BDSM Thread

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>>7115775

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>>7115779

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>>7115782

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>>7115784

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>>7115786

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>>7115788

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>>7115804
>vibes inbetween toes and and on the soles of your feet

That'd just feel great, not even in a sexual way.

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>>7115775
I will follow the 1:1 rule

So does anyone have some advice on working with tomboy subs?

This isn't my first relationship, but others that I`ve been with have not been as `close." To this stereotype.

She clearly has some potential to be very career-oriented and is quite athletic. Her added a-cup angst is fun to work with too. She's definitely a masochist because she's dripping wet after every spanking, and I suspect she has some good exhibitionist potential too.

For probably some related reasons she has a harder time slipping into fantasy so I thought I'd ask /d/ is there were any good:

Tumblrs
litereoticas
etc

that give her some suggestive mental imagery.

I know /d/ excels in smut so this seems like the right place to have a conversation.

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>>7115775

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>>7115802
>>7115782
The yuri latex bondage stuff is hot.

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this is one of my all time faves

good art needs to be moar subtle

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>>7115914
I think you're in the wrong thread bro

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>>7115914
>>7116022
>inb4 "pregnancy can be part of bdsm"

I'm not disagreeing or even saying this doesn't belong. I just genuinely thing this post was intended for another thread

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>>7116022
>>7116026
It looked like she was bound from behind ok

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does anyone know what this type of bondage is called?

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>>7116279
I'm not sure if it's common enough for a name but if I had to say it was anything, I'd call it a suspended frog tie

>not making it a proper bdsmr thread

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>>7116786
You ruined a good thing we had going there

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Discussion topic time

Tell me your fantasies. Try posting an image that comes as close as possible to illustrating what you'd like to do/have done to you

>pic related

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>>7117866
Subby tomboy that dresses well, fights with honeru, and beats down my enemies

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>>7117890
>wanting a sub to defend you

You fucking coward

>>7116278
>no blind sub to ride around

why live?

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>>7118072
Are you saying a strong womyn can't defend her man?

It works great for sith lords.

It's the dragon mechanic, you can still contribute.

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>>7118098
Not one you regularly dominate

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>>7118102
> subs need to be submissive to everyone at all times

just to me at all times is enough to discuss

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>>7118137
A dom should be the one protecting the other one though. I'm not saying everyone needs to be "on" 100% of the time but having your sub beat bullies up for you makes you a pussy

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>>7117866
>tfw you will never be a teenager in high school discovering his sexuality with a cute girl in the same school because you graduated

That was my fantasy

>so many obvious armchair doms

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>>7118731
>armchair doms
I'm lost. What do you mean by that?

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>>7118842
He mean people who declare themselves doms but (to his opinion) certainly have never actually dominated someone else.

(a remix of the expression "armchair general")

>>7119258
Sounds like a way of projecting their fantasies

>>7118842
It's painfully obvious some of the "doms" in this thread are just projecting is what they mean anon. It's always the case. Whenever someone says they're a dom they're about two questions away from looking like a fucking idiot.

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Has anyone here ever had luck finding a bdsm relationship online through fetlife or just something like okcupid?

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Going over to see a dom I met online tomorrow, we've had a few sessions and now I'm going for an overnight session for the first time, if it all goes rosy I'll be there all weekend. Wish me luck and courage, friends.

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>>7121515
Good luck. Hope they hurt you good ;)

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>>7121353
Yup, fetlife. Two actually. First one lasted 3 years (I still play with my ex sometimes, we're still friends and we live close to each other), second one lives further so it's a bit more complicated, but we see each other from time to time. I'm a sub, btw.

>>7121353
>Has anyone here ever had luck finding a bdsm relationship online through fetlife
Through fetlife... more or less. She's in Edmonton, I'm in the Maritimes. She wants someone to massage her feet while she watches netflix.

The problem is I suck at smalltalk in person, and online it's even worse. I'm afraid she's losing interest.

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>>7121353
I've met two partners of differing stripes on fetlife. The current one I've been dating for 6 months, she's a sub.

I've also had moderate success finding date son okcupid. Some have been ok by the kinky thing, some have not been. Part of that is because I attract religious girls naturally, though.

