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How has your social life been affected by lifting?

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How has your social life been affected by lifting?
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0x0=0 meme for me :)
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>>37443345
still shit
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>>37443345

People treat me better in general. More kind, more respectful, more playful, more smiling, everything.

Then again, I used to be the weird nerdy kid with shit hair, backne that made a girl scream and shy away once, no real popular friends and too much of a martial arts obsession and good grades.
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>People actually listen to me when I talk
>At bars I spread crazy ideologies about the government from /pol/ and they all nod their head in agreement
>I am being disrespectful towards women because they are useless cunts who contributes nothing to a conversation and still for some reason they want to suck my dick
>Sink deeper and deeper into anger
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>>37443356
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why do you keep fucking asking
why don't you lurk the fuck more you fucking robot
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Lifting takes away from social life, but not for reasons you think. You probably think it's because you spend more time on yourself, needing to eat specific foods to hit your macros, or not wanting to drink.

But that isn't it, that isn't it at all. There's something that getting under that barbell and squatting 200kg does to your mind and body that just changes you from society. You're chasing after something 99.99% of society goes their whole life avoiding, people want to be comfortable and not have to expend any unnecessary energy. Thus, lifting actually puts even more distance between you and society as a whole.

You can't relate to people who are always looking for the easy way out. Even small things as taking the elevator or the stairs. People will all rush to the elevator like its gold, while I'll just casually walk the stairs. Do you see what I am saying here? For me walking up a few flight of stairs is nothing, but for 99.99% of society it's hell, even if they can do it without any problem, their mind tells them to avoid the hard way.

I honestly started lifting in order to try and get closer to society and maybe try relate me to them, but in the end I've realized it's actually put me at an even further distance than I was before I started.

It may seem like lifting/fitness is this big thing that everyone does, but in reality it's an extremely small percentage of people. The fitness industry in of itself is a fucking niche market.
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>>37443404
> tfw I went to law vschool so people would listen to my well reasoned words
> tfw all I had to do was get a built chest and thick arms to get people to listen to me
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invitations to different places and events literally multiplied 100x

lololol 0x100=0
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>go to summer college party
>bunch of sloots playing beer pong
>go and sit by them and don't say a word
>few minutes later sloots start sitting on my lap
>some argue over who gets to sit on GOAT T-Rex mode quads
>mfw I'm just some autist with muscles
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>>37443422
I get where you are coming from, but I caution you at giving up on people to quickly. People are probably more open minded and reliant than it sounds like you are giving them credit for.

the fact is most people are busy most of the time. But when you do cross paths with someone it is worth being decent.
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>>37443345
eh more getting more respect but nothing much really
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>>37443452

fuck yeah!
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>>37443452
Just drop the self hating "autist" shit and you will be a real winner in life.

> we are all just dumb monkeys trying to get to fuck eachother and get to the top of hills
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>>37443422
The supplement industry is bretty big though, thats why everyone shills them.
Nobody does fitness cos you cant make much money if any at all off it for the hard work you put in.
But i understand. Im a chef, my job is one of the worst in the world. Shit pay, long hours, hard exacting work and little room for error. Yet everyone dreams to open their own restaurant or something
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>>37443345
>neet before
>neet after

nothing changed
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>>37443488
I'm not actually self-hating, I just don't want to take myself too seriously plus it's funny.
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>>37443507
>The supplement industry is bretty big though, thats why everyone shills them.

the bodybuilding broscience supplement industry is literally non-existent compared to the dr oz mom science supplement industry.
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>>37443382
how did you get rid of backne
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god I hate the uncooked chicken tits look

just tan topless you pussy
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>>37443404
accurate af
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>>37443345
Tan lines are the best thing on a /fit chick. Perfection. I love pale tits and ass. Hnnnng
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>>37443422
deep shit bro i feel it
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I'm probably just going to pay an escort to sit on my face.
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>>37443579

Got lucky I guess. Dropped all chocolate, sugary drinks and upped my hygiene in general. Drank more water. Backne disappeared entirely by the time I was 19.
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>>37443638
I'm sure your mum will be proud anon
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>>37443345
>more men checking me out
>skinny women seem intimidated
>fat women look at me with a mixture of jealousy and disgust
>tfw living the hardbody lifestyle
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Been losing weight and working out, which makes me feel a lot more confident lately. Think a girl showed some interest in my yesterday, but she might just have been fucking around. My autism levels are too high to judge clearly
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>>37443345
Everyone says sorry from a mile away and backs away when I'm walking towards them, girls are smiling awkwardly.

>autism
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>>37443647
It disappeared because it was a hormonal thing and you grew up.
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>>37443668
I'm an aesthetic cunt and 5 years lifting here. This is literally 100% all true.

This guy is probably one of the only few people in this thread I actually believe has made it, due to the fact he pointed out my exact experiences with becoming aesthetic.
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>>37443345
strangers react better, nice bantz with almost everyone I meet, grills flirt with me, etc.

friends distanced themselves and even mock me sometimes
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>>37443721
>guy
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>>37443647
>>37443709
>tfw 19, soon to be 20 and backne is still around
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>>37443404
>>At bars I spread crazy ideologies about the government from /pol/ and they all nod their head in agreement

kek this

i wouldn't have dared do it a few years ago but now people either agree or very mildly disagree, but are polite about it. the obvious leftist beta males are clearly agitated by what i'm saying but never dare to say anything.
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>>37443345
When I walk past women they usually make eye contacts and quickly look away and look at their phone or adjust their clothes/hair.

