Mental health

>>37242842
> second girl can't get hard
I think she just didn't want to have sex with you, girls don't get hard.

>>37242842
Try it with men, faggot.

>>37242842
QUIT porn. Nofap is pseudoscience bullshit, but porn conditioned you to only get a boner when there is ZERO pressure. That's why you got it up when you gave up, and not before then.

>>37243037

Thanks mate, usually it's just the very first time that makes me nervous.

After that I can say 'I fucked that girl' and dont really care anymore...

>>37243130
Incidentally anon, when I had all of my erection issues, even though I'd never get it up, all of the foreplay would make me shoot out a ton of precum. It's like my body knew that what I was going through was supposed to be arousing. Just out of curiosity, were you the same way?

>>37243161

Yep, exactly the same.
This also happened many times during the second relationship. Sometimes I got hard, precum left and dick got soft. It's the nerves man and shows there are some issues between you & her.

You need to calm down or most importantly have the mindset that no matter what you do, your girl will be happy.

My first girl told me that hundrets of times until eventually I believed her and from that point everything was great.

Make a game out of it. Make foreplay kiss her, hug her, try to fuck her and if things dont work out laugh about it and tell her to give you a bj or do something else.

You need to know that everything is alright if things dont work out

>>37243256
Shit, that what I need to relearn. How to relax, and calm down. Even as I am typing this, and doing absolutely nothing; I'm anxious and nervous (I can't figure out why.). My mind is never relaxed at all. It's horrible.

Stop jerking it completely, you'll be insane with lust eventually. You might pop off early fuckin' her but so what she's probably a cunt.

Also, you got to do things that turn you on. Slap her ass, play with her ass cheeks, get a handful of titty.

>>37244815
Meditation can't hurt, anon-kun

>>37245045
Meditation is for faggots.

>>37242842

Xanax or propanalol

>>37245045
Can't hurt, I suppose. I'll look into it. >>37245098
>>/hm/ or /mlp/

>>37242842
Medical student here. you have whats called a autonomic system imbalance. see the erection of the penis is cause by the Parasympathetic nervous system which is the feeling you get when ur comfy after you just ate. The Ejaculation is caused by the Sympathetic nervous system which is the feeling you get when you want to fight a bear. people that have too much sympathetic (nerviousness) will have a hard time getting it up. people that have too much parasympathatic will have a hard time cumming or even physical activity.

TLDR: drink a beer retard

>>37242842
What kind of faggot looks at a naked ass that is ready to get jackhammered and then gets soft dick.

If this happens to you just accept that you like cock and go for BBC from there on

>>37244815

Dude I haven't been calm since the relationship started (which was like 8 months ago)

Even tho I told her there is a Problem she handeled it the wrong way or not at all.
My Grades suffered, I was constantly thinking about it, could never focus.
Worst thing was I blamed myself.

Truth be told that the right girl with empathy will know how to deal with these things. My first did, second didn't.

>>37242842
It's nerves m8. Even if you don't feel especially nervous at the time that's what it is.

I had the exact same problem, first time was always an issue and then after that it was fine

>>37245880

So how did you solve that issue?
Especially condoms are a burden, without would be easy.....

>>37242842
>friday night
>read this
>realize my life is pretty good

it's hard to believe people this pathetic really exist

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>>37243256
Different anon here. Your post has actually impacted me. I came here for a kek

>>37245990

I'm happy for you man.
As long as I have been with my first gf life was good to me aswell.

But don't worry brah, I'm texting a new girl as we speak. Even tho im scared, that's no reason to not try&fail.

I'll make it. We all will

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