sad /feels/ thread

Do both, are you retarded? Or just bragging?

>>38567174
>texting while running
i'm not sure who is retarded here

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>>38567156
>new semester
>finally feel like im growing into the person i want to be
>run, swim, lift, ruck, calisthenics, and be jazzcat
>start feeling confident as fuck
>somehow always end up talking to grills who are already in relationships
>theyre merlin and spilling the spaghetti but dont want to be a jodyfag

What do?

I feel like the profession I chose will lead me to be single for the next 10 years if not the rest of my life. I guess it wouldn't be the worst thing. But I had a dream last night where the girl I've got feelings for was cuddling with me, and it made me feel so comfortable and whole, and then I woke up.

>>38567183
>being this cuck

>>38567515
Is your career more important than happiness and being comfortable? Maybe im biased because im one of those free spirit faggots that don't care about money, but really think about it.
People don't really think about what makes them happy anymore, isn't that the most important thing in life that you can achieve?

>>38567702
Well, at this point am past the point of no return. 65k in debt already. I don't really care for money, but had I not gone this route I probably would have forever been in regret. I'm just trying to be the best version of myself that I can be, just never imagined I'd feel this lonely. It'll all be worth it in the end

>>38567515
is that profession medicine? if it is and you're in the USA, get out while you can.

>>38567183
Just stop running and send her a single text message you dingus

>>38567702
Is marriage alone what you measure your happiness by? Legit question, I feel like I would measure my own happiness and success by finding a happy medium between a decent career and a comfortable lifestyle but I'd rather not draw it from who I have a dedicated relationship with.

>>38568533
Not him, but former med fag here. Why do you say that?

>>38567156
GO running, and only afterwards text her

Don't make it seem like you're already always waiting for her texts

>>38567156
>be 25
>weigh 318 at 6'3 ,have lost 40 pounds so far
>just wasted 2,000$ to visit a girl and show off
>be madly in love with her
> shit ends , now fucking some other girl that I really don't give a fuck about...this girl is texting other guys and I don't even give a fuck since she doesn't matter to me , just wasting money with this girl doing bs so I don't feel alone.
>still depressed over the other girl , unsure on what to do....
>saved up 6-7 grand , now have like 800 to my name.
> I feel lost and no motivation to better myself at the moment besides working out , literally getting stupider n stupider by the day.
>the best I got going for me is a union job that pays 19.44 an hour, I still feel like a piece of shit... In a year hopefully make 34 an hour.

Help?!

>post workout stil stimmed up
>play LoL
>22/1 jungle push 8 towers myself
>A+

Wtf am i supposed to do more

>>38568854
>spend money on girls

cuk

>>38568743
because it's a cuck profession. studying and working 60-80 hrs a week for the entirety of your 20s just so you can save ungrateful people and make upper middle class money. i bought into the meme but dropped out after 1 semester of med school because i quickly realized how fucking lame it was.

>>38568909
Lol I'm usually a Jew , which is how I saved up the money And the money on first one the 2g's wasn't Exactly wasted on her , for my gas , hotels and my food. I was out there for a week in hotels that were about 200 a night. Maybe I am a cuck....

>gf won't stop talking about marriage and how everyone is getting married
>tell me that a proposal in Paris would be amazing/romantic
>we fight cause I say it won't happen right now (going to Paris in december)
>relationship will probably end because of this
>fucked really bad my shoulder yesterday while benching

>>38569006
How's your shoulder hurt? Strained muscle? Inflamed ligament?

>get date
>"oh anon I didn't forgot I'm seeing my family sunday but we can do this later in the week"
My autism just got kicked up a notch

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>best muscle I have is my ass
>one of my friend's gf always comments on how good it is
>no gf to share it with
>tfw no gf

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>>38569195
>be at work
>older woman jokingly pinches my butt everytime and says "OOOOOOH" loudly

>>38568911
Eh.
That's one way of looking at it but there's certainly worse professions to pursue; hours are certainly a negative but if you genuinely enjoy the field it'll be worth it.
Also at the very worst you'll be at the upper end of 'upper middle class;' plenty of medical specialties bring home upper class money.
Not a med student btw, currently in my 3rd year of law school.

>>38568933
Cliche as fuck but focus on bettering yourself rather than cucking yourself throwing money at grills and they'll actually be interested in you.

>>38567515
What profession?

>>38567156
Why wouldn't you want to talk to her if she's your Oneitis?

Also
>Hey I'm just about to go for a run, I'll text you after!

