>>38753093
no need to be insecure just because of 4chan bro.

>>38753024
I have. We've even considered having an intervention with him because of how toxic it is. I know that it has to be him that decides to let go but I feel so helpless and I want to do something. It's a horrible feeling to watch someone you care about destroy himself like this.

>tfw you can't find her on facebook to jerk off to her pictures
Fucking how, how the fuck can I not find her? She must be unlisted, my autism searching skills have never been tested like this

>Meet an amazing chick while overseas.
>We clicked and had great sex.
>I went back home and we miss each other.
>We talk everyday.
>She is coming to my country for a holiday.
>tfw, I have to travel overseas for work while she's here and we won't be able to meet up.

Why is life so cruel.

I love talking to her and getting the emotional/mental happiness, but I need the physical side of things too. Had sex the other day and feel guilty as fuck. Bailed after I came and almost cried in the car.

Depression has been creeping up on me again the past few weeks because of this and other life shit. Booking myself into therapy this time around.

>>38753153
I asked her out once before when I was dyel faggot, and she sort of just ignored it. Now I'm still dyel, just a little bit leaner. I'm so afraid of spaghetting when I talk to her.

>>38753180
eh, if she rejected you then just move on desu, no point wasting your time

I know she goes to college the same days as me, haven't seen her yet though, I'm going early monday and waiting near where I think she has class
If I can't find her then I'm gonna say fuck it, man up, go to where I know she'll be and ask her out

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>first pin in a week

Goodbye humanity

Was rejected 20 toimes lastnightand i just crushed my finger between the weights. I think ill end my workout early because fuck my finger hurts and im bleeding under the nail. Did the main lifts anywas. Fuck ohp

Just bailed on my best friend's going away party because I got so anxious I threw up

>>38753100
Cool story
Stud

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Messaged a qt I haven't seen in ages about catching up.
>tfw keep checking phone for notification LED

>>38753253
Social anxiety is a batch. People told me it gets easier when you put yourself in social situations, but honestly it hurts the same, you just become more capable at hiding it.

HEY GUYS LE DAE WAHHHH MY EX GF BROKE UP WITH ME WAHHHH NO GF WAHHH LITERALLY MY LIFE SUCKS

keep putting that pussy on a pedestal autists

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>have to eat 500 more calories before I go to bed and I'm so un-hungry

>am recovering ambulocetus
>was 350lbs two years ago
>in class
>sitting near a bunch of normies
>we're all grinding out the time til the weekend comes
>they're sitting there talking
>im sitting there on the computer playing a flash tower defense game that I found that isn't blocked
>hey anon, you got a girl?
>nah bro I still got like 50lbs to lose
>how much you weight?
>(5'11) 200lbs
>shit I think you'de be fine at like 190

Felt pretty good tbqh.

>lifts are going up
>form is getting better
>mobility is getting better
>posture is getting better
>tfw it's finally starting to pay off
>tfw so glad I finally did something about it, after a childhood of being that fat fuck

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>>38753297

>>38753297
>tfw 50 kcals to go and my mum is calling me for bed time

I'm not going to make it senpaitachi

>>38753271
>tfw keep checking phone for notification LED

Still remember being so happy to see my G1s notification light come on...

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>>38752744
Got injured like a little bitch, everyone who I was once ahead of has now passed me.

Meh

>>38753321
eat the toothpaste

Haven't gym'd for three weeks since i had a cold for 1 week. No motivation to go. Diet has gone to shit. fuck sakes.

Probably going to get fired because I can't handle the promotion I got.
So yeah bit shit

>>38753383
what promotion

What's it mean when a girl constantly stares at you and smiles whenever she's around you, and acts all super happy and shit

Don't know if she's into me or just has that type of personality

>>38753395
He got promoted to cool person but he's not actually cool

>>38753402
Just check if she does the same to everyone else

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>>38753298
Good shit man. I'm a disgusting sack of shit who hates himself and I would give down to my last shiny penny to be thin. I was 450lbs (6'4") at my heaviest. I'm currently probably 340lbs if not more. I was down to 270lbs. I was Fucking doing it. Then I ruined It! All lver some stupid shit. I went back to my old habits. I gained like 70lbs back like the fat piece of shit I am.

Glad to know there are some fatties who are quickly becoming former fatties.

>>38753413
Not really

>>38753141
http://tylerknott.com/post/50024156270/typewriter-series-408-by-tyler-knott-gregson

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>>38753140
>one and a half weeks
>one pound

>>38753177
Met a girl recently while on holiday that lives in a different city. Trying to stay in touch via txt but not sure if it's realistic.

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>>38753411
Pretty much.
>Line manager: aye senpai yuo want an office + full time hours + more money
>me: hell fucking yeah
>Department boss: it's ok if you mess up you're new :)
fast forward 6 months
>Department boss: "sacking internally"
I just wanted to be good at something that required basic ability.

>>38752744

My best friend is gone around the other side of the world for a year, it sucks but it's just a year and he'll be much better for it. Outside of that I kissed a really qt girl today and I'm cautiously considering that she might be the jackpot. Idk lads it feels like I've finished my set of feels. I used to be so depressed and contemplate suicide and generally be a driveless, unmotivated loser, then I hit what I think might've been rock bottom, got into lifting and started seeing a therapist. Shit can improve bros, it really can. I hope you experience my success.

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I'm the poorfag who takes care of his two ill parents.

>Was doing my 10 mile bike ride today after the rain stopped.

>Went to refill my bottle at a park water fountain.

>Discovered it was turned off for the winter.

>Sat down on a bench.

>Found a soggy $5 bill on the ground.

>Bought 2 tallboys of Steel Reserve tonight.

Aside from M*** the Anon dropping me the cash in my PayPal to cover my gym membership for another month on Monday, this was the best day ever.

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>>38753468
>tfw lifting and losing weight didn't do shit for my self esteem or chances with grils

love is a meme
just get swole brehs

>>38753418
>I would give down to my last shiny penny to be thin

you mean I'd do everything except exercise and diet

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>>38753093
>implying I'm not living the dream

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>have consistently had dreams about her for 5 nights in a row

How do I make it stop

>crush on guy
>guy has crush on other guy
end me

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>>38753529
you know what to do anon

>>38753551
kys

I don't know what it is boyos I got over my oneitis over the summer and then I saw her at a party today and it all came back to me

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>>38753551
Sorry but /fit/ does not welcome gays

>>38753725
Yeah! Get that faggot out of here before I suck his cock

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>>38753331
Oh shit it's blinking.

