Normie in aspies skin

Drink and chill, let the alcohol relax you and you'll do fine

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>>38002792
Tried that last week, still didn't take away the anxiety of talking to girls. I was able to dance and shit but I couldn't just go approach a girl and talk. What's the procedure for this? My lanklet friend was able to get 2 6/10s to dance with him and they were calling him Daddy.

>>38002860
its fucking weird man

it's literally just confidence. I used to overthink this kind of shit and get down about it. Now i'm natually more confident than I used to and I say the stupidest shit to girls and it works.

I think there's subtle stuff girls pick up on based off confidence, such as facial expression, body language, stress etc

>>38002894

True words. I use to bar hop with this dude who would just walk up to random women and say the most absurd and even obscene shit to them. He would get positive responses allot of time and even got laid like this.

>>38002894
>>38002920
I've been trying the fake it till you make it route. Sometimes I peak but then it just fades, any advice or mental gymnastics to help me get the confidence boost? Treating them as bros is one but it seems to only work on paper unless I've been friends with the girl for a while.

>>38002948

Treating them like just bros does not work because they think you are not interested. You have to treat them like bros who you would like to fuck.

>>38002991
Can you elaborate on that?

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>>38002766

>>38003061
Solid 10/10 advice

Stay quiet. Try to think of interesting things to contribute to the conversation but don't try to lead it. If you're funny try being funny but not too funny; you could redline and start being an asshole. Don't talk about religion, politics, or money. Talk about movies, music, sports, places you've been. Don't worry about if a girl likes you or not. Just try to be cool and get through the night. If it goes well just let it end naturally don't expect anything to happen (remember, women don't owe you shit, don't be an asshole).

Do this a few times until you get into the groove of being social. Eventually you'll be able to talk to anyone, no problem. If you get gainz, the women will come to you

>>38002948
I know this sounds corny as fuck but you just have to believe in yourself

I've been with a few girls before and they all thought I was good looking but I never really believed it because I never got much attention on nights out.

Now I just kinda talk to girls safe in the knowledge they think I'm hot kek


Dunno,think I've gone through some self-actualisation or something recently (I'm 20 btw)


I'd recommend running Piracetam for a few weeks. Helped me greatly with confidence. It makes you very creative, energetic, funny, witty, confident and focused.

The weirdest effect I found it had was that It just made me a very nice person. I always wanted to help people because I felt so good all the time.


Havent taken it in like 2 weeks, I have slightly less energy but the confidence has stuck with me.

>>38003125
>Piracetam
Are you shilling or nah? I'm going to try thinking about what you said about realizing my aesthetics. I get mires and shit so I know I must be a 7/10 at the very least, but all this manlet meme shit has taken a toll on my mind (5' 8.5). Going to search up that Piracetam tomorrow if I'm still autistic, not expecting an overnight change..

>>38002766
When I was a young boy, 12 years of age, getting the first uncontrolled boners for girls, my dad caught me mirin a nice classmate after school.
He told me
>anon, you really like her, don't you?
>y-yes dad
>then talk to her
>b-but dad, what if she doesn't like me?
>then it's no big deal, you will never know if you don't go and talk to her
>and what if she makes fun of me?
>take it like a man, anon, at least she will notice you

Then he basically told me to fuck off out of the car and talk to her.
And I did.
Since then I talk to women. Be it about small shit, be it dumb, be it autistic. But I do. And they appreciate it.

>>38003053
Fuck your bro and then you will know.
It's the /fit/ way.

>>38002766
Just do the reload dance.

>>38002766
Just go. If you're even thinking about going, you're normie enough to actually do it. If you weren't normie you would have said no thanks I'm busy.

>>38003106
Don't think I can have a whole discussion since it's kind of like a club. But like when i approach a girl and I want to dance what do I do? "Hey I'm anon" and then grind on her?

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here's what happens when i be myself

>wow you're so racist
>what does that have do with anything?
>you don't make any sense
>why aren't you agreeing with me like everyone else normally does? I don't like you
>wow you're such a bigot
>haha! anon always has something to say that nobody agrees with, let's hear it haha!

Fucking normies man. Nearly 30 and this shit still happens. I was born in the wrong decades i think.

