How to be attractive to indie girls?

>>12287248
A U T I S M
>if you have to ask
saged and reported autist

be more interesting

>>12287248
Just look like you're interesting.
Also, be interesting.

This board won't help you because it's full of timid teens who want nothing more than to fit in and fear nothing more than to stand out which is the opposite of what will get you girls.

cps, cropped jeans or cuffed chinos plus a tee works for me

>>12287266
Thanks for not being a prick
I will try

>>12287248
>how do I trick indie girls into sleeping with me?
a suicide attempt might help

>>12287270
kek

>>12287268
You're welcome.
If you want to know more about being interesting I recommend you read The Game by Neill Strauss (it's more of an account of the pickup artist community than a manual but should do the trick for anyone who's not an autist) and watch Larry Wessel's documentary on Boyd Rice, "Iconoclast", which you can find on youtube. Also Alejandro Jodorowsky. You'll find lots of help in occult media as those people are all about self-mastery and subtle manipulation of others (not /x/ occult, more like Crowley/Evola/Jodorowsky occult).

>>12287276
Thanks alot, I'll definitely check them out :)

>>12287266
Newman detecteé

Drugs

>>12287276
/r/TheRedPill

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>>12287276
Holy autism

>>12287456
Kid wanted advice, this is what worked for me.
Alt chicks need Manson characters.

>>12287248
lol ok

>Be tall
>Have a deep voice
>Be attractive. Conventionally or unconventionally both work
>Being white is the best thing, so if you're not white, consider changing your race
>Wear Rick (I do wear Rick pieces and many women in that demographic seem to love it and sometimes with have gotten a "Oh anon, your sweater is so warm" then they cuddle up on you and you have to deny because you're depressed about family issues and how you feel like you let down everyone in your life with your self imploding ideas
>Have stupid taste in media (e.g Music: Melanie Martinez, Lady Gaga, and other idiots of that caliber | Shows: Gravity Falls, Stranger Things, American Horror story, etc...)
>Have an air of aloofness or non-fuck giving without being an asshole
>Be slightly aggressive but still kind to women, kids/babies, animals, and nature
>Don't be overweight

>>12287248
act aloof and a bit wanky, wear only black, white and grey (coloured flannels are okay just make sure they're still darker colours), have a slightly obscure taste in film and music and chain smoke

I might be missing a few things but you'll be well on your way if you do this. Also, make an absolute effort to be a cunt to everyone but her when she's with you, works a treat

>>12287248

Dress in black, not jet black but used black. Try to go in the direction of proletarian/milspo/techwear and combine/experiment and develop your personal taste in these directions.

Optional: Acceptable colours are: olive
Be careful tier: washed out blue/green


Longer hair as seen in your picture are obviously pretty decent to pull that look of (try sgoing short if you are fit).

Avoid bright colours, normal core akin to blue, straight or unfitting baggy jeans, vans and chucks, high tops high sole shoes that make your feet look to big, no leather stuff, strpied stuff, long beard (albeit fa, potentially a dealbreaker and too normie to be alternatie anymore), too many accessoires (a watch and a necklace is all you really need), no band or festival shit etc is all I can tell you.

Post pics of what alternative core you are talking about and maybe I can help further.

>>12287276
Bro are you me? This is like half of my reading recommendations in one post.

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>>12287599
Kinda dress+look like pics related.

>>12287632

Sorry thats hipster pal and therfore not my millieu. You can still apply the suggestions stated earlier and see if it works for you otherwise, I think what
>>12287500
is the closest you come to an actul advice on how to be the "right" type for that kind of girl. (still very subjective and varies from person to person) Palewave is an option.

Post a fit, to see if some obvious mistakes are present.

>>12287630
I might be.

>>12287599
>avoid chucks, leather and striped stuff

terrible advice

>how to be attractive to girls
>by changing my clothes

Quite frankly, and let me just say this:

Girls only like clothes when they're worn by someone they find attractive

>>12287675
Avoid chucks and striped stuff is good advice though.

>>12287675

>chucks

only acceptable on a girls foot

>leather

80/90's are over, you'll look like a gopnik wearing anything leather.