>>38752744
>like girl in 11th grade
>never speak to her
>have no idea what shes like
>imagination going wild due to ignorance
>have created this perfect image of her in my gead based on nothing
>the more we depart the more I feel connected due to my fucked mind
>2 years later, now in college
>eventually realize whats going on
>cut that shit out
>5 minutes ago
>go to stalk her facebook
>new profile pic
>its her leaning against some guy
>"awh ur boydfriend is so cute"
>feel absolutely nothing
>realize shes the last girl i had a crush on
>never considered another mating partner since seeing her
I guess everything is ok now.

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>>38754072

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>>38754072

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I think i've made some friends at work, they keep saying hello to me now and asking me if i want to smoke weed with them and go places like the movies.

Not sure though, what are they trying to do? don't want to hurt them now.

>>38754134
they want to hang out with you dude, i highly doubt they have any ulterior motive, go and chill with them, have a good time

>>38754134
Do it bro

Imma do it /fit/, im going to go to bars and party's, get rejected 99% of the time and build confidence from failure.

But there is only one thing I'm wondering, how to avoid getting STDs from club sloots?

>>38754318
wear a condom you stupid cunt

>>38754141
>>38754151
Should i conceal carry?

>>38754338
if you're worried about criminal activity in your area, maybe
but holy fuck dude, its some bros from work asking if you want to smoke some weed and see a movie, not an invitation to some underground trafficking party

>>38753166
maybe she blocked you.

My ex gf of 5.5 years and I hung out tonight. She made me an amazing dinner and we had sex, came together, it was the best 40 minutes in recent times. She kept saying she loves me during it. After she tells me she wants to date women and see if she's possibly a lesbian.

>>38753574
Have you asked her out or is it orbiter status?

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>>38752744
5 more weeks until i can lift again, h-hold on

>>38753177
>>38753440
I'm in a LDR with 6h time zone difference

>>38752870
I know that feel compadre. Hang in there - we'll find another one, although it doesn't feel like it right now.

>>38754516
Life right? I'm converting a gf of 4 years to the lesbian sister level. Not every girl is gf material but they make better friends when you're less involved.

Girls don't know how to please or attract men anymore. There mothers should be leading by example but... Not common in America. Girls are insane because of what's marketed to them and their environment. Can't believe people are changing their gender to female.. Like wtf. All the guys tryin to fug the girls are basically fit aspies with more of a social look to them.

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>Been casually lifting for a few months
>Really hate the gym (family fitness, 1 squat rack, 1 deadlift mat, tons of old people, teens, etc)
>Find a powerlifting gym nearby
>Owner is fucking awesome
>5-10 deadlifting platforms
>5-10 squat racks
>Tons of strongman equipment
>Tons of benches
>Sleds, atlas balls, sandbags, kegs
>Atmosphere is amazing
>Just got preworkout for the first time
>First day is on Monday
>Bough the owners routine bullshit because I'm a good goy
>Weirdest fucking routine I've ever seen in my life but he considers it a beginner course
>47 fucking pages of detailed information outlining every week, every workout, every accessory
>16 week course, expect you to commit 1 hour minimum 4 days a week
>Has an intermediate course AFTER this
>tfw 100% hyped for Monday

Anyone else really love their gym? Went down there first time today and met the owner. Fell in love instantly.

>gf went completely off the grid 16 hours ago
>haven't responded to texts, calls, snaps or fb messages
>now I'm worried something happened to her or something
>other possibility is she's cheating
>we were good the morning before she stopped responding, so don't really think that

Fuck lads, gonna go over to her house now. Hope she's alright

>Tfw join the military to make better future for you and gf.
>She's all for it.
>Go through basic, off doing training, planning to propose to her.
>She starts getting more distant, you know exactly why, don't want to admit it, so you try your hardest to make it work.
>Turns out she's been fucking some 40 some year old dude over twice her age that she's pretending is her dead father.
>Leaves you for him and cuts you and all of your mutual friends out of her life.
>Mutual friends all still somehow crazy about her.
>Your dog of 15 years dies.
>Not sure why you're even in the Military anymore, but have nothing better to do.
>Miss friends and family and feel totally alone at new posting.
>Don't want to ever go home and face memories.

Feels bad man...

>>38754583
Fucking life. Yeah I miss her friendship, she's loyal as fuck, we know everything inside and out about each other (now I guess) and we have a good time together. You're right though, we get along better as friends, I guess not seeing each other every day makes you appreciate each other more. Also the sex has been amazing since breaking up. I'll probably wait it out and see how this lesbian thing pans out. Trying to not catch feelings sucks though. Maybe I can finagle a 3 way out of this though, she obviously still loves my penis.

>>38754642
Yo I've been on 2 tinder dates and found out afterwards they had partners in the military. At the end of a date when I found out, she said to me 'well most guys don't mind'.

Some people are pieces of shit and you don't need that in your life, if I was you I'd drop out of the military when you have a bit of money and go travel with a group of your friends that you're closest with.

>>38754744
Yeah, military wives are fucked. I'm debating leaving once my contract is up, but don't have any idea what else I'd even do that's any better.

>tfw my one coworker said the new girl that started and I would make a cute couple
I wasn't prepared for this /fit/ , she even said she'd figure out if she was single.
I never asked for these feels. She is P cute tho

>>38754634
Make sure you bring her son's father his favorite ice cream. You know how much he loves ice cream after cream pieing his woman.

>>38754642
>military wellfare queen beta cuck

You deserve it.

>>38754557
Its only a 2 hour difference for us.

How do you make it work?

>>38754338
>>38754422
Also, concealed carrying while intoxicated is a serious crime, as is owning a firearms while being a user of illegal drugs.

>>38754744
That's fucked man. I'd look up her name and find out who her partner is and let the poor fuck know before he wastes any more time and money on her.

>>38754791
Nice memeing, thinking there might be something to it though.

>send her a text asking if she's alright, saying I'm kind of starting to get worried
>get to her apartment
>knock on door
>no sounds from inside
>after about thirty seconds get an answer to my text
>"haha no, oh my god everythings fine. not at home."
>look in through window
>pair of her shoes carelessly thrown on the floor of the hallway
>she usually tidies that shit up pretty quickly, except when drunk

Did I just get keked?

