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>>6674706
No one cares. Post porn.

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>>6674709
moar smut with ropes and chains and leather and pain!

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>>6674732

Seriously, what's the point here if you're only reposting the same old recycled pics?

>>6674832
Makes you wonder what their beef even is with the discussion thread if they're not going to post anything original themselves.

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>no femdom

christ you can't even do this right when left to your own devices

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>>6674832
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>>6675227
No one cares. Post porn.

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>>6675277
heres some more porn

>>6675319
>>6674729
Fucking love this.

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i love this artist

Does anyone have Blogman's Tight Busty Hilda picture?

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>>6674706
This is inifnitely better than all the past BDSM threads that were just full of retarded tumblr tier circle jerking, fuck off or post something different yourself, cunt.

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I'm enjoying the direction of this thread so far

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How do you set up a situation in which sub feels like she deserves the punishment?

I'm looking for inspiration here..

>>6678509
As a lesbo and a sub:

Make her want something really bad, (I.e. she wants to rub her clit, touch her nipples etc) and then make it seem like it's okay, but never actually tell her she can. When she does it herself, you punish her because you didn't allow it.

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>>6679103
oops this was meant for
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>>6679770
Let them shit it up all they want. It's just showing everyone why they had to go in the first place.

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>>6679950
No one cares. Post porn.

>>6679446
Is this a backwards /b/ thing?

Any good recommendations for locking bed restraints? I would normally have just used chains, padlocks, and say fuck it, but the noise would probably wake one of us up.

By the way, anyone get cuffs from AliExpress before?

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>>6680890
I can see why that community died now if its full of this kind of cunt.

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>>6681793
No one cares. Post some porn.

Look at all the people complaining not posting any porn.

You're ruining your own arguments by not posting any porn.

Post some fucking porn, or your opinions will be discarded.

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This thread is proof of why mods should delete /bdsmg/ threads. The thread was fine until they showed up.

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>>6681818

almost like that's what we hoped they'd do all along

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>>6682820
No one cares, post porn.

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>>6682955
Dude, literally nobody gives a fuck. We're just hanging out in our skype group because it's not like we ever really needed /d/ for porn anyway so it's no biggie. I don't know where you've gotten the idea that any of the bdsmg regulars have half a fuck to give about it. If we cared that much, we wouldn't have let the thread drop off the board. Ghost was the only one who still gave a fuck and he finally got his ass in the skype group so yeah, enjoy. Just leave us out of it because we got over all this faggotry like a year ago.

Oh, and the survey posters were blatant newfaggots. Nothing to do with us either, we're all got our survey results on FL where they belong.

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I am so glad /bdsmg/ was still fresh and good when I started with BDSM. Had I found this sort of caustic faggotry while trying to find people to talk to, I would never have bought a rope or gag.

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>>6683462
It's a shame. They used to be a good community, then they started giving out bad advice, then they started giving out terrible and dangerous advice, they let the queen bees take over and alienated everyone who was tolerable.

A damn shame. They're so cancerous that they have to shit up anything with BDSM in the title now.

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> /bdsmg/ gone
> threads on /d/ still go to shit
> one factor remains constant
Blame whoever you want I guess but i'm starting to think /d/ itself is just a shitty place now.

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>>6683660
It's quite obvious the people shitting up this thread are just butthurt about /bdsmg/.

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Anybody got any good straitjacker pictures? There seems to be a large lack of japanese straitjacket art. I'm going to post the few that I have

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>>6683820
And that's about all I have. Bonus points for any featuring the sub restrained or strapped down to a bed or something like the last one

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>>6683821
oh shit, forgot these two

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>>6683660
You're right. /d/ is turning into a shitty place.
Theyre totally cancerous and shouldn't be allowed to spread to other boards.

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What did /bdsm/ think about 50 Shades of Grey?

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>>6684166
Really fucking dumb. Ignoring the fact that it's just a stupid and unrealistic depiction of bdsm, it was just a really badly written and boring book. Unless you're talking about the movie. In that case, it was badly written, boring and badly acted. It's alright if it's just porn. That's cool and all but everyone's trying to say they read this and now they understand everything about the culture and practice

tldr, it's shit

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>>6684031
I did every time I saw something actually illegal.

