Confidence Thread

>>36778592
I'm confident as fuck as a result of winning, not because im fit

i'm winning because im fit though

:^)

Getting fit has played a role in gainimg confidence, but it wasn't a direct correlation. My advice is to get fit, reassess your strategy, then go from there. I doubt my specific path would work for many people.

>>36778650
D E V I L I S H

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I was 35%+ bodyfat when I started browsing /fit/. My mind and body were wrecked after years of abuse with weed, junk food, and MMOs that initially happend from a relationship going wrong and killing my motivation.

/fit/ really helped me. I started eating clean, stopped smoking weed and meditating instead, lifting 3 to 5 times a week & doing cardio. My bodyfat dropped to the normal range, I had the confidence to go out again and socialise or even just be productive, by normie standards people would come up to me saying I was a sik cunt.

But as I've continued to browse /fit/ and bbing forums in general, but /fit/ especially, the confidence gains have started to reverse. I worry I'm a manlet, I worry about my Testosterone levels dropping as I age and losing my gains, I worry I'm not big enough, I worry I'm not shredded enough, I worry I haven't slept with enough women, etc.

So yeah /fit/ does help you but it quickly becomes negative and you (& I) probably need to move on before it puts us back as the anxiety prone autists where it found us if not worse.

>>36778792
just get on gear dude

>>36778816

I got into fitness to get away from being a drug user..

>>36778939
>gear
>drugs

gear only makes you better in every fucking direction you look dumbass, it's not like weed or coke

>>36778939

Then you will fail at both

Yes. Getting stronger and better looking has done wonders for my confidence. I still feel like shit some days though, so I just sleep those days away.

>>36778939

So you are still being controlled by drugs. Good work, dummy

I take photos of myself looking my best and look at them when I'm feeling my worst to remind me of what I've achieved.

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>>36778592
I have a hot girlfriend that adores me that I cheat on constantly.

>>36778962
>>36779135
>>36779205

/fit/'s answer to being healthy: roids. Never change /fit/

>>36779500
checked

I'm quite self-confident*, although 2 months ago I was 36% bodyfat (1,80 m, 107 kg) and just started lifting 2 months ago. But since I started, my ego gets even bigger alon with my biceps – and that's fucking awesome, man!

*Maybe because already in my 30ies, good job, married, friends, had enough bad times to know that I can overcome shit.

>>36779706
Who the fuck wants to be healthy? Don't be a faggot.

>>36778792
>believing memes
>caring about what women think
>caring about what anybody thinks
>believing society/media saying that you need to be attractive/have a partner to be able to be happy
>lifting for others approval

Just keep on going with the mindset of bettering yourself and moving past this stage of wild fear of drug use. People won't dislike you even if you aren't up to "chad" standards, it's mainly about your charisma and personality, as much as 4chan will try to drill it into your head that you're worthless, and you don't need a woman to be happy, just get some bros. No drama that way, frankly having a gf fucking sucks.

You'll be fine, just stop letting people get into your head. Be your own man, and that'll speak for itself on what kind of person you are.

>>36779500
Why would you emotionally destroy a good woman, atleast do it with the cunts that deserve it

Fucking nigger

>>36778592

realize that you are the most important and most attentionworth person in your life

act like that but dont be egoist

do something worth doing and overdoing it until you are really great at it

>>36778592
Yes, I don't walk around with awful "nobody look at me"-posture and I make eye contact with people now.

>>36779706


No, just pointing out that behaving in a soecific way to avoid drugs still means you are being controlled by drugs. He will fail at the gym and at sobriety because he's not finding something he wants to do, he's avoiding something he wants to do

>>36778592
I really look up to Captain America, so a big reason of why I've been lifting has been to live up to his name. I've also been trying to shape my attitude after his. I've noticed that over time, I've become practically fearless. I used to be a weak little skinnyfat that could barely do 10 pushups. Big guys scared me. Now nobody scares me. I don't back down from anyone anymore.

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>>36778592
Yes

>>36779500
I wish I could cheat but damn shes too good to me

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>it's all about confidence
>women can smell desperate men from miles away

>meanwhile Chad can say anything and he will make women wet
>there is nothing this guy can say that wont make women disgusting

>>36783120
This. The guilt and realization that youre a nigger are unbearable.

>>36785453
wow you sound gay

>>36785453

You sound so bad, I'm glad you found an autist to pair with