Fat Wives

>>38312080
Both men and bitches gain weight after marraige.
People get complacent because of the lack of competition.
Bitches just put on weight more easily and age atrociously.

Get married after 30.

>>38312080
Complacency.

No need to stay hot if you're already secure in your relationship. It takes women a few years to realize that their husbands aren't going to or can't leave them (a common fear at first). After they realize this they're on the gravy train.

That, and pregnancy, during which average weight gain is about 30lbs. If they're not used to working out beforehand then they likely won't when the going gets tough after birthing a needy clingy newborn.

once they get married who have they got to impress?

>>38312094
30m, married 3 years...I lost weight after marriage...about 15lbs kept off so far, more to come

>>38312080

Apparently pierce likes his women high test. She said in an interview that she told Pierce constantly she would be happy to lose weight and he told her not to touch a gym, that he liked her size.

>>38312125
Does your bitch get jealous?

>>38312080
>2016
>Getting married
Pleb cuck giving half his stuff to some slut

>>38312080
Getting married has no benefit for guys.
>get divorce woman takes half your shit for doing nothing
I live in a shitty state where living with someone for 7 years the state considers you married.

>>38312174
>I live in a shitty state where living with someone for 7 years the state considers you married.
then don't admit it. if you dont want to get fucked in the ass by some dick sucking girl politician who purposed the bill then go arround it

>>38312080
>friend got married last year
>wife was an 8/10 a Alt chick
>get married in spring
>winter comes round and she has gained 50 pounds
>doesn't fit anything she owns
>doesn't cook healthy anymore
>doesn't run anymore
> says "you didn't marry me just for my looks right?"
> he doesn't want to fuck her. She hurts his lap every time she sits on him
>he lifts but you can see the pain in his eyes
>she went full tumblr and body positive
>now in the middle of a separation and she has gain another 20

Women, the truly shallow ones, will gain the weight because they didn't care about fitness at all. They just want to sell themselves and once they get the ring it's over.

>>38312080
wow, this thread is negative beyond words.
I've been married for four years now and my wife looks a lot fitter (and hotter) then when I first met her. we work out together three times a week and we both do our cardio seperately. I don't know why everyone on here is so negative.

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>>38312145
>She said in an interview that she told Pierce constantly she would be happy to lose weight and he told her not to touch a gym, that he liked her size.

Does that mean he's our guy?

>>38312667
>/fit/
>not /r9k/
you know that half of the people here are from this goddamn board, right ?

>>38312667
>cardio seperately
>cardio
>seperately

with whom does she do her cardio? does she ride well? or she is the queen of the amazon position?

>>38312667
wow congratulations you are not part of the vast majority of couples who do exactly what every person in this thread says they will do. fuck off.

>>38312656
This is pretty nightmarish stuff desu

why do men agree to get married? what's in it for them? tax breaks?

>>38312779
False promises of love

>>38312679
No, because he is a feeder and fatty enabler.

>>38312779
Because it's expected.
Because society doesn't see you as serious about your relationship until you do.
Because women will pressure you until you finally give in.

>>38312720
I know I shouldn't be surprised, but whenever this topic comes up it seems like the same old bullshit everytime: woman are goblins and will look like shit once they're married. why are these people so sour? what happened that made them so? But these are questions for another thread, I guess even another board.

>>38312739
she is more the submissive type so I guess if she cheats on me, she would let him fuck her doggystyle.

>>38312746
my point proven I guess?

and and to OP: yes, marriage is worth it, IF you have the girl for it. If you have to ask then I guess you don't.

>>38312751
The sad part is he is more upset she just gave up on everything. They would cook healthy meals and workout together. She just got lazy to the point it was like living in 2 different houses. He would cook for him and his kid and should would eat pizza after work with people. He would invite her running or to the gym and she would say no to go to lunch with all her married friends. The conversation would go from how was work and shared hobbies to gossip about friends and her complaints about being fat. In the end he stayed the same and she changed so much he wasn't in it anymore. >>38312667 is on point with his marriage. If your partner cares about their health and well being they will continue healthy habits regardless of relationship status. For my friend it was such a major part of his life thay when she stopped working out she stopped being apart of that major part as well.

>>38312779
In denmark you can use your wife/husbands tax deductible. If they aren't using it.

>>38312154
Nah not really...if she does she hides it well.

being married is pretty sweet. Plus when they have a ring 99% of creeps fuck off. My wife makes around 100k a year, i make 90k. You only split half of the shit you've made during the time you've been married, which is fair imho. So ill probably come out on top in case we split. We built a gym in our garage and workout together. I don't really see the downside here.

>>38313134
Lol fuck off

>>38312094
Men gain weight when theyre in the 50s and 60s, not their late 20s and 30s. The 'its baby fat' ecuse is good for 12 months, after that shes just being lazy.

