BDSM Thread

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>>6889286
What's there to argue about? This is porn. A picture depicting rape has no context. If you're upset about a 2d picture being raped, you're an idiot. If you think it's okay to rape someone IRL, you're an idiot.

You might want to post more than one image if you want people to give a shit about your opinion, though, OP.

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Here, i'll post some content for you. These threads are bad enough without OPs who don't give a shit.

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Seeing as i'll be dumping porn for a while, how about a story?

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>>6889383
So when I was a bit younger, I met a girl into BDSM.

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>>6889389
I didn't know much about it apart from perhaps a few childish jokes about "gimps".

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>>6889391
We were both sexually inexperienced, and yet she had developed an early rather deep-rooted fetish.

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>>6889392
To this day I still don't know why or how she came to be into BDSM, just that it was my pretty influential on my first sexual experiences.

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>>6889393
We were slowly discovering more about it on our own. We grew up in a very secular society, so there wasn't really any communication for us with any kind of community.

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>>6889400
Oops, that should be "non-secular". Anyway, it's a country where sex isn't discussed openly, and especially not anything like BDSM. So we had to figure things out for ourselves, and from the porn we managed to watch through the pretty heavy internet censorship.

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>>6889403
Something that is quite evident from the BDSM threads on /d/ is something we figured out at a young age: Porn =/= BDSM. If all you know about BDSM is what you learn from porn, then you don't know anything about BDSM.

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>>6889405
The most valuable lessons we learned were from our mistakes. Hurt feelings. This quickly lead to us having pretty open and frank discussions about it, obviously in private. That's how I really began to learn. We were isolated from the real world, but we were learning.

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>>6889408
One of the first things we learned was that she was dominant, I was submissive. She had an urge to be in control, and I had the desire to be controlled.

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>>6889411
Maybe out of ignorance, out of a lack of much way to diversify our fetishes, we were pretty heavily influenced by non-pornographic media. We would talk about tv shows, movies, books, and eventually that always turned fetishistic in some way.

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>>6889412
She seemed to delight in corrupting things to be sexual somehow. However we could think to fetishize something otherwise non-sexual, she wanted to do it. And so role-play became a pretty big thing for us.

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>>6889414
In addition, perhaps due to our inability to expand our knowledge outwards, we turned our kinks inwards. She became obsessed with the concept of "layers" of control.

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>>6889415
For example, she would physically restrain me. Then she would begin to mentally break me, with verbal, visual, emotional methods. She loved the idea of hypnosis and mind control, adding more and more layers to her control, getting more turned on the more "in control" of me she was.

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>>6889419
This however did present a problem. She had trouble staying in control of herself. She could get carried away with her obsession. Occasionally, she would ignore my requests for a scene to end. After all, if it could end at any time, she wasn't "really" in control.

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>>6889424
She wanted her control to be "real", I wanted it to be just something we did for fun. That's the danger of obsession. That's when I learned the really important lesson: the submissive is, and has to be, the one who is really in control.

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>>6889427
So one day things went too far. Out of stupidity, and lack of education, and ignorance of how BDSM should be done safely, she wanted to spend the weekend together. She had previously asked me to let her control me all weekend, and I agreed. She took things too far, and left me without a way to communicate my distress to her. Over a period of 6 hours, I tried to tell her I wanted to stop, but wasn't able to. At last, she got the message when I knocked a glass of water out of her hand.

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>>6889429
She untied me, ungagged me, and pretty much immediately recognized her mistake when she looked in my eyes. I didn't speak to her for a week after that. I felt so betrayed. She had put her own pleasure ahead of my well-being. She had just assumed I was fine with it because I wasn't making it known otherwise. I couldn't have. She could have kept me like that all weekend, and I wouldn't have been able to tell her I wanted to stop. That scared me more than I had ever been scared in my life. I had seen people lined up against a wall and shot outside my school as we drove past it, and I hadn't been that afraid.

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>>6889432
We made up after she sent me a long email. It wasn't an apology, as much as an explanation. She had made a mistake not out of malice but out of ignorance. I wanted to stay angry at her forever, I couldn't decide if being ignorant or malignant was worse, but she was right. She hadn't done it on purpose, and I was treating her like she had.

