Sexual Health thread

If she cares about you, then she'll try and satisfy your desires. Otherwise, you guys have communication issues, no?

>>38564768
i'm in the same situation.
the sexual frustation will get bigger and spread into other parts of your life. not having sex anymore can cause lots of problems in the long run.

but i found a answer to this problem. i want to divorce her and move out next month.

>>38564793
Maybe i dont want to be the guy that nags his gf to have sex until she "grants" it.

We already adressed that but she just start beeing "so sad, that she can give me what i need" until i comfort her. She just twists that shit around and makes herself the victim.
Not in a malicious way, just in that basic women way.

I assume she is a) not very sexual in general or b) not particularly attracted to me.

Either way it'd mean that we're not working together.

>>38564816
>the sexual frustation will get bigger and spread into other parts of your life.

I hear you. Also i start getting aggressive towards her like she is trying to harm me on purpose or leeching off me like she owes me sex.
I dont want to be that guy, but its a very strong urge.

>>38564768
What about making her horny, Anon?

>>38564768

you need to spice up the relationship. all sex therapists and relationship experts understand this. i recommend asking for a rimjob or going to a swingers party

>>38564768
How good you are in bed?
Can you orgasm your partner?
If yes is it fake or real?
Maybe you are the problem itself.
Did you think that?

>>38565049
>>38565076

If that is even possible i honestly dont know how to do it now.
How come that at the beginning of a relationship people fuck like rabbits and the same stuff that turns you on becomes annoying?

I knew how to touch her and talk to her but it doesnt work any more.
She always tries to reassure that she finds me attractive and shit but as soon as that talk starts i'm turned off as well and want that convo to be over.

>>38565142
Decent i guess.
Yes.
How the fuck am i supposed to know?
Yeah maybe i am.
Yes, and i ruled it out, maybe i am the problem.

>>38565144
Maybe she's depressed. Is there something she's dealing with on a personal level?

>>38564768
>>38564843
Hormones change as relationships develop. You need to keep talking to her. You both understand that your libidos are out of sync but you are letting her stick her head in the sand over the repercussions. Tell her 'I find our sex life unsatisfying and I am worried it may end our relationship'. Push the issue, don't bitch out

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>>38564768
-Talk to her, maybe something is wrong with her stress/depression, maybe she simply does not know what she is doing
-Get her hormones checked by a doctor

check a video, maybe watch it with her its by esther perel called the "secret to desire in a long term relationship" he also has a book.

>>38565144
just go in and do it. dont ask questions. do it next time fresh and exciting

>>38565158
Actually if your partner is good at fake orgasm, you cant. But if she dont have any mental problems and dont fake orgasm she must open for another sex unless you have enormous big cock or vise versa.
Btw if you are rushing to fuck her and she is the emotional type that means you are fucked :D
Always remember sex is like lifting you have to warmup first which is foreplay for sex.
And if you really satisfy your partner and give her real pleasure of sex then she will want it more.

>>38565192
Yeah, her life oscillates between breakdown in the holidays and performing during her studies. I already told her she'll burn herself out and that she is risking her health.
She has issues expressing herself and orientating in life. Grades and studies give her orientation and self esteem so she invests her energy in "the system".
She doesnt really dare to cultivate "dreams" and follow them, she wants to earn money and buy shit, which is totally legit but not a guarantee for happiness.
Her family is a little dysfunctional, nobody listens, the stepdad is an overweight bitter manchild and a mess, the mom is always doing the martyr thing, the brother is a fullblown neet autist.
I do my best to help her with all this but you cant really change people.

>>38564768
foreplay is really important, try touching, hugging, kissing without any sex a few times a week, make it so she is not stressed or thinking aboutt anything else, see how it goes from there.

>>38565238
That women creeps me out

>>38565245
you mean like rape?

>>38565260
Which country are you from?

lmfao you think if you were good looking and a Chad she wouldn't have sex with you? Face it, she's not attracted to you and only using you for emotional support whilst she fucks Chad when you're at the gym like a fagg

>>38565358
>Which country are you from?
Turkey

>>38565376
Yeah, probably. So hookers it is.

>>38564843

I fucking HATE when girls do this to me. You try to talk about a problem and they make it about themselves. Jesus Christ just thinking about it makes me mad.

Just end it, OP. a relationship without sex is not worth it at all. It's such a huge part of the relationship imo. that I couldn't live to go a week without it.

Find another girl that has somewhat the same sex drive as yourself.

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>>38565407
Makes fun of hookers
Ur girlfriend/wife posts pictures of Chad's she's fucked in bathrooms because they bought her a pint of alcohol

How's it feel to be a white Knight

Happens all the time. She's just lost attraction to you. Just be happy you're not married and tied with kids.

>hurr durr talk to her
This is bullshit advice. You can't negotiate attraction. Best case scenario you will get a couple of pity fucks and then it will return to usual.

>>38564843
>We already adressed that but she just start beeing "so sad, that she can give me what i need" until i comfort her. She just twists that shit around and makes herself the victim.
This fucking bullshit mayne. I'm seriously considering going gay.

My gf and I have sex maybe once or twice a day.

>>38565511
Befriend a gay guy with attractive lesbian friends. Have girl you're having sex problems with see you with hot lesbian friends. Her fear of loss seeing you with attractive women activates urges to get sex from you because she sees you with attractive women.

You're welcome

19 year old fuckboy at Uni (UK)

51 sexual partners

3 STDs

Ask me anything

>>38565673
whats having an std like?

