>>7416969
To try to keep socializing, drama and general faggotry off of /d/, we have created an external site, where many of /d/'s pets, subs, switches, doms and owners now reside! We also run and contribute to several other sites which you can get links to, from boorus to boards. Our site is:
petplayfun.com
It's built off of the /d/ community, and is an increasingly more open community, and was started by us as a way to help potential pets and owners on /d/ to meet, as well as a place to get advice about Petplay and BDSM or just get to know more about the kink! Whether you're just curious, well versed and experienced, or just beginning to explore BDSM and/or Petplay, all are welcome! Even if you have no real interest in Petplay and just want somewhere to discuss your favorite kink, come say hello.
We have a lot of lovely pets, and equally loving owners. Ever wanted to own a puppygirl IRL? What about a kittyboy? Ever dreamed of your owner cuddling you close and patting your head? Well we can't guarantee that'll happen but at least you're in the right place to meet someone!
>>7416971
question for the thread:
is all petplay bdsm?
So, my boyfriend recently confessed to me that he's into pet play. However, he's kind of love-shy and doesn't want to discuss the details of what he likes about it. I would like to familiarize myself with this fetish for his sake, could any of you help to enlighten me? What could I do that would make him happy? What would make YOU happy, if you were the pet?
>>7423680
Well what different people enjoy about petplay changes from person to person. It also depends on whether he sees himself as a pet or a dominant.
For most pets, though, the appeal is the affection involved. Generally everything you would do with a pet. Petting, affection, etc. Hope that helps! You should drop by our site if you want to find out more.
>>7423680
you could ask questions here but it might take a while to get an answer
>>7416982
To a certain degree I say yes.
>>7423680
Lots of head massages
This image is the image that got me interested in petplay.
>>7423680
Petplay is a lot of different things to a lot of different people. You really need to ask him what it is about petplay that gets his motor running. Is it being dehumanized and treated like something that's just there for it's owner's enjoyment? Or is it being treated like a treasured companion, receving affection in a headspace where there's no conditions or requirements, just the simple love of owner and pet? Is it something else? There's always the possibility that he isn't really sure what it is about petplay that he's attracted to, just that he likes it. In that case you'll have to help him explore, and hopefully you'll both have a wonderful time mapping out his kink.
Of course, you did say he didn't really want to talk about it. So, I suggest the following interrogation technique :
- go to your local pet supply and buy him a nice collar
- put the collar on him
- shove him down on the couch and put your hand down his pants
- fondle him generously while barely nibbling his ear
- ask him what you want to know by whispering pointed questions in his ear
- if he doesn't answer, stop fondling and nibbling
- resume fondling and nibbling when he gives you an answer
- remember that "I don't really know" is acceptable if he honestly hasn't figured it out for himself
- stop if this technique makes him unduly uncomfortable
- Profit!
>>7431915
>>7423680
Not same person but that honestly sounds like a terrible idea. I can be ok with the buying him a collar bit but everything else after that is kinda fucked
up without his consent. That's just something that you ask to do to make sure he won't be really uncomfortable or unwilling. Consent is super important when it comes to bdsm and that is also true with communication. I would highly recommend remembering consent and communication in petplay with your boyfriend.
>>7431915
this would be fine if you established it's what he wants first
>>7431915
>>7432668
>>7432836
Sorry. I often forget that "tongue in cheek" doesn't come through over the internet.
Of course you should totally make sure the boyfriend would be okay with some manhandling before you go manhandling him. Or at least make it clear he can have you stop at any time just by saying "please stop." or a safeword, or however else you want to set up a very clear stop signal.
>>7440713
that poor thing they look so sad
>>7441540
Probably dying to be taken for a walk. Boys have so much energy in the summer.
>>7443258
good boys should be taken for walks
for their health you understand
I feel pretty lucky. My girlfriend enjoys being my catgirl a lot. She's a very good pet.
>>7432906
I agree. This "consent" thing is being used by far too many people who don't know what they are talking about or have never done BDSM. You can indeed paint with some very broad strokes "absolutely no <thing> and no <thang>", but a bit of a surprise and a bit of pushing is necessary. Being so formal is like trying to tickle oneself: it doesn't work. Pushing a bit is not abusing, and there's always safe words.
>>7417014
i want a pet like this
So I'm going to be a pet dog all day tomorrow for the first time. Any tips to mentally and physically prepare? Kinda nervous but really excited
>>7445473
dont fuck your knees up
>>7445473
wear pads
>>7439661
is this still ongoing?
>>7444285
Yeah, I also find PC culture a bit annoying. People can do whatever they want to me, I'll let them know if its too much if it's too much. If a guy was like 'Do you mind if I punch you in the gut, make you fall to your knees and force you to choke on my cock?' it'd kinda kill the vibe, you know?
>>7432668
it's just a bit of heavy petting, whats the big deal?
>>7439661
Source?
>>7417079
What is the source of this?
I recognize that art but can't remember the artist.
>>7454480
http://krekka01.deviantart.com/favourites/61083744/Heather-and-Michelle
Goddamn these are cute pics.