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>>6889443
Then one day, a friend of ours sent us a file, we installed it, and by using a VPN we were suddenly able to browse the internet freely for the first time in our lives. I would go to her house every day I could just so we could browse the internet together. We spent the vast majority of that time either watching porn freely, or looking up advice on BDSM relationships.

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>>6889449
At that time, BDSM was pretty much male-dom oriented. As long as you swapped the genders, though, the advice worked. It was rare to find anything that wasn't male-dom oriented, even once we could browse freely, but the porn we did find was pretty awesome by the standards of what we had to put up with before.

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>>6889432
>I had seen people lined up against a wall and shot outside my school as we drove past it

Holy shit, what country did you grow up in?

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>>6889454
That was right around the time we found a website called 4chan, and it's fledgling new board called /d/. We had always been into anime, and into porn, and now we found a combination of both. The best thing was, even back then, the weird and wonderful fetishes not really possible in real porn were easy to find. That was when we found the first BDSM threads. That was when we got to talk to, and learn from, some of the most knowledgeable and helpful people we had ever met.

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>>6889463
A shit hole.

>>6889469
That was a long time ago. She and I broke up when we were finally old enough to move back home, and when we did, we were going to different schools in different parts of the country. I never saw her again after that day. We kept in contact for years, but eventually she met a new submissive, I met a new dom. She was happy, so was I, and we said our last goodbye.

I've stuck around /d/ ever since. And since those days, the BDSM community drifted away, formed it's own communities. Now a days these threads, and pretty much /d/ in general, is less about actual discussion and more about porn dumps.

I really hope you guys take a few things away from my little story.

First and foremost, the keywords: Safe, Sane, Consensual. Anyone who doesn't prescribe to those, avoid them.

Second: People make mistakes. Mistakes aren't on purpose. Don't treat someone who makes a mistake like someone who did it on purpose.

Third: There's always someone out there more perverted than you.

I'm sure theres more you could learn but I can't be bothered to think of it.

>>6889488
And of course, the most important lesson. This isn't old /d/ anymore. OP, post porn when you start a thread.

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>>6889494
>>6889379

My bad, I was going to but it slipped my mind. I'll dump some shit

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>>6889562

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>>6889488
Learn to green text you sorry piece of shit. Fuck you and your problems

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>>6889574
Don't be a fucking asshole if you aren't going to post porn.

>>6889429
You couldn't tell her you wanted to stop but you could knock a glass of water out of her hands. Took you 6 hours to get to that point. You're just a pussy m8

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>>6889586

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>>6889578
Durr all I want is porn. It sates my appetite. Always so hungry since I was taken advantage of like a fat cow

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>>6889590
It's a porn board you fucking mongoloid

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>>6889579
I used my head, moved it forward and shoved the glass away. That was all I was capable of as a means of communicating. Assumptions are for asses.

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>>6889578
>>6889590
>>6889592
story guy here, you're talking to someone else

see
>>6889606
don't make assumptions

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>>6889574
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>>6889590
>retardation

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>>6889579
EY MAH! Get in here! They lettin down syndrome kids use the innanet!

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>>6889574
>SOMEONE TOLD A STORY AND THE TEXT WASNT GREEN
>REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>6889488
I genuinely enjoyed that story. Good stuff, also nice porn.

>>6889784
>thought you said snuff porn for a second due to a quick glance and the mention of people being shot

Freud please go die.

I hate these threads. Bondage is a tiny part of BDSM but is 100% of these shitty threads

>>6890246
Thats because theres usually specific threads for other fetishes, new friend.

Im looming for a set of images (at least 2 unless im umaware of the rest of it)

Woman is bound with pink leather/latex ,arms under chest,and is being fucked by her master

She gives in and ask for release,get bound harder and fucked harder too

Anyone has that?

BTW nice story man - happy you found a match and she did!

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>>6890246
We could always start a thread dedicated exclusively to bondage

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Do any of you ever view porn/read erotica that makes you feel awful but still pushes some button that turns you on?

>>6890645
everything by fernando

Anyone have that picture of a muscly girl holding down a strong guy while another woman jacks him off?