T-that means they're mirn', r-right?
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>>37443788
no, dick or chest contact (if wearing a tight shirt) would mean they're mirin'
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>>37443757
>tfw 21 with cystic acne on face and back
>minocycline works to eliminate face acne but bacne has left so much scarring it's never going to get better
Virgin at 21 fucking kms
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>>37443647
>tfw didnt have bacne until I was 19

im pretty sure its my fucking military uniform, having to wear a tight tucked in undershirt with the blouse over it sweating balls all day. I didn't have it until I had to wear that shit
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>>37443817
the only solution is accutane, bacnebro
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>>37443755
Well still, I am sure fit looking people in general know what we experience.
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>>37443579
Not him, but I had it wayyy bad and went to a dermatologist. They gave me some pill and it cleared it up in like 2 weeks. 100%.
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>>37443345
I say a few words to some people when I go to the gym compared to when I say nothing to anyone but family when I stay at home all day. That's it so far desu
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>>37443862
what pill? accutane?
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>>37443757
I'm also 19 and have had it since I think 7th or 8th grade. Fortunately I almost never get any acne on my face though. I got a brush thing that I started using a couple weeks ago in the shower to scrub my back with an acne cleanser and it seems to have improved slightly
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the gym is my work, I barely socialize outside, but the friends I have aren't cancer and can at least tolerate my sense of humor. being a teetotaler aids this
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>>37443404
good work
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>>37443967
>>37443647
>>37443579
>>37443757
just fucking go to a derm, it's literally THAT simple, dermatologists specialize in that sort of shit, just do like >>37443862 go to a derm and he'll give you shit to beat the fuck out of your disgusting acne ridden body
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quick question, /fit/, would you fuck a former fatty that now looked like OP pic?
Reminder, the body is now full of horrible deep stretch marks that will never go away
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>tfw a girl likes you
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The biggest change is that confidence.

>I can talk to anyone if I want to
>I am nearly always the first to make a move in a group
>I pretty much rule rooms now without even trying
>I finally don't try to rationalize girl's mires away
>still sperg out as soon as I feel they might be interested

Making alpha progression but am still an autist in regards to dating.
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>>37444039
yes. I'd literally fuck anything that isn't obese.
And obese chicks with cute faces and huge tits.
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>>37444039
Yes. Remember, if you look good in clothes that's like 99% of the battle. What's a guy gonna do, see you strip and excuse himself out of the room?
I personally wouldn't mind stretch marks at all. If you were once fat but are tight now, that shows some major discipline!
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>>37443345
Women are friendlier to me now and touch my shoulders. Once an old woman announced to grab my pecs, but she tried to recruit an accomplice from the audience (it was a workshop on voice and she said she'd like to feel the vibration from my chest) which denied, so she didn't dare without this additional social backup. A very female way to set this all up I think.

But women being friendlier is a huge plus in my female-dominated work environment (health care). Except that quite some of the female doctors are single at 30 and above, and some of those are bitter towards me without knowing me. I think it's a bit like reverse r9k misogyny.
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>>37444070
>I finally don't try to rationalize girl's mires away
Explain
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people are friendly for seemingly no reason

whereas before I was invisible

it's odd to see in all honesty, I mean I didnt do shit yet people are nice
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>>37443345
this pic makes me happy. it reminds me of being at a beach house and getting ready to go out swimming after breakfast.

except i'm not a hot grill
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>>37444116
I used to tell my self that no one could be attracted to me, even when the signs where obvious.
When you turn down seeing a girl in underwear or play it off when hearing your crush wants to date you from her best friend you've got real problems.
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>>37444087
>>37444091
t-thanks but pretty sure I'm gonna die a virgin
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>>37443998
>I barely socialize outside, but the friends I have aren't cancer and can at least tolerate my sense of humor
i know that feel mang
although I don't understand why do they tolerate me, and i firmly believe I'll never figure it out

the sole downside is the fact that our social circle has access only to mediocre looking chicks
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>ITT: people realize that, overall, almost everyone they actually interact with in real life is nice
>they somehow attribute that to them being /fit/


every fucking time
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>>37444215
>mfw thinking of you dying a virgin
we're all gonna make it. Believe me.
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>>37444253
>people realize that, overall, almost everyone they actually interact with in real life is nice

not if you have an ugly face
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>>37444253

you dont realize how much you get ignored when you are fat I guess

it's literally a different world if you are fit
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>>37443345

>gives me an edge in social situations, but only for so long

soon after they start talking to me my cover slips
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>>37444253
because before none of us had the confidence to talk to anyone.

Also there are a lot of Stacys and Chads that will only accept people they deem attractive enough
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>>37443757
Keep your sheets clean bro
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Now when I get drunk I talk about lifting and darksouls.
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>>37443345
Still no friends and no bf 10 months later, kill me
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>>37443345

It's had absolutely no effect, positive or negative.
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Caught a grill giving me a long, hard look yesterday in my peripherals when I was ordering a beer at the pub last night.

Then I went and sat by myself in a corner and watched the hockey game.

No one gave a fuck about me when I was a skelly and no one gives a fuck about me now.
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>>37444263
Anyone that is ugly duckling will understand. People suddenly see you as a person.
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>>37443345
i had a bit of a social life before i started lifting. five years later and i have no social life. i'm much happier now
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>>37443605
No way, tanlines are great. White breasts show that really hot girl is actually extremely fair-skinned and racially pure; she's just outside frequently doing stuff, even if it's just on a blanket or beach chair. Plus, she has enough modesty and chasteness that she won't just brazenly expose herself like a public whore...but not enough modesty that she refuses to wear swimwear.
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>>37444391

/pol/ is leaking again.
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>>37444391
I dont care what it shows, it doesnt make my dick hard
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>>37443817
>21 with cystic acne on face and back
>bacne has left so much scarring it's never going to get better

25 here knowing that feel. Let us wallow together in self pity.
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>>37444449

My fellow appreciator of tan lines. You da man.
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>>37444418
I won't lie: girls who have genes that show they are fair-skinned are more intelligent, compassionate and generally more attractive. And not just physically. Her great-grandparents, her grandparents, her parents all had children with people in their same class/race (likely married couples); this shows her upbringing clearly favored staying inside her social group and standing while discouraging interaction with those outside of it. As a similarly fair-skinned person, noticing her fair-skin aside from her tan, I can see she's been conditioned to be attracted to me already and has similar values (at least more similar than some hoodrat). The courting process would be easier and more successful.
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>>37443356
its nice that you want everyone to know about your misery, but why bother posting anon besides attention?
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>>37444215

Post pics and receive positive feedback from /fit/
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>>37444257
Don't be sad anon, you go and have great experiences. I was considered really cute and hot in my pre-teens, but started unconsciously gaining weight and trying to make myself look uglier because the kind of attention I was getting was making me really really uncomfortable.
Trying to protect myself, I guess.
But then I decided any potential health problems from being unhealthy was not really worth it. And now, I feel like though I have so much to give, I never will. Shit, sorry to be such a downer in such a positive thread.

