She aint coming back /fit/,doesnt matter how much you lift

Eh, she'll always be in my spank bank.

>>38685891
LOL

>>38685891
who? i don't even have anyone to leave me

>>38685891
Then I'll work harder to find someone better.

>>38685891
No-one cared about me in the first place

>>38685891
>tfw saw her today
My brain knows that I don't want her anymore, but my heart says I do
At least I can lift the feels away

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>>38685891
I have a question how manny time pass to fix my skin?

>>38685891
y-you bastard

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>>38686004
>>38685976
>beta

>>38685891
>tfw borderline gf
>flirty as hell
>talk everyday
>I want someone like you just older
>I-I just want to be friends
>still talk every day
I know I should cut her out, but I'm a beta pussy ass bitch and just can't do it. I lift to lift the pain away.

>>38685915
Das it mane

>>38685891
Uh... I'm think I'm perfectly okay with that.
>may be smashing her close friend tomorrow
Wish me luck lads

>>38685891
jokes on you she can't leave me if she doesn't exist

>>38686040
cut her off
you will regret wasting your time
believe me

>>38685989
I can't answer your question anon but honestly, good job. Keep it up.

>>38685989
Fill it all in with muscle.

>>38685989
This is what Chris-chan would have looked like in various phases of obesity.

Good. Fuck you Erin

>>38685989
5 years with good nutrition and exercise, give or take.

>>38686040
I know that feel bro. I know what the right move is, but I just can't do it

>be me
>two years out of college
>5 year gf dumps me I still don't know why
>she was 9/10, decent but not best fuck
>I go on intensive crazy angry lifting spree for months
>run through some chicks I meet at party for A+ sex
>get panties wet of future wife
>get done banging whores
>get gf becomes fiancee then wife
>ex gf now in process of break up with her numale faggot husband and has crazy autistic kid.

Life goes on brehs, she won't come back but you'll only do better

If you're so goddamn great and right for her prove it, by proving what a terrible mistake she made.

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/fit/ I've never had a gf, but have a crush on a qt who i met the past year and am pretty sure likes me too, but i feel like things have gotten cold between us recently for no reason and even though i can never stop thinking about her whenever i'm talking to or near her i don't get that feeling of attraction or whatever like i used to.

Is this what it's like to have oneitis?

no rest,daily gotta rock my vest

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Good. She taught me that women will only hold me back, and how much I need to control my sexual urges if I am to accomplish what I want. Her leaving was a blessing, and I only regret not realizing it as late as I did.

>>38685989
Only surgery can fix it.
If you were a fat fuck for your first ~18 years, you are never going to recover w/o a tummy tuck.

This is the answer you didn't want to read, but hey this is the hard truth; the sooner you face it, the better.

I know.
I know she won't anon.
Why are you worried about what I'm doing anyway?

But if she ever does come back, I'm going to drop a fucking bomb on her.

>>38686189
You rate your ex of 5 years based on how good she was in bed? That's fucked up.

>>38686925
>not rating women by sexual satisfaction

Number one cause of infidelity is poor sex life.

You don't don't even sound like you want to leave humanity behind with a qt

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>>38685891
Jokes on you

I've never kissed a girl let alone had a girlfriend

>tfw have a stupid habit of lying over dumb shit
>tfw second time gf has called me out over this
>tfw if she catches me out again she will dump me
>tfw I don't know why I keep lying over shit

Help me /fit/, I don't want to lose her :(

>>38685891
And I care for her why? Maybe I have a bit of emotional distress from her but chicks love it when I talk about how Ive matured from that point on openly. I'm glad for that experience, but that's just what it is for me, an experience into how narrow minded people are hard to please and its better to meet people who share the same values as me. I'm done with pleasing others, I'm going to be myself and talk about all the redpill controversy I think about to anyone who is interested, friends or chicks I have relationships with. And if they don't like my stance they can fuck off, I don't have time for fakes

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who?

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>>38685891
She'll be back, but I won't want her. I don't want her now.

Not the woman I thought she was, is, or going to be. Maybe in an alternate universe, we can be together, but not this one.

>>38685891
How can she come back when she was never there in the first place?

How do I break up with a girl.
First gf, first person I had sex with.
I just don't see a future with her. We're not compatible.
I don't want to hurt her feelings anymore than I have to.

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So it goes

>>38687986
>Not the woman I thought she was, is, or going to be. Maybe in an alternate universe, we can be together, but not this one.

Damn anon, those feels are danger close.

