How do you cope with impossible fetishes /d/?

Same way furries do. Spending my disposable income on commissions and dragon dildos.

>>7022848
I jack off. A lot.

>>7022848
Mostly with crying and jacking off. Sometimes separately sometimes together.

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>>7022848
I just want to be loved anon.

Also its kinda a metaphysical fetish regarding futa. I just like women having positive reactions to a penis that looks like mine. Or where they feel what I feel.

>>7022848
I tried getting into lucid dreaming so I could control my dreams. Nothing is impossible in a dream, so I thought it would be a good way to explore my impossible fetishes in a safe setting. Maybe you can try that. As a bonus, it's a good way to put to use the hours you spend asleep.

>>7022848
we wait patiently for good VR. Then they will be possible.

>>7022888
trips has spoken. time to dream the big dream, folks.

Transformation Fetish here, only 3 possibilities I can think of:

1. Aliens come along with the technology and tf us.
2. We find away to enter parallel universes where TF is real.
3. VR

>>7022848

I practice abstinence for logical reasons, have cultivated the virtue of moderation, and can distinguish reality from fiction. Therefore, I lack any issue regarding this.
Furthermore, the only time I would have sex is if I married and then solely for producing children; if this occurs I'd persuade said hypothetical wife to avoid all foreplay & possible fetishes as well, we'd most likely use the missionary position.
A given fantasy is simply fantasy. By analogy, I would not go car jacking simply because I play GTA. So long as long as someone some can keep that strait, and not infringe upon another's liberty's, the plausibility of his or her fantasys ought to be irrelevant to others. The only exception, perhaps, might be if someone is already mentally unstable and possess a fantasy which might enable said initial mental abnormality. But the only thing that should be done to such a person is to monitor and offer help--unless this person infringes on another's liberty's.

>>7022848
Mine is necrophilia, and i'ts very complex for me to really understand the whole thing. I wouldn't like to hurt my partner in any way to have this kind of excitement blood and death makes me feel and I don't really see going to graveyards and taking of bodies as a real option.

My partner, who's now aware of my fetish, sometimes sends me gore images or lets me see corpses at the internet while we do our thing and It pretty much works. I mean, the image is there and it gets me diamonds.

>>7022982
How the hell did you find such an understanding partner?

>>7022848
For me the answer to that was transition

I started drawing my own porn

I also draw my own porn. Feels good drawing your own fap material.

>>7022932
I'm into TF too. Have you thought about hypnosis and stuff like that? If you're into latex TF or sexdoll TFs, putting on a rubber suit and getting into self hypnosis could maybe do the trick. I guess it could work with gender TF too.

This is a 2D porn board still, isn't it? All of this is impossible.

>>7022848
I sleep a lot.
Though the closest I've gotten to a sexy dream was being an implied heal slut in a RPG style fight. Specifically the fighters complained I wasn't as soft and pliable as I could be.

>>7022967
*tips libertarianism*

>>7022848
techno optimism

>>7022848
Futa ones aren't impossible. Just get a cute trans girl.

>>7022848

I'm able to be happy with impossible fetishes just being something I fantisize and read stories and comics about for fun.

It doesn't have to be real for me to enjoy and be satisfied with it.

this also helps with contradicting or mutually exclusive fetishes.

For instance I have a strong belly button fetish, a strong belly stuffing/inflation fetish, and a strong tightlacing and waist training fetish.

The first two and the last one don't play well together in general.
I'm ok with that, and would consider myself very lucky to find a partner who would indulge or enjoy any of them.

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>>7022848

Fantasies and fapping.

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>>7022848
I disown them. I used to have strong fetishy-feelings for fucknuggets and bestiality. Now the most unrealistic thing is choking and long term bondage in that they are too dangerous to attempt in real life.

>>7022848
Ganna do worse and worse shit to myself till i eventually get found dead without pants and a noose around my neck.

Sucking myself off is all i need. And a good bunch of images. It's the best when they point their cocks right at the viewer....

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>>7022888
I CAN BACK THIS UP. lucid dreamer here. I'm by no means good at it. I have trouble getting them reliably, but I cna remember my dreams everyday (which is the first step) and they can be pretty interesting in their own right (even if they aren't lucid.) But i do get spontaneous lucidity on some days and its become more frequent as my body learns to naturally recognize the dream state.

When it comes to sex, nothing si off the table. I have had normal sexual experiences, but I;ve tried to experience things that I know i could never do in real life. It really is the ultimate safe space. Ive done incest many times, some traps, one anthro furry (Being able to feel a layer of fur of the skin is quite interesting), and I've done guy (sucked dicks, mostly non-penetrative) and some **younger*** aged girls that would chris hansen would not approve of. some sexual like experiences with males of the same age although nothing explicit but im getting thee. Oh and im a cis male.

You learn so much about yourself, your personality, your anxieties, and your sexuality with this shit. Really, its not just about the sex or other fun stuff. You learn about psychology and human cognition. If you study some of the neuroscience behind sleep as well u get to see your brain enter this altered state of consciousness, your thinking fails you, your memory is fucked. Its a blast. You learn alot about yourself.

It takes a certian amount of time and emntal effort, and its easier for others, nto even that easy for me. It comes with time. AT the msot basic level, just being able to recall my dreams, usually at least 1 a night, is like being able to split my monotonous days, cutting them with a wierd story where i'm not in my usualy boring world but doing something interesting. Even when your not lucid, you can still have fun, sometimes more because being lucid can pull you out of the narrative.

For getting started i suggest Stephen LaBerge's Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming.

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>>702379
And as a poster said before me. It really is something to do with all that sleep. we spend a third of out lives sleeping. Sometimes i try to remember what it was like when sleep was just going to bed and waking up. Now it's like story time. You never know whats gonna happen.