>>38002860
Drink alcohol, then use a deep jock voice and tell her a funny joke

>>38003173
Your father is my hero, that's the kind of dad i want to be to my son some day.

>>38003165
I'd definitely recommend it.

It's cheap as fuck, I got a months supply (30x 1200mg pills) for £3

>>38002860
tried noporn/nofap? gives massive confidence boost after a few days if you need it. Just be careful you dont end up getting confused with "high test" and "fatty".

>>38003391
Damn not him but i wanna try now. Legal? On ebay? Side effects?

Listen mother fucker, listen.

Anytime I'm concerned about jitters I go and hammer cardio. An extended period or session. Like, an hour on the treadmill or running, or a double-HIIT session, or something like that.

It cuts the edge off, clears the clutter in my head, and lets me focus and chill.

It's the only into-any mode. Try it and fuck your gains for the night, they won't suffer enough to matter.

>>38003413
It's prescription only in the UK but its legal to import (basically it fine to own and take, but illegal if you sold it on)

>side effects
-basically it uses choline or something so make sure you get enough in your diet (found in eggs and meat) or take a supplement. You may get a slightly weird headache if not (albeit not a particularly painful throbbing headache, its weird but not entirely unpleasant)

-sometimes there's a slight 1 minute come up that feels kind of overwhelming but quickly dies down

-may keep you awake at night if you take it past mid afternoon

-sometimes get weird twitches in muscles (usually legs) but they dont hurt at all
but really they're nothing

>>38002860
Watch rsd videos and listen to the advice that resonates with you. Then go out every opportunity you have and talk to every girl you see.

You WILL get better at talking to them and you WILL get laid because of it.

>>38003514
I'm from the UK too, is there a way i can trick my doctors into getting some (LOL)? Does it actually keep you up? I have a problem with sleeping already.

I know i don't need it because i'm already confident, energentic, funny whatever when i want to be, but would be fun to try or take on those days where i feel like shit

Tbh I come off sexual as fuck right from the start and it works most of the time. I have a gf tho so I just do it for validation now

>>38003595
Teach me, let's say i'm at a party. I can talk to pretty much any guy at a party and have a great time, but i don't know how to interact with girls

>>38003420
Confirming this works. The only problem is that I can't lift/run for 45min and then continue conversing with the grill

>>38003681
Just think of them as people and not some weird alien race with an obscure code of conduct rrrerreeeeeeeee

>>38003681
think of how you would talk to a dude that you have absolutley nothing in common with

>>38003750
this shit just blew my mind

>>38003750
>>38003708
I know once i get into a conversation with them i will do fine, but i don't want them to think i'm trying to hit on them or something; partly because i don't want to be rejected and also because i don't want to inflate their ego. It just completley fucks with my head and i overanalyse to the point it cripples me; when it comes to girls

>>38003750
damn there is no hope

>>38003795
>i don't want them to think i'm trying to hit on them or something

Then they will never know your intentions, because apparently for the time being, you aren't man enough to make them clear and risk rejection.

>>38003795
there is no point in worrying about this because they will make their own assumptions in there head

>>38003795
Tip: erase the goal of gf/fucking them from your mind. Every interaction's goal should be to have fun and feed your genuine curiosity about another human being.
Just like talking to a guy. You don't have an ulterior motive there.

>>38003854
how?

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>>38003750
I have a lot of trouble there too.

>>38003863
>>38003859
>>38003856
Thanks anons. So basically i should just go in there trying to get to know them just like i would if it was a guy, if they make assumptions that's their problem; and if i like the girl and she seems interested i should go for it. This would make it so much more fun as it's just simple.

w-what if i spill some spaghetti though?

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>>38003863
>genuine curiosity about another human being

>>38003919
What about his statement do you know get? The point is actually be interested in the other person

>>38003915

spaghetti happens bro you just gotta be smooth with the spaghetti clean up

>>38003587
buy it from docsimon

its paypal and legit

>>38003915
They are forgiving. If they aren't and expect a flawless performance then they ain't worth your time anyway.
Imagine the constant stress you are going to have around that person. Not worth it

>>38002894
What if they say "just go away"?