It was posted a few days ago in a femdom/female rape thread I think, can't find it now and forgot to save it then.

Any ideas of what to do with a very sub partner? She said she wants to be used and owned by me completely but I don't think I'm ready for that yet.

Also nice story. I enjoyed it.

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>>6890862
check the archive for the thread

>>6890883
You shouldn't do anything extreme if you're not comfortable with the idea. Don't rush anything and take it slow

>>6891085
Yeah that's what I'm planning on doing. I'm not against doing that kind of stuff but I have no experience how these relationships work. In the beginning I was a bit offended that it was always about my pleasure but I'm getting used to it now.

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So I'm a bisexual man and a virgin, I've always wanted to be dominated but from what I understand, finding a woman to dominate a man is rare and finding openly gay men in my area is also rare (in my experience). I'm a bit desperate and I began thinking about maybe hiring a dominatrix on backpages. Is that a bad idea? Anybody here have experience with that kinda stuff and willing to give advice?

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>>6891091
>I was a bit offended that it was always about my pleasure

Don't worry, she takes pleasure in giving you pleasure

>>6891097
I know that now though I can't help to wish she would be more open about the stuff she likes too.

>finally got the courage to get myself some cute and pink ropes
>sent it to the old address
fug
It's not that far away from me but for the briefest moment I had a fear of my roomates finding me out

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>>6891109
A lot of people are easily embarrassed and have trouble expressing what they like sexually. Especially when it's something like BDSM where the subject has been fairly taboo for decades and is only started to become accepted in the mainstream space in the past couple of years

>>6889286
>OP is still being a dumb whale and pushing for rape acceptance

Are you mentally retarded?

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>>6891459
There's a difference between rape acceptance and rape fetish acceptance. Many people have rape fantasies. It's perfectly normal and those who have them aren't always going to rape someone, in fact, the vast majority wouldn't think of actually raping someone. We've already discussed this in the previous threads and rape can be a part of BDSM just like how anything can be a part of BDSM if those practicing choose to incorporate.

>>6891479
Still pushing your disgusting sick fantasies with such delusion

Please get help before you rape in real life

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>>6891502
Keep being a faggot and see that no one cares

>>6891502

Found the dwork

>>6891479
this is absolutely correct. how do people really actually try to argue against it?

>>6891508
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>>6891549
Samefagging this hard

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>>6891584
gg

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>>6891607
Just gonna post porn to keep up the porn to post ratio

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>>6891660

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crashing /gfd/ thread

with no survivors

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>>6891459
you all suck

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>>6892222
No, y-y-y-you suck, b-b-b-bitch

>>6891607
Great ms paint edit, rapist

>>6889432
>I had seen people lined up against a wall and shot outside my school as we drove past it, and I hadn't been that afraid.
What. The. Fuck. Sorry senpai but that killed my boner

>>6893098
Its not that kind of story.

My gf wants to try out bondage.
We got around 10ft of rope to try out some basic stuff. What would you guys recommend trying out?

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Great story m8

I learned about that stuff in a similar way. It was always a fantasy about tying a girl( pantyhose was mandatory, mind you) and molesting her and make her squirting several times. But I came to realize, in my first time I tied a girl, that having that kind of power over a person you get in the end

I thought I'd be a pervert over her, since I gagged her too, but in the end I was very clingy. In the second and third time, I lose a little of myself, but they were fun experiences for both of us, and it was funny to see all the stocking she had. Since I met her, she only used pants, and discovering more pantyhose than pants in her wardrobe made my dick go diamonds

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>>6893603
Try a spread eagle tie like pic related. Little risk of cutting off circulation or hurting any muscles if you do everything right. Read up on it more before you do anything though. You can never know too much on how to properly tie

>>6893603
Tie her frogtie, then you can stick it in either hole ez mode.

This thread is all for doing her how youwant to.
After all, consent isn't needed in bdsm

>>6891109
If she is your sub you can't just make her (well safe word aside)

>>6891508
Holy shit, this is the best picture of samus I've ever seen. The muscles and curves are perfect

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>>6894172
>After all, consent isn't needed in bdsm
lmao

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>>6894305
It's a troll post, just ignore them

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>>6894376
Oh I'm fully aware, I just thought it was funny

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>>6894178
It's a shame the artist doesn't really have a whole lot of bondage artwork on their pixiv. This is the closest thing other than that picture. The rest is just Kancolle and Skullgirls fan art

>>6889574
>green text story
You mean abusing the quoting feature, /v/ermin?