>>6684067

Moar like this, Moar Traps

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so is ayy bee dee el considered a form of BDSM?

not posting a related picture in that i'd prefer the thread to not get flooded with said fanbase. would like a different point of view

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>>6686600
BDSM is a really big collection of fetishes. Anything that can fall into the Bondage/Dominance/Sado/Masochism bracket is BDSM.

ABDL involves submission and dominance so there's your answer.

>>6686622
Can you love me now

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>>6686627
If we go by the theory that everyone but you is just one person on 4chan, then no, based on the things i've seen, no one can love you.

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I prefer restraints to be simple and functional. do you really need 30 pounds of leather and chains to keep your slave from wiggling too much?

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>>6686721
I don't know. Pictures like yours aren't my thing I guess. They can still move their arms, legs and every other part of their body. They're wrists are just joined together. I like it when the slave is completely immobilized and has trouble just struggling.

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>>6687006
Not that guy but... even that can be done with a rope or two. I can see why some people enjoy leather and latex and belts and padlocks, but there's a certain elegance and DIY-pride in ropes.

>>6674258
Where can i get some armbinders like these?

>>6687621

Ropes also just look so good

>>6688736

It looks like just latex gloves with some red belts.

Anyone here use a fuck machine in their play?

Considering a Chinese $300 one, it actually looks of solid construction and not just an el cheapo weak piece of shit.


Anyone used Dao Huan?

>>6689937
Sorry famalam but you're probably going to have a hard time getting questions answered now that this has stopped being a discussion thread. Might want to try Fetlife.

>>6689941
The fuck is a famalam

>>6689942

sorry grubnub, gotta keep up with the lingo

Hey, /d/, can you reccommend some good BDSM hentai which came out in the last 12 months?

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>>6689999
If you guys contributed to the thread people might be tempted to help you. Nothing good in life is free.

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>>6686721
You're right that it doesn't take 30 pounds of leather and chains to keep someone in place. However I've always found some sort of fashion appeal to bdsm accessories.

>>6690211
The anatomy of the top, makes no sense

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>>6690347
It does, you just need to be able to tell their body parts apart.

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>>6686672
Source?

>>6690350
>>6690350
No it really doesn't.

Follow the lower stomach up to the breast.

Nonsensical anatomy

>>6687621
>but there's a certain elegance and DIY-pride in ropes.
Ropes in general are a more artistic form of bondage, I find.

>>6675378
I never saw Lina as a masochist before, but now I think I can see it

Complete novice here.
How do you guys learn how to tie rope when you have no one to practice on?

>>6675332
Holy Shit this is god tier

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>>6684067

How long have you been here? I'm not treating tenure as capital here, I'm just wondering.

See, about a year before the first bdsmg, there were these "dare threads" that went through a similar cycle of good to shit. Those in turn were inspired by "the adventures of cumslut" months before that.

This was, in turn, following a period in which conventional wisdom held there to be a "futaspammer" who posted one picture each day in about 20 different futa threads, which also caused a lot of negative social cycles in /d/

Shit changes. 4chan also gets more and more popular so you have more dross to get through.

The reason I originally loved /d/ when I found it (around 2005) was because it made me feel accepted, no matter what fucked up sexuality I had. Even the stuff not allowed was -just- not allowed. People rarely judged you.

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Anyone got more pictures where the dom and the
sub are sort of cuddling and are showing affection towards each other like this one?

>>6691847
yes, this entire other thread
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>>6691849
All of the /gfd/ threads are just the same pictures though. I've already seen pretty much all they have to offer

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>>6691863
yeah... thats why their threads are dying...

>>6691114
A friend of mine uses a mannequin. That being said, go to munches, act like a respectful, polite human being who doesn't get lewd and vulgar with women you just met, and make as many friends as you can. You'll find someone to practice on eventually this way.