Protip: purposefully talk to ugly girls first so if you do spill spaghetti you dont care

>>38003253
You have to gauge what you say on her response. If you're an ugly beta male, you'll probably fare poorly in an environment where beautiful people are dressed to the nines and looking for other beautiful people. However, if she doesn't furrow her brow or contort her mouth, you may have a shot. It's best to work as part of a team, and follow in the wake of your better looking, more confident friends. Also, don't be a grabby dick if you do get to dance with a girl, that shit is gross

Lift and eat allot of food.

I might sound like a fatass but having your belly full really decreases anxiety/depression + with the workout you get a testosterone boost.

>>38003681
I don't know I just make shit up most of the time. If you're funny and can improvise a pickup line can work. The most important part of interacting with a girl is to add to her fun not try to take her fun. That's really all girls care about.

Heres one I thought of today

>look for a girl with her hair in a bun
>stick your finger in the bun knot
>WTF ARE YOU DOING?!
>laugh and look amused
>what I'm just fingering your bun hole relax
>smiling mischievously and looking very amused is very important if you bertstare while doing this she will think youre a creep
And then take it from there

>>38003977
Got a link? Can't find it

>>38003979
>>38003971
Would be awkward if you bumped into them again though no? I have bad experiances where i thought fuck it i'll talk to this girl, i'll spill spaghetti then avoid her like the plague and pray that she has not told anyone.

>>38004085
If you spaghetti just LAUGH at yourself. If you get rejected LAUGH about it.

HAVE FUN and the girls will notice.

>>38004033
Hahahahahah you can't be serious bro? Have you ever actually been to a party?

>>38004033
mother of god /fit/ please don't do that it'll get you arrested

>mfw imagining the average /fit/izen doing this
literally no face

>>38004097
Why do i care so much what these hoes think?

>>38002766
>How do I activate /normie mode/ ?
Whatever you do don't force yourself to blend in. That just makes for a boring evening and feeling out of place.

>>38004085
I have many female friends and have asked them this question. All of them said they are appreciative of the proposals, even when rejecting them.
They don't make fun of you, they don't laugh at you, they actually appreciate you having the balls to ask them out.

Btw I believe all of these issues are mommy-related (unloving, emotionally distant, expects too much from the kid)

>>38004125
Because you think they're better than you and you need to prove yourself. When in reality all you need to do is have fun and add to their fun. Then everyone feels good and they want to keep the good feelings going which leads to physical contact, sexuality and sex.

>>38004357
Not true

>>38004099
How old are you? Learn to have fun bro, that's all it takes.

>>38004106
Hold your frame. That's the most important thing when doing high risk things like this. If you're genuinely having fun and laughing the girl will respond and think it's funny. Of course being attractive and well dressed helps immensely.

If you come off stuttering and beta and you look like garbage she will think youre fucking weird.

>j-just fingering y-you bu-bunhole m'lady
>Creep!!!!

>>38003405
Jesus christ the nofap autists are shilling this board hard

>>38004357
>Btw I believe all of these issues are mommy-related (unloving, emotionally distant, expects too much from the kid)
Or the opposite a la emotionally needy controlling mom. me irl

And the bullying. I think I received the worst type of bullying for these types of issues. Pretty much was mocked for my sexuality for the duration of my formative years. That didn't help. No homo.

Good thing I am somewhat good looking and not a manlet at least.

>>38004357
Maybe it's all in my head. I've never actually got to know a girl so my perception of them is gonna be skewed; especially from places like r9k and PUA.

I mean i know if i was a girl and a guy spilled some spaghetti i would be nice and not even give a shit; so why do i think they will be any differant. And I know that I should not care because if she's being a bitch that's on her.

I guess it's more that i don't want to look "uncool" or whatever; could be an ego think

>>38004484
>Good looking

Could have sworn you were complaining about your looks in some other thread a while ago

>>38004398
This too, i don't like to admit it to myself but this too. I will see a girl and want to talk to her but think why would she want to talk to me i'm boring; the other guys here are more interesting. She does not want me to talk to her. Where as if it was a guy i don't care however cool or shit he is i will still talk. And i really would not care if a girl tried to talk to me no matter how ugly/boring, unless i had shit to do.