>>38313157
plus, she has a dick

>>38312679
Yea but for sure you know he has some 18 yo tail on the side.

>>38312174
Common law marriage isn't recognized any more senpai

Ausfag here, defacto for 6 months = can go after your shit. Or is it 12...Can't remember for sure but think it's 6. Basically live with a bitch for a year and the rights to taking your shit are almost the same as marriage

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It always boggles my mind...
>a person gets married
>has one and the same sexual partner 'till the end of life
Well, fuck, better get fat and unattractive, especially after I get kids. My partner won't mind, r-right?

It's more common in female population than in male, though.

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She was a real qt back in the day. This is her in a clip by Huey Lewis and The News.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J08ZwySCoJ8

>>38312667

Same. My husband and I have been together for 10 years. At first he liked I was chubby. I evebtually did gain weight, then he asked me to lose weight, so I did. He took up a fit lifestyle after and so I did too. If youre with someone you love and care for and want to do your best for, I dont see why you would have to break up over her gaining weight or why it would be much of a problem. Catch it early, let her know you want her to have a healthy lifestyle, and then problem solved. The real problem in relationships that end over shit like this is lack of communication or lack of caring for the other persons concerns.

>>38313885
You know Pierce's wife who had died also gained weight, right? Pierce obviously likes them big and I do too. Sure I'm black but my skin color has nothing to do with my preferences because Pierce is a white guy who likes them big, as do I. Stop hating.

>>38313972
Most guys who bitches over their woman's weight are insensitive pricks. Your husband should ultimately love you, the all of you. Big girls are awesome.

>>38313481
not true.

>>38313134
you forgot about retirement and 401k. I know several dudes after their second marriage and they are working in their 60s that have no option to retire one is thinking about moving to mexico because of it. Fucker has learnt spanish and shit

>>38313992

Its true that most of the time they tell the women in the wrong way. My husband did use the health argument and not the sex argument. It was "Im worried Ill lose you to an early grave if you dont lose weight and I cant stand the thought of living without you" not "I think youre gross now" so it was easier for me to understand where he was coming from without anger.

However I think it was also obvious that he didnt find me as sexually attractive, and that actually did motivate me. I went from 175 in the beginning, gained to 275, lost to 150 and now Im focusing on strength. He obviously continued to think I was attractive at all my sizes, but hes definitely much more attracted to me now that Im smaller.

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>>38312080
for most species, the role of the female is to be a chooser. she is dedicating X amount of months to carrying a child so she must be picky in choosing a male worth breeding with.

males on the other hand can bust a nut and move on to the next one. spreading their seed at will every day. they are competitors. they do what they can to be suitable enough for basically any female willing to carry their offspring.

humans are no different. women shop, men sell. the big difference is socioeconomics, religion, and general home tradition dictates two parents at all times so people settle on a single mate for life.

the truth is women were never anything flashy, they will never amount to anything better than their late teens/early 20s because settling for a single mate is the end game for them. they have nothing left to work towards. they have made their choice.

men on the other hand have an instinctual drive to keep going and be the best. to outdo the competition.

for more information on love and why most relationships end in divorce, bump or look up the 7 year itch and the evolutionary theories on why we get it.

>>38312679
god they really fucked up with his bond era. he couldve been GOAT if they just wrote it better.

I will try to be fit as long as I can, diabetes and obesity run hard in my family and looking at my parents it kind of ashames me how they treat their bodies.

>>38312667
>Not realizing her cardio is riding other men's cocks

>>38314060
So as long as he supports you no matter what you do. Sorry about not responding earlier, had to make the kids breakfast.

>>38312667
Love fizzles out after like 6-9 years.
Basically you've convinced yourselves that what you are feeling is eternal love but really its just primitive instinct to stay with your partner long enough until your child is old enough (~7y/o) so that one parent, ideally the mother, can take care of them alone.

Its the reason why over half of marriages end in divorce and why we have the phrase the "the seven year itch" like >>38314127 mentioned.

Basically love is a sham and unless she brings something to the table in terms of money or benefits, you have committed one of the dumbest financial and life decisions a human male can make. Children and monogamy are supremely overrated.

No if you manage to last long enough to reach common law you can tell people you're married.

>Its like getting married but without the bullshit
>Dont lose your shit if you hate one another after 5 years
>Dont get cucked
>Dont worry about if you meet someone else
>Something to work to

Senpai, I'd rather have a girlfriend who I love than a wife I hate. If we last that long I'll marry her

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>>38312080

>>38313134

>Plus when they have a ring

Part time Uber driver here

A lot of married women take their rings off before they go into the club. It's like a ritual

And I've had one make out with a guy before getting in the car and calling her hubby to ask if the kids were asleep

Sounded like a real standup dude

>>38314477

>But anon what if she says she'll leave me or throws a hissy fit. What if I lose out on my one my soulmate because of that

Do you understand you're legitimizing her needs to have validation vs your literal freedom as well. Marry me or I'll leave you is a fucking threat not love.

