How does it feel to have women be attracted to you?

Good.

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>>38061900

>>38061880
she wants to be around you all the time.
good at first then, so annoying

>>38061880
>>38061900
>>38061926
fuckin kek

>>38061880
Overrated. Most of the time they are not really attracted to you but to the expectations of how a relationship with you would be. If those mental images are not fulfilled, you are a bonnet. Women think different.

>>38061880
Pretty cool, I guess. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

>>38061965
Gonner. Fucking phone

Fucking annoying if you're not into her.

t. guy who always attracts the ones he doesn't like

>>38061965
>you are a bonnet

lmao

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It brightens your day, like having received good news yesterday and you're still riding the same high.

>>38061998
>tfw ugly girl with no education, sense of humour or goals is into me
>tfw don't want to hurt her by telling her to fuck off
>years of being fat and ignored have made me sensitive

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>>38061965
>you are a bonnet

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>tfw only ugly girls like you

>>38061965

>you are a bonnet

This hit me like a fucking truck for some reason.

>... a kek lurks in the depths below...

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>>38061880
It's a bitter sweet feeling. I've smashed over 40+ chicks, Older than most you kids here but the quality of females has definitely improved since lifting.

As of right now I have 2 legit 9's that I'm playing against each other. Have fukd both of them, one is ex the othe I have no labels for but they both know that they're after me and they're both competing for the dick. It's a good feeling to know that you have two really hot cutie foxes craving for your approval & love but the bad feeling is that I'm prone to catching feels so that's a slippery slope down shit alley.

Do not fall in love with anyone besides the "One" - Smash pals will come & go but the "One" remains.

>>38061965
True

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>Girl likes me
>She's kind of unattractive
>I've been with way better looking girls
>Cannot get her out of my mind

What the fuck is this, brehs. Is it all these years of loneliness that have made me desperate? Should I go for her? Will I lose my gains? Help

>>38061880
Their feminine energy replenishes you.

It's like having a dog that you can talk to.

Their naivety allows them to be happy and bubbly in a unique way. If they respect you properly their love will be like a dog's. Unconditional love and respect. They are happy to see you and do not want you to leave.

I love hearing her ramble about stupid shit that makes her happy. Feminine chatter is dumb but it's fun.
Don't just get a girl because. The ones that feel clingy are good-despite what you've been lead to believe. Every girl is crazy- make sure it's a good kind of crazy.

Do not fall for a woman that loves like a cat. Uncaring, devoid of respect, and unilaterally (you pet her, but she never pets you)
That's my opinion based off of the many successful marriages I've seen from people much older-and the failing relationships I've witnessed- and my own happiness.

>>38061880
Its nice, but you'll fuck shit up the first couple of times if you're not used to it, trust me.

>>38061965
Yup, one girl was hitting on me in the Gym, once we talked for a few days she lost all interest in me. Hold me bros...

>>38061965
girls are not attracted to men, they are attracted to distorted memes of masculinity

For once girl I actually like seems to like me back.

Fuck it up by being spilling spaghetti everywhere.

>>38062010
Depends on the girl I find.

Sometimes I just feel kind of guilty that I'm only really after them for convenience to end a dry spell of something

>>38062088
Dont be shallow. Protip: ugly girls compensate by giving a 110%. Go for it or someone is going to do it before you and you'll be a miserable cuck.

>>38061880
Awkward

>>38062088
Breh love isn't just about looks, its about your guys personalities if that shit ain't meshing it's never gonna work. Id say go for it, so what if she isn't the hottest you've been with but you'll thank me later when you have a really healthy relationship with her.

>>38062133
She just wasn't the right grill for you. She would have ended cheating on you. It was for the best. Keep focused bro

>>38062105
>tfw was chasing a crush that reminded me of a cat
>never initiated conversation and generally looked miserable all the time
>even when sat with her friends at lunch
>strike up a conversation
>she literally does nothing all day, no books, no movies/shows, no /fit/ and barely even eats
>one-itis curse instantly shatters

Downside is, i find it hard to tap into *that* energy during deadlifts.