I do believe at least you will make it, anon. And I'm really glad for everyone else. Kinda proud of you guys
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>>37444418
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>Implying it ever stopped leaking.
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>>37443345
Sauce?

Ot: lifting gives me a bit more confidence which has got to have social benefits. There are easier ways to improve your appearance though - get a haircut, use cologne, but a decent outfit. Lifting should primarily be a personal challenge/pursuit.
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>>37444587
>source is literally on her arm
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>>37443422
I see what you mean, but I don't think it takes away from your social life, It's just your role that is changing. As you start to get fit, become more social, and do well in your career the necessary ambiguity in the social order starts to disappear. You can't relate to their problems as much, as you have already overcome them, and they can't relate to your problems, because they wish they had your problems. It is now obvious that you 'outrank' them.

At this point you either can accept the leadership position, or must leave the social group for people more like yourself. Leaving is usually what has to be done, because people don't like to see someone who was at their level rise above them. Things won't stay they way they were, you have changed, and so the social dynamic must change. If you will pretend you are still the same old guy then it will insult them, they will know that you are just pandering to them to appease their ego, which ironically just reinforces the fact that you have a higher group status. It will also make them feel uneasy, because they are all expecting you to become more of a leader and by not doing so you make the pecking order unstable, and people REALLY don't like uncertainty in the social order. If a high value person is at their level, then that might mean they will be demoted soon, so like I said they usually try to force you out of the group, or tear down your accomplishments.

It's not always so bleak though, sometimes they embrace the higher status you've gained and everything is fine. If they are healthy people who push themselves this is usually the case. If they are a part of the depressed hoi polloi then the other options happen.
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lifting is probably the best thing you can do solo

not having a social life is pretty great for gains
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>>37444505
>t. /pol/ virgin neet
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>>37443345
Yes, a lot.

I still don't have a girlfriend, i don't have more friends but it helped a lot :

First : I'm more confident, A LOT MORE, i can small talk with anyone without being awkward, i engage conversation with stranger when i feel like it, just because it feels good to talk to people, i don't have any social anxiety now.

Second : My body look better, it's clearly not the best, but from time to time i get mires from girls and they touch me.

Lifting isn't the only factor, i started to meditate and hang out more with my friends.
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>>37443345
It didn't. For that I would have to have one in the first place.
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Sto with the confident bullshit

you feel more confident because people allow you to be

they don't treat you like shit anymore

you're not more confdient, else you wouldn't be on this board, you'd actually pursue your dreams
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>>37443345
being surrounded by new and regular people at the gym, and getting to know people at work; has made me a lot less anxious to meet new people over the last 3 years
but i still don't know how to talk to a lot of them, like i legit don't know 'how' rather than just being nervous
so not a huge difference
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>>37444721
Whites are smarter than non whites. Not revolutionary.
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>>37445240

>tfw everyone thinks I'm a smart white person when I'm really just a dumb Sami.
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>>37443345
How do girls get this soft, smooth skin?
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>>37445692
unscented baby powder, or stuff they buy at beauty stores that is essentially unscented baby powder but sold as something else
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>>37443999
Checked
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>>37445692

By never having to work a day in their lives. STACY will date you and you will BUY STACY things and while you're out shopping for STACY, she's eating PIZZA while CHAD eats her PUSSY.
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>>37445745
>CHAD will always WIN in the end because he has FACE FRAME HEIGHT
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>>37445796

Fucking CHAD.

RRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>37445692
i gotchu senpai: coconut oil
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>>37445705
>unscented baby powder

you mean they just frost themselves in baby powder every day

what's the METHOD
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>>37444629
Lifting isn't a cure for autism.
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>>37444609
I mean her name, not swagyolobullshit whatever.
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>>37443422
You realize lifting is as shallow as an endeavor as any other athletic endeavor right? Good job you realized a large percentage of the population is fine with complacency but you have the arrogance to believe you are any different.

Go pursue the higher thresholds of scientific academia or actually tackle and find solutions to some of the largest problems facing mankind. But no you think it's "deep and complex" that you actually put minimal effort into a completely selfish pursuit.
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>>37445888

Just..

https://www.reddit.com/user/hashtagyoloswaggang/submitted/
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>>37445898
Oh, I see :^)
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>>37444518
>answering OP's question
QUIT ATTENTION WHORING, GOD
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>>37445898
>https://www.reddit.com/user/hashtagyoloswaggang/submitted/
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I'm 20 and i've been more muscular than those around me since age 17. I get plenty of mires but I'm still pretty much an observer in my daily life. There's nothing that really sticks out about me (I'm short and only avg facial-wise) so I go unnoticed, which is whatever because im more of a solitary person anyway. Makes it hard to get laid when I dont feel like making an effort
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people shit on reddit but the gonewild and other related subreddits are some great things.
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>>37443345
Can't say it has

People used to make fun of me about not lifting

Now people make fun of me because I am lifting
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>>37443679
know that feel
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>>37446016

R*ddit is about to close r/The_Donald.

Fuck those Thought Police fucks. I'm not ebin a Trump supporter but I hate censorship.
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>>37444583
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>>37446016
Not that I watch it any more, but reddit is great for porn. For example if you like pussy mounds or girls with mouths full of cum, there are subreddits for exactly that. You don't have to look for a thread that's up or scour different boards looking for your thing, just look it up and it's always there.
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>>37444629
yeah youre thinking too hard about it
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>>37445894
Another guy, but you see, the difference is that not everyone is capable of being a researcher, whereas any fucking cretin with an IQ sufficient to somewhat control his body can keep in shape. To be a researcher means to damn the self in an effort to save it, if you will, it's to pull a certain field further through great personal sacrifice and hope that someone, someday will remember you, despite knowing the odds of that happening are extremely small. To face such odds and still choose to follow through is admirable, to avoid letting your body rot is not.
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>>37444070
FUCKKK, are you me. The only trouble I have with girls is closing :(
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>>37446341
>closin

Stop with this pua bs. It's called sex.
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>all these people thinking social gains follow physical gains
The most important thing if you want to be more social is to never let fitness trump anything social.