>>7122052
there's very little in the maritimes. Being in Toronto now makes a big difference.

>>7122119
>>7122052
>maritimes

ugh, don't even. I went to the Society of Bastet in Halifax once and there wasn't a soul under 45.

I love Cape Breton with all my heart but fuck me it'll be nice to get away for a few years to somewhere livelier.

Is Ghost still lurking these threads?

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>>7122137
>live in halifax
>the scene is just old people or dykes who just dress up in s&m gear in public for attention

Fucking sucks

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>>7122192
I'm actually heading to Halifax today, I'm this >>7121515
poster. It's a good thing my chinese cartoons have conditioned me to not mind older men because fuck me even finding my dom for today took braving some grimy fucking AIDSlist ads.

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>mfw all these moaning maritimers in this thread when I can just walk into a bondage orgy most days of the week in vancouver

feels good

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>>7122226
Well, to be fair. You could do that here but it'll be a lemon party and not very fun unless you're a fan of wrinkles

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>>7122226
Are they fun?

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>>7122192
>>7122215
>>7122240


You gotta get out my maratimer friends. Nothing left over there but debt and entitlement

and wrinkles, like you said

My feelings on Ontario's prospects are mixed too, but Toronto's a good launching point.

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>>7122385
I would but my only family is in the maritimes and I don't feel like abandoning them just for a chance at finding a woman to dominate me. I'll just find someone who's vanilla and corrupt them

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>>7122137
>ugh, don't even. I went to the Society of Bastet in Halifax once and there wasn't a soul under 45.
>>7122385
>You gotta get out my maratimer friends.

Yup. Hence why I'm looking at plane tickets to Edmonton.

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>>7122215
>>7122192
>>7122052
So, how many anons here from N.S? I remember there being some from Hali in the /BDSMG/ threads and after seeing these, I kind of want to know how many anons live near me

>>7124547
> Hence why I'm looking at plane tickets to Edmonton.

Don't do it bro. Edmonton is the soul-sucking worst, and has a really shitty BDSM scene right now, and is also full of old people. I can't find a non-monogamous dom under 45 to save my life.

Calgary is where it's at. I still drive down there every other weekend or so for play parties.

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>>7124599
I'm the guy who's considering going to Edmonton.
My fetlife profile:
https://fetlife.com/users/6448015
It would be nice to have a few non-geriatric contacts in this province.

>>7124729
I'm less interested in the scene and more interested in the girl who wants a face to sit on while she watches Doctor Who.

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I gotta be honest. I'm kinda intimidated by fetlife. How do I get over that?

>>7125334
Make an account, and lurk.

You don't need to give much information.

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>>7124599
I'm from the area but wanted a real job and stuff

having lots of kinky options in Toronto is just nice

>>7125256
That's fair, I guess.

>>7115775
Warframe general is on >>>/vg/, silly.

>>7121353
Yeah, several dating relationships and my wife. We were already acquainted and then she found me on a community, went "hey" and asked me out. That was just short of six years ago.

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Got a favour to ask you fine folks.

I'm in a relationship, lovely one that I very much adore. She's a switch, I'm a mostly dom.

that being said I do have a pretty big sissy side (big when it comes out, but it doesn't come out often.)

The problem isn't convincing her, she loves it, the problem is the limitations. I dislike the idea of chastity and can't stand pain outside of some minor nipple play.

So my question is, what's some ideas for punishments she can give me? Also, ideas for humiliation and insults that don't involve the general gay aura that surrounds most sissy stuff online?

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>>7126426
I'd try edging and general teasing. Say you like licking her breasts or something. Have her take that away from you and only let you do so if you've been a good boy. You could also try tickling if you've never done that before.

May I ask what you mean by
>general gay aura

I'm wondering what your limits on insults are since that seems like a subjective limit. Are you okay with being called a bitch? or a slut? What are some insults or forms of humiliation you aren't okay with?

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>>7117866

I want to be stuffed with toys and tied up on my bed so I can attempt to sleep while being pleasured without having any real control over it.

>>7126460
>Are you okay with being called a bitch? or a slut?
perfectly fine and acceptable

>general gay aura
stuff like faggot, bbc, daddys, sucking dick and the what not that seems to be the majority of what sissydom is about.

