This board loves creeper stories, but we virtually never hear

>Out yourself as a stalker
What.

I save photos of all my friends and masterbate to them, especially cosplay pics.

I'm at around 20gb now.

>>9103636
>20gb
fucking amateur

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>>9103548
I highly doubt that there will be lots of answers, but whatever.

I was one of those school creepers that are regulary mentioned in cringe/horror stories. Why? Because I was an autistic little fucker that did not know boundaries and tend to get over-enthusiastic over different things. Learning when to keep/release your enthusiasm, learning how to deal with people in general and work on things to lower my autism levels as much as possible were the most important things to become someone who isn't instantly tagged as creepy, to function in society and to be able to make friends and be able to maintain the relationship.

It is damn painful if you find someone you actually get along with and scare them away, because you don't know how to behave like a decent human being, even more if you were a loner and shy the most of your life until then. And if this happens more than once with different types of people in also completely diverse types of circles and fields of interests, then it's highly unprobable that it is always them.

I took me quite some time to figure out myself what went wrong and to learn what I have to do to make it better in future.

>>9103644
That's just for 10 people

>cosplayer/lolita you're obsessed with

Nobody. Not all of us get a stalkerish obsession with ordinary people. I never even had a hardcore celebrity crush. It's weird to me how people devote so much time and energy to people who don't know or care about your existence.

>>9103651
this 2bh

but i'm a freak who doesn't even have a waifu or OTP or anything like that

>>9103664
Neither do I. I can understand fandom stuff but when it leaks over into real life is when it gets weird. People aren't the characters they cosplay. I've had too many weirdos obsess over me because I'm cosplaying their favorite character.

>>9103647
Since you are one that has come out the other side, do you have advice for those creepers to stop and for those dealing with them? I guess continuing to humour them just enables the behaviour to continue. What should someone do to help them see they are acting inappropriately?

>>9103630
I don't know if you noticed, but this site is anonymous.

>>9103651

I agree and resonate so much with this.
At most I have high respect for a celebrity/artist (usually a musician or artist), usually because I adore the work they do. In this case I dont want to bother them and couldn't ever talk to them anyways.

>see one of my favorite musicians live once a year for the past 4 years
>see people approach her and give gifts, chat, get signature w/e
>I'd just be spaghetti in that situation, never bother

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Used to be creepily obsessed with Kotakoti in her living doll days circa 2012, would save her pics,obsessively search for her outfits (and discovered taobao at the same time) ,make a plan of what her room,house,..could look like,...
Then she arrived in Japan and I was like "Oh."

Also was kinda obsessed with Pastelbat, Venus Angelic as well as Yukapon and Pinky Project, and one famous french lolita who i would vicariously live through.

>>9103794
*Pinku Project
my bad

>>9103548
There was this girl I had a huge crush on that I followed on instagram. I stalked her photos a lot because I thought she was super attractive. She didn't live anywhere near mine but somehow had a lot of the people I vaguely associated with in my area added. I random added her on facebook after seeing her comment on a mutual friend's post. After she accepted, I spent ages stalking her posts and gradually increasing the frequency of my comments. We planned a cosplay together for when she came to my area, and it kept her from deleting me when she was doing a friend clean out of people who she didn't really know. When she moved here we hung out and cosplayed together and became friends.

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>tfw I ended up marrying the person I creeped on for 5 years
>by the time he finds out he's too emotionally invested in me to pull away
>now he's constantly worried I'm going to kill myself or something every time I am feeling fussy
>feel terrible that he worries so much over it

>>9103844
This is actually how I make all my friends. I usually do it because we cosplay from the same series or like similar things, though. I never considered it creepy because I never thought about it this clinically before.

I can tell you a time in 6th grade when I was made out to be a creeper. I know they all say that but hear me out.

>Be me 12 years old starting a new school, 6th grade
>Just got out of a horrible situation and moved in with mom
>Dad had committed suicide (will come up later)
>Seeing a grievance counselor but still had a lot of issues to deal with
>Nobody at school knows since it happened 2 towns away
>At new school cant bring myself to talk and play like other kids. People think I am weird
>One of the kids at school used to know me in grade school, call her T
>T is also an outcast,we dont have a lot in common but a mutual understanding that neither of us wanted to be alone
>One Friday T comes to my house and finds my Dads funeral book thing and asks me about it
> I don't tell T the truth, his cause of death isn't in there and I didn't want to talk about it
>Fast forward to Monday and people are acting really weird
>Everyone knows, T had apparently googled what happened
>T didn't even tell the truth! Told everyone my Dad shot himself with a shotgun right in front of me
>Everyone is whispering as I walk by, even a teacher pulls me aside to talk about her son who shot himself
>I don't know what to do, so I say nothing
>T approaches me and is angry I didnt tell her the truth
>She yells at me and then goes sits with some other girls
>I guess she told everyone so people would talk to her
>Eventually it dies down but now I am even more ostracized
>T approaches me after school one day
>"I'm sorry for being mean, I should have been more understanding"
>Ironically when it died down people stopped talking to her again but I was lonely so we became friends again
>A couple weeks later we have a sleep over at her house
>She insists we follow this weird girls sleepover guide
>One of the activities was to talk about the boys we liked
>We ranked them I didn't really care so I just randomly put them in order

TBC

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I was back when Homestuck meetups were a thing
>16 years old
>meetups were going on weekly in parks and I joined
>some cute girls, some fat girls, ratio was skewed
>extemely socially awkward tho
>I had/have a chub fetish
>there was one chubby girl who was dressed as Feferi I think
>exposed tummy, fuck yes
>everyone at this group was all so touchy-feely, I didn't know if they were all friends or if this is just how they act here
>get to know the fef girl, and I ask if I can lay my head on her lap, she's ok with it
>she doesnt seem too weirded out but I liked it
>she gave me her facebook so we can chat later
>she never responds
I was self-aware enough to know I did creepy shit accidentally, so I only messaged like once or twice before giving up
>mfw remembering this shit

>>9103879
>>9103879
>T looks over my list and starts to critique it, but agrees with my number one choice, N
>Honestly it was a terribly boring sleepover, we really had nothing in common
>over the next couple of weeks T keeps trying to get me to ask N out.
>I refuse and T asks if I lied to her again
> I lie but at this point T had begun to notice we werent as close as she'd like
>A couple days later and I notice N has been acting weird around me
>Kids are starting to glare at me and T has started talking to other girls again
>I open my locker and there are a couple of notes
>All of them are accusing me of stalking N
>N confronts me and asks me to stop bothering him and that he is not interested
>I nod and walk away thinking if I ignore this it will all go away
>T actively avoids me and starts spreading rumors about how obsessed I was with N, that I was hitting her and threatening her to not tell anyone
>Rumors start getting worse and eventually it got to the point that I wanted to join my Dad and commit joint suicide with N
>Pictures of shot guns and horrible notes appeared in my locker, bookbag and books.
>The list of ranked boys I had made starts getting passed around
>It becomes my "hit list"
>I become the boys creepers. I can't even look in the general direction of a boy before they become my nest "target"
>This continued for about 2 weeks before I broke down in class and started crying
>All the students freak out and start exclaiming I brought a gun to class

