Boner fitness

>>37325016
Performance anxiety and too much porn. I hope she is understanding, you will need it.

>>37325054
>too much porn
Stop this meme

>>37325016
stop using porn

tell her you were nervous

>>37325054
She is, but it's still pretty depressing. I ate her out and made her cum but I still feel bad that we couldn't fuck. I've gone off porn for the last 2 weeks.

How long until I get it together? Any tips other than >don't be so nervous, bro?

Try fucking a man in his asshole

>>37325104
nah, that's not it

>>37325016
It just takes time to get comfortable

I had this same problem OP with my marriage. She was hot but I just wasn't attracted to her emotionally so I had no physical attraction either.

I never really got over it with her and on top of other things she was kinda a bitch so we divorced. New gf is nice and I have no issue.

There's some attraction issue with her.

>>37325100
Do you still fap?

>>37325100
The best is to be upfront about it. Just tell her you need to feel more comfortable around her before sex. Joke about not fucking on the first date... or fuckdate. Build confidence. Think of how desirable you are to her - your big muscle body on top of her, plowing her pussy. She's with you after all.

I tend to think this the same mental block that prevents some men from peeing in public, when other people are around.

Happens to me all the time. People will tell you to stop using porn, and I think they're right, but it takes YEARS of abstention. I've been on porn since I was 12 years old and didn't lose my virginity until well into my 20s; when you're raised on picture-perfect sex in the comfort of your own hand it's a little tough to get a boner when you're actually with a girl.

I had a girlfriend for about 5 months and had no problems getting it up with her after the first few weeks. When we broke up I couldn't get it up with girls. Ended up buying a bunch of viagra. Worse comes to worst I suggest getting some of the blue pill on darknet.

>>37325100
Sorry man, but don't be so nervous.
How not to be nervous? Don't think about impressing her, just think about sex for your own satisfaction, think how good that pussy feels and how hot the whole act is, but do not think what she's thinking about you.
After first successful attempt you shouldn't have this problem with the same girl.