talking about fetishes

>>7110933
>therapist

Uh.

I talk to the person I'm fucking about it.

My girlfriend knows that I love to sniff and lick her asshole, that I love the idea of her lactating, etc.

Pegging and domination are things that we covered long ago.

I showed her /d/ once. She liked some InCase art.

Nothing has been a problem for us, though she's not exactly a normie to begin with.

>>7110947
At least you have more sociably acceptable ones. I brought up my fetishes with my therapist and was hospitalized against my will for "delusional behavior". (scat, loli, and vore)

>>7110952
>(scat, loli, and vore)

You told someone IRL that you jack off to children?

(Yes, I know that loli is loli and children are children, but that's not what normies hear.)

>>7110957
He was a pretty liberal therapist, so I thought he would be able to understand the difference. what I didn't know is that the law is super fuzzy about that in the US, and you can be institutionalized for admitting it. (because it can be perceived as a threat to the safety of others)

>>7110961
Jesus cunt-sniffing Christ.

I actually jack off to a lot of stuff and I've been on /d/ for a long time, but there's a certain level where you have to realize what is effectively possible while still maintaining a life.

It's nice to be open, but sometimes you get institutionalized because you literally shouldn't have been that open.

It's at times like this that I reflect over the fact that I'm 24 years old and I have already determined that there are certain things that I'm going to take to my grave with me. I like to think it just gives me character.

Man now I'm having second thoughts about telling a therapist about my fetishes. Its nothing like scat or loli, but its not something you share with everyone either. I'm into a lot of strange things liek futa, huge breasts, bbws and furry porn. And its been bothering me lately how much I have spent money on various commissions and other things featuring these kinks of mine. Plus I'm kind of paranoid about people finding out about this, but its unlikely they will know it was me i hope.

>>7110967
I certainly agree, I told him about it because I was dealing with a lot of guilt based on it, and he was smart enough to tell something was up. I don't think it was the right thing in hindsight, but at the same time therapy is only so effective when you keep that kind of emotional weight to yourself. Its a tricky place to be in :(

>>7110978
Honestly, I think everything you mentioned is fine to bring up except furry. Just keep it human, consensual and clean.

>>7110982
>guilt
>over fapping

You're not making me more sympathetic to your thought processes.

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I actually was very lucky with my woman. She was a little kinky to begin with, but I'm not going to lie; it took A LOT of time to reach that point. 11 years actually. In the end we could actually phantasize about domination, piss, scat, vore and other stuf while having sex. She might not share all my fetishes or phantasies, but she actually enjoys hearing them and it gets her horny.

If there was a way you could get rid of your fetish(s), would you?

>>7110988
Firstly, there is a way. Secondly, I'm actually doing it.

I'm this guy >>7110947 here and I'm training myself back down to normie status so I can enjoy vanilla sex with my GF more.

Been fapping to solo female material for a week now.

>>7110983

But the furry porn stuff is the one thats been bothering me the most unfortunatly. I really hate myself for getting involved in the furry fetish scene, Its kind of why I wanted to see a therapist or someone about it in the first place. People have told me that its not that strange of a fetish to have, But I guess somethings are better left unsaid, even to a therapist or something similar.

>>7110978
I can agree, even though I'm only a size fag, I'm super paranoid about people finding out, even though most people wouldn't give a shit.

I've been on this board for about a year now. My original (and most prominent in what I fap to) is slime/goo girls. But i also love me some loli, furry, and most other things, although I don't like futa and bbw (what does that stand for btw i know it means fat. But what Is the acronym) my main problem is i fear im going to go to far one day, with what I fap to, and get in trouble big time. I wouldn't see a therapist. No good can come from that.

>>7111060

it means big beautiful woman, One of my biggest faves after things like huge boobs. Guess I'll leave seeing a therapist about this then. I'll just leave the furry stuff behind me, since I got a bit weird with that at times, and hope no one can find out about my strange fetish commissions.