You wanna go workout but you were invite to drink coffee at a café? You go to the café.

I've been focusing a lot on social gains for the past year while also starting lifting, and honestly the lifting part had nothing to do with it. Just be sociable and dare to be original. Last night I was at a party where I literally only knew one person beforehand but by the end I knew everyone. Then I ditched that party and went to a club with a girl I knew and like 10 of her friends (none of which I knew), and within like 30 minutes I was being lifted up and carried around the dancefloor by them. 1 year ago I was a virgin with no friends, so the difference has been pretty significant.

It can be very hard to break through the barrier where you have no friends to the one where you meet new people all the time, but just stick with it. Never say no to any invitation to do anything social.

The only people who like people who talk about protein shakes are themselves.
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>>37443404

Unfortunately, same here.


Only difference is anger gets replaced with murderous intent cause i feel genocide is the only way.

Am i edge yet r wut?
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>>37444518
>op starts a thread to ask people a question
>0 replies because no one wants to be called an attention whore

Is this what you want?
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>>37446016
this, i'll shit on reddit all day long but the porn subs are great
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>>37446349
I think he's referring to cumming in his pants as he sits in 9th grade algebra when he thinks of a girl
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>>37443345
>More people randomly want to talk to me
>Can be openly racist and people do not openly disagree with me
>Teenage girls and old ladies stare at me
>Roommate is scared of me
>No one trash talks me to my face
>People from high school and Uni don't even recognize me anymore
>Women my age have their fanny packs open and spill spaghetti randomly
>My opinion matters for some reason, even if I am spewing total bullshit
>People like me more
>Bigger more likeable douchebag
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Gay men constantly hit on me. It's become a fucking nuisance how often I get approached by them now.
It's no wonder most attractive girls come off as huge bitches to guys they're not interested in. If I get bombarded by faggots in a conservative area then the women must have it 100x worse with straight men approaching them every time they're out in public.
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>>37444198

Look up avoidant personality disorder. You might have it.
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so many self proclaimed alphas ITT cringe af
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>>37446972
>cringe af

Welcome to your first thread on /fit/, newfriend.
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I occasionally get the O you work out look. That's bout it
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>>37443345
I'm kinda skinny otter mode and I got a cute 8/10. But I work out for 5 years now, always in the evening. But I don't want to overdo it, I'm 60kg and my gf likes the shoulders etc. But I would never go full body builder mode. She said, she doesn't like it.
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>>37443404
they are intimidated by the muscles and your cloud like aesthetics you dilusional morons.
>just lift bro be so cool
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>>37443345
>tanlines
>mfw

Also, my social life hasn't improved one bit.
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>Before /fit/
>Virgin autist
>After /fit/
>Big virgin autist
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>>37446830
Time to turn your card in bro
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>>37443345
I stopped drinking so there goes a bit of my social life
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Thanks OP. I just lost my job for the NSFW pic.
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>>37447617

>Have a gains goblin job
>Not at the gym 24/7

Not gonna make it.
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>>37443345
jesus christ, I love tanlines. All the most sensitive places remain softer, it's awesome for both of us.
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>>37443358
This.

I'm hoping that it might change when I switch from home workouts to gym workouts.

It probably won't, but I can dream.
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>>37444518
I honestly can not imagine how you could think of this, write it and post it without realizing how idiotic it is.
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Lifting helped me chill the fuck out. It was a place for all of my testosterone and competitive energy to come out. It also made me realize that I'm small, both in a humbling sense ( always someone bigger than you etc.) way and also in just a sort of grand scheme of things way. I'm better looking and more confident now but I'm also less judgemental and angry and generally just way easier going. It get laid a lot more than I used to and I put way less stress and importance on it. I'm just doing better. I think this is what making it means.
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>>37443579
Drink a shitton of water for like a month straight. You'll notice your skin clear up within a week. Absolutely no sugar or you'll negate the benefit of water. That's what I did and my skin looks much better, but I still need a ways to go
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>>37444518
you're literally autistic, reported
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>>37446256

wouldnt be surprised if intelligence isnt some trained aspect no different than working out

people that say they arent smart typically have the same obnoxious flakey characteristics that you see in the people that dodge being healthy. i grew up in a low income environment and see random people that you wouldnt expect to be smart randomly rise up
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>>37443437
>>37443437
>> tfw all I had to do was get a built chest and thick arms to get people to listen to me

No kidding, this is probably one of the more hilarious yet depressing realizations of lifting.
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>>37443345
Girls are taking clear notice, and it seems like those who know what a weak fatass I used to be appriciate my new /fit/ness a bit more than those who I meet for the first time. I think it's the fact that they now see me as someone who is capable of making things happen which makes this the case.

So yeah, plenty of compliments, way more attention from girls in general (I mean shit, I've gotten more compliments on my appearance than I can count, something I -never- got before), but I also sense that men feel like they have to proove themselves to a larger degree than before, which can be tiering.
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>>37443345
Relatives treat me as if i were a homo but i have a cousin who's homo and FAT!
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>>37445402
Arjeplogare reporting in
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>more girls mirin', lots of smiles and headdowns after take a quick peek in college
>guys started to hit on me once a month
>dudebros want me to smoke and drink with them
>I just want girls I dont care about friends
>go back to dorm play vidya for 5 hours straight instead of roaming around campus hunting for grills
>lifting does not help with stuttering at all, gotta "practice that" but I want to keep playing vidya
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>>37448735
>forgot to mention even after I get mired by passing a girl, I dont get the courage to hit on them so I probably will never see them again and if I do I still dont say anything
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>>37448753
jesus christ this board is retarded

You guys understand that if you just talk to the girl like shes your average Joe you'll get laid?