Its a literal risk you're basing emotional feeling off of. I personally think you shouldnt even be able to marry someone until literally 30+, people change.

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>>38312110

>not caring about your partner enough to stay your most attractive for them

>>38314443
That's not love.
That's the childish gotta fuck erreything or eternal twu wuv thing.
It always fizzles out early in a relationship. As it's meant too.
The relationship that's left after the fire has died down, the friendship and closeness and bond that's forged in those fires of early passion and emotional closeness.
That is true love.

People who eternally chase that new relationship high are never able to commit to any kind of relationship and have been proven to be terrible parents and caregivers.

Grow up.

>>38312125
30m married 1 year. Down 50 lbs on wife's tasty but carefully portioned cooking.
> inb4 or she's poisoning you for life insurance money

>>38312155
Demand prenup. If your standing is insufficient for her to agree, don't marry her.

>>38314591

Seconded.

Adding in these are the type of idiots who you all cheat with because you think exactly this.

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>>38314591

>The relationship that's left after the fire has died down, the friendship and closeness and bond that's forged in those fires of early passion and emotional closeness. That is true love.

>>38314565
Sadly, a lot of women are incredibly narcissistic when it comes to relationships, especially if you don't regularly apply pressure on her to be the best she can

>>38312779
You only get tax breaks if your wife makes very little money herself. If you're in the game for money, you should either find a steady income woman and be entrepreneurial, or find an entrepreneurial woman and be her source of steady income. This way, when the high risk entrepreneurial stuff don't work out, you two are taxed less and can get by fine, but when the entrepreneurial stuff does work out, you don't give a fuck about taxes because you're making so much money that Obama can have his "Fuck you" check.

And honestly, making money is the secret to happiness in marriage. People who think it's about personality or physical beauty are just deluded victims of Disney cartoons (especially since with money comes the ability to afford the time and equipment to make yourself beautiful).

>>38314632
You're laughing but what he said is right. If you want to be banging a 25 for your entire life then marriage isn't for you.

Kind of funny how everyone on this board shits on women, when in reality theyre much better mentally suited for marriage. Men, on the other hand, are always horny because the species originated as the pack/alpha male sort, and we feel much more entitled to polygamy. Frankly, given the brayed of men's and women's different roles in reproduction, it makes sense.

>>38314651

Shes your girlfriend/wife of course you need to push her a bit you cuck. Tell her shes beautiful, remind her you go to work everyday for her, ask her what shes doing that she enjoys during th day. Get her to do things with you, encourage her to do shit by herself (dont start on going out with other ppl infidelity debate)

at the same time you can leave her, because of >>38314591 and knowing shes your friend first not your lover chasing an emotional high.

You're addicted at that point

>>38312679
It means he's a high test alpha male.

>>38312080
My wife lost weight after we got married and we go to the gun together
I go 5-6 times she goes 3 but its really helpped her.

>>38314731
So what do you do when you go to the gun?

>>38314477
I'd research common law marriage if you haven't. It's not what I thought it was.

>>38314632
Do you have the source video for that dog vomiting?

>>38314565
>>38314565
Fucking this.

I've worked my ass off to lose weight after both of us getting super fat together over the last three years. I look better, I fuck better, and while she claims she's joking, I can feel the insecurity whenever she asks if I would leave her for someone more attractive.

I try not to push her too hard, but left to her own devices she would just keep gaining. I'm still attracted to her, still love fucking her, but that lack of discipline eventually fucks up other parts of your life (school, money), and that's what worries me. I don't want a lazy mother teaching our future children that it's ok to not push yourself. My parents were like that with me, and it's taken me almost 30 years to get my fucking act together.

>>38314591
it has nothing to do with a new relationship high. its just the fact that after a while you do not find your significant compatible enough to be with them in that kind of a relationship.

people who stay married forever do it for these reasons and i can guarantee one or all of these reasons only:

>they are each others best friend (the best one but a different kind of love)
>stay together for the kids
>money (ironically the reason they leave the most too)
>because its too scary/complicated to start over

you'll see. once you hit maybe 8-10 years of marriage you'll get that itch to stray. you will hate everything about your wife and find that she is too god damn predictable and uninteresting and that there is nothing new left to learn about her.

you'll see man. good luck. for your sake i hope you're right for what its worth.

>>38314741

Eh more an example of something that would come to be than initiated by one or two people.