>>38569630
this

you guys overcomplicate too much stuff mang

>>38568533
Yes, I am a 1st year medical student in the US

>>38569495
Medicine

>>38569056
Not really sure how it feels. When I lift my arm kinda hurts on my delt, other times near my rear delt or shoulder blade. And when I'mais just standing it feels it's being pulled down. It'se messing with my brain

>>38568876
Cause of the farm bro.
I've got the same prob 17/1/13 as Lee jungle A+
Rito is retarded they expect jungle to have the same amount of farm than solo laners

>have to decide between going for a run or texting with this girl
>decide to make a thread on a turkish spoon appreciation forum

>>38568911
Become a nurse practitioner, dude. Less hours, less school, less financial debt. No residency or internship period so as soon as you're done you're ready to work. No bullshit and you can do basically everything a doctor can.

True you'll make less, but it's still a 6 figure job and you'll be getting offers years before graduation because it's so in demand. Plus, programs are easy as piss to get into.

It's what I'm doing and love it.

Does anyone else feel that the more they improve themselves, the harder it is to find a woman you'd be happy with?
Before I changed my ways, my standards were pretty low, but now they're just plain unrealistic. The majority of women just aren't willing to put in the work I put into school, diet, exercise, work, and hobbies

>>38567309
Don't jack other dudes chicks.

1)girls who leave boyfriend A when a perceived better boyfriend B comes around are not trustworthy.
2)Karma will bite you in the ass
3)Single time will allow you for continuing personal growth
4)Kindness and Healthy attitudes towards relationship beget the same, and if you truly believe in positive relationships you will inevitably find someone who feels the same and is drawn to you because of it.

>>38567309
>jazzcat

Confirmed neckbeard beta

>>38569207
Sexual harassment charges on that bitch!

>>38567156
easy
>"Sorry can't talk goin for a run"
>Demonstrate value and Neglect emotionally in one move
>2/6 way done with DENNIS system
boom

>>38570878
kek

>>38567156
>>38567174
>>38567183
>>38568576

I was wondering why OP wouldn't do both but I realized he isn't mentally capable to do 2 things.

>"do jackshit the whole day"
You see? He is so retarded he didn't do anything all day because he had to focus on breathing.

>>38570878
I got that reference

Im try become an RN but i keep procrastinating

>>38570266
drop out while you can. i dropped out at the end of my first semester of med school in the US. it's not worth it.

>>38570520
i decided i dont want to do healthcare. im beginning a masters in accounting program next week. public accountants make good money. the hours are long but not nearly as long as medicine.

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>have a Congress with other universities
>goes fine and was awesome, made friends
>can't go to the night party because I don't have a dress to wear and it was dress only

Sucks that I forgot to buy a dress and now feel like a social reject while everyone is having fun.

>Tfw they will remember me as the boring one and I really wanted to go

>>38568933
>i-i didn't s-spend it o-on her, i d-did it for m-me

neither of us are convinced. you really did cuck yourself out of 2g's friendo.

>25, 5'10, 84kg
>Have masters degree with nearly straight A's
>Good stable job and very successful at that.
>Have new car and my own place both in good shape.
>Working out for 7 years, currently oly/CF. Not roid big, but I look like I lift, get comments etc,
>Dress well, business casual, fitted shirts etc. while trying to "keep it young".
>Above average face, balding but idc, buzzcut fits fine with my 6mm full beard and its really easy to maintain
>My doctors think my "depression" is a joke, why the fuck would I be depressed, I have everything going for me seemingly.
>I'm fairly well adjusted, likened in the office and I have a couple of very close friends. (I don't have many "friends"-friends though, the upkeep drains me)
>But I just can't get past 1. dates, and hardly get that far.
I just want to fucking kill myself, I have a very good life, but what use is that if I can't find someone to come home to..

Worst part is, I can kind of conclude by now, with most other variables ruled out, that what's wrong is "me".

Thus: kissless virgin reporting in.. Not even desperate about the whole "sex" part anymore. I just want someone to love in my life, you know?

Not gonna make it, it seems...

>>38574546
you'll find her man

>last night
>get call from depressed friend
>offer to walk over to his house and go for a walk from him
>he's stoned as shit and smells like a bar
>go for walk anyway
>see teenagers doing their own thing
>friend thinks it's a good idea to yell at them to shut the fuck up
>words exchanged
>6 more roll up out of nowhere
>my face hurts
>oneitis wont text me back

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>tfw no gf to play wow with

>>38567156

If you didnt tell her you were too busy to talk you fucked up.

>>38574546
this sounds like me in 4 years. might end it before then though.

/fit/ has done so much for me and yet it's destroyed me mentally

I'm finally aesthetic, strong, and confident, but the constant cheating and cuck threads everywhere have made me persistently paranoid about my wife and even though she's head over heels for me I find it impossible to ever really trust

>>38574584
I find your lack of a comma disconcerting

>>38570718
Fuck off m8.

Jazz masterace.

>implying youve ever been to a jazz club
>implying youve ever scored in a jazz club (easy as fu*ck if youre playing hat night)

Stay jelly bro

>>38567702
>people don't care anymore if they're happy
Except that is all they ever do now. Fuck trying to be happy, just achieve something, be productive and happiness will come on its own. Trying to be happy just to be happy is retarded

>>38570704
Thanks bro, this is exactly how i feel. I hold integrity to the highest. If a girl is going to leave their current relationship than it's only a mattet of time before im next.