Its easy
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>>37448735
You're doing it all wrong faggot. Focus on getting freinds first, like a good group of bros then the girls.
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>>37444544
How about you stop being a faggy sad cunt and actually man up
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Yeah it's made it worse. Everyone thinks im a dbag.
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>>37444319
m8, go talk to someone at the bar honestly. Even if they're a dude. Just make a friend.
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>>37444319
>Caught a grill giving me a long, hard look yesterday
>no one gives a fuck about me now

bruh?
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>>37443345

> more chill
> more confident
> more general feelings of strength and power
> more feelings of general well being
> better looks

That's about it. Well worth the 4 hours weekly investment.
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>>37444391
>piercing
>yoloswaggang
wew lad i guess /pol/ would hit anything as long as it's "racially pure"
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>>37443345
My what?
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>>37444064
I wouldn't know that feel
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>>37444064

Don't fuck up anon, this is your chance to make it
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>>37444116

Let me explain it to you:

When you spend years without any attention from girls, when you spend years being an ugly fucker, when you spend years knowing that nobody thinks you're attractive, when the only reason girls even talk to you is to make fun of you, it changes how you think. You get to the point where you don't believe someone actually likes you. You just rationalize it away because that's how you dealt with all the torturing in the past. After all the times your hope has been crushed, you decide not to take the chance that somebody cares about you. It's a sad place to be. Then when you change, and you now look good and people start to notice you again, the mindset is still there.
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>>37444505

>Literally Hitler's wet dream
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>>37445867

If it was, /fit/ would be about lifting
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>>37444391
holy fuck /pol/ pls go
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>>37443345
You'll all hate me for saying this but I stopped lifting 2 years ago and my social life actually improved more after that.

For starters I was actually out of the gym and at places where talking to people is more acceptable.

The suprising thing I've heard is that alot of girl comment me on how skinny I am, I still have some residual muscle though, which is supprising since when I was a lot bigger I never got comments and the girls seemed uninterested. Maybe its a locational thing, I don't really know.
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>>37449584
i know this feel
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Texting this girl for a week now.

Sent her a pic and she says "You are actually so sexy"

I then told her thanks, and that I used to be huskier and wasn't used to all the attention.

Haven't heard from her in two days now :/

Do you really have to act like superman to girls nowadays? I admit one flaw about myself and she completely lost interest. Jesus...
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No social gains at all. Girls still ignore me. Still don't have any friends.
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>>37449870
Yeah you fucked up, even your post here smells of a somewhat stunted pussy. Things like ":\" and the use of ellipses speaks volumes.
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People condescendingly ask me
>hows the lifting going

>think of kms
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>>37450066
ummmm?? seriously?! :/ x
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>>37449870
Never show weakness or fault. Never back down.

Pretend like you have done this a million times but you still find her interesting for some reason.
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>>37449584

>dropped from 430 to 240
>friends and family tell me I'm handsome now
>still feel like an invisible blimp
>I don't wanna feel this feel anymore
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Ripped guys at the gym give me approving nods as i walk by them. They never did that before I guess when I got big I became part of their circle.
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>>37450066
man thats gay, guess ill just gfake it hten
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>>37443345
Good. The feeling of my gf running her hands up and down my body and then looking up at me and telling me I'm hot is one of the best feelings in the world man
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>>37448658

Hey-hey, my family is from Lapland. Skolt tribe.
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I started lifting a little while ago. How do I train my social gains alongside my muscles?
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>>37449145

After she checked me hard for 5-6 seconds, she went back to talking to her friends, never looked my way again.
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>>37449870
Something simple that works for me is just to say "I know," possibly with a winky face.

It's brief, it shows you're not jumping up to kiss her ass, it shows confidence, and if you've really put the work into improving yourself physically it should be true - what she's telling you is just reaffirming it.

And then segue into whatever you want after that, keeping the tone playful and flirty whenever it makes sense to do so.

She's not looking for your life story yet. She's just looking to flirt with you.
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>>37445894
>athletics
>shallow
found the NARP
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>>37447833
i feel u dawg except for the getting laid part l0l
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I've had girls ask me for fitness advice that they wind up not following because they're girls. People fuck with me a little less frequently (for some reason even in college, some people are compelled to mess with skellies). I work at my campus' theatre, and the gay dudes and some of the girls comment on my ass and compare it to others as part of some running jokes among the group. I feel a little less nervous if random strangers approach me asking for directions or some shit.

That's about it. I've got the same amount of game as I did in high school (the kind where only fat and/or crazy girls that I'm not attracted to are into me), but otherwise it hasn't changed much
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Mostly I know that any girl above 5/10 is going to be nice to be because i'm usually one of the, if not the, biggest guys in a situation, and girls' need for garnering the attention of the best/biggest guys dictate they must be nice to me in order to win the little competition every girl is always in.
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>>37447787
>home workouts to gym workouts.
Spend gym membership money on a massage parlor instead.
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i wanna fuck trannies now

is this normal?
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>>37450814

On /fit/ it is.
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>>37446812
can confirm that last one, you sound like a massive asshole.
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>>37450832

im talking to one now. "She" wants me to come over to her apartment. Does a little web cam stuff but not much. I wanna get "her" to suck my cock on cam, as long as my face doesn't show I don't give a fuck
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>>37446812
you sound like fucking trash.

All shall aspire to be warrior scholars, you turned into gutter trash instead.
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a few things which seem common
>girls make excuses to touch me more
>girls make excuses for me to take my clothes off
>people treat me as more of a man and less of a dude
>people feel as though they can be meaner to me
>guys in bars/clubs etc are more hostile (phaggots)
>girls in bars/clubs are much more receptive
>people ask me to do physical shit all the time such as lifting boxes etc
>mom is worried about my injuring myself but moms will be moms

some uncommon shit i have noticed
>taxi drivers assuming i have lots of money
>people being openly hostile (mostly nerds)
>asian tourists commenting on my muscles and taking photos
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>>37450917
blowies aren't gay
go for it
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>>37448735
there are professionals who can help with speech therapy.
If you have the will for fitness, then you have the will to fix that stutter.
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>>37443763
Nice fantasy m8.
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>>37450962
Well shit
I get lots of shitty cuz I'm a skinny nerd so people fuck with me assuming I won't do shit about it
I thought getting big would fix that
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>>37444418
nice quads
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>>37449346
>>37449346
It's ironic because the girls that usually go for white nationalism are butt fuck ugly and bottom of the barrel females.

