Tie 'em up and knock 'em down
thats all im contributing
Op has confused fuck machines for bdsm
>>7057833
not OP
but this is fine with me
>>7057833
>he thinks fuckmachines arent part of bdsm
Wow. Please enlighten us with what is no doubt a laughably incorrect porn-based conception of what you think BDSM "is".
from a deleted thread earlier today/yesterday
>>7057833
I mean, a fucking machine does not exclude the possibility of BDSM. Indeed, the best ones usually require bondage.
why did nobody ever tell me boorus were a thing
>>7058604
I found so many things
>>7058604
>>7058609
Because we don't spoonfeed the newfags. If you had been here long enough you would know about boorus. Lurk more.
>>7060698
is not that the exact opposite of spoonfeeding though
telling people how to help themselves
you have to wade through a lot of awful art to find the tiny bit of good ones eitherway
muh sekrit club
but you are right I do not usually come to /d/ since most of it is futa/tf/inflation stuff
>>7060716
>but you are right I do not usually come to /d/ since most of it is awesome
ftfy
So I tried tying myself up using the carabiner method that someone mentioned in an earlier thread. (before making absolute sure that I could get out going through with it). I've learned a few things
1) Should probably avoid duct tape on bare skin
2) Standing up while your legs are crossed is impossible
3) actually try and measure tape before using it, microfoam isn't that cheap.
>>7060914
>carabiner method
can you explain?
>>7060914
>1) Should probably avoid duct tape on bare skin
Speaking of, Yuubari's gonna have a bad day there when you take that gag off. Poor girl. Not that my picture treats her any better.
>>7061064
From this post here >>7053972
I didn't know if the poster meant actual handcuffs (which I don't have, nor would I try), so I used zipties instead.
Using socks for padding, I connected one carabiner to each wrist with a ziptie, and then I connected them together with one in the middle.
Hey
Hey you reading this therad.
Yeah you. Fuck you I hope you die alone and miserable.
>>7061840
ow the edge
>>7061840
>>7061840
Hey /bdsmg/. Hows being banned working out for you?
>>7061074
"Hey anon, how come your face and neck are all red in lines and patches?"
And that's why I'm taking a break!
>>7061826
Yeah, exactly. I normally use velcro strips around my wrists for the "cuff" but anything will do as long as you watch the tightness and circulation. Zip ties might tighten more during struggle so I suggest another thing.
>>7062165
That's why I put socks around my wrists first, because otherwise, zipties are terrible.
I did buy some rubber wristbands though. They don't give me the tension I want, but I can at least figure out how to get out with them, and just slip them off my wrists if it's not right.
I'm kind of interested in being tied up, but I'm much more interested in learning to tie. I'm just the sort of person where I have to at least experience it to get a better understanding of it.
>>7057276
>>7063404
enjoy your ban
>>7063416
thanks
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>>7061840
don't you worry about that buddy
Where the one where the woman willingly does bondage in a box with vibrator and is shipped across the country try, cause starvation?
>>7060914
>Should probably avoid duct tape on bare skin
Look up bondage tape.
Not nearly enough boy toys in this thread.
>>7065564
Not EVERYTHING in /d/ needs to have a dick.
>>7065564
>>7065567
>>7065571
>boytoys
Those is just girls with dicks nigga.
Shibari is a art and a fashion.
I'm thinking of getting into the scene soon. Is finding a female dominant as hard as everyone says?
I just get put off by how weird humans look in bondage nothing like the art at all
>>7067344
As with any piece of art, bondage art presents a very idealized and heavily select representation of bondage. Every aspect (i.e pose, form, etc) has been chosen specifically to appeal to either the artist an audience. It's not real, it's fantasized and that's why irl bondage may look off putting if you're used to only looking at 2D images. I feel the same way for pornography in general. 3D porn is something that outright grosses me out.
>>7067369
From what I gather reading posts/fantasies in bdsm forums these ppl are beta as fuck, the kind of ugly retard who rationalizes that bdsm is hot. It's trading naturalness and knowing how to socialize for a scripted act where everyone is an angry retard trying to hide it and rules are the most important thing precisely because they want to hide behind those rules and still be validated as desirable.
