What actually happened to /bdsmg/?
IIRC these threads were full of live and some time ago I saw new one here every day. What went wrong? Is there a chance they will be back?
Well, it's also bdsm thread now I think. Feel free to anserw my question and participate in
I'm gonna post some pics since it's not a /r/ thread
It got filled up with bitter folks who couldn't find anyone in real life. That bitterness turned to rage mostly directed at females since it was assumed that they took all the doms and none of them were doms.
So you say that male subs were so salty that noone wanted to keep the /bdsmg/ alive? Well, the frustration level was absurdly high I guess
Basically yes. There is an a ton of male subs and relatively few female doms. There were even storys of male subs getting throw out of munches because of the stigma around male subs. Brand new people to the scene who did nothing getting punished for shit they did not do. The stigma around them turned most of them bitter which altered their behavior and further increased the stigma. When there was so much bitching that half the threads were whining and no pictures being posed people just gave up and went to other more specific threads.
Ugh, people were this serious about cartoon-porn threads on a board with dick-girls? That's ridiculous
That's what happens when you make the thread about real-life play instead of the porn.
On top of that, I recall those threads being -incredibly- clique-y.
Them all fucking off was good thing.
All generals are clique-y. Fuck Gentle Femdom ruined femdom threads on /d/. The mods only allow ONE femdom thread up at a time regardless of subcategory. If you put anything that is in anyway sorta close to hard or aggressive femdom they will literally REEEEEE and spam the thread or straigt up abandon it and make a new one leaving it to be pruned.
Because of the mods any other femdom threads get deleted before they even reach 100 posts even if its all pics. They even posted in thread a few times instructing us to merge with the gentle femdom general.
Generals as a whole just need to be banned. What gets posted gets posted and leave it at that.
I was lurking only for pics so I didn't give a fuck about any dramas. I'm also a real-life dom but it's just a 4chan - giving a single fuck here is like shooting yourself in the foot
Oh yeah gfd was really bad too. I only went in there a couple times, but I got the same feeling I did from bdsmg, on top of them complaining if you posted any porn that was actually /d/-worthy
Other generals I've poked my head into didn't quite give me the feel that I was actively unwanted for not being part of their group though.
Being closed is a common trait for generals on most boards
I don't bother with your "community" and don't care about fitting in or bitch fits, but I have been around for a long time.
As far as I remember /d/ was full of rope bondage, BDSM, slavery, globalised fetish etc. until it was flooded by futa. I mean it spend the most part of a month flooded agent orange style where 80% of the threads were futa. After that at least one guy kept posting it like it was his job.
That seemed to change the community and leave behind a community that basically loved dick (although they are totally not gay, apparently). Anyway, not soon after that there was a general 4chan exodus, which was surprisingly successful. I believe there's actually BDSM threads over in their version of /d/ too.
>That seemed to change the community and leave behind a community that basically loved dick (although they are totally not gay, apparently).
It's like /gif/ and trap threads over again
A bunch of REEEEEing autists kept trolling, and people couldn't stop taking the bait. Which is a shame. I rarely posted, but some of the information about RL play gave me the confidence to go out and do stuff.
recommend me some solid (hetero) literotica to get my female sub into it.
She's into slave stuff/ masochism, and kidnapping/ conditioning type stuff.
heres some porn
It's Aska and Rey sucking on the same rubber dildo, in chains, while simultaneously giving each other good times with inflatable ass plugs. I mean, duh.
The /bdsmg/ threads first began to appear in late 2012 (December, I think), and for the first year or so were pretty allright. Some good, decent advice even on techniques and etiquette. Also, seeing as how even today I'm not getting any, it was fun to at least read about other people's experiences and methods of play. It was eye-opening to see that you don't have to lock yourself into just one way of thinking.
But around 2014 the generals saw a massive spike in elitism. The whole deal turned into an exclusive jerk circle, where only that certain group of tripfags were ever acknowledged, while others were pretty rudely just ignored, no matter how reasonable their posts were. Considering the open ended nature of 4chan, this did not come to pass without some massive fucking backlash, as many anons felt ostracized. Virgin anons bitched and moaned about not getting any for themselves (even I did that), which sparked massive drama. Somebody got upset over those bullshit online BDSM-test thingies, which got posted frequently. And the worst part, the porn they posted was always either reposts of reposts, or no porn was posted at all, because the users were too busy fighting and bickering. Finally, the appearance of the so called "Rape-anon" triggered the final meltdown.
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Rape-anon advocated and supported rape in his posts, and this triggered many users (most assumed to be females) pretty hard. In short, after many months of in-fighting, and inane, Facebook-level shitposting with no decent offerings of porn on the side, the whole thing turned into an intolerable shitstorm. The BDSM generals were finally trolled into oblivion. As I remember, the last one was number 250-something, so a pretty good run.
As for me, the toxicity of the final era generals actually put me off from trying BDSM for real. It's already bad enough that the scene 'round my neck of the woods is poisonous. The BDSM generals showed me that the communities are completely batshit insane all over the world, and actually attempting this shit is too risky and dangerous for me. So now I just indulge my other major fetish, muscle girls. Maybe one of these days I'll visit some well known, well reputed pay domme to get the experience in a reasonably safe, professional setting. But private practitioners simply cannot be trusted for how unstable they are.
Basically, all the original good people behind it left one at a time and the threads kinda just crumbled under the weight of all the trolling and lack of good people after a while. By the end only a couple of trips were posting up the thread and then just not looking at it until it was full, because it was so full of both toxic assholes and people pretending to be people they weren't.