>>38574716
>tfw no one to play WoW with
I'm not a grill but I'll play with you brah. Keep trying to get my friends to come back but they won't

>>38574811
Everybody finds it hard to trust

your wife is probably acting up her feelings towards you to make sure you don't cheat or leave her

Not saying that's it's bad or good but it's normal

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>be 350lb loser at 19 years old
>no friends all throughout high school
>no friends in school
>eventually just kind of stop caring
>lose weight
>get down to 200lbs
>still fat as fuck
>entire body fucked up from literally never being this thin
>fucked up posture
>scoliosis
>hips constantly fucked up
>horrible, horrible, horrible loose skin
>like, real bad
>joined the military to get away from a toxic family, currently in training
>everyone else is friends with each other
>they go out to eat after class
>I don't go because I gotta count calories
>they go out drinking or going to the movies
>I don't go because drinking is a gainz goblin
>they have social lives and do shit
>I stay in my room playing wow and shitposting on /fit/

>recently talking to cousins, who were my only friends when I was still back home
>they're going out to concerts
>they're being social
>my 270lb cousin is pulling women, he's had 3 girlfriends at this point
>I'm a kissless virgin

What the fuck is wrong with me.

I thought it was going to get better.

But the more time goes on, the more I'm starting to think that I'm just going to be stuck as a jaded loner forever.

But hey. At least I can lift more weight than I could a month ago, right?

Hahaha. Sometimes I wish I would've just been man enough to fucking end my failure of a life back when I was pushing 400lbs.

I want to fucking die.

>>38575159
Im sorry to hear that dude...I know things can seem hard and I know this is cliche but try just taking baby steps to socializing.

Like start saying hi to people, and ask to go out to lunch, etc. It'll be hard at first, but it gets easier. You just have to do it everyday.

I watch this whenever Im feeling down: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Vd6FRmbS4U

>>38568854
I see it like a cycle

Work on yourself - try to get qt3.14's. If no go, then go back to step one.

Work on youe physical, mental, and career aspects before, after, and during your pursuit of a nice qtpatootie.

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>>38573028
>mfw imagining /fit/izen in a dress.

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>>38574546
>I just want to fucking kill myself, I have a very good life, but what use is that if I can't find someone to come home to..

Are you me?

>>38575159
Socialize more bro, meet new people. Buy the ticket, take the ride.

>>38575159
>have lost similar amounts of weight
>spent so long being undesirable, just assume girls showing interest are 'being nice' or 'just drunk'

>>38575187
My problem isn't socializing. I'm not your standard /fit/ autist who can't have a conversation.

My problem is that I just plain don't like socializing. I hate people. I'm a jaded misanthrope who is so used to being an outcast, that it's become core to who I am. I can sit and dick around with people at work, I can make small talk with people if they start talking to me (which happens more often the thinner I get).

But at the end of the day, when I get out of work, I could give a fuck less about people. I've never fit in anywhere, so why bother. I'll go back to my room and play video games like I always have.

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>>38575272
Embrace it. Find people with the same views.

>>38567156
go running then talk? tard

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>>38567156
>be me
>do jackshit the whole day, decide to go hit a trail I've been wanting to hit with muh bike to not feel as bad
>getting ready
>oneitis doesnt text
>she never does
>she probably never thinks of me

i'm constantly swinging between uncontrollable happiness and soul crushing desperation.

will just probably put my neck on dem there train tracks soon tbqhwyfamalam

>>38567156
Go running and pray you get run over.

>>38567309
cuck them

>>38575612
just think about what you want, you and then go for it
stop overthinking

>may
>talking to several qt girls, busy most weekends, good med school entrance score

>september
>no longer talking to any girls
>weekends consist of going out one night, realising how much i hate it then staying in the next night
>got email saying my med application has been rejected

ffs would thoroughly like something to go my way, it's looking like it's the worst year on record and fuck me have i had some shitty years

>>38575631

thats just it. this shit seems to happen randomly. i literally cannot tell what makes me happy. the thing that makes me feel excited right now will make me contemplate suicide an hour later.

>>38575216
I just feel so sad and egoistic about it. So many have it worse, yet I dare complain just because I don't have a girl.

Its just such a central part of life. Never having had a real emotional connection to someone outside your family, it just eats on your soul.

As other anons often points out, its a prison. You can never pull the trigger as you know your surroundings will be left with a whole in their heart, wondering if they could spotted you being sad and helped.

If I off myself right now, I don't think anybody would understand if I don't leave a note.