>>9103913
>Teacher flips and staff security escorts me to the principals office
>At this point I can't even speak because I'm crying so much
>Principal contacts my mom and she comes to try and figure out what happened
>Mom is furious when she hears the rumors and tries to set the record straight
>Principal doesn't believe her until after my counselor vouched for my sanity and my locker and stuff was searched
>Principal finds some more notes and drawings
>Finally he started to believe me and T and N are called to the office
> I'm in the outside waiting area when T comes by, she looks scared shitless
>About 15 minutes later they both walk out. T is forced to apologize to me and N looks like he's going to hurl
>Principal apologizes and vows to start an antibullying program immediately
>I never go back to that school and got sent else where
>I do better at the new school
>Get into anime, go to cons make friends it was great
>Years later we all go to the one highschool
>I changed a lot, cut hair, got glasses, grew up etc. most didn't even recognize me except N
>He tried to apologize and offer a date but it was clearly a pity date and I declined
> T either didn't recognize me or she was to embarrassed to acknowledge me

I may or may not have put a bag of shit in her locker for my senior prank. It was immature and I am a little bit ashamed but damn it was gratifying.

>>9103921
bag of shit not immature totally appropriate for that cunt. should have been on fire too.

>>9103669
>do you have advice for those creepers to stop and for those dealing with them?

Wew.
Now that's easier said than done. While appearing creepy in general is not a hard thing to accomplish, the background or the reason for their uncomfortable behaviour can be as diverse as people are. So giving out general tips for the creeper side won't help much since you need to work out individual solutions to fix that trait.

Some people are creepy because they constantly scatter their spagetti in various forms all around them and are just generally bad with social situations. For those I can say, they need to build up the willingness to change and improve as a human to make up for their deficiency they built up over time. It's up to them to decide to build up their self-confidence and become a better being or to backtrack and bath in self-pity, because the world is soo cruel and nobody loves them yada yada. The typical /r9k/ bullshit if you want. Once they reach the conclusion that it's not them being wrong, but everyone else, it will get very hard to convince them to overthink their view on life, their attitude and expectations.

Some are just creepy by nature, because it's their actual character. There's not much hope for them. Just avoid them generally, if they become uncomfortable. You could point out that their action or behaviour is inappropriate and they would look at you puzzled what they did wrong.

You see, this could go on for a couple more pages, but I guess the gist is clear. If you realise that you are being seen as a creeper on a regular(!) basis, then it's all up to you to think about the reasons of why and find a solution. For anyone else, low to no hope of improvement.

Cont.

>>9104006
Now for the part what to do against creepers.

Again it's a matter of who you're facing. But I can definetly approve of telling them in a clear manner once they become creepy to stop. If they are straight up creepy (following all over the convention for example) then just ask them if there is a problem and to mind their own business otherwise, without being rude in a calm and polite manner. Otherwise asking for a straight "why"
might give you some room to deconstruct their intention with logic or common sense.

If you have problems with self-confidence and bad in social interactions as in not very good to speak up for yourself, then stay together with other friends and clearly let them now, if you feel uncomfortable.

It's the simplest and most obvious thing, but important to let them know that they are about to cross a border of personal space.

And desu that's all I can think of about what to do as a stranger. I mean, neither it is your duty to fix their problems as a stranger nor do you hold any responsibility to interact with them. Giving serious advice on what they do is weird and what they could do better is imo easier, if you are already acquainted with that person.
Consider that all this is highly subjective and a product of my own experience I had to gather to make it out of there. This does also include observing other people being creepy, which with some of them I am/was acquainted/befriended with or were present at the same time (e.g. /a/-related meets).

I don't know how much of a creeper/stalker story this but here

>my bff was really into homestuck for years
>because of how close we were I was exposed to it a lot
>I never read it all the way through but I ended up cosplaying roxy because she's hot and my bff looks like Jane
>we wear our costumes to local comic con and go to HS meetup
>and there we meet Him
>I'll call him J
>oh my god this boy was the cutest John cosplayer I'd ever seen
>he was taller than me (im 6'1") and had a strong jawline, dark hair, could tell he worked out, his teeth were perfect and white holy hell I fell instantly
>and I can tell he's about my age
>though I've never dated a guy and I have a hard time talking to them I decide to muster up courage to ask for a selfie
>damn it johnroxy is so cute too we could be the cosplay couple of my weeb day's dreams
> so we take selfie
>post it to Instagram, tumblr, slightly abuse bff's popularity on tumblr to find guy via local HS comm
> he has a tumblr o shit waddup
>PROCEED TO STALK J's tumblr
>bff and I are looking at his blog daily
>I would send him anons asking about his life or if he was going to meetups
>every time he reblogged posts with questions to ask id send like 20
>he's so cute oh god he was dirk too another roxy cosplay dream I don't know I just need this boy to date me
>he always posts about wanting to be dating a girl, esp a nerd girl
> I am crushing so hard I get flustered when I stalk his blog
>I even find out he lives vaguely near me and goes to my comm college
> I'm too shy to intiate conversation
>as usual with boys I like I just never talk to them and it never goes anywhere
>I eventually unfollowed him because he turned out to be one of the lazy types that play video games all day instead of getting job
>he would complain about being made to get a job
>at this point I was like
>ah you're just a fuckboy
>goodbye my hopes and dreams

sorry this was disappointing desu. he really was the cutest guy I've ever seen in cosplay.

>>9103921
Fuck that dumb bitch, shit like her deserves shit

>30-ish, petite, baby faced, lady, fujoshit
>meet and hang out with other girl cosplayers at cons
>find my new friends on instagram after the con
>17-19, maybe 20

Can't help but hesitate to add them, even when my age isn't posted or obvious by my looks. Female privilege though.

>>9104032
>Again it's a matter of who you're facing. But I can definetly approve of telling them in a clear manner once they become creepy to stop.

Good advice anon, some things I would like to add.

This is the number one thing people don't get with creepers, and all off the horror stories that ever get posted could have been prevented by the clear expression that they wanted the person to stop.

Think about it logically; if they are being creepy in the first place, in whatever way, it means they have trouble understanding what kinds of behaviour are socially acceptable. (For whatever reason) most of this information is communicated to one another non-verbally. Why would your attempts to communicate your discomfort in any way other than clearly and verbally work, when the entirety of society's code for How To Behave has failed to permeate them up until now?

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>>9103651
>It's weird to me how people devote so much time and energy to people who don't know or care about your existence.

THIS holy shit

>>9104006
>>9104032
Thank you very much for your reply! It's quite a helpful insight.

>>9104301
You are totally right in saying a lot of creeper stories could have been nipped in the bud by clearly and politely asking to stop.

I was reading a guide for victims of stalking a law enforcement officer had complied and one of the things said was to be very clear that the attention was not wanted. Some type of stalkers (the creeper motivated ones) felt 'encouraged' because the person they were interested in humored them to be polite and did not say straight out that they were not interested.

>>9104301

Correctly. These kind of people need to face the dry facts that their current behaviour is not socially acceptable and you won't reach anything if you put your concerns off as long as possible.