>>38565686
Herpes pops up about 3 times a year, irritating but just take acclyvior for it

Clap is like you keep having lil bits of piss but can be gotten rid of by taking 4 tablets and not having sex for a year

crabs was the worst, insane iching and had to rely on cream

>>38565707
ignore year - meant a week.

>>38565707
are they worth it?

>>38565734
I got Clap and Herpes through unprotected oral

crabs can be given even with a condom

Herpes is horrible and not worth it, the other two are treatable and dont affect you at all.

Story of how I got herpes incoming cause you guys will probably appreciate it although its the most regrettable thing in my life

PROTIP: wear a fucking condom, a LOT of girls have STDs

>>38565765

Story time with UNI-MAN-WHORE
>be me, 19
>work at a club in UK called "Lola Lo's"
>(Imagine a tropical themed club)
>be bartender
>not a lot of guys work there but got the job because I workout with one of the team leaders
>staff night out
>staff get really cheap drinks, £1 pints, £1 jagerboms, etc
>get very fucked
>work with two fatties, lets call them H and G
>get very drunk through the night and pull a girl who is friends of the staff, even though attempting to pull another 8/10 collegue
>good night nothing major happens
>girl I was attempting to pull invites me, two fatties and gay-bro back for an afterparty
>girl who I was attempting to pull ends up throwing up and going to bed
>very drunk

(cont)

She's probably fucking another guy

>>38565807
>H and G are pretty fucked so decide they're gonna share a bed
>these two hams are just peaking 200lb at 5ft6
>sofa was covered in sick from 8/10 so I decide to share the bed with two fatties

>black out

>come to in bed with two fatties who are naked
>im just in boxers
> hard as fuck and very drunk
>H decided to go get some water and as soon as she leaves G gets ontop of me
>sufficate.jpg but any hole is a goal
>H comes back in with me ontop
>G gets next to me and stars kissing neck
>for some reason I thought it would be a good idea to challenge them to see who could give the best blowjob
>H starts first, pretty poor
>G's go after. for a fattie it was bretty good
>these two fatties are now sharing my cock

(cont)

(food captcha to post this lmao)

>>38565857
(cont)

>both H and G get into doggy
>ok lets do this
>go in raw like a fucking retard
>fuck both of them while trying to imagine something better than the situation im in
>end up finishing on one of their stomach

>two weeks later
>both H and G have told entire workplace of what happened
>SYMPTOMS.png

>H somehow gave me herpes, I'm assuming it was through oral

>G and Me both start to display all symptoms of HSV2 - confront H
>H denies the accusations despite having the start of a coldsore on her 5th fucking chin
>quit working there and never come back

>fuck my life

>one month later ended up fucking the 8/10 even after she knew about H and G and the Herpes alligations

Protips:

Work in a nightclub and everyone knows everything

Dont fuck fatties

Wear a fucking condom lads

>>38565896
rip

>>38565707
>can be gotten rid of by taking 4 tablets and not having sex for a year
haha how can a man not have sex for a whole year haha right

>>38565673

How do you feel about transmitting your disease to other people

Are you aware herpes can spread despite condom usage if pelvic areas touch

Have you considered masturbation-only for life or suicide

>>38565673
>51 sexual partners
>Ask me anything
Were those all with subpar bitches or did you actually fuck some attractive women?

>>38565673
what were the STDs?

To the OP, it happens, i think a lot of girls legit have a low natural libido and after the brief honeymoon stage of the relationship settle into their "natural" state of sexual desire. I wouldn't be too hard on yourself though, and i 100% get the woman twisting things so that they are at fault. I'm in a similar situation with my gf and the amount of times she says "don't you wish you were with someone who was horny all the time", naturally this is Woman Traps 101 so am good at saying the right thing,

I would look at the 12 levels of DREAD, i hate all that redpill bullshit but it might be worth reading just to get an idea of steps you can take. You don't want to feel powerless and bitter at the same time.

Good luck anon.

>>38565807
hey man is that lola lo in oxford??

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>>38566056
>i hate all that redpill bullshit

>>38566050
Unless very drunk I tend to only go for 7's or above

there are only 5-10 whoa re sub par that was down to pure intoxication

>>38566034
To be fair, I dont really care. Yeah I know, it's "awful" I tend to only have one night stands and no numbers are exchanged.

>>38566028
See: >>38565711

>>38564856
Men are conditioned to think that wanting sex from women is bad. I've fucked plenty of times when I didn't really want to at first because the girl did.

Not to mention, most women don't do shit during sex anyway. Literally only fucked 1 girl who knew how to ride a dick. She just has to lie there, take the dick, and enjoy herself.

>>38566083
Nah man, I'm up north.

>>38566086
most of it is incredibly autistic and is actively deciding to look at the world through the worst possible prism.

It's made by people who naturally have a shit social circle and assume the world to be an extension of that. There are LOADS of girls that are educated, health conscious and desire to be in a relationship with a high quality partner. Just because you don't represent that high quality partner or are only exposed to shitty people doesn't mean the whole world is wrong.

>>38566168
>impossible prism
>100 years ago most of society had rates of obesity/overweightness close to zero %, like todays japan with 3%
>Most testosterone of men was okay and men were healthy and good

>cultures, civilizations often are cyclical. That means that the average of society changes EVERYONE
>you are one of these people who has no recollection or idea of how different it could be, or was and thinks that his virtue of simply being alive is enough evidence for your statements.

100 years ago sugar was still rare, smokers were far less...people still walked. We are living in this style of living for an extremely brief time. You have to be really retarded to think that the way that we are living is natural.