I even have my own name in the "dream world" that i learned baout form an earlier lucid dream. Being able to walk around in a dream and have the dreedom to do literally anything is amaizng. Imagine interactign with some cute girl and then you hug and you just fly away off the ground and feel thw wind in your hair and stop midair to look back at her and wait as her eyes catch yours and u continue on flying. Its one thing to imagine btu another thing to actually immerse yourself in that world. Con coincidenttly, my video game hours have dropped. They just can't compete. you got some GTX 1080!? OH WOW, cant compete with a lucid dream tho.

I guess I have more lucids than i giv myself credit fr, but the key here is to think about it. The motr you think abotu becominglucid the higher your odds will be. If we taught this stuff in school to kids we'dd all be having them with ease. It's a skill like anythin else and you get better with practice.

Sometimes I worry whether the fucked up shit i do has any influence on me in real life., but i'd say t doesnt. being able to lucid dream requires being introspective and aware of your mental states. You really arent in any danger of going "insane", cuz your thoughts are always in check.

http://users.telenet.be/sterf/texts/other/exploring_the_world_of_lucid_dreaming.pdf
^heres a rather poorly formatted pdf version of the book i mentioned above. I suggest getting the physical book.

sweet dreams /d/eviants :)

I'd like to start getting into lucid dreaming as a means to explore bizarre types of transformation (imagine humantaurs, cocktongues, dicknipples, etc). There is plenty of online material as it relates to furry TF and TG, but if there was a difficulty scale (I'm guessing there is one), those would rank comparatively low. Have any lucid dreamers tried that sort of bizarre transformation? The most mention I can find that comes remotely close is growing a second penis.

>>7024245
It should be pretty easy. After all, it's just a dream. You do it every night, there should be nothing is difficult about it.

You can do anything with practice and repetition.

>>7022848
Fap and move on.

My only fetish is bedwetting so I occasionally wet the bed but I recognize the difficulties in becoming a bedwetter and if I decide to take that step it won't be anytime soon.

>>7023201
Inflation fetishist here, tell me more about self hypnosis

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>>7022848
I fantasize constantly and RP a lot. I've been wanting to get into lucid dreaming, but I'm lazy. Isn't the first step keeping a dream diary to remember dreams?

Self hypnosis seems cool too, but I don't think I'll be able to do it.

My fetish is becoming a cute girl, by the way. Alongside a host of other teasing/humiliation-related stuff.

>>7024354
Yeah, you need to keep a consistent dream diary so that you'll dream clearly every night. After you get to that level, your chances of lucid dreaming are much greater.

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Transition it to something realistic, usually personality and behavior wise. Pic related, just take away the dragon bits (monster girl fetish) and there ya go.

>>7024245
just be careful if you tend to have a lot of nightmares, until you get the hang of it it's easy to slip in and out of control and sleep terror is not a fun thing. that said, if you can get the control down it's not a problem, and lucid dreaming itself is pretty damn fun

General AI might become a thing within our lifetime. If and when it is created, and if it doesn't destroy us, everything that is possible within the laws of this universe will be accessible to us almost instantaneously, including rejuvenation/age regression/immortality and whatever kind of genetic therapy that would help you achieve whatever the fuck kind of body you want. And if you want to live in 2D anime world, you'll be able to live in real virtual reality.

Fingers' crossed

All but one of my fetishes are possible, and that one will be possible in the relatively near future.

I'll probably be too old to take advantage of it, though.

>>7022848
I pray that there is some system in the life hereafter in which at least some of our impossible fetishes could be fulfilled

A man can dream

>>7022848
> coping
> not perpetually longing for that which you can never have, managing to obtain fleeting happiness through friendship and hobbies - but never true and total fulfillment, which will in all likelihood elude you until the grave

>>7022848
Schizophrenia

>>7023796
Idk if I'm just a natural lucid dreamer or what, but I've been doing something similar since I was a kid and still randomly remember age old dreams. As I've gotten older there a bit more spread out, more than likely due to stress, but almost always am able to recognize when I'm about to sleep and when I'm in a dream. The amount of control varies and most of the time can basically cancel a dream, for instance if I get bored with it. And like he said, once you're in control things get very interesting.

>>7022848
Trying hard to make it come true.
I'm making a simili-living clothing, and I'm trying to have a longer tongue.

Since everyone is talking about lucid dreaming I think for new people it's good to know that it isn't for everyone. About two years ago I attempted to lucid dream going through all the guides and such, I got it to work once, panicked and managed to pull myself out of the dream (don't even ask what that feels like, it's very weird but felt natural) but a few days later I had a bout of sleep paralysis which spooked me so much I stopped trying. Last time I had a sleep paralysis episode was a month back, it's scary as shit and you feel completely powerless. Before attempting to lucid dream these episodes had never happened to me.

Imagination

>>7023816
I tried doing it once but I couldn't hack it, I'll give it another whirl

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I don't

>>7024412
Anon, please stop. It cuts too deep.

>>7022848
Research, experimentation, and development.

>>7022848
>>7022904
>>7022932

VR has already allowed me to cope- I'm pretty into G/t and size related stuff so being able to change my scale to feel small in VR while using Tiltbrush and Tabletop Simulator provided a very real sense of catharsis.

I'm actually very eager to meet someone down the line interested in RP that also has VR and would find it fun to be a Dom that way- I think it's going to be waaaay more commonplace in the fairly near-future for stuff like that to happen. For now, it's just fun being on the cutting edge of tech to facilitate my kink.

same way everyone else does...

>hypnosis
>drugs
>lucid dreaming
>a kinky partner

I just fap to my fantasy and move along.

I know that I'll never get to have a skinny gf who wants to fuck every girl I've ever been attracted to and let me watch then eat them to make her breasts grow for me, and then breastfeed me (and a girl we keep as our mutual fucktoy) until I go to sleep.

But my god do I cum buckets when I lay in bed thinking about a friend of mine slowly swallowing my current girlfriend, watching her big tits vanish into her mouth, listening to the skinny girl moan with pleasure as she digests my girlfriend...