>>37445240
Kek.
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>>37451274
nah bro. people see a big dude and see two things - a challenge, and a tough guy who won't mind a fight ie they don't feel guilty for picking on you. especially soldiers. i fucking hate the military now cause whenever some cunt in a pub tries shit with me its always some dyel drunk soldier who's just done his basic and thinks he's tough shit.

oh and expect your nerd friends to abandon you the second you become more than they are. what i've learned is that nerds aren't truly friends, they are like runt piglets staying together to keep warm, but as soon as they don't need it anymore, they're out.
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>>37445240
except for asians, they are as smart (if not a tad smarter) than whites
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fug brahs, there was this kid about a year older than me who I'd always see at the gym, and he went to my school too. he kinda looked like Guile from street fighter, but with short hair, almost a crew cut of sorts. he looked like a bro that browsed /fit/, but I was too much of an autist back then to even converse with him. i'd always see him walking alone, and even at school in the library, he'd be alone working. fug brah, if only I had the nads to start a conversation with him, who knows, maybe we would've been life long friends.

feels bad man
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>>37451308
This post usually brings all the /pol/ brigade damage control.
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>>37443345
before I started lifting my social life was basically zero other than occasionally playing vidya with friends. after dropping a bunch of weight it's gotten better like crazy. I now have my first GF and I feel so fucking good about it, literally getting /fit/ is the best decision I have ever made.
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im not /fit/ but im on my way there. ive lost 80lbs and joined the navy. ive got exes trying to get back with me. my friends seem to not want to hangout anymore or if when we do they say im not the same and being a douche. women approach me more and i dont spill my spaghetti as much.
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>>37446372
I agree i got me and about 7 bar mates ready to prototype SS tier from redpilling, NSDAP started in a bar why cant we ya know
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>>37451307
Well I guess at least if you're big you can fight it off unlike a scrawny bitch.

And you got that right about nerds. Wish I could find some nerdy guys who lift to be buds with.
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>>37451308
If you're talking about China's high IQ, that's due to government editing and schools encouraging cheating.

I'd agree that they're extremely dedicated though, much more than most races, although these stereotypes are mostly due to culture.
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I'll have random bursts of being social and talkative that I didn't before.
I notice girls look at me and are more talkative than they were before.
Big difference was I actually made a female friend for the first time in my life. We'd talk and study for hours on end and meet outside of our classes to hang out. Of course I fell hard for her since I'd never been shown that much female attention and she was a solid 8/10. She had a boyfriend (not sure why he was ok with us spending so much time together) and transferred universities.
All in all I'd say it's been mostly positives, but I'm so accustomed to not being social that the transition has been kind of difficult.
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>be 6'3 250
>decent traps,calves,forearms
>default face is angry looking
>tfw
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>tfw want filipina
>tfw they all intimidated by me
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>>37451313
you could have been his charlie and enjoyed a long and fruitful homoerotic relationship.
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>>37451398
Source?

There national IQ used to be in the shits before their boom in the past few decades as well so education is clearly a larger component than race over there.
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>>37450962
>people more hostile towards you
I get this too. What are you supposed to do when guys at bars are shoving you or screaming in your face when you're minding your own business? Beat the shit out of them so you can get slapped with an assault charge?
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>>37443737
they are just jealous cause they are lazy cunts
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>>37451415
I call bullshit, at least if you're trying in Philippines, because if you're even remotely fit, or an average looking foreigner then all them bitches will be up on your dick.

Even ugly old fat fucks get happily married for a very long time, and just because they have money
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>>37452571
those guys are normally the daddy-doesn't-love-me types who can be hushed up pretty quickly with a quick slap in the face. nothing too hard, just enough to embarrass them.
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>>37443422
>99.99% of society
Man you actually believe you're better than everyone

top zoz faggot

You'll never make it
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>>37452571
Stare them down
If they won't quit tell them to piss off
If they still won't quit, start banter/trash talk. If he can't take it he'll likely back down
If they still won't quit consider leaving/taking high road
Else idk. Assault charges ahoy?

>>37452646
Maybe this will work faster
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>>37443404
I'm already you and Ive yet to become anywhere near fit.
How crazy am I gonna get
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>>37443356
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iy4mXZN1Zzk
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>voice got much deeper
>more confident on the outside
>same old autist on the inside
>men are more hostile or more respective
>manlets look like they will jump at my back and bite my neck as soon as i turn around
>women are sloots
>develop a heavy average/plain girl fetish
>still want to kill myself
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>>37448735
>>37448753
jesus christ anon you're playing on easy mode and yuu still manage to fuck it up
>live in a campus where just walking outside thre is pussy everwhere, CAMPUS pussy
>good looking and gettig mires
>stays inside so he can >MUH self pity
go fuck yourself, die of aids
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>>37443345
It's much worse.

That's more of a product of being out of school though.
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>>37443345
Still shit because I'm a manlet
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>>37443926
Accutane needs between 3 and 9 months to work, and the final changes only appear long after your off of them
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>>37443345
Need Pics more like this
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>>37446856
Not him, but ouch. Truth hurts, but good to know what my problem is.
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>>37451278
newfffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffag
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>>37451278
Didn't waste anytime this summer huh faggot
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>>37444064

>tfw you dont know what to do

feels bad mang
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>>37443382
Yoo, honestly same lmao. I was 265lbs and was the chubby/fat guy that was somewhat popular, talked to girls friendly, etc. Now I weigh 195 all cut up with a non-retarded haircut I occasionally catch girls looking at me, some come up and start a convo, it's nice man.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1zFeHJzS5E
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>>37448735
I have a stutter too.. it's bullshit man I hate it. I've gotten great at working around my sentences so as to not say pronunciations that trigger it.
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My boyfriend hates it that I lift. He stopped to go with me to the gym because I can lift a lil bit more than him.
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>>37450165
I know that feel senpai. Suddenly getting asked for a spot by the ripped guys at the gym ( even when there is plenty people). People asking me how much weight I lost at the gym.
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>>37444287
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>>37443345
Still the same because I can't lift for shit.

Just lanklet things.
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>>37443345
>Before lifting
>Many small groups of friends.
>One really close group.
>Went places.
>Did stuff.