Essentially, chick with a strap-on o-k
dude with a dick, not o-k

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>>7127007
Doesn't seem like you have any real issues then if the only one who's gong to dom you is your girlfriend. Does any of the stuff I suggested earlier sound like anything you'd enjoy?

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>>7127200
yeah, for the most part its fine. We've done edging before, its something I very much enjoy but thats a bit of a problem for her since it doesn't feel like a punishment to her.

The issue isn't her domming me, its just having ideas for what she can do to help that along.

>>7127218
you can always do things like foot fetish stuff or other unusual parts of her body. As well as her using toys on you. Making it sound like you don't deserve to use her body, or that her feet or hands are enough to get you off.

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>>7127355
foot fetish probably not, but we'll try out the whole body denial bit.

Any other ideas are more then welcome as well. Anything that can help her out is appreciated.

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>>7127218
You said you don't have a high tolerance for pain and don't do a whole lot beyond nipple play. Have you tried light spanking maybe? What are your limits on being put in bondage? Maybe I'm just projecting here since it's kind of a weird kink I have but what about holds? Like wrestling holds. She could put you in a full nelson or choke or something.

>>7127375
I mean even if you don't have a high tolerance for pain buying rope can be cheap and you can be restrained that way. Also just basic stuff like sensory deprivation via blind folds and noise canceling headphones.

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lmao what is this thing

>>7127778
A weapon to surpass Metal Gear.

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>>7127778
Just looks like any other over designed sex toy that doesn't exist you'd see in a lot of hentai

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With all the Halifags in this thread, you think it wouldn't be an issue finding some youngins to play with

Is this thread dead? I've been bumping this thread for the past 3 days whenever it went to page 10.

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>>7116081

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>>7117866
>>7126614
I want to stuff a girl with toys and tie her on a bed so she can sleep while pleasured without having any real control over it.

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>>7130776
fuck im dying

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>>7131321

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>>7131333

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>>7115786
Does anyone have the full comic source of that pic (>>7115786), full thing seems to be paywalled.

>>7115804
Boobs: eyes
Clit: nose
Pussy: mouth

Sorry.

>>7131369
more like this??

How does one get into the kink scene? I'm not even sure whether I should. I made a fetlife profile on a whim, but realized that I have basically nothing set

I realize that people can take this stuff seriously so I don't want to waste anyone's effort/time either.

how does one get acclimated into this?

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>>7132879
Now, I'm not in the scene myself but I've heard enough people say the same thing that I can parrot it.

Munches are a huge part of it. Find out where one is going on near you on fetlife and go there and talk to people. Make sure you also go and join local groups on fet and ask questions. Do not be afraid of wasting people's time just by asking things, There's lots of people who would be happy to help someone new get into the scene. I hope that helps

Do we have a discord server? Because we need one.

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>>7136783
I think there was a fetlife group for /bdsmg/ but I doubt there's a discord. I'd be interested and take part if someone started one

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>>7136783
You should start one and post a link in this thread

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>>7132746
Jesus fuck

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>>7132746

>>7122137
I was from CB; Northside specifically. I was super happy to leave. Everyone I've ever known into this shit has had to leave.

Alberta isn't much better though. Ontario and Quebec are far better for numbers if you don't rang to hit BC.

>>7115818
try playing with restraints during spanking and move up from there if she likes it

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>>7139410
Thank you for the advice. We've done that a few times now, with rope, restraints and spreader bars.

She seems to like it, although I think she's not patient enough to do super advanced/time consuming bondage. More the functional stuff.

I did some light (hidden) exhibitionism while we went out in the city, she liked that a lot as well.

This weekend I had her restrained by ankle and wrist to a spreader bar facing downward for a couple hours. I alternated between clothespins, belting, pussywhipping, and fucking her raw (she has an o ring gag as well, so I made sure to include that in the process).

She seemed to really like this process even though it was on the more brutal side. Her input is that she likes feeling used/objectified as a woman.

So again I ask, does /d/ have any good fantasy material/ smut that might work for her? Tumblrs work fine too.