>>7067338
Supply and demand. There are much more submissive males than dominant females in the BDSM scene.
>>7067613
kek
>>7067369
3D porn is freaking weird. Shibari however is the restriction and the literal bending of another to will and shape desired. It's art in the 2D and upon your partner's body. But still. 3D animation is so freaking ugly when combined with pornography.
>>7068132
Oh, I didn't mean 3D porn as in 3D animated porn. I meant real porn with actual people grosses me out. That doesn't mean I'm not attracted to real people. I can fap to pictures of real people in bondage just fine but seeing people have sex weirds me out.
Although you're right, 3D animated porn is fucking ugly to look at
> Shibari however is the restriction and the literal bending of another to will and shape desired
Yeah but there's still just more control with hentai that you would never get with actual people
>>7060716
>but you are right I do not usually come to /d/ since most of it is futa/tf/inflation stuff
>click catalog
>open the threads you're interested in
>browse those threads
are you some kind of a literal fucking retard or something? it's not that fucking hard
>>7067338
Not if you actually go out and meet people in person.
Online? Yea, it is hard.
>>7070666
Okay, I'll be sure to go to munches and stuff then
>nice trips
>>7067686
Genius
Do youtube videos count?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jdLZUARJqs
>>7072416
>people think this is real
baka
Here's a dumb question, and somewhat BDSM related. I enjoy the femdom aspects of, and the idea of, pegging. But the actual fucking, the in and out, is downright unpleasant to me.
Is there a way to learn to enjoy that sensation quickly? Because right now I strongly prefer plugs and gentle prostate stimulation to the actual pegging, and I want to get better at taking my Miss's strapon.
>>7072467
There's anal training that you can do if you have a dildo but for some people, they just aren't wired the right way to physically enjoy pegging
>>7072475
Practice makes perfect eh? I haven't taken the plunge and gotten a dildo of my own yet. I'll probably just keep practicing with the pegging itself, at least for now; she gets off on my discomfort and I'm happy to oblige.
>>7072475
Where's the training
>>7057276
and never seem to care.
Oooo oooo oooo oohhh
another one for me,
we're the filthy vermin
that will set you people free.
What dating websites are best for young people looking for others into kink?
The googling I've done seems to point towards OKCupid, but I was wondering if you guys have opinions.
>>7073217
all I can think of is "4:19 | 4:20"
>>7057281
do you have to repost this fucking caption in every fucking thread???
>>7068132
Different anon here. For 2D it doesn't really bother me, depending on the context or apparent context in a pic lacking such. IRL...yeah it gets less, and even less appealing the more into it you go. It's one of those things, I think, you only do to a point. After which it becomes a steep dis-attraction.
As a 3D artist (ok aspiring--can't afford a full on production rig capable of rendering super quality without postwork, and I can't afford hi-end software either) I actually have to agree with you about animations. After enough exposure, very little of 3D that is animated is something I like. I prefer to stay to still images myself. Or do it in a storyboard/comics sort of way. Sort of begs the question whether I should put more toward PBR ultra realism or go more toward toon shaders (works pretty well for some). Just seems either too simple (ironic given how fucking complicated animating figures can be), or to stiff and robotic...or when given detail it just seems 'not quite right'.
While I plan to use some restraining implements offered at renderotica for some of my 3DX, less is more imo even when making 3D still renders. --I'm just glad Jenny Poussin is a willing subject model.
>25 mtf
>Probably won't be in a relationship for a 'very' long time
>Want to get into doing kinky things with someone more. In a ideal world, a friends with benefits thing.
>I know myself, however. I'd get attached, or I'd want to get attached.
>Can't bring myself to just fuck or do kinky things with 'just someone'
>Also have 'huge' self esteem problems and hate myself far more than I should
Fuck this rock and hard spot. I don't know what to do with myself. Going out of my comfort zone might make the experience not even fun, even if I did try.
I feel like I'm starting to get to the age where experimentation and new things start to end. I feel like I should be rushed to find someone if I really wanted to because my time window is short.
Yet my own belief system, morals, and self esteem are getting in the way of jumping into things.