Get that feeling for love and the high out of you when you're younger or stay single and don't emotionally/financially/materialistically ruin your life for that feeling is the advice here.

>>38314679
the post he's responding to said nothing about banging young girls exclusively. it just said that people tire of their partners for instinctual reasons and that lifelong monogamy probably isn't in humans best interest at least by law.

>>38314591
>tfw gf of one year is starting to talk about how i dont show love the way i used to
fuck gurl ofc i still love you but the relationship isnt always gona be like that

>>38314804

Most of you are seeking marriage and a relationship not trying to fucking build one or find someone who actually likes you.

AND you are living for her or shes living for you, in my opinion I'd rather go out with a woman who needs me than a woman who I work tirelessly to keep around. Can you even win there, shes doing it because you go out of your way for her...not because she likes you.

>>38314759
>I try not to push her too hard
Push her, she want's you to push her. Tell her you'll leave if she gets fat. It's the truth anyways.

>>38314591 has it right. A lot of you are so bitter towards relationships that you can't even stand other people being happy like >>38312667
Why do you care so much? Ya'll need to grow up and find women who arent complete sluts or idiots. there are decent ones too, you know.

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>>38314613
#feminism

>>38314856
idk what you are even saying here now. like how this was a relevant response to me at least.

i sort of agree with the things you are saying, i just dont understand what you are arguing against anymore.

>>38314888
i only agree with it based on the children.

other than that fuck those married retards.

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>>38312656

NOPE.

>>38314632
I don't understand.

>>38314786
No. That's exactly right.
There is no such thing as a relationship that is always like the honeymoon phase. It does not exist. Never did.
I mean, damn. Most people once they realize that they know everything about each other or everything they care to learn will eventually go out and try to find a hobby or they'll go out and find things to do together.

You ARE looking for that new relationship high and are confusing it with a long lasting stable relationship.

As for straying, it happens all of the time. But, is the relationship more important then the fact that they cheated, and the cheating was simply sex or something else to do on the side, or is the cheating simply a way to leave the relationship emotionally and sexually.

>>38314919

i dunno man I just wanted to get it off my chest, the idea a majority of people dont share this opinion kind of worries me that they have no knowledge of themselves or reality.

I bet some vile little feminist would call this misogyny as well since they're so goddamn worried about being free from whatever repercussions bad decision making has.

>>38315015
If she cheats on you she put the relationship second behind the cheating. As should you.

I agreed with every single thing you said until you revealed your cuck ways.

>>38315052
I'm talking about me cheating on her, not the other way around. But sure.

Oh and I am a complete dick about cheating I'll cave a man's head in and slap the shit out of her then hatefuck/rape her half to death to show her that she was always mine before I kick her into the street if I found out my wife cheated on me.

But I digress. Compassion and understanding your own heart and theirs is how a relationship can truly flourish.
I'd like to think that she'd let me know or I would know that she was or was planning on cheating and would be able to talk her out of it or get ready to kick her out

>>38315015
ill ignore all the weird cuck shit.

i dont understand why you have this notion that your relationship is allowed to get boring af and that you are not supposed to find your SO interesting anymore? how is that healthy? why are we supposed to be content with being with someone that we tolerate more than truly enjoy their company?

if you think im trying to say "stay together for 7 years and bail," im not. im not really advocating traditional relationships at all. im saying live the way you want to and don't worry about shacking up just because its the social norm. if you find a girl who you truly love to spend time with, then spend time with her. when it ends which it likely inevitably will, you get to easily walk away and move on with your life without all the dumb mess.

i just dont see why people defend being married and that the whole "LOL its supposed to suck bro!" is just supposed to be some funny healthy way to live. its joking about something thats a problem to deflect.

its nice to find your best friend. and i think most wives are that to their husbands. but can't you be friends with someone and not complicate the whole thing just because everyone else is doing it?

>>38312080
Why? Imagine having kids, months of pregnancy and eating for two, your body becomes pile of shit.

>>38315138
and just to add

i also believe that if you do choose to be in a traditional exclusive relationship then yes, you should be mature enough to put her above all things fleeting. there's certain things like your own well-being that should go first, but other than that definitely be committed. the idea of fighting the urge to cheat everyday and then going home to your woman is a very romantic one to me. but unfortunately over a long enough timeline, it just seems meaningless when one or the other eventually caves.

and i cant imagine what the actual cheating stats are. when i was in my very early 20s i was very much into married older women and have regrettably did more than my share of assisting infidelity. i mean, for some women it was too easy and i was just an organic dildo. i used to fuck this one woman and i actually asked her why she cheated on her husband with me and she was like "i dont know, i still love him though. its just fun." like what kind of fucked up reasoning is that?? its so god damn childish and damaging to a persons self confidence.

anyway im rambling. i just find single life much easier to me. im my favorite person and i put myself before anyone else. if a girl really wow's me to the point the point where she takes that place, then maybe ill reconsider my stance on monogamy.