>>38754802
We've been like this for less than a month and it will only be 4 months in total.
We already lived in different countries before but managed to meet regularly.
Apart from that we text through the day, keeping each other posted on what we're doing and so on, send pictures, watch films together...

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Yep, couldn't be better!

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Being happy is a matter of ONE thing

Progress

If you're progressing in your life, if you're working towards a clear goal and getting closer, then you WILL be happy

All depressed people are in degredation, they just keep digging the hole deeper

Find yourself a passion and work on it, HARD
That's all there is to it

>>38755256
What to do if i got a clear goal but despite hard efforts im not making any progress towards it?
(its been 1 year of zero progress)

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>>38752870
iktf

>>38752744
shit sucks

>>38755274
You're lying to yourself either about how hard you're working or about making no progress.

>>38755323
Pretty sure im working very hard towards my goal, its all i ever think about
I do notice that none of the things i do in order to get my goal seem to work so that might be it

Ill make a thread aimed towards it and set clear part goals
Thanks anon

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>>38752744

>dancing with a qt very closely
>horrible reggaeton song says "are you waiting for a kiss?" or some shit like that
>I ask her "are you waiting for a kiss?"
>she kiss me

everything went better than expected

>had a workout just 2 hours ago
>want to workout again because I can't handle the feels

>>38755968
>reggaeton
Eww

>>38754606
you just got shilled mate

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dunno why but squats are starting to feel hard as fuck and i'm only at 70kg for 3x5, lifting is the only thing I have and i'm shit at even that, feel like ending it all or just giving up and going back to playing vidya like the loser I am, but something always tells me I have to keep going, help me fit

Enjoying my life alone. Me-time 24/7, haha.

>>38756105
Just keep at 'em, man. You'll get better eventually. Even if you don't, only gym fucks like us care about that, real people won't notice the difference.

>>38752744
>Wide hips
>Narrow shoulders
>Permafat lower body
>Permaweak upper body

Some days I don't know what I'm holding onto.

>>38756161
thanks man, I will

Life if pretty good, senpai. Been partying all weekend and got a date with a girl I'm into. My only fear is my complete lack of physical experience with women while sober will mess up this attempt at an actual relationship, but nothing I can do now.

Trying to move on. She finally got with a guy that wasn't me.

I'm in a relationship that I want to end. every time I try to end it the girl hits me with
>if you break up with me I'll kill myself

still not sure if it's an empty threat but holy fuck. there's 3 other chicks that are DTF so I want out asap

>>38756260
Just bail m8, people that pull that shit are cancer. Sometimes you gotta be a selfish dick.

>>38756260

m8, I've been in the exact same position.
Just do it. She won't do it. Its just classic controlling behaviour. Her ego is too big to kill herself if shes using it as a threat to keep hold of you.
If you're worried then call the cops after you do it and tell them she's threatening to kill herself. It is classed as domestic abuse and they will deal with it properly if shes serious.

>>38754559
Thank you. I really really hope so.

>>38752744
Feeling like I'm getting played with by the only girl I've ever had real feelings for shit sucks.

but hey stronger than ever

>>38756213
Ooh I'm not excited for that to happen

>went to step sisters wedding last night
>girls I went to high school with were there, some still totally cunts
>one solid 8 was there that I hardly knew
>turns out she's super shy and awkward but very fun to talk to
>wedding ends everyone goes to bar
>her and I just hang out on the beach until 2
>makeout on beach
>get weird in my car
>meeting up again tonight

Just out of a 3+ yr relationship, I feel fucking great. May harambe bless all of you.

>>38756299
Dude fuck it no one's got time for that shit. Girls playing games, ignore and move to the next one. Keep churning and burning.

>>38756300
It's fucking me up. We were talking on and off for a few months. Finally asked her out and she gave the whole 'now is a bad time' speech. 2 weeks later she's all over Chad. The fucked up thing is she's not even a slut, she's just so selfish she didn't see anything wrong with it. Hold me /fit/.

>>38752744
no.

hit a 505lb dl pr recently.

feel nothing.

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>tfw gf
>tfw she took my virginity
>tfw she said she would start going to the gym just for me
>tfw anxious because now I have something good I don't want to lose

>>38756373
No one's holding you m8. Train hard and move on to the next one.

>>38756373
Don't expect so much from girls just because they talked to you. You shouldn't be focusing on just one girl like that if you haven't actually done anything together.

>>38756482
Ty anon. I need to hear that shit.

>>38756490
I see where you're coming from. It's difficult because there were a lot of mixed signals on both ends of it and because I don't have a lot of experience in relationships my default reaction is over analyzing and assuming shit.

>>38753093
>hurr look at what a stud on 4chin I am you losers

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>dropped out of college
>working at a job that pays me somewhat well but doesn't make room for me to improve
>being depressed since 14
>i'm 24 and flerting with the thoughts of death openly for three years now
>never had a gf
>at least my lifts are going up and i'm not a sperg I can talk to girls but rarely have an interested that is not mindless sex (i'm from Brazil and most girls don't like the shit that I like and i found out that have the same hobbies with a girl is pretty good)
>but my biggest fear is that I want to be a musician but I'm scared to fail, spend more time thinking in making it /not making it than actually producing shit

Sorry for the blog, but saying this made me feel kinda good.

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>22
>NEET
>dropped out of school
>basement dweller
>porn addict
>video game addict
>no friends
>no gf
>mother lost all hope in me
>low testosterone
>back pain

Why even live, all i do is bring sadness to my family

>>38752923
think of all the other dudes doing the same thing with her

>Helped out an anon earlier this week
>Lifts going up, diet going alright
>Replaying Kingdom Hearts
>Sister is home and cooks food, pretty tasty compared to what I can do

>Teetering on the edge of being over my ex and still wanting her.

She was my first for everything, I devoted so much time and effort into the relationship. She was the only girl I wanted, and she crushed my heart by getting with another guy. But, I don't love her current self. I loved the girl I formally knew, the shy, withdrawn anime junky who loves to bake and watch crappy Lifetime movies and cuddle on the couch.

Was life made to suffer?

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>>38752744
Been signed off work due to depression.
Diagnosed with a mental health disorder.
Starting life long medication in about 6 weeks time.
Crippling anxiety about going back to work.
Live with my mom no place of my own.
No friends what so ever to go out with.

But, Hanging in there because one day we're all going to make it.