>>7110933
I'm a tfw no gf sadsack irl, not because I'm ugly, fat or can't make friends, but because I have very male-centric interests and completely lack the ability to flirt or tell if someone is flirting with me. So I don't really have anyone to intimately discuss my fetishes with. I do have a lot of friends, but except for a couple who are sadsack chaners like me, they're not the kind of people you even bring this shit up with. Those who are, mostly it's a mutual acknowledgement without real discussion, like recognizing or referencing artists in passing. I have a couple friends who I regularly discuss my more vanilla kinks with (though I'm pretty damn vanilla in general) like monstergirls, ahegao, overstimulation, and general comfyness. My more out there fetishes like lactation, belly stuffing (not the landwhale kind), cumflation and such I will take to my fucking grave unless by some miracle I find a chick who I can actually tell is interested in me and happens to have them too.

>>7110952
>loli
Well there's your problem. The medical system takes anything that even vaguely smells of pedoshit very very seriously. As well they should. Exploitation of children irl is (hopefully) needless to say a big deal.

>>7110933
They won't have much to say about your fetishes that you haven't already heard. Don't believe the Freudian stuff.

>>7110933
Well me and my girlfriend were just hanging out and she just randomly brings up CoC.

It caught the attention of both of my heads and we talked about what we liked from that.

Now we have kinky ovulation fertilization sex and I could not be any happier.

>>7110987
Sauce?

>>7110952
Jesus christ, how horrifying. I'm into two of those things, too. I would never tell a therapist about it, but I've always wondered what would happen if the wrong people found out about the wrong fetishes... what exactly was considered "delusional behavior"?

>>7111659
>ovulation fertilization sex
So sex for the purpose of reproduction? You're disgusting.

>>7110992

My answer to fapping over to furry things is not really because one may desire to fuck animals (as much as the trolling stereotyping likes to push), but because one enjoys "exotic women". Same can be said for monster girls, you like the idea of a woman being "different" yet accepting of you despite being the average joe.

Though anyone will tell you that stuff is best kept to fantasy, people on here or /b/ will tell you fucking or seeing a trap or shemale in reality is not as satisfying as the internet likes to portray.

>>7110933
fetishes are normal but don't expect people raised in a "Good Christian Nation" to understand that sex is OK.

As long as you can draw the line between fantasy and reality you're all good.

>>7112218
Depends really, if you got futas because you liked dickgirls from reality FIRST, then that's one thing. Typically most like me here just prefer it from the anime/hentai perspective only, that is unless you find a trans who's actually that hot to begin with. Modern medics is coming a long way though.

>>7110952
you fucking autist why do you have the need to let other people than your significant other in on what gets you off??????

I don't really. I can't bring it up. The women I'm attracted to can never actually handle my full set of emotions. I expose more of them over time, but they can't handle it.

It doesn't help that for some reason I almost always end up being attracted to semi-blonde vanilla girls. I managed to find the only vanilla girl on fetlife to be attracted to too.

All that being said my fetishes are pretty calm compared to the rest of D. I can't fap to loli or shota. I'm not into scat or piss. I like femdom and I have CNC and abuse fetishes. I'm a switch too so this goes both ways. I'm not into ball busting though. I feel like I'm really only into the /d starter pack.

I wouldn't talk to a therapist. I have a knife collection and mood swings. I'd like to keep my knife collection. I did actually think about suicide seriously on election night. Decided not to go through with it again.

I've never chased a woman irl. In all honesty I don't think anyone I talk to now could even handle the knowledge that I'm into the fetishes I listed above. Pretty sure they'd stop talking to me.

Kinks and fetishes have come up in conversation a few times with my normie friends at the bar, and I'd admit to being into pregnancy and stockings. Was surprisingly well received.

My best female friend asked me about kinks one on one and I admitted to liking futanari, which I had to explain, and she told me all about how she liked being treated roughly.

I think if you're one on one with someone you trust and you're both willing to show a little vulnerability discussing fetishes can be a pretty liberating experience.

>>7110933
Same, dunno if I should ever admit to liking giantesses. I expect two possible outcomes the way I see it. Either I get the "You freak, who even fantasizes about being a human dildo or stepped on for fucks sake" or the "lol death by snu snu amirite, your kinks are ridiculous bruh, haha".
I am fully aware that it's a manifestation of a larger sexual tendency to liking being "inferior" and "at her mercy" and I don't beat myself up for what I understand is a fantasy and fantasies are natural and yadayada, but still... It'd be easier to say that I like some slight femdom or something.

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Considering my fetish is multi, and it's impossible to accomplish in the real world, I have absolutely zero incentive to talk about it to anyone I know personally.