[spoiler]I made sure she was drooling all over her recently washed hair too [/spoiler]

Random Idea came to mind, and thought I'd post it here to see if I overlooked any problems or if it can be improved. Glowstick bondage, So the sub is not physically bound but has glow sticks taped to their joints. If they move they will crack the glow stick and it will show, incurring some punishment previously set.

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>>7139550
Neat idea on paper but breaking a glow-stick is something that you really can't do by accident. You need to be trying to do so. The only way I could see your scenario working is if you tie it on the sub really tight with rope but you'd have to tie it so tight that you'd be cutting off circulation which you don't want to do

>>7139550
>>7139584
Maybe try something like gelcaps filled with a dye or food coloring? You can get empty capsules pretty easily since people use them for their homeopathic/herbal crap.

Still it seems like it would be tricky to tie them on right.

>>7139584
I should've specified glow bracelet or necklace. The thin long ones.

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>>7141351
That might work but you have to bend those pretty far iirc though

>>7139255
Oh lawdy i remember that thread

>>7136783
The petplay community have a BDSM discord already. You could just go use theirs.

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where did the tripfags go
do they have a skype
hex and the like
i need to talk
i'll repay you for information

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>>7119258

The sequel to that one is great, too. Anticipation is the soul of bondage.

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>>7144444 (checked)

So pardon the lack of image cuz I don't reckon any of the shit I've got saved is for this thread.

But anyways I've been snapchatting with this dude who's a super sweet lil sub. Thing is so am I. Like, I've never wanted to dom before but he's adorable so whoops. Thing is I don't know? What kind of shit to say to him? So far I've just been sayin the kind of stuff I'd like to hear from a dom but I've no actual experience with dicking someone down before.

Can you guys gimme some advice on what dude subs 'like'? Because I'm worried if I leap right into the real shit like pegging I'll come across as way too intense.

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>>7117866
Tied up and forced to cum from a vibe or something. Bonus points if it's for ages until I'm crying and sore. Bonus bonus points if there's a nice dom to tell me I look cute afterwards.

it's Bad because I'll literally never meet someone who has the patience to do it considering they don't get anything out of it

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>>7146278
There's no stuff that all subs like, everybody is different. Have you tried to talk to him about what he'd love you to do ?
Also, are you actually enjoying domming him? Since you said you were a sub as well.

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>>7146284
Not in depth, I've just picked up a few bits n pieces from his tumblr. He's a bottom leaning switch with a mean praise kink and he seemed to really like the idea of being a toy.

And.. kinda? While I don't specifically get off on the idea of being a domme or being a mistress, I very much get off on how he likes it. He sounds super fucking hot and I love the fact that he gets turned on if I talk about something as mild as putting a collar on him or grinding on his lap.

>>7146278
Teasing and denial is great with cute guys who squirm and blush while you're doing it. Some things you can do are instructions for edging or commands to do soft stroking until you say otherwise etc

>>7126426
I'll just drop some ideas here.

You have to masturbate directly in front and full view of her at her commands.

You are reduced to a pet/some animal that can't use any of the furniture.

Whenever in a room with her, you need to be lower then her so you are always looking at her.

Give her a leash that is chained directly around your package.

Have here chain your hands to your thighs or posts as she fucks you from the top.

have your hands tied or cuffed behind you as she teases, or gets you off.

Blindfolds, and more cuffs for you in general, that cock leash also just sounds hot.

Ugh..I miss my boy toys.

>>7146385
Holy fuck thats hot!

>>7147411
Oh, well thank you.

Honestly it came with experience and some trail and error, but the overall trick is taking away things they have little by little.
At first it's just cuffs, then you must always be kneeling, then maybe we take away your clothes, around me, add a leash over time. Slowly but surely you will start seeing me as your Mistress.
Anyway any other questions or tips I usually lurk these boards for prey.

>>7143377
Got a link for them?

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>>7117866
There's two I find equally as great.
I'd like to tie up a qt with a crotchrope and pull her along with it like this, pulling harder with every few steps.

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>>7147789
The other is to force them to walk across a rope like pic related.

Unfortunately neither of these things seem to have an abundance of content.