This has been very insightful anon, i appreciate it alot

>>38004423
18. you make a good point but that whole finger in hair shit example sounded like an autists fantasy

>>38004521
my face is fucked up atm from drug abuse and binging on junk but normally I'm pretty handsome

sage

>>38004651
You should leave this board now you cringy cunt. filthy newfag tripfag collosalfag.

>>38004586
Not him, but vulgar stuff like that actually does work. Women are like children, they find sexually suggestive jokes funny and it warms them up for sex.

>>38004682
Which book did you read this in?

>>38004682
Just go you virgin fuck it's no use trying to help you. I've fucked 16 girls and gotten blowjobs from 4 more without reading a single book or shitty pickup website so please fuck off.

>>38002766
isn't it 'aspie in normie skin'?

literally just be yourself and chill with your friends, the rest will just work itself out. If your friends are really your friends because of who you are, then you don't have any reason to put on a 'normie skin'

>>38004672
Tripping since 2012
on /fit/ since its inception

U mirin?

>>38004749
Don't get butthurt, all i'm saying is that example was not funny and going up to and just touching her; i dunno.

>>38003173
My dad always thought I was a pussy destroyer since he was as a teen.

>That feel when too embarrassed to ask for tips from him

>>38004817
>4 years
>not made it
Thinks anyone is mirin

>also doesn't know how to sage kek

>>38004870
It's convention to say it even on chans that have visible sage

>>38003280
Never show your power level

>>38004892
Nigga stfu

>>38003280
if you're bringing up your ass backwards /pol/ stuff in everyday conversation, no wonder nobody wants you to be yourself.

>>38004010
Not ugly just short (5'8.5) b-but I have gains :c

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>>38004357
>all of these issues are mommy-related
>unloving
>emotionally distant
Oh...

>>38004909
Worst meme

You can say anything you want in a laid back confident way and people will like you

Just know when to stfu

>>38005041
Please keep your trip-on so that i can filter any of your future posts, it's clear you don't know shit.

>>38005093
I went out by myself hundreds of times. I got my dick sucked after telling girls about fucking league of legends before

But like they say whatever helps you sleep better..

>>38005124
He doesn't see the distinction between talking about league of legends and anon being a autistic /pol/ idiolgy browsing inbred.

I'm gonna filter you now do if yoy want to reply take your trip off then you can put it back after

>>38003185
Absolutely lost

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>>38004033

Sometimes I feel a little autismo, but then before I start feeling too turbo, I read shit like this. This whole thread, embarrasing. Is, is this a ruse?

OP, drink and have fun with your friends. Chicks will naturally gravitate toward this, stop being such a fucking cuck lmfao.

>>38005093
YOU don't know shit, you boring, miserable, completely expendable social vampire.

I tell girls and normies whats on my mind all the time, once two wanted the D at the same time I told them I was fucking busy arguing with idiots on the Internet about plato. Guess what they were even MORE wet afterwards and wouldnt leave me the hell alone

Yeah... its called self esteem I think (and the rich get richer while the poor get poorer, wagie!) but sadly you are too busy hiding so you will never know what that even feels like.. What a shameful existence you live! I'd fucking hug you if you weren't such a know it all brat because your "knowledge" tells me just how much your life sucks. I am so close to telling you to just end it all right now, why even live etc.. But I ain't even mad at cha. You deserve happiness. Just try reflecting for two seconds before regurgitating what you heard from others sometimes..

t. mfd

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>>38005263
Tl;dr

Watch your tone next tone boy

>>38005426
R a R e
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Assume they're attracted and treat them that way

>>38004063
https://www.docsimon.co.uk/

literally the first result on google

>>38006563
Cheers mate i thought you meant ebay

>>38002860
As far as girls go, just talk to them and don't give a fuck about the outcome. Be yourself, like you have been and see if they like what they see. Start to escalate from there.

Do something really shameful once to lower your bar (not necessarily when you're going out)
Or stop caring so goddamn much and let yourself do mistakes

>>38004033
This belongs on r/4chan

>>38002766
Take your lap top and keep us updated.