>striped
Accept kurt's death an move on, a plain coloured xy works better than striped xy any time of the day.

Stop being stucked in the conventional idea of alternative, you archaic plebean.

>>12287690
Leather is simply a good material though.

>>12287599
>>12287690
to write this much and be so confident in your wrongness is some hilarious stuff

lookin forward to further, lengthy content my dude

>>12287704
Not him but Chucks are shite. Stripes only work for Telnyashkas.

>>12287276
hahahahahaahahahahahaaha

>>12287702

But dont to death and borderline uncombineable.
there is nothing that hasnt been done to death with leather and since op asked for a younger demographic, you a risking to look too oldfashioned when wearing it.

>>12287704

Always glad to proof faggots like you wrong. Feel free to take your 90s and shove it up your asshole, asshole.

>>12287690
>men's basketball shoes
>only acceptable for girls

Why

>>12287731

smaller feet and only lowtops Hightops are looking like shit and only work with equally thin jeans/etc what most girls are wearing. Otherwise, too archaic, too widespread (op wants attention) and too "scene" (remember emo?) Just get a pair of black walking/running(hiking hybrid shoes instead.

>>12287672
If you are, you'll love a now defunct blog called unqualified reservations. Also, check out bayesian logic as found in less-wrong. Both will blow your mind.

Make them feel like you are intellectually superior to them but encourage them to test their boundaries to be more like you. Most people around that age who are slighty more intelligent than average have a neurosis regarding their intellect. Make them feel stupid at once and smart the other time and they get addicted to the latter. Jump between flirting with them and seeming completly asexual and concerned with matters far beyond their grasp. This makes them long for your approval, and in most peoples eyes sex means acceptance.
This may sound sociopathic, but well.

>>12287739
Thanks for hooking me up, that's some good shit.
I trade you this recommendation:
Try libgen.io for the works of Jaan Valsiner, father of critical cultural psychology, building a new psychology from the ground up that is very much in line with occult (as in Evola & the UR group) understandings of the mind, and a book he edited called Psychology In Black And White by Sergio Salvatore.

>>12287795
This is also very true.
There's some good shit itt.
And then there's clothing advice...

>>12287690
He's trying to attract an indie girl, not impress a random self-styled fashion god you utter, utter mong.

striped top, perfecto and battered black chucks is a good outfit if that's his aim. stop trying so hard to be a contrarian.

>>12287599
You're saying that basic bitch indie girls will be turned off by vans and band tees? What is wrong with you?
You guys are projecting so much in your posts but he's trying to pick up retarded trendy 19 year Olds he shouldn't be dressed in fucking Rick just look up pictures of Matty Healy and do that

>>12287270
Yeah honestly and try to get a script. Then, all of those girls would be able to relate and talk to you about something you have in common.

>>12287799
Thanks anon, I'll definitely give them a look. How'd you get into all this stuff?

>>12287867
I could tell dozens of stories about that and each one would be equally true. Retroactive explanations don't do its complexity justice. Continued curiosity about culture outside the mainstream and knowing how to use the internet will get anyone into weird stuff and eventually to seeing the connections between these ostracized cultures.

>>12287276
/x/ is crowley occult tho.

>>12287907
nah, /x/ is all about ghost stories and demons and trolls and hollow earth theory and whatever silly conspiraciy nonsense

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>>12287264
first post best post

if you have to ask then you'll never know. it's supposed to be totally natural, not contrived

Daily reminder that the more "alternative" a girl is, the more she wants to get fucked by Chad.

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>>12287248
Not be you it seems.

>>12287248

where the fuck are you that the alt girls listen to the 1975. jesus. im guessing the midwest, i am sorry.

>>12287993
England

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>>12287903
Fair enough.

About those connections, though: don't you think that trying to extract common principles from a series of defunct/marginalized cultures would result in a good deal of inferior principles?

It seems to me that only the greatest cultures would have principles worth emulating, but that finding what they *all* had in common is just reducing yourself to the least common denominator. Hence the florentine preoccupation with the classical world during the renaissance.