>>38566168
Preach it

>>38566214
#BornInTheWrongGeneration - stop trying to be red-pill. it's just a bunch of angry virgins pretending to be high-status when in reality women arent complex. just be yourself and if thats an autistic cunt then allow it

>>38566243
>spot the dumbfag millennial

>>38566106

>"awful"

This isn't some sort of made up "awful". You're ruining peoples' lives. Please consider suicide.

>>38566086
Uni-man-whore here

What is the whole "red-pill" thing? never understood and too lazy to research

>>38566272
Am I though? You seriously underestimate the number of people with STIs

Dont be so ignorant to the fact people fuck. I wear condoms, dont fuck when I have an outbreak. and that's all I can do.

Stop using cuck number one.

You should just hook up with other chicks on the sly. Your gf is too accustomed to you now. Don't show her so much attention for a while and she'll come crawling back

>>38564768
>Start flirting with other girls when she's around, touch them a bit.
>Go out with your friends without her and basically make it so you have one foot in the relationship and one out.
>After 2 weeks of this and she hasn't got it yet, stop touching her entirely
>She'll get the hint quickly enough and do something about it if she really cares.

Best of luck

>>38566214
>smokers were less

That's just not true. You need to stop looking at history with rose tinted glasses, especially when your last exposure to history probably came in high school

>>38566214
so much bullshit in your post i can't be bothered to go through point by point. Keep your rosy retrospection and I hope your view of the world leads you to a fulfilling lifestyle, rather than a permanent state of resentment towards the world. That way of being ends up only eroding yourself.

You know OP. Life isnt a porno where girls want your cock inside 24/7.

>>38566279
bunch of virgins that can't get laid so assume that their pathetic life is the world's fault rather than their own. Literally the other side of the coin to SJW, same level of entitlement but different mental gymnastics

>>38566321

https://herpesopportunity.com/downloads/herpes-opportunity-disclosure-handout.pdf

>transmission rates
>herpes male to non-herpes female
>10%
>assumes no active outbreaks
>condom usage decreases this by 30%-50%
>daily antiviral medication lowers risk by 48%

I found some medicine, it would cost about $1.25 per day.

https://www.walgreens.com/store/c/olympian-labs-herp-eeze-vegetarian-capsules/ID=prod6161320-product?ext=gooPLA_-_Vitamins&pla&kpid=sku6144018&sst=2c0dd490-24c7-46a7-9b0d-2393998cbd06&adtype=pla

I've never researched this stuff before, it's kind of interesting.

Anyway with no medicine that's about 1 in 18 sexual encounters, with medicine it's about 1 in 36. Very significant either way but the medicine would help a lot.

I've been in your situation. My gf at the time never wanted to fuck, and would literally cry when we did it because she was so bad at it and she knew she wasn't satisfying me.

She was depressed so I assumed it had effected her low sex drive. I tried to help her in every way shape and form to get things better.

Found out she was cheating on me with a couple dudes. She just wasn't attracted to me any more and I was a cuck in denial.

I suggest you leave her. From what you're describing it's a lost cause

>>38566421
Cheers man but I already have acyclovir from NHS.

Basedbro though

>>38566421
>with no medicine that's about 1 in 18 sexual encounters, with medicine it's about 1 in 36

and that assumes you're using a condom

>>38564843

desu mate it's pretty simple she has lost desire for you. Don't by the bullshit, women are very sexual and they need regular sex.

If she isn't getting it from you, you can bet she is getting it somewhere else.

You have two non pathetic options

1. Drop her
2. Find some side girls to have regular sex if you really don't want to break up with her.

>>38566484
>women are very sexual and they need regular sex.
Wrong

>If she isn't getting it from you, you can bet she is getting it somewhere else.
Right!
OP should break up, what OP is doing is hurtful to his selfesteem since its basically turbo rejection non-stop. Youre better off single
Even if you never find another girl willing to fuck again youre way better off than being a cuck and dealing with that bullshit

>>38564768

>mfw people give the "talk to her about" advice

lmaaoooo how fucking clueless are you cucks?

Talking to her about it literally translates in her mind:

>Baby i am such a loser that not only you don't want to have sex with me, but i have to beg for it because you are my only option and i can't get sex anywhere else, thus confirming what a loser i am.


Fucking dump her. Why would you give out your time and commitment to a girl you are not having sex with?

>>38566483
You should always wear a condom w/ ONS or youll end up like me

>>38566405
Lmao thats fucking retarded. I'm by no means 'Alpha' but pulling a 9/10 doesn't require mind games. be yourself, send risky texts. and dont be a fucking melt

>>38566539
>lmaaoooo how fucking clueless are you cucks?
Talking to your partner is the first step towards letting her know youre not happy so atleast she has a chance to know things arent as they should be
Nevertheless if the sex dies the relationship is doomed but talking to your gf is never a bad idea

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>>38566520
so you're saying women don't need regular sex? on what basis?

>>38566541
>I'm by no means 'Alpha' but pulling a 9/10 doesn't require mind games. be yourself, send risky texts. and dont be a fucking melt
Please google redpill comics, its hilarious and sad at the same time

>>38566569

>Talking to your partner is the first step towards letting her know youre not happy
>letting her know youre not happy

Protip:

She knows very well his not happy, she just doesn't give a shit. No need to have "the talk" about it and demonstrate how powerless he is about it. This will make the situation even worse, he will fall even more in her eyes.

What can you possibly accomplish with that talk? The girl has no desire towards him, and no talking will bring it back, because desire is a natural body response not something you talk about.

I'll tell you what can bring her desire back though. He being balls deep in some other girl.

>>38566630
>redpill comics

I just got cancer.

If anyone is reading this who actually follows this shit. (I'm >>38565673 )

Stop. Get a job, talk to people.