Bleh.
>>7077537
Nice blog post.
In all seriousness though i get ya senpai. Where to start...
i know Its daunting, its kind of supposed to be i think. i remember when i started exploring this shit it was fucking terrifying. I mean youve kind of got a bit going for you. fuck...who woundnt want a kinky qt mtf fuckbuddy. Youve got boxes and your ticking them.
Just get out there, (its easy when you actually start) plenty of online communities to explore, look, learn, move at your own pace, find someone who can work with you in terms of exploring your kinks and dont be afraid to say "no". Check /soc/, chat with randoms, figure yourself out.
experimentation and new things end when you want them to end, honestly, i dont think they should ever end...youve got your whole life, ive spoken with kinksters who only figured their shit out when they got to like 40 or 50, theres no schedule to to by, stop thinking there is one.
im a 26 and im kind of only hitting my stride now, i was a late bloomer and didnt sort my shit out till like 2 years ago. Ive got plenty of kinky play ahead of me thats for damn sure, you probbably do too.
Dont test the depth of the water with both feet but at least dip a toe in kiddo.
Listen if you wanna chat or something im on kik, my username is porkdemon
If not all good and best of luck.
>>7077537
Probably due to you fucking up your hormone levels with your mental deficiency
>>7077537
I feel ya. I'm personally in a weird place where I still haven't managed to lose my virginity (19/M), but want to get into some BDSM stuff all the same. On one hand, I want a relationship so my 'first time' is at least slightly meaningful (plus I'm just lonely). On the other, I just want a friend(s) with benefits so I can play around with my kinks. In either case I'm a painfully awkward introvert with no meaningful experience in anything, both sexual and romantic.
>>7075724
Fetlife, is good, but look for events to meet people at instead of looking for people.
>>7072467
>>7072875
Well, one of the most effective ways to encourage the development of a fetish is to make your body associate it with pleasure.
One way is to start with, say, only being allowed to cum when something is in your ass, and then maybe when you are close to cumming having something minor being pulled inside and out of your ass right before you cum. And then maybe the light pegging starts further and further from you actually cumming, and so on.
Anal stimulation is something that we are "wired" for (or lack) to some degree but if you do it long enough eventually you *will* get turned on (as far as the mental component) by the feeling of being pegged.
>>7075724
There is Collarspace. It is an absolute shithole. That being said, I personally have had 2 relationships start on that in the past few years, despite my reservations about it.
Otherwise I would suggest going to Fetlife and looking for local events, particularly Munches. Meeting people online is a shitfest (especially if you are a Male [not that women have it easier, since they get a whole lot of really low quality attention]) so actually meeting people in person is your best bet.
boy i sure do love coming into a fucking porn thread and getting depressed and dysphoric about gender shit
(ftm anon here, i feel mtf anon up in the thread but man thanks for the sudden downward emotional spiral)
>>7078396
(YOU)
>>7078396
I imagine being trans looking for a bdsm relationship isn't an enviable position.
You could help lighten the mood by posting bdsm pictures though!
>>7078396
Don't lose hope. There are definitely people out there who would have no qualms about a relationship with you. I'm actually one of them! I'm happily taken, but I'm definitely not the only one. Best of luck in finding kinky fun <3
>>7078918
strange lack of drool to be honest
>>7078391
Sound advice, but I guess my hangup is munches can be a.. little intense for women. Maybe I just had bad experiences, but the guys come on strong and seem focused on just getting a play partner for sex asap. I guess that's what makes the online option seem more appealing; I can get to know someone at a distance first and abandon ship if it tanks into pure creeping.
>>7078396
I want a Zarya qt to starve me
>>7078038
Fun fact: You can be in BDSM relationships and still be a virgin. Look up chastity. Some dom(mes) would love this.
>>7080288
I don't know what it is but I started having a thing for inverted nipples recently
>>7078396
You need help, you mentally deficient nutjob
>>7080763
here's your (YOU)
>>7080650
Not what I'm into, though.
So I want to find a dom but I've heard a lot of cancerous things about fetlife. Is it actually that bad?
>>7078996
Got any advice for men talking to women online?
