Hey guys.
I'm going through a bit of a dilemma here, to be dramatic. I'm in my last semester of college and I feel like I need to be partying and fucking random girls from bars or parties... but I just don't want to.
Now, I have a sex drive. I watch porn but I'm not addicted to it, and I can go days without it with no trouble at all. I don't have any fucked up fetishes that keep me bored of regular sex. I had a religious upbringing, and I identify as a right-wing traditionalist, although I'm not religious myself. I'm not worried about my T-levels, but part of me wishes that I had the desire to WANT to fuck girls and have one night stands. But the desire just isn't there.
I like having fuck buddies, girls who I actually respect (which are few and far between), girls that I'm comfortable with, and girls who I believe will stay somewhat monogamous. But I just can't find it in myself to be interested in one night stands, I've even had girls naked in my bed and just ate their pussy so I could go to sleep since I didn't want to fuck them.
It's a weird feeling. I can't tell if I'm normal/secure and simply resisting society's pressure for young people to have casual sex, or if there is some other issue involved. I know this is my last good chance in life to smash random girls, so I'd kinda like to figure it out soon.
anyone
Its nothing too strange, just morality speeking from within, keep it that way - you dont have to fuck every cum dumpster you come across
Stop over analyzing things. You are still in college and you should do whatever the fuck you wanna do. Sex is way too over emphasized these days. I'd suggest using your remaining days in college to talk to professors whom you respect and admire and make friends with a few of them instead of chasing girls left and right.
Tldr : stop worrying about it and do things that give you pleasure in life.
>>38559657
>I've even had girls naked in my bed and just ate their pussy so I could go to sleep since I didn't want to fuck them.
You sound like a low-test beta nu-male.
You don't wanna fuck club sloots and be a manwhore? Then don't. What's the point of this thread anyway, what kind of replies are you expecting?
>>38559847
That's more or less the conclusion I've come too. I guess I just wanted reinforcement.
>>38559850
I suppose. I already have a few professors that I can pal up with, although I'm moving across the country in a few months when I graduate, so I can't see it being that big of a deal.
It's not something that keeps me up at night. I've just noticed I feel different than I used to (back when I was insecure and needed to fuck girls for my self-esteem).
>>38559893
>low-test beta nu-male
Cause alpha dogs project this hard over the internet right
I'm not expecting any particular replies, although I did expect at least one of these. I'm more or less seeing if anyone in the community shares a similar outlook/experience and what they think about it.
Old dude here. I was kinda just like you. Not that I'm consumed with regret, but I do wish I had banged more chicks I obviously could have.
>>38561421
Answer a question for me
Does it feel fulfilling holding yourself to a higher standard and not fucking anything you can get your hands on, or do you think it's pointless and ends up bothering you one day.
To clarify- once you have kids you really realize that sex is all just a ruse to lead to reproduction. Titties are just for babies to suck on etc. I'm even less pro-sex than I was then. However- you will never have the access to the prime young bodies you have now. Chicks bodies are some awesome memories. Remember you're banging the chick on behalf of your future self.
>>38561457
I wouldn't counsel you bang anything that comes your way, but you're probably way too picky in what you consider bangable. Like don't even concentrate on sex itself. Find ways to do things like get in more hot tubs with topless women etc. Like I said, now is the time to do your middle aged self proud
>I feel like I need to be partying and fucking random girls
>I just don't want to.
You're supposed to feel this way about shit like working you fucking dingus. If you blow all of your willpower on trying to follow the script just for recreation, how the hell do you expect to accomplish anything in the parts of life that actually matter?
Fucking hell, this party/hookup culture has you undergrads all kinds of fucked up in the head, doesn't it?