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Fantasizing. Role playing (text based for the more impossible stuff). Writing. I've had some pretty lewd re-occurring dreams but since I don't know how to control my dreams they're a cocktease 95% of the time and usually end before the good parts happen. I've gotten lucky sometimes though.

>>7024367
Thankfully I seldomly get nightmares, maybe ~3 a year that I can recall anyhow. My most vivid ones tend to be about getting angry at people.

I write erotic litterature, own sex toys, and entertain multiple sex partners.

>>7022848
I wipe my chest, get dressed and go to work

jack off to hentai

>>7023796
How did you manage to remember dreams everyday?
At most I can only remember like 1 dream pèr month
Managed to have 4 lucid dreams tho, and one of them wihtout even knowing lucid dreams existed

>>7029949
Not same poster, but here's my strategy.
I write down my dreams in a word document, have about 160,000 words over 6 years. If I'm bored before going to sleep I tend to read a few dozen dreams a night. This method seems to have worked since I have been getting more vivid dreams as time has gone on. Obviously reading some doujins before bed will help steer your mind to the right place.

I end up with really high percentages of lucid dreams after I do this and am interrupted mid-dream then go back to sleep. I live in an apartment so on days I sleep in (Sat, Sun) I wake up to noise from the street around 8 usually mid-dream. When I go back to sleep I can usually continue the dream and have substantial control.

This may sound stupid but whenever I lucid dream I also for some reason mentally think the ABCs while in the dream to prove to myself I have control, and I have no idea why I steer myself to do it every time.

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>>7022848
>tfw my two major fetishes are completely doable in real life
I can live without an entire horse cock inside if me.

>>7022848
You just have to accept it.

>>7022967
fag

>>7022848
http://youtu.be/NaSd2d5rwPE

I have other fetishes I could live out visually, so it's not like it's the end of the world

>>7022848
imagination is certainty an interesting outlet.

>>7022888
Tried this shit: Be warned. Difficulty level: hard. and it can come with some nasty initial response's, put you in a weird mood for a while and fuck up your sleep.

its like doing battle with yourself to control your dreams, in my opinion.

I got rid of the impossible fetishes.
Got a whole bunch of possible ones, now.

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I ERP.

Sometimes, it scratches the itch. I get immersed well enough to act on instinct and post without thinking much about it, and I get the pleasant unpredictability of having someone with their own ideas and plans on the other end of the line.

Still, fact remains that I get off to something that just can not happen in my lifetime. Nothing else gets me off. So, I must work up an extremely vivid imagination in time of need. More realistically, I live alone.

erp and modded games

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Plan my suicide.

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Mine is giantess

I just get my gf to step on my face, and sometimes let me lie on top of her and bury my head between her boobs (she's a lot shorter than me)

Problem solved

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>Grope/fondling/apathy
Doable, and with a small net following. Can be seen as creepy/strange/lolwut in ways.
>Deepthroating
Well maybe if I supply drugs first-
>Boybutts and boypussy
YIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIS

i need help
what is the most comprehensive list of fetishes / kinks available?
i'm curious if a few of the things i fantasize about have even been documented as fetishes or not

>>7022848
I jerk off a lot and I also use like a fourth of my paycheck on commissioning art.

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>genderbending
I'd love to experience all kinds of sex as a female but I am not remotely crazy enough to even consider becoming a TG person. Sadly most of my fantasies involve me being a female.

>lezdom/futadom
Results directly from the previous fetish. Although the futa on male dom is desirable as well.

>tentacle/oviposition/parasite
Not gonna happen ever, despite being my favorite fetish.

>the occacional furry/alien
Exotic women. Purely sexual though and doesn't affect anything but my fapping sessions at all.

>true unconditional love and care
It hurts so much...

Just keep it inside, learn how to hide your feelings.

>>7022848
Anything is possible with roleplaying and ingenuity.

>>7023619
This is bait

>>7022967
>I don't jack off for logical reasons, like a deep seated desire to predispose myself to testicular cancer

lyl

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>>7031114
>gf

lol

I fap to impossible fetishes to cope with me being an undatable loser.

I’d love to start ERPing.
Where do you guys do it ?
Do you only ERP with people of the gender you’re attracted to, or does that not bother you ?

I probably can't. I like it when girls are turned into cock sleeves or their stomachs bulge with impossibly sized cocks.
Like Sparrow / XXX52 / Shiin- It's quite hard to come by.

>>7024367
Sleep terrors are bad enough, but sleep paralysis is goddamn horrifying

>Lucid dreaming, aww yeah
>For some reason, my eyes shoot open and I am awake
>But the dream is still going
>And my body is still producing GABA, which keeps you from moving when you're asleep
>And this freaks me out, being effectively locked in place
>So I lose control of the dream
>Walls are closing in on me
>Wait, I'm on a wall
>Gravity is pulling me sideways
>Someone is screaming as the room closes in to crush me
>There's something in the room with me, in the shadows
>EVERY shadow has something in it!
>AND THE WALLS ARE BRINGING THEM CLOSER
>I CAN FEEL THEM ON MY NECK AND I CAN'T TURN TO LOOK AT THEM
>BREATH ON MY NECK
>SOMETHING GRABS MY ARMS AND STARTS PULLING ME INTO THE BED
>LIGHTS COME ON AND I SEE THEM
>THERE'S DOZENS AND THEY'RE ALL RUSHING AT ME NOW THAT ITS BRIGHT HOLY SHIT
>jk your paralysis is over now
>Fucking launch myself out of bed
>Land face first on the floor
>My legs were still paralyzed
>Goddammit

That's when I decided I was gonna stop lucid dreaming. Might be time to pick it up again. Been a good three years.

>>7033005
Irc for me. Mmerp-ooc on Rizon

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>>7022848
I just constantly reassure myself that VR is going to come anyways. I guarantee that in at least 10 years each strange fetish on this board will have their niche filled in VR.

It's just a matter of holding out until then.