>>6894641
Anybody got more forced baby play like this (nothing involving scat or piss, diapers on their own are fine). i kind of like this aesthetic

>>6894376
>>6894442
I'm not trolling, I'm tired of the little shits saying consent is needed in bdsm

Just tie her up and fuck all you want, whenever you want

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>>6895068
>artist's work is great bdsm
>99% chance of including overwhelming amounts of scat shit

You just can't win in this game.

>>6889432
>"She had put her own pleasure ahead of my well-being."

Sadly, this is the ONLY way in which I find sex arousing.

While I can be grateful for my partners interest in my well being, It's also impossible for me to climax due to my obsession.

The only time I came close to climaxing, was when my partner face fucking me, and my hands were tied behind my back. She was about to climax herself, and started to push harder, and I wasnt able to breath, and she went on longer than normal, to try and finish off real quick.

What felt like seconds to her, was a much longer period of time for me.

The idea I couldnt stop her, and her so focused on finishing her orgasm, I damn near got off w/o being touched.

(I also noticed the feeling of needing to breath lessened as I got that turned on, and almost seemed easy)

Rape is bad, mmmkay?

>how bdsm?
>find partnar
>how find partnar?
>go munch
>what munch?
>totell wholesam event

Well, after hearing of one being hosted nearby (called an "introductory café or some shit), I finally went and did it this spring. I got on my finest clothes (casual by normie standards lel), popped a couple of benzos and hopped on the buss downtown.

It was hosted at a private locale, hidden away in a dank alley worryingly close to the behead-all-infidels part of town. Upon entering I was immediately greeted by this friendly woman, about 25-35, wearing a just shiny corset (or bodice? I dunno lel) and otherwise casual jeans. Turns out she just wants the entrance fee from me. Now, I'd seen maybe two chicks donning fetishwear in my whole life at that point, so naturally my pulse is already skyrocketing, despite how casual she acts. Still, no real alarm bells sounding yet. Sure, there's loud music coming from inside and at least one person wearing suggestive clothing, so my idealized vision of a pervert's tea party may be gone, but it -did- say "café"! So, I pay the fee, head on in and what do I fucking see? It's fucking Gomorrah! The place is packed; some half naked, others in leather and a few in latex or just lingerie. People are getting spanked and tied up in one corner of the room, in another they're getting "massages", in the third corner I see what appears to be my promised café: a chubby (and pretty cute) chick selling soft drinks and toasts from behind a counter.
If it weren't for the benzos, I'd have noped out of there immediately. Instead, I realize that I'm hungry, so I just calmly walk over to the counter and get a snack. Then I awkwardly park myself in the one place that's relatively empty, lean against the wall and eat.
A few people come over and ask if I want to "play" or just say "hi".

I'm too bewildered to respond properly, so instead I just stare into space and chew on my toast like a moron. After maybe half an hour I get drowsy and head home.

>>6895677
Benzos wear off while I sleep, and the following few days I feel like absolute shit.

tl;dr
Munches fucking suck.

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>>6895161
Wait, is that supposed to be scat? Looks like a snake or fucking chocolate ice cream

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why is there never any mummification in these threads? i could swear it was almost a separate fetish from bdsm instead of part of it.

i know it's spider web but that's all i got, friggin niche bdsm type

>>6895677
>>6895682
Sounds to me like someone advertised their play party as a munch, because those really aren't the same thing. That said, you made the right decision by not playing when you were doped up. Hope your future experiences go better.

>>6895677
That's fucking wild, munches aren't like that at all.
From my experiences they're usually a group of like five or so people who already tend to know each other and have dumb inside jokes, a couple of new-ish people who are pretending to know any inside jokes and then one completely new person who will probably just never return because they can't stand not being included in inside jokes. Everyone goes to bar or something, drinks a bunch of beer and shares a big order of fries, people make awkward innuendos and nothing too weird happens. I find them stressful but I only go to them every so often until I meet someone who can introduce me to a friend and then I don't have to go back for a long time.