>After lifting.
>No money
>No friends
>Bored all the time
>Life is excersise, recovery and diet
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It improved significantly tbqh.
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>>37453317
r/tanlines
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>>37446856
well shit
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>Avoidant personality disorder (AvPD) symptoms:

Hypersensitivity to rejection/criticism
Self-imposed social isolation
Extreme shyness or anxiety in social situations, though the person feels a strong desire for close relationships[7]
Avoids physical contact because it has been associated with an unpleasant or painful stimulus
Feelings of inadequacy
Severe low self-esteem
Self-loathing
Mistrust of others
Emotional distancing related to intimacy
Highly self-conscious
Self-critical about their problems relating to others
Problems in occupational functioning
Lonely self-perception, although others may find the relationship with them meaningful
Feeling inferior to others
In some extreme cases, agoraphobia
Uses fantasy as a form of escapism to interrupt painful thoughts[8][9]

>mfw literally every single one is true
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I have always been a "popular" person because I'm funny, empathetic, and resourceful. People love that shit. I can hold conversations with anyone, talk about pretty much anything, and I have no problems with rejection. I get invited out all the time. Women always seem to go out of their way to talk to me and do all the classic "she's into you" tell ls from their unoriginal sexual playbook.

However, I genuinely don't like people. I make excuses to not do things with people 99.9% of the time. It all feels like a sham at work because I put up this mask to make other people comfortable when really I don't even fucking care. And the women part? Yeah right. I got married way too fucking young to a girl who doesn't really seem to give a shit about me anymore, but doesn't leave because for some sick reason she still thinks I'm her best option in life. Gets old turning down younger women who have a lot going for them because I don't want to give up the only friendship I ever wanted, even if it's no longer what it used to be...

Lifting helps me not want to kill myself. I can do it alone and work on who matters. =/ There is no pretending with the weights. And the weights are much easier to carry than the social mask I've been wearing for years.

Help me /fit/.... I fucking hate this world.
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>finish workout with a pump in arms
>walking out of uni gym
>qt blonde employee smiles and says hi to me in hallway
>pretend didn't hear and keep walking
What do I do in this situation /fit/?
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>>37454726
>Lonely self-perception, although others may find the relationship with them meaningful

I remember when I first read this it blew my mind. I'd never really thought about it before but once I thought about it I realised that I do this all the time. I severely understate any new relationships I make and that usually leads to the relationship dying. I have no idea how to fix it either.
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>>37454726
That could be my life's resume....
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>>37444629

Its not just fit. If you were autistic and got fit you will still be autistic.

>At this point you either can accept the leadership position, or must leave the social group for people more like yourself

I know what you mean bu this though, I feel I am experiencing it myself. I'm 24 this month, in the last 3-4 years I have done a lot with my life, improving myself and doing things that people find impressive. Most of my friends are still working the same jobs they have had for years, in supermarkets or retail stores and never do anything interesting, wasting their early 20's. They flake out of doing things despite saying they will, never want to try anything new, are constantly broke and will complain about their life despite doing very little to correct it. I have different groups of friends and I find hanging with my 'main' group is increasingly unappealing. I tried to be the catalyst for positive change, but I got sick of carrying them.
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>>37455132
Grab her by the throat and pin her against the wall, tear her clothes off.

The subtext to that 'hi' is "FUCK ME NOW", simply saying hi back is too beta.
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>>37455272
>tfw not alpha enough to just start ripping the clothes off of an employee in a public area of a university gym
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Does anyone have hashtagyoloswagteam's videos?
She sells them on reddit. I wanna fappening to her so bad.
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*briiiip*

haha social MEME haaa *briiiiiip* proton shaksos just getting meme to fart

*BRIIIIIIIIP*
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>>37455365
mega:///#F!FU4WSSIQ!LVyiL2104VFfUIn5riZb-Q

here you go famalam
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>>37454726

Describes me perfectly as well.

Is this shit treatable?
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>>37454726
I didn't need to see this today
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>>37454726
fuck...
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>>37443345
I want to bury my ass so far in her penis whoever could pull it out would be named King Arthur
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>>37455576

Right?

When i read that shit it really made me feel.
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>>37454726
>Uses fantasy as a form of escapism to interrupt painful thoughts

I thought I was the only one
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>>37455609
I think this is the only thing that keep me alive
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It hasn't helped at all because I've never ugly in the first place. Women don't like me because they sense the fear. I'm a gentle person and they don't like it. Its Elliott Rodger syndrome.
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>>37454726
uh

is this legit?
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>>37453121
>still want to kill myself

How does one go about lift that feel away ?
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>>37443345
i get more korean dicks now.
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>>37455712
yes i no from experience in hungary and I escaped the taxman in the UK and the Netherlands.
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>>37453121
>develop a heavy average/plain girl fetish
this must be because of the porn. Cut it out.
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>>37443422
> a guy thinks he's better than the rest of the world because he takes the stairs
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I'm more fun at parties now. I've also turned more into a chad. I was at a party two nights ago just talking to some girls, got a number and generally just trying to end my sexless streak (9 months). I had fun and got to know some new people but didn't think much of it. Apparently I had cockblocked a bunch of guys cause I didn't realise they were hitting on the girls and neither did the girls so I swooped in and asked the guys if it was cool I borrowed the girl for a while and the girls were like "yeah sure! right (insert the poor guy's name here)?"

It used to be me who got my girls stolen like that and it feels good to know that's not the case anymore but still I feel for the poor guys I did that to. I didn't even realise they were trying to score until the day after when some buddies called and told me.
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>>37443817
>>37443757
cut off milk and any gluten products for a month, you shitty faggots. then introduce milk back again.

gotta keep gluten far away though, intestinal exposure to gliadin leads to zonulin upregulation and consequent disassembly of intercellular tight junctions and increased intestinal permeability.

tl;dr gluten makes your stomach shitty, which in turn makes casein give you acne and a bunch of other shit.

stop gluten and casein for a month, then reintroduce casein.

signed, bacne free for over a year.
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>>37455861
How does that make sense?
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>>37451274
Getting normie "big" (6'3" 225) has had a pretty positive influence for me. Nobody fucks with me anymore. I have resting man bitchface and am usually pretty quiet so maybe that helps. I also never try to start shit and do try to de-escalate fights when they happen, I'm non confrontational and am really polite, so maybe all that plays a part.