>>7033005
you can find literally any kind of weirdo on flist. tons of furries obviously but that's true of almost anywhere

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>Fetishes are genderbend, futa on female, tentacles, monstergirl anything, all of these preferably without consent
>Girlfriend asks about fetishes I can bring into the bedroom
>"I like bondage and toys, what about you anon?"
>"O-oh you know, pretty vanilla"

I wish I never found this place.

>>7033080
Sad to hear that Anon, but I am hapyp to tell you that night terrors can be conquered. I am not much of a lucid dreamer I had a very few brief moments in the past. I never experienced awakened sleep paralysis but I did have some terrors I can't recall exactly when I was in my room and some kind of black vortex started to pull me down but that is when I realized that his is but a dream and did my best to let go of the fear and when I did it all stopped. I think the thing is that we must not let the emotion overwhelm us, once we focus on the emotion it will stay in your head until we let it go.

>>7023796
>>7023816
>>7024245
I have tried LD in the past with some brief success but the thing that I encountered every time that when I actually become lucid I wake up very shortly after, it always happens. Then I always feel disappointed and want to go back to sleep and continue but it either doesn't happen or more often it is morning and I have to start the day. Feels bad.

>>7022881
>I just want to be loved anon.

I've heard of many impossible fetishes but this one tops them all

>>7022848
Don't let it be your only fetish. Try finding something vanilla that you can actually practice in and isn't seen as that weird for the average person. If you let yourself get locked into an impossible niche fetish then you're just dooming yourself to sexual frustration. If you're already stuck there, I would suggest trying to ween yourself off while finding a more constructive/common fetish.

>>7022848
I masturbate to art and stories and cringy fantasies on the internet

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Fuck, the impossible fetishes are easy to manage: like others have said, they're just personal fantasies. The hard one that crushes me is my dream/hopes for the future

Pic related: internal monologue

>>7030024
>I can live without an entire horse cock inside if me.

Well look at mister fucking fancy pants over here.
I don't wanna be the next Mr. Hands.

>>7022848
>How do you cope with impossible fetishes /d/?
By using my damn imagination. Big fucking secret!

I tell myself Ill be able to experience it after I die

some of my fantasies have been fulfilled in dreams though, lucid dreaming is really good

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>>7022888
This is hard as fuck for me considering I never dream at all or I never remember them. I want to do it, though.

>>7035641
Anyone can do it. Human minds are made to dream during sleep, so barring any mental defects or sleeping disorders, you should be able to accomplish this.

only vr will help me cope

im a vorefag and theres pretty much 0 good vore content, so theres nothing for me to cope with yet.

I like dullahans, so I just draw them, write stories, or occasionally do some photoshop. However, recently I've really gotten into the idea of taking my own head off, so I don't really know what to do with that besides stories

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>TG/feminization

Every so-and-so months I go on hormones for a bit. Wouldn't pass in a million years and I have to wear big shirts now but it's worth indulging myself a bit

>>7035680
how does that work? what happens exactly?
also any pics?

>>7022848
Just kind of mope around and cry sometimes.

So, you know, the usual.

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>>7022932
Tf is my favorite. Personally I would want to be tfed into momiji. Or Cirno, Patchy or Alice. Main runner up would be Marisa Kirisame.
>>tfw you will never be qt 2hu or qt anime girl in alternate universe

>>7022848
https://discord.gg/GMjgFq4 Discord for alternative art

>>7035671
There is plenty of good vore content out there. Just go and keep looking. Seriously I am curious, what exactly are you looking for?

>>7036057
2hu superpowers not included! You just want to get magic powers.

No more different than wanting to fly, but can't. Literally does not affect me. It is a fantasy, and some fantasies are never meant to be achieved. Once you realize this, you'll get your life in order.

>>7035680
Puffy nipples, or actual breast growth?

>>7036060
Damn son how short is that invite expiration

>>7033763

For those who find lucid dreaming near impossible (I have the same problem anon), give astral projection/out of body experiences a try. I won't explain the why and how for OOBE or AP, since it's /x/ material, and there are already plenty of existing guides.

The wikihow guide for astral projection is actually decent for beginners. Just ignore the new agey 'woo woo' bits of AP if that's not your thing.

I've tried lucid dreaming but always wake up from it. Enter OOBE, where you have the lucid dreaming experience but you can't wake up from it by accident, because you remain concious throughout the experience; only the body goes to sleep.

I personally found this tremendously easier than lucid dreaming. After spending weeks trying to lucid dream, I managed to nail OOBE on the second try.

A tip from experience; you can get bounced out of an OOBE just like a lucid dream, but don't get frustrated. Just go back into the OOBE as it only takes seconds. I've found, that once you get some practice you can seamlessly swap between your body and the OOBE - and you'll be bounced out less often.

Last tip. Just relax. I'd suggest your first OOBE not be /d/ related. Just get out of your body and practice moving around. Keep it low stress.

After that the sky's the limit, so go fuck a cloud if you desire.

>>7036739
I don't want to offend you by being a skeptic Anon but what you say really sounds like it is just made up. Especially when you say it is so easy you can just do it in a few seconds and you don't have to worry about waking up from it. Isn't OOBE just daydreaming with a different name slapped on to make it sound mystical?

>>7036920

I take no offence as I am also skeptical by nature, and thought OOBE was bullshit (AP is swimming in bullshit - it's only a good guide for OOBE) before I even went into it. My advice is to give it a try and come to your own conclusion. I'm only sharing it here because I had good results with it.

And you're right, OOBE is just dreaming, the same way that lucid dreaming is also just dreaming. The point is that while in the dream state you experience sensations, such as sound or smell, which you won't get from an ordinary daydream. This is as close as you'll get to experiencing, say vore for example, without seriously advanced technology. You may not know what it feels like to be inside a stomach, but your mind will fill in the blank automatically.

In fact, after experiencing both, I'd say that OOBE and lucid dreaming are about the same experience. You're tricking your brain into giving you control of your sleep hallucination. They're just different methods of achieving the same end - a dream.