>decide to finally give myself a day off with old friends after spending half a year studying and working
>get drunk, visit some festival, watch fireworks
>do not feel like I am having actuall fun, but it was not bad either
>go to friends home later
>get something to eat, talk about older times
>all this time there is this feeling like everything changed and I do not belong here anymore
>struggle to find some connection to the others, when it was so easy back then
>think whether it is me who changed so much, lost part of his humanity somewhere along the way
>walk home together with some girl I did not know yet
>a real qt3.14, really enjoyed her company
>lazily talked about several things, while roaming the streets at 5a.m.
>completely ban the thought of getting closer to a female, so I just talk about whatever without thinking much
>we part ways and I go on alone
>now feel kinda sad because I did not even ask for her name, just gave her a hug
>doubt whether the whole thing tonight was a good idea
>suddenly angry at myself for getting drunk again when I wanted to quit completely
>feel like I have enough anger in me now to fuel another few months of working my ass off

It is a never ending cycle by now. I fucking hate getting drunk with people who seem to misunderstand me at every point and watching them have fun, fucking each other, while knowing that I can never have that. But it is also the only thing that really fires me up to continue learning, training and working.
What really concerns me by now is whether it is a healthy, or atleast non-harmful approach to life. I feel like some masochist and ask myself whether this shit will break me at some point. I already notice that it is wearing me down, but what else can I do?

>>38575612
Sounds like you're a manic depressive, big highs followed by crashing lows.
Speak to your GP, you need medication or therapy to start making progress with it.

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>>38576229
holy fuck the feels im feelin from this im so sorry for u anon

>>38567156
>be me
>do jackshit the whole day, decide to go for a jog to not feel as bad
>getting ready
>actually go out to the nearby lake and start the jog
>see someone familiar in the distance coming my way
>I sperg out and just make a hard right to avoid the person behind some trees
>he walks by, try to calm down and continue jog
>after a few minutes again see someone I vaguely know coming towards me
>immediately jump into some lake cafe that's right next to me, go to the bathroom and wait a bit in the stalls telling myself "I needed to go to the bathroom anyway" while my heart pounds like crazy
>get out of the stalls, try to calm down again
>basically run back home through paths and alleyways where no one can see me
>get home and find comfort in front of my computer, trying to totally dismiss what happened in my mind

This process repeats every 3 or 4 months. I live in denial

>>38575495
she's cheating on you

>>38576229
companionship is a lie the truth behind everyone who you encounter on a day to day basis will fuck you over given the chance that they will gain from it honestly the only people you can trust is your family and sometimes even that's iffy

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>>38567156

>be me yesterday
>playing vidya alone to purely kill time after a small workout
>snap
>ragequit the vidya and go for a nightwalk to some fresh air
>it's 11pm
>during my one (1) hour stroll came across only to a person on a bicycle and one couple
>that couple seemed so happy walking around and holding
>take a quick glance at them right before passing them
>they take a quick glance at me
>usually I get upset seeing happy couples as khv
>but seeing this couple I just ignore them
>glance up in the starry nightsky and get struck by a melancholic feel of loneliness
>sigh deeply out exhaling a visible cloud of water vapour in early autumn night
>walk the half a kilometer to home a lot slower than normally to think deeply about my current situation

I didn't ask for these feels during my walk.

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>>38576501
I didn't ask for these feels reading this.

>>38575495
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
LIFT THE FEELS AWAY

>>38576346


That is certainly true, but I did not try to trick myself into believing in friendship for a very long time now. All I wanted were some people I could share interessting moments with, something meaningful. But it is all really shallow and stupid. I would even be thankful if someone actually did fuck me over, if it was for a good reason, because that would be a meaningful interaction.
Right now it just feels like grinding in some MMO, it is an absolutely soul-draining, monotonous experience. But you can not live without it as a social animal.
Personally I believe that this phenomenon stems from the fact that there is no greater thing tying us together during those interaction. The interaction itself is as shallow as the motivation behind it. But we can not expect much more in a society where most people do not lack anything critical and being poor, stupid, weak is mostly relative.

>>38575640
Going through Med school applications too, in America. We don't hba e a limit of how many schools, so I applied 30+. We usually don't hear back until after labor day as well (this Monday).

Keep strong anon, refine your application. Work on you score, volunteer more community and clinical hours and shadow a doctor.

>>38567156
you sound like a huge pussy

>>38576330


I also hate meeting people I know on the street, but if you can block out the fact that you have seen them, you can also block out the little encounter you might have.
Just nod, smile and run on. What can they do? Tackle you to the ground and force you to have a conversation?

>>38576645
Not that anon, but I said "Sorry I'm in a hurry" when stopped so many times that it now became a running joke amongst my acquintances

>>38576570
we have a limit of 6. we have two entrance exams a year, one time a year to apply and only one preference can be given as an interview or placement. i literally have to wait an entire year to pay to apply again. all i can really do is increase my score but fuck me it's so fucking shit, my score was fucking good but not amazing.

just want one thing to go my way. good luck to you though.

