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Whats wrong with me /fit/ I was getting going with this really

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Whats wrong with me /fit/

I was getting going with this really sexy girl yesterday but I couldn't get completely hard. Uusually she makes my dick diamonds just by touching me but when we were actually doing it I was only slight chub. I never had problems getting hard before but this time was weird, im not sure if it was just because I was drunk but that never stopped me either

>inb4 homo
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>>35152453
>>whiskey dick
>>relax m8
>> bang that chick hard fucking core next time you guys are sober
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/fit/ turns you gay
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>>35152453
You probably put her on a pedestal and felt nervous.
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probably anxious or something etc.

prob fine next time if you want better erections jelq
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>>35152476
Im not gay breh. Its just weird that this happened.
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>>35152486
>>35152465
What would be a good way to get rid of this anxiety and feel relaxed? What could help set the mood more and make me rock hard?
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>>35152453
Nerves and/or whiskey dick
>inb4 nofap cultists
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>>35152513
don't ever pressure yourself, try to make it easier physically on yourself, try to fantasize with the girl you wanna bang as the focus of your thoughts so you can think of that and stay harder.

but also don't ever put her on a pedestal. also try not to overthink overthinking ad inf etc.

>im one of those guys that's always had insensitivity during sex
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>>35152575
Anything else that might help? I really just dont want to fuck it up next time, it made me look really bad.
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>>35152611
jelqing/p.e. gives me confidence (and also helps me with being harder just by virtue that it works imo).

also don't fap with the previous 2-4 days helps a lot. it really helps if you only cum through sex with girls, ideally. complete nofap is nothing but a meme don't listen to these idiots.

noporn is a thing, though
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>>35152627
I do jerk it quite a bit, should I just flat out stop jerking off?
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>>35152711
If you're OP, yes.
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>>35152711
Jerk off twice a week cause it's healthy to ejaculate at least that many times a week for men. If it's been 4 days since you fucked or last fapped then it's okay to fap
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>>35152801
So should I wait a while also before I try with this girl again?
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Bamp.
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>>35152827
na just go for it. sex is fine as much as you want to but not fapping.
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>>35152453
>drunk
>Cant get it up
You answered your own question. Alcohol fucks with that for a lot of people.
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>>35152943
Should I take it slow when fucking her?
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>>35153056
if you find yourself fatigued or stressed in any position it's going to take your body's focus off of sex/staying hard. try to find a comfortable position that gives enough pleasure per the amount of energy you use. that's why i hate missionary personally. doggy and spooning are awesome for me, doggy for the ease of the movements and spooning because when you close the grills legs after you're inside her holy fuck m8
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>>35153072
Any other advice you could give on sex in general? It was actually my first time getting laid and I fucked up real hard (couldnt get condom on went soft)
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>>35153105
condoms suck if you're sure the girl is clean slice it up raw as long as you have self control (would recommend sex a few more times with condoms so you can get used to it)

sex is just awkward at first but it becomes really awesome. i used to have all kinds of trouble staying hard but now i fuck a 5'1 azn and she gets multiple orgasms from me.

also try different condoms. and don't worry about what the girl thinks or if you do something embaressing, just keep going with the flow. sex is like an endless conversation between two people's bodies that you can actually be interested in. respond to her response when she gives positive indicators like moaning grabbing biting etc. and try to make her feel beautiful (even if she's fat cause you are already trying to hit that shit faggot).

also it's okay to not finish or to finish early if you realize that you won't be able to cum if you keep going at a maintainable pace. you can always transition immediately into something like fingering or oral and she'll probably suck your dick if you're good at it. every girl wants to suck my dick because im decent at it and its pretty awesome to see them want to pleasure you back.

sorry for long post basically you just get better and try to be in tune with the idea of sex as communication
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>>35153149
I felt really bad because she kept trying to get me hard and I feel like I insulted her. She kepting blowing me and jerking me off but nothing, even tried dry humping. I ate her out also, im not sure if thats a bad thing to do or not?
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>>35153189
Just tell her that you just want to pleasure her, and that sometimes you have dry orgasms or something like that if you need. I'm just honest about it and no girl has ever really given second thoughts about it. Just give her attention with the rest of your body when your dick doesn't wanna cooperate.

It's not your job to cum in sex it's to have a good time. If you can learn to enjoy pleasuring a woman you can stop worrying about having bad sex.

It is always nice when you get to skeet all the way down her spine though fuark
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>>35153344
Should I talk to her and ask her what she likes me to do?
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>>35152453
Best Joestar, pic related
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>>35153579
>tfw no jojo bf
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>>35152943
Do you realize how autistic this sounds? There is no difference between sex and fapping
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>>35152453
For starters posting silver chariot and not star platinum
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>>35152453
alcohol or overtraning maybe
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>>35152611
Lol dude first step of relaxing is that chill she's more worried your not attracted to her anymore than she thinks your a lot beta
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>>35153603
Ah but psychologically, there is. Granted, cumming is cumming. But the interaction with another person makes the experience a lot more different. This varies from person to person but the pattern generally stays the same.
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