>>38062170
Women don't pursue hobbies just for fun like we do. Everything they do has to do with being in a relationship. Everything. It's a different mental state.

>>38062118

Yeap. Lol no big deal tho. You might screw up the first couple of opportunities, but you're good-looking, so they keep coming.

I went from average in high school to ridiculous now and definitely did not know how to handle all the attention at first. Now I understand what it's like being a girl who is a dime and gets oogled every time she goes in public. Same shit for me except girls look at me like I'm a piece of meat. Feels weird but good man. better than the alternative of having no one notice you

its awkward when you're into guys. still flattering though

>>38062193
I don't know much about women, i'll admit. But i'm sure there are plenty out there that are similar to us (granted, i personally only know 1 of them). The rest of the girls i know are like cats.

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>>38061880
Put your finger on the inside of your cheek, that is what it feels like.

>>38062209
You're gay? I don't know any gaybros, can you give me a quick perspective?

Confusing because I hate myself and can't see how anyone likes me
Also it's never a girl that I like back

>>38062222
sure, perspective on what?

>>38062215
I agree with you tho, there most be some around. I've never meet anyone and I'm an oldfag, I'm not saying it from a r9k point of view. I'm just sort of convinced that they aproach life in a different way.

>>38061880
It feels like a bag of milk and salty coins

>>38062238
Being attracted to a male seems to alien to me. Don't get me wrong, i appreciate beauty in everything, so a good looking guy will catch my attention but only because i'm trying to make notes for my own appearance.

However, i masturbate prolifically to shemales.

>>38062205

same guy here-

until you find a qt that you want to hang out with and she's like "i just want you to treat me like your little fuck doll" and shit like that. but in your mind you're like, "b-but i don't want to treat you like that :( "

You want to find a qt and treat her well, but they don't want that themselves. It's weird. They want to be fucked like ragdolls and then tossed aside. ??? Does not compute with the male psychi. Maybe thats just the slutty ones; I'm hoping to find a qt who wants a nice balance of both rough and soft cuddly sex and wants me to treat her well, because thats what I want to do. And as men we have to wade through this mire of swampy sluts to find our gentle dove on dry land

>>38061880
stop reminding me of her damnit

>>38062193
Breh, it's just not the same. They'll be good at something out of circumstances. They don't pursue it. It is either fed to them or forced on them.

Girls have to give a fuck and be political to make it.

They are dependant

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>>38062279
Although the wording makes you sound like a supreme gentleman, I agree with your post

>>38062273
buddy I'm still not quite sure what you want to know but I get the same with women, I'll appreciate or even check out a beautiful girl but it's not attraction. But when it's an attractive guy I get sexual attraction butterflies and general lose-my-shit mode type instincts.

fap to whatever you want

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>tfw it's like pulling teeth to get a girl to go out with me
>in the chance they do it's like they want to be somewhere else, or just didn't want to say no

>>38062279
It's like that, for sure.

They want someone who has enough pull to not need them. The more damaged, the more intense.


You'll find a balance in a woman. Don't expect her to have it all right at once. Have a girl with good mental potential and grow/teach her afterwards.


Mine started out extremely dependant/depressed with abandonment issues.


I attracted her with my nofux attitude and similar love for animals. After that I kept her on the hook with exciting physical contact and fun adventures/surprise dates. Slowly and spaced our time apart and set boundaries for alone time and helped her make friends and socialize.


>Flirting and attracting a woman is a game of emotional strategy where you can always contradict your previous move so long as it builds energy

Understand this concept and you will go far with women.

> white guy problems

Kek. Betas

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>>38062163
>>38062141
Thanks brehs I'll do it

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>>38062306
Are arabs pretty much universally autistic?

>>38061880
Do this right now:

1. Get a haircut by a hairstylist - 60$
2. Get some skinny/slim (depending on your t-rexness) black jeans
3. A nice button up
4. Some nice leather boots
5. Go out

Congrats someone will find you attractive

>>38062434
In general it's mostly their lack of self awareness

>>38062434

not him but i thought that shit was hilarious

>114 likes
fucking kek

I feel nothing.