Seconding anon that you did the right thing by not playing high

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>>6890883
>>6891109
>>6893603
Start slooowwww, blindfold her and talk to her as you play with her. Constantly ask if she's okay, if she's fine then eventually get her to kneel as you "use her for a bj", keep your hand on her head so that she feels that you are being firm and in control.
But all the while, keep an eye on her, does she look okay to you? Ask her to tap on you twice if she doesn't feel okay, keep checking. Afterwards, take her blindfold off and hold her close and tell her she did good. Have a cuddle and feedback.

You can increase things slowly over time by adding restraints, roughness, spanking, gags, and all the painful stuff until you both feel at home with it. Don't force yourself if you aren't ready either, being honest with her is important too.

>>6891093
If you're a virgin your first time might be over so fast that it would probably be a waste, you might want to save interesting encounters for when you can last a little longer, but it's up to you.
Gentle femdon is easy to come by through dating a 'strong' girl, so any girl who is competitive with you, but if you're interested in full on bdsm then a domiatrix will be a good place for you to introduce yourself to it in a safe space and find out your limits, just make sure you say that you're only starting out etc
After you have decided your limits I suggest you go to a munch or check out fetlife. Being bi is a super power.

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>>6890645
breathplay

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>>6896025
like the masks and hoses and latex are hot as fuck but the idea of actually being in a situation where someone else is controlling you air supply is NOPE.JPG

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Is finding a dominant/switch straight woman as difficult as people make it out to be?

>>6896073
It's definitely easier to find subs, but switches tend to be easier to find than doms if that helps?
If someone is just getting into bdsm with their partner it's normal for them to want to switch, so don't worry so much about finding a dom but instead find someone that's willing to experiment with you

>>6896073
Not if you don't care about consent like fat fuck op

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Discussion time, how long have you known you've been into BDSM? When did you discover it?

>>6895879
>>6896003
I sure hope you're right. I'll probably give it another go in a few months or so.

Also, though I do realize that everywhere is obviously different, do people tend to be nice to newcomers at munches? I'd prefer not to go zombie-mode next time, but I guess it'd be better than just waiting for that inevitable panic attack and rushing out lel

>>6896178
I'm not "into BDSM". I've known some people who were knowledgeable about it, and they showed it being fun, but I've snapped out of that.

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>>6889379

>>6890281
BDSM isn't just bondage. This is just a bondage thread, not a BDSM thread.

>>6890553
This thread is already exclusively bondage, pretty much. Just call it a bondage thread instead of lying and calling it BDSM.

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>>6896339
Pictures on here show the other aspects of BDSM (domination, sado masochism etc) and bondage is one of the more popular aspects of BDSM to people so stop bitching or post the kind of shit you want to see in here.

>>6896178
When op said I could rape everyone

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>>6896499
Rape everyone. No one is safe. All shall fall to victim to anon's dick

>>6896370
It shows S&M and domination as part of bondage. That's all it has.

>>6896303
Downie Elsa

>>6896548
And op if they get their fatty ass off the computer

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>>6896178
I've been into BDSM since I was 13, as I discovered the wonderful world of internet porn. My family had always been quite open about sexuality and stuff, so I wasn't ashamed of my kinks or anything. I never even had any vanilla experience, actually, since I was attached to the bed during my first time, when I was 15 and never did anything vanilla after that.

>>6896178
I was one of those weirdos that found out pre puberty. It got so weird that I even tried tying myself up with blankets when I was like 8. I thought I was like this extreme outlier though so I was pretty shocked at age 14 when I found out there was a name for it and there was such a massive community surrounding it with all this porn and shit

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>>6897957
shit, forgot picture

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Since this thread is BDSM, allow me to post Sunstone related stuff

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I recently bought a chastity device, and my mistress asked me to start wearing it. I keep slipping out when i use the medium cockring and the small one is way too small. I really don't want to disappoint my mistress, does anyone have any advice?

