Are there any benefits from not jerking off daily?

I've been masturbating daily for more than half of my life. This question doesn't even make sense.

>>38587483
none at all

>>38587483
You'll blow a much bigger load, which is great if you like to pretend you're your own girlfriend and jerk off on your own face like I do

They say that fucking your own hand everyday destroys you mentally. You become like a junkie who wants a quick effortless fix.

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I wish I had a gf who would jerk me off daily.

>>38587493
Fuckin this kek

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You're not gonna get a gf if you keep tugging your meat every night.

why are women so bad at jerking

this chick ive been seeing thinks you just go him and stroke back and forth wildly. no rhythm and it feels like shes going to punch me in the balls when she does it

>>38587560
why won't she fux him brehs...

>>38587581
how do you get girls to jerk you off pls teach me

>>38587586
choose:

a) be attractive
or
b) have money and a good future ahead of you

i chose b.

>>38587504
hi

>>38587586
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>>38587623
I like women

>>38587483
>>38587496

>>38587581
My gfs hand jobs suck and she loses rythm every 30 seconds. I can wank off in 20 sec record if I want and get her off, but she usually lasts 20 mins till her arm is too tired. Her bjs hurt too, I think it's years of abuse has rendered it sensitive, however she veru rarely gives them so it's ok. We're both 21 , together 4 years and we've had sex probably 20 times so far this year.

How do I make my gf good at sex?

>>38587534
handjobs are much much worse when performed by someone else. Unless they REALLY know what they're doing

>>38587726
20 times? damn thats sad i have sex with my boyfriend atleast 4 times a week

>>38587737
well you're either a whore or a faggot so it doesn't really apply here innit

:x My gf and I fuck like animals once a day. sometimes we miss a day if classes are particularly heavy. Everyone has different sex drives. no shame in that. She wants to fuck more than I do but I comply because it is still fun.

>>38587737
How long have you been together? If you're a faggit, then your sex is probably more interesting being men I more sexual than women.

4 years of uninteresting , un confident sex has left me preferring to jerk it to trannys

>>38587601
>Good future ahead of you.

Fucking kek. If you discovered this place it's GG for you.

>>38587782
ive been here for years

i mean career-wise

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>>38587601

i dunno, i have been masturbating on a daily basis for 14 years and at 26 years old i'd like to try to stop fucking my own hand for once.

>>38587726
>we're both 21
>20 times in 7 months
bro....
Even married for 8 years and way higher than that.

>>38587912
how do u get wife

>>38587726
20 times ?! Not good Brah
I slayed my ex 4 times last Sunday

>>38587508
My bf was a fapping virgin for 24 years and he thinks sex is too much work. Lingerie, costumes, keeping fit... Why do I bother. We haven't fucked in 2 months. I don't even touch myself so I can save all the pent up energy for him. He just wants blow jobs or he's said he'll find someone else happy to give him only blowjobs. Guess he's better off with porn/fapping.

>>38588070
i wish i could be ur bf

>>38587483
It makes your dreams really fucking vivid
You get stay horny as fuck 24/7

>>38588168
how is the second part a benefit? it sounds like suffering.

>>38587912
>>38587993

But do you have conventional sex, or do you use sex toys, role reversals, fetishes etc. I find women too devoid of sexual fetishes and general physical sexuality that it puts me off sex. I want my gf to worship my body like I to do hers, but women Just dont seem to be into that.

>>38588286
whycome women get so wet for 50 shades of grey scenarios then? even when the writing is horrid?

Abstaining from masturbation is literally self-torture.

>>38588198
It is suffering, I haven't had sex in 5 months and masturbation doesn't really do anything for me, so I'm just horny all the time and it's fucking awful, can't focus on anything normally anymore and seeing anything remotely sexual gives me a full on boner.

>>38588402
>masturbation doesn't really do anything for me
What's wrong with you?

>>38588404
It's boring next to sex. I regret ever losing my virginity.