If you say it feels good, you'll lose your vibe around her and she'll stop being attracted.

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It's a abstract kind of hell

>get rid of acne
>stop being a skelligton and get /fit/
>stop wearing autistic clothes and shoes
>get a trendy hair cut

lack of social skills
lack of friends

girls almost immediately sense there is something amiss about me

>>38062359

why doing all of this stuff?, so she can realize she is a qt and go with extremechad?,


thats wasting time, sex and love are aside but they're not friends just like my balls

>>38062627

well yeah no shit. people judge you by your looks.

looks like he has it together = probably has it together

I swear some of you LIKE being socially crippled. You LIKE feeling sorry for yourself. Because if you fixed everything and found a girl and lived happily ever after, then the story would be over. But you want your story to keep going.

>>38061880
Female attention is the most addictive drug known to mankind, you feel like a fucking god when qt grills are spilling their spaghetti over you

>>38062273
>Talk to an attractive guy
>Get anxious (thinking about appearance, what I'm saying, etc.)
It's hell. I can talk to girls all day and could care less (not couldn't care less) about how I present myself, especially if we're friends.

>>38062141
lol very few girls think they're ugly
girls literally have support groupchats where they thirst over each others nudes before they send them to guys

most girls live in a self-confidence boosting bubble

Feels like you have a little bit of power in the world where people worship pussy

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>>38062133
I know that feel
>tfw dozens of grills have wanted my dick because I'm handsome
>tfw most of them have rapidly lost interest in me upon talking to me

>>38062989
Maybe not ugly, but not top of the food chain.

>>38063105
Didn't know this was such a common thing. My fwb was showing me her group chat that was filled with literally hundreds of nudes/lingerie pics of her and her friends.

Thought it was weird

>>38063213

It is weird.

>>38063022
that happens to me sometimes, I think if I fail to make them laugh in the first talk they lose interest.

>>38061953
This

>>38063213
Girls don't have much of a nudity taboo compared to men, a side effect of shit like how they get changed together

My ex gf tried to send a post-sex selfie to her BFF once, weirded me the fuck out

>>38062088
I've slept with a lot of pretty good loking girls.
The girl I loved more than anyone of them, and still love years after to this day, is one of the uglier girls Ive slept with.
>no tits
>meh ass
>short chubby body
>ok face

Its her laugh and smile. I love making her happy and I loved how much she loved me. She was OBSESSED with me. I'd bang her, tell her we cant date, then bang more girls and tell her about it. Shestill stuck around because she loved me. She would always be there for me.

Then we started dating and that all changed. Immediately became cold and uncaring. She no longer idolized me and lost most interest. I began treating her good, better than I treated any other ex, but she still lost interest.

She said I was an amazing boyfriend but im just not what she wants

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22 yo kv, lost 60 lbs and attracted a girl for the first time in my entire life. dropped the ball hard

>go to bro's house for his family get-together
>his cousin (26) approaches me
>compliments me on stuff, makes jokes, brings me food, gives me special attention
>play pool with her
>touches my hand when she hands me the cue, tries to impress me with stuff about herself, asks about where I live and how many rooommates I have and shit
>she gets super nervous the longer the night goes on
>screws up her shots and gets flustered, blushes, and blames it on me in a shaky voice
>end of night nears
>shaking hands with people, she runs up and gives me a high-five
>still in handshake mode, accidentally interlace fingers and squeeze
>hold girl's hand for first time in life
>drop spaghetti, gtfo as fast as possible
>bro's dad and aunt (her mom) whispering and smiling at me
>horrible self-esteem left over from obesity days
>think there's no possible way she could like me
>brain thinks she was just being polite

fast forward a few weeks
>go to bro's bbq
>cousin is there again
>she tries teasing me
>ignore her because of mindset I'm stuck in
>attention intensifies
>think she's literally making fun of me because no experience with girls
>end up blowering her off the entire night

next time I saw all of them, my bro's mom and the aunt gave me pissed looks. my bro got really upset (didn't know about my situation) and said she has rock-bottom self-esteem and was head-over-heels for me when we first met. apparently she sobbed for a really long time after that because she thought I rejected her. ended up finding out she has an instagram and noticed a sad pattern. in all of her pictures the day after the bbq, she starting looking down at the ground or away from the camera, or just won't smile.

