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Serious question: What are the positive sides of having a girlfriend

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Serious question:

What are the positive sides of having a girlfriend or wife? Does it even financially benefit you?

Lets be honest, besides having a legacy (if you wish to have childeren) there should be no purpose for this lifescam.
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>>1686507
yes rent is basically half the price with a live in gf and if she cooks you can save a lot on food not to mention you can get greater quality nutrition. also free sex.

negative sides are lower test levels, constant bitching, and you have to spend time talking to her because these woman beasts have to vocalize everything and if you don't do the same they will get butthurt.
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Find one with a rich dad and you'll suddenly have the kind of advantages and connections most people have to be born with.

He might hate your guts, though, in which case you'd just be a sort of irregularly paid gigolo.
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>>1686592
>lower test levels
how exactly does having a long term gf decrease test levels
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>>1686597
Don't rock the boat instinct.

Also, being inhibited about looking at other women will make you feel weak. There is a feedback loop between hormones and behaviour and vice versa.
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>>1686507
Any of you unemployed faggots heard of tax breaks for families?
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>>1686597
the constant satisfaction and sexual gratification is a technique they use to tame you. it takes 8 days to reach max test levels. if they constantly drain you you will never power up.
>>1686601
>There is a feedback loop between hormones and behaviour and vice versa.
also that
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>>1686601
You can still window shop after marriage guys.

It's buying something that breaks things. Unless she's into that/gets to shop too.

Marriage is an escape from single life forever, never having to return to the drama and bull shit of bars, clubs, and uncertainty of "do they like me?"

With marriage, it's easier to tell if they don't like you because you're around them 24/7.
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>>1686615
If you're in her company, your style will be cramped. Feeling beholden to other people, or restricted by them, lowers test.
Unless you have an apartment of your own and do the Don Draper double life thing, marriage will restrict your freedom and your sense of power.
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>>1686507
Positives
>Double the income and usually expenses aren't doubled
>Two people to do chores versus just one (thus less money you'll have to spend to have outsiders do them)
>Tax breaks usually
>More social circles thus can network more and potentially get a better paying job
>Free sex, so no need to pay for escorts anymore

Of course, you'll be on a rocky boat where you could lose half your assets in a blink of an eye.
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>>1686592
>if she cooks you can save a lot on food
if you don't know how to cook you are a braindead moron
I've also NEVER heard of a couple splitting the rent 50/50
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>>1686592
>yes rent is basically half the price


Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Not even Chads can make this happen, it's all about money brah. If you can't pay 90% of the rent she's gonna use that as an excuse to cheat on you/etc
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>>1686507
Autism: The post
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>>1686723
>never heard of a couple splitting rent
Well ivthink he meant human women. Not 2d pictures that youre used to "dating"
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>>1686723
Well that's because men typically earn more than women so they have to pay more rent.
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>>1686507
well if you find the right woman she can make you feel like a bag of ecstacy after work. otherwise youre doing it wrong.
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>>1686735
>conveniently cuts out 50/50
hey everyone found the insecure guy in a relationship

>>1686739
oh hey there it is
bingo
and here's where the entirety of your tax benefits come in as well
never mind the fact that the cost of living as a couple or family is hilariously higher than a single man
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>>1686790
Thats what splitting means to most people. Youre a sad fat little man
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>>1686723
i'm splitting everything 50/50 with my gf
an i know how to cook but it's more like how i value my own time more than to start cooking. she is different she likes to cook and likes that it pleases me. women are weird. if i'm alone i just order food. once or twice a year i do cook. mostly i cook steak tho.
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>>1686732
>If you can't pay 90% of the rent she's gonna use that as an excuse to cheat on you/etc
i could pay all the rent if i wanted to, but what would be the point?
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>>1686592
>negative sides are lower test levels

Fucking this. My possessive gf of 3 years absolutely tanked my test levels. Broke me to not enjoy looking at other girls and lost my sex drive.

Took a good 6 months after dumping her to recover. Still internally beating myself for letting her do that to me.
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>>1686888
and people nowadays wonder why men went willingly to war.
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>>1686507
>What are the positive sides of having a girlfriend or wife? Does it even financially benefit you?
Mine is a millionaire.
So yeah.
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>>1686899
how old is she. she still has all her teeth right?
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>>1686906
We met in our twenties.
Thirties now.
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>>1686909
well that's rare for some reason rich girls have minimal tendency to merry lower income men.
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>>1686910
They don't care about income as much as men do.
Your other qualities end up being more important.
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>>1686912
What's your height and dick size?
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>>1686912
well statistics show the exact fucking opposite anon, where did you find this girl what country?
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>>1686916
6'3", above average

>>1686918
Los Angeles
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>>1686602

Any of you married cucks ever heard of divorce settlements and alimony?
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>>1686592
>women feel the need to vocalize everything
Holy shit this

Why does it seem impossible to find a woman who can enjoy a moment of silence and introspection without asking what other people are thinking at the moment?
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>>1686956
it's their nature.
if you don't say a word they assume you either don't care about them, you are upset/angry, you are cheating on them, you are not paying attention, etc...

and modern psychology also tends to treat men as defective women who can't vocalize all the fucking time. fucking insane cunts.
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>>1686807
keep going, you're definitely not proving my point

>>1686873
>once or twice a year i do cook
jesus
people really do live this way
that is insane
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>>1686982
yeah well when what your time is worth exceeds 3-5 times the difference between cooked and ordered food price it's gonna be like this.
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>>1686732
Except that if you pay 90% if the rent she might just be staying with you for the free living situation, and is fucking Chad on the side, and probably buying that poor shit dinners and drinks, because she has a bunch of excess cash.
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>>1686790
>>1686732
You're both fucked, my buddy and his long time gf 50/50 there place. Of course you are always a fall back if EI or something happens. Why would you let someone live off of you? That would never end well.
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>>1686982
honestly this is me. not even once a year, sometimes eat home cooked food at relatives. spent 30k on food this year
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Imma keep It 100 with you my nigga and say that if you ain't financially stable as in you can't spend at least $5,000 on her a month that hoe ain't gonna be loyal to you my nigga lmao get ya money up then get you a bitch
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>>1687296
yea dawg u kno wut it is for real like what im tryna say is hoes aint even gon be loyal tho
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goddamn every single one of these threads are the same.
"if you don't get her diamonds every month she cheats"
"if you don't pay for everything she's on another guys dick"
"you're less of a man in a monogamous relationship"
grow the fuck up you idiots. I've been living with my gf for 3 years, we split the rent by half, I pay for food when we go out but she does most of the chores.
just stop dating brain dead goldigger bitches and date a decent goddamn person and you're perception of women will probably improve.
sometimes I think I'm sexist and then I read this shit.
is everyone on this board actually fucking 15?
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>>1687856
its a common mistake, assuming your experience is universal...

>women I have known are shit therfore all women are shit. checkmate logic
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>>1687856
You won’t last another three. I like your optimism, though.

Women are just not worth it.
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>>1686507
>Does it even financially benefit you?
it can
some jobs will take it as a warning sign that you're 50+ and not married.
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>>1686703
>>Free sex
aint nothin free nigga
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>>1688212
you sound bitter as fuck. no wonder no woman wants to stay with you
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>>1688514
Just say widowed
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>>1688538
All I’m saying is that this guy thinks three years is a long time, judging by his use of language. He’ll get a reality check soon enough.
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>>1688514
>some jobs will take it as a warning sign that you're 50+ and not married.

Elaborate.
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>>1688661
It's a sign of stability, that's all.
The single guy might be willing to just quit and take his chances elsewhere.
The married guy (especially if he has kids) very well may have others depending on him, and is much less likely to risk their comfort/well-being besides his own.
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>>1686592
I agree with this guy. I live with my gf now. We're in a 2 bedroom apartment in the heart of a pretty big city. Rent is like $1700 per month. We share one room and make our roommate pay $850. Then me and gf split $425. So I'm living pretty damn cheap. And my gf cooks me food everyday. And of course free sex. Shit's pretty nice
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>>1688701
Your roommate is a fucking moron. Kudos.
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>>1686507
pussy. you know, the shit that your biologically driven towards. why the fuck is this a serious question. you fap to it at least once a day anon. you know you fucking do.
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>>1688730
>make deal with roommates
>roommate gets gf
>gf gets away with leeching off him and by extension leeching off the rest of us

hoo boy I definitely haven't seen this before
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>>1687296
>>1687415
cringe
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>>1689202


found the blackie lackie
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>>1686597
>Getting consent
>being this beta
only way to counteract this is occasional surprise buttsecks this also keeps her on her toes
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>>1688671
Just pretend to be gay
>pretend
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>>1686703
why can't I play that at casinos
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>>1689427
nah i like buttsex better if the girl enjoys it. they all do you just need to be good at it.
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>>1686507
If you actually listen to them you will be able to keep your perception on things fresh and clear.

Having a good mate has way more benefits than you can imagine.
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>>1686507
It's not supposed to be a financial thing. You should have a partner because you both enjoy spending time with each other.
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>>1687856
yup. every goddamn single thread the same bullshit. it's probably a containment thread by now, like /r9k/ is a containment board. so in time nobody bothers to voice opposition. what's the point? they're obviously just here to confirm their biases and to wallow in their delusions, not to change or have a meaningful discussion.
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>>1686918
When a girl has no fucking money they tend to care about how much you make. If she got all the dosh she could ever need, what does your income matter?
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>>1686507

Another MGTOW thread...

Look guys. Take it from someone with a long list of women under his belt. *calling me a fag ensues*

A wife CAN be a good thing, but it's rare and has to be done just right. You need to love her looks and lover her personality. She needs to be loyal. And have at least some brains. You need to date for a year or two, and also try living together before tying the knot.

If you meet these requirements and do get married, it can still sometimes turn to shit. But you're better off taking the plunge, having kids, and attempting to live a happy and loving life, than remaining single for life and playing the dating game.

JMO.
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Getting married, and relationships in general, are worth it when the woman loves you more than you love her. It might sound bad, but that's the truth.

This was largely the case in the past where due to constant wars and hazardous occupations there was a shortage of single men. Back then women truly felt lucky to find a man. Nowadays, you have white whores prancing around with BLM up until their thirties and shitting out mongrels that the government pays for. Now there is a shortage of single women, and they know it, so they live life carefree. If they find someone they like, great, if not they can get pregnant and go on the dole, or just marry someone lonely with a lot of money and cheat on him before divorcing him. Of course, there's career women too, but they are largely uninterested in getting married so that's a moot point.

We're at a point where I have yet to meet any truly happily married millennials. If they are married, and that's a big if, it's usually due to circumstance and not because they wanted to.
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>>1690988
for some reason rich men don't care about he income state of their women it's more important for them to look good. but women are different they want men with financial stability (preferably richer or equal) even if they are rich themselves and looks are not that important.

don't ask me why it's just what they found.
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>>1689508
Red pill me on buttsecks with a girl

Ive fingered my girls butt a bit and she likes a finger up there when im fuckig her but says i feels weird if its just a finger in her pooper
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>>1687856
this, holy shit

there's definitely truth to the common perception of women here, but funnily enough, not all women are complete garbage. If you are a half decent judge of character, relationships and marriage are a net gain for you.

most of these people who mysteriously have bad relationships again and again are probably idiotic narcissists themselves
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>>1686507

Depends, are you with someone who actually tries or did you get a useless lump who thinks having a vagina is an excuse to lay about and not be her own person?

You need a competent woman, not a lump.

Even if all she does is work minimum wage (and you might scoff but you can do a lot worse than 'willing to work'), she still does something that can contribute to your household.

Even if all you both do is work minimum wage, that's a one room apartment with money to spare.

To be blunt, you need to find you a woman who has skills or, at least, enough work ethic to treat herself like something other than a prize.
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>>1686607
>proudly fucked his wife every single day
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I too, used to think women were just holes for your dick, until I actually met the right woman. Now I realize what I missed out on after two decades of not allowing someone close to me.

On a professional level it's way better as well, enabling and supporting each other in pursuing personal goals has worked out pretty great.
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>>1691226
>financial stability
Stability, sure, but "richer or equal" is unnecessary. If you're smart, she'll know you won't piss it away when you do have it.
To put it another way, things like income level aren't static. The right connections, etc. can change that shit in an instant.
Things like being smart, funny, or tall, though, are. If you don't possess those qualities, you probably never will.
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>>1686733
>Autism: The post
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>>1686748
This.
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>>1686888
>>1686893
THIS.
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>>1691891
Owen is probably one of the most real motherfuckers I've ever met.
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>>1686918
>statistics show
Is thinking for yourself really that hard anon?
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>>1687856

As jaded about women as I am, I still hold onto the hope that I'll meet someone who will be a net positive on my life.
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>>1691852
>is unnecessary
are you trying to fucking convince me? i'm not a fucking woman.
i'm just telling you to my best knowledge it's generally the trend for rich girls not to fuck poorfags.
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>>1691907
are you truly retarded anon?
who the fuck cares what i think on the subject? we were talking about how women see this shit.
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>>1686607
>Depending on your natural test levels
>not injecting yourself to constantly maintain test levels of an 18 year old star athlete

Stay pleb nattyfags
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>>1686732
I wish you guys luck in meeting better women. I get into bona fide quarrels whenever I treat my woman to something lavish, or to a trip to a resort. It is difficult to convince her not to split it 50/50.
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>>1693045
>are you trying to fucking convince me?
Not anymore than you're trying to convince me.
Glad to hear you're not a woman, that should take you far in life.
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>>1686507
Depends on your own life views.
If your goal is to have a lot of money, live comfortably and be free then there is no purpose.
If on the other hand you are capable of finding, loving and appreciating a woman then you already have your answer.
It's only a scam if you can't be happy in such a relationship but you still feel you need to be in one.
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>>1688701
Bruh you're a cock sucker.
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>>1693058
have fun with your gyno!
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Girls will walk out on long term relationships the moment you stop exciting and impressing them. They could have been talking about marriage and kids a couple of months earlier but the moment she doesn't look up to you, you're toast.

However if they still think you could be a suitable partner down the road they'll ask to stay "friends" so they can crawl back into your life when you've finally improved yourself, without her help.

Yes this is me bitterly speaking from personal experience. I've yet to overcome my trust issues.

Hopefully there is a genuine girl out there that won't abandon me whenever it pleases her.
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>>1687296
>spending 5k on a woman that's not making you any money

baka
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>>1686507
My wife helped me save the money from her paycheck while I use mine to spend
The sex sucks but you don't find a bitch that can save money this days
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>>1686507
>financial benefit
Arguably. Having two sources of income is reducing risk, in case one of us were to get unemployed. On the other hand she spends more money than I do, although she's reasonably frugal, it's a net loss definitely. And we don't even have kids.

Do you really only ever want to care about money, though? Without her, I wouldn't have anything else to care about, and I'd probably rot away alone in a cheap fucking ass house somewhere where there's barely enough internet capacity to download porn.
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