>interesting

Terrible advice. Women don't know what interesting means. That's why they dye their hair and get tattoos.
>lol u think ur interesting faggot?
Not in any way that is attractive.

This is actually a pretty solid thread desu

>>12287248
>beautiful face with a good jawline (pretty is better than a generic Chad)
>tall (absolute min 180 cm)
>great, thick hair
>ottermode
>pretend to have the same interests as them

>>12287270
not even lying this will probably work
quite risky tho cos it could fuck up ur image overall

>>12287276
how does asperger feels like?

>>12288622
yh but what if this is actually getting him laid

>>12287690
>you'll look like a gopnik wearing anything leather
slavcore is fashionable now though

OP here, thanks for the advice everyone
hopefully i'll update u lot in the future w/ good news

>>12288622
I am a pretty normal outgoing guy, I just have weird interests. Among those some that I thought could be useful for OP. All the people telling him to be himself and that everything must happen naturally are right but some people have been deluded by the media into thinking of themselves as something they are not, so they need media that will break down their illusions and teach them how to be their natural self.
I would argue that most people hold false beliefs about themselves and would do good reflecting on and removing these.

bump for more

Indie still exists? I thought that shit burned out after 2011?

>>12288027
they DO know what talented means. interesting is just a synonym for cool/smart/talented, all those things can be VERY obvious especially to women

>>12288027
This is true. Tattoo bitches are annoying. I mean how many butterfly and flower tattooed bitches do you have to go through to get one that has a personality and is not compensating with how much money they spend on tats?

I can't believe you still have people feeding their egos. Tattoos are as common as having a nose on your
face, and picking a generic tat from an artist's book isn't going to help you
grow a personality. Women also tend to
believe being obnoxious and annoyigh makes them interesting, but just like a man it just makes you obnoxious and annoying.

>>12287248
get good at guitar. that's it.

>>12287981
then be that chad

the chad most girls want to be fucked by is an attitude. I'll admit that it helps massively if you're tall and handsome, but an alternative girl is more likely to want a tall, handsome, alternative guy (''bad boy'') with a cocky chad attitude as opposed to the all american bro

>light wash blue denim jeans rolled
>high white socks
>old schools

maybe a belt with a tucked in t-shirt, a loose fitting t-shirt or a colorful thrift-ed windbreaker.

>>12287599
>Dress in black, not jet black but used black.
I bought new clothes recently but my 2 year old fit is used black
>Try to go in the direction of proletarian/milspo/techwear
My style now, plus a little formality (dress shirt, maybe vest) thrown in
>develop your personal taste in these directions.
yup

I think you have some decent advice here. Or maybe I just like it because it's similar to mine.

I like this thread
Not op but more advice is welcome

>>12287276
Do NOT listen to this fucker! This is dark stuff, short term gain, long term consequences. You know the true path, strengthen yourself, pray, dress well, and speak boldly and you can fall in love

Heres how i get them
>Dress middly vintage, yet very /fa/
>Be funny with shit eating humor
>Be into the normie bands
>Have the confidence of the looks you will never have, but dont be cocky
>Be confident with them irl, never show any kind of shame to be with them
>Don't ever say you are a gamer or anything that they can laugh about

don't be archetypal, at all. mac demarco, billie joe armstrong and alex turner won't help you here

It helps to be attractive, but to have a flexible personality will help indefinitely; try dressing with more subtle tastes and -cores in mind

>>12287795
this is actually remarkably true, at least in my experience
>i stopped reading All Quiet after chapter two
>twat

wear thrifts
never give an unironic response

Just do you, but with good hygiene and moderately attractive clothing. Being fake won't attract anybody.

>>12287270
Eh, it just made girls think of me as emotionally needy :/

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>>12287248
look like this

>>12291998
desu this senpai

works for me. you'll get attention from these type of girls and some might even start liking you.

the sad part is that I'm autistic, so I can never develop a relationship. Even after they confess their love.

>>12287795
Books/material to help develop this skill??

>>12292684
>>12287276
>>12287739
>>12287799

>>12287276
DSM-4 diagnosis: Aspie
DSM-5 diagnosis: ASS (Austismo spectrum disorder)

>>12292684
Just read philosophy or w/e subject ur interested in and socialise with girls, this comes natural when ur confident, good looking and well read.