As for the amount of time invested to have an OOBE, my case is an exception. I see some reporting weeks or months before they have their first.

I heard a story recently about the military doing experiments with OOBE because it was an issue for pilots, you could look into that if you want further evidence.

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>>7022848
Plenty of masturbation to bedtime fantasies, I guess. Mine's about as unrealistic as it gets: Invulnerability.

I get hard when I see women perform impossible feats of strength, like blocking bullets with their bodies, or surviving other hard impacts, like falling from high places or getting hit by a car, without any injuries.

I have a fantasy about this chick called Jessie, who is invincible. She's a muscular, ultra masochistic slut, who can only get off on ridiculous amounts of extreme pain no ordinary human could ever take, even with many handfuls of the most potent painkillers known to man. To get Jessie aroused, you have to torture her by shooting her with a gun, beat her around the head with sledgehammers or steel pipes, burn her with fire or electricity or acid, and finally penetrate her with something like a rock drill to make her cum (she likes it up the ass, especially one of those big units you usually mount to an excavator).

I can't exactly see any of this happening for real. The closest my fantasies get to reality is when I play video games with god mode cheats on.

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I dream that someday I can customize my own real futa to my likeing, and she grows 1 year a day till desired age and acts, looks, fuctions, thinks like the futa of my desires. She would probably look similar to pic related, I like a big long cock on my futas

>>7033080
GABA is produced all around the clock, silly. It's the inhibitory neurotransmitter that prevents you from having seizures and panic attacks from over-excitation.
And it's more complicated than that, really.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3979602/
That explains as much as I can find, if you understand the wording.

I personally like surrendering muscle control for the duration and hallucinating shadow people pulling me into my bed. But then again I also like binging stims into psychosis and seeing those other shadow people too. Probably a bad thing, but whatever, it's me.

Regardless, sleep paralysis should be dealt with the same way bad dreams and bad trips are.
It's not real, and it will be over.
You don't have to fear that your body is properly paralysing you for sleep just because you want to experience dreams lucidly and end up awake that way.
It's a non-issue as long as you don't freak out. Much like lucid dreams themselves. What doesn't kill you should make you stronger anyway.

I don't really need to cope. Knowing that they're unrealistic doesn't bother me in the slightest, even if I couldn't experience them.

But drugs work great. Lower dosed psychs with a little DPH leads to controllable delusion. 5-MeO-MiPT in particular is incredibly sexual and not only allows but also excites sexual activity.

Making myself think I'm being stuck in a little body with a diligent caretaker is easy.
Same with gender swaps, body swaps, size manipulation, other transformations, submissive mutilation, full world changes, shifted perspectives on what's 'normal', etc.

It helps that both heavy drug use and forced perspective change are fetishes of mine as well.

Lucid dreaming, OOBE, and whatnot also work. But drugs are easier. It's all good. Surely not good for mental health though.

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I RP on F-List as this little dude

>>7022848
Eh, I don't mind much. To be perfectly honest, despite the fact that my porn viewing habits, types of fetishes, and frequency of masturbation would label me a deviant or a degenerate, I actually don't want a relationship that's based around sex, or even where sex is a vital part of it, and I'm a guy with a pretty damn high libido. Of course I would have sex, but my sexual fantasies should be just that, a fantasy, basing your whole lifestyle around decadence and hedonistic pleasures just seems meaningless to me. I don't repress it, and I certainly don't lie to myself about it, but at the same time, I don't want it to define me, so I don't let it. I hate to get cheesy, but to me, a relationship with a human being is a beautiful thing, and is much more than fetishes and sex. It should be treated as such. That's why I ofttimes look down upon things like the BDSM community or the furry community for making their sexual fetishes apart of their core identity, despite the fact that this particular viewpoint could be seen as hypocritical of me, considering.

>>7039441
Sorry for this length.

A relationship with a human should be that of communication, not lust. Bouncing ideas around, letting each other affect their way of thinking.
Physical attraction fades, all bodies become less arousing the more you get used to them. Learning new quirks and playing with them is fun of course, but arousal dies down. It becomes more of a familiar comfort in the long run, done right, but annoyingly boring if arousal was the main point.

Physical compatibility is for relaxed bonding. Calming, comfortable. Sayings such as "s/he's so passionate with me!" make me nauseous. It never lasts, because that's not what a lover is for.
Sex is to agitate tension and release it, like a massage. To calm each other of that, not build it.

Basing your life around pleasure itself is inherently absurd. You cannot take pleasure in pleasure itself, it has to come from somewhere else. Trying to take pleasure from the same thing endlessly for pleasure's sake, rather than enjoying that thing, only leads to numbness.
Mostly true for drugs, but sex works in the same vein. Pun intended.

Anyway, ditto, mostly
The fetishes I enjoy don't define me per say. Enjoying a lot of them very actively does, but not the content itself. It certainly never crosses my mind to involve other people in them.
I find it has to do with my obsession on viewing passion and arousal through others' eyes for emotional impact. Most fetishes don't interest me at face value. It's how others see them, and the passionate urges they feel about them, that excites me.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mudita
Read that recently. Strange how well it fits.
I have to abstract it to explain why I enjoy things like rape and gore though. It's more of enjoying the perspective of a sadist than actually wanting to inflict pain, or enjoying the pain in others by itself. That beautiful, deluded, evil pleasure.

I guess I don't need to cope because fantasy itself is my fetish. Huh.

>>7022848
By hoping that, someday, full immersion virtual reality will be a thing. Preferably before I die.

In the meantime, looots of lube.

I just contemplate suicide, play games and avoid sharing my real sexual desires with my wife.

>>7022848
I find if I don't Jack off for a while, mundane stuff gets me off again

>>7022848
I masturbate to fantasy drawings and stories.