I stopped a young girl outside of Asda last thursday and said "Hello, I'm (Uni-Man-Whore), You're cute, can I get your number? and I'm going out for a drink with her tomorrow.

Why do people think girls are complex and require this amount of effort. It's saddening.

>>38566619
Im saying women arent as sexually interested as guys are, there have been studies about this aswell.
Sex for girls is alot more complicated than it is for guys

>>38566676
>Why do people think girls are complex and require this amount of effort. It's saddening.


they build up an image of perfection in their heads and lots of theoreticals, they become consumed by thinking.

>>38566676

The fact you don't know nothing about The Red Pill doesn't mean you aren't applying the philosophy in your life.

>I stopped a young girl outside of Asda last thursday and said "Hello, I'm (Uni-Man-Whore), You're cute, can I get your number? and I'm going out for a drink with her tomorrow.

That's pretty red pill. Red pill doesn't say it's complex it just teaches you how to get to that point where it is that easy.

>>38566702
What studies? I agree that it can be more complicated, but really only thing stopping most girls from getting gang banged is simply society.

>>38566702

This is all blue pill propaganda

The "A lot more complicated" is a meme omen sell to get away with not wanting to have sex with betas.
When a woman is attracted to a guy she will have wild sex with him and won't be able to have enough of it.

There is no boundary she won't cross, she will change her religion, she will dissow her family.

>>38566713
Ah so its a form of overthinking and over analysing all human interactions?

>>38566721
Right, so it's teaching confidence to those who wernt exposed to social situations during puberty?

I guess I understand, I came out of my 'shell' when I was 15/16 when I started going to parties and lifting, before that I used to play a lot of Xbox.

>>38566676
I'm sure that happened.

And if it were true, I don't know what's going to be funnier. You sitting alone when some random girl decided she didn't want to go out with you or her sending her morbidly obese friend in her place.

>>38566764
>Ah so its a form of overthinking and over analysing all human interactions?
In my opinion yeah, they also put them on a pedestal, like they're angels or something, where you have to be perfect and they have to be perfect.

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I'm so glad STDs exist so licentious libertines get what they deserve.

>>38566773
You dont believe that I said hello to a girl?

Fucking hell /fit/.

b8.

>>38566541
no man, i mean the mental gymnastics over how the world works.Eg:
>I spoke to this girl at a party
>it felt like there was a connection
>she left with another guy
>she didn't say bye to me
>she must be a SLUT that just wants CHAD
>all women must be like that
>it's degenerate societies fault
>the world is wrong

You know that kind of mentality, you must know some people that feel like women owe him sex and resent that. Now give them a place online to go speak to each other and develop their own theories and you get TheRedPill

>>38566793
its /r9k/ on /fit/

>>38566632
>What can you possibly accomplish with that talk?
Men face their problems, talking to her is facing it
Im not saying it will solve anything because once the sex dies its pretty much over but too many guys become passive-aggressive bitches and dont even dare to talk to their gf and telling her things are fucked up
Otherwise he would have to sneak around behind her back fucking other chicks and refuse to deal with the problem, does that sound like a man to you? It sure doesnt sound like it to me

>>38566721
>Red pill doesn't say it's complex
No offence mate but TRP is pretty cringeworthy
Im a guy and like all guys i want sex and lots of it, TRP however is bullshit because it doesnt really "teach" you anything beyond a very toxic attitude towards women in general since many guys on TRP are frustrated those 10/10 mega bitches wont fuck them when they are sloppy neckbeards who refuse to better themselves in most cases
Some other anon said TRP is 95% bullshit and 5% gold, im inclined to agree

>>38566764

>Right, so it's teaching confidence to those who wernt exposed to social situations during puberty?

Pretty much.

Red pill is just observed action of players with women, deconstructed into terms and routines and explained logically to help autists grasp it.

It wasn't something that was invented it was just stuff that succesfull womanizers have been doing for years, written down and formulated lyrically .

>>38566796
I actually understand, theres a group of weirder guys on my uni course who seem to feel that way

>>38566805
I hope it's bait for their own sake

>>38564843
Shes fukin someone eles n is scared u will be able to tell once u fuck her drop that bicth

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>>38566796
Another anon here, but my favourite is when they expect the women they are attracted to (10/10s) to love them and not be "shallow" (i.e. not base attraction on looks, because they aren't good looking), its crazy amounts of double think, where they can "love" a woman solely based on her looks, but when a woman bases her attraction on looks she's a slut for chad.

>>38566823
I understand the concept of it, I think it can be good for the more introverted people, but after some research it seems like some guys think that girls are quite complex and owe sex - thats what im struggling to comprehend, I'm hoping its only a minority in the so-called 'movement'

The advice I got when I was 15 was to work on myself and be proud of my achievements and the rest will follow. seems to have done me well so far

>>38566806

>Otherwise he would have to sneak around behind her back fucking other chicks and refuse to deal with the problem, does that sound like a man to you? It sure doesnt sound like it to me

Yes he would be more of a man, because now he is a cuck, and if he started fucking around he would be much less pathetic.

>Men face their problems

Facing the problem would be dumping her. Talking to her would be just digging the hole deeper.

So talking to her is what he does because he isn't man enough to break up with this chick

>>38566831

It's funny because it's not really their fault.

They have been told this and brainwashed since day one.

>Just b yourself and a woman will come who will love you unconditionally because of your (((inner beauty))), all the other girls that don't like you don't deserve you.

This is the message young men are fed through media, their parents and so on.

>>38566901
The point is they don't love women for their "inner" beauty, they don't jerk off thinking about some girl with great personality, they jerk off to some girl with nice face/ass/tits.