>>12292896
I'm actually a psychologist myself and I don't see how you'd come to that conclusion.

>>12287500
me except
>deep voice
>wear rick
>stupid taste

>>12292905
>I'm actually a faggot myself and I don't see how you'd come to that conclusion.

>>12292920
how will he ever recover?

>>12291728
>implying you can't use magick for self improvement
>implying jesus didn't use magick
nigga u not woke yet

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>dumbing yourself down for a chick instead of showing confidence in your superior aesthetic and force her out of her own fake indie narrative
wew

>>12287500
>Wear Rick
lolno
stop trying to legitimize your meme taste anon

>>12287248
Be skinny, have tattoos, be a fuckboy

that's it

Have fun with the borderline personality dosorder chicks

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>>12290165
>when you got too into music and can't even listen to rock anymore and play jazz/r&b even though you're white and nobody is into the shit you like

>>12293691
imagine how pretty her pussy is....

but yeah i also do this. compromising your personal brand to branch out is a strong social skill tho. its takes a lot to not be pretentious and you are a better conversationalist when you can relate with the wackest of the wack!

my friends and i sort of study social design and analyze this sort of thing often

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>>12293785
>when you trade noise tapes with other artists

>>12293822
That's legitamate autism

Without counting or notes it isn't actually music.

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>>12293831
>Without counting or notes it isn't actually music.

>>12293851
>a noisetard fedoraposts

wew lad

By definition music is sound and time combined into patterns. Noise does not have pattern and you listen for the timbre alone. You enjoy sound, not music.

>>12293854
Let him listen to what he wants to listen to, faggot.
I doubt he cares if you think it's music.
That's kind of what the word noise means - not music.

>>12293863
Objectively and by definition it is not music. Regardless of what I think or you think it is not music.

>>12291728
>an actual christfag quarreling with an actual dark magic fag
a good day @ 4chan

>>12293691
this

>>12293867
I think we established that. The point is that if people like to listen to it, they like to listen to it - it doesn't make a difference if it is not music.

>>12293867
Are you aware that noise is just a blanket term and doesn't have to just mean static?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrMjc4oz0mY

>>12287248
The key to indie girls is to be different and not care to be cool. You can't impress them with style alone unless they are into fashion but that will only get you so far. It's all about how much of a true individual you are

>>12293879
He can do what he wants but don't ever equate it with jazz.

>>12293880
pls no meme

>>12293894
Just using a very well known example of what people consider noise. I don't listen to the genre but I would never say it's just sound without patterns

>>12293902
that album has guitars in tune, rhythm, and melodies

so....music. noise is literally the traffic outside your window

>>12293880
That's a shoegaze album

>>12293704
when I said Rick, I didn't mean full rick. I hate the runway shit. I meant like his sweaters, some of his shoes, some of his denim, etc.

>>12293916
>Taking music genre names literally
Are you fucking Amelia Bedelia? Do you think that Baroque music is about irregularly shaped pearls?

This is one of the best threads /fa/ has had in a while desu
waiting to here from OP

>>12294090
hear* sorry for my autism

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>>12293854

I don't even listen to noise-music, but as a musician i am triggered by your ignorance (not really) lol. Even if you don't like it, it doesn't mean it's not music. The definition of music isn't "sound and time combined into patterns", that's idiotically narrow, and shows that you don't know very much about tempo in musical terms. The definiton of music is "organised sound", and a noise-album clearly is that.

>>12293880
not noise lol

>>12294120
not the dude you are replying to buy "organized sound" is pretty much the same thing as "sound and time combined in to patterns" its just different way of saying it.

>>12294120
so is a recording of my toilet flushing organized sound

wtf man thats my fav song

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>>12294130
Neither the time or sound needs to "follow patterns" to be organized though. Or maybe, semantics I dunno, but my point still stands. If we listen to the same noise-song, we are hearing the same organisation of sounds, the same piece of music.

>>12294143
Sure it could be if you want it to, doubt anyone would be very interested in listening to it though.