I felt so fucking horrible.. oh well. I've gotten a lot better since then and squashed this awful mindset I had, confidence has soared. that's how you get better.. fuck up and learn from it

>>38061880
It's really annoying. I don't like people, and they're even worse.

Satisfying.
Also means ya can send out dick pics and get tna in return.

>>38062912
I don't want to be married to an incomplete person. I helped her grow and she adores me for it.

>>38063331
quick question: was she attractive and/or intresting?

I'm just wondering why you didn't ask your bro for his cousin's number when the gatherings were over and you realized that you spaghettied hard

>>38063312
Fuck, why?

>get /fit/
>girls miring every time I go out
>still an autistic loser

Hopefully I will level up soon. At least girls smile at me now

>>38061880
It sucks because they're all ugly and dumb which would in turn imply that I'm ugly and dumb.

>>38063331
boo hoo, a woman is sad publicly. we better recruit all the necessary resources to right this wrong

>>38063649
Ofc not else she wouldn't be attracted to his autistic ass

>>38063823

Wew iktfb

Couple of girls actually (almost) openly approached me, girls autists here would find 7-9s, but I sperged it.

Realised I was gay about 9 months later after getting rejected by a 10 I would've married in a heartbeat and sobbing over it for 5 months.

>>38062437
>black skinnys
>leather boots
>button up
Texasfag here, I hope you like cocks ya queer.

if only I was handsome

always called "cute", noone wants to fuck cute.

>>38064010
Fellow texasfag where you at

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>>38063945

>>38063312
One of my oneitis was a like that girl except lanklet instead of chubby.
Her smile was glorious, a smile capable of melting a heart.
The last time i saw her she said: we should hang out some time.
She also had one kid and was musliim, so i did not made any move but still...her smile....

>>38064032
Austin/ san marcos txstate rec is my gym you?

How do I become at ease with strangers? Unless I know a person for a while I just don't feel at ease around them, which means I rarely meet new people successfully

>>38063649
6/10, pretty boring (at the time I saw her as 8/10). I've learned that most girls are tho, unless their bf's pound interesting hobbies or skills into them with their penis.

for well-adjusted adults asking for the digits is common sense. from the lens of someone who was a gelatinous shut-in with abyssal levels of self confidence since childhood, attraction from a female did not compute and I rationalized it away. oh well, onto the next one lol.

>>38063929
lmao m8, I used to care but now that I've attracted more of them and gotten the hang of teasing & flirting idgaf. they are not special snowflakes and many of them are interchangeable with one another, some downright disgusting in how easily they will cheat or shop for other guys to fuck behind their bf/husband's backs.

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>>38062359

>I attracted her with my nofux attitude and similar love for animals

Are you the green man?

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>>38063331

You could easily salvage that you moron.

Just ask your bro for her number ffs.

Then ask her if she wants to do some stupid shit with you like a summer/street fair, local music event, walk along the pier etc.

Just something during the day with other people around so not all the focus is on your shocking lack of social skills.

Then literally all you have to do is ask her questions. Not lame shit like "what is your favorite color" but about things she has mentioned in previous conversations

Then see where it goes from there.

Worst case she will be polite and say no thanks and you will feel a little bit shitty for a few days but at least you will know that you did your best not to be a beta autist.

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>tfw only fat and ugly women show outward, obvious attraction to you

It's like they don't even know I'm out of their league.

Social media was a mistake

>>38064069
Why didn't you make a move

>>38063312
>>38063771
She wants to be cucked, obviously.