> Gf left me a few months back
> Was hard initially, but got over it
> find out she's lusting after other guys and makes me feel like shit

On top of that

> hate my uni course
> made no new friends
> barely talk to girls
> falling way behind in a few of my subjects
> only thing that I look forward to is lifting and taking MDMA at music events
> family thinks I should go out more, my sister has a bf and thinks I'm a fucking loser

I hope it gets better, I really do but I just don't see it happening. The only time I'm
not miserble in my life is when I'm at the gym. I'm still dyel but I've made some gains and it gives my life meaning.

Sorry 4 blog post, feeling really fucking sad today.

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>be yesterday
>house party
>hang out with a qt
>sits on my lap on sofa
>squeezes pecs
>takes my hand and pulls me outside for a cig
>sit on the porch at night, smoke and talk about life

Woke up this morning and realized how much I missed having intimacy with a girl...
>Tfw all I wanted was to party

>>38755256

i just want friends and making memories with them.

>>38754606
>>38756085

Looks like Linear Periodisation starting with high reps going into probably 5RMs and 3RMs the next month- Perfectly fine if you're a beginner with a focus on powerlifting.

>>38757315
Abusing MDMA will make things worse. But you knew that already.

>>38757315
Literally me two years ago, like identical. Stop taking the mandy it fucks with you more than you realise.

>>38757426
It's literally made for people who have never powerlifted before. It just seems weird as fuck.
going to try it anyways because why the fuck not

>You hangin in there, /fit/?

Beginning to lose my grip on reality.

Questioning whether I am in some sort of minor hell or extended nightmare.

>>38757315
>>38757492
>>38757495
Using it at raves and concerts is probably a bad idea. It's given me incredibly therapeutic experiences working through the emotional impact of failed relationships, though. To use it that way, take it in a quiet place alone or with a close friend.

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need advice fit
girl is really into me and wants to date
i dont find her attractive but she is awesome person
I have no friends right now and she would be really good for me to get outside and stuff
if i ask to stay friends she might not want to hang out with me anymore
what do fit

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>NEET for 2 years
>get offered a good paying manual job for two months
>think money and activity will make me feel better
>one week in
>everything is the same, I just have less time to watch porn now
Why did I even accept...

>>38758212
are you looking to be more social or is there anything you want?
having spending money can be a big thing if you want to go to events/ out to eat

>>38758257
I don't know. to be honest. I've already had this period in my life where I also worked a lot, had plenty of money and went out with people, but that didn't make me feel any better. Ended up drinking and doing drugs too much back then to deal with it all. Hardly an improvement.

I reckon I'll just save up money and go travel for a while, although eventually I'll have to come back or settle down again and then it'll all be irrelevant history and I'll be my old miserable self again.

Or I could just live with my savings for another few years, reading books, working out and playing vidya as usual. I'm 26 now and it already feels too late for anything, tbqh fäm.

>>38755063
lmao

>last year of university
>all my friends are of on exchanges in other countries
>only me left in the city
>trying to find new friends, but not going so well
>have joined a university club for running which is fun, but not really getting more than acquaintances from there
>still don't have the money to buy an apartment once I'm forced out of my student apartment, nor do I have the time in queue to get a rental apartment
>best time of my life are the six times a week I exercise
>still can't decide if I should cut or bulk

Off to live in my parents' basement soon

let's see

I haven't had sex since June of 2015
I hate my job
i have this weird thing where I want to move back home (which I've done), but then want to leave when I spend more than three months here.

Overall it's not so bad

>>38758607
>I haven't had sex since June of 2015
Me too, my nigga
how was your last time?

>>38753024
Just tell him you can't stand watching a bro you love do this to himself (no homo). Tell him you're done being friends untill he cleans up.

>>38758631
it was okay. it was with my last (and only) gf. I could never bust a nut during sex, so that kinda threw me off

>>38758660
How long were you together?
Why couldnt you nut?

I didnt from my last time either even though the girl was smoking hot and my manifestation of a dream girl, but she got too wet so...

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>had a date with a girl
>it went well
>tfw don't know how to proceed

>>38758576
am in very similar situation my man
I got a job and found a grill on tinder so now at least i have a couple people to talk to but yea still rough

>>38758675
we were together for like 7 months. I don't know

I want to text her, but I'm uncertain as to how she might take me texting her. After all she wanted to stop texting to figure herself out, but all I want is just have a chat with her

>started uni on a field I just can't see myself working
>not into drinking so lonely as fuck
>live in a room with three other people

I'm very lonely yet surrounded by people literally 24/7

>>38758711
Dont fret
Ive had problems getting off too and its not really a problem
You thinkin too much and stressing?

>Work nights
>Usually catch sleep before work
>Be extra tired one day
>Just that day GF asks if she can complain about some stuff
>Say I'm too tired and falling flat on my face and go to sleep
>Now get silent treatment and one/two word answers

I might be kind of a dick but I'm not in the wrong. What do?

>>38758745
let her be
don't give in to her shit test

>Girl from my previous workplace
>We used to flirt all the time
>She admitted she wanted to have sex but she was in a relationship at the time so she never went for it
>She's single now
>Always texts me first
>always saying how she misses me and we should meet up, but is quite flakey when it comes to actually setting up a time to meet
>I respond but she takes hours and hours to respond even though I can see she's online
I just don't get her. If she's not interested in talking then why does she always text me first?
I'm not even being a beta orbiter and always complimenting her so she's not messaging me to make herself feel better

>>38758716
You're a little limp wristed faggot. When a girl tells you she needs to figure herself out she is telling you she needs to hop on some new more interesting cocks. And here you are wanting to "have a chat". Christ.

>>38758755
Yes, I did try to talk to her two days later, but in hindsight that was a mistake. Two can play that game and if she stonewalls me/won't want to meet, that's a clear message

>>38758744
no not really. It just didn't feel super good

>>38753093
/fit/izens trying to improve their life quality

fuck them, right?

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>decided to get fit a month ago
>was 305lbs
>weigh myself
>280lbs

I'm doing good.

>>38755063
>oh my god

The precise moment another man's cock penetrated

>>38758785
Ever been with another girl?

not all girls are equally tight

>>38758793
Feels good. Started on the 4th myself, 290 down to 258. Every time I see a lower number it feels better and better.

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I'm as smooth with girls as I am on powerlifting days.

>>38758833
good banter desu senpai

>>38758745
>>38758755
>>38758778
so, anything else? this is the only bump i'll make

>>38758777
Nice trips and no, she re-jumped dick to an ex of her, I don't care at all. Just eant to exchange some dank memes n stuff.