Something relevant to this is the EDM-album (can't remember the name) that was created from washing machine-sounds. Undeniably a piece of music.

>>12294318
the washing machine album uses rhythm. rhythm is pattern. great example nitwit

>>12294318
>the EDM-album (can't remember the name) that was created from washing machine-sounds
Ultimate Care by Matmos, that has rhytm though
the truth is that in today's world music, just like all art, can be pretty much anything. the barries of what is considered music were pushed so far that literally anything can be music if it's made for recreational listening purposes

>>12294362
>what is considered music were pushed so far that literally anything can be music if it's made for recreational listening purposes

jesus christ what a meme. one day u all will realize what art actually is

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3p4MZJsexEs

>>12294384
>that whack ass homo
>real music
step up your game son
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cyzb-diZ3Ds

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>>12294409

>>12287266
>just b urself!:^)

>>12294487
>anything else is a lie :^)

is this an effay music thread now
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-zXYxO7-EyI

>>12287632

increase your cultural capital, make yourself cool and impressive to these girls. if they dress like that and listen to the 1975 they have an "indie aesthetic" but they're definitely not "alt" or cool or whatever. would not be hard at all to be impressive to girls like this if you're funny and know a lot about music (as in more than they do). if they like the whole "indie" image and you're a bonafide alt, they'll be impressed, probably.

>>12287632
but idk, girls like this are only really "indie" or "hipster" for the aesthetic, they maybe would have no interest in someone who is actually into cool / interesting stuff. probably a mix btwn girls who would go for an alt and girls who just want a classic chad.

>>12292122

dude, people who look like elias or have his cultural / sexual capital would never fuck girls who wear guns n roses t shirts and like the 1975. maybe the most desired type of guy for "alt" girls, they could easily get with girls who are 10/10 models, went to expensive liberal arts college and majored in art history and whose parents are members of international aristocracy.

>>12292122
who is this man?

literally dress fine
read the book of book
read how to win friends and influence people
go in there when she is working and talk to her
keep this up for a while
ask her to help you pick out clothes one day
then proceed to keep talking to her form there
eventually get her number and text her

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it's cool how being a quirky, cool feminist is like peak the in thing rn but i'm overweight and have no tattoos and i'm not in a band

>>12295878
Same bro ):

in this thread: losers pretending their shitty, alternative personas get them ass.

>>12287276
This is how to get an indie person to hate you btw

>>12292684
It's not a skill, for me it's just the effect I have on others, especially girls, without even trying. Read "highbrow' books you genuinley enjoy, get an understanding of freudian psychoanalysis, be informed about politics music etc. without giving a shit about it. Make akward pauses in your conversations, but not with the unspoken message "I'm timid or don't know what to talk about", the silence should say "you bore me and wouldn't understand anything I'd want to talk about"
Works best with girls who have daddy issues.

>>12293691
this 100%

i'm somewhat attractive and a lot of really basic girls (who are often attractive) show interest but I'm not going to change everything I do and enjoy just so I can get pussy. no pussy but doing shit you enjoy >>>>>>> pussy and doing shit you don't enjoy.

putting pussy on a pedestal is not the way to do this either I suppose, except when you want to attract really vapid people.

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>>12295940
>Read "highbrow' books you genuinley enjoy, get an understanding of freudian psychoanalysis, be informed about politics music etc. without giving a shit about it. Make akward pauses in your conversations, but not with the unspoken message "I'm timid or don't know what to talk about"

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stop trying and just do it.
be yourself, duh.

>>12295970
authenticity definitely will get you further in the long run. people notice it. they can feel it. they can also smell bs. u r smart.

>>12294318
Organization and pattern are the same concept.

>>12287248
Know how to (or say you know how to) play an instrument/in a band, be attractive, be thin or muscular, scoop necks, skinny jeans, boots, trendy haircut. Being funny helps and being interesting works too.

just be a basic wigger chad, thats what hipster bitches date since they are so obssesed with being cool

>>12287981

this guy gets it

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>>12291315
this

normcore/american apparel aesthetic is your best bet

>>12287248
Hgddd

>>12287248

WEAR ALL BLACK AND APPROACH THEM

>>12288023
not necessarily, because you got uneven power structures (ex. slavery in the american south)

before anyone tries to call me an sjw lemme jus' say that I'm far from it

>>12287248

Work part time at smoothy bar while repeating your 2nd-4th year for the 2nd time in BA degree in non-classical music course with your main instrument being: guitar/bass/drum/korg/voice while living at your parents city centre rental pad flat.