It's just too common to read things like anon didn't say anything to avoid confrontation or they don't want to be a dick and drop hints first. No.

Not only you aren't doing yourself a favor, but it's also sending off wrong signals and signals offer room for subjective interpretation (e.g."she just might be shy") and make a game out of your problem and the whole situation as in

>>9104434
>Some type of stalkers (the creeper motivated ones) felt 'encouraged' because the person they were interested in humored them to be polite and did not say straight out that they were not interested.

which is the last thing you want.
>>9104434

I'm not a very good teller and not a native speaker either, but I feel happy that these pieces of Information are helpful for others.

You can pretty much summarize it in creepers don't know the appropriate behaviour for the individual social situation and need to be told off. That's it.

>>9103651
>>9104410
attention from people you like is scary, it's usually a lot easier to obsess over someone if they don't know you exist

I used to try and take creepshots at cons.
I wasn't very good at it and eventually stopped.
The rush when you do it is a lot more gratifying than when you actually look through your photos and think "Wow, I got a really blurry shot of some girl's boobs," or even better, "I completely missed and didn't get a photo of anything at all."

If you want a picture of somebody just ask them for a picture.
If you want a picture of somebody's ass then either ask them for a picture of their ass, or just ask to see the back of their costume, EBK style.

>>9103903
this isn't particularly creepy desu, considering you asked her and she said yes, and considering she gave you her facebook versus you finding it yourself

>>9104489
Fair enough, but I was rather forward with wanting my face on her tum.

>>9103921
That sounds horrible anon. I'm glad to hear that you're doing better and everything was able to work itself out, unfortunately not everyone gets as nice of an ending so I'm happy that you did. I would've put shit in her locker too.

>>9104301
I completely agree that some people just need to be told no/stop, but I think the problem is people are afraid to say to. If the person is creeping them out, then they probably feel like they don't know what kind of person they're dealing with, or how far their actions will escalate. If you're dealing with a creepy weeb creeper or stalker, I think the biggest thing is people think the worst and are afraid that if they confront the person, it will anger them and cause them to lash out or react in a violent manner. Obviously, there's all sorts of creepers and the other anon acknowledges that, but that's part of it - there's so many types, so the creepee doesn't know how to deal with it because they may not be sure if the person is creepy by nature or social retardation or not.

In terms of stalking and whatnot, it also can be hard for people to get higher-ups involved. People may just not believe you, or say they can't help you because nothing "serious" has happened yet. People hear stories of this happening, and become deterred from trying to take action and just hope it'll die naturally. Again, not a good way of dealing with the situation and I agree that people should try to confront the person but some people (especially women DESU who are generally socialized to try and be nice/non confrontational, don't wanna look like dramamongerers) are literally afraid to. So I think if we want more people to speak up against creepers, then you kind of need to start cultivating a community/society that encourages support for this kind of situation. Other potential worries are people may think they're the ones who are being too sensitive/are afraid of looking crazy and that they're just being too hysterical about someone who just wants to be friends or something.

I've masturbated more than once to a photo I took of an Ezio cosplayer at a convention.

>>9104040
>fuckboy
I think the word you're looking for is NEET because that's exactly what he's going to be if he isn't already.

Sometimes guys grow out of that mentality but only if they sober up after they're given the ultimatum of graduating and getting a job or getting kicked out.

>>9104572
All really good points. You explain very well why it's hard for creepers to be confronted by people.

This may be the only time a passive-aggressive approach is warranted. It's a difficult thing to deal with because we have been taught not to be rude to people and be considerate for other's feelings. You raise a valid point in other people observing from the outside having opinions and getting involved in potential dramamongering.

I don think that the way to deal with it is for the person being creeped on being brave enough to say to the creeper "hey, I am feeling really uncomfortable right now and I want you to stop it please" and to continue saying it every time the creeper does it. There will be some fallout, but it will be far less than if it continues on.

We have seen that ignoring it doesn't make it go away. How many times have creepers used the excuse "well they never told me to stop, did they?"

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>>9104040
>I eventually unfollowed him because he turned out to be one of the lazy types that play video games all day instead of getting job
>he would complain about being made to get a job
How the fuck do people live like this? Like, what other fucking income is he getting if he doesn't have a job? Priorities need sorting out jfc.

there's this girl in my comm who i used to be friends with (not very close) before i realized she's fucking batshit crazy. i kind of obsessively stalk her social media, particularly her tumblr, because she is just a tornado of drama and ridiculousness that i can't help it, it's like watching a soap opera or something. sometimes i feel weird about doing it but like, she posts all this shit publicly online so clearly she wants the attention right? at least that's what i tell myself. but i'm still nice to her whenever we interact, i think i'd die if she ever found out how much i keep up with her life for the sole purpose of shittalking her

there was also a time when i was a complete creeper towards a guy i liked and the fallout had a big hand in sending me into a four-year depression i just recently managed to pull out of but it happened before i started cosplaying and i've never been a lolita so it's not really related

The amount this is related to cgl-type stuff is kinda limited but w/e

>Be in high school
>Bullied mercilessly since 7th grade, spent most of adolescence with zero friends
>Bad, abusive home situation thrown on top
>Generally just emotionally and socially stunted
>Finally start making some friends and gaining a small amount of confidence, meet P
>P is cute, has similar interests, genuinely fall in love with him
>Friend group is part of that alternative crowd, P at some point decides to become a massive dark and angsty edgelord
>Knows I like him, decides to become emotionally abusive towards me
>Any normal person would have quit out of that friendship to get away from the crazy but not this stupid fuck right here
>Continue to follow him around despite the gaslighting and attacks on my appearance/personality/home situation etc, getting attention from him so I don't care
>One day P gets bored of me, tries to disengage from me
>At this point I'm already in crazyville so I refuse to let the relationship die out
>Begin to stalk him, follow him everywhere, constantly monitor his online activities, stalk his girlfriends, and harass him
>He keeps getting more and more fucked off at my shit, begins to publicly humiliate me
>Only serves as more fuel for the fire
>Start getting physically aggressive towards him, forcing physical contact with him, start working towards death threats

Eventually I managed to completely cut out that entire friendship group from my life, but it still took a while for the crazy to die out. I'm in a better situation now and in a better home environment but I still feel so ashamed about everything that happened.

I sometimes attend cons with one of his exes and I pray to god that she's simply forgotten about everything that happened then.

>>9104752
You sound like you'd be a good fuck. The crazy ones always are.

I have several girls I "stalk" (in quotes because my obsession doesn't manifest IRL past looking at their social media a lot) I'm a bit different, though, because I don't do this with girls I like, want to wear their skin, or even hatecrush on. I do it with girls who hate me.

>Boyfriend's ex-best friend. Crazy jealous psycho who is bizarrely possessive of him. We're mostly geek girls here, so I'm sure most of you with nerdy friends outside cosplay have come across the type; only girl in a group of guys and bases too much of her identity around being "the chick", second another girl comes around it's Hiroshima. That's what I dealt with. It got so bad my boyfriend cut her out, which made her go crazy and scream obscenities at him then literally run away. For some reason she still messages him asking to hang out every now and then, but he ignores her. I really love going to her FB and seeing how poorly she's doing. She's an art school drop out with no realistic career backups, her only job option she takes seriously at all is musician (not to shit on those who go for music, but I think we can all agree that you should at least have a back up when you choose a career so ambitious) and she has very few friends. She's also been fired from multiple musical gigs because she has an unbelievable diva attitude for someone whose greatest musical accomplishment is the ocassional small town cafe performance. Can't cosplay to save her life, either.