>>38588415
ur fucked in the head

>>38588442
Just saying, once you've had amazing sex it's hard to go back to just your hand.

>>38587493
>>38587496
it's also how you do it.
>>38587504
t-this
>>38587508
i would say destroys you mentally is too subjective to generalize here.
>>38587534
>>38587581
the organ is often mistreated. most girls don't know what guy's cocks want and they shouldn't, until they reach age 35 or so and figure their shit out.
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>>38587582
because she needs him in order to have higher self-esteem. breaking this path she has created/is on will only benefit him and no longer her. her integrity is then diminished. my question is why is this fucko hanging with her.
>>38587586
step 1. meet girl
step 2. start sex

>>38588070
me

>>38587735
I disagree

source: handjob fetish

I don't even find nofap hard

must be the depression

>>38587726
holy shit 20 times since january? that is no way for a 21 year old man to live. i am sorry but your gf is fucking up. and on multiple levels. she can't get a handjob down on YOU after 4 years, either?

>>38588609
do you find porn a problem?

>>38588389
Because it's all about the man in high status position, giving them all the attention. Most sex scenes for women focus on looking at the women in pleasure, whereas men are less represented, which suits male audiences too.

>>38588646
this. not to mention most of the porn out there is for men anyways. and with that being said, there is porn specifically targeted towards women. and that stuff is usually made by men as well.

a lot of females think that porn is about guys getting off. well duh that is what the fuck stereotypical porn videos are about.

>>38588611
>>38588611
Nope never. Never came from handjob, blowjob, finger in ass (only done twice and she complained) , foot job or her riding. She's very unconfident and over thinks it. I'm quite the pervert so sex in general was never a pedestal to me, I wanted dirty sex.

>>38588670
Most straight women watch lesbian porn to see women in pleasure and sex more orientated to suit them such a oral and lots of foreplay, however lesbian women like gay male porn as they say lesbian porn is too fake and you cannot fake a boner (you can it's called Viagra).

Women basically like sex that haa positions they can relate too, such as a woman or man receiving penetrative sex, or a woman receiving foreplay. However it is NEVER about looking at "hot guys"

>>38588681
how do you deal with it? do you jack off to fucked up porn or cheat on her with women who are willing to do depraved shit with you (whether paid for or not)

>>38587483

say you're playing an intense sport or something

If you don't jerk off you can get really tense and shit which I guess helps you pack more rage into the sport you're playing

I only know this because two of my friends do this for rugby.

>>38588681
>However it is NEVER about looking at "hot guys"
what a load of bullshit. your woman is just broken or fucking a hot 10/10 behind your back you dumb cuck.

>>38588681
it sounds like she was/is not inclined to explore her own body and sexuality. i mean it's like she is living out a fantasy in terms of sex. some ideal.

i'm also in my early 20s and i have to ask you details man. what is the sex like being with the same girl for 4 years? one person initiates it, then immediately she takes off her clothes and lays out on the bed?

>>38588774
i mount her and start humping her like a dog until she grumpily gives in

>>38588791
keked, sound fantastic, ever considered not being with her?

>>38588791
is sex about you pleasuring her?

>>38588681
Most women like watching women get off. Basically all softcore porn on cable television during the day.

Lesbian porn?
I don't know, never heard of straight women getting off exclusively too that or at all and women not being turned on or wanting to look at "hot guys". Have anything to back that up or is that part of that whole all women are bi narrative that's pushed heavily by certain people?

I mean, if that were true then why is this board lousy with women and retarded >tfw no gf threads?

>>38588861
because almost everybody here is a dyel fucker or fatass who lifts some weights, and going by the face threads, this place is packed with ugly motherfuckers.

>>38588868
...
uh huh...

>>38588861
>>38588730
Literally Google this stuff. There's plenty of sex studies exploring this subject. Women do not fap to men like men fap to women. They like women being pleasured. Hundreds of women's forums talk about this.

You are supposed to shoot your load into a girl.

Not into your hand.