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I wasn't blessed
>Tfw 5'5''
>Tfw half ginger
>Tfw the whitest skin from anyone I know
>Tfw skin only burns, can never tan
>Tfw glasses

Atleast I can use contacts to get rid of glasses and can fix my curly hair with products. I don't really mind being 5'5'' either, I kinda like it desu.

The only thing that really bothers me is that I'll never look aesthetic because of how white I am and no matter how good my body looks, I will never be able to go outside shirtless because after like one hour in the sun I'll end up looking like a lobster.

>meet girl at uni event party
>everything goes well
>meet her again next day
>everything goes well again
>leave party with her (bus)
>she gets down at her stop (mine was a few stops later)
> didn't make a single move because im a massive autist

>>38567156
>Oneitis
You using that word just says everything about you. You deserve what you get. Life is not a romantic comedy and you will never have her.

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>>38567156
>second week of school
>already behind in some of my classes
>should be done with school by now, but Im so behind in my credits
>don't even like my major (accounting)
>working at a shit job (server)
>having financial problems
>all my friends are moving on with their lives and I'm here alone
>no gf ever
>still a virgin
>always falling in love with any girl that shows me attention


Just fucking kill me, senpai

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I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl from Russia.

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>>38567156
>be me
>love girl for over a year
>break up
>sad and depressed the whole time
>running dnp and cutting
>too depressed to workout
>finished dnp cycle and water weight drops
>new confidence
>go out and meet new girl
>get her number, etc
>find out she's a cam model
>ask her to be my new girlfriend anyway
>contemplating if I fucked up

>get gf
>she's 25 lbs overweight
>disgusting fucking slob that lives in squalor
>poor family
>doesnt have a car
>makes minimum wage
>dropped out of college but wants to go back
>too lazy to work more hours to afford car/college

why am i even with her? what did i do to deserve this?

>>38576501
Goddamn this hits too close to home

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>>38577894
The thought of being alone forever probably freaks you out, so you'll pretty be with any girl that shows you love/attention.

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>>38577778


Pretty much same here anon, I feel you.
Except I am a shitty engineering student and slave away in retail.

I still have dreams of the qt in one of my courses who talked to me about some of our classes. She probably does not even remember talking to anyone that day.

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>finished highschool recently
>was at uni for 10 days before i realised that shit wasn't for me
>tell myself i'll find work instead and cruise on by for a bit
>no job, no car, no license, no nothing
>get told to do what makes me happy
>nothing makes me happy
>realise i don't want responsibilities of an adult

one could argue that i should have given uni a better shot, but as a general autist who was always fidgety in classes i couldn't bring myself to do it. figured work might be a better option but after a few months i gave up looking and just put it off alltogether pretty much. all i do now is eat and lift and i'm still not even doing that well lifting lol am i just destined to be a massive manbaby for the rest of my life?

>>38577894
We accept the love we think we deserve.

>>38578019
well at least you didn't develop feels for a lesbian girl whos in a relationship.

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>>38578100
join the military so you're forced to do things. Once you're in you'll be able to browse /fit/ with your feet up sitting a post doing jackshit for 12 hours. I go on the boards for at least 2-3 hours a day.

fyi I did 1 year of schooling, had a 4.0, but I was just bored and didn't know what I wanted to major in so I just left. I've been in 5 years, I can get out and go back to school for free but I'm just fine here

>>38569006
why's she trying to force you into marriage though, if you don't want to do it just don't senpai

Go run, even if it's a 2-3 hr long one just go and text her when you're done

>>38576768
American med student here, just keep trying man. It's the most stressful thing in the world but just gotta keep at it

>>38569006
Pls my friend. Take time to consider if you really want to be with this lady. And once you have made a decision, take some time to really make sure if its the right choice

>>38570598
My standards went from purely appearance, to taking into consideration their personality and ambition.

>>38578100
if you dont want any responsibilities you should've stayed at uni

>>38577778

A few days ago I got partnered with a qt in one of my classes. We talked and she was nice to me, genuinely seemed interested in the things i had to say.

Now i cant stop thinking about her. I want to talk about her to my friends, but it seems so pathetic.

Is this normal?

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>>38578800
Yeah I've had the same problem. I got partnered up with a qt Spanish girl last year and I started to have major feels for her.

The problem was that she was pretty much a normie/stacy. And I was a aspie faggot who was still in skinnymode. I didn't even have the balls to ask her out because I thought she would get grossed out by me if I did.

I think it is kinda normal for us to feel this way about a girl.

read up on this shit, senpai.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence

>lots of girls miring my gains
>too autistic to do anything about it

Why is confidence so hard to gain. I feel like a hunted animal whenever I go out

>>38567156
>get a text from oneitis
Nothing gives me as many conflicting feelings as this.

Hitting the dance floor is now easy, when I am healed and free- no more gay, weak and lost, but a man as I was created to be. There is something priceless in being the real me! Thank You Jesus, master DJ and master healer!

