I think I prefer cuddling and stuff over actual sex (and yes, I am a guy). Now that I'm sort-of /fit/, I find it really easy to score hookups, which is nice I guess. Obviously to get cuddling w/ hookups though I have to have sex first, almost as a chore if that makes sense. I just don't really have a sex drive, although I really enjoy other forms of physical intimacy.
Is this going to be unhealthy for me mentally do you think?
>>38750360
welcome to blogchan.org/fit
>>38750360
You're the definition of creepy.
Hint: most women, want, like, and even need to get fucked.
>>38750503
I'm gay.
>>38750534
Big whoop. Ditto for men.
>>38750360
>Now that I'm sort-of /fit/
so you don't lift
Please fuck off to r9k and/or kill yourself faggot
>>38750360
I thought i was only one lol.
>>38750360
am like you, you just have to condition yourself to like sex a little more m80
I don't think it's unhealthy exactly unless you make it so
>>38750360
Idk if it's mentally unhealthy or whatever, but I'm the same. Approaching it from the other angle though, if I just want cuddles it usually ends in guys pushing for more and then me feeling like I can't ask for cuddles without being a tease. I think some folks like us just have a low sex drive, but sex drive doesn't impact the drive for emotional connections and the dopamine cuddling releases.
>>38750875
Fuck you stop bringing these normal fags to my board
I like sex but I don't like foreplay. When I'm horny I just want to stick my cock in the girl and make out while I fuck her. I don't want a blowjob, I don't want to eat her out or finger her or suck her tits or slowly undress her.
But I have to go through this ritual every time and sometimes I feel like I'd rather jack off
that dude is a qtpie
>>38750360
Sex is exhausting and scary, legit hard performance anxiety every time