The trick is to actually believe that your band is going to make it. You have to convince others that you are convinced that even if you don't make it, you wont care because you'll already be an accomplished successful basket weaver on the tourist trails in Machu Pichu, then proceed to invite to show them your basket/handywork, offer to weave her one for her rusty old single speed racer.

Girls have about 3-5 years to leave that phase from being 17-23 where if not pregnant with your baby already they will realize that the 35 year old who lives across the hall at your building is probably is paying the bills themselves (and is not just 10-15 years your senior with an office job and a 2:2 BA in music tech from a decade ago larping as an adult still in their parents city centre pad.)

I take it you have already read Big Sur and fear and loathing and can hold a 30 minute conversation about bob dylan (substitute Nikki sixx and Manson for a grunge/punk girl) tapering off into sixto Rodriguez before standing up and leaving commenting you have to go to band practice but you can join my fanpage to get in touch where your next 6 gigs at the same 3 bars are listed. If you are struggling to hold a conversation just go to your local HMV and pick up a few books. Don't worry anything on 'that' shelf will do.

Don't worry about actually being any good at an instrument or knowing your shit. Women who care about that sort of stuff are studying at actual music colleges and most certainly not hanging out at the entrance of urban outfitter waiting to be approached. Just look at them on your way in and ask them if they've been stood up on your way out. You know they'll be stood there next week.

What's the fastest way to learn guitar?

>>12298871
(Just enough to trick music plebes into thinking I'm good.)

>>12298871
go on ultimate guitar dot com, look up a song you like that has a simple guitar rhythm
>I personally like neutral milk hotel, they cover easy chords with a good rhythm that's easy to remember
then keep looking up songs till you remember chords. Now convince indie girls you know how to play guitar. It's honestly really easily, it took me less than two weeks to play most songs with basic chords.

>>12292122
Elias is the hottest man with a five head I've ever seen

>>12298861
Wow

>>12298955
literally who

>>12292905
>I'm actually taking a handful of course at my local community college, one of which is intro psychology, myself and I don't see how you'd come to that conclusion.

by not being pathetic cumskin..Be had cumskin and you will have no problem getting whore

>>12297837
And these power structures resulted from cultural differences that made certain groups of people outcompete others. Unless you think that the power structures were racially determined; I've seen decent evidence from thw human biodiversity camp.

>>12297837
Something that does not exist but existed long time ago is not good example.
Saudi Arabia for example officially banned slavery around 100 years after US south did.

>>12290088
this

>>12295878
>being overweight
>on 4chan

I believe you're looking for reddït tubby

>>12287795
Fuck this is how I am naturally and you just described it perfectly, never even considered it before

>>12287795
this

>>12287500
i'm all these and literally still no female considers me

(attractive female)

>>12301839
Have you tried dark magic?

>>12301839
then you're overestimating yourself somewhere

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Dad core, and pretend you care about them.

>>12301839
you were unbearable in /brit/ and now you're here

wish you'd fuck off desu

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>>12287248
I'm basically paraphrasing what others have already said itt but yeah, despite being a huge cliché, "be yourself" is what all good advice boils down to. Not seeking approval and just enjoying your own being will always be attractive to others. Find a thing you're genuinely passionate about and lose yourself in it, and qt gf will follow in time.

>>12302893
You softened my heart, anon. What you just said was beautiful.

I'm not OP, but I thank you for such words, thanks man.

>>12302893
how long does it take though? been doing that all my life and i'm a 23 year old virgin.

guess it doesn't help that my passions rarely require me to leave the house.