>>38752957
Hang in there, Anon. If you made it two weeks, you can handle a month. If you make it a month, you can handle the term. You're already doing this. You've got this shit in the bag.

>>38758920
fuck you ugly manlet

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>>38753529
>tfw never remember my dreams

>>38752801

I know this feel only too well

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>>38758952
>mfw he deleted his post

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tfw got rejected last week

tfw just got rejected today after what I thought was a nice date

why am i such a failure

>>38756680
Go back to school anon. Get it done. They say money doesn't buy happiness, but it does open up doors that can lead to it. You don't want to just be scraping by. I dropped out years ago and worked shit jobs and it made me realize it want more. More security and the freedom that money can buy. I'm a semester away from graduation, got a great internship, and it's the best I've felt in a long time. I know it might not solve all my problems but it's a move in the right direction.

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>>38752744
No. It's gotten so bad that whenever I see a cute girl or especially a young, happy, good-looking couple I get simultaneously sad and angry at myself for being such a failure.
I saw a couple while driving today and I had to do that thing where you yell out loud to make it go away.

people are increasingly calling me a pussy in real life because of things i choose (like not going out while being sick, like not completing things i start, like complaining because something seems unjust)

what the fuck is going on, i'm not a pussy but i legit have been called a pussy like 3x per day

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>got rejected by oneitis i barely knew because she had a boyfriend
>months later pretty close to her but don't know if she likes me sexually or is just flirty
>way less obsessed but still pushing away day dreams
>starting to get more women so i care less about oneitis but it's taking a while
i just can't get over people not being in my life, or failing with someone

>>38759285

pussy

>>38759285
It could be:
1) One of things where you've thought about it so you notice it a lot more
2) You actually are a pussy
3) The people you associate with are cunts

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>every girl I have ever liked has always ended it
>I don't even know whats wrong with me
>20 years old, I've been working out for 4 years, college graduate, about to start a good job at an oil refinery
>I like to think I'm decently good looking
>I don't want to date younger than me because they're immature
> I feel like older girls dont want to date me because I'm too young
>fuck this age bracket


>I've known this gym cutie for 3 years
>we've talked on and off
>we have the same tastes
>really compatible together
>hooking up here and there
>eventually seal the deal and fuck her last week
>be at bar last Friday
>talking to my buddies, chatting up this girl outside
> letting her do her own thing inside
>go in and see her talking to a guy
>his hand is on her fucking neck
>tell her I'm leaving
>she turns around and punches my face
>sit there in shock
>she actually fucking punched me....
>180 and walked out
>tell the 7/10 outside to come with me
>anger fuck her, then tell her to hit the road

fucking females man.

>pic related, me.

>>38752744

Pretty fucking frustrated, man. Lost over 80 lbs since January. Body fat is low enough that I can see my upper abs. Diet is on point and I'm killing it in the gym. Definition is looking good and my lifts are increasing. Overall, I'm pretty happy and motivated.

The only problem is that I have this loose, saggy skin below my navel. When I bend over, it hangs off my torso like loose cloth. I know that there's nothing I can do about it except surgery. Pisses me off when I think about how hard I've worked, only to trade in my embarrassing body fat for embarrassing skin hanging off my stomach. I feel no more confident about taking off my shirt now that I'm "fit" than I did when I was 240+. Trying not to wallow in self-pity, but fuck... Everyone gets a chance to achieve their dream body. Skinny guys can eat and lift until they bulk up, normal dudes can hit the gym and make it. I was fucked the moment I got fat. No matter how much muscle I build, I'll still have this shit dangling down there to remind me that I once had a gut, unless I trade it in for a massive scar and 1-2 months of recovery time out of the gym. Feeling powerless, and it sucks...

>>38757954
go with low dose of mushrooms instead

>>38759285
fucking pussy lmao

>>38759285
>>38759349
On a personal note I believe 2) might be worth looking into

>>38752744
By a thread

>>38759442
Man you can't let women be such a big focus in your life. If you're progressing in the gym and in your job, then what does it matter that you don't have a girl? Just focus on your own shit and don't let yourself get pulled into the trap of "settling down" and getting cucked by life.

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My abandonment issues makes me way to clingy for any girl. So I push them away by being too attached and insecure. I'm the kind of person to be in love after a month because everyone in my life has left me and I just want one person to stay.

(Now ex)GF left me last night because I am too attached/clingy for her.

>>38759442
>>she turns around and punches my face
>>sit there in shock
>>she actually fucking punched me....
What kind of scum do you hang around with? Honestly.

Forget about that bitch and just do you. In future just ghost her.

>>38759491
It's just a lonely feeling. My older brother has been with his girlfriend for 5 years and shes a 10/10. Shes really funny, dark sense of humor and smart. I'm a spitting image of my brother in terms of looks and personality, but I've yet to meet someone like that. Just dumb fucking bar sluts, I went to school in my home town so I never really got the chance to be at a big University and spread my tastebuds.


>>38759502
I'm ghosting her. If I wasn't raised right (Southern Gentleman standards), I would've knocked her out. I saw red, but I remained calm and composed.

>>38752744
I have never directly isolated calves. 1 plate on the calf raise machine 5x15 has killed my calves. I cannot walk or stand without looking like I shit my pants. And leg day is tomorrow. Everything is fine.

broke up with my gf of 4 years a while ago when college started. After the emotions cooled down i asked to hang as friends and she and I hung out all summer. She really is my best friend fit and im so happy i dont have to say goodbye. Screwing hoes and just doing me stuff and having someone who knows literally better than anyone to talk about the serious stuff with is honestly the best thing i could have hoped for.

>>38759535
I think in this day and age being a "gentleman" is asking to be taken advantage of. There are no ladies anymore, the whole dynamic is NOT reciprocal
/r9k rant over

>>38759285
>>38759456
>>38759346
>>38759349
>>38759456

all my posts

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>>38752744
>right side of face constantly swollen
>go to jaw doctor
>have hemifacial hypertrophy, basically my right side just grew more

it's not that bad but to me my face honestly looks deformed. will never be my turn for facial aesthetics...

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>tfw too much alcohol and drugs over JUST a year resulted in red spotty facial skin and somewhat bloodshot eyes, even three years after being clean
Is there any hope of redemption?

>>38759830
>Taking credit for MY posts
that's fucking plagiarism

>>38752801
too real

>>38755063
Quick, brake up with her preventively. Tell her it's not working out for you and never talk to her about it.