>>38566831
100% you get it, i knew people like that at university and before i could get laid and had functional social and romantic relationships I feel like i could have easily slipped and become one of them.

They act like they see the world for what it really is but don't have the ability to place themselves in this world. At this point they will either react in one of two ways:
>1. Step up their game, if they are obese or social outcasts they will lose weight, make active improvements in social life etc. If this happens they almost inevitably realise that the world isn't black and white and hopefully move on from all the TRP bullshit and become normal functional people
>2. Not do anything, shut their eyes and ears and keep on being themselves, destined for a lifetime or resentment and hate for the world

Unfortunately no. 2 is the majority and we have a selection bias for them because the first group would stop posting and spreading the ideas. I think there are 1 or 2 valid points or ideas that TRP has but as a whole it is toxic for the person that decides to see things through this prism.

Here are some of them, ive seen newer but i didnt save them
>>38566758
You can read the link above too, women dont want/need sex as much as guys do
Do women still want sex? yes, ofc but point being men have a much stronger sex drive than women

There was some woman (i forgot her name, ill search) who basically was a tranny and she confirmed all the bad things with dating and male sex drive so it was pretty interesting to read about.

>>38566899
i might suck myself off when i get a cold sore and fuck other women raw just to piss you off.

>>38566933
its easier to believe that you can't change, change requires active effort/thought/patience, staying the same just needs self pity/anger etc.......

>>38566727
>>38566758
>>38566943
Cant seem to link because it gets blocked, google business insider and men want more sex than women if you want to find it

How do I avoid herpes/stds?

just always use a condom and don't go down on a girl unless you find out they are clean?

>>38566955
exactomundo, ironically having to supercompensate because you are starting from behind (eg. nerd at school, obese when young) can be a plus in the long term. It's all about channeling the negative into a positive rather than than letting the negative spill over everything.

>>38566758
>dissown her family
wrong, this won't be done for just sex alone
they will lie to everyone and anyone for it though

t. dated a poo in loo, a black chick, a mexican, and a bunch of whities

>>38566964
Theres no real way of knowing, see my story above.

herpes can only be transferred when sores are present but can be transferred a day or two before they begin to show.

Your best bet is to do exactly what you said and never go for easy girls

>>38566955
>its easier to believe that you can't change
Well let me present you with an option, sure many of TRP guys are bitter people who simply wont change but there are others too

I mean i love changing and doing stuff, so i got an education (currently doing final year of uni) got a part time job in my field, started working out and managed to build a great body and im starting a company using the connections ive built
But despite all this i cant get laid at all, its been a long ass time so its not just the change part that leads to frustration but rather doing stuff and getting nothing for it

Somedays i feel bitter aswell because i dont understand why its so impossible, girls should like boys as much as we like them but it sure doesnt seem like it

>>38567009
how many girls have you face to face asked out in last 6 months?

Here's the problem you're gonna have OP: you'll be single for life.

Because that shit happens in every relationship. Sometimes you get lucky and it takes longer, but it's inevitable. I've had four long term gfs and all four of them I eventually reached the point of a weekly bang and even then I'd have to instigate. If I left it up to her we probably wouldn't have sex at all.

Even with one of my gfs who was a sex fiend when we first met and would come over to my apartment and fuck all night, after three years it was the same story.

You need to sacrifice a long-term relationship if you want regular sex.

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>>38564843
>We already adressed that but she just start beeing "so sad, that she can give me what i need" until i comfort her. She just twists that shit around and makes herself the victim.
>Not in a malicious way, just in that basic women way.
>>38565572
>I'm seriously considering going gay.
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS

jesus even my mom does it. every. fuckin. female. friend. girlfirend.

>>38567016
One, although i got a date with her
Well two actually but nothings happened yet
And keep in mind this is the only single girl ive been attracted to that ive met

>inb4 high standards
Not really, i want a semi-cute girl with a nice ass whom i can spend time with outside of fucking (watching a movie/series/hiking/whatever)
I must be doing something wrong but ill be damned if i can understand what, i wish i could because id fix it if i knew

>>38567009
I'm one of the anons that has been shitting on TRP. Let me give you some 2cents.

The number one rule that people forget is that sex, in our society, is an extension of social interaction from a biological one. I.E. while there are a lot of biological factors such as what the partner looks like, social standing, ability to provide jadda, jadda, jadda. In our modern world sex comes from the social side, if you really want to get laid have more interactions that lead people to getting laid. If you are at UNI, go to clubs, get drunk, have fun with friends, have a laugh with girls, chat with people. you have to actually enjoy the social part and people will enjoy your company, some girls will enjoy having you around so much that they'll start to miss you and when they see you they think "wow this guy is great". Sex is fun, and it's even more fun to have sex with fun people. Be that person.

>>38567078
nigga, you just explained it yourself, in 6 months you've asked 2 girls, and you probably have a small social circle, so you don't even meet many girls.

Also, you said you "can't get laid", no one said anything about long term relationships. its easy as fuck to bang randoms m8.

>>38564768
selam panpa

>>38565572

From what /fit/ has taught me about womyn, it has genuinely made me bisexual. I feel like I would have more in common with a guy, that we'd make better friends, better partners, be strong together, etc., whereas I feel like a womyn will just be the leech of my ambitions and success.