If I got in a fight I'd be fucked because I've never been in a fight before, my cardio isn't very good and I'm a huge pussy.
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>>37455587
she doesn't have a penis you faggot.

/fit/ has a serious fag epidemic. Hard to hang out here.
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>>37456092
in porn you get used to 10/10 hot girls and then it gets old so you start appreciating normal girls. It kind of happened to me too. It will still probably not make sense to you ahaha
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>>37448735

>grills before potential gymbros
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>>37451308
agree, still manlets tho
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>>37456002
They wouldn't have scored though, those girls weren't interested or they wouldn't have gone off with you.

I did the same for the first time a month back, its a great feeling.
>>
well i started lifting like 1 year ago, before that i was a weird as fuck. gaming all day, not many friends, pretty much full autism. then i met a new friend who introduced me into the gym. i went a few times (maybe like 2 months in total) and gained some confidence/strenght etc. i was still one of the kids who didn't really speak their opinion and didn't talk to much in general because of low self esteem.

going gym since 4 months now active and never felt better. people want to be my friends, i can speak out whatever i want, do whatever i want and started talking to girls (NEVER did this before gym).
kids ask me all the time how i so much bigger in just 4 months of active lifting, feels good man.

can't believe i haven't started earlier and laughing at the people that say that you can't lift autism away / girls don't care about bodies

++ also girls seem WAY more interested than before
>>
>>37443358
fucking beta faggot.
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>>37456103

Watch the interior chin shots when fighting manlets. And don't be so quick to go to the haymaker. Basically keep your defense up, and if you have hair don't let thr guy near it (avoid instinctively leaning forward to protect your face.)

Two jabs with the left, then a surprise bomb with the right. Usually works quickly. Then run before his boys jump in.
>>
apparently I get looked at all the time by chicks and dudes mirin'. I never notice cuz I'm alpha as fuck, but when I'm walking around with a girl, she notices this all the time and tells me, I'm like "huh, really?"
>>
>>37443817
i had/have bacne scars too
i did tca peels on my back once a month for 4 years straight and my back almost looks normal now
nothing else got rid of them, its a slow process though
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>>37443345
Mfw these tanlines are a fetish i got from watching degenerate hentai when i was in junior high lmao. Resort boin ill never forget.
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>>37456718
sounds really nice, do you remember some of your stats after 4 month?
I'm approaching 4 month soon, but my progress doesn't seem to be quite as good as yours
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>>37456200
Well i like it
And i only watch JAV and im still into japs chicks
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how do i not fuck up this threesome fit? i can include pics of both girls if it helps you guys visualize what my approach should be
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Yes. I got in shape and became an asshole like I've always knew fit fucks were. Without my lacking appearance to keep me humble anymore I've begun to treat everyone differently since I've climbed over them on society's ladder.
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>>37457678
these are the two girls, the white one is 5'9 160lbs and the brown one is 5'5 150
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>>37449584

oof right in the feels, Im slowly changing, insecure about my face but Im working on dropping the bf to fix that then Ill be golden
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>>37457743
http://imgur.com/Y8KIiOZ sorry file size was too big
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>>37457769
>>37457678
wow, you are very lucky
when she is taking the lead you don't have to worry anyway, have fun
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>>37443757
I still had backne until 20. By 21 it was all gone suddenly for no reason.
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>>37457769
Sounds fun, although the national geographic titties are kind of a turn off.
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>>37458187
i love brown girls, (i'm black she's mexican) i just think white people always have some strange discoloration on their bodies in one place or another. big yellow blotches and they'll be like, "oh i fell lol ^_^ " idk i can fuck them but i couldnt bee with them
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>>37457425
i gained about 17-19 lbs of mostly pure muscle (at least my stomach looks the same as before)

55kg before 63-64kg now

5'9'' manlet

i think most people just think i'm huge cuz my back and arms got pretty big in that time and i mostly walk in a shirt so
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>>37443422
Dude relax, you are pumping Iron; not saving the fucking world...
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>>37455576
>>37455603
I don't understand this obsession with diagnosing everything
it's called being shy and the only way to overcome it is to confront it, not to sit here crying about it
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>>37458643
This
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>>37449584
>>
Zero social life, not even any friends or people I talk to outside of work. But I'm fine, probably schizoid.
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>>37451410
I know this feel. I to have resting bitch face.
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>>37443345
incredibly good.
I have had more sex than ever and girls hit on me often.
energy levels, confidence and libido up by a mile.

<that's me 1 year ago.
went from complete skinny nobody to a cool fit cool dude.
fitness caught me like a healthy flu and I cant stop.
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>>37443345
It's gone, because I lift instead of hang out and drink with people
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>>37443757
I'm 27 and the backne I've got at ~16 is still there. No dermatologist is able to help me to get rid of it completely.
I want to juice, but can't even imagine how bad my skin is going to look in that case
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>>37446830

Post a pic of your body!
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>>37460469
Whoa did you fuck the twink in pic? Congrats man not my thing but if you're into the frail little boys you've really made it
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>>37449584
this shit right here.
fuckin' sucks
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>>37450962
>>guys in pubs/bars are more hostile

I doubt that's the lifting, I'm a skelly fuck and people try it with me all the time. A lot of clubbers are just cunts t b h
>>
I am much better at lifting things.
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>>37449584
And what if you were too autistic in the first place that you didn't know that girls were interested when they did show you attention?
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>>37455609
Same here... fuck
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>>37446365
>The only people who like people who talk about protein shakes are themselves.
Shit. This is exactly how it is too. The realization...
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>>37446812

I agree with >>37450929

Though I'm not going to jump the shark based off tid-bits.

If you are a fuck-face then die.
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>>37452869
>>37452646

>Not just ignoring the fucker unless he does try to physically contact and fight your ass.

You sure it's not you faggots that are those exact same fag-fuckers that pollute the clubs and try and start shit?
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>>37459477
>>37458643

True dat.

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