>Barely friend from high school. She absolutely detests me because of a rather vicious prank I pulled on her when we were teenagers (mind you, in retaliation for years of bullying). She was actually one of the main people to get me into anime and lolita. I stalk her tumblr and twitter. She's not doing too well careerwise, which is hilarious due to how she would always brag about her amazing grades. Your 4.0 in highschool means nothing if you're gonna waste it on art school. At least this one graduated.

{Pt 1/2}

>>9104764
>Girl I bullied in high school. She's actually a pretty popular Homestuck cosplayer, though not particularly impressive as far as skill goes. She's the only person on this list to really make anything of herself and change her personality for the better. I actually her transformation inspirational, she used to be a giant bag of pure concentrated drama (had lolcow been around back then, she would have ended up there with plenty of content to provide) now she's pretty chill. She's also the oldest on this list by a few years, though, so that might be part of it.
>Middle school best friend. This is the one that goes the deepest and gets pretty creepy. Ten years after she stops talking to me and I still go to her FB, which I only have limited access to since I'm just a friend of a friend. She has no other social media I know of, I've actually had literal dreams about finding her Tumblr. I think about her all the time and I have this aching curiosity to know as much as I can about her. I have no idea why, her cosplay is terrible, she's super pretentious, and she has just nothing good going on for her in general. She's currently working a dead end retail job due to picking a major that you absolutely need at least a masters to do anything with, but she doesn't appear to want to persue further education.

>>9104724
You're not the only one who stalks crazies for the drama, if that makes you feel better...
>>9104752
I feel bad for you but he was an asshole and got what was coming to him imo.

>>9104546
Thankyou.

Yeah I didn't realize until got older but I lucked out with my mom. I volunteer for bullied youth programs and some of the crap kids do to each other is just plain awful. What makes it worse is when parents make the child stay in that situation, stating it'll build character. Then wonder why grades are dropping, self harm starts or why their child has become violent.

>>9103921

I was homeschooled after grade 2 (so grade 3 onwards) and holy fuck. I always hear of people who had a rough time in grade school and with bullying but reading about how it happened just is so fucked up. Kids are fucked up man, I'm so glad you are doing better

>>9104764
Oh man I love watching assholes lives go to shit.

> cosplayer who I met through her now boyfriend.
>cosplay skills are mediocre at best, love watching her "nit pick details~" because it doesn't actually mean anything to her.
>can spend hours on her tumblr just looking at her text posts about her life with thinly veiled vagueblogging.
>before her and her boyfriend were together she made a huge stink about not liking him or men in general
>"I've never had a boyfriend, but all I want to do is cuddle a big man"
>yet spoken about past boyfriends
>wants to be an artist at a game studio
>can barely draw

Mostly I just find watching her stuggle fascinating because she is so fucking full of herself, and yet she has no reason to be.

I'm the biggest creeper of them all.

I once had the nerve to tell a cosplayer I was attracted to them while being both unattractive AND poor.

I'm lucky I escaped with my life.

>Like to try to get cosplayers social media accounts when I take photos of them so I can tag them
>Meet a really good cosplayer of one of my favorite characters
>Ask her if she has a instagram or tumblr that I can tag her as
>She says no but offers up her facebook
>I add her even though I don't really use my facebook
>Get home and idley look at FB, go to check something and her name comes up as a suggestion from earlier
>Forgot about her by now, but it seems she's blocked me?
>I've become what I always hated

I didn't think I was being pushy, maybe a little awkward because cute girls make me nervous and she was a really good cosplayer. I can only hope I didn't scare her and that I'll never make anyone else ever feel uncomfortable again.

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>met a person at a con when there were no good panels going on
>we were talking for a while and all was well
>she has a body pillow she is carrying around of Choromatsu and says he is her husbando
>I mention my husbando Killua
>Say I have a body pillow of him and he is my favorite and I have a poster and pins and plushies of him and stuff and I guess I went a little over the top with my explanation
>she says "Wow... You really REALLY like Killua, don't you?"
>we talk for like 4 more minutes
>says she needs to go and I ask where because it is still late but not end of con late
>she says she wants to wait for her friends somewhere downstairs and they should be around in like 30 minutes
>ask if she has a Facebook and she says no
>I get the hint
Also
>walking at the same con
>spot QT boy Killua cosplayer
>RUN towards him
>"KILLUAA I NEED A PICTURE WITH YOUUUUUU AAAAAAaaaaaaa"
>he says "...okay"
>I take 2 pics, looking way too damn happy
>I tell him he is awesome and made my week and he is a great cosplayer and scamper off
>he looks really weirded out
So basically I made someone uncomfortable enough to want to go away from me over my obsession with my anime husbando and I got pretty sperg with that Killua cosplayer and creeped him out. Not an over the top story but I can really be a freaking sperg over Killua

>>9104880
she seems more like a touchy bitch to me, anon. exchanging social media is standard shit

I did my share of cyber stalking/cyber bullying back in high school.
Managed to start a witch hunt for an awful girl in my comm and got her banned (she did it to herself, but damn I drew attention on her whenever I could)
I did it because I was really depressed and had a lot of undiagnosed issues that I didn't know how to deal with, so I took it out on so many other people.
I regret it all, and have worked on myself so much since then.

>>9104764
>>9104769
You say you don't hatecrush but those last two sound like hate crushes. It doesn't sound like they fit your criteria of "girls who hate me" anyway.

>>9104903
i feel like anyone openly carrying around a body pillow and calling them their husbando doesn't particularly have the right to think you're creepy when you gush about your fave. But maybe that's just me.

>>9103921
Living my nightmare: the post. Truly you lived one of the most traumatic childhoods possible. BPD girls are terrifying. All I got from one of them was accusation of sexual harassment, small fucking potatoes to your foot long abuse sandwich. God speed.

>>9104880
She probably just unfriended you as part of a friend cull, no biggie. If she actually blocked you, you wouldn't be able to see her profile, let alone have her appear as a suggestion.

>>9105390
They both hate me a lot, I just didn't go into too much detail because I was running out of space and didn't want to make a third post.

>>9103834
must have been a shit stalker if you misspell the girl's name :^)

>>9104764
oh shit
the first description kinda matches me a bit, I guess? I'm fine with other girls to some degree, but I can't stand girls who demand any kind of attention while I occasionally do it myself. this one chick randomly posted a selfie into our group chat and I wanted to call her out on it so bad, but in the end I pretty much just said 'blog' or something and nobody got the reference/point

>>9104823
I also find it fascinating to watch people struggle with their lives. It's such an interesting phenomena when low-achieving people gather together and give each other asspats instead of looking at their lives critically. I know a group of people who none went to college and haven't left their home town and most are without jobs and I creep on them all the time. It's just so satisfying knowing they're fuckups when I'm off at college getting a STEM degree that one girl always bragged about getting and how smart she was before dropping out of highschool because it was "too stressful :((( but i'm smart tho." It is just one of the best feelings ever knowing that they're the ones who pushed me out and I'm the only one that has a real life and future.