>>7024245
>>7024367
I'm still learning dream control. Most lucid dream I've ever had...
>sitting in classroom in my desk
>realize it's a dream
>begin to test things by growing some breasts
>it's difficult but after much efforts it starts working
>girl sitting next to me shouts "He's trying to make his boobs grow"
>instantly loose control of the dream
>entire classroom notices
>get very embarrassed and somewhat shamed
>teacher kicked me out of class and forced to stand in the hallway

Not exactly a nightmare but I felt awful, even after waking up I felt awful. Looking back now it's just kinda funny.

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Sometimes, it's good not being able to live out certain fetishes. I'd love to get with a futanari. That'd be a cool fetish to live out in real life.

But then I have certain kinks which involve actual victims.

I get off on unwanted magical transformations. A woman has her breasts blown up to comical proportions. A buxom woman is made flatchested in an instant. A boyfriend and girlfriend have their minds swapped or their genitals swapped. A man and a woman have their heads swapped so everyone can see that they're the wrong sex from the neck down. A woman's nipples are turned to dicks or her mouth is made into a pussy.

If I had the power to make these things happen to people, I doubt I'd be able to resist using it. And you could argue "well, you could undo it." Eventually, I think I'd get to a point where I'd do it to strangers passing by in the mall specifically because I knew I'd never see them again and couldn't undo what I'd done to them.

So, yeah, some kinks are best left as fantasy because I don't want to be a monster.

>>7022848
Long tongue fetish? Please, as soon as genetic engineering come around in 10+ years we'll see women with foot long tongues.

>>7033080
People have problems with sleep paralysis? I just move whatever limb feels like moving until i'm hanging half-way off the bed and then I wake up. It takes some effort and you basically have to drag a heavy weight, but sleep paralysis has never troubled me.

>>7042240
The problem is not the paralysis the problem is the other usually horrific feelings that come with it. People are taken aback by it, have no idea what is going on and get stuck in a fear state trying to make sense of things instead doing what you did.

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I just sit around biding my time waiting for subdermal neural interfaces to be invented. I give it about 20-30 more years until it happens.

>>7042320
I guess it just happens so often that I've grown used to it. Really throws me off when l somehow dream about sleep paralysis, wake myself up, and find I've been catapulted into another dream.

>>7033080
I never had trouble with sleep paralysis. As long as you know you're asleep, you know none of it's real, so it stops being scary.

>lucid dreaming for a bit
>suddenly start to "wake up"
>im in bed but i cant move
>deafening static noise in my ears
>body feels tingly, almost electric
>chest feels like it's pressed down
>the walls are literal colour, like someone cranked up the saturation to maximum everywhere
>static in my ears sounds like some sort of demonic music
>just think to myself "hm. this is sort of uncomfortable. good thing it's not real"
>ride it out, it's not really scary, just intense and overstimulating
>remember thinking that if this was LSD i would probably hate this cause i can't escape
>but it's only sleep paralysis so it's very temporary
>calm myself down cause my heart was beating fast
>focus on a scene while trying to think about nothing
>drift back into sleep

My last ~10 episodes of sleep paralysis have been like this. A little intense and uncomfortable but ultimately I know it's only a dream and it doesn't exist so I don't really care.

My first SP episode was kind of fucked though, it was when I was like 11, before I knew what it was, I woke up strapped to my bed with the blankets off and satan standing over me, with the radio playing a really distorted and static-ey song (not a real song - one that doesn't exist. i looked up the lyrics and got nothing). I still remember the exact tune and lyrics of that song. It still haunts me to this day to think about...

>>7037692
>> Mine's about as unrealistic as it gets: Invulnerability. I get hard when I see women perform impossible feats of strength, like blocking bullets with their bodies, or surviving other hard impacts, like falling from high places or getting hit by a car, without any injuries.

You should try some of the old Susan Steel strips.

>>7035675
Got any to share?

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this is a weird fetish - i wanna go back in time/slide to another dimensions (the reason is gonna be obvious soon) and kidnap myself when im a baby

then using gender fluid bs thats being taught now and teach me to be a girl

since times normal (everyones still aging) i can fuck a younger version of myself whos brought up as the perfect trap

pic kinda related

>>7042685
>>Got any to share?

http://superheroinecomixxx.com/superheroine.html

I can't find the one(s) where Susan is just getting the shit beat out of her (before being raped by some demon). But Google hard enough and you'll find it.

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>>7042379
How long do I have to wait for lewd full body prosthetics?

>>7042687
Don't fuck yourself, would probably destroy the multiverse with that shit.

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Masturbate furiously.

Sometimes I write fantasy-fulfilment stories, which takes about 4 hours of alternately jacking it and typing, resulting in almost painfully explosive orgasms.

Pic related.

>>7042832
Unfortunately it will still be pretty long Anon. But don't worry VR will grant it to you much sooner than real life.

Hypnosis guys. Hypnosis does wonders. Even if it isn't your fetish, you can still use it to fulfill your fetishes.

>>7040490
Are you my twin separated at birth? I'd love to inflict horrible transformations on random people, too.

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I coped with my enema and belly inflation fetish by actually getting into it.

These days I take 6 quarts with some effort and look 6-7 months pregnant.

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So when you're lucid dreaming or OOBEing are you able to switch control on and off? Could you create a set of rules and conditions, like recreating your favorite /d/ game, and everyone in your dream must follow the rules. Even you couldn't break the rules. Would you have to maintain control in order for those rules to remain in effect and would remaining in control mean you could break those rules, and cheat, at any time?

This kinda reminds me of that paradox question. Could god create a rock so heavy even he couldn't lift it?

>>7022848
games, though nothing really does what I want for whatever reason

>>7022848
>>>7022848
>I just want to be loved anon.

I came here to fap and not to feel, but holy shit, you're so damn right.

>>7043260
Bro, lucid dreaming and OBBEing is not about being god. It is also not a VR machine it has several limitations. You are in control of the events that you focus on but you are not creating a world. Remember it is just a fantasy and you can only experience the sensations that directly involve you and only at that moment and only to the extent that your brain can do to superficially recreate it. It is still a totally incoherent mess of thoughts, emotions, memories and wishes of yours that are constantly in flux. If you walk down a dream street and then look back to the place you passed you will often see different things than you saw before you passed them and when you turn forward again the scenery is probably different again before you turned back to check behind you. Taking an about-face full body turn is a common reality check people do to determine that they are in a dream

It is impossible to have things created down to the tiniest detail and have it work and then even switch in and off and whatever else you meant.