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>>38579029
I will be sure to read up on it, anon. Thanks for the response.

>>38570704
What?! Good advice on my /fit/? What the fuck is happening.

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I've always been a stoic person, rather emotionally stunted. My best friend died at age 5 and since then my feelings seem fuzzy and static. Even when my dad left it hardly bothered me. Small moments of triumph and laughter, of course. I can enjoy myself but feeling truly happy is something that only happened when I met this girl. I got scared. I didn't take things seriously and now they're falling apart due to cultural differences and my complacency. I fear going back to nothing, feeling sadness and worry and joy, what Ive never felt like before.
I honestly think I'd rather be dead than living in the haze.
At least I've been making gains

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>>38577810
>tfw no russian gf

>>38578438
>>38578612
We have been together for the last 11 years, started in HS, not that I don't love her enougth to marry her just don't belive in marriage
>be this kind of beta faggot

>>38577995
Lmao that is the most autistic quote I've ever read

>>38567156

Go running to keep the feels at bay. That's always the answer. Use the oneitis to fuel your workout.

>shipping to basic military training for Air Force in three weeks
>forsaking my family and friends
>actually attractive girls have told me I'm attractive and they want to fuck me
>I can't see myself any other way than deformed and ugly
>literally think about putting a shotgun in my mouth several times every day as a comfort

It's weird, I have a LOT going for me. More than most people, but yet the only thing that comforts me is the thought of it all going away.

>>38579029
I just finished reading the whole wiki on it. It describes how i feel pretty accurately, didnt know there was a word for it.

I wonder now, how it'll be now that i can recognize when im feeling the effects.

I had a transferall from one qt that i spoke to at the gym to this girl from class immediately after being paired. Feels like a really beta quality to have.

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>tfw your peepaw calls you a faggot queer for squatting
>tfw your mom says she's gonna get daddy to beat the shit out of you if you don't give her a grandkid soon
>tfw your daddy is suspicious you're gay and tells you if he finds out you like taking it in the ass 'you know what' will happen as he points to the gun cabinet

Dude your family is fucked

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>be me
> Have GF
> Less and less sex
> Because or reasons
No she isnt cheating you fuckers

> Feel a mix of sadenss and anger
> Greatest fear for me is to lay open, talk about her about my feelings I am currently feeling. I fear that the damage is to big and it will lead to a break up
> Like i would be talking and she would say: I feel the same way about you
> Thinking about qt. pure aryan waifu in class.
> Might be feelings or just fanatasy, like the grass is greener on the other side
> Dont know what to do
> It is good rage for fitness but I hate it.

> Spending time with GF is fine but feel like something is missing, sex

> Rest is doing okay, still have no friends or a group of friends do to stuff with.
> Games are starting to bore me and internet feels more like a prison instead of an escape

> I am fearfull of breaking up for the lonelyness it will ensuit.

>>38568876
The rating system works by comparing you to other people playing that champ in that role. So if you play a common champ in common role, you'll have to be super exceptionsl to get S. But take something non meta like Ahri supp and enjoy your S+ for kill securing everything on bot

>>38581748
Look up Kyle Gott on YouTube

Dude has tons of videos on how to thrive in airforce BMT

>>38568876
Get a lot of damage to champions, secure all objectives. Good score. Or play master yi

>go to the gym for leg day
>feel great
>do post workout cardio
>feeling great still
>come home, lose that workout and cardio high
>feel empty and worthless
>just kys anon

>>38573028
Are you a girl?

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>day after really good workout
>awful lot of pops and cracks after getting out of bed

the youth train is gone

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>>38574584
>you'll find her man

ominous words

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>>38584613
>the youth train is gone
I'm only 20 yrs old but I dread that inevitable day.

>>38584837
give it a couple years. i'm 22

>NEET
>nothing to live for
Heh

>>38584613
Tight muscles not age.

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I wanted to lift over the weekend but I've been sick the whole time.

> tfw can't breev out my noztruls

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>started lifting 2015 March
>make big gains, 1/2/3/4 easy in 5 months because mcfatass
>start cut beginning of August
>starting to look wee bit leaner, want to be sick cunt
>going full cocoon mode only leaving my house to purchase groceries, workout, my two classes, and cardio

On the bright side there was a ninja warrior marathon and I recorded a ton of it I love that jap show. Can't wait for this cut to be over to see what I really look like.

>>38574961
Just cuck them for some fucks. If they are willing to go for it, then so be it. It's shitty for their bf's but you are not to blame.

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>>38581748
>actually attractive girls have told me I'm attractive and they want to fuck me
>girls have told me they want to fuck me

And you did not fuck them?

