FEELS GENERAL > tfw stretched too much and too weak for squats

How old are you senpai?

>>38282648
soon to be 22

>>38282724
just say 21 you fucking mong

>>38282724
lmao what a fucking retard I'm 20, no friends, only ever had 1 gf (lasted 2 weeks) and I still manage to be happy as a mudslime in Sweden.

Thought from your post you were 35 or something.

>>38282639
come back here when you are 29

>>38282724
This is one of the reason why you have a hard time making friends. Not saying 'soon to be 22' but the thoughts and reason to why you said it.
Shit english and structure, sorry. Non-native and drunk.

>>38282765
what makes you happy?

>>38282780
my birthday is soon

>>38282810
Being cucked and vidya

>tfwI naturally pick up anything and within a ridiculously short amount of time, I have it down, but I would trade all that to be shredded
It's really not all it's cracked up to be. I had to start multiple businesses because I couldn't stand holding a regular job, and I'm getting tired of running my own shit too. I just want to travel all over the world for years in a super fit body with all the money I've saved and enjoy the beaches, but I can't even do that because I get bored with lifting within weeks at most.

Physical gene blessing > Jack of all trades gene blezzinga

>dropping out of high school at 14

what fucking country are you from?

>>38282810

I'm not this guy --> >>38282839

I just try to be better every day, Anon. Lifting is only a part of it. Learn some Photoshop (inb4 expensive, learn how to pirate), some video editing, a new language, literally anything that you can make progress on. I have absolutely no one that loves me except my parents, and even they are really far away and I barely talk to them.

Just go back and get your fucking high school degree and stop being a little bitch. High school is easy as taking a shit; just study on your own. Then go to college, make connections, get a job, etc. Don't fall for the "le superior NEET wagecucks btfo lmao" meme.

>>38282872
uk
i got beat up allot and i didnt handle the stress well for some reason so i stopped going, got a tutor and did construction work, i got c's in my gcse's which is more than needed for what i like doing, i know you didnt ask me to explain it but still

>>38282938
Okay, you're not a NEET, so there's at least some hope. Just get something else you can do, Anon.

>>38282902
i have qualifications and i work in construction.
im ok at connecting with people and basic socialising, i did door work and things to help with it, its just im not going to make the same type of friends you make when you are young, and im uncomfortable socialiseing the way people do at my age now

>>38282843
read the sticky

>>38283019
You've read one too many r9k posts. There's nothing special about young love. There's nothing special about the way kids make friends. It's all the fucking same. Making friends as an adult is even better in some ways.

>>38282765
Dont worry, in 5 to 10 years you mudslimes will own the entirety of Sweden

>>38283094
I meant to say "as happy as a mudslime in sweden", sorry for the confusion. I'm not a mudslime.

>tfw want to be happy
>tfw want to tell shitty people to fuck off
>tfw to afraid of being alone
>tfw would rather be mocked than be happy
>tfw I'm an asshole to people
>tfw nogf

>>38283080
when i was younger me and my friends were more dependent on each other for everything
now the friendships i make are shallow and not as satisfying
inb4 just be yourself its been this way for a long time

I'm thinking about meeting up with my ex when I house sit for someone soon, they have a pool, Jacuzzi, big ass house, I was gonna invite her over, sex her, shower with her, lay around watching movies naked with her
Is it a bad idea?

>>38283190
how do you get a girlfriend??

>>38283032
I know more about lifting than 90% of /fit/ at this point. I just get bored.

>>38283227
Sell your soul to the devil

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>Tfw broke up with my gf six months ago after sleeping with my best friend
>Left gf to try and date best friend but it didn't work out
>Haven't so much as kissed anyone since then
>Only match on Tinder was a bot
>Could've slept with another ex to at least get a rebound but had to work that night
>Tfw uni's piling up again
>Tfw journalism major and trying to find stories to build my portfolio
>Tfw I'm always so frightened by shit

fucksakes

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>>38282639

>I just want her back
>she probably doesn't even think about me
>I think about her all the time
>have to fight to not look at her snap stories.

>>38282843
I find that people who can do anything easily within a short amount of time never make it to mastering said thing. They always give up because it's "too hard"

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>tfw to intelligent, atheistic, nihilistic, and apathetic to lift

Why must my higher state of consciousness, that is correlative to my higher level of intelligence, cause me to feel more pain than the average person while I perform anaerobic exercise?

Why must my beliefs in atheism and nihilism, that are both correlative to my higher level of intelligence, cause me to be too apathetic to lift?

*sigh*

Why couldn't I have just been born stupid and american like all of you dumb meatheads?