>>38567088
>Be that person.
Good tip but i feel like im already doing this
Not to the fullest extent ofc and i will improve this part but i can always make people laugh and i enjoy chatting with randoms

>>38567094
Point being this one girl is the only single girls ive met in this six month period despite me activly looking, well past six months ive been busy since there is alot of work in a startup even one as simple as mine but the previous six months were equal

I know the number of girls is a bottle neck but i have no idea on how to fix it, most girls i meet/interact with in school/at work/at the gym have boyfriends and it doesnt really change my way of treating them but i cant move further because they are taken

>>38565896

dude you got herpes from a fat chick

>>38566028

i havent had sex since January 2014. No problems really you get used to it and it doesnt bother you after the first month. Also makes you realize how much your life used to be centered around getting laid

>>38567176
ah well then fuck you man, its just a matter of time . Don't put pressure on yourself and keep on doing you. It's all good, i'm sure of these girls in relationships have friends that would be gagging for your startup cuckenberg cock. Just give it time, if you are a catch it'll happen the worst thing you can do is get yourself down for it. Besides you probably have had 100 opportunities that you have missed and will be kicking yourself about in the future, but that's for the future not now.

>>38567190
Yep. I know.

>>38564768
Idk why you guys put up.with this shit. The average sexy time for an American couple is about twice a week I think. I've been with my bf for ~4 years, friends for more, and we still fuck at least a couple times a week, sometimes many times a day- head and everything. Being together for a while is not an excuse to not have sex- its a sign your relationship is going sour and neither of you care enough to do anything about it. Fix the relationship itself if you want sexytime. Or break up and move on

>>38564843
>just in the basic woman way
No wonder your gf is a Dumbass, you're also a Dumbass whos just attracting like minded people. No sane woman knowingly dates a sexist piece of crap

>>38567404
>No sane woman knowingly dates a sexist piece of crap
I cant even being to point out all the things wrong here

>>38567404
you can always tell the grills from the anons

>>38567436
Does it make your tiny male brain explode? Poor baby!

>>38567436
>>38567450
So then why didn't you quote my other post right above that one
>>38567382
If you can "always tell"? Oh that's right, you only paid attention to the post that made you butthurt. You guys don't get girls that will suck your dick happily until the day you die because of your shitty sexist attitudes. You attract what you throw out there

>>38567489
>If you can "always tell"? Oh that's right, you only paid attention to the post that made you butthurt. You guys don't get girls that will suck your dick happily until the day you die because of your shitty sexist attitudes. You attract what you throw out there
>implying you're a great personality

>>38567489
>If you can "always tell"?
I cant "always tell" dont know where you got that from
Anyway, the most sexist shittiest guy i know has gotten laid alot more than most of the other guys i know combined
He is famous in our social circle for quotes like "i expect anal on the first date and every other date" and "I only do anal because girls arent supposed to enjoy it"
He is not opposed to buying sex when he is in the mood but this does not stop girls from fucking him

My point being, youre wrong since plenty of girls go for the sexist pigs

>>38567542
>implying you guys know what a good personality is
That's the entire point of my post numbnuts, youre shitty people who are bad judges of other people because you have no decent inner standing yourself. I don't want to be considered a "good personality " by someone like you- that would be an insult.

>>38567573
>I don't know where you got this from
From right here
>>38567450
Im not going to bother reading the rest of your post because that first bit showed me you're an idiot.

>>38567609
>Im right so i wont bother arguing
Nice comeback asshole, you have no arguments but just fling your pretentious bullshit on a ugandan camel breeding forum thinking someone will take you seriously

Tl:dr
Fuck you

>>38566863
jesus christ you're sad , dude

>>38566863
honestly how old are you guys if this is what it takes to rattle you. omg some skank went and behaved like a skank. get over it and move on.

ive seen the toughest guys cry like bitches over losing a vagina. its life. calling them pathetic considering ive seen the girls you bang on your phone is truly pathetic. They are nothing to brag about whatsoever so please stop with the dick measuring here.

Some guys are actually asking for legitimate advice here and your b level trolling is beyond lame at this point

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>>38564768
>How many times should one have sex in a relationship?
If you're cohabitating every other day is normal; if more than two days pass without sex it's unacceptable.

If you both have your own place, between two and three times a week.

>I work out and get enough female attention, so i am pretty confident that i am not repulsive. My gf nevertheless has become almost asexual. Sex has the lowest priority in her daily life and i get quite tense when she walks around with that body of hers and i cant fuck it. I dont want to live like this.
You're not getting laid either because A: you continue to do boyfriend stuff for her without her putting out, B: she's fucking someone else, or C: both.

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-31122.html

Read up, anon.

You're not married to this girl, you don't have kids, and she's not fucking you. Please tell me why haven't you next'd this bitch yet?

>I'll guess i should stop making myself a cuck and end it, right?
If by "it" you mean the relationship, then yes, your instincts are correct.

>>38566539
Can we sticky this? I'm capping this. Anon I wish I could buy you a beer. This is pure, unadulterated truth.

>>38566569
>This is what beta's believe
You don't ask for respect, you earn it by how you act and carry yourself. The moment you start letting a woman walk all over you, you're nothing more than a resource in her eyes.

>>38566632
Capping this as well, keep going bro.

>>38566806
>Men face their problems, talking to her is facing it
She *is* the problem. She is a drain on his time, emotions, and money and doesn't give him any ass.

Real life isn't some McConaughey/Diaz romcom bullshit, sex is the foundation of any relationship; if someone doesn't have the requisite genitalia what appeals to your sexual preference, they're automatically disqualified from the pool of potential partners.

Sex is the bedrock, the foundation, the first step, and the last hearth.

>Con't

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>>38568904

The elusive "healthy, happy relationship" is the result of two people who enjoying fucking and can also stand each other's company. You cannot get by with just one. If you just want to fuck a bitch and that's it, she's a conquest/ONS/FWB, if you just like her personality she's a friend.