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>tfw no gf

uhh .. validating .. i guess?

when its a hungry gaze my penis tingles a bit too.

when its the kind of one where you both lock eyes for like 15 seconds staring at each other you get a bit of an endorphin rush.

the best bit is the reality of the situation sometimes i.e.

watching girls go from obviously physically attracted -> less attracted after talking to you.

ahahahha. that shit just happens though, sometimes there's no chemistry.

>>38062437
Go out where?

How will I know they are attracted to me? How do I get a gf from this

Tbh it can get annoying

>>38061880
Pretty good
>tfw former Fatty
>tfw dropped 100pounds in a little under a year
>tfw 6'4 235 20years old
>tfw was 290 but dropped to 190 then bulked up
>tfw still think you look like shit despite somehow pulling decent bitches
>tfw been going out with qt 5'5 blonde hair blue eyed girl with a nice ass and tits
>tfw she has a great personality and is very hard working
>tfw used to fucking tinder sluts
>tfw she's so into me
>always grabbing my arms and saying how "buff" I am
>tfw hung out twice
>tfw went bowling with her and her sister and friend
>tfw she askes me to talk to her
>tfw she puts my hands on her wast and we kiss
>tfw after kissing I'm just standing there looking down into her pretty blue eyes
Goddamn it Bros I think I like her
>next time we hang out when I see her in going to hug her and pick her up then kiss her
God I can't wait till she comes over again so I can fuck her brehs

I know it's not much but I missed out on my highschool years and well I really haven't felt this way towards a girl in a while brehs... Save me please

>>38061880
I hate the expectation that comes with it.

>>38064099
>Unless I know a person for a while I just don't feel at ease around them

That's how pretty much everyone feels except big extroverts maybe. Of course you are going to be a little uncomfortable around people you never met before, the trick is to pretend. Pretend that you enjoy yourself, treat everyone like your long time friend. Once new people start to warm up to you it's easy from there on

>>38064528
Enjoy it anon, but know that female affection is a drug. Don't get too attached, and don't pay too high of a price.

Touch her butt for me

>>38064285

No its just that they don't have anything to lose, so they just wing it

If she's a fatty or unattractive, then its kind of insulting since she thinks you're on her level in terms of attainability.

>>38064553
I guess that's the next thing I'll need to learn. How to show I'm enjoying myself. I'm pretty happy and enjoy my life but I turn sour whenever I'm with new people. I guess I should just pretend until I don't have to

>>38064556
Ohhh I know breh I've gotten attached before and it was horrible... And will do anon I'll touch her butt for you...

>tfw bowling tfw those shirts she is wearing god damn it breh thanks for reminding me

>>38064651
Shorts*** fucking phone

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>>38061965
mfw my family name is Bonnet

>>38061880
feels pretty good pepe.

Seriously though if you fucks have such a hard time talking to girls, get an OKcupid account or something.

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>>38062961
>tfw bi
>anxious when talking with females
>anxious when with males
>life is suffering

>>38062434
>>38062458
>>38062306
Most arabs or arabic descended people I've met are deplorable douchebags who have some sort of sense of entitlement. Worse than your typical junior highschooler chad.

>>38064752
I'm too anxious

>>38063331
>think there's no possible way she could like me
>brain thinks she was just being polite
Worst feel

>>38064781
To be fair you likely meet the ones who are rich and entitled and able to leave their home country. I.e. Chads.

>>38064194
Can't stand that green turd.

He pretends to give fux about anima- but really he just needs something to help with his abysmal self-esteem

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>>38061965
>tfw when a bonnet

>>38061965
>>38064671
>Bonnet: unfulfiller of mental images

>>38064651
breh

>tfw 6'4 220lb lean
>tfw no gf

>>38066011
Yeha breh

>>38061880
Getting called handsome by every girl you know gets tiring after a while. It feels good but it also feels almost pointless after a certain point.

If a random girl thinks you're good looking, well, that makes you happy for the rest of the day.