>>38588070
Why the fuck are you still with him? male or female, you need to find someone who is sexualy compatible with you

>>38588774
Depends on the girl. She probably had initiated around 20 odd times in our 4 years, alot more these days since I'm just as nullified about sex.
If your partner is not very sexual or confident, it seems that they don't change as they become comfortable in that behaviour since they've bagged you.
>>38588712
Since reading and understanding the female sexuality, I came to resent the fact that I'd never be desired the same way by another woman as I do to them, which pushed me more in watching shemale stuff. I'm more over that now and accept that's the way it is.

>>38587601

Honestly, just be manly and give off a masculine, dominant vibe.

I'm an Asian manlet just barely out of DYEL territory and I'm seeing a fit (5'7" 118 lb.) white chick who worships my dick and wants to suck me off multiple times daily.

Seriously, most girls want to be submissive and want to find a strong, dominant man to serve and please.

>>38587726

Man, tell her what you like and what she should/shouldn't do.

As for the frequency, just tell her she's your fucktoy for you to use whenever, and then act like it.

I'm NOT going to fap today.

>>38589079
how do i find a girl who will willingly take my seed?

>>38588070
CHAD gaps all day and gets BJs, while I TF w no GF

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how do i get a gf who wants sex with me
i'm not fucking playing man

>daily

How the fuck do you people do this, I'd be pushing it to jerk off once a month. I had sex once 2 years ago and that was enough forever. There's better things to do.

>>38591114
I wish I could be like you. Free of sexual urges like some primitive animal. I'd be happier too.

>>38590900

be yourself

which means make a decent amount of money and dont look less than 7/10 at any moment.

jk what toppings should I get today?

>>38591161
cum

I'm about to masturbate man I can't help it, it's been my daily routine for 20 years.

>>38589569
Cba to shag her anymore really. I wanted a gf who was into it as much as me. I'll just let this sexless relationship continue lol. The guys I know who have shagged girls, who are into sex probably the same level as the average guy is, say they're always either psychos or mental.

Trade off between good sex and head case of a woman, or shit sex and stability

No joke tho NOFAP makes you way more confident. Also gives off pheromones that girls are attracted too. They can tell when you're sexually frustrated and have a big load in tour balls. Most ppl don't understand this because they're stupid; were all mammals at the end of the day.

>>38591337
2 days into nofap. hoping this is tru brah this is the first time i've taken any measures. been fapping daily all my life.

>>38587601
I would require both a and b.
>or
Top kek

>>38588286
You've just never found a girl that into YOU as a person. I molest my bf all the time and love being physically close and touching, and he's not even a big muscley Guy like you guys seem to imagine girls drooling over. Its him as a person that makes him so attractive to me.
>>38588389
I've never even bothered to read that awful book, it doesn't make all women "wet" . My bf is even a dom and we both find the book/movie stupid and don't bother

>>38588681
I'm.a straight women and I find lesbian porn boring as fuck. I'm not getting soaking wet unless I see a real live throbbing cock in someone. Lesbian porn is about on par with gay porn as far as being unattractive goes. The girls usually aren't even lesbian and its obvious they're paying more attention on how they look vs. The actual "sex". Its such a turn off.

>>38590391
I failed...

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What do you say/do if a girl asks you if you're a virgin?

I'm gonna meet up with this girl I met on tinder. She looks like a total stacy, so I'm sure shes been riding cocks since she was young. I'm 23 and still a virgin. I've managed to lose weight and get some what fit, but I never got laid.

Do I just tell her or do I just go with it and see if I can get lucky?

pls help
pic related. This is what she kinda looks like

>>38587483
I'm on day 6 of nofap. I haven't been not watching porn because it's almost impossible on the internet but I haven't came in almost a week.

I feel more alert and I'm starting build some confidence. However, along with feeling alert, I can't really sit still. I'm always moving my legs while sitting down and I can't really stick to one subject. I did read about the "brain fog" and while I feel like I do have clearer head, I can't pay attention to save my life right now.