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>>7147789
Lately I've been taking my sub out publicly, and the way to get away with something similar is to have her wear a crotch-tied rope dress underneath, and tie it with levers that pull the crotch rope. Some basic ones have rope anchored on the neck going all the way down, those work great. You can pretend top be handling/ fondling here neck and back while pulling.

I'm curious, what happened to the /bdsmg/ threads from years ago?

I would stop in every once in a while to ask questions about certain things. Last thing I remember was the tripfags there becoming incredibly cliquey/obnoxious and some autistic anon getting blasted and waging some sort of stupid crusade against them.

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>>7148955
Wew lad, just looked through the archives

>post by Hex talking about how all the name posters went to a skype group
I mean... I hope that was a troll or impersonator honestly because that's pretty vile and cancerous behavior for a community.

I'm kinda glad I wasn't around to see that happen, my first experiences with the thread were in like 2012/2013 and after a year or two I just stopped posting because I had found my Owner.

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>>7149021
>>7148955

Yeah, I was there at the start, got on fetlife and by the time I checked back seems like things had already gone south, and I was pre-occupied with dating anyway.

It's too bad. The original quality of the posting and the links to pdfs was what got me serious.

>>7149021
Out of curiosity, how did you find your Owner? I'm generally curious to know how most kink relationships start.

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>>7149145
>Naegi domming kyoko

Is this fucking bizzaro world?

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>>7149302
Well, I definitely know more female switches than male ones. In the declared sense anyway.

>>7149302

Nips rage at dominant women.

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This might not be the right place to ask this but I'm a guy looking at buying a bullet vibrator for myself. I kind of just want to tape it to my head and then edge myself with it. Would anyone know a good one I should go for and where to order one in Canada?

Sorry again for asking here but I don't know where else to ask

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>>7151091
Where are you? Local adult stores will always have vibrators and bullets.

Pink Cherry is an easy place to order from online.

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>>7151091
>I kind of just want to tape it to my head and edge myself with it
You must be very flexible.

>>7139517
Advanced bondage shouldn't require patience, the process itself can be fun if it's done well!

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>>7151531
do you have some "games" or "complications" in mind?

>>7151318
Maybe he's been trained to have very wide erogenous zones.

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>>7151204
I live in a rural area and there really aren't any sex shops around. I've been looking around on pink cherry but what should I reasonably spend on a vibrator?

Just in case anyone's interested I'm pretty much immobilised for the next 2 hours.

But it could be longer.

https://www.emlalock.com/?page=friend&id=0b5caw3qiigc59w89usg

26/M

>>7151825

>Duration has been changed because of a friend-link
(Add 1 hour)

x4 so far

>>7151920

I knew I couldn't trust any of you

>>7151922

Now it's 6.

Any girls or is it all guys here?

>>7151951

>Duration has been changed because of a friend-link
(Sub 1 hour)

Thanks, whoever you are

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Does anyone know how to get into this scene? Find people who are into this kinks? I'm social awkward and a recluse, so I don't often go out and everyone I've met online pretty much want boobs, fap, never contact again.

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>>7152333
I would be happy to talk what got you into this?

>>7152333
This gets asked a lot, and honestly, it's pretty easy, just so long as you can be social for an hour or two and are a generally nice person.

>Join fetlife.
>Go to a munch (TNGs are good if you're under 35).
>Just make friends to start. This is a social event, not a dating event. Trying to score will come across as creepy.
>For real though, I have seen some very unattractive and awkward people find partners in the scene, so long as they are genuinely nice and start by making friends.
>Eventually, you'll probably click with someone and get to play with them.
>Even if you don't, so long as you're not weird, you probably get invited to either a BDSM club or a play party, and can fool around there.

That's really all there is to it.

Has anyone let go of a sub because it seemed to be unhealthy mentally for them?

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>>7152587
>just so long as you can be social for an hour or two and are a generally nice person.
So, no one on 4chan?

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>>7153288
I heard one guy talk about his experiences on /bdsmg/ when that was around. He said his sub would push herself beyond what she was capable out of fear he wouldn't love her or to prove she's hardcore enough. She would never safeword out of situations even though he could tell she was uncomfortable. Eventually he had to cut her off or something because she wasn't being open enough about what she wanted and he didn't want to hurt. I read it a long ass time ago so don't quote me but I distinctly seeing a post along those lines back then

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>>7152572
Reading, Experimenting, Reading and writing one to many fictions and ERPs.

