Masturbation before Sex

>>35326922
if you have a problem with premature ejaculation, then yeah by all means go for it

Just go down on her first then fuck. Tell her to rub herself so you can cum at the same time. There's no worse feeling than going so long that you lose sensation and don't get off.

No, she wants you to come too

>>35326922
Size part is straight bullshit

But lasting longer is almost guaranteed so long as its like around 1 hour before sex

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OP, unless you know you can only cum once and then need to cuddle for 5 hours like the fag you are I wouldn't worry about it. Might come as a surprise to you but a healthy young adult should be able to fuck multiple times a night. Just fuck her/him for 2 min, then cum, then fuck her/him again and again. Don't fap beforehand in order to impress her/him with your 'stamina'.

I think this depends on the person, I mean I tried it once and as >>35327628 said that's the world feeling. I usually last a lot before cuming the first time , so when I did this it was taking way way too long and I was already exhausted, cos at the begging it was fun and I was banging her like never did, but after a while I was tired and I didn't had sensation anymore. It was even worse than fucking while been complete drunk. Some of my friends say this is something they almost do every time... I would say do it if your first cum is quite fast, otherwise don't unless you just wanna impress her with a 1 hour fuck

>>35326922
You could have trouble getting a good boner and probably won't be able to cum. For the average western premature ejaculation is the last thing you gotta worry about since sex will be super awkward and uncomfortable compared to fapping while watching porn.

If youre a virgin or super inexperienced and you fap to porn often FUCKING NEVER FAP BEFORE SEX. You need to abstain from porn and fapping for 4-5 days if you know when you might fuck and if you don't just do no porn/no fap.

>>35326922
believe it or not, most girls don't want to get rammed for 45 minutes straight.

What if I have premature ejaculation at the age of 23? am I doomed?

I had sex many times btw, drinking is helpful but not really a solution

>>35328832
Then yes, do it 30 - 45 mins before having sex

>>35328764
This.

I had this problem. Virgin for the longest time then finally lost it. But I bought into the whole 'FAP before sex to last longer' so I do it but go at it hard, the way I'd normally. And sure I cum, but for like the next few hours my dick was not getting hard at all. So yeah

>>35328805
This is true. Honestly I'd rather cum waaaayyyyy too soon, then not be able to even get hard at all.

>>35326922
Try putting lidocaine on the tip

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Tips on how to not last as long?
Lasted over an hour both times with the girl I'm currently with, I didn't even cum in the end.

>>35329158
How did you decide to stop?

>Well, I'm not cumming anyways so we might as well stop?
>O-Ok

>>35329169
Not that anon but I have had sex with 18 women and only ever came once.
I just pretend I finish and toss the condom before questions are asked

>>35329169
Kek
Not quite like that, heat of the moment goes, ask if she's cool with it and stop.

>>35329158

The doc said the results are in. You're gay

>>35329188
So, you are faking an orgasm? Girls usually can sense the dick contractions when one is cumming, so they might know you are faking it.

>>35329221
I didn't think I'd been on here that long.

I don't. I like to bust big, thick nuts

>>35329279
Do you bust inside or outside? Do you tell your partner where you are going to bust or ask if it's ok for her if you bust outside? A-Asking for a friend

>>35329317
Don't bust inside unless you are wearing a condom. I just pull out and finish myself off on her chest or something

Premature ejaculator here. I always fap about 15 min before sex. It completely numbs my dick during sex which I think is awesome. Then I can put all focus on her and when she's done I just go painfully fast and force my dick to ejaculate. Don't feel good on a physical level but the psychological feeling of makeing her cum is enough for me.

Another thing I've tried is to avoid porn 2-3 days before sex and try to keep my boner after the ejaculation. If it works she doesn't notice me cumming and afterwards when she asks why I didn't cum I show her the jizzed condom and tell her I came during the first 10 secondes.
This usually makes her feel like some kind of sex god.

>>35329391
>making her cum through intercourse alone

Pretty rare mayne

If you cum too fast and can't get it up again soon then you're fucked, I can't really help you.
Anyway, practice your tongue game, women value that more than you think, no wonder there are so many lesbians.
If you can get it up again after 5~10 minutes, just eat her out, ask for a blowjob, cum, eat her again or do whatever until you're hard again and then fuck her.
Also, try to stay relaxed, I sometimes finish really fast, other times it takes me a while to cum (while enjoying myself, not in a "thinking of grandma not to cum way"), and I realize that the times I finish too fast is because I was too nervous about having sex.

>>35329740
>thinking of grandma not to cum
How the hell does that help? Wouldn't it just make things worse?

>>35329856
Normally it would but ever since I started lifting I no longer find low test grandma attractive

when I did nofap I found I was smaller when non-erect, considering im a grower that is already a bad thing (3 soft, 7 hard)

fapping is only bad if it consumes your life. besides, fapping is good for your prostate.

>>35329224
They never say anything so I guess who cares? After an hour and half I'm tired breh. Sex is more about power for me anyway so I'm fully satisfied from just that

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>>35328610
Have Delayed Ejaculation. Sexy tiem lasting 45mins-3 hours with some foreplay breaks.
>when you lose that sensation over and over
>when you feel like a failure
>when you keep going cause maybe in it'll happen
>when you can't cum and feel like you ain't even a man

I didn't lose my virginity till 30. Feel like nothing has changed.

>>35329932
>caring about your size when you're not erect
I'd rather be as small as possible when I'm not at least nursing a semi. Who cares how big you are soft?

>>35330002
guys at the gym no homo

>>35328423

Only if you find her attractive.

If she is 4/10 or lower then getting hard twice is hard

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>>35329740
>Anyway, practice your tongue game, women value that more than you think, no wonder there are so many lesbians.

>tfw had 2 gf's so far
>both of them didn't allow me to go down because they thought it was disgusting

They did give bj's though, so idk.

>>35329989
stop watching so much porn and loosen your grip

>>35330081
Wash your teeth faggot

>>35329478
>have too much autism to get if sarcasm or not
>feelsbad.jpg

>>35330002
This

>tfw I can fuck my gf for an hour without cumming, while she orgasms twice

She gets all paranoid because I can't cum, seriously, she'll think I'm gonna cheat on her because she's my first girlfriend as well, I don't know what to do I just want to comfort her

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>>35329169
Sometimes girls dry out and can't keep going.

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I hate that shit where your dick just loses sensation and just feels like a limb that has fallen asleep. When it happens to me, it's usually after I edge so hard I "fake" cum, but nothing comes out, then like my dick resets and it takes fucking forever to cum again. Annoying/10

>>35328832
I had the same problem, every sexy time was a struggle trying not to cum...

Now I'm 30, and it has gone better.
I can pretty much last as much as I want to, also it's very hard to cum now just from a girl sucking me off.. Which is kinda sad

>>35331113
this. exactly the same situation.

>>35329478
My girl can't climax from PIV or even toys, she only climaxes from external stimulation

Even though it is her issue, it makes me feel like a lame that I can't get her to climax from PIV

>>35330081
My first gf of 6 years only let me go down on her like twice but she thought it was gross too. She also had no problem with blow jobs

Current gf is game for anything except anal because she says I am too big but I don't want anal anyways because I think that's nasty

>>35329224
he could always do kegels.