>>38283260
>Tfw I'm always so frightened by shit

This is the root of the other problems

>>38283442
>too lazy to lift

>>38283289

You're using nostalgia as an excuse.

If she doesn't want to be with you, there's no benefit to being with her.

Doing things without benefit to yourself is self-harm. You're pissing away a very short life this way. Go nurse a cancer ward if you can't figure this out.

>tfw nobody in my family takes my lifting seriously
>they dont believe i can be a champion
>tfw me and gymbro decided to try to go to nationals in powerlifting together after first competition
>family always says i wont make it because of genetically superior athletes

I try my hardest everyday to be the best but my family still thinks its some kind of joke. What they say about genetics might be right but that wont stop me from trying, and its not like i have bad genetics

>>38283260
You're a journalism major and you're worried about your social life? Kek

>>38283432
I always find that argument to be a bad one. People like me may be good at many things, but even we have had a passion at least once in our lives. Also, since we do so many things, we tend to have favorites that we default to. Over time we end up mastering some the trades we pick up by accident. Programming was the first thing I mastered at 17.

I don't drop things because they're too hard. I was born like this, so picking up anything and learning it faster than the vast majority could ever hope to is just my natural talent. I drop things because I get bored, and it's quite the common trend for people born like this.

>>38283468

Thanks man, I really needed that dose of reality.

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>>38283505

You're gonna make it anon.

>>38283494
I see your point. I've just seen so many people that give up easily because what was once easy is now a little harder. I suppose not everyone is like that, especially in your case. But I've seen more give up than I do preservere

>>38283547
I think the ones you see give up like that are the ones who to teach themselves to be multi talented.

>>38282639
>a qt liftfu joint gym
>ATG squat
>small talk and qt says she reads SS
>too autistic to make next move
end it for me senpai

>>38283600
Maybe. But what do we know, we're just anons on a Mexican Wall Building sub forum

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Guys I'm torn between 2 relationships with 2 women

woman A

>she really loves me, cares about me, cooks for me
>we own a business together
>we are together for 5 years now
>I'm starting to grow bored of her
>our sex life is dead, she has almost no sex drive
>she has a very deep personality, we can talk about philosophy, politics, religion etc
>she is starting to go batshit crazy
>I know that she will never leave me, and that if I ever do, she will either die from depression, commit suicide, or retire as a nun to a monastery (we have plenty on my country)

Woman B

>have a huge crash on her, actually had a crush on her for few months before forming a relationship with her
>she is a 10/10 for my taste
>sex is great
>she also has a crush on me
>she is very shallow
>don't know if she would ever leave me, or cheat on me

Both women are much older than me, and they don't know about each other.

I don't know which one to dump and which one to keep, this situation makes me both depressed and anxious.

>>38283717
Keep A for the long haul but keep fucking B whenever. Why choose?

>>38283874

Because I actually feel bad for both women. Sometimes I feel like a piece of shit.

And also, I don't think I will be able to hide for very long time. Eventually they will find out about each other.

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>tfw you thought you were over her
>tfw when you are definitely not

>>38283469
fuck em, I'm rooting for you

>>38283494
You didnt master programming at 17 and i seriously doubt you are gifted at anything other than making excuses on this website

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>>38284244

>>38284355
yeah a little

>>38282639
Your stretching bullshit has already been disproven, or as you mouthbreathers refer to it as a "meme."

who cares about twenty pounds, you can increase that on your DL pretty quickly at that weight.

as for the other stuff, much worse things happen to better people. You're not special and the world isn't going to help you because you haven't hit your expected goals.

You need to sort your shit out, stop sharing your feelings so openly and learn to deal with things, aka resilience.

Nobody's going to get you out of your hole except for you.

>>38284244
I'm in the same boat as you anon. I forget about her for long periods of time, then my brain puts her in my dreams. I hurt myself today at work, but I'm going out to lift purely because it's the only thing that helps me out when it happens. We're all gonna make it.

>>38284427
Its pretty shitty, I loved and might still love the girl. Lifting always helps though. Turns an issue into progress I guess. She's part of the reason why I started. I'm just trying to make it man, I'm really trying.

>tfw cant into social interactions with women except when im drunk
>tfw make bad decisions when im drunk
>tfw dudes are more interesting and enjoyable to be around in general but i cant make myself atracted to em
>tfw no gf
>tfw working shitty job to have money while all my classmates leech of their roch parents

>>38282639
Tfw 2 plate bench but can't do a chin up

>>38284555
Rich*

>>38284507
Anon, if I can make progress towards making it, so can you. I'm a 300 lb obese man trying to get to 180. You got this.