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I'm really digging the restraints on this one

>>6687621
Why can't there be more M-Dom/f-sub porn like this with a visible and reasonably attractive dom? As a mostly-hetero, subby woman, it's so disappointing.

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>>6692812
Because alternative pornographers never give a shit about appealing to women, and then people cry about how women aren't into their fetishes.

Yaoi is pretty much the only place you'll see porn actually drawn to appeal to us, so have some yaoi.

Straight male subs: would you suck a dick (not a strapon) if you knew your mistress obtained (perhaps sadistic) pleasure from watching it happen?

>>6693064
Extra qualifier: it's one of her primary fetishes. She REALLY enjoys it.

>>6693064
Yeah, but I need to know that she isn't going to do anything intimate with him.

>>6693064
There's a saying in the BDSM community: Try everything once (within reason). So maybe? There would have to be quite a lot of negotiation beforehand.

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>>6693276
That saying is silly, because it ignores the concept of a comfort zone altogether.

"Try anything once. Including eating shit, being cut open and having subdermal implants put in, etc."

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He did say within reason

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>>6693316
Not everyone takes it that way though.

>>6691114
Practice on yourself.

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>>6693064

That's highly dependant on the individual. Personally, I'd only include a third party if we were both completely comfortable with and attracted to said party.

>>6693312

Well I mean I don't think people literally mean any and everything should be tried without forethought or negotiation or anything. I'm incredibly open and stuff myself but there are things I know I wouldn't enjoy, like eating shit, so there's no need to try that to find out.

But it's quicker and pithier to say "try everything once" in order to encourage openness and adventurism (which ARE good things to have I believe) than spell all that out. SSC always applies after all.

>>6693671
>telling someone to do self bondage without providing any safety information regarding self bondage
BAD ANON. BAD. You tryin' to get someone killed?
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=168&chapter=1 explains why this was bad.
Thoroughly research the subject of self bondage before engaging in it. At the very fucking least, arrange a safe call with a friend if you're going to do this, e.g., "hey, imma tie myself up now, if I don't call you by X come check on me please."
I honestly don't recommend self bondage at all. Emergencies like earthquakes and fires happen. Even if you can quickly free yourself, you might still be fucked if an earthquake happens and you can't quickly get to a safe cover position.

>>6693064

I would try it, hypothetically, but I can't really think of how I would be willing to do that with a specific guy. It isn't so much what it is, but that there is a guy attached to it. So lots of talk about it first.

>>6694967
Hypothetically speaking: you possess 100% trust and respect for your mistress and thus completely trust her judgment re: any third party play partners. This level of trust may be difficult for some to wrap their minds around.

>>6693064
By default: No.

It'd depend on a lot of things. Most importantly, I'd have to know the owner of the external dick really well and really trust him. Even then, since I'm not gay, it would be a massive hurdle to overcome. The dom would have to be really special to me for me to actually do it.

>>6694592
> tried choking myself with a belt while masturbating once or twice

Is there a way to do this "safely"? Honestly I couldn't keep the belt tight with one hand.

I thought about rigging up a device to keep it tight but I can't figure the logistics of making it loosen if I pass out.

Or am I way off and you're talking about shit way past that?

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>>6693799
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>>6695529
>no porn
you might as well just write "ignore everything i'm about to say" at the start

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>>6693276
>There's a saying in the BDSM community
Lmfao no there isn't. Fuck off home, newfag.

>>6695529
Don't do ANY kind of breathplay by yourself at home. Literally none. That is how people die and their parents have to find their naked, mid-fap corpse. Just don't be an idiot anon, it's not worth it.

>>6675372
What I'd do to these two...

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>>6695555
>waaaaaa no pern ta jerk off ta
broken record faggot

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>>6693312
"Try everything once" is not "force everything on someone once."

>>6695601
Yes there is.
Safe, sane, consensual.

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>>6696706
That's not the same as 'try everything once', learn to read.

So, I'm inexperienced wanabe-dom. And I just met a nice sub girl. She has some experience, but not much. And I'm thinking about how would I go about our first "lesson". I don't have any tools or toys, nor to I know here preferences. How should you go about it?