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>>6898000
This is the model incase anyone else has some advice.
https://www.amazon.de/Penisk%C3%A4fig-1315-Keuschheitsg%C3%BCrtel-Keuschheit-Cockringe/dp/B00VZ96QJY/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1466197837&sr=8-2&keywords=keuschheitsk%C3%A4fig

Sometimes I feel like chastity is an ultimate form of bdsm, it's just really getting me down that I can't seem to figure this out D:

>>6897434
This one scares me. It feels like she's thinking "When I get out of this I am going to kill the person who did this to me.....slowly."

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>>6898132
Just more incentive to never let her get out

>>6889488
Heavy man. Killer story. Would probably make a good novel too. Can't say I've been there truly, but emotionally, not too far off.

>>6890645
Anything MLP.

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>>6898227
HOLY SHIT, THAT PICTURE IS SO FUCKING HOT, I ALMOST CAME JUST LOOKING AT IT

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>>6890645
I really like images that express extreme sense of desperation or an extreme sense of fear from the bottom. I really like this one since it looks like the girl is so scarred that she pissed herself (even though I'm usually pretty squeamish about about anything involving piss)

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>>6890645
Pics involving forced baby play and diapers but not actual scat or piss. It just signifies long term bondage in the ultimate form. Like the person being tied up is going to be like that for so long that they need to wear one. However, it makes me feel absolutely disgusting for being turned on by this shit for obvious reasons.

>>6890645
Quicksand. While the victim's struggle in the muddy goop looks sexy, the implication however is that he/she is going to drown and die at the end of it, making quicksand somewhat a guro thing. This makes my liking of it feel awkward.

>>6898000
>>6898004
I don't know that model by eye, but sometimes it can take time to get used to a particular device before you find what is right for you. Most chastity is self imposed regardless of the desires of a mistress or master. If you find you can "escape" from it, then just don't. I'm sure you're capable of following orders like a good sub.

Funny how most often it's accidental exposure to BDSM,. Started that way as well with a not sane bi-switch

Started off normally enuff before culminating into being handcuffed to a bedframe , suffice to say I broke said bedframe getting out and then had her switch to sub when I was around

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How can I give/receive analingus without...bad tastes? I am aware that enemas exist but even if it's washed I'm not sure I want to put my mouth there. Is there anything that I can do to make it less gross to think about it?

>>6889588
>Wake me up inside
>>6889589
>CANT WAKE UP

>>6898477
Its not that I am trying to escape,it just all shrinks down there so much at times that it slips out on its own, I don't even notice for some time

>>6891459
I wish the numerous rapes that happened in your genetic past did not :^)

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>>6899253
Facit.

basically, just doing it once will ease your mind. It's definitely not as bas as most people think. And afterward it's not gross to think about.

Y'all rapists are sick

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>>6899521
How can you cast bait without a hook?

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>>6899604
here, we bait our own hooks.

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>>6899632
I wonder what it would feel like to have a few hooks in me

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>>6899633
depends on the size of the hook, and where you stick it.

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>>6889454
I can't hold my silence anymore. I've seen so many of these arms-tied-behind-back-in-the-bag-thing pictures and every time I think to myself, "dang, I wish I could get someone to do that to me because I really need more flexibility in my shoulders and chest."

I've been browsing /fit/ a lot.

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>>6899651
I just tired to do that pose, turns out I can do it, but it hurts the next really quickly.

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>>6899651
>arms-tied-behind-back-in-the-bag-thing

It's called an armbinder. They always looked really painful to me. General question for the thread. Has anyone here actually worn one? Are they as bad as they look?

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>>6899674
>posting a lower resolution version of an image already in this thread

C'mon familam, step your game up

>>6899669
>Has anyone here actually worn one? Are they as bad as they look?
No. You just need to be flexible and they're actually fun.

It took me an entire month of stretching my arms several times a day to actually get my elbows to touch though. Probably because I'm a guy.

>>6899680
Well fuck me, I haven't been regularly refreshing the thread and every picture is hard to see when you have twilight running and dimming your phone screen 75%.

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>>6899669
They are actually pretty easy, if you aren't raising them up behind your back. TO see what I mean clasp your hands behind your back, then try and raise your hand parrallel to your shoulders. It's not easy.