Even if, by some incredible twist of fate, they didn't get rightly freaked the fuck out, or even indulged in the same kink - what then? We can't act it out. We can't make it a reality. And no, please don't wear a costume with the strings and all, it's just laughable and ridiculous.

So, it doesn't bring anything more to the table, aside from the fact that I'm into a kink I can't do. Whoo dee doo. I'll keep my mouth shut, thanks.

>>7111154
I need more of this stuff

>>7112715
Makes me feel lucky for my amputee fetish. It's much easier to subtract than to add.

My two main fetishes are BBW and Hypnosis, and I've talked to my beautiful wife about both. She herself is chubby, and while she doesn't really understand that fetish, she appreciates how much I love her and how she looks.

She's a lot less understanding on the hypnosis front. And I get why she is- she's actually professional trained in hypnotism, and she's seen the ways hypnosis can really and truly fuck people up. She doesn't like that I listen to hypnosis mp3s, but she's okay with it as long as I'm careful. I'd love to be hypnotized by her, but I don't think I'll ever be able to talk her into that one.

>>7112187
Nah we use the splorch first then I go in raw.

>>7110933
None of it is normal, not remotely. You're a freak and you're among freaks here.

All of us here have fucking weird, gross, or fucked up kinks and we all know it and we all fucking recognize that this shit's not normal.

That's why we talk about it here, and not among friends or to therapists.

>>7110933
I talked about my fetishes once with an ex fuck buddy. She opened up to me first about how she liked peeing on people during sex and I admitted that was hot as well. She admitted a lot of things but I was more reserved. She told me she had given herself a shit and water enema several times, she told me about how she fucked other women that I knew, and she actually told me a story about how she shit her pants and had to walk home in it one of the first times I met her. She let me try anal with her and gave me a foot job as well, I would always ask her to sit on my face while I stroked off if she wasn't in the mood and she always would. One day she got off my face and said "I bet you would just love if I shit all over your face, huh?" I said "Haha, no" nervously and she replied "I was just joking" of course. God I fucking regret it every day, I really want to find someone else willing to take a shit on me.

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>>7110933
I keep my weight gain fetish a secret. I think my mom sort of knows about it already (never leave a paper trail, guys) but she thinks it's funny and doesn't care. I will most likely take that secret to the grave, since the only subtle way of 'telling' them would be bringing home various fat chicks, and having them say "You ever notice that all the girls he brings home are morbidly obese?" behind my back.

My boyfriend was super vanilla because of the girlfriends before me. I was his first sexually open partner, and we've tried a lot of stuff together.

Based on the person he is, I slowly opened up to him about my girl farm/monster girl futa/dragon girl fetish and it's mostly an inside joke between us but he's supportive. He bought me a custom Nova from Bad Dragon for our last anniversary. A couple nights ago he asked me to describe my mental images that I usually masturbate to while jerking him off. It went pretty well! He doesn't really "get it" but he kind of understands where the appeal comes from for me.

He's channeled it into being a good dom for me, to my surprise. I'll make jokes about monsters in games and stuff just to make us laugh. Im just lucky that he had a bit of experience with 4chan growing up like I did. We're both "normal" professional people so I don't think anyone could ever suspect more than the common bdsm stuff between us if they had to guess. I have never and don't plan on telling anyone else irl about this stuff.

Actually, there's a friend of his who mentioned that he was into hentai after my boyfriend decided that after meeting me, people should feel more comfortable to discuss their sexual interests and health without fear of judgement. Hid best friend said he might be interested in being humiliated and hit by a woman but he wasn't sure.

After some talk we decided we could test it by having me slap him. He was into it, and now he knows. I don't think his current girlfriend is into it though, but I think it's a trust thing for most people. He's only hinted at it with her, so I'm assuming once they really settle in with each other, maybe she'll be comfortable.

I think with an IRL partner is all about serious trust and communication. That builds far outside the bedroom. It's also about meeting in the middle: what's actually possible IRL & what both people are comfortable with. I think it's possible and healthy for everyone to talk about even the weird stuff...

I understand the danger with Loli/shota but I also don't understand the fetish itself so I can't comment.