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>>6697831
It'd be a good idea to make friends with other doms so you can bounce ideas off them before trying them out with your girl- Fetlife is the place to start.

>>6697831
Hey mate, another wannabe-dom here. How did you meet her/find out she was into BDSM?

I've had a problem with every girl I've dated so far. The uninitiated ones were quickly weirded out by and dismissive of any suggestions, so I stopped pushing the subject. Then I started seeking girls at shadier places, that I knew were into it, but they were too hardcore for me and it was my turn to be weirded out.

I just want to do some light dom, specially shibari (nothing sexier than a properly tied-up girl) and sex slightly rougher than usual. For instance, I like kissing/licking/play-biting every inch of their body to assert them there is no place out of limits for me. I want to spread her out and look without reserve at places where a more puritan girl would be embarassed to death. To lovingly toy with her, in a sense.

At the same time, I wouldn't want a relationship revolving around this 24/7. It'd be more of a kink we have in our free time, although I wouldn't be against taking her out on a date while making her wear a buttplug or vibrator.

And all these years I couldn't find a single girl who'd let me do all this. At most one thing or another in short bursts or once in a blue moon.

Pic very much related.

>>6698534
I tried Fetlife already. Its pretty much general advices like "talk with your sub about it".

>>6698830
I met her at local BDSM site. Its my first one.

>>6698865
I live in a small town, there really aren't local BDSM websites. Unless you mean a site as in an actual place, in which case I've been to local "alternative" pubs that also have some BDSM people, but they were a lot more hardcore than I'd expected.

I figure being in the country that houses the world's biggest catholic population doesn't help.

today, i'm going to find a partner!
>reactivate and browse fetlife account
>fap while reading fetishes
>fap to some person's profile
>cum
>deactivate fetlife
>go to bed

>>6697831
Find munches on Fetlife. Go to them. Make friends there. You will probably learn about educational events in your area if you do. Go to said educational events. You will learn a lot by getting involved with your local community.

>>6699700
Find a partner by going to munches, making friends at said munches, and by treating people you are interested in playing with with respect and like normal human beings instead of treating them like sex objects. That means getting to know them as human beings, well, before even bringing up the subject of play. BDSM is dangerous, even life-threatening at times. You need to engage in it with people you can trust. Get to know people in person enough to trust them before you even think about playing with them.

Also, re: fetlife and local community, this is really important information for all the men: https://fetlife.com/groups/137089 (Group: How NOT to talk to the Ladies of Fetlife)
http://www.kinkweekly.com/article-jenn/fetlife-etiquette/
In general, though:
- The community frowns on using munches as "singles nights." Do not start hitting on women your first time at a munch. You may be told not to return if you do. People in the kink community generally wish to make thorough character observations before deciding to engage in sexual activities with others; without these character observations, one doesn't know if they're about to play with someone dangerous.
- When socializing with new people in the community, treat them like human beings, not sex objects. Get to know them as human beings. Learn things about them that aren't related to kink/sex. Share information about yourself not related to kink/sex. If you are friendly, open-minded, treat others with respect and demonstrate a wide variety of interests outside of kink, you will probably make many friends in the community. People in the kink community are usually extremely friendly, helpful and sexually open-minded.
If you do these things you will make yourself stand out from the hordes of clueless men who only act and speak with their penis, and by standing out as a respectful human being your chances of finding a partner will go up.

Well, I'm ready to get some rope strictly for the sake of practice. Is there any recommended kind to get, or is any ol' kind good enough?
>>6694592
Is practicing by tying your legs only too dangerous as well?

I wouldn't dream of trying to tie my arms by myself, I'd die of embarrassment if I had to call someone to help me, and I certainly wouldn't want that to be the way anyone find my body.

>>6699983
>Is there any recommended kind to get, or is any ol' kind good enough?
Get 100 feet of nylon rope for $10 at Home Depot. You will fuck up a lot at first, so cheap is good for practice.
>Is practicing by tying your legs only too dangerous as well?
That should be OK as long as you have safety shears aka paramedic scissors handy. Safety shears are a must for safe rope bondage.