>>38315196
Pregnancy body isn't a fucking life sentence, dude.

>>38315196

>eating for two

I can't stand that retarded platitude. You're eating for one plus one fucking tiny fetus, it's like 100 extra kcal at most.

>>38315274
Then relationships aren't for you and you will inevitably cheat or undermine it because you both think that's what's supposed to happen and you are a coward.

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>>38315196
im not saying you need to look like the woman in pic related, but if you actually give a shit about yourself, you would put in more of an effort than defending your lack of hardwork post pregnancy.

and if you really really tried you could achieve pic related potentially.

>>38315196
>eating for two

Because a fetus could consume 2000kcal of cookies and ice cream by itself?

>>38315348
She probably did a bit of drugs, has access to trainers and knows a fuckload more about fitness then her.

>>38313980
You're giving us a bad name man.

Niggas, or anyone for that matter who are chubby chasers have no standards

>>38315339
how am i a coward exactly? because i don't want to be in a relationship? or because you think that if i was in one i'd cheat? if its the latter then you just didnt read my post. i am very much an advocate for not cheating while in a relationship despite the dumb shit i did as a kid. i think it might be one of the most selfish, immature things you can do to someone you've agreed to be committed to. the more mature thing if you really believe you cannot resist the urge to cheat would be to either seek help, talk to your significant other, or consider the possibility that you yourself are not able to maintain a relationship and walk away from it.

and you don't have to get all fired up over the thought of cheating. you can believe whatever you want. my point is that its a very real thing and i would bet most cheater have said theyd never cheat or couldn't imagine the scenario years earlier.

idk if youre the same guy who was talking about everyone in here being negative, but you sort of sound like the only salty one in the thread. maybe you regret your decision to marry and are in denial/trying to convince yourself that it was still the right thing to do? but im just busting your balls ofc.

>>38315410
>you need trainers to get fit
>you need drugs to get fit


you do need information. but as i said, you need motivation more than anything. motivation to get off the couch, motivation to open a book, motivation to step in the gym.

women have turned pregnancy into THE excuse for being fat piles of shit. i think they get dealt a shit hand by getting pregnant, but you play the hand your dealt. its just easier to make excuses than to make an effort.

>>38313167
you're either a teenager or just straight up tellin conscious lies

>>38313972
glad to hear you both are on a better track. but the truth is the real problem in relationships that end over shit like this is the individuals to begin with. you both promote unhealthy lifestyles and that's how you both live, forever. not caring about health is preposterous no matter what your age or relationship.

>>38315196
>implying all married women have kids
>implying all married women's bodies will experience the same changes
>implying eating healthy or unhealthy doesn't matter and you will be shit after having a baby or two.
>eating for two.
please.

>>38315348
middle kid is gonna be the ugly one

>>38313167
Nigga guys gain weight same time as women, early college, when they completely change lifestyles and eating habits, and are likely drinking 5-10000 calories of alcoholic shit a week

>>38315348

My job doesn't depend on my body.

>>38312656
pretty much this. does not surprise me at all.
neither does the dude not realizing the chick has a very high chance of blowing up.
but given his position, what else would he do but break up with her?

it's about how marketable the female is for that current version of herself. they don't want a new lifestyle, they just want to dabble in new things so that they feel like their life is progressing. very similar to how females try and be in everyone's business about wonder what everyone is conversing about as they walk by.

>>38313134
i'm sorry but the ring part is very inaccurate

>>38315423
Everything in your post is dripping with fear.
You're terrified beyond words of screwing up a relationship so all relationships have to have a built in expiration date.
Why? Because deep down you are terrified of it all falling apart.

And you will eventually cheat. Not because you found a new person you loved or lusted after or because your husband is an asshole or doesn't love you as much as you thought.
But because you think you should. You think it's the right thing.

>>38315630
why should that matter, fatass?
if you care about your body you'd put in the work. not keep coming up with excuses to continue being a bumbling lard ass.

>>38315423
He's not >>38312667 that would be me. I do get his reasoning, though I'm actually with you on this. If you're good with being single then why not? Your reasoning only has to be good enough for yourself so I don't see a problem.

>>38314591
A shining example of a reasonable post in this sesspool. Good job anon

>>38315663
oh gotcha. so you're saying that i choose to not be in a committed relationship because im afraid of its inevitable demise.

thats a reasonable analysis, but i'd say its a wrong one that stems from your resentment of me for not believing in traditional relationships whereas you are like the champion of them. its not like i have this urge to want to be in a relationship but i force myself to avoid it. im very content being single and living for myself.

plus, i was just offering a biological explanation for the high divorce rates and why people cheat. its not that i fear relationships, i was just offering a possible explanation for why so many fail.