>>7081221
I'd need to think about. Off the top of my head:
Put a decent amount of info about yourself on your profile, and have a picture that shows your face clearly. Introduce yourself and tell the woman what it was about her that prompted you to reach out to her. Protip: don't say it was her sexy looks, but instead find non-physical things in her profile that genuinely appeal to you. This will at least set you apart from the guys who spam with, "you're hot, available?". Basically, just express what you like about her, some things about yourself that you think she might like, and offer that you'd like to chat with her some time if she's interested.
It doesn't need to be a text wall! Just a few sentences is fine. Be respectful and if you do start chatting with her don't veer straight into asking sex and fetish questions unless you get a vibe from her that it's she wants to talk about it. Not because she might be a prude, but because women get spammed with so many messages focused solely on sex and TMI that it makes us leery as to whether any man we're speaking with has a brain other than the one between their legs.
Most importantly, don't be discouraged if you're turned down or not replied to! It's just a numbers thing working against you, unfortunately. Some guys send out 50+ messages to girls a day hoping any will respond, and it's common for women to log on to tons of messages, most of which are crap. Cultivate self love and focus on hobbies and passions you enjoy - don't wait for a woman or anyone else to validate you! If you put yourself out there you will always have better odds than if you hide away being pessimistic.
Personally, I'm a dominant and while I don't list that on my OKcupid profile, I did strategically answer quiz questions to strongly hint at it. I made it clear I was straight but wanted a feminine/submissive male partner. If the dating site you use offers tests to generate compatible matches, use it to suggest what you like.
Good luck!
>>7080740
Kaga a cute
>>7081277
>woman
>dominant
hahaha
>>7081288
Looking at most marriages and that seems to be the case.
>>7081011
Sort of, since it's populated by shut-ins who are horny as hell but too social retarded to go to munches and talk to others like a normal person. Part of the reason there's so much shitposting on 4chan, really.
>>7081299
Reminds me of...
>>7081299
and most marriages fail because women don't want to be dominant
>>7081277
That's funny, because the person I'm talking to, I've been talking to like a regular person.
I just haven't asked about fetish stuff (although we talk about it from time to time), because I didn't feel like I learned enough about rope yet.
The thing is, she's overseas, and if we did meet up, it'd take some time to get there anyway. Should I just ask now anyway, or wait until I've gained a little bit more practical experience?
>>7077040
This
>>7060914
Akitsumaru taking it like a champ, not even flustered, like a true army girl.
Iku loving every moment of it, lewd girl is lewd.
Got my hands on a translated copy of one coco-ococ's image sets. Going to dump here if anyone's interested. It's pretty decent
>>7083403
That's all folks. Here's an unrelated picture by the same artist
>>7081221
If you have pics of your dick, don't make it your profile picture. Don't send out random dick pics.
Don't be creepy. Don't get butt hurt and be an asshole when you're rejected. Don't push for sex or nudes.
Be polite, respectful and honest. Be patient. Be open to new ideas, situations, etc. Ask questions.
Pushing for a coffee date within a week of online contact is okay.
>>7081786
>Overseas
Dude.
No.
Dating someone on the internet is not dating.
It will not work out.
Neither of you will leave your country long enough and often enough to form a close relationship that will last long distance and convince one of you to leave everything you know to move to another country.
Be friends. Concentrate on local women who you'll actually meet.
As for advice on meeting ladies online, the people that covered it have covered it well. I really can't believe that people today actually need to be told this: don't send dicks unless she asks for them. Don't ask for nudes unless she offers them. Don't talk sex online at all - leave that for when you're actually in a sexual relationship. Online doesn't change the narrative of dating from how it works face to face; you don't walk up to a girl in a bar and ask to see her tits or whether she likes dildos. You treat her like a human fucking being and get to know her, then do coffee, then do something like a movie and dinner, then ramp it up until a friendship or relationship is formed.
And for the love of all that's fucking holy, don't act like a cunt if she says no at any point.
>>7083867
The idea is for a visit, I'm not desperate nor dumb enough to try a long distance relationship. I probably should have been more clear.