>>12287795
Can confirm.. have totally gotten tricked into a relationship in this exact way

Please

from personal experience

they really don't care about your style

I mean that in the sense that, as with most men, they are the stylish one and you should be mush more understated

i am fairly muscular and dressed in chinos and black tees around Uni. I dated as many prescious snowflake hipsters as debbies and my sincere advice is this

it is not about you

just talk to them and interested and interesting

but don't overdo it

indie chicks always want chads that aren't immature jerks or tryhards

i've had tourist lesbians, chicks with dreads, artists, who the fuck knows whats, cheerleaders and plain janes.

protip: talk to average joes and losers around people you want to meet. Talk to someone in your class that nobody else talks with. Be approachable without clinging.

Athletic, clean, popular, plain clothes that fit.

That is all it has ever been about.

>>12303087
UGH

that spacing

it really bothers me

I don't care how much you like it

it's not about your spacing

it's about how it makes me feel

>>12303104
see, focusing on the form way too much

don't be all negative, petulant and moan about

For the rest of you take heart in that you are surrounded by simpering little pouting boys that prance and mince in front of the mirror and then self-consciously wear their new fedora-level-fashion item to class

Even if a young woman is complaining or championing some cause it is the same as the whole indie chick fashion thing

don't join in, that's their thing, listen to them talk about it a little and then ask them to go to the market on sunday to go halves on salad stuff

>>12303104
its called reddit spacing and it is the harkon of the end. it tells you the post is cancer if the content didnt already

>>12303104
>>12303167
samefagging is cool though. Thanks for your input.

>>12302958
being yourself doesn't imply lack of active effort. surely there are girls in your life you'd want to get to know. just talk to them and see how receptive they are to flirting

The concept of "indie girl" is embarrassing to anybody who knows it and believes it to be an important intellectual concept

Grow up

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>>12302958
Over the course of their lives many people have been deluded by the media into thinking of themselves as something they are not, so they need media that will break down their illusions and teach them how to be their natural self.
I would argue that most people hold false beliefs about themselves and would do good reflecting on and removing these.
This thread has some good recs on overcoming those delusions so read from the top.

>>12303501
he's referring to the aestethic

>>12293854
>does not have pattern and you listen for the timbre alone
wrong

Some really useful tips in this thread
not even just for """indie""" girls but in general

>>12304362
>taking tips from 4chin on how to be attractive to girls
You sure must be ready to take on the world now

>>12304486
>assuming everyone else on 4chan is a social spastic like you

>>12304492
Well you tell me, I'm not the one desperate for a chinese board to tell me how to talk to a girl

>>12287500
>Gravity Falls, Stranger Things, American Horror story
Kind of unrelated, but can you please recommend anymore shows like this?

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>>12304501
Rick & Morty
+ Adventure Time except Adventure Time is actually mindblowing, Reddit indie hipster people just happen to like it (despite it being hypermasculine and hyperconservative).

>>12304630

I should have specified no animation lameness. Thanks anyway, anon, but cartoons are for faggots.

tip: girls don't like fashionistas. its feminine and lame. wear a white tee and a proper fitting pair of jeans. do you seriously want to identify with some stupid trend?

>>12304630
In what way is Adventure Time hypermasculine/conservative?

>>12304501
Scream Queens, Bates Motel, Supernatural, Teen Wolf, etc.

>>12304497
No, you're just the one getting angry at people on a mongolian woodcarving board for trying to give advice.

>>12304821

thanks anon!!

>>12304795
>endorses violence
>highly sexualized female characters
>endorses fascist and monarchist regimes
>endorses multiethnicism
>filled to the brim with medieval European imagery
>endorses anti-industrialism
>references pickup artist
>runes and occult symbols/themes everywhere

>>12305076
>angry
>making an amused remark
projecting much?

why is this thread still fucking alive

sage jesus christ

>>12287248
smoke

>>12306303
this thread is invincible

>>12306303
survival of the fittest

Typically women want a guy who is "cool". If you are just trying to have sex with a girl here are a few tips I have observed in college.