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>>6899681
That would make sense. I'm a guy with broad shoulders so the idea of wearing one always seemed uncomfortable to me. I like the aesthetic though

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>>6899692
Tried it, my shoulders just hurt for like a solid 6 minutes. I do lots of push ups so I don't know what the issue is. Are men supposed to be able to do that without it hurting?

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>>6899719
probably not, It's more a flexibility thing than anything, having more muscle probably makes it harder.
I'm pretty flexible naturally, but raising my arms behind me is still pretty taxing, even after a short time.

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Anyone have any good resources on rope based self bondage?

I've got rope due to arrive on Friday and I'm mostly looking for harnesses and compression and junk rather than full immobilization.

I'm having a hard time finding useful resources because I have a penis and most of what I can find depends on not having a penis.

Pic related, very close to what I want

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>>6899868
That specific tie is a form of shibari called karada. That tie can be done on a man. Just google it and I'm sure you'll find a tutorial somewhere

>>6899868
That looks really fun.
I have never used rope, but I did some ribbon play
>Ribbons feel pretty fucking good around your dick
Is it fun?

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>tfw no one will ever tie you up because you're a permavirgin and too closeted about your desires

feels bad

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I'd like to run something by you guys, as you all seem to be a relatively sensible bunch. I like to think of myself as someone who isn't a dumbass, or at least someone with at least an iota of common sense, but something has been tugging at my mind for a while now. I'm sure you're all familiar with the picture of the girl fisting herself to give the anonymous guy fucking her a handjob through the rectal/vaginal wall. My question is the following:
>Is it physically possible, if, with enough lube, patience, amyl nitrate and anal training, can I anally fist my gf while fucking her vaginally so as to jerk myself off inside her?

I suspect it is, but I think that there's something I'm overlooking.

(pic hot, but unrelated)

>>6899868
I'm a guy and I do that tie all the time. Just go around your dick when you get to it.

>>6900858
Maybe? She'd need an absurd amount of anal training.

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>>6900858
My god, This man is a genius

>>6900868
>absurd amount of anal training
Like, how much? She has a smallish plug, and if she wears it for 10h+/week then possibly by august I could do something with her. Otoh the next time I see her after that is over spring break next year, so I could work her up on larger and larger plugs for that....

>>6900858
The anus is quite tight, it's not just an elastic hole. It's very difficult to get your hand inside one, even fully compressed, so it would be even more difficult to open it up enough to grasp your dick and move it around to jack off. It's not just a fist or a dick in her too, it's both at the same time, so unless you have a very small hand and dick, it'll take a considerable amount of stretching for her to take all that. The barrier between the vagina and anus is also quite thin, and not very tough, so you'll need to be very gentle. Shoving your fist up a girl's ass to jack off your dick in her vagina, is not exactly a delicate act, so uh, yeah, don't go crazy.

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>>6897434
>Balalaika as the sub
Well I'm sure she wants to relax sometimes.

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>>6900888
What sort of anal training would you recommend?

>>6900891
It's not exactly a matter of training. You can't really train your insides to be tougher. No matter how well she trains her holes, You'll always have to be careful not to go overboard. You'll obviously need to be able to fist her first. It's really a matter of getting her to be comfortable enough with that before you get up to putting a fist and a dick in her at the same time.

>>6900898
Okay. Thanks for the advice.

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Another question- how can I (a cocked human being) train my stamina? I've tried topical lidocaine and it helps but I want to get better. I've heard good things about cock rings. The issue is I have shitty self control and so edging doesn't reallly work for me too well.

>>6899455
is it not possible to tighten it when that happens?

>>6900909
I would say chewing gum, but I don't think that'll fly with your partner.

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>>6901087
I think if he's panting heavily, they wouldn't have an issue with a little fresh breath. Unless he's wearing a ballgag or something along those lines

>>6901087
>>6901096
What, chewing gum will stop me from orgasming quickly?

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>>6900858
>Is it physically possible, if, with enough lube, patience, amyl nitrate and anal training, can I anally fist my gf while fucking her vaginally so as to jerk myself off inside her?
Idea doesn't sound bad in general, but considering what others have already said, it might be easier for you to do it the other way around.