I'm not a creep or a legit stalker or crazy, but I do have some slight obsessive tendencies toward a couple of lolitas, and it would seem really creepy without context. I follow their blogs and save their pictures into my inspo folder. I guess the creepiest thing is that I've occasionally tried digging around on the internet for accounts they may not have linked to their blog, in hopes of finding more of their content or new outfit pictures.

I have a really poor quality of life, and don't have any friends, so following those lolitas that inspire me sort of gives me a bit of hope and lets me imagine a better future for myself. Plus, as a creative type, their coordinates and their blog content give me some inspiration. I wish I could be friends with them but I know that's unrealistic, it's just a fleeting thought. It doesn't affect my real, daily life or anything. It's basically just an escapism outlet for me.

>>9106046
Sadly, I was bullied through school and all my bullies are doing far better than me. I don't get to have the satisfaction of seeing justice served.

>>9103794
What draws you toward a person? I don't understand what would compel someone to make a plan of Kota's room. Not judging, genuinely curious.

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>>9104724
A friend of mine is just like you

>she complains because girl is bad cosplaying
>complains because girl is bad at drawing
>complains about how girl has bad grades unlike her
>complains about how the girl is poor unlike her
>"why do you talk to her anyway?"
>I CAN'T 'CAUSE WE'RE IN THE SAME CLASSROOM ANON-CHAAAAAN BUT I HATE HER SO MUCH
>ok.webm

now i get it, it's the dramu.

I'm scared of being seen as a creep

>have little to no friends
>talk to one of them every single day
>sometimes don't pick the phone so i don't look desperate for attention
>spend the day reading whatever
>never share me stuff to friends so they don't think I'm annoying
>also never do so because i know I'm bad at them
>barely start conversations
>sometimes ignore messages
>never sleep at the same time as them
>delete pictures they send me
>never take pictures with them
>delete conversations everyday
>at a con never ask for pictures of cosplayers
>never talk to anyone at cons
>just lounge around looking at the stuff
>feel extremely lonely

Because i tend to get obsessed with friends, since I'm not really used to have them, i do that sort of stuff so i don't come off as a creep, but it ends up with me being lonely again.

>>9104272
...what?

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I wonder how many people are familiar with this kind of routine. 1/2:

>Have no friends, go to con alone
>"I-It's okay, this time I'll talk to random people and make friends. I can do it!"
>Pace around the con checking out everything so quickly that nobody would dare get in my way, let alone stop to have a chat
>Buy stuff, see everything...all done. Only 1 hour has passed
>An hour has passed and I'm so hyped up from walking quickly I can't slow myself down to talk to people
>Start to doubt myself - I'm not in the right frame of mind, it's been an hour and I haven't been able to talk to anyone
>"I know, I'll ask some cosplayers for photos. That'll be sure to induce a conversation!"
>Not her, she'll think I'm a creep
>Not her, she'll think I'm a creep
>Not her, she'll think I'm a creep
>Not her, she'll think I'm a creep
>Yes! Her. She looks kind of weebish and less likely to snub me
>"HithereIreallylikeyourcharactercanipleasehaveapicturegraphIMEANAPHOTOGRAPHOHGODPLEASEDON'TCALLSECURITY"
>They didn't hear it anyway, but saw me gesturing to my camera and begin to pose
>Take the picture, thank them and get the hell outta dodge
>picrelated.jpg

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>>9106359

>Okay, that was easy...I feel I can do this for anyone now
>Keep asking for pictures, but nothing results in a conversation
>Finally, I trade a few words with a cosplayer
>Dash off before conversation gets awkward
>Oh god why didn't I stick around
>Maybe if I keep circling the con we'll cross paths and start another conversation
>Get to a vantage point where I can see everything and everyone;
>Target locked, I can see them in the distance
>Check the flow of people and calculate potential position, if I go through that way, we should both cross paths at the artist alley at the same time
>Start thinking about them while walking
>"I wonder if she has a tumblr and what kind of aesthetic it is.."
>"Her accent was a little different from mine, I hope that doesn't get in the way of meeting up if she lives far away"
>"I bet her friends are really cool too, I should start thinking about how we're going to book the hotel for the next con"
>Approaching the artist alley from the south, she's coming down from the north, all according to keikaku.
>Get within a reasonable distance
>picrelated.gif
>Another lonely ride home

>>9106362
Oh god you are me

I've been on both sides of the coin.
>Guilty me
The first was with my ex-boyfriend. We were both young and stupid and had yet to discover very important things about ourselves. While we were on the verge to break up, he met his future wife, which was the only good thing to come out of this last year together. I had started to be eaten alive by mental illness, paranoia, hatred, and just a breakdown in personality. Originally, we were still going to be friends, but I fucked that up by telling a lot of horrible, cruel rumors online and in our comm about him. None of them were true, and aren't to this day. I was really, really ill, which is NOT an excuse, but helps explain a little bit. I accused him of the worst thing a girl can. I did it for a couple of reasons: >one, I was so mentally broken that I believed certain things happened when they couldn't have.
>two, I was hurting so much, that I wanted him to suffer. I thought that it I made him hurt, it would make me feel better about myself
>three, I hated myself so much that I lashed out. What I needed was intense therapy.

He, nor his wife deserved or did anything to merit this. It was just me- sick, guilty, and wanting to punish something for how bad my life was going. Instead, I hurt someone I admire, and hurt myself in the long run.
1/2

>>9106391
2/2 Cont.
I ranted and lied online. The funny thing is that I don't really remember writing the actual clusterfuck. Members of my comm called me as I was doing it, and thankfully recognized that I needed help, so they didn't just banned me. (They could have! They had every right to!)
I later failed at suicide through a freak accident. I was revived and placed in a psych ward, which was the best thing that could have happened, as the doctors there were about to give me the correct diagnosis. That was years ago.
Today, I still have lots of work to do. Everyday, I try to be the best version of me I can be. I'm not perfect, but I never ever want to hurt anyone like I did my ex. He is amazingly talented. He and his wife are some of the best Cosplayers I have ever seen. He never has to forgive me, that's how bad the damage was and still is. Some people don't think anyone can change in 5 years. Whenever anyone asks me about the story, I set it straight now. There's nothing fun about realizing you are the villain in the book. Some people were so kind to give me another chance. I try to pass it forward...

Sometimes these obsessives are hurting, and they don't know how to express their emotions except through lying and hate. They hurt someone thinking that the victor can rise tall by standing on the loser's back. All you do is injury yourself and another while other people gather in to bait you to drama-watch. If I had a reset button, I'd push it now. But I don't, so my clumsy voice and actions have to speak for me... Saying "I'm sorry" doesn't cut it... And if you are the perp? Don't expect forgiveness. Instead, strive to be a person that you can feel proud of, instead of needing to knock down others.