>Could god create a rock so heavy even he couldn't lift it?
As for this, the answer is that god can do both simply because he is not bound by the rules of human logic or any laws of existence.

>>7042685
Never post any drawings and trash most of them anyways. There are a whole lot of detachable head stories on writing.com, like The Female Dullahan, The Longsword, The Day of Natural Body Magic, and some others. Some of the chapters are a little too strange, and most revolve around self-dullahaning

>>7022848

I used to lucid dream, which allowed me to cope by having Pony orgies almost everynight. Now that I can't lucid dream, I just jack off and occasionally, fuck a pony.

>>7022984
If I had to guess, I'd say he probably had to move somewhere new after every break-up.

I tried lucid dreaming a few years ago, of course all the guides basically say "yeah you gotta start by writing down your dreams in a journal or something." The idea is just to force you to try and remember your dreams; forcing your brain to recall the details, and convincing yourself that you are serious about lucid dreaming, are both pretty important when trying to lay down the foundation for future success. Unfortunately, at the time, I was living with my family and I decided not to write anything down, in order to keep it a secret from my family. I'm pretty sure this sabotaged my efforts.

Another suggestion I pretty much never had any success with was "try to lay completely still and not move anything at all, to fool your body into thinking it's already asleep. This way you'll remain fully conscious and transition directly into your dream". It gets extremely boring, extremely quickly, and trying to focus on keeping your muscles completely relaxed and still makes you actually kinda uncomfortable and probably keeps you awake. Would not recommend.

Also, I'm tempted to get back into lucid dreaming, but I would feel pretty bad about myself if my motivation for doing so is "yeah people were talking about using lucid dreaming to experience their fetishes". If I were to get back into it, it would probably just be to regain some control over my sleep schedule. The fact that I'm posting this at 5 AM clearly shows that sleeping is not something I'm currently all that great at.

>>7022848
as much as I enjoy sex, I understand that no fetish is more satisfying than having a real connection to another human being

if that's hard to understand maybe you should masturbate less

>>7044215
>>If I were to get back into it, it would probably just be to regain some control over my sleep schedule. The fact that I'm posting this at 5 AM clearly shows that sleeping is not something I'm currently all that great at.
If anything, this is something that is good for your long term health Anon!

>>7044215
I'm great at sleep scheduling and only sleep in the afternoon, so that's not really any proof out of context.

>>7044215
Before I knew how to write I tried dream journaling. It was complete gibberish, not a single word of letter was recognizable, but it still helped me remember my dreams.

>>7042878
>Sometimes I write fantasy-fulfilment stories
You can't just leave it there, anon. You gotta post that shit.

>can't lucid drram because of my tism.

That's not fucking fair.

>>7044799
Sucks you got the wrong end of the spectrum, dude. My autistic little brother does it fine.

Let me know if you any of you have an success with this

dubya dubya dubuya dot cortexel dot us/awesome/uppers/Advanced_Lucid_Dreaming-The_Power_of_Supplements dot pdf

>>7042240
This is kinda like what sleep paralysis has been like for me, I would feel like I'm deep under the sea getting crushed by the pressure and my limbs would feel like lead, I also had the urge to just lie there and go back to sleep but with some effort I manage to move my body.
It makes me think that maybe some people just don't get the nightmare stuff when paralyzed, there were no hallucinations only the feeling of pressure on my body forcing me to stay still, I have aspergers if that has anything to do with it.

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>>7044749
If you say so...

http://convolutedplot.deviantart.com/gallery/

>>7022848
Just waiting for the day when it's safe to get a penis and scrotum transplant while keeping my vag and ovaries and shit intact so i can finally become a futa woman and feel what it's like to have a dick

for other fetishes... eh. I still fap and draw. I just think of my favorite characters to cope.

I stick my dick in clay molds

I like to think Technology can help me find a way.

>>7022888
I don't usually have lucid dreams. I often exert my will on the dream, like controlling people, summoning objects, fuck gravity etc, but most of the time I don't realize I'm dreaming.

>>7044225
>as much as I enjoy sex, I understand that no fetish is more satisfying than having a real connection to another human being

Honestly for the longest time I genuinely didn't realize this. It's kinda easier not to think about that, when you're alone. Kinda embarassingly, what made me realize it was a futa fic that was primarily loli incest. (For some reason I can find it by searching "futa fiction brother". The characters are named Robin and Barry, if you want to look for it, that should help you know if you find it.) I wasn't actually all that much into the erotic parts of the story, and their description of the affection the characters have for each other in a sexual sense didn't appeal to me that much, but the story's depiction of the non-sexual side of their relationship, as someone who never had a younger sibling or a sister at all, really got me thinking introspectively. It's a bit embarrassing to attribute this kind of revelation to erotic fiction but we're on /d/ so fuck it.

Basically, the story alternates between sex scenes as well as detailing their everyday relationship, and it's really positive and caring shit. At one point, the girl's classmates find out about her dick and alienate her, and her brother actually goes out of his way to set things right. The scenes are written in such a way that you can /almost/ remove their sexual relationship from the story entirely, and what's leftover is a pretty heartwarming story.

To get to the point of all this, what I'm saying is that it was a sort of dual realization that finally got the idea across to me. Firstly, "Wow, the brother really goes to incredible lengths for his sister." and "As the younger brother of a two brother family, and being much older than the sister here, I will never experience the sort of bond they have". I'm not saying that kind of incesty bond should be the ideal relationship, of course, just that... that level of not-exclusively-sexual intimacy is also important.