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I've got a couple "share anything safely with" close friends, the kind who really don't judge. One turns out to be a furry, another a loli, a third is all about guro. I... kinda run the gamut since /d/ has been corrupting me for a decade now. Still don' get guro, but we're all understanding that fantasy and reality are significantly different, and should be kept that way.

Nothing was more hilarious than when one of the newer guys on the crew heard about my (then) 70gig pron stash, and asked for it. I inquired what his particular fetishes were so I could filter it for him, he said to just dump the whole thing on him. My other buddies gave me that sideways look and tried not to laugh, and I asked if the poor n00b was sure. He seemed embarrassed about his fetish and didn't want to reveal it, even at the expense of dealing with... well, everything the internet has puked up really.

He couldn't look me in the eye for a week, we still laugh about it today. When it's just the core group, of course.

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I first realized that I had a twisted sexuality when I was about 9 and discovered masturbation. I pretty much only get off to autogynophilic fantasies, I only ever insert myself as the woman in porn, even before I had porn my first fantasies were of me turning into a woman then getting fucked by monsters and turned into a birthing factory and I was having these before I was 10. Like how the fuck do you even admit that to anyone and still have their respect? I think it's a big part of why I'm still KHV, I've had women basically throw sex at me and refused it out of fear that they'd find out these things about me, and once one of them found out they'd mock me and spread it through the entire community. I've never been close enough with another person to even talk about sex.

Honestly I wish I could just meet a girl on a fetish community who's as outwardly normal as I am and can at least kind of get me. I feel that if I could get my weird sexual shit out of the way first thing I might actually be able to open myself to someone.

I've been fapping to /d/-tier stuff ever since I was 14. I'm 20 now and I don't tell anybody about my fetishes. One time my sister was able to correctly guess I was into tentacles (not because she caught me or anything, she just knows me pretty well), and my parents caught me once fapping to tentacles (never anything else). I told some /k/ommandos at the last /k/ meetup that I browsed /d/ (we were discussing if traps and dickgirls are gay (they are)), but never anyone else irl. And I never plan on revealing anything weirder than tentacles to anyone irl. I will take my weird fetishes to the grave.

>>7112834

except maybe without the dicktarded nipple-censorship

>>7114639
>/k/ meetup
Ave Nex Alea my nigga

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>>7110933
Most of my friends know that I've got weird fetishes. Some of them are fetishists as well, some aren't kinksters at all.
I used to hide it (and to some extent, I still hide it from most family members and coworkers), but at some point I've decided that it would be a good thing to see if people valued my friendship more than my weird kinks.
I may be super lucky, since they've been either curious or just indifferent about it (well, one of them does think that my fetishes are gross, but she still enjoys my company, I just avoid making her uncomfortable by not bringing them up when she's there).
As for the fetishes I've got, they're mostly transformation (inanimate), petplay, heavy bondage, obedience training, body horror, vore and noncon stuff.

>>7115484
We're you at the Midwest Nuggetfest this year? It was cold as balls at night, but we had a good fucking time.

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>>7110952
This is why no one comes forward to get help. All you gonna get is shunned by society and pills thrown at you and in the end, you'll ether be jobless on the street, shunned by your family or in a prison cell for committing what is basically a thought crime.

>>7110967
Same here I'm having a buddy arrangement who ever if i dies first there HDD will be destroyed.

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>>7110933
To answer you original question i'm taking my fetishes to the grave unless i luck out and get a girl that is into the same stuff.

(tentacles,futa,size difference,inflation,cum drinking,spit roasting,traps,big dicked shemales,vore,tentacle incubation,monsters,fur,milk)

I could go on and on

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>>7110933
The closest I've come to mentioning my insatiable desire for futas in real life was making an offhand remark to my high school friends that I would rather have sex with a girl with a dick than my geriatric female math teacher.

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>>7110952

Welp, you just admitted to being a pedophile

Good job.

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>>7110933
Jesus fuck, why would you even think about talking about your fetishes to anyone? Seriously if it's not someone you're sleeping with, why would anyone want to hear about your sick fantasies? That's just plain rude.
As for telling a shrink, I've been in therapy for years and I've never once mentioned my fetishes (ranging from vanilla to /d/ and beyond).
Also normies would consider you a degenerate just for fapping to something 2D. Discussing fetishes is what anonymous image boards are for.
Unless it's an obsession that consumes you to the point where you can't function properly or you fear you migh act out on some illegal shit, why would it be anyones business what you get off to?