>And you will eventually cheat
i cant cheat if im not with someone.
and even if i was, like i said, id end the relationship before seeking outside intimacy. its just how i feel and how i think it should be handled if other means of working it out fail as well. and if she cheats, i guess id be kicking myself for not seeing it sooner? or for being in a relationship at all. but its not really a concern for me at this point because i truly cannot see myself pinned down in the near future. it just doesnt make sense to me on a financial and physical level. and also as i said before, if someone really WOWed me then yeah im always open to altering my views.

>>38314613
Yeah sorry, prenups really don't mean anything. Wife can say "I wanna" and the judge can say "ok" and that's pretty much it. I wish I was exaggerating, there are giant loopholes and conditions when it comes to prenups, their validity is exactly what the judge wants it to be.

>>38312145
He's just trying to bulk her to death before she divorces him and takes all his money.

>>38315797
Google prenup overturning and get a hundred lists. For example, you don't want to marry without a prenup. So she agrees to sign a prenup. So it falls to "signing under duress" which includes a specific example of "signed because figured marriage wouldn't happen without signing", overturned. I repeat: If she signs because you don't want to marry without a prenup, the prenup is invalid.

>>38315663
maybe you're afraid of being single.
what's the matter? too much of an emotional trainwreck? always need a pseudomommy to run to every time you get feelings?

>>38315196
You don't have to gain any extra weight during pregnancy other than the kid itself. Basically gaining 10lbs is enough.

>>38312080
>be 27 and get engaged
>married at 28
>wife is 5'7 / 135 high test with a ridiculous hips and ass
>i'm 6'0 / 140 skelly
>i start lifting and eating big
>wife stops doing cardio and plyometrics
>now at 31, she weighs 165
>she makes every excuse imaginable for not working out or eating right
>spends all day laying on the couch watching netflix
Just this last weekend, her friend came into town to stay with us. As soon as my wife's friend saw me (it's been about 8 months), she hugged me, grabbed my arm and said, "someone's been working out! You look strong anon" in front of my wife. Better believe that last night, my wife just ordered a bunch of shit off of nutrisystem (lol) and asked me to help her with a workout plan.

Jealousy is a powerful motivator. Just don't go too far and fuck up your relationship in the process

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>>38312667

>we both do our cardio seperately

Is this a cuck bate?

>>38315865
I have never read anything more retarded. What the fuck is wrong with the guys who came up with that.

Guys hve a girlfriend who is on the chubby side
must ask however how to get her to lose weight
she has some low self esteem isssues so no im not
gonna be savage and start calling her a fat slut and shit
shes also very good to me and i dont want to lose her
help?

>>38312174
In California it's one year

>>38314546
That makes me sad :(

>>38315951
kek

>>38316101
Sounds like marrying is no longer worth it

>>38312656
YOU THINK THATS BAD?
MY GIRLFRIENDS DAD MARRIED A SKINNY 90 LB CUTIE

TEN YEARS LATER SHE TURNS INTO A FUCKING OGRE LANDWHALE WHO DOESNT COOK / CLEAN / WORK / OR EVEN KNOW HOW TO DRIVE

WHILE THE GUY MAKES 200K A YEAR, COMES HOME EVERY DAY TO A MESSY HOUSE, UGLY FUCKING WIFE, KIDS WHO HATE HIM. WHILE HIS BROTHER MAKES THE SAME HE DOES BUT WITH A HOT WIFE AND NICER CAR


THAT IS WHAT TRUE HORROR IS ANON

>>38312155
>>38312656
>>38312174
This.

>>38312174
Don't cohabilitate with females.

>>38312667
Congrats, you found the 1/100 woman who got more attractive after marriage.

>>38314546
literally read this on trp the other day. dat u mane?

>>38313849
It has to do with motivation and patterns.
You have less of a reason to stay in shape. That doesn't mean you suddenly drop all physical activities, it just means that you're more likely to grab some take out and stay in and watch netflix with your SO. This compounds over time and changes your habits. Also, people who get married tend to have children and have to spend more time and energy on other things. Basically, getting married doesn't magically make you fat. It does, however, increase the effort required to stay in shape. Same goes for getting old. Mostly the two go hand in hand.

>>38316101
marriage throughout history was actually better than today.

>>38315791
Yes. You are afraid of a getting into a real relationship because you are afraid of it failing.

Even worse, this fear stems from both your fear of cheating and a fear that your significant other will get bored of you.
It's not always going to be roses and shit and people will cheat.
It's been a known quantity in all relationships from the beginning of time. People would have arguments or simply ignore it if they wanted the relationship to continue.