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On a related note, am I out bros?
Had a first date with her on Friday, spent the night and didn't leave until 12pm the next day. She seemed into me when we were together, she kept complimenting my height and body.
This screenshot is me attempting to set up a second date which she seemed open to when we hung out.

>be crushing hard at this girl in uni
>we start talking
>crush harder
>one night after being out partying we end up chilling together, making out and we walk home and she's holding around me while leaning her head on my shoulder
>seriously, on that walk home I was crushing so hard it literally felt like I had taken a few hits of a weak jay
>anyways we get to her house and she tells me she's not ready for anything more yet, obviously I'm disappointed but I tell her that I wanna hang out tomorrow and she agrees
>tomorrow comes and I ask her if she wants to hang out
>she tells me she thinks I'm a great guy but she's not ready to meet someone new at the time
>I think she broke up with some guy she'd been dating for 1-2 years like 2 weeks earlier so it's understandable but still, shit sucks
>anyways we haven't talked since

fuuuuuuuck man I need to stop thinking about her it's closing in on 3 weeks since we last talked
I fucked a girl last weekend hoping to get my mind off her but it didn't work

>>38688263
>asking instead of telling or invite her to join you

Beta bro, read the red pill and learn some basic game.

>>38685891
Thank GOD

>>38688318
Fucking shit. How 2salvage?

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>>38688217
indeed

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>>38685891
Fuck you yes she will

>Tfw it's been 6 years

>>38685915
Thats the spirit! Now go cry when no ones looking

>It was only your turn

There will be others

But now that I lift, it doesn't matter how much she's not coming back.

>>38685989

MK-677 has been shown to tighten loose skin. I'm currently taking it for a bulk, but it has also been shown to help with fat loss. However, you'll have to power through the increased appetite.

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Haha fuck you man.

She's gonna love me back. People will also want to hang out with me.

>>38688334
if she doesnt confirm go clubbing with your bros or out someplace nice, take pictures and make her envious. don't text her again until she texts you

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That'll just make me work harder.


And maybe one day, she'll realize she made a mistake.

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Of course she's never coming back and it's the only reason I keep going to the gym.

She passed away and it fucked me up a lot. I have that weird shit where I can't cry in front of people but laugh hysterically instead. I was so freaked out that if I saw her in her coffin I'd start laughing uncontrollably at the sight of her.

I decided to not go at all and wait till everyone was gone at the burial. I don't know what happened I just stayed there for a long time staring then I just started laughing uncontrollably when I started looking at my car about to leave. Like I couldn't cry till I was completely alone at home.

Now all I do is try to add weight to the bar with some stupid thinking that maybe if I get stronger I can transfer my strength to her and she gets stronger. She had muscle dyst so now all I do is try to get stronger for her.

>>38688428
Alright, thanks. Dunno if I should do the pictures thing, I only have her on insta and I rarely post so it'd be obvious what I was doing if I tried that.

>>38685891
Bullshit I can message any one of my exes for a smash...

>>38688466
she already has but doesn't care

>>38686925
You don't? Enjoy virginity bro.

>>38687390
stop lying then faggot

>>38685897
I have never once thought this. What a depressing thought.

Also, I think the profusion of porn these days makes it somewhat outdated.

>>38685891
She cheated on me and got with the guy she cheated on me with.

Turns out the guy is abusive as fuck and she messages me and calls me for help but I pretend I'm busy.

Stupid cunt got what she deserves.

I'll miss you, Sara.

But whatevs, I got the clubs, my niggas.

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>>38686054
The finest of paybacks. Best of luck, my lad.

Dated girl for 4 years. Broke up 3-4 months ago. I had a chance to make it work. Didn't do it. Found out she is dating someone new. Dem feels

>>38686925
If they hurt you, objectifying them becomes cathartic. Besides, he's just posting it on an anonymous Mozambican hair-braiding forum - no harm done.

>>38688485
yea whatever you do, don't be obvious. just indirectly project that you don't need her. In my experience, if they like you, they'll then unsubtly suggest that you invite them to do something, whereupon you have to have a clear plan. none of this 'maybe' shit, you have to be the man and lead.

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>>38685891
i have accepted this. once i got through some stages of grieving I began to realize she was not perfect like I kept telling myself. I now realize I am making way more progress on being happy without her.

I mean, being with her made me really happy all the time but I also still had personal issues that were getting worse and worse the longer I was with her, on top of feeling bad when we fought or when she would cry because I wouldn't convert to christianity.

I lost 40lbs, got her, gained 50lbs over 2 years, was really hating my body and feeling like shit and was getting to the point where no pants or shorts in stores would fit me and pretty quick I was gonna move up to 2xl t shirts. Just hated my body.