>>38064010
>>38064032

Oh great, Texas fags are gonna meet uo

>>38062193
I know a girl that meditates and is one of the most self aware people I know. She's all about self improvement, and she pursues her hobbies with a passion. Women are individuals too.

>>38066167
I'm 6'4 200lbs and sort of lean. Aiming for 20 more pounds of muscle so you've reached my goal at least, that's something.

How do you stop being a fuck boy?

I think I am a fuck boy. This is when I'm nowhere near bf material but I look good n fuck good right? How the fuck do I stop being a fuck boy? It's like, I'm fucking a 19 year old and a 23 year old. The 23 year old is absolutely enthralled by my dick but she's left the city for work. The 19 year old squirts all over me when I eat her out n begs me to put my dick in her. I get several tits or lips snapchats a day if she's free so that I go to hers.

If I ever go on a date with someone my age who's looking for commitment, I don't even get to second date.

I'm a 26 year old fuck boy.

>>38066321
You're a feminine homosexual who gets dick in the ass?

Dude, you can't stop being that. That's kind of genetic.
Sorry bruh.
You're forever a fuckboy.

>>38066318
ive been 6'4 250lb lean man, its never enough, havent had a qt GF at any bf% or any amount of muscle

>>38066340

I thought a fuck boy was basically like a permanent-fwb tier guy. Only good for sex..

>>38066345
Nope.

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>>38066348

>>38066345
Fuckboy is a guy that dates a girl solely for sex. It's used to describe losers, perma virgins and men that are generally disliked by most women.

>>38061880
>>38061880
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR_9Yw

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>>38061965
Fucking this.

That's why I go for girls I have been friends with for a while. Totally worth the awkwardness of the breakup in the friend group afterwards.

>>38064031
I do anon.

>>38066367
Nope. It's gay slang for a bottom.

>>38062348
>tfw you start to realize you're on a pity date
Literally the worst

>>38066367

Hm so what am I then?

I'm like permanent fwb tier. I need to up my social standing, I guess.

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It's happened off and on for me a lot

When it happens, my ego becomes massively inflated, I become quickly annoyed with the girl who is attracted to me and think I can do way better

As soon as it wears off, my ego is crushed, I think no one will ever love me and become desperate for any kind of female attention

There is no middle ground

>>38066431
Play hard to get and seem to be more valuable

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>>38066452
The worse is when the interest comes back months after because you remember small details you liked but forgot how bad she actually was.

Maybe you're lucky and she still likes you and you can bang her from time to time without constraints.

>>38062279
>Gentle dove on dry land
Mate that's the best kek I've had all day.

>>38061965
Guys, guys,

I don't even lift.
Am I bonnet?
Is it all bonnet?
;_;

>>38061880
I wish all you bros who lift to get a gf could get a trial one for a week or so just so you could see how worthless they are.
Bitches only serve to feed your ego and should not be taken seriously in any matter.

I come to /fit/ and read The Red Pill daily, but I still don't have a gf.

WHAT THE FUCK AM I DOING WRONG!?

>>38062434
>Arabs

Kind of a good and bad thing

You can frustrate yourself by not knowing how to properly pull the occasional hottie who gives you signals

I'm not a social autist but it takes a lot for me to go on the offensive, it's gotten better with time though

>>38062306
>114 people like this

>>38062989
maybe normie pleb trash girls, but there are girls out there who don't have an ego the size of their #squatted ass.

>>38067211
>I come to /fit/ and read The Red Pill daily
There's your problem famalam

But at least you got dubs.

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>This whole thread

>>38061880
confusing. For the record i'm slightly tall, pretty fit, slightly good facial aesthetics but nothing great.

I have a pretty attractive gf, get told by male friends Im very attractive, get told by female friends "If you were single you could hook up with so many girls", get occasionally flirted with or felt up at my job (security at a bar), fucked a legit 9.9/10 (in my opinion) once and generally have a track record of getting with girls that are above my league. Have had LOTS of compliments from middle-aged women and gay men, but what young adult hasnt.