- The more "alt" a girl is the more likely she is gonna try for a normal/chad type

- Women like guys who are "cool" so guys that are usually outgoing, somewhat interesting, and overall put together. I have had tons of girls tell me I'm "stylish", but they usually end up with guys who dress normcore. Women don't like guys to be more stylish then them

- This is fairly important, in order to be "cool" your gonna have to keep alot of your opinions to yourself. nothing is worse then some guy spouting not stop about politics or obscure music. If you are trying to get laid just be confident and not be a total aspie, and you should be fine.

>>12306277
I'm sorry anon, I misread your tone. Calling other people "desperate" can easily make you sound bitter.

>>12304501
Obvious choices would be Twin Peaks and X-Files

>over 200 posts itt
wew

>>12295936
only if the find out

>>12306380

I agree, I posted similar thoughts earlier in the thread. Remember, they are the one trying hard to impress. The advantage men have is that what we do can always appear more natural and effortless. At least women will perceive it that way.

>>12287248
Is she called emmie?

Be good looking

viva this thread

>>12287248
why is this board poseur central

drink bleach

wear a mix between muh Scandinavian minimalism, and "edgy" internet "streetwear" brands (Black Craft Cult, Scumbags & Superstars, Raised by Wolves). Mix in at least one box logo, combat boots, and the new hair meme. Boom, done.

>>12287248
kys. i say this unironically.
if you have to ask....

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>>12304795
>>12306275

Now this is the truth right here

>>12309501
literally this

just wear an 'edgy' iteration of le minimalism, preferably not using raw denim, oxford shirts or cdg play tho

>>12309501
i dont think any girl that listens to 1975 will like that.

Listen to "indie" bands like the hunna or some shit. Make sure you dont out-indie her if you get me, their whole identity is based on being differnent, if you are more different than them its not gonna work out

>>12310090
I've plowed through a fair few 1975 type girls (they're all over southern england) and I usually just wear slp sunglasses, a black overcoat, plain t shirt, black jeans and battered stan smiths / chucks

maybe its my attitude giving me success or they find me good looking or something, i've no idea, I'm just saying what works for me

>>12287500
This will attract them enough to fuck maybe, but you'd only attract the cringy bottom of the barrel wannabe tumblr girls.

In order to get some real indie ass, you gotta have a much more refined taste. Girls become "indie" because they want to be different and cooler than the rest of the basic girls. To them, being different = being cool, so prove you're more superior to them. That being said, don't be an asshole hipster or a total weirdo. Tone it down so you just casually show your superiority .

>>12310090
you probably need to go to a "hip" college town then, because they all either go after the more chad-y dudes dressed as described, or black guys in instagramblackguycore

>>12306503

What did he mean by this?

>>12287500
me expect
>wear rick
>without being an asshole

>>12310144
i think your approach sounds the best, considering that's how Matt Healy dresses (Lead singer of 1975 and basically the only one girls care about)

>>12310282
Do you think that's mostly because there is a lack of indie dudes?

>>12310582
no, it's because "indie dudes" died as an aesthetic girls cared about in 2011.

>>12310649
if indie dudes died as an aesthetic in 2011 the chads aesthetic died in 2008 lol, i dont see many girls dating avant garde garment wearing dudes

just b yourself :^)

>op describes "indie" girls
>people give advice regarding actual indie girls
that guy is set for failure

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>>12306356
>>12309045
>smoke bleach

>>12298871
The app GuitarTuna has this function where it shows you chords and you play them back and it kinda teaches you how to learn/memorize them like learning a new language. Then I guess start googling "(song name) chords" and click the ultimate guitar link and play along to songs you know and have easy chords. At least that's how I learned. I'm only 2 and a half years in and I wouldn't consider myself a master guitar player but after a few months of practicing regularly in my free time I was able to play most basic songs at ease.

>>12311362
he in trouble
kek

>>12287276
Is metapolitically fascistic satanism effay?

>>12287795
This

>>12303501
It's not a meme if its real my friend

>>12310656
avant garde =/= pseudo-edgy minimalism

>>12293854
noise is shit for pretentious autists but is probably music

>>12287795
I have to admit that it worked on me
But I was a teen back then. You have to be actually above average intelligent to pull it off or she will easily look through is, assuming she's intelligent too.

>>12312947
>she

>>12301842
kek

>>12312959
?

>>12298971
Elias Bender