Also the reason divorce rates are so high is because the role of marriage in society has been taken apart by media and the glut of lawyers has made divorce a snap.
>>38315871
I am single.
I've been single for longer then I'd like to admit. And like you it was a choice.
But it was tough one for me.
I'm not really cut out to be a husband and father. I'm just not.
As for being an emotional trainwreck? You're right. I am. I'm fucked up in many many deep ways and there is little I can do to fix it outside of taking 9mm aspirin.
As for looking for a matronly female and laying my head on her lap and pouring my guts out...
Yeah, I could have used a woman like that when I was going through some things a long time ago. But now I'm perfectly able to bottle up my emotions and sort through them in my spare time.

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>>38314442
Dude shut the FUCK up.

>>38316592
ok so, you aggressively defend marriage while insulting someone trying to simply have a discussion with you about it. then in the same post admit that you are an emotionally unstable person that needs to bottle and sort through their emotions?

are all married people like this? because you don't really don't make a good case for it.

you can tell me i'm "afraid" all you want but its just your way of attacking me to veil your lack of reasoning/benefits for marriage in the first place which i have allowed you enough posts to do, politely i think. so since you have not, and assuredly cannot defend your shitty life choice:

go fuck yourself you retard. you have made a terrible decision based on what you thought would give you validation in your life. you got married because you lack a real purpose and a real identity. you are afraid of life and were hoping marriage would give you a reason to keep going. i pray to god you didnt have a kid. because someone as damaged as you clearly cant even take care of themselves, let alone a spouse and a child.

i bet your wife is fat and fucks niggers.

>>38316780
You idiot.

>>38316780
Holy shit you're retarded.

>>38316802
>>38316833
>>38316592
samefag

and probably not even actually married

>>38316780
This site has an unhealthy obsession with black people.

You white boys need help

>>38316314
Don't get comfortable yet, you still haven't entered the shit that is common-law marriage. Basically, if you figure that marriage is such a man-trap that even under a prenup you want nothing with it, if you live with a woman enough, it can be considered common-law marriage and you still pay half your stuff.

>>38316858
difference between niggers and blacks. hell, even blacks can turn nigger on and off sometimes.

>>38316850
No, dumbass.

>>38316833
Is not me.

Go back and read my post again.

>>38316882
nice proof samefag

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>>38312080
My wife was a 8/10 and had huge tits on a small frame (125 lbs).

After we got married she ballooned up 60 lbs and she became a miserable human being to be around.

I was embarrassed to take her to company functions and see everyone judging me based off of who I was with. Eventually I told her that I was no longer attracted to her and if we were dating I would have broken up with her by now.

I told her that she needed to get her shit together or we were finished. So far she's down 40 lbs and here's the thing, she acts more respectful to me and her attitude is 1000% better.

We can all make it bros, we just need to be honest and let each other know what our expectations are.

>>38312080

Speaking from experience. Me and my wife have a couple of reasons.


She had our daughters back to back.
I began a bulk and with her cravings it kind of spiralled out of control.
We moved from our house to a rented townhouse so now there's limited times when we can lift at home since we have wall to wall neighbors.
Also, kids just require a lot of attention so sometimes we get too tired when we both want to lift or we just don't plan our foods as good as we want.


>Tfw 5'7 165lbs 9% bf to 220lbs 30% bf


Tfw bench went up to 3plates because of dreamer bulk

>>38317240
>limited times when we can lift at home since we have wall to wall neighbors
Why is that? Do you scream like a craven animal while lifting?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TSb7OMhl7nw

>>38317350

I squat 465lbs and deadlift 525lbs so I tend to grunt like a wild animal getting bit. Also, no matter how slow I try to do it, or how many mats I set up in my garage, metal on metal still makes noise.

>>38314756
Kek

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>>38317176
Bruh...

How the fuck did you pull that off? Teach me.

I feel like if I ever said shit like that she'd get fit, stop fucking me then leave my bum ass for talking like that.

>>38319727
>she'd get fit, stop fucking me then leave my bum ass for talking like that
That's probably exactly what's happening as we speak.

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>>38317240
>Tfw 5'7 165lbs 9% bf to 220lbs 30% bf

>>38314829
Anon, you'll might end up losing her that way. Girls need different things. If you're being less affectionate and sweet, that's gonna hurt.

I'm not talking about buying her things but in general just still be romantic or remind her that you think she's wonderful/little inexpensive surprises/being sweet. She may think you're losing feelings for her.

>>38319727
Not that anon, but generally be dominant or have more power in the relationship.

Are you fit?

>>38314613
>>38314888
>>38315797
>>38315865
>>38316101
So once again, #feminism has succeeded in totally infantilizing women and victimizing men simultaneously. Sounds about right.