The problem is, a LTR where the sex stays fresh and neither party wears on the other is a rare thing, many people won't find it, but they feel like they have to be tied down eventually, so they settle.

Don't settle. Look for a unicorn, but be at peace with the idea you may never find her, and game as many women as possible in the meantime.

>No offence mate but TRP is pretty cringeworthy
TRP is hard to swallow, that's no secret. You cringe because your entire life you've been indoctrinated to put women on a pedestal, when in truth they're no better than us.

>a very toxic attitude towards women in general
Stop using "toxic" as adjective to describe anything that isn't a chemical, it's beta as fuck.

>many guys on TRP are
Way to generalize, kiddo.

>>38566823
This.

>>38566796
Sex is never something "owed." TRP/MGTOW teaches one to approach as often as possible and to not fear rejection, if one woman doesn't want you, there's plenty more where she came from.

TRP advocates pretty much the exact opposite mindset from what you described.

>>38566901
I think our society encourages both men and women to have unrealistic expectations of the opposite sex. Again, part of TRP is getting over that.

>>38568133
How is that anon sad? I've legit never understood "making it work" when there's not children or a ring involved. Exclusivity is a big deal, at least for me, if I'm not happy I'm out.

>>38568916
I miss when /fit/ use to have stories like this from guys. Oh well. For the record, guy from reddit did the right thing but this goes back to asking questions you dont want the answer to. Men who go full MGTOW may be a large majority up to the stereotype but there are also plenty who just decide they dont want the western woman honestly.

Have you not been with women from other parts of the world. South America, Europe, etc? Their attitudes toward sex are far more relaxed leading to more enjoyable interactions should you choose to get with them. MGTOW messed up when they started getting all these guys who put vagina on a pedestal. There is nothing worse than seeing your dream girl selling her ass for a ride of your friends boat and a trip to california.

>>38567404
Maybe you're right. After all i created this situation, so i cant be that much of a genius.

yae fucked op

>>38569878
>Have you not been with women from other parts of the world?
Very fond of Thai, Romanian, Peruvian, and Filipina women, actually.

If I ever get married (again) it'll probably be to a Filipina, if for no other reason than divorce is illegal in the Philippines.

>There is nothing worse than seeing your dream girl selling her ass for a ride of your friends boat and a trip to california.
You need two things: better friends and a cure for that oneitis.

Any time you start thinking of a woman as your "dream girl" you need to stop and check yourself because your head isn't working right; no matter who she is, she isn't special, and there's plenty more where she came from.

Case in point, she can't be that great if she whored herself out for a boat ride and a plane ticket, can she? No. She's just human. Don't expect too much of yourself or others.

>>38564768
At least twice a week at minimum if you work full time.
More if not.

>>38570541
>>There is nothing worse than seeing your dream girl selling her ass for a ride of your friends boat and a trip to california.
>You need two things: better friends and a cure for that oneitis.
well that and also a nice boat

>>38570653
No bro. He did it to prove a point and I love him like my own family members for doing that. Youre better off finding out that way then having some doctor tell you the blood transfusion you wanted to give your son cannot go through because the kid is not your son (actually happened to a coworker of mine)

Women are scandalous period. Not accepting it ended up with simply wasting resources on ones not deserving of it.

>>38568904
Thanks based anon, this solved my problem.

>>38570828
Oh! Well, that actually makes a lot of sense. Bro is the bro'est of bros; you're lucky to have him.

>>38570853
Anytime bro.

>>38565196
Exactly this. This is the only mature way to address the issue and will result in the best outcome. She cannot ignore a major part of human intimacy in a relationship

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how do I shorten my refractory period so I can fucc again sooner?

>>38573580
Stay hydrated and don't neglect your cardio. Also avoid porn.

>>38565196
>>38573038
Like I told OP earlier, I'd just walk away. I guarantee you he says what you suggested her response will be "you'd really break up with me just because we don't have enough sex/is sex all that matters/stop objectifying me/insert shaming tactic here."

Women like sex just as much as men, she just doesn't like it with OP anymore. She's either got hormonal issues, is fucking someone else, or just doesn't like OP.

Either way it's over, and she's probably just in "will let him continue to pay for shit until I find someone better" mode.

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>>38564768
>being cucked this hard

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>>38567190
I laughed line an idiot

>>38567301
Thanks for the giggle m8

>>38566377
Actual good advice

>>38566403
24/7, no. But like I said in another thread, my wife and I have had sex four times so far this year. And it's not like OP's situation where I can just leave or go cheat on her, we have kids.

>>38564843
She's not as sexual as you.
Neither one of you is a victim- it's just an unfortunate incompatibility
It's time to move on

>>38564768
I was in the same situation once

Turned out i was cucked all along

Think about it op

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>tfw been in a relationship for less than a month
>tfw she has already backed off sex for things like "it's too hot"
We have sex maybe 3-5 times a week
How would this be after 20 years of marriage?

>>38575722
>>38575696
>>38574177

OP, here. i dont see her cheating right now because she is a very loyal and supporting person. She cooks and bakes shit for me, cleans my flat when she sees i am to stuck in my projects. She takes care of paper work, post and so on and is better than every secretary you could imagine. Also she says she wants her kids to have my face and so on.
She tries to support me wherever she can an shows abscence of other bad women traits.
For example i never hear her talking bad about people, not even when she's in company of other people.

Further on: She buys me as much shit as i buy her, if not more. She would hate to be the parasite type of bad women the red pill portraits.

I think i am going with making her more docile, i can still dump her if that doesnt work. It would be a waste of good women material to dump her.