>>7152587
Thanks and honestly wish I could do that. But I'm terrified of people. Especially groups of people. If I can single someone out I'm fine, but in a group? Social events scare the crap out of me. If I don't have a friend to use as a meat shield I bolt.

>>7153298
Plenty of people on /tg/ can do the former at least.

>>7152587
>go to a much
>especially a TNG
what terrible ideas. muches are dens of old fat people and TNG munches are full of 30 year olds desperate to fuck people younger than them.

>>7153511
youre really better off making friends one on one, so dont feel bad about that.

>>7153879
Gee, wonder why you didn't have a good time. Maybe cause you're an asshole?

>>7153879
Wow what a cunt. I think I'd like to solve the puzzle.

Quick question; does anyone know a good site to buy equipment from in Australia? I've recently started using restraints, but all I've found looking are so cheap that I could frankly make them better myself. I mean, they're fine for cheap toys, but I daresay a wrist harness is meant to last longer than two weeks.

>>7154224
My answer for you is, if you think you can make them better.... Do it! There's a huge DIY kink community out there. Hell, that's why I got started in leatherworking, and I've turned that into a small side business selling custom floggers and stocks. Simple leatherwork, like cuffs and collars, is stupid easy to learn the basics, and can earn you some equipment that will last you a lifetime. Go buy some leather and get started!!

>>7125359

But how do you actually get in touch with people. Just having a profile won't do, will it? Do you actually have to go to events to meet new people?

>>7154417
You can look for people in your area and send them messages, but that's not really what fet is for. It's more like facebook than okcupid; you're supposed to use it to connect with people in your fetish community that you already know.

If you want to sign up for the purposes of getting into the scene for the first time, then yes, your best course of action would be to find a nearby munch and go meet people that way, much like >>7152587 suggested. It's really not that scary! I was terrified when I first went that it was gonna be a weird sexfest, but at our TNG, the atmosphere is like hanging out with friends. We just basically play card games, have a few drinks, and have a good time - the biggest difference being that fetish topics are not taboo to talk about.

Go, make friends, have a good time, and eventually, you'll get all the kink you can handle!

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>>7149302
Look at their faces. It's clear she's topping from the bottom.

>>7120148
they're probably not autistic faggots like you and mean that when they do bring fetish stuff into their sex life they're the dominant one.

You're the reason we fucking killed the old shitposting generals you tumblr fuck.

>>7156182
someone is fucking tetchy

>>7151619
amazon.com?

>>7156182
>explains why the generals got deleted
>gets told they are the reason the generals got deleted

I will never understand this fucking community.

>>7118731
Chudwahs detected. You're probably one of them too.

>>7118611
Dude what are you even talking about? Firstly, it's a fantasy. There's no wrong way to be a sub/dom because they're made up constructs for getting off to. Secondly, nothing about physically protecting someone else is inherently "dominant"- if anything, expending you energy to fight for someone else is submissive. It's what knights due to prove their worth to ladies in fairy tales. It's what Black Butler does for Ciel. It's what bodyguards due for presidents and mob bosses. You're mixing up stereotypical male/female role with stereotypical dom/sub role.

>>7118611
You're a fucking moron.

>>7160911
This is the best advice you'll find about BDSM.

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>>7160911
>>7161125
Tbh it's hard to expend energy trying to explain this over and over to internet edge-lords, which is why I stopped replying previously, but I like the way you put it.

I'm very happy with my subby tomboy, and she is very happy to go forth and do her lord's bidding on a regular basis.

pic related

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Any advice about knifeplay? My sweet domme is very curious about, it but would also very much like not to accidentally kill me.
She suggested doing waxplay and then removing the wax with a dulled knife. Think it's a good introduction? How to proceed?

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>>7163875
I know there's a lot of couples who do knifeplay but they just do light surface scratches and don't break the skin

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So now that Nana To Kaoru is finished and we're just waiting for the last few chapters to get translated, does anyone know any good BDSM oriented comics like NtK?