>>9106224
I hate people like this. There are a couple people that seemed like good friends and I wasted so much time just to have them play this card. I thought they hated me and I had some bad esteem issues because of it.
I reach out and get ignored and here you have people reaching out to you. You are fucking lucky. You do this to yourself, so I don't feel bad for you.

I feel bad for the people you ignore. They are probably wondering if they are the creep.

>>9104724
ohhh anon, I related to this 100%. I sought a restraining order on my crazy (never went through with it because the cease and desist preceding the order was good enough for her to get the idea) and now I feel like I'm the crazy. Part of me laughs at how immature she is and how glad I am that I don't deal with that anymore, but the other part of me is kinda scared that if I don't know what she's up to that I'm going to run into her somewhere. There's no way she can know how much I keep up with her, but it's pretty obvious she keeps up with me based on things she posts. Stuff like wanting her old "friends" back and Lolita related things when she never had any interest in Lolita (still doesn't participate in any way at all). Her posts always sort of mirror my posts, and I know it's because she gets on other peoples' facebooks (mutual friends).

>>9106391
>>9106406
>Sorry for blog
>>9103669
>Since you are one that has come out the other side, do you have advice for those creepers to stop and for those dealing with them?

Along with talking directly to them, don't forget to consider that they may have an illness, perhaps even undiagnosed. It in that case, there might be only certain people the stalker may trust. Try talking to people around them about your concerns! Unfortunately, a lot of it is that you have to wait for them to truly understand the shit they're caused, and start to get help for it. During this time, going dark might be a good idea. Don't post anything dramatic, password locks, etc. Oh, and don't visit the drama sites unless your job, healthcare, or family is in danger. It will save you stress. I was on here to B/S/T when this caught my eye.

They can't stalk you if there's nothing there, unless they stalk you irl too. If that is happening, I guess you
>might try the police?

I'm the stalkee now, with people impersonating me, and pouring out personal info. On one hand, it's really great karma, don't you think? On the other, some of the posts are super personal. I know 2 of the posters. One is understandable, and the other is ill, like I was when I lashed out. It's hard to know what to do! Let me know if there are any suggestions. I don't want to hurt anyone, and I don't mind being a scapegoat, but when they ring innocent friends into it, that's not okay.

>again, sorry for blog... and everything else. I don't want asspats; feel free to ask me what it's like to be the bad one. If I can educate one person not to do this, then I'll have helped a tiny bit.

>>9106224
your paranoia is making you lonely. you seem cold and distant to people. they feel like you are rejecting them or like they are imposing on you.

also, you are me 2 years ago. now i have no friends. stop sabatoging yourself man. focus on having a good time with people.

>>9106441
Your story is an amazing turn around by all means. I actually feel a strong sense of emotional attraction to you. I hope it keeps going well.

>>9106359
I got over that spaghetti by getting deep into photography. Hell, I even got a bunch of randoms to do photoshoots with (and they all liked and reblogged and linked my things on social media). Having business cards makes you look semi professional too.

I still have absurd social feelings, but I just find cosplay, ask for a few pictures, and now I have people sending me requests for shoots (I refuse to charge that is bullshit and cancer).

I wish I knew you Anon, if you want a friend I will hang out with you at Otacon.

>>9103548
I don't go to cons but I internet stalked an ex for years. She dumped me by ghosting as they call it now, as in suddenly literally walking by and ignoring me when I talked to her. I eventually got pretty angry and started sending her rape fantasies about her through ICQ and forums PM's etc. Eventually ICQ went out of fashion and she never reacted to any of the PM's so I got bored of it.

>>9107513
You're not a creeper, you're a straight up psychotic mess. What a horrible thing to do.

>>9107520
¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I can't say it was a nice thing to do but hey. Apparently I'm pretty good at hiding it though, people routinely call me friendly and religious people assume I'm already "saved."

>>9103548
The only person who I have creeped on is some bitch thats a lolcow. Still trying to make contact with it again.

>>9107513
I was like what a bitch until I got to the sending her rape fantasy part. You're lucky she didn't go to the cops. I've read stories where it literally ruined some peoples' lives by them losing their jobs/getting on the sex offender list. What makes you think you'd be good relationship material or are you a narcissist?

The psychos are always good at hiding it.

>>9107531
Do you like Hewey Lewis and the news?

>>9107751
>What makes you think you'd be good relationship material or are you a narcissist?
That's a really weird question out of nowhere. Are you projecting?
I guess I'm talented, charming, and apparently attractive enough that I've caught girls taking creepshots of my ass.

>>9107788
doesn't change the fact you're rotten enough inside to send someone rape fantasies because they don't want to talk to you.

>>9107788
Without the specifics as to why she dumped you/judging by what you have typed here, you don't seem like that great of a person. If your reaction to anger is enough to make you stalk and threaten someone for months, then no, you do not seem like you'd be good relationship material. Her method of breaking up was immature, but I don't fault the girl for getting out of something that could turn dangerous.

>I guess I'm talented, charming, and apparently attractive enough that I've caught girls taking creepshots of my ass.
Got my answer. Classic narcissist response.

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To be honest, my bpd makes me very attached to people who treat me decently to the point where I do get obsessive about them. I remember being that awkward kind of girl that would purposefully go to sausage parties to hook up with guys for validation. Overall I'm shallow and pathetic but I'm hopefully going to grow out of this phase.

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I once followed a guy around a ren faire for 2 hours because he was dressed like pic related and I couldn't work up the guts to ask him for a photo. I wish I had been able to say hi...

>>9105418
Honestly, anyone who openly admits that they have a husbando are cringe enough in my book to be avoided.
I have a husbando, I'm a major fujo and my home is filled with merchandise of my fave boys. The only people that know are my closest friends because that shit is embarrassing, and I definitely don't want to talk with someone who thinks that starting a discussion with a stranger with "this is my husbando" is totally cool and not at all awkward.
Not saying that anon in question is the only one that's cringe since carrying around a daki and calling the flavor of the month your husbando is equally as bad, but just pointing out that if you want to talk about husbandos you're better off making good friends first and sharing it with them than trying to befriend someone based on "hey we both have a husbando!" and expecting it to be anything but awkward and cringe.
Sage for OT and being a party pooper.

>>9107811
Anon, you should really learn how NPD works before diagnosing random people online with it.

>>9107987
i have that problem too, anon. it's gotten a little better as i've gotten older, but it also requires active work. i've ruined so many friendships/relationships that way.

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I-I want to be stalked by a girl

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>>9108614
Th-thank you anon!! I feel a but more hopeful now actually!! (not sarcastic rlly i thought i was gonna be beaten down even more but hey)

>>9106406
>There's nothing fun about realizing you are the villain in the book.
I won't go into detail about my experiences because they're not cgl-related, but I want you to know that I know that exact feel. It's been years and I've grown so much since then, but it never seems to go away. And every time there's an awkward pause in a conversation, or a friend seems just a bit too fake-polite, or someone I'm talking to has an expression on their face that even remotely resembles the "if I just smile and nod and back away slowly, maybe she won't follow me" expression (some of you probably know the one I'm talking about)...all I can think is "oh god twenty years of therapy and I haven't learned a fucking thing, I'm still being creepy."