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>tfw 23
>tfw knee has major crepitus from the military


Th-thanks green weenie

>>38585335
that pic always fucking gets me

>finally got a gf after being single for ages (other "relationships were when i was like 12"
>know this girl since a few months, met a few times and then told her i got feelings
>first she said it's all happening to fast etc. but after not texting her for a few days, she texted me saying she is in love with me and wants to be in a relationship with me
>we meet 1-3 times a week, always making out and cuddeling
>last saturday we were at a friends house and got in a room alone
>after some heavy kissing and touching we started dry humping
>pretty sure she cum cuz of heavy breathing and moaning
>when we kissed good bye, she said "so are you there next weekend again?"

i'm a "needy" person that would love to see his gf every day or every 2nd day but it seems that she thinks it's enough to meet once a week and she also doesn't text first anymore. if i do, she always puts effort in the texts and puts hearts etc. but why do i always have to text first?
if i don't msg her all day, she wont msg either

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Sweet dreams /fit/

>sad feels thread
I work almost 80 hours a week and I'm taking 2 classes in community college. The rest of my time goes towards exercising or trying my best to keep house/yard work caught up or whatever else I gotta go. I wish I had a girl to cuddle at night. I send most of what I earn to a woman I haven't seen in years. She says she needs surgery. She texts me every day but doesn't let me hear her voice.

In a way I'm becoming stronger than ever but I feel so crushed

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>Be me
>Live alone, tfwnogf
>Basically only two friends, one out of town and the other I hung out with last night so I can't bother him again
>Have almost no human interaction today, go on 8 mile run and lift
>Try to go to restaurants after showering, they're almost all closed and there are happy couples all over and I'm by myself with a kindle
>Finally find a shitty Asian place open
>This is the fortune in my cookie with the bill
>gun in mouth.exe

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im so fucking autistic i can't stand it. i'm on the road to getting fit, and i love going to the gym and shit, but ive come to the sad realization that no matter how much muscle i gain, it wont fix these feels. i could look like zyzz and still be a depressed sperg with no gf. i just want to be fit and go to ibiza or some shit and go clubbing and get fucked up and live an amazing life, but i dont think i'll ever have the chad personality. help me out fitbrahs, please cheer me up

>has had a gf
fucking leave, or shoot me in the head please

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>at dragoncon yesterday
>had a bit to drink so social anxiety isn't bad
>meet qt D.Va cosplayer
>talk about games, hobbies, etc.
>really similar interests
>except I don't play much vidya anymore
>talk for what seems like an hour with a bit of light flirting
>really only like 20 mins
>feel like we really connect
>her friend (cosplayed as mercy) wanted to go to their room
>she stood there for a second or two as if she were waiting for something
>say goodbye and walk away with my friend into the crowd
>friend nudges me when we walk out of the hotel toward the next one
>"I don't know why you didn't get her number, dude. She was standing there waiting for you to ask."
>stop in my tracks and realize he was right, and I didn't even get a picture of her either.
>run back toward where she was
>already gone
>no way I'd find her again with 70,000 other people at that con
>forever the one that got away
>hold me bros
>hold me tight
>let these feels take flight

>>38586576
> I send most of what I earn to a woman I haven't seen in years. She says she needs surgery. She texts me every day but doesn't let me hear her voice.

Stop doing this immediately

>>38586898
There was a point in which I should have stopped, and I clearly passed it, but I've kept going in order to see what happens

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>gf wants to go outdoor film show
>I work that day but feel bad and tell her go with a friend
>tells me she's going with a coworker
>tell her I'm glad she found somebody
>later that week she shows me pic of them
>pic related
Honestly i was a little hurt she went on a date basically with this numale but should I be?

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>>38576263
>tfw manic depression without the depression

feels great, all the time

>>38587064

>sunk cost fallacy

You are a weak man.

>>38568597
Not him but it's part of the total package. Not just "being married" but actually being with someone who you actually enjoy their company.

Same as following a career you actually enjoy regardless of remuneration. I'm a teacher and fucking love it. The time off also allows me to pursue other interests. Meanwhile my lawyer/accountant/doctor friends all make loads more than me but work 14+ hour days and have no social life outside of work drinks. Either that or they've burned out and are now working part -time for less than what i get.

>Be in military
>Go on first deployment
>Literally nothing to do but lift weights and run
>Get insanely shredded and look good for the first time in my entire life
>Spent 2 weeks in Texas on the way home and basically fucked everything up there by being a lazy piece of shit
>No longer have a 6 pack, lost almost 50lbs on my bench
>Little motivation for going to the gym or eating healthy
>But still want to look like I did on deployment

>>38587272
he looks like a nice guy, so no worries there

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I just lost my GF of 3 years guys.
She said that our lives going separate ways but they actually don't. She want to start talking about marriage and commitments but I just not there yet.

She want us to take a brake but keep seeing each other from time to time to check if we can be back together.
I want to yell at her that I'm not going to do auditions for my relationships

What should I do? I still love her so much. I can't see my life without her

>>38587822
>What should I do?
>I want to yell at her that I'm not going to do auditions for my relationships
you've already made up your mind.