Despite all this I don't really see it, I don't really feel attractive. I feel like the sorta stuff that happens to me could happen to anyone my age (22) in my position. Once in a while a girl might be upfront and say they wanna fuck me or wish I was single, but I feel like that's just something most normie guys go through. I dont really have women throwing themselves at me like everything seems to think I do. I really don't know if im attractive or just a typical 22 year old male in decent shape

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>>38061965
Really though, this guy gets it. I've had girls express interest in me, hang out a few times, suddenly change their mind, and then boom. I'm a bonnet.

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>>38061965
>you are a bonnet
What did he mean by this

>>38068118
This is literally what dating is. You meet someone you think you might like, you hang out a little more to see if it's gonna go anywhere, and if it doesn't it's on to the next one. It's not the end of the world.

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>>38066452
I know that feel

why not

>>38061880
How does it feel to have women be attracted to you?

Feels like you're worth something when they are. However, when you consider yourself to be attractive and women don't show any interest it can drive you crazy over time. Fact of the matter is most half decent looking guys have been called attractive by some woman, and everyone lets it go to their head which leads to disappointment when they get rejected.

>tfw you are bonnet

>>38061880
At first awesome then trivial, specially because only ugly, desperate and mentally unstable women express their attraction for a male openly. You know, how we do with women? You don't see good looking men catcalling girls in the street, you see disgusting fuckers who don't give a shit. You won't have some qt grabbing your arms and going "solid" unless they are drunk or really fucking horny.

Stop worrying about what roasties think anon, women don't like men who are desperate for attention, they like dudes with goals that they can ride through life with. You being attractive is just a plus.

>>38061965

Its not a woman thing at all. Two people are initially excited to get to know each other and eventually they stop talking. Despite the fact they put their best efforts in they don't have great chemistry or feel too comfortable around each other. In other words the "relationship" is boring. So someone makes the decision to end it. Usually its the woman who goes cold but not always.

>girl expresses a lot of interest in you in the beginning
>suddenly goes no contact
>no clue what you did wrong

You did nothing wrong. Not the bitch for you, period.

>>38062279
LOW TEST FAG

It can get annoying at times

At my old job teenage girls would throw themselves at me, some of the inexperienced ones even did shit as weird as play choking, obviously flirtatious. You can only play along and smile so much before it gets annoying

But it is cute to see how different aged girls treat attractive men so differently

>>38062222
>checked

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>>38061880
I just want to be reckoned as a real human being god damn it is this too much to ask. fuck my life

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>>38061880
its meh, women tend to be attracted to gay guys so it was to be expected.
>tfw no bf tho

>>38061953
"Your face is handsome." during sex.
That was dope.
Also, while walking into the sea on the beach she suddenly says: "Fuck, you're such a cool looking guy, I'm getting wet just by looking at you." Also dope.

>>38070828
Do you like dicks since you were a kid or something happened along the way. Srs question not judging. I just don't understand how a man can like dicks. Its' like, it's a fucking cock what's the matter with you. How can you not like tits and soft skin and a proper pussy. I just don't get you guys. Again, not judging, just trying to understand.

>tfw always referred to as "cute in a weird way"

i dont even know what the fuck that even means. i just take it as "ugly but too nice to be called ugly"

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>>38070848
>>38070848
it's cool, we don't expect anyone to understand, we have a hard time ourselves trying to understand.
Well is not really the way you said it as in "liking dicks" remember the first time you liked a girl? you never had pussy before you probably didn't have pussy for years but still felt the attraction and hoped to get a gf, so it is the same way for us.
I see tits as 2 wobbly bags full of fat, i'm not only not attracted but a bit disgusted by them, I like soft skin but I like much more to have it myself and have some guy tell me how soft it is.

Idk man, many girls look at me on the street but I dunno if because I'm ugly or cute, my best-female friend says I'm easily a 7-8, still have some pimple marks from teenagehood.