>inb4 sunstone

I honestly can't stand Shiniez artstyle. It's probably just me but I think it looks awful

>>7164041
>NtK is finished and we are waiting for translations.
What? I thought it was over in that one chaper in wich Kaoru rescues Nana from fakebalmailer-Kaoru.

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>>7166346
It ended at chapter 160 in Japan. There's still another 5 chapters

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I remember seeing this story, but now cant find it anywhere...
Any sauces

>>7126614
Omg fantasy of mine to do this to a girl. Have sort of done before, but she wasn't a true sub and just wanted to stop too early.

>>7146283
I FEEL THIS SO BAD.
Been dating a new guy, things are going extremely well and he's pretty open to new ideas and slowly getting into BDSM and liking being a dom. Going to discuss this scenario with him today. I hope it goes well and I hope you find someone ;;

I've been struggling with this idea for so long

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>>7146283
>>7167842
I'm a guy who loves doing exactly this to his girl. We definitely get something out of it! Watching my girl squirm and cum until she can't take it anymore, and winds up a blubbering pile of goo who can't hold herself up, is one of the hottest things ever!

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>>7167842
>>7146283
I've done this sort of stuff semi regularly with my gf. Next time it's going to be gettysburg uncut length.

Maybe you can remarket is as the guy can kind of do other stuff at the same time.

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>tfw no sub girl to be gay with and do these things to

Thank god for yuri.

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>>7168514
>tfw beyond the point where porn can do anything anymore and I have the libido of a 14 year old without any means of satisfying it

shit sux

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I'm taking anon's idea of a BDSM discord and thinking of starting one. Before I do so, I'd like to gauge interest. If anybody would join, just let me know, the feedback would be greatly appreciated :)

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>>7117866
Pretty much what's happening in that pic, except I've been wearing a chastity cage for a few months.

>>7169258
I would, I need an entrance point. Recently broke up. Didn't know I liked this shit before. And I only care about domination when it's someone I care for, not a rando, so I can't just go pick someone up

>>7167842
Where did you guys meet each other?

I'm a beginner who'd like to get into it, but only if it's a meaningful relationship outside of the sex as well.

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>>7146283
> it's Bad because I'll literally never meet someone who has the patience to do it considering they don't get anything out of it
Eh, doms often get something out of it (even if doing this regularly requires a bit of patience).

Plus this isn't the only thing you'd ever do with a BF/GF, right?

>>7172135
Not same anon, but you can date people IRL as usual and just discuss your sexual urges when it starts to look like you get along well enough.

Or you can try to start from BDSM meetings and munches.

Neither is "the easy way". Having fetishistic cravings of some kind does make finding a match for you more difficult. And on both approaches there are more likely some mismatches than not.

But certainly, most people are looking for meaningful relationships of some kind beyond sex, too.

>>7163875

>>7163928 <This
I've always liked using decorative knives that aren't sharp but still have a point. They look nice and you can't accidentally slice your partner up. But they do still have a sharp point that you need to be careful of but that's kind of the point of knife play isn't it.

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>>7172167
This. Don't worry about bringing up BDSM to your partner. It's mainstream at this point and you'd have to be with a real prude to have them judge you for being into it

>>7172775
What is this, tug of orgasm? First to squirt loses?

>>7146283
>it's Bad because I'll literally never meet someone who has the patience to do it considering they don't get anything out of it
I get what you mean, having a girl tied up and moaning on the floor would give me a massive case of blue balls.

I'd do it, but only if I get to fuck you every 15 minutes or so.

>>7146278
>Can you guys gimme some advice on what dude subs 'like'?
Hard to describe. I want to make Her happy.

>>7126426
Making you serve her, the more menial the better. Painting toenails, making tea just right, etc.

>>7175648
Completely right.

>>7163875
A noncutty sensory one: put a kitchen knife in the freezer for an hour or two. Use the back of the blade on the skin of a bound and blindfolded individual.

If you want to actually do cuts, first I'd suggest you didn't. But if you must, do it cleanly and safely. Buy sterile disposable scalpels. Clean the area with isopropyl first. Make as shallow cuts as you can as far away as possible from a vein. Avoid lower arms, inside legs (outside is more safe), neck obvs. Clean it again once done. Then put on a bandaid.

Another thing is needles.