>>38284573
How fucking fat are you? jesus christ. You gotta cut bro

>>38284584
6'3 205. I cut from 250. I swear pushing is just easier than pulling

>>38284581
Thanks man, I'm just a little torn up at the moment. I hope you're making some progress

>>38284422
thanks, that helped me a little. not op

>>38283717
Keep A, sex life is dying because you're not taking her as a man.

Just fuck her, even if she says no.

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>tfw a girl likes you

>>38282639
M8 you gotta use these feels as fuel to rise above. You need to win and succeed.

>Girl likes me
>Told me she propably got herpes
>Can't handle with the feeling that I also could get herpes from her
>Stop dating her

Now only have a girl that likes to snapchat with me. I flirt with her and she flirts back, but she has a boyfriend.

Another girl I also have on snapchat told me she would let me fuck her. Problem is that she is crazy. Has mental issues.

Fuck man why can't I have a girl that hasn't got big issues ?

Seeing almost everyone your age have a better life than you do is tough, I know that feel..

Point of advice: you're 21. I'm well into my 24 year. I thought I wasn't going anymore at 21 but now I regret that. You're still young but not for long anymore.

>>38286713
Youre picky, id kill to get to fuck a girl even if she has mental issues

I have a good feel for a change.

> Tfw you think you are 5"8 manlet for a couple of years.

Thanks /fit/

> Tfw you fucked up your conversions from metric and you're actually 5"11

Feels good.

>>38286799
it's propably because of the "rule" that I read a lot on /fit/

"Never put your dick in crazy"

Sex is fun, but I want to have sex with a girl that really loves me. Makes me happier.

>>38286805
>below 6'0
still a manlet

>>38286816
Well its true but at some point when girls just arent avaliable you kind of need to make an exception

I like how it seems wanting to find love and get laid is the one thing that ties most guys (both on and off /fit/) together

>>38286823
Yes, but now I'm the King instead of the jester.

>>38286845
>tfw prince of manlets
a-at least i'm royalty right?

>>38286830

I understand your thought. Having nothing and somebody offers it, why not accept it ?
I've got no problem with this thought. I really understand it.

For me it's kind of unrewarding. If a girljust offers it out of nowhere. Its like getting a free coca cola from a random person off the street.

>>38286881
Yeah exactly
Id jump on any girl who isnt fat at this point, havent busted a nut in way too long but girls dont really offer and most (all?) got boyfriends
The dating market is really unbalanced

>>38286897

I understand you man. Keep flirting with enough girls. Rejection isn't that awful as you believe it is.

good luck in finding a girl that wants to fuck you.

>>38283260
>journalism major
You're field is dying and a joke. No one takes anything that is written as truth anymore because of how biased all journalists are and they won't even attempt to hide it. Make like a starving artist and hang yourself.

I've already messed up a bit at my job.

I'm starting to bulk? Not really, Just going to cut down on lifting and run more. Maybe in the fall I want to learn to swim.

>>38287023
why would you wait until its cold out to learn how to swim

>>38286866
At least you're not this fella >>38280747

>>38283442
I never come here but I'm sensing a copy pasta, am I right?

>28
>fill all free time with video games
>want to stop, realize I haven't not because video games are great, but because the view on the other side scares me

>>38282639
its called social darwinism your genes arent good enough to be spread

>>38287102
Sadly this is true
Fat people are having kids, stupid people are having kids because they are best suited to reproduce in the enviourment we created
Humanity is doomed

>>38283917
You sound like the type to play it safe, so it'd probably be in your best interest to go with A. That being said, if you feel like the relationship is dead, don't stick around.

>>38283469
>genetics

NIGGER THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS IS HOW MUCH WEIGHT YOU CAN PUT ON THE BAR AND LIFT

STOP BEING A FUCKING BETA AND GO WIN FAGGOT

>>38284622
You're just fat.

>>38286816
I put my dick in crazy but it ended up fizzling and we went out separate ways. Not every relationship ends in a psychotic bitch tracking you down and killing you.

>>38283717
A

sex life can be improved

B is just a crush and will just leave you at some point in the future. Women don't like being chased, contrary to belief

>>38282902
bror
https://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim

>>38287847
>sex life can be improved
not him but
if you seek out sex attention somewhere else
there is clearly something wrong in your relationship

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>>38282639
>10 years ago
>was top amateur fighter
>coach always talked about me going pro when I graduate
>had a lot of injuries
>ridiculous recovery times

>this week
>finally got back into the ring
>lost to a rookie

guess it's too late for me after all

>>38282765
Det är för att du får 20 k skattefritt utan att jobba :^)

>tfw 27 and feel like I'm wasting my life
>work full time, trying to go to school
>fucked up last semester so bad I'm not even sure it's worth it to go back
>was feeling good on antidepressant but I quit taking them
>thought I didn't need it anymore, but the depression and anxiety is back and just short of crippling
>nothing makes me happy anymore
>suicide is becoming more and more of an option as time goes by.