>>38320240
More than my wife is, but currently I'm noob in progress

>>38312679

He's pretty rad and Goldeneye was sick, so I would say yes.

>>38312656

Pro-tip:

Look at a girls mother before marrying her. Live with her first. If she legitimately gets excited about eating, then she's a fatty at heart.

>>38312779

Nothing.

Prior to 1970 you got a cook, maid, confidant, supporter, and lover.

Now you get a roommate who has the power to take 1/2 of everything at any moment she wants to.

Marriage post year 2000 is pretty silly. Expect the rates to plummet over the next 30 years.

>>38322028
I'm married, and having dual income is fantastic. So yes, women are less likely to stay at home, their "traditional role", but now they work! So it's double the money for the same mortgage payment. Plus she's my best friend, so growing old together and raising a family is a good reason to not just be girlfriend/boyfriend for 10 years and get married.

We're both software engineers though, and don't plan on having kids till we're in our late 20s if it matters.

>>38312819
you're an idiot. there is no good reason to get married.

>>38322068

Well good that you like it, but that's not what I want. Specialization is key to business in in my opinion its key to family success as well.

One not just have one person focus on the home life and one person focus on the making money part?

>>38322162
That's a good point. I guess I didn't look for a stay at home woman because I want to be a dad.

Its important that everyone has dreams and ambitions, other than "have babies, raise them, they leave, the end." Professional goals are important, and if you can both work career wise, you can both raise kids.

That being said, I don't know if having two parents that work and parent would be WORSE than or BETTER than having one work full time and one stay home full time.

Keep in mind that thanks to dishwashers and laundry machines, and modern kitchen equipment, vacuums and roombas, it doesn't take a whole day to do chores anymore. It can take 15 minutes and all of the responsibilities from the 70s that took 8 hours don't NEED someone to do them all day.

Think how we don't need to pay someone $15 an hour to take your order at a restaurant if you can order from an app on your phone.

>>38312080
Because they tend to get pregnant, and women's hormones fall off the fucking cliff at about 35, and it gets exponentially harder to stay thin

>>38316133
if she was already fat when you got together it's too late.

>>38312094
I'm 31 and in prep for a show. Wife had a baby 8 months ago, and is breastfeeding for the full year. She's dropped a little bit of weight, but you have to be careful with women going into a calorie deficit that breast feed so their milk supply doesn't drop. So slowly but steadily. What helped her was only gaining about 10 lbs during the pregnancy, and not turning into a whale. The again, both of us are really conscious about it all.

>>38322068
>girl
>software engineer
Where did you find this ultra rare unicorn? You didn't marry a tranny right? She's not a GIRLS WHO CODE XDD feminist right?

>>38321077
Basically, be better than her. Be the more attractive one but be gentle and say that you're worried about her health and the future because you don't want her sick. You can also throw in the fact that it's hard for you to be attracted to her and that sexual shit is important for relationships and if things don't change you will be forced to leave her. Don't be a dick about it though, tell her you'll encourage her, help her out and be there for her.

Either one of these two things will happen.

A) She changes

or

B) She calls you shallow, gets petty, pretends to change and doesn't. Cries, acts like a child and you leave her.

It's win win, she gets fit and you dump someone who is not fit for a good relationship.

>>38322558
Have her breasts sagged a lot? Also after the baby when does sex feel normal/does it still feel the same?

Because they don't have to. Even a fat wife can still cheat on you with a desperate chad every now and then. And even if being fat lessens her chance of getting Chad's dick then she still has you and your wage cuck cock. And what are you going to do about it? Divorce her and get divorce raped? Marriage destroys the Man's opportunity to walk away from the relationship but doesn't destroy the woman's. Women and feminism have destroyed marriage. It is not in your best interest to stay married. If a girl likes you well enough (i.e. if you are valuable enough) she will put up with being in a long term relationship with you forever.

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>>38323050
Met her in my linear algebra class during summer semester at UT Dallas. She actually knows how to program (more competent than most of her peers) and was the most attractive CS girl I ever saw.

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wife marries beta

wife is not actually sexually attracted to beta so she dgaf about keeping his balls empty

wife stuffs face with cookie dough ice cream and stops trying

beta can't do anything about it or else he'll lose his house, at least half his shit, get alimony, child support, lawyer/court fees, etc.

>2016
>marriage
you deserve eveything that comes to you

Honestly you should just develop a fat fetish in advance before you marry your future wife.

>>38312080
>/fit/ why do wives typically seem to get fat after marriage?
Why do pedophiles get so mean after you're in the van?
>Is marriage worth it?
No

>>38323226
> chad
> desperate
Get a load of this guy.

>>38314565
>Not caring about yourself to stay fit and attractive

A little self respect goes a long way. How can you respect a man who doesn't respect himself?