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>>7043260
>>7043347
At least 1 guy managed to do it. He created a persistent dream world with rules and laws that can't be broken by any dream characters or his own dream control. It also means all the dream characters have a mind of their own and if they turn on you that can land you in trouble.

http://www.dreamviews.com/blogs/hyu/persistent-realms-other-lucid-dreaming-techniques-i-use-39218/
>Persistence - When you "enter" a realm, you "resume" the dream where you left of last time. (more or less)
>Consequences - Because of the persistence, every action you take has consequences. If you change something it will remain changed forever. For example, people will remember you and the conversations you've had with them.
>Laws & Dream Powers - A realm has a set of laws of physics (fitting the setting of the realm), which may be different from waking life. There may be ways to cast magic for example. You can learn, understand, use (and abuse) these laws, but you can never do anything that violates them. (Such as using dream powers) If a character does something ridiculous then it means that there is a law enabling him to do so, and you most likely can learn to do the same thing.

I wonder if you could dream up Myst style linking books that would link worlds and allow you to visit another fantasy world or perverted video game world like Corruption of Champions? But, since the worlds are persistent, would visiting a place like CoC have permanent lasting effects on you even after leaving it? Like would your dream self permanently be transformed and unable to change back, even after leaving the CoC dreamworld?

>>7023796
Watch yourself with this shit, I've had incestuous guro nightmare dreams that are so real feeling it sometimes takes days for the the feelings of pain in the body parts that were amputated in the dream to stop. Like a reverse phantom pain.
Seriously folks, the sense of urgency and pain in a dream like that is a lot to bear, so just be careful.

i just go to my room, lay in bed, close my eyes and imagine my fantasy happening to me. I have this mental on going soap opera, it started when I was young, i would imagine a woman twice my size coming to visit me to put me inside her body. ive been through several fetishes with this character, and many adventures, even now with my gf, sometimes i just turn away from her after i hear her snoring and close my eyes and think of my fantasy woman and i going off on a space ship to the planet of slime girls or whatever.

>>7022848
My fetish is cute boys with freakishly huge muscles. I've found that handsome men with non-freakishly huge muscles are acceptable. I still jerk off a lot though.

>>7049242
Honestly that sounds like a terrible thing. It seems to me that most people use lucid dreaming as a form of escapism. To create another world in your dreams and then intentionally give up control of that world (and, furthermore, to openly invite persistent consequences) seems like an obvious rejection of escapism. Like, for me, the idea of lucid dreaming only has appeal due to the non-permanence of the dream world. Unfortunately, I have no practical experience with lucid dreaming, but I feel like I'm more likely to say "that was a good dream, I hope the next one is as good" at the end of it, rather than "that was a good dream, I hope I can pick up where I left off". What happens if you make a mistake that you can't fix? Escapism is a desire to avoid stress. If your dream world gives you stress, it's worthless as a means of escapism.

All in all, I have solidly zero interest in learning more about this guy and what he does.

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Fetish: Possession

I don't know how to deal with it. Sometimes I get my girlfriend to act like my ex gf in bed (she doesn't know) and I just pretend my ex has taken over her body. If there was a way I could actually be able to possess someone or have someone possess my gf then that'd be the tits but I cope by going to body swap caption sites and stuff. Shits hard. Also jerking off kind of helps.

I don't

>tfw masturbating to it only reinforces the fetish
I WANT OFF THIS RIDE

>>7052881
Fuck you I was about to post that.

>>7052866
But the ride only gets better the more you stay on. You can enjoy it with ERP. Or if you have no friends, do similar in your head. The important part is to make it detailed and involved.

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>>7022848

ERP, because it's the only way I can be the girl with 400 lbs of boob.

I'm waiting patiently for VR to get advanced enough that we'll either have full-body suits or direct brain interfaces that give enough immersion to be truly erotic and provide a 'second life', basically.

I'm hoping that at least the former (a bodysuit and headset interface with very good tactile feedback) will be available in some form within the next 10 years or so - I'll be putting aside whatever savings I can for that kind of technology, and hopefully people just as lewd as I am will jump on the bandwagon too.

Until then, /d/ and f-chat will sustain me.

>>7030862
I'm there with you, Anon. I've done ERP for about 7 years, and it seems like an endless chase for something you never really get a hold on. Sure, there are times where the prize is within your grasp, only to have it snatched away from you. I don't live alone anymore, and that's made me less involved in the "deep end" of my fetish fantasies, but I still find myself thinking that it would be easier to do this rather than have an actual relationship.

>>7052931
You can kinda get the prize if you do it right. The trick is to make it more of a thing that's *happening* someplace in your mind rather than a purely imagined scene. Done right, pieces of the scene seem to act on their own and you watch and interact with them a little like how they do in a dream, rather than the whole thing being a scene under your direction like when you imagine. Sensations become a little less fake feeling too as you get toward that mental state.

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>impossible fetish
i mean, one day i hope to be killed by rem, or at least someone with an acceptable cosplay of her
>have her stab me in the abdomen, somewhere fatal
>get her to look over me as i die
>give her full permission to do what she wants as i slowly drift away, be that one last kiss or to leave me there
so, not really "impossible" just "hard to set up/find a person willing to kill me"
i just want to look into rems eyes and tell her that whatever she does, it's okay

My fetish is hypnosis and mind control, but I'm sane enough to realize that it doesn't really exist. Still, the concept itself turns me on, and I have an extremely good imagination, so I can usually just think up a sexy mind control scenario on the spot whenever I need to let one loose.

I've only had one long-term sexual relationship, but she was very vanilla. She was willing to let me try hypnosis on her, but she just never bought it. She had terrible imagination though. That's not an insult she literally couldn't read fiction because she found it impossible to visualize anything that wasn't explicitly described for her.

I dunno, it's a weird fetish. I'm not even sure if I want to hypnotize others or be hypnotized myself. The concept just fascinates me. Losing control over your own body, your own thoughts. There are so many things we do involuntarily every day, even when we tell ourselves we don't want to do them. I guess I want to tap into that.