Fapping once a day to whatever doesn't constitute a handicap.

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I've only ever brought up my kinks with very, very close friends and my sexual partners. My best friend is a furry, my next-closest friend is apparently into vore, and my girlfriend is into way more things than I am. There are a few kinks I have which I haven't or won't tell my girlfriend, too, but its mostly because I don't even want to try them IRL.

Someone I'm friends with told me that they like rape hentai, and to be honest I just cannot understand why. Apparently they don't even know why. That fact affected our friendship negatively. I might be kink-friendly but that doesn't mean I'm gonna be okay with everything someone else is into, especially if that person violated someone else's consent (supposedly by accident).

>>7112218
>My answer to fapping over to furry things
My answer is that only the furry scene consistently draws the most depraved shit that I like. Nobody does human art of it, so I reluctantly look for the furry stuff instead. It's suffering. But also boner.

>>7116961
Drawfag here. Had the same problem, not liking furry stuff but only seeing my favourite fetishes in furry art, so I decided to draw my own depraved shit.
I'd love to have a super common fetish like dickgirls just so I could get some fap material without having to put that much time and effort into it, though.

>>7112143
Girlfriend's mom by Kibate

I'm into the idea of sexual gambling with another person. Like we get together and play poker or mario kart or whatever, and at the end of the night, the winner dominates the loser.

I've talked to a few guys on hookup sites and shit, but never anyone real.

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>>7110933

My gf knows, and my best friend knows that im into scat/piss/voyeur/desperation/farts/etc.

Other than that, no one knows but anons on the sites I frequent.

I used to think I was legitimately insane or completely fucked just for having a few odd fetishes. Having undiagnosed anxiety disorder and panic attacks didn't help.

Thanks in part to threads like this, I'm more accepting of my own weirdness. Sometimes just the possibility that someone is reading about your weird shit and maybe 1 or 2 anons reply is enough.

>>7110933
I've talked to a lot of people on-line about them, including over voice chat, but it's never come up in real life and I never brought it up. I told my current therapist some years ago about my incest fetish and made it clear I'm not attracted to my own family and she said it was OK.

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>>7110933
I've been seeing a therapist about things in my life for quite some time, and whilst she doesn't pretend to understand all of my kinks she does reassure me that everyone has their things. Sure, what we like may be abnormal by societal standards, but everyone has their preferences. There's a very good reason this ENTIRE BOARD exists. I've been involved in the kink scene for years, and there is a LOT of variance out there. Feel pride in what you like Anon. Maybe don't go out there and yell it to the world of course, but don't be afraid to talk about it with people who you're close to.

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>>7116668
Teeeeeeechnically it's not illegal to be attracted to children, as long as you don't act on it. Still frowned upon by society though.

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My fetish is pretty niche. I know some of you will be like "Wat" or react like how people would usually react to something so bizzare. This fetish involves "Suction/Stuffing" and the concept of this is basic: sucked or stuff into something really narrow and small. This fetish can come in many ways, Absorption, TF, Vore, Elastic. The basic idea is to just see some cool deformation or cartoony stuff with this fetish. The only way for this to have me turn on is that it starts feet first and that the head should be the last thing sucked or stuffed into something, why? it's interesting to just see peril/bondage kind of like style to it, I dont know. plus seeing breasts being squished or just reaction and deformation to the face can be very interesting. I've been trying to find more of this fetish and again, it's very niche. I really like this and I can agree that it's odd.

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Never had a reason to talk about them yet. Though they are totally vanilla compared to this board (competition swimsuit & bondage)

But to take the bondage one, the idea of non-consenting (aka RAPE) partner is a problem and for good reasons.
So there's really only one rules about talking of your fetish (beside not bringing out of the blue), it's that if there is any good reasons (like Human's Right level reason) to be morally unacceptable : don't call it a fetish, and work so stop being one.

And I know the problem, I must have hundreds of bondage picture that were clearly made as rape. I consider it a bad thing and try to only keep ambiguous stuff you can reinterpret.

(also, I would have lesser problem with lolicon if hypothetically speaking existed "psychologically mature" child looking person, but we all know this isn't what some lolicon want...)