>>9108163

She didn't really use it as a technical term though. So far as plain English goes, calling someone a self-centred egoistical narcissist is pretty commonly used and understood.

bump pls

I used to obsessively e-stalk a family friends daughter. I've only met her a few times irl but she friended me on Facebook and insta. We don't chat/text/whatever but I'm still head over heels for her. She's a Lolita and sometimes I imagine fucking her with it still on. I think the furthest I've ever gone was stealing a pair of her underwear one time when she stayed at my family's house.

>>9112514
Should probably mention that we're about the same age

>>9107987
I used to have this problem minus actually following through with it, but I've been growing more and more withdrawn and afraid of human contact. Not the best solution but I've been getting help with it.

I haven't had too much from the perspective of being stalked, just the occasional creepy post on another board on here.

Not sure if this counts, but I go to suggestion threads purely to find qts and hope that they cosplay as my waifus/husbandos. It actually worked a few times

>>9112550
>Tomoko wants to be a slut but her crippling anxiety won't let her
Lol.

>>9104903
Ew
If you know you're being creepy why don't just stop? I mean, we all have obsession but letting everyone know and make them uncomfortable seems out of line, like if I had been that cosplayer I would have rather you came to me nice and politely even if you just jack off to that photo later

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>>9107987
Hi fellow Tomoko-anon. I had the same problem few years ago. I got attached to the very few people who weren't being dicks to me, got obsessive and surprisingly these relationships didn't last too long because of my behaviour. My solution to this was dropping school and cutting contacts to all my friends. Now I'm an r9k tier shut in. I just want to be liked and have friends, but I'm too socially retarded to actually make them. At least I have my burando.

Not so much stalkerish, but whenever I dress up as a cute anime grill and a guy wants to have a picture with me, bc I'm obviously their waifu, all I can think about while posing is fucking them while wearing my cosplay. Just a hook up and then never seeing them again. It makes it a bit awkward saying thank you to them for wanting to have a photo.

>>9107987
Hey anon, as someone who also has a personality disorder, I just wanted to tell you that it can get better. Go to therapy read some self help books and eventuality you'll be in a place where you'll be able to have friendships and relationships without making other people uncomfortable. Don't lose hope!

>>9104486
I did this once, accidentally left the flash active on my camera and alerted 40 people to the fact I was taking a creepshot of a 15-year-old girl's ass

I learned my lesson

>>9104700
>Like, what other fucking income is he getting if he doesn't have a job?
neetbux, the state keeps them clothed and fed.

This board is majority female op.
Girls can't be creepy.

>>9104272
Just add them, i hang out with some pretty young weebs as a mid 20s dude. Just be relaxed and mature, youre more likely to be seen as a senpai if anything.Oh, and dont give them booze/invite them to parties involving booze untill they hit 21. If they're getting underageb& drunk at a con i fucking disappear.

Also you sound really familiar.....

>>9104272
I'm 25 and I have a couple friends in the 18-19 age range. I'm just their mom friend now. We still talk about anime and video games but I help them with job applications and tell them how to cook also.

>>9113623
>Girls can't be creepy.

Oh sweet summer child. If you only knew.

>>9104903
Its not hard to calmly ask for a pic and say hes your favorite character, i really dont understand why people act like that. I guess rememer next time to take a deep breath before going full sperg mode.

>>9113623
>This board is majority female op.
>implying

>>9104903

I love people like you. Maybe it's because I've seen the worst of the male side of the anime community but I've never had a problem with people who are super obsessed with their favourite characters or series.

I don't know why people who partake in this hobby would do so knowing that they can't handle the kind of autism it attracts. I've had loads of crazy fujoshi come up to me and weeb out and I think it's great, I don't spend hours on costumes just to get a quiet, polite nod of approval. As long as they stay aware that I'm pretty small so a running hug might actually knock me over I don't mind.

>>9113395
I wish I could say that but I still managed to make some mistakes. I just didn't go full stalker.

>>9113455
jesus I want to be your friend. is it bad I just want to find you both and be your friend?

>>9113920
I agree. Seeing people get so excited that forgot about social norms for a moment is pretty endearing to me. Keyword: a moment. As long as people have enough reasoning left to not mow me over and/or stalk me for the rest of the con, I'm good.

>>9113996
I wish I was handsome enough to take advantage of crazy fujo whores.

I only lurk here in the hope that some day I meet a qt seagul nearby to be my gf
>it will never happen
>i know nothing about this board, only that lots of you are perfect qt waifu bait

>>9114558
Where you from? I'm kinda into the whole lurk thing desu

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I stalked this one french lolita for years, because she was the most elegant, refined person I had ever seen. I never dared to talk to her even once, or even leave any trace on her social media. Somehow following her made me feel like I was close to her.

Then she died. And I realized I wasn't close to her, just a random creep. And I cried my eyes out because she was dead and ever since I feel like there's an empty space in my heart.

However about a month after her death, I made the decision to stop stalking people and actually try to go to events and meet them. I am too socially retarded right now, but I started working on that. It makes me feel a little less empty

>>9114892
I'm truly sorry about that but, loks like something that could be made into a book, maybe even a movie.

I have a lolita kink. I find it attractive like I find women in suits attractive. Being well dressed, proper, intelligent, soI find it sexy as fuck when they do anything lewd. But being fat when I was a kid/early teen (averege now, but due to an anorexic problem) a closet bisexual, and having little friends led me to resorting to creeper antics. Taking pictures of lolita at cons. Never asking, always taking one with a group of photographers, or asking a guy to pose in cosplay and zooming in on the lolita in the backround.

>>9114816
Not him but I sort of do the same thing (without actual expectation of finding someone, though) and I'm in Mitteldeutschland.

>>9114558
lmao same

>do photography on my free time
>convince my models to have sex with me
Some tunblrina is probably shit talking me right now but I really don't give a fuck, I already did it with her.

>>9114892
Shit, that sucks. I'm sorry about that, but I'm glad you're taking steps to get close to people.
Keep working on it, anon. I used to be extremely socially retarded, it gets better with time.

>>9115051
I'm actually really close to you, nice

>>9116057
Pls be nähe zu Leipzig

>>9107732
>it

>raised in almost complete isolation by a succession of nannies with no professional accreditation to speak of
>only allowed to socialize with kids my age during school hours, not allowed to watch TV for the first ten years of my life, have no idea what normal or acceptable behavior is because of under-exposure to other humans
>undiagnosed super intense ADHD with comorbid childhood-onset general anxiety
>all of this mixes together in a big steaming pile of shit that my mother becomes convinced is autism
>I'm mid-20s now and I still feel like a feral animal sometimes because these civilized humans with their nice haircuts and their personal relationships can be like aliens to me
>constantly terrified that I'm the person in our friend group that everyone thinks will kill somebody and wear their skin because I'm too clingy, or too whiny, or too this or too that
>distance myself because of this fear
>I'm back to being the hermit in isolation
>this is fine, everything is fine, we're all good here, how are you

>>9116321
> I don't know why I pictured this as Alexander Luthor's back story
> And read it in a Jesse Eisenberg voice

>>9104724
Sounds like Hello Batty...because she really is fucking Batty.