>>38587872
But do I do the smart thing here?

>>38576565
>Personally I believe that this phenomenon stems from the fact that there is no greater thing tying us together during those interaction.
To quote an obscure Eastern European writer, "love is like religion - first voluntary, then pathological." Friendship and love can work only insofar as both parts decide to make a conscious effort to embody the concept in its absolute form.

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>>38578100
I'm in the same boat. Giving a second chance to uni this year(starting this October).

I've always had my intellectual interests in this or that domain, but never for a /whole/ field of study, so I don't even find academia in itself a pleasurable endeavor. I also believe that the sole merit of work is earning money, so it would be just as much of a grind.

At the end of the day, I really don't know what's the point of living. Hoping that maybe I'll find a qt since I crave for human affection, but my nihilistic, no bullshit attitude kind of makes it hard for me since I'm not a big fan of small talk, flirting and that sort of shit.

>tfw you'd just want to go 1-2 centuries back and be a peasant with an arranged marriage and a stable, simple life

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>>38567156
I will probably have to study an extra year in uni because i'm a lazy faggot.
feelsbadman.
Anyone know this feel?

>>38574546
Damn bro kv in that situation? holy moly. If someone has their shit together like that you'd expect them to do well with girls also and not be autistic. I really don't have my shit together but I do really well with girls due to putting a lot of effort in my appearance and putting myself in situations a lot where I can meet girls.
Some tips that worked personally for me
>NoFap
>Zinc (buy high quality)
>Beard (Buy a beard tonic)
>dressing well (Button-ups, oxford shirts, clothes that fit)
>Working out (obv, if only for the confidence boost)
>Doing my best to approach girls
>Confidence (by putting myself in social situations and generally not be an autist, reactions by other people will boost confidence)
Were easy shortcuts to more pussy for me.

>>38586550
i'm the one doing that to her

>>38576346
ffs use some punctuation

>>38583080
Livin up yout relationship you dip.

>>38567515
> become engineer
> busy sucking cock all day
> can give myself better head than any girl could ever hope to

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>>38567156
>Be me, living in Portugal
>Neet doing nothing all day
>Friend tells me to come live with him in the UK and turn our lives around
>Save some money and get inside a plane
>Get some government stuff done and 2 weeks after I arrive get a job in a factory
>Work my ass off but the pay is good, really happy about it
>Looks like I'm finally changing my fate
>Friend still neet, doing nothing all day and when I talk about it he always gives some bullshit excuse

I want the best for him but I'm starting think you can't save those who do not want to be saved

>>38589053
At least you are in a position where you don't have to pay rent or anything.

>>38589078
I do not have to and his family didn't want to accept but I always insist in giving money to help at home

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>see girls
>find most I see around mediocre looking
>no at least 8/10s anywhere I look

Also I could get a gf but I don't feel like getting serious with any girl. I wanna get my dick wet from as many pussies as possible desu. Was always paranoid, but my cheating sweetheart cemented a no-trust feel in me.

I'm bored and wish I had my own place to bang girls at.

We're all gonna make it brah.

It's not talking it's text, retard, it's not fucking real time. If you want to talk, then call or meet her. Go running and if you must be a bitch about it, text her when you rest.

Wake up for the 10+ time dreaming about oneitis since graduating high school (early june)
I never thought i liked her this much to have so many fucking dreams of her
Its always me trying to talk to her in school then wake up feeling like shit cause i never did
Fuck.

>>38567156
3; make thread on anonymous online imageboard and hangself in garage after oneitis doesn't reply to your text

>>38569424

BULLSHIT

>>38578111
Fuck man I just got over that book

>Want to start going out and living the good life
>New country so no friends or gf

How do I fix this

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>>38577778
holy fuck this hurts, are you me?

>>38575495

Is it better to be ignored or hated? Mine hates me. She isn't perfect by any means, but she is the only woman I've met that I actually want to talk to. But everyone hates me.

>>38587822
>I still love her so much. I can't see my life without her

Then fucking marry her, you chickenshit. Jesus christ, you already know how you feel, stop being a pussy about it.

>>38567309
You have to score despite the goalie.

>>38589575
I think being hated is much better. At least you're on someone else's mind for a tiny frame of time.

>failed two modules in my masters course
>resitting year
>Can't attend classes as they are in Amsterdam, and I can't afford to live there.
>Doing the courses remotely, from my parents house
>So paranoid about failing, anxiety is back. All I do all day is work, panic that I am going to fail again and get /fit/.
>see my friends maybe once a week if i'm lucky
>Can feel myself slipping back to anxious/socially awkward ways again
>Can't find a part-time job
>no money
>not had sex in a year
>living in my home town, but it doesn't feel like home anymore
>I have to see my father everyday, who cheated on my mum
>she doesn't know, she would kill herself if she did

At least I broke my 5k PR yesterday...