>>38592316
Just find a girl who is willing to choke on your dick and swallow your load. Real sex doesn't count as breaking your no fap streak.

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>>38592043
I would/10

>>38592043
if you're gonna tell her do it afterwards

I jacked off again...

>>38592043
Girls don't care if you're a virgin if you don't act like it (I mean that you don't act like what they think a virgin acts like)

>>38587855
The only way is to try hard to not touch your dick for 2 days. If you succeed this, you have a good chance of holding longer. Try it.

>>38592043
just tell her its been a while and you're inexperienced if it comes up. otherwise be "normal." dont actually open it all up first time you meet her you autist

>>38591431
yeah its that person stuff that bothers me. sex is physical, and the thought that my gf will never think of me sexual and physically, just mentally and my persona is off putting when it comes to sex.

I dont lick her ass cos shes a lovely person who looks after me, I do it cos she has a dayum fine arse. The emotional side is very separate to the physical, sexual side.

>>38591465
exactly! girls like what seems real and what is easy to relate to. I dont think being plowed by a tranny or a girl fingering herself is something i can relate to, but i fucking like it.

>>38587581
because not even the greatest slut can get as much experience in jerking off as an average male who's gone through puberty

the only thing that makes a girl jerking you off fell better than doing it urself is that it's a "foreign" hand doing the job

>>38587581
They stroke the dick like how they want to feel it inside of themselves.
Or it's seen as a fun toy to play with.
Rarely are there women who are experienced enough and make it their intention to get a man off with handjob skill.
I mean, I know goddamned well I'd rather be deep in some pussy rather then finger banging her. I'm good at it cause foreplay is quite honestly needed and it's kind of a massive ego boost to make a self proclaimed "big ole dyke" gold star cream my fingers and lick off her taste...uh
Sex is better, handjobs are just foreplay/fetish stuff.
If you want a good handy go to a masseuse. If you're lucky she might even be willing to suck or fuck.

>>38589079
I shoot my load in the tub and turn on the shower head so it washes down the drain

I tried nofap and lost after 2 days.

I'm skipping reading the thread because it's probably full of people going "UH NO DONT DO NO FAP MUH PLACEBO"

Doesn't matter.

Whenever I've done no fap, I feel horny throughout the day because I want to jerk off, which gives me more confidence and energy, and I feel just generally more active.

All I know it works for me. I recommend it.

>>38598302
well yeah it's easy for you when you haven't been jerking off every single day since puberty

>>38598321
get your T levels checked, famalama

>>38598361
for what purpose
i don't have any symptoms of low t
jacking off daily is just a routine

It just slightly raises test but that's about it.

>>38591337
Won't that creep them out? I'm not a hunka hunka. I know I scream do not breed.

>>38598454
It also apparently, raises your bodies ability to respond to testosterone in a favorable way as well.

>>38588070
Palm Beach?

>>38599360
sup

How?

How do I stay on nofap?

how how tell me how

>>38587735
You must be der Jewden cutfag because with foreskin a handjob is always great.

>>38588198
It'll make you get up and do things so thats a benefit.

>>38601281
What things?

>>38587483
not jerking it makes me extra horny and actually willing to approach girls. thats about it.

>>38601334
have you been successful

>>38601338
ive been with a few girls at 19, but i wouldnt credit that to not jerking off.

I'm probably gonna fap today...

My daily masturbation session is the only joy I have in my life and I would have nothing if it was taken from me.

>>38587746
Paki confirmed

>>38587581
i know right it's like they have feminine penises why don't they know how to please them. :/

>>38589553
dude your an exotic toy for her. just enjoy it.

>>38587582
Because women are assholes.

>>38587483
Big cumshots.

I've never been able to do nofap more than a few days.

I think i'll get my boyfriend to cage me sometime

>>38590391
>>38591974
>>38592849
Kramer, is that you?
>>38594490
Any tips on fingerbanging?