Thanks for the writing though
>>7083415
That is all really excellent, thanks for posting it
>>7084452
No problem. I've been looking to see it translated for ages. I got lucky and found someone on shanachan who paid to have it translated and he was willing to email it to me. I knew some of the regulars on here wanted to see it so I felt like I had a civic duty
I've pretty much given up on finding someone else who's already into BDSM. I'm probably just going to try and get with someone normal and then see if I can sort of convince them into trying it and hopefully they like it. Has anyone here tried and had luck with doing so?
>>7086376
>be le me
>grind for years on sex chats
>lots of potential qts but nothing gets serious at all
>le other week
>get in contact with a qt that hasn't tried it, but is curious about it
But it ain't over until the fat lady has sang.
>>7086376
My current gf was completely vanilla when I met her, no experience with any kinks and only very vague knowledge of them. She now browses /d/ occasionally, and our box of bondage gear is slowly growing. It's very possible, anon.
>>7066011
And not everything doesn't.
>>7087577
actually pretty much does
>>7081374
Sorry anon, this made me laugh. If you go to boards like /adv/ (which I spend most of my time on), people are always talking about how marriages die because modern women are too dominant. It's funny hearing someone say the opposite.
>>7083382
Anyone else notice that in the left picture she has ornaments on her tits, and on the right she only has the rings?
>>7083374
You are not supposed to hurt people like that That's just sociopathic.
>blogs
>>7087990
Yeah, the whole comic is very extreme but let's be honest, we've all had our own fair share of dangerous fantasies
>>7088031
Yeah. Never liked the idea of any sort of permanent injury, though. Piercings are hot, as are borderline-dangerous insertions and whatnot, but going much beyond that is just a turn-off, even in complete fantasy hentai stuff.
>>7088057
I did find that the womb-ring thing put me off a bit...
Though the hand-binding thing and everything else was hot. I'm a sadistic fuck though.
>>7088293
I just like the idea of a girl being overwhelmed, whether that be via orgasm, pain, or some mix thereof. Pushing her limits, both physical and mental, is hot. Actual injuries, not so much.
>>7088581
artists add too much tacky stuff
I do not get the point of the finger things
and 1kg is heavy as fuck
>>7089236
She's forced to high five anyone that wishes
>>7089236
I am a rigger, I love to tie bondage. I find that the naughty little brats I deal with like using their dirty fingers to touch my rope in an attempt to escape. So bound fingers means cute little brats behave.
>>7089950
W-wow, you get blush me.
Can somebody give me permission to masturbate? I am not allowed to unless 3 people give me permission.
>>7090618
No, just go do something else.
>>7090618
I'll give u permission if you shave your entire body - everything neck down
>>7090618
sure thing familiam
>>7090618
Sure - but if you do, you need to go abstain for twice as long before you can cum again.
>>7090618
No you filthy slut. You can only masturbate via prostate and you need to wear a cage while doing so
>>7090618
By the power of Renault, yes.
>>7090672
>>7090817
>>7090886
I will do these tasks. Thank you
I kind of want to hear some stories. Anybody here willing to talk about their favorite session or anything like that?
Help?
Looking for a manga where two guys capture a naga and toy with her while she's tied up.
Anyone?
>>7057277
I hate to be that guy asking for source but can someone remind me who this artist is? I remember there was some sequence about girls being abducted and processed into slaves in some kind of elaborate factory.
>>7094337
Disregard that, found it.
>>7086376
yes actually, took me years for my partner to warm up to it
i think its honestly a better bet to have someone love you enough that your interests become theirs. not in a manipulation way but a natural way. sorry i dont have content, was just lurking this thread and read this so i thought i'd reply
>>7092158
Simple is a great way to start with a partner. Hands tied with rope definitely establish that I am dominant, and you are not. A little bit of struggle, but ultimately, it feels quite prohibiting.
"You can't touch me" is also simple and powerful.
>>7083369
>Got my hands on a translated copy of one coco-ococ's image sets
How??? It's not even up on exhentai
Well if you're a comissioner or something, you have got my thanks dude
>>7096092
I found someone on shanachan who paid and had it translated by biribiri. They weren't able to post the whole thing since that website has really strict policies on posting paid content but they were willing to email it to me. So thank him, not me.