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>>38752744
Even Reviewbrah can have a bad day, but look how he handled it:

>Camera fuck up leads to lost review
>Busts out lesser quality camera cause the show must go on
>Owns up to mistakes while vowing to more carefully check equipment next time
>Delivers another solid review despite the conditions because he'll be damned if anything is going to stop him from letting you know how that burrito tasted

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6oprSm48hzI

>>38759830
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4tDniownNd4

How does /fit/ even meet grills?

>>38752744
She left me just over two weeks ago.

I felt shit at first but now...I feel amazing. part of me wants her back, but freshers week is starting, I'm fitter than ever, already got a few tinder dates lined up and we've a toga party soon for me to display my sick gains.

I still feel enraged...but oddly content

>>38752744
flexor carpi ulnaris is killing me, I havent been able to lift without pain for 3 weeks now.

And according to obscure internet forums, I am supposed to give it 2 weeks of complete rest.

Shitsucks because I have a job where I lift.

>>38752870
Worst part for me is that she said I made her feel guilty because she couldn't love me as much as i loved her.

Pretty sure that's a lame excuse for something, but fuck everything. We're all gonna make it bro.

>>38757315
>>38757492
>>38757954
On the topic of MD, I'm taking it with my gf tomorrow night for a rave, but the show is only on til 4am so I think we're gonna still be high after it finishes. What would be some nice things to do together other than dancing?

I've noticed a spike in intrusive thoughts in the last fortnight or so, I'm on a deload week and I've taken a week off of my caffeine, protein and creatine.

I drive at 100mph+ whenever I can and keep thinking about turning the wheel sharply just to see if I can get the car to roll. When does it end /fit/?

>>38759443
You can have it removed bro. Cheer.

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These delicious motherfuckers are a seasonal food only available towards winter.

They always make me feel so melancholic...

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How do I behave around my girl's ex? We're all kind of in the same social circle so it's inevitable that we're gonna meet soon. I don't want to be overly jealous and needy but I need to make sure he fucks off cause he seems the type to not let things go

>>38760325
It's a fucking biscuit you bitch retard grow up

MUH FEELIES! :(

>>38760352

Treat him like a normal stranger. She's with you for a reason. Talk to her about it and let her know that the idea makes you somewhat uncomfortable, but don't act like a retard in a social situation.

Get under his skin by showing it doesn't bother you that he's there.

>>38760370
Slow down, tough guy.

>>38760316

That means $5K-$10K, a massive scar, 1-2 months where I can't go to the gym, AND the possibility that I'll come out looking fucked up if the surgeon doesn't do a good job... Sounds great.

>>38759443
>>38760453
I know the feeling bro.
Just keep lifting, forget getting it removed. Try thermage, might work for you. I'd suggest doing it after building more ab muscle though.

Seems people do it to their faces for some stupid fucking reason, but there is more success with stomach application. It isn't well known though. I'd try to find one with good reviews near you.
It might work, it might not. It's cheaper and you don't get cut up, so it should be worth trying.

Good luck man, I'm going to be exactly like you in about a year. I've accepted I'll always be an ugly fuck and die alone though, so it's alright.

>>38760370
Wow you are so mature, not enjoying things.

>>38758147
Go on one date and see if you change your mind? Worse comes to worse, if she doesn't get you erect then just let her off gently and say you wanna stay friends.

>>38760509

Thanks, man. I looked into Thermage a while back, but it seemed like a meme. The pictures I saw didn't make it look very effective. Seemed to provide a little more smoothness to wrinkled skin, but I haven't seen any good results from cases where it was used for actual sagging skin from weight loss... Would be nice if it worked, since it's non-invasive. I get the feeling it's more for rich housewives who want their skin to look "younger."

Weightlifting comp in one week... been getting a little too lenient in meal plan because couple kgs under my weight cap... feeling like shit... lifting like shit.. do not feel prepared in any regard... gf isn't having sex with me.. overall feelsbadman feelfatman.

>>38753489
things are lookin gup you poor bastard

>no job
>no gf
>dropped out of community college
>running out of money
>shit parents
>broken home
>urge to smoke and drink rising

Just fucking end it senpai. Please.

>>38759234
Is this lonestar swan? he's a fucking legend

>>38760249
...fucking?

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>>38753361
KEK,

Reminds me of this

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>>38757315
IKTF bro.

I had a couple of GF's and once the relationship ended it was weird.

Like, the thought that they would get together with another man opended up a form of primal anger in my stomach.

Try to better yourself and set goals for yourself to reach.

You cannot do that,

> Yet

That is the keyword, Yet.

You cannot bench x ammount, yet
You cannot deadlift x ammount, Yet

You will be amased at how much you will accomplish.

Perhaps some self improvment books are your thing?

How to gain influence and get friends is a good starter

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>Just started browsing recently
>Preparing to get /fit/ not for women but for inner peace
>Talking to girl I had a thing for about her and her BF
>Why am I doing this to myself, I thought I didn't care anymore

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>Ask a girl I like what she was doin on snapchat
>Open message, doesnt reply

fuck this gay earth

>>38760325
Pepernoten!!!

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>want to go to a gym
>self conscious as fuck
>my local gym is full of normies who take 15 minute breaks between sets while still sitting on the machines taking secret snap chat photos and videos of people they want to make fun of trying to improve themselves.

Hype me into it /fit/

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I'm too scary looking, I can only get one night stands. Not that I mind that much, but it's getting boring real quick

>my whole body is covered in scars
>broken jaw ever since I was 15, so I look like Judge Dredd
>thousand yard stare because of constant pain

Friend asked me to at least try to smile, few days ago, so I grinned at her

>o-okay, never do that again

Just famble my shamble up, famalan senpai

At least my lifts are going up

>>38761533
>Hype me into it /fit/
You rack disiprine

>>38753141
Get a pet

>>38761555
Post pic

>>38761798
Of what family?

>>38761987
scars and jaw m8

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>>38762011
Here's pic of my face

I tried to look normal here

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>>38762011
>>38762116
And here's body pic

>>38762116
>>38762138
what are all the scars from?