>parents used to be a bit abusive (though I know they do care about me)
>older brother started attacking me due to stress from parents
>went to an elementary where I got into constant fights and never really made any real friends until high school
>I just want to look at cute girls and pretend that they want to be my friend
>I know they find me creepy and awkward so I don't really talk to them much

I try my best to wear pretty clothes and wear nice makeup so that people will talk to me. I always hope if I'm pretty enough, they won't notice that I have an awful personality. I've gotten good enough at interacting with people to make it seem like I'm not a huge fucking creep, though.

>>9104272
I'm 26, and I also have some really young friends like that. It's all good. Sometimes it's easy to tell they are still in a phase/dealing with stuff I'm already over, but that's something I can easily overlook.

>>9116321
>>9120116
i would like to join the "poorly socialized, with attachment issues that make us seem creepy" seagull club.

>raised in homeschool military fundamentalist family
>moved around a lot, made no friends
>found lolita while still trapped there
>waited 15 years to try it out because of various issues
>now old enough that if i admit my age i seem like a creep with stunted emotional and professional growth
>because that is what i am

>>9103636
>masturbating to photos you've taken

That's disgusting. It's like incest.

>>9103849
Good end or bad end?

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>rather touchy (and like taking pictures) when I'm drinking.
>drink at con
>when I take pics with cosplayers, I put my arm around their waist.
>probably thought of as a creeper by people I took pictures with.
>implying I give a fuck

Don't even have a sob story to justify anything :^)

>>9121579
Yup that makes you a creeper.

>>9121739
Well no shit you fucking moron.

>An actual candidate posts a creeping story with no shame
>HURR CREEPER DETECTED XDD

No wonder even the OP doubted making this thread.

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I am a white asexual male who does not consume porn or get aroused by real people at all. If I daydream about being in a relationship, I imagine a male partner. If I try to imagine a female partner, I lose interest in the daydream.

Yet I keep getting massive crushes on specific female lolitas of color I meet IRL. I cosplayed at a rinky-dink convention and a black lolita asked for a picture of me. We talked about my character for a bit and she hugged me goodbye. Now my heart flutters when I remember her or see a photo of her. Stuff like this keeps happening (which, for me, means it has happened five times in the last two years).

I don't get it. I feel like a creep with a fetish. I just want to get back to mentally cuddling my husbando and not feel these weird crushes anymore.

>>9121782
Too late, anon. Once you go black you never go back. Give in to the booty.

>>9121739
>>9121781
Is there some sort of "creeper package" I can order, that comes equipped with pedo stache, trenchcoat, and stained underwear?

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Some good ending feels for y'all. Sorry it's going to suck.

>like a smallish time you tuber
>not a super stalker really but follow his Twitter and channel
> see he's in game and join him.
> just quite and play alongside
> a week or so later see him again and play once more.
>he's in game with a new friend.
>after his new friend adds me
> we begun talking a lot and eventually I'm playing with youtuber atleast twice a week.
> become good friends with them all
>start dating new friend.
> we now live together.
> he's a super cutie
> mfw I found the love of my life and a new group of super awesome friends because of soft core stalking.

>>9121787
a proper petti would make sure no booty is more prominent than any other. aside from obvious obese ass-shelves, there is no telling what a lolita's skirt hides

>>9123074
>not wondering what wonders hide under the petticoats

>>9113465
Have you ever hooked up with someone who took your photo, or someone at a con?

I've had similar thoughts, but never really talked to anyone outside of my group.

>>9108100
I see your point, but, honestly, I'd love to know people I share a husbando with, just so we could discuss him for hours. He's a minor character from a pretty obscure series, and whenever I meet another fan of the series (I've met, like, three, outside of my friend circle), I cannot bring myself to discuss him further than "Hey, remember that one character? I have some theories about him, wanna hear them?", since I don't want to cause cringe. Only my mom and my closest friend know the extent of my obsession, and even tolerate me gushing about him now and then, but I can see they don't really share my opinion on him. I've seen some people posting about really liking him, but all of these posts are almost as old as the last time the series had an update, and they've probably forgotten his name by now. And since I never use the word "husbando" outside of 4chan and don't blog much, I doubt I will ever attract other people like me. I'm not the type to carry a daki around at cons, thankfully.
I did set his pic as a phone wallpaper, though. Seeing him every time I have to call somebody makes me a bit happier.

>>9123127
I gotta ask, who's your beloved?

>>9123127
I do get where you're coming from since not being able to properly talk about the things you love can get a little disheartening, and I didn't mean to stop you from trying to make friends in a way that you want, just felt like pointing out that the best way to make reasonable friends is probably to start talking about the series or character in general rather than >my husbando. Especially since it's very likely that even if someone has a husbando, they're probably only interested in that character and their series. But I do feel you, I'm lucky to have a friend who not only tolerates but also understands why I'm so into something like that, but boy was finding one difficult.
Also, seconding this >>9123220
if I know your husbando I'll gladly talk about him with you if you're up for it.

>>9123127
I kind of know your feel. Having a husbando and not being able to talk about him to anyone it's really annoying, i just end up spending the night tossing and turning on the bed while thinking about him, lately I've been desperate enough to look for a waifu/husbando board, but those are all pretty much dead and I'm sightly afraid of acknowledging other people who likes my husbando since i get kind of jealous.

>it'skindofanabstractfeel.jpg

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>>9123461
>>9123270
>>9123127
>not shitposting your husbando/waifu tastefully so that people begin getting used to him/her and slowly begin liking him/her until they find themselves falling in love.

Started from the bottom now we're here.

>>9123029
That's adorable

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>>9123220
>>9123270
Thanks for your replies. It's Pernod from King of Bandit Jing. I'm always up to talk about him, but as I said, he's an obscure character from an obscure manga, so I don't have much hope left. I generally do the thing you've described - start talking about the series and see how it goes. I would be happy even with more friends who love the series in general, but knowing that I'm not burdening them with my endless Pernod posts woud be really comforting. Wouldn't want to look like an obsessive weirdo people write horror stories about (which is part of the reason I lurk in threads like this one - to make note of things that make people creeps and avoid repeating their mistakes at all costs).
>>9123461
Same here. I do post about him on /cm/ and in waifu/husbando threads on /a/ sometimes, but I'm always scared of being too pushy or spamming him to the point where people become annoyed, especially since I don't have many pictures to post (only anime screencaps, some manga pics and a small handful of fan art, most of which came from the /cm/ drawthreads).
>>9123644
I'm doing it, in a way, but I'm too scared of overposting or clogging the request threads with a character nobody knows.

>>9104903
>>"KILLUAA I NEED A PICTURE WITH YOUUUUUU AAAAAAaaaaaaa"
Jesus christ.

>>9123678
Thanks anon.

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bumping with small story

>at con speed dating thing
>see a qt i really wanted to talk to
>was a couple of people away from talking to her once it was over
>really want to talk to her
>go to her afterwards and try to knowing it was a dumb idea
>get turned down and told "i really have to get going"
>leave feeling bad i bothered her to begin with

That's it, but I definitely felt like a creeper for the rest of the day.

>>9115074
Scumbag.