Also: whats up with that cucking paranoia? I see its a real issue but you cant project it on every situation.

>>38576255
>whats up with that cucking paranoia? I see its a real issue but you cant project it on every situation.

t. cuck

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>>38565896
So should you use a condom for bj's? I've never done that, seems like it would suck, pardon the pun

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Looking for help here since there’s no tinder/relationship bread up
I'm a social noob khv 22th level, almost a month into nofap, at this point I dont want to fap anymore, I desperately want to fuck a girl, I cant stand it anymore

I matched on tinder with this chick, would post the chat but it's not english so I'll paraphrase
>Commented on her bio, whatsup, asked what she did thiz summer
>She tells me shes going on a cruise for a week, I ask her alone, family, friends, bf? She tells me family
>Talk about that a bit. Tell her that when she's back we could hang out and do stuff. She says sure and asks me where I'm at (city).
>I tell her lets exchange #s, she goes sure
On whatsapp
>The various wassup's, she asks me what im doing that night, i say "chilling with a movie, y wanna do someth? (I know that was bad, shoulda gone "not much, u?")
>Halfway through her 7day cruise I write "how's the cruise?" and we talk a bit about it, she sends me a photo, asks me what I'm doing, joke a bit.
>When her cruise is over (saw her distance on tinder) ask her how it ended, talk a bit about it, talk about some pro sporting event that's going on in her city and how I used to play another sport near that place.
>She says she's home now,
>Today I write her just chatting about uni
Now how the fuck do I make this go a step further.
I know she would probably be down, she's super friendly/beta and she's not super hot so self confidence issues.
The thing is, I live in a big city and she lives in a nearby kind of small city, like 15km away. I think she goes to uni in my city though, from her bio.

>>38577511
You should, but nobody does.

no real way to protect from oral without looking like a spaz

>>38578701
Uni-man-whore here

Pretty simple. "I'm free (Day X) evening at X - come for a drink with me."

works in the UK, dont see why it wont work in the USA

>>38564768
how bad do threesomes ruin a relationship

>>38578701
>22th
what a fucijg retard
learn english you fucking nigger

>>38578701
you should try fucking relaxing

>>38578859
Boy do I wish I lived in the US, nah man I live in italy, and yeah, picking up girls and casual dating is not really a thing here
First of all I dont think she is the type (yeah here some girls just "dont do that stuff", like drinking socially), secondly, maybe she would be down, but there is the whole distance thing.
I was thinking that once uni would start for both of us we could meet during the day, but I cant find a way to make it not boring in my head, like, what the fuck would we do?

How do you approach girls about kinks/fetishes lads? I have a decent sex life and I'm confident with women (had sex with 13 girls while I was at uni). But I really prang out about bringing up my watersports fetish and if I ever tried I imagine I'd spill more spaghetti than Dolmio man on ket

>>38579751
Yo just start small and see what they're like

usually if im with a girl for awhile the convo will come up of fetishes "is there anything youve wanted to try but feel too weird about it?" (Mine is complete domination of the girl) and they're okay with it

UNI MAN WHORE

>>38564768
Every day
Low test

>>38579313
I dont know about Italian culture etc, but usually in the UK it's coffee shops or the pub, maybe just go get some lunch and be yourself

>>38579787
Fair, thanks man
Tbf I could have had a lot more sex while I was at uni (and did in first year) but at the start of second year I found pingers in a big way, so I p much stopped caring about pulling on nights out

>>38579830
pilly willy aint a great thing

Not really sure we're to ask so i'll ask here.

A year ago i asked out a qt to an event dance thing, now next week this event is happening again. I want to ask her again, but about 5-6 months ago we had a fallout and we haven't talked, how do i go about asking her?

>>38579915
True, also I look terrifying when I'm on dizzle
I'm 6'3, over 16 stone and gurn like fuck

Are we going to start talking about dick size soon?

>>38579981
I'm not too bad, like im 6'1 at 180 and just wear sunglasses

always get fucking mirror trapped though

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>>38579801
>>38578859
>>38578701
>>38579313
little update.
went back and forth "complaining" about exams. then after 1 hour or so she goes "yeah, from tomorrow, not only do I start a diet, but I start studying hard" or something along those lines, the sense was that she threw in the diet part and highlighted the studying.
I think she said it for a reason, I dont know why
Now, I have 2 options in my mind: either jokingly nag her with like "gained a couple pounds on holiday uh?" or something more "beta" like "and what do you need a diet for?" since she looks kind of fit in her tinder pics.
I was leaning towards the 1st one since I'm trying to be more assertive in life generally and it seems to work.
Anyway, I wanted to follow with something like "you're gonna hate me but I'm actually trying hard to GAIN weight. Then if she bites I would maybe introduce fitness and give her some pointers (to look kind of knowledgeable to her) and maybe how we could run or hike together, if she's the "athletic" type.
but she very well could just tell me she's a couch potato and I wouldnt have much then

>>38580197
also, yeah I know...autism.
I even went airplane mode so I could check her full message on whatsapp without showing it to her to look more detached

>>38580103
I always get people coming up to me and saying 'I want to be feeling how you look' and shit like that. It's quite funny but hets annoying when I'm not even that fucked

>>38576255
The cuck thing is a meme you dip, everything else is valid though

>>38580197
>>38579801
please halp english man slut

>>38566279
Nationalist traditionalism

>>38564768
2 very serious tips. Make her cum EVERY time you have sex.Also, talk to her and say to her that you want to try to have sex EVERY day as an experiment for a few weeks. That will help your frustration and your sexlife a lot.

>>38566963

Business Insider is trash tier clickbait you moron.

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