>>7096128
Wow dude, shanachan? That takes me back, I'm amazed, really am. Well thankyou for sharing and do send him my thanks for the commission.
>>7061826
The link died, does anyone have a screencap?
>>7096619
Nabbed it off of the love is over archive for ya
>>7091200
Twingos are made by renault dumb fuck
>>7092698
Where'd you find this one? Any idea who the artist is?
>>7097666
Ikelag on Deviantart
>>7092158
>Got tied up by roomate
>hand tied behind back, legs tied together.
>collared and leashed
>She walked me as I hopped over to my bed
>???
>get pushed face down onto the bed. Surprised so I didn't fight back at all.
>on HRT so sensitive boobs. Enough to the point that them being squished under body weight is enough to feel things.
>can't see her anymore
>starts to get nervous. I didn't realize she was taking pictures of me.
She would then play with me by tracing her fingers up and down my spine, play with my ear and nape, run a single finger down my inner thigh area...etc etc.
We didn't do anything super lewd but wow that was really really fun.
>>7098548
>her fingers up and down my spine
Oh god. That's such a good feeling
>>7076278
sauce
>>7066213
there are no girls with dicks, only dudes with boobs, nigguh
>>7057849
bdsm is the bond of trust between one person and another as one person assumes a dominant role in sexual play or daily life. This trust allowes the dominant party to 'use' the submissive party up to a certain point (stop word). BDSM is not the abuse of another human being, that is rape or torture. BDSM is all about trust and consent. This does not mean that fucking machines are out of the question but contraptions make the bond between the two parties weaker therefore making it less real for a bdsm senario. Actually the erntire idea of BDSM porn is propostures as the mental bond is absent. You can only talk about the bondage part and in that case, yes, fuck machines can be a part of bondage.
>>7067613
bdsm is not about scripting or rules bdsm is about power. not vieuwing someone as equal but to have power over them. because it is known that power corrupts the rules are in place, to keep the powwer party somewhat in check, make sure it is fun for both parties and not just abuse. yes there is hiding involved in most cases. hiding from everyday life, hiding from insecurities. for a submissive party it is often hiding from being insecure about sexuality. for dominant partiesit's often searchin absolute power because either they don't have it or want to experience it. I know it's hard to derive that from porn, but it's even harder to derive from complety fictional beings. What I've gathered from you is that you don't feel comfortable with feelings or responsibilety.
>>7099192
The opposite of girl is boy, not dude you faggot
>>7100514
BDSM is just a collective term for a bunch of fetishes. If you apply philosophical meaning to it you're retarded.
BDSM is the equivalent of "fruit". Fruit means apples, pears, bananas. It is just a word that refers to a selection of fetishes which fall under the umbrella of "BDSM".
You are everything wrong with the BDSM community if you try to apply rules and shit to it beyond that.
>>7100523
>What I've gathered from you is that you don't feel comfortable with feelings or responsibilety.
you don't seem very comfortable with spelling
>>7101255
BD bondage and discipline, DS dom sub, SM sadomachocism.
Yes it encompasses a few things but it is a trust thing and has as many or few rules as the participants decide, your a complete fuckhead nood for being so ignorant and thinking its anything but.
>>7101747
Wow. You don't see any problems with that compared to what you said before?
>>7101142
the opposite of girl is not girl tbqh
>>7094455
>>7094337
same artist, I guess?
>>7102623
You bet
>>7102623
>>7103106
Actually if anyone is interested in this artist (Gatling Raid) a full collection of his work has recently appeared on exhentai.
He definitely provides for a very small and weird niche.
>>7060914
>So I tried tying myself up
In that case you might like pic. related. The artist is heavily into self bondage and the comics quite likely involves a second agency.
>>7081288
>On 4chan but hasn't heard of Princess Fatale.
OK.
>>7102173
I didint say that before, someone else
here is some rules:
rule 1:
roll
rule 2: some of the numbers you roll must be present in a post of a pic
rule 3: the last number of the roll is the number of times you cum
happy fappen