>>38762116
kek sorry but you look like you're about to cry, you look good tho

>>38762116
Cool scars breh

>>38762116
>>38762138
you look great. what are you talking about?

try some skincare stuff for the body scars, but they shouldn't be a problem anyway

>>38762181
The stab/slash ones are from knife-figthing. I got paid good sum of money for a nights show

Some I don't even remember. I got burned, shot, stabbed, thumped, so I don't remember everything

>>38762199
I either look really angry or stoned (about to cry). Don't know which one should I rock
>>38762200
>>38762203
Thanks for the compliments though, fellas

>>38762228
Fuckin hell

>>38762116
You look good though senpai. I believe you'll make it brah. The scars make you look badass but don't make such a crying doggo face. Best of luck m8.

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>>38762228
I didn't know male prostitutes had knives for nails. show ur stomach tho

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>>38762258
It's a life
>>38762265
I think it's a better alternative to my usual "gonna stab you" face
Thank you man, appreciate that
>>38762286
Don't tell me what are you gonna use that pic for man

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>>38762116
>yfw

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>>38762368
hysterectomy scars are usually larger than that. rough stuff though

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>>38762421
oh lawd

I really should've posted a better pic of my face

>>38762368
>>38762138
>>38762116
Anon, you look like a badass

>>38752870
Me except she dumped you = she cheated on you and flirted with several guys.

I think that was the moment i became more aggressive with everything, sparking my fire to bigger gains..

>>38758833
y-you too

>>38762138
First time I get to gaze at a real man.

>>38753018
Seems like you're describing my relationship.

>>38759443
I'd just get the surgery ASAP. It's not particularly invasive.

>>38759448
Classic psychedelics are always far less effective than MDMA for emotional reflection and healing, IME (and in many others' E's).

>>38760249
Sitting in a comfortable private place (i.e. your apartment) and talking. That said, MDMA doesn't last that long, so unless you redose (which isn't a great idea) you'll be mostly sober by 4:00.

>>38752870
Damn didn't need this feel

>>38752744
Oldest dog got sick and died last Monday. I lost my best friend in the world. I do better when I don't think about it but every other day or so, it'll hit me all over again. It's rough. Half my heart as been ripped out. On top of that, I had a flat tire and had to spend nearly my entire check on getting it replaced (I'm a graduate assistant so I don't make much). I'm ready for this week to be over.

Hung out with a girl last night due to common hobby (met her two weeks ago but we never really spoke much or anything.) I think I got some crazy mixed signals and I don't want to misinterpret friendliness for interest but she comes off as a girl who has at least five guys on speed dial any time she wants. I don't want a girl who dates around casually, dates around often, and I sure as hell am not going to be an orbiter. So I'm okay with nothing moving beyond friendship.

>>38762116
You look less angry when I open the thumbnail

>Final year of uni
>Move into a private sector accomodation.
>Place seemed nice when viewing it, but it's a complete dumpster now.
>Bug infested and moldy place with broken furniture everywhere.
>Can't leave since it's a fixed contract.
>Need full focus for final year project, but the state of the property drives me nuts.
>Similarly, can't hit up the gym because of constant worry about further room degradation.
>Final year requires me spending 90% of the time in my room.

I could just leave, but the contract binds me to pay rent money for its whole duration, so that would be wasting a lot of dollar. Not sure what to do.

>>38763257

They separate your stomach skin from your abdominal muscles, cut your belly button out, pull your skin down to where it's tight, cut out the extra skin, slice a new hole for your belly button, and then stitch everything back together, leaving drain tubes sticking out of your stomach until your wounds stop accumulating fluid. You don't consider that invasive? It takes most people weeks just to be able to walk upright again, let alone do any sort of resistance exercises...

>>38763304
Pets are the worst. The one thing I enjoyed in life died because I couldn't afford any more trips to the vet. I'm empty now.

>>38763444
depends on where you live but if the place you were shown and the place you were given, can you get legal help?

Also, the contract requiring you to pay your entire rent seems fishy, again, depends on the laws where you live.

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>>38763304
had to bury my dog on friday...
He gave me one last thing, 9 hour work out digging out a 5ft by 5 ft hole in rock and clay..
my back still hurts.
sorry about your dog man.

>>38752744

haven't worked for 3,5 years and after having sex a few times in my twenties (31 now) i've pretty much sworn off women and gone full monk mode

think i'll cut out alcohol entirely next

but yeah, i'm feeling pretty good OP, wouldn't mind having a job, but life is good

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I do okay and then I get periods where I keep thinking about my ex and I just want to kill myself. It ended 8 months ago. They moved on within weeks. I was cheated on. Why do I still think about them? I hate it.

>>38754794

Why you so mad about it tho lol

>>38763756
Because men factually fall out of love slower.

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>grades are getting a little better
>p much every day going out with friends
>gains are getting better
>working harder to learn things (guitar, reading, stuff like that)
>always trying to do new things, found out i love hiking
>its been 3 months but i still cant get over HER
>she was going through shit and dumped me
>i couldnt help through her problems
>improving in every area but i still feel empty and hopeless
>will never tfw when gf

>>38756680
dont be scared of failing man, you gotta fall off skimboards so many times before you can ride a wave, the high you get from wave riding though is sick.. consider yourself lucky you dont have kids to deal with right now, now that would really fuck up your schedule.

>>38757013

Yeah imagine how bad it is for your mom, whom had expectations for you when you were a little lad, somewhere along the way something got all fucked up. Make her proud dude.
>>38763756
dont let their actions control your emotions.

> ~
As for me
> new school is okay, so many cute girls around, i dont really talk to any of them.
>switched gym schedule from 12AM to 7AM, but its nice not being up too late.
> car projects still need work, too lazy or hot to work outside on the cars.
>friends slowly stop talking to me.
>isolation is starting to settle in.

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>Deadlines for online class by tomorrow
>Been too busy with normal classes to get anything done

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Gf broke up with me (partially mutual). We are kinda FWB now though. I feel like she is keeping me around because she is lonely and horny where I am just horny... I feel like I am bound to just get hurt once she gets a new bf. But at the same time I do like spending time with her still and can't pass up the amazing sex.

It's never going to be okay, man.
At least I look better now though.
Not that I have anyone to show off to.

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guys help

>see girl at gym
>we lock eyes like 100 times
>catch her mirin constantly
>do nothing and blow it
>dont see her for 3 weeks
>fast forward to last week
>walking out of class with gym bro
>i look up and see her walking my way
>we lock eyes for a solid 3 seconds
>i choke up and let her pass me by without saying anything

There's a chance I could see her tomorrow. What the fuck do I do. I know the standard "dont be a pussy" answer works here, but I'm seriously too autistic with this girl to think of anything.