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Are straitjackets as fun as they look? I don't know why but I've always had a thing for them and I've always wanted to be put in one but never had the opportunity to

>>6901872
theyre fine but if you try to wear one for a long time, your elbows get extremely painful. Something about blood pooling in the elbows over a long period

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>>6901925
Define long time. We talking like an hour here or what?

>>6901962
overnight I would guess

>>6889488
shit man, i like you.

What you told is exactly why doing any kink with someone else freaks me the hell out, there needs to be a balance or a well known limit.

I'm alright with pushing comfort zones a little, but it terrifies me to know that in the times i take a sub role and the dom could just go "Ahh, fuck you. Don't be a baby." and do as they so please.

I suppose thats because you (or rather i) take a look at one bit of any thing bdsm, stumble upon the more hardcore videos, and assume "Being a masochist must mean you like having nails put in tour leg all the time." when in reality it goes with everything in between and more.

>>6890645
Pet play always makes me bounce back and forth.

I like the idea of a more playful/fun pet play experience, where the nonsexual stuff is a loving pat while laying next to master on the couch, and messing around with tricks and just general fun stuff. And in the bedroom is teasing and deal making, edging combined with offers of a reward for desired performance. The general idea of being owned but not up to the same level of strictness that is a slave.

The stuff that pushes me away is the forced cage for HOURS, eating on/off the floor, eating literally dry dog/cat food, bathroom is in a box/outside, ect...

Hey lads, fsub here. I've had trouble (more than i should according to the internet) finding male doms. I keep accidentally attracting vanilla and sub males, but I can't even get close to climaxing with that kind of sex. What do?
I live in a big and rather raunchy city, are fetish clubs worth checking out even if I'm spaghetti as fug? Is fetlife any good?

>>6902498
prepare for like 100 wanna be male doms replying to you

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>>6902485
You should check out the pet play community on /d/. Last time I was there they were pretty cool.

>>6902510
;_; I just want the real thing, not a cringey tumblr e-dom.
Also a total virgin with respect to bdsm and being dominated, guys are always hesitant about it. Where is this mythical treasure trove of maledoms people speak of

>>6902531
try some of the off-site communities based around /d/, they're better moderated and the spergs are warded off

>>6901218
I read a /r/askscience on it a while ago, so I don't remember all the details, but the user said it splits your focus, which apparently helps one last longer.

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>>6898309
>I really like images that express extreme sense of desperation or an extreme sense of fear from the bottom.

Same here. I've got a folder called "light bondage" which I try to fill with everything but the real hardcore cum-absolutely-everywhere bondage if I can help it; stuff like the image you posted. Lemme see what I got...

>>6899868
Youtube has tons of great bondage tutorials, stuff by 'Twisted Monk Rope', 'Two knotty boys' and many others show basic and more advanced ties. Search "Rope bondage" on Youtube. Enjoy!

>>6900858
This is more doable - Big anal vibrator and when you fuck vaginally (either way around) you'll feel the vibrations. >feels good man

>>6902498
Join Fetlife (free). Find the local BDSM munch in your area, or multiple ones. If no munch find the group for your local area. Do not hook up with anyone immediately - make friends in the community first. Find someone to mentor you. Don't be a 50 shades idiot / prey. Good luck to you.

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>>6902890
Is her urethra on the wrong side, or is it just me?

>>6889488
Thanks for sharing, I'm glad things ended up okay!

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these three images are my absolute favorite in the "sub in fear" category

>>6891479
>>6891749
>>6897417
>>6897429
>>6902859
>>6904016
I post five hundred year old vampires
>b&
You guys post legit loli, nuthin'
What am I missing here?

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>>6904050
>she's REALLY 500 years old!
>the character's only 14 but she's got C-cup tits because ANIME

That's not how it fucking works. You can't ever go off character age, so neither do the mods. If she's "really 500 years old" but she's got a red backpack, a grade schooler's uniform and stands half the height of her "partner," it's loli. If you post a tall, sexy Flandre with C-cup tits, it's not loli. A tiny flat Flandre half the size of the guy fucking her? It's loli. Use your fucking head, jesus.

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Lets put some "SM" back in "BDSM"

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Something about this tie makes it seem perfect for either tit-slapping, or attaching weights to her nipples and then spanking her to make her wiggle.