>>38070848
I'm not even gay and I like penises, do you avoid all porn with penises in it?
>>38070916
What I don't understand and would like to know is what there is to really be attracted to in the male body and how attraction to men works in gay men and women, like what do you find sexually appealing about males. I can find male physiques aesthetically pleasing and can appreciate it when someone has worked hard on their body, I just find nothing sexually arousing about them.
Hell I've asked my wife this and even she can't answer this.

>>38062989
>most girls live in a self-confidence boosting bubble
I'm witnessing this first-hand with my gf's circle of sisters/friends. It's the most dangerous thing I've ever seen.

>>38070973
just like heteros, it all depends on your preferences, have you seen the high test threads? you see chubby chaser going crazy on 500lbs women but most men will still prefer a petite cute looking girl.
so yeah just like your wife, I can't answer that question either, it is a very personal point of view and every case is different.

>>38064671
JULIEN?!

>>38064576
except weight

>>38062385
Do it or else you'll be up at night thinking about what could have been and trust me it's better than the loneliness

>>38061953
this desu.

The attraction feels good, actually interacting with them however is fucking tedious

>>38070973
I've been with a few girls who could describe what attracted them physically. I was a pure skeleton at the time so it won't help much here.
One said it was the eyes and long eye lashes, the dark look thing. Two times it was my hair, believe it or not, I have dark hair and am moderately hairy. They liked the way it looked manly but was still soft so they could cuddle.

It's all I got, I'm still looking for a better answer.

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>>38061880
Alright

>>38062989
Yeah, a girl I was seeing for a while showed me their chat groups where they would send semi naked pics around to ask if they look good enough to be distributed to dudes

Tfw ya been hitting the roids and gym hard for 2 years and look forward to how much better it must get after 4 years etc

>>38064069
Kek

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>>38061965
>you are a bonnet
wut

>>38064099
phenibut

>>38061965
>>38068703
This. Guys stop talking to girls too if it's not interesting enough.

>talking to a girl on skype almost daily since a couple of months
>lives in neighbor country, cute, nice body, intelligent
>stopped answering her a while ago because she's boring and talks too much and isn't flirty or exciting to talk to anymore

>dated two girls from tinder a while ago
>both were decent looking, one was even pretty fun and i made her laugh
>they were both pretty boring though
>never wrote to them again, not worth the effort even though our dinners were enjoyable and not too awkward

>dated and fucked another tinder girl
>slept at her place
>nice and happy and friendly, good chemistry between us, cute, great body, great sex
>seemed like a huge slut though, "i don't want to use a condom it's better without" first date lmao
>also a bit dull in the head
>also the same week i met another girl i liked more
>stopped talking

Why would guys not drop girls who don't live up to their expectations?

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>>38061880

I dont know desu

It's starting to reach a point where I just don't know anymore. It feels good to get admired on the beach, but as more sluts start mirin you, less quality waifus will see you as an option.

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>tfw 5'10 and 210 (pic related to prove I'm not fat)
>tfw lads on this chat saying they get mired at like 5'11 170/180
>tfw I have literally never been mired

Are people making this shit up?

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>>38061880
I don't knoe brahh... I don't know

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>>38061965
you are a bonnet

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>>38061953

>>38072257
everyones body is slightly different. also 90% of the shit in miring threads are made up

>>38072257
it's probably because you look fat and/or ugly

>>38072257
have you even read half of the threads?

they involve some a cashier or something smiling at them. most people who aren't autistic will at least half smile at you if you make eye-contact in public.

>>38072257
Bru no hate but you're kinda fat. Try cutting down to 190 at least.

>>38071895
cringe

>>38072257
you look fat brah, chicks mire leanness

>>38062437
Can confirm, did this on a night out once, got 3 women approaching me and wanting to dance. Also got a load of mires as well. One guy also tried to kiss me lmao. I'd also add that you tuck it in if you've got a nice v taper and big back, makes a difference.

>after first sex with new gf
>"you have abs mmm!"
>"I could tell how hot you were with your shirt on"
>"you have a huge dick"
>runs hands over body

>6'1" 180 lb, dyel body, normal dick

Feels fucking amazing OP