Requesting the /fit/ version of this
why is the guy even working out? Look at him in the first panel, if he has the energy to stare casually at others, he should be upping his weights.
Pretty sure he just wants to tone up for summer.
This guy is a fucking evolutionary failure.Human males are supposed to strive to be the best and not settle for mediocrity just because "It's ok,am still beautiful to someone and that's good enough".
if she would wrote me this then i would probably kill her.
>you should be demanding of your partner
With all the crazy shit some women post on the internet about alimony, cheating and anchor baby schemes, this is what you post here?
You need to do better than that.
If everyone thought like this:
She's not doing anything to get me back, so I shouldn't do anything to get her back. I'll just wait for her to do something.
He's not doing anything to get me back, so I shouldn't do anything to get him back. I'll just wait for him to do something.
That sums it up.
What I cannot tolerate is that most women have that kind of reasoning, even more if they are beautiful. If you do not do what she considers enough, she will dump you for someone who throws himself at her.
except men and women are different and have different gender roles in a number of areas , especially in terms of mating and relationships, for good reason.
Men are the people who show their interest in women first.
It only becomes a stalemate where both people weren't right for each other anyway. Where there is real attraction, at least one person will pursue the other, usually the man for cultural and psychological reasons, and then you'll end up together.
What she said holds up. If a man OR a woman isn't acting interested in you, despite you putting effort in, cut your losses. Obviously the amount of effort you expect is up to you.
And furthermore you can't be a pussy and expect women to lead much at all. It's just the way things are.
Just waiting for the version where the nigger is fucking his wife
Y'all niggas need to read some Mark Manson.
Women find male lust attractive. If some other man wins her over by throwing himself at her, that's your fault, not hers. It probably means you weren't right for each other anyway.
Actually to be honest I agree with you. There is a lot of misplaced complaining from men who think that feminism is poisoning them or whatever, but I agree that it's becoming contradictory. I avoid the whole topic at the moment.
What's wrong with expecting your partner to put some effort into the relationship?
The image is right. Inside you might be totally in love with your girlfriend and think about her every day, but if you never spend any time with her and never tell her and are basically just a shitty boyfriend, don't expect her to stay with you. Would you stay with a girl who tells you she cares about you but never acts like it?
No you missed the point. It's about showing love to each other. The image basically says that if he stops showing his affection, then you shouldn't be with him even if he does love you. That seems reasonable to me. Specially if you consider the fact that it's not always that both must show they want each other. Since one might have already made that clear, while the other one hasn't.
>Guy has to put in more effort
Literally just had a fight with my gf about this, it's actually a bit funny.
>tfw every time I try to put in effort she's busy playing The Sims
For one it looks like we've read it as in different context. I see it as they're in a fight or they're split apart (see sentences 1-4). You're assuming, for some strange reason, that the girl is still showing love/affection towards him when the man stops. Either way it says "if he's not doing x for you then you shouldn't do x for him" which is hypocritical and if both parties think like that the relationship is doomed to fail
It says that if females think there is an issue with the relationship they should not put any effort into trying to resolve it, but rather literally do nothing.
It says to be the very thing it's complaining about and makes no sense yet women will think it is valid advice and live by it.
No, that's how you know the person doesn't like you. Otherwise, you would never stop showing love for that person. If you follow your logic of "you should show affection even if he's not" that would lead to some terrible situations. It's pretty obvious that in relationships someone has to show interest first. Let's say a girl has been flirting with a guy all night, but he keeps ignoring her. By your logic she should continue doing this.
All the image says is if he doesn't show affection he's probably not interested and you should let it go. The part about "he still loves you" is sap meant to soften the blow.
Oh, I see. I guess that makes sense. People are generalizing it about everything though. In the context of a break-up, it is really shitty advice. I mean you should be clear about wanting to get back regardless of gender, but don't continue to pursue it after he hasn't shown that he/she wants you back.
Actually that's the definition of evolutionary success. He is exactly as good as he needs to be in order to send his genetic payload along to the next generation.
Someone who wastes food, energy, and valuable mating time by "striving to be the best" (which is something that literally doesn't matter) is less efficient.
It's OK to set a goal for yourself and strive to meet it, but don't couch your statements in pop-evolutionary-biology pseudoscience bullshit.
>start lifting, mirin gains
>lately my co-workers have been giggling when i walk by, guess they mirin
>my boss tells me to get the power surge
>i literally say "what's that"
>she's laughing like crazy
>tells me everyday i work is like my first day working
>been working for 6 months
I'm not a man at all. Sometimes I just want to kill myself.
Who gives a shit about what some ideologues say?
>He didn't know what a power strip is
Not him but what's a power strip? I assume it's not the outlet thingy
To be fair the common situation for girls is to have guys approach them, while guys have to approach girls or else nothing happens
What I mean is that women feel that their normal state is to be approached and have men going out of their way to talk to them
It's also known as a surge protector. It's like an extension cord with multiple outlets on it.
It doesn't supply power though. Your computer has a power supply that's probably hooked up to a power strip which is then plugged into your wall outlet.
No, surge protectors have a fuse inside of them to prevent burning out devices connected to them. They may or may not have switches. Regular power strips may or may not have switches.
So how unmanly am I? I feel really bummed out because of this. Normally I'm not so emotionally beaten down but god damn. It's getting to the point where I am literally asking you how beta I am.
They are probably trying to make you feel bad, because you are reminding them everyday that their bodies are shit.
Because of this they try to ridicule you by pointing out some of your flaws.
I guess that is true. But I give my boss props, she stopped drinking coke for two years, but she's still got a small gut going. Meanwhile I'm on 8 months and am 19% BF. We're all gonna make it.
Michaels. She meant power strip.
Now that I think about it, I barely even know how to change oil. This is what happens when I play MMOs for almost 9 years.
You're not unmanly, just ignorant. If you want read up on some typical manly things. I work for an autoparts shop delivering shit to mechanic shops and I don't know what the fuck they're talking about half the time but that's only because I don't have a background in that sort of work.