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Please post porn. This isn't /bdsmg/.

>>6699983
>>6700196
Agreed, get cheap shitty rope to practice on yourself and inanimate objects with. Then when you're ready to tie someone else up, hemp, jute or flax are the natural fibres you want, or Hempex if you want a cheaper option that's easier to wash. I can go into the pros and cons of each if you're curious.

>>6703201
>hemp, jute or flax are the natural fibres you want, or Hempex
Not everyone likes to be tied with scratchy rope. Just saying.

>>6701036
where'd those go anyway?

>>6701039
anyone know the artist on this?

>>6703470
my pet tentacle monster

>>6703309
long story short, died out because one anon kept shitposting and dragging things through the mud for multiple threads. Most of the regulars just gave up, said fuck it, and are off in private groups now

Same guy who is probably constantly going, "No discussion, porn only" while recycling the same 50 or so images.

>>6703624
If you really think thats why that cancerous as shit community died, then we are doomed to repeat the mistakes of the past.

>>6703257
...hemp and flax aren't scratchy, anon. Have you ever actually tried them? What would you go with instead? Because if you're about to say cotton, I will reach through the series of tubes and slap you upside the head.

>>6703624
He's also now doing the same thing to /gfd/. Makes you wonder whether this guy has some kind of medication he's not taking.

>>6703624
Are you guys on irc or somewhere?

>>6693067
>>6693064
why, of course
sissies love cock kek

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>>6703657
That certainly is why it died. I've been coming here for a long time for my porn, I watched it happened. You can argue if the community was cancerous or not, but it did die because people determined to fuck it up for the regulars routinely did their very best to fucked it up for the regulars.

Even if the community was shit, which I never really saw all that much of, cancerous communities rarely self destruct. People will go on for an eternity in their little corner of the internet being the most foul people to ever reach a keyboard. Like this person that keeps on trying to stop anyone from actually talking about sex by insisting "No one cares! Post porn!" when people clearly do care and are trying to talk about things.

And really, if the community was shit, why do you care? Do you really think people come to /d, home of the dick girl and sexy fart threads (nothing against those fetishes, but the social standing of /d is what it is), and make actual judgements of the BDSM community? Please. 4chan is a joke at the best of times, the adult boards even more so, and /d is on the bottom of even that totem pole.

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>>6707127
Another One!

do you guys know about any decent (more like phychology or even neuroscience oriented) documentary about kink / alternative sexuality? also articles, but a video would be better.
I can only find some very bad crap on youtube, nothing anywhere serious, otherwise everything is about gender!

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>>6705715
Don't be angry.
It's a good thing the old community dies. It's not entirely dead, but we're almost there.

Now we can establish a prosperous, utopian community. While the old rotten tripfag circlejerk ceases something new can blossom.

You could be the curiosity of every thread telling the people old stories about the rise and fall, the Zippy onslaught, what the old guard was like before it got BTFO OFF 4chan!

Can you guys upload all of your bdsm to mega for me

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>>6709757
nope

>>6708920
I require more girlish boys in bondage.

[spoiler]Please[/spoiler]

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>>6710573
Here you are friend

Are there any decent consensual BDSM manga out there? I just want something where they're in a nice almost vanilla relationship but with a kinky sex life.

>>6711488
Love you

>>6674258
So, what's your stance on "underage play". I have a girl in her 20s who's my "daughter" (allthough I call her "brat"), and she calls me daddy. We regularly pretend she's much younger during play, like in her teens or even younger than 10.

I know of a lot people in the BDSM scene who're weirded out by it, but we're happy the way we are and don't have any attraction to real children in any way.

>>6711876
Nana and Kaoru. If you live in Germany you can even buy those here (they're not even indexed by the BPjM (Department for Media Harmful to Youth), so you can buy them through Amazon).

>>6712000
As long as both of you are fine with it who the fuck cares what others think.

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>>6711974
I got more where that came from if you want

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