I'm fucked, /fit/

>>38289414
MMA?

>tfw just saw a picture of your ex and her new husband
>tfw you didn't feel any emotion seeing it


I knew I was over her. I'm just glad to have the reinforcement from that. Time to break some new PRs

>mfw looking through your pants
>mfw there's a small note in it
>something funnie is written on it with her name and a heart
>mfw i didn't notice that she put a piece of paper in my pants pockets
>mfw yesterday was the last time i'll ever see her again
it fucking sucks

i know i'm naive but i don't know how anyone can be that unhappy. it always seems to stem from fear or lack of socializing, which i suppose would suggest poor self image or lack of confidence. if you're that scared of people then just say fuck what they think, find something you're passionate about, and pursue that with everything you've got. find a passion and give it 100%. that's the key to happiness. everything else will fall into place.

>afraid of being loved
>cant handle compliments so i always respond with sarcasm and bad jokes
>puny strength due to lack of discipline for all the years ive been lifting
>hate myself
>might have schizoid paranoia but too afraid to get it checked

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>>38289595
>found something i'm super passionate about and that i want to give 100% at
>tfw it's dancing and i need a partner

>>38282639
OP I'm 22 as well and I had this shittiest day fucking ever yesterday

> There is this dream job/apprenticeship with this company that only hires once every 4 years
> Rare job, hard to get into if you dont know someone
> Submit resume over a year ago, they say they will keep it on file
> call them in january and a few other times to make sure they dont forget me
> they say resubmit resume around August this year
> I submit another in july just to be sure I get it in on time
> call early august asking about the position
> they say they have filled the positions already
> I say I submitted my resume nearly a year ago as well and called them periodically and that they should still have it. This was just a resubmit
> they say they only tend to keep resumes on file for 6 months or so as most people lose interest after 6 months, sorry
> I politely thanked them and then went and cried

now I'm stuck doing stuff that I don't like. I'll probably never get that job desu :(

>>38289503
>dreamed about childhood love
>legitemaly cry out after waking up
I'm not trying to be emontional faggot but I've been dreaming about her for solid 2 years every week. How is this possible???

>>38282639
You need therapy bro.

Anyone else here feel like it's just easier to be alone? I'm not the best at socializing but I can do it. But in the end I usually just prefer to be alone

>>38290118
not really no
well depends desu
somehow i manage to feel much better when im doing stuff with a girl i like than doing stuff with friends

>>38289414
How long have you been in recovery? What kind of injuries were they?

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>>38282747

>>38286805
More good feels lads
>Go out to club
>Friend hooks up with qt Korean
>Have a party a few weeks later
>He invites her and she brings her friends
>One of them is really into me
>Few nights later she says she wants to be friends
Had sex with her the next day, have I made it guys?

> co-worker is 3/10, 27yo
> announces he's getting married
> announces he's having kids
> has no idea of the trap he has fallen into
> see his wife
> hamplanet

poor guy has no chance

>too afraid to kys

Damnit

>>38282724
You have literally just started your adult life. If you told that story at the age of 35 I might have a different opinion, you just need to man up and fix your shit.

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>>38283442
>implying intelligence and physical aptitude are mutually exclusive
>implying nihilism correlates to intellgence
>implying you're not just a dumb, lazy cunt who knows big words
>implying I don't take b8

>>38282838
Those are some pretty cool numberydoos you got there

>>38283469
This is literally gods way of testing you if you want it bad enough. Use that as motivation and prove them wrong. It is one of the most satisfying and indescribable feeling when you do something others say you can't. Makes it worth it 10 fold

>>38286881
I never really understood why guys go for any girl. Do you guys not have standards and just go for any warm hole like an animal or beast?
Inb4
white knight,
"we are animals BRO"

This BRO culture of fucking any girl is disgusting. Shows that you have no self respect for your body and who you share it with. I'm ready for the hate but I know there are a rare few of you that agree with me on this. And I've been with girls where even other girls come up to me and say good job

>>38290538
i agree
ive worked my way up from fatty, to normal, to /fit/ girl and eventhough i couldve, i never took the opportunity to fuck every girl there was

i choose my girls very carefully
and so far i have always upgraded from a characteristical and physical standpoint