>tfw thought getting fit would help me get girls >tfw nothing

>girls look at me
>the thought of having one close to me especially expecting me to make a move scares the shit out of me
>doing cable curls today
>look at a guy doing leg curls
>immediately think he has a nice ass

just fuck my shit up desu senpai

>>36774417
When will y'all learn? Becoming /fit/ will never fix your autism.

That sucks for you, OP. I'm unemployed, dropped out of college, balding, don't lift all that seriously, and still live at home, but I go out every week and I hook up most nights.

>>36774417
Getting fit doesn't cure autism

>>36774417
You are literally me, except for the IT shit. Basically all I can do I think is wait for a girl so intriguing that I cant help but stop being autistic. Not interested in sex or gf for the sake of themselves really, only sex just to say I did it finally. Try to cut back on porn too, too much of it is poison.

>>36774417
If you idiots are as /fit/ as you say, try online dating. Post good pictures. Profit.

If you guys are massively ugly, and that's the reason, then you can't be helped except by plastic surgery.

But if you guys are decent fellows who lack the mind game to date girls. It doesn't matter what woman gives you the time of day, it could be the hottest stacy, or the ugliest betty, but they will use you, and prey on your weak beta minds that have no confidence.

People like you, are better holding off dating women until you grow a pair first. I have a feeling you'll fall head over heels for the first bitch that looks your way.

That was me unfortunately.

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>>36774533
One of the biggest reasons why I'm so cautious when it comes to dating women. I don't want some roastie whore. I want a woman who's company I will genuinely enjoy. But I feel lonely a lot, so I guess beggers can be choosers.

Time to lift the pain away.

>>36774417
What worked for me:
Step 1: Meet girl online (for me it was on a vidya game). You're less autistic behind a screen. Take advantage of that.

Step 2: Be comfortable with girl. Hang out all the time. Skype. Ensure she isn't a man.

Step 4: Ask her out, hope for the best.

gf ended up moving to live with me after a year, feelsgood. got her to start lifting with me and she loves it.

>>36774563
Oh, I forgot one

Step 7: Learn how to count

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>>36774563
Tfw no qt gamer gf to admire my gains

>>36774417
>made out with a girl while both drunk
>too drunk to do anything else, just fell asleep
>know she's willing to go further
>too beta to initiate anything

For fuck's sake, help me /fit/. I don't want to miss this opportunity.

>>36774550
They're all Roasties man. I learned the hard way.

imminent /r9k/ rant incoming

>be tall
>have great eyes and facial structure
>be chubby in my early teens, but lifted the fat away
>still was self conscious from all my teen years being a fatty
>joined the military, came out ripped, wearing my dress blues the bitches love so much
>think I'm still the ugly fat fuck I was
>dated a bunch of ugly chicks because I thought that's all I could get (at that time I didn't see them as ugly, perhaps subconsciously)
>ugly girls still were roastie whores even while dating me
>stop dating for a while
>finally regroup and date solid 9/10
>she's just like the other roasties, except she didn't hide it from the start

It's just a fact, it's in women's nature to be this way. Unless you're some rich, model looking, doctor, women will always be looking to see where else they can get attention from, and to see who they can trade you for, and EVEN THEN, rich good looking interesting male models still get cheated on, there is no escape.

Some women don't cheat, but it's because those women came to the realization that they reached the highest male they can possibly get that will take them seriously, they won't risk losing the guy they settled for that they could trust by banging Chad from the gym, but they'll be thinking about Chad for sure.

Men tend to typically date down, and women tend to date up. Showing that men are incredibly more self conscious and realistic about it, while women, just as self conscious, are unrealistic and believe themselves to be models and princesses..

Point being, women are incapable of love. The sooner you realize this, the better, though it will hurt at first to accept you'll never get the love you hoped for.

Our fathers VHS collection of 80's movies we grew up watching, showing chivalry, and honest women, were lies. There's no woman who falls for the hero, she falls for his social status. The moment he loses it, she'll find a reason to leave

>>36774417
>addicted to porn
>have like 100 gigs on my laptop
Geez, I jolly wonder what the problem might be.

>>36774417
>tfw deleted all my porn just the other day
Don't know why I did it, but I also don't miss it.

I bet I will when I get horny

>>36774664
Why live then?

>>36774417
>can't talk to girls for shit
>only girls who have seemed to like me were HUGE roastie whores that I just ignored.

Talk to the roasties and work your way up.

>>36774417
Believe it or not anon, not many people are perfect at everything. That guy who you think gets all the girls might have crippling self esteem issues about the size of his penis, is failing school, and can't find a job.

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>>36778577
True. I'd rather have a successful career than be successful with women. But I'm a workaholic so that's probably why. I haven't ever had a relationship with a girl. I focus mainly on fitness and school but there's just that lurking feeling of loneliness and emptyness. The feeling lifting won't help. The need to hug a girl after a long stressful day. I don't like feeling needy. The feeling comes and goes, but it's constantly lurking.

>>36774563
Same happened to me except that we only Skyped once, she traveled 600 kms to see me, we fucked and 8 months later we're broken up. She was a qt chubby short gamer grill and I blew it :^) . kill me asap

>>36774664
trp pls go. or stay whatever. youre just parroting shit you read on that shitty subreddit

>be /fit/ though I don't lift :^) still an above average body I reckon
>be attractive
>dress well
>do pretty good at university, good at languages, writing, that shit
>have some friends
>have girl friends, casually talk to them at uni and like it
>virgin at 22 and never had a gf, no idea how to change that

The reason you cant talk to girls is because you think they are different from guys. PROTIP: They aren't. At all. Just imagine them as guys and treat them accordingly.

>>36780077
Not that I'm an expert, but ask one of those girls you talk to out. At the start of the date talk normally but gradually, slowly try to escalate, that meaning try to drive the conversation towards meaningful stuff, like relationships, sex, w/e. Also later into the date try touching her and see how she reacts.