After breaking up I got a new gym membership, did some soul searching, listened to sad music and got sad, listened to angry music and got mad, though about her and her new guy and wanted to fucking kill myself. felt completely empty and completely full of rage and sadness and despair and fucking hate.

Time does heal all wounds, but you have to work towards hurdling over them. Take those emotions and burn them as fuel on your journey to success. It's been just over 2 months since we broke up in July and I've hit the gym EVERY. OTHER. DAY. since and have lost 15 pounds. At 245 now and my current goal is to hit 195.

Just know that there's a reason you and the ex had to split bros. Things will get better if you want them to and you work hard to change it. She's not perfect like you think she is, she may have been the one you wanted to be with forever, and I know that feeling, but it's over and you need to work on yourself. In time, maybe you will find another but that's something for the future. You need to be there for yourself right now.

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>>38687390
You've drug your grave so lie in it

She was never here. ( ´◉‿ゝ◉`)

>>38688468

jesus fucking christ

I'm really sorry for you anon

>>38688468
I hope this isn't real
Stay strong homie

>>38685891
No-one to come back. Just sick of being fat.

>>38688288
I'll be your gf anon

>>38685891
>She won't like you /fit/, doesnt matter how much you lift

fixed that for me

>>38688619
i always think of the shit my ex said to me if i want to finish up quickly

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>>38685891
I know that

But I'm hoping one day I'll run into her and she'll see how fucking yoked I got

I was a weak bodied and weak minded skelly when she broke up with me. Now I take no shit from females and I can lift heavy weights and I don't look like a frail pushover straight-outta-aushwitz skelly anymore.

The day I run into her at my hometown is the day that cunt sees what she missed out on. Fuck her

>>38688756
It's cool. It's already been 6 years so sadly time really is a strong thing. I can't remember anything about her besides two things from her....her laugh and her saying babe when she would try to wake me up while we were in bed everything else is gone our fights, our jokes, our talks everything...just gone and I can't even force myself to remember. I don't even dream of her anymore even when I try my hardest as well.

>>38688771
It's getting easier but to tell you the truth I don't want it to be easier. I am scared of the day that I forget her completely only to go back to living a normal life, having a family and out of nowhere at 2am sleeping next to another women remembering her and it all comes flooding back.

But the gym has been really helpful, I put all my emotions into lifting so I'm basically beat when I get back and don't really think about anything but resting.

joke's on you fucker, i've never had a gf

>>38688883
You should be happy that she broke up with you, it opened a new chapter in your life that convinced you to better yourself and get /fit/ instead of staying with her and remained as a skelly anon.

>>38686040
start treating her differently

>>38685891
She wants to come back but I'm not so sure

i don't want her back /fit/, i want someone who gets me and that i also understand

>>38688178
Tell her anon,no pussy out.

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HOW CAN SHE COME BACK IF SHE WAS NEVER THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE

You're right, she's not.

She dumped me a week and a half ago for the same reason she initially rejected me. She's not ready for a boyfriend.

Though when I moved on after she rejected me at first, she fought hard for me back. Maybe she'll do the same again.

But for now I have to accept she's never coming back, or else I'll never move on.

>>38686153
fuck erin

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she wasn't worth it anyway

>>38689228
Every relationship has been realizing that we don't love each other so why would I want it back
I want to be able to move forward

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>>38685891
>meet her
>instant crush for each other
>things going well and we both having a good time
>make her my gf
>feelsgoodman.jpg
>Parents don't approve because of bullshit
>Parents say I can't see her anymore
>Both heartbroken
>Still have crazy feels for her
>After some time I searched help for my problems
>Started lifting and improving myself for her
>Ex got in relationship
>Year later
>Ex breaks up and starts contacting me
>Meet her in a setting with friends
>Sees that I'm doing way better
>We're hitting it off again
>She diden't gain any baggage or changed in some way, she only matured
>Parents suddenly agree to me seeing and dating her
>Have the chance to have the girl of my dreams
>Desire and feels for her start fading
I dont know what to feel fit

>>38685891
This fills me with an overwlming joy

>>38692704
Damn. I've never felt that, but I can imagine it. Do what feels right lad.

>>38688178
You will hurt her anyway, just tell her

>>38686040
preach anon
these feels are my life.
I shouldnt get this invested in a girl but hey that's how you end up 22 and have never been on a date.

>>38687390
hahaha, stupid faggot, you deserve what you get

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32udqal_lyQ

Coming up on a year of no contact, when does it end

>>38685976
why did you guys break up?

I like trains

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just tryna smash some strange, i could give a fuck