>>38752744
Started hanging out with this one girl from my social group. Wasn't too keen on the idea of going after her at first (she had a fwb situation with 2 other guys from my group already) but she's actually pretty funny. So I go along with it.

We get drunk one night and she stays over (we fucked). Play it off as a one time thing. She gets more flirty with me over the next couple weeks, feels develop. On her birthday she asks to spend the night at my place (she lives out of town), I end up eating her out (whisky dick af) and cuddle with her just talking about everything for a few hours. Wake up, continue cuddles and life talks.

See her recently at social gathering, having a good time lots of flirting back and forth. Fast forward a couple of hours, she looks upset and goes outside, I go with her and we talk about some personal shit. Subject comes around and I spill my feels (I know, fuck me) her friend comes outside and kills the convo. Couple more hours go by and I see her getting into a cab with one of the other guys in my friend circle she had relations with. Felt like a punch to the gut.

She didn't go home with him, I assume he kicked her out of the cab because he wants nothing to do with her anymore (red flags fuck me again) but to see her do that shit right infront of me after everything was the toughest (red) pill I've ever had to swallow. Dark days lads.

jobless and friendless. Just hang around my parents house all day. God damn I am such a pathetic piece of shit.

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>>38755063
>park in the street, stay in your car and figure this shit out.

You know what you have to do if you happen to be right. Dump the bitch and ghost the fuck out of her ass.

>>38764202
Wow I hate myself even more after reading this a second time. Life lesson learned at least.

>>38755063
>doesn't hear from someone for 16 hours
>panics about them either being in danger or cheating on him
>goes to their house and peers through their windows
the real cucking was inside you all along

>>38752744
I met this nice qt3.14 short asian girl who told me she doesnt go out much, she likes video games and only plays console. I told her about me trying yoga and boxing and now I have her number. We're gonna play video games next week since she's busy though I want to text her now but If I do now I'll over think it.

What do?

>>38764320
>but If I do now I'll over think it
Then don't. The con to texting is the ability to overthink, especially when interacting with bitches.

>>38764346
Yeah, the issue is that I want to see her, but the only chance Ill get for that is thursday.

So i feel I should just wait even if I do want to see her.But what if she forgets about this or somthing?

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>Started Junior Year of College
>Gained a lot of weight back
>Have a big group of friends
>Finally invited to things regularly, talk to girls, hook up semi-regularly (2x-3x a month)
>Confident, people enjoy my company for the first time in my life
>Already secured a high paying internship at a company I really like
>Stuck on DL, can't get past lmao3pl8
>Whore ex-gf runs into me a lot, now that she's single again (Danger Zone)
>6' and 225, feeling fat, looking average/fat, working towards 185 again

I think I'm gonna make it bros

>>38752869
Rel8 ;(

>>38752744
>No spot

>>38753529
It's your subconscious healing/obsessing. It eventually stops or just gets less frequent.

>it's been 15 months and i still dream about her from time to time.

>>38753725

You must be new here. Two of the most famous people on /Fit/ are a trap and a shirtless middle aged gay man.

I'm back in the gym and i will make it, this isn't newb gains speaking, i am finally back

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bgLfOrVJJMg

>>38752870
>I was going to grow old with her
I think that you have, in a way.

>>38759912
This guy has such a good heart and would be a great friend.

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Is there any way to recover from a self cucking?

>>38764018
been there. the sex was better than when we were together. after a while we startedfucking so much that we just got back to being a couple. didn't solve shit though. today, three years after we broke up, she wrote me a detailed email explaining how to get my current girlfriend in the mood for anal.

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>go on tinder date
>girl is serious qt
>we have drinks and talk for a few hours
>next weekend we actually go on a road trip and hike up this cool trail
>all in all turned out to be like a 12 hour day, even hung out at my place afterwards
>we watched tv and the only move I made was putting my arm around her and sat there watching this show and talking
>kissed her when dropping her off
>she texts me the next day and clearly wanted to keep the convo going
>honestly very excited, not only did I manage a 2nd date but she seems to still like me and I like her a lot
>couple days go by, hear nothing
>text her 2 days later and she acts totally different, simple responses and no attempts to keep conversation going
>decide to leave her alone all weekend
>hung with a friend of mine and had an ok time, and texted her this afternoon which I decided would be my final attempt
>same attitude, brought up doing something together that we had talked about back when she liked me and she replies "ill have to check but schedule but yeah maybe"
>replied with something stupid and didnt hear anything back
>went for a run and then sat around by myself all day playing runescape and listening to whiny bands like weezer and brand new

shit brehs. thought I finally did it. would have been my first relationship since the big breakup with a oneitis from like 2 years ago.

>>38764740
elaborate

>>38764155
just make contact. any kind. just promise to yourself that you're going to say something so you won't feel as retarded as you do now.
after you say that first sentence, try to survive.
As far as I've seen, this is the only way to cure autism.

>>38763506
Don't say that man. Go volunteer to walk dogs at the animal shelter like I do sometimes. They're the happiest guys and gals when they're outside in the field and it's nice being able to show the scared ones that there's a human in the world that wont hurt them. It really opens your eyes up, even though your dogbro passed you showed him/her a great life. There are thousands that still need that love man.

>>38764768
Kinda the same thing for me. Current GF has been acting standoffish. She's the independent/busy type so I don't know if I should worry or if it's just business as usual.

>>38764316
>the real cucking was inside you all along
toppest kek

>>38763719
31 and no job? What's holding you back? BTW guys I'm drinking old fashioneds and writing an admissions essay so I'm here to chat about feels. I'll tell my story if anyone cares. I'm the dogbro poster above as well.

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>>38764768
>tinder girls

probably regret posting this but
>said something to girl I've been texting/dating that I regretted immediately
>hurt her feelings and panicked
>text her I'm sorry but clearly damaged
>go to lunch the next day and buy her flowers
>wait 45 fucking minutes after work with her telling me not to wait up and I should go home etc etc
>talk to her and finish off with giving her flowers
>kind of awkward all week but still smiles and will talk to me, clearly distant
>text her yesterday and we clear up how we feel and who we are
>texts me 9pm to come over

>how I felt
>pic related

>>38764747
yup, first time we had sex after breaking up and it was the best yet..I think I kinda took the sex for granted when in a relationship. When doing it with her now, you never know when it will be the last and I realized how much I love doing it with her, so more passionate from my side at least.