Jealousy is a sin.
I believe it hurts in the short and long term.
I need to be happy for my friend. He's succeeding where I'm struggling at the moment.
I need to take him as an inspiration for my future.
Daily reminder jealousy is a poison. I'm writing a reminder for myself and for other anons. testimonials very welcome on how to deal with success of your friends when you're struggling.
Just depends on their attitude.
I have one friend whose parents gave him a job at their multimillion dollar company. He constantly brags about the money he is making and the power he has. I'm considering dropping him as a friend. I wouldn't call it "jealousy" but I'm definitely irritated by him.
I have another friend who is 100% humble and just a nice easy going guy. He just made $100k in a real estate deal. I wasn't even slightly jealous. I'm happy for him, and hope he has lots of success.
Just depends on how a person handles it to me.
>>1227281
>I have one friend whose parents gave him a job at their multimillion dollar company. He constantly brags about the money he is making and the power he has. I'm considering dropping him as a friend. I wouldn't call it "jealousy" but I'm definitely irritated by him.
Was he legitimately qualified or was it nepotism? If the latter, I'd be irritated, too.
>>1227420
Total nepotism. He doesnt even really do anything.
Hes getting $75k a year to sit behind a desk and play solitaire
>>1227215
Kill him and take all that is his.
What you are experiencing is envy, not jealousy
>>1227215
how is your friend becoming rich? is it through a business? a promotion? lottery/inheritance?
these different things will require different methods to prevent jealousy.
>>1227532
sucking dicks, duh
>>1227532
He's ia early employee in a startup that going very well and about to raise another big round.
Also, he asked me to join the company now. Thing is, I have my own (struggling at the moment) business and I can't just drop it and leave my own partners without anything.
Tough situation.
